#scchat Archive

All resources and ideas tweeted alongside #scchat and #sccrowd captured here.

Wednesday November 7, 2018
8:30 PM EST

  • VIPKidTeacherIN Nov 7 @ 8:30 PM EST
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  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:32 PM EST
    Happy fall, fellow school counselors! Thanks for joining @MrsAveryBMS and I tonight for the November edition of #SCCHAT! We are so thrilled to be your moderators tonight.
  • hoffer_d Nov 7 @ 8:33 PM EST
    Hi there! Desiree, HS counselor from Montana, joining in #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Hey! I'm Brittanie, high school counselor in Indiana #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:34 PM EST
    @CounselorPowers #scchat Let's hear who is joining us tonight! I'm from Maine!
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Who is here tonight? #scchat
  • WSCAcounselor Nov 7 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Katrina from Wisconsin. I’ll be in and out! Thanks for moderating. #scchat
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Hi everyone! Laura, middle school counselor from an international school in Singapore #scchat
  • judywilliams77 Nov 7 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Judy, counselor educator from Grand Rapids MI. Here for a little while. #SCCHAT
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:35 PM EST
    Hey #scchat Shawn from outside Columbus, OH. middle school counselor. In and out tonight.
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:35 PM EST
    Erin Luong Counsellor calgary #scchat
  • mrbrummet379 Nov 7 @ 8:35 PM EST
    Good evening! I'm Nick, middle school counselor from rural, Kansas! #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:35 PM EST
    Susan Spellman Cann Retired School Counsellor ,but always an advocate for this great profession Calgary , Alberta #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:36 PM EST
    Hello #scchat! Nicohl Webb, Elem SC from Georgia. Joining from my state conference @WeAreGSCA #GSCA2018. Might have to dip out early b/c I present at 8:30 am tomorrow on Making Data Informed Decisions using Tech!!
  • judywilliams77 Nov 7 @ 8:36 PM EST
    Love that you are at an international school. I have an intern at one in Hong Kong. #scchat
    In reply to @MsDayinMS
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:36 PM EST
    One of the greatest #scchat
    • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:35 PM EST
      Susan Spellman Cann Retired School Counsellor ,but always an advocate for this great profession Calgary , Alberta #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:36 PM EST
    @CounselorPowers and I are so glad you are here to chat with us! #scchat
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Becca, k-12 counselor in Rural Nebraska #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Love that you are joining us from Singapore 💕#scchat
    In reply to @MsDayinMS
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Hi everyone, I’m Steve, middle school counselor from VA!#SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Great topic😁 #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Tonya Romine, High School Counselor from Texas #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 8:38 PM EST
    Howdy #scchat from Barbara, school counselor (just retired from public school), life coach, mentor and author of What's Under Your Cape? in TX. Eager to learn and grow with you!
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:39 PM EST
    We are about to start our #SCCHAT questions @MrsAveryBMS !!!
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:39 PM EST
    Great to have you here in #scchat
    In reply to @Counselor_Myers
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:40 PM EST
    Here we go with Q1, please answer with the #scchat and A1 reply !
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:40 PM EST
    43 of you joining in tonight jump in at anytime #norules #scchat we welcome you
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 8:41 PM EST
    A1: The social isolation. Kids are staying indoors and by themselves; in our day, we were outside until it was dark playing hide and seek, flashlight tag and Red Rover. Nothing can replace those social interactions for conflict transformation and friendship building. #scchat
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A1 there is no "down" time. Ss cannot get away and let things simmer down. W/ social media kids have become keyboard warriors and keep the pot stirred. #scchat
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A1. Having access to information and people within seconds as well as being accessible 24/7 #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    Q1 is up and ready for #SCCHAT!
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A1) they can access someone, somewhere at any time. Everything has become instant #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    #scchat A1 tech overload is a real issue! Teens have a hard time putting down the phones, social media and messaging.
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A1: sexting and inappropriate comments, pictures, cyber bullying, oh my. I could keep going. #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:42 PM EST
    In our day was a long long time ago lol #scchat
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:43 PM EST
    almost to an obsessed level for some #scchat
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 8:43 PM EST
    A1: the upside: working with international kids (TCKs) the ability to connect and stay in contact helps immensely with the transition. #scchat #tck
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 8:43 PM EST
    Ummmm, yes!! The good old days, though they weren't without their challenges. Remember when they took Red Rover away because it was dangerous? #scchat
    In reply to @SSpellmanCann
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:43 PM EST
    This makes waiting and patience difficult #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:43 PM EST
    in our day we did not have social media the good the bad and the ugly #scchat
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • judywilliams77 Nov 7 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A1 Ss live in an instantaneous world. They no longer need to be patient for anything. #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:44 PM EST
    lol #scchat
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • mrbrummet379 Nov 7 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A1. Last week I heard of the term FOMO-Fear of missing out. I feel some of our kids don’t know how to handle being alone or not busy. They struggle with not doing anything-being calm and present, due to access to friends at all times with the use of technology. #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A1: Lot's of input about the around-the-clock elements of digital life. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:45 PM EST
    Question 2 coming right up #SCCHAT!
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:45 PM EST
    A1: When I went home, I went home. I could breathe. Now, kids are always “on” to everyone’s life whichever creates that I will never measure up to what this other person has created. #scchat
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:45 PM EST
    #scchat it is crazy how we tend to go towards the negatives. we need to teach Ss appropriate use. It is not the tool, but how it is used that can create issues. @JCasaTodd book #socialLEADia is a great read and tool
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:45 PM EST
    Q2: Make sure to respond with A2 and #SCCHAT
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:46 PM EST
    So very true. #scchat
    In reply to @mrbrummet379
  • TheMrsNeforos Nov 7 @ 8:46 PM EST
    A1. Everything is at their fingertips instantly. I had to dig through encyclopedias/microfiche to get answers which took forever. Also used a typewriter until 5th grade! 😫 Wait time is hard for kids which I find often leads to difficulty with academic perseverance. #SCCHAT
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 8:46 PM EST
    A1: Students always being connected and not being able to remove themselves from a discussion when it’s on social media. #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:46 PM EST
    So agree a lot of good can be found "it's not the tool #digital citizenship a must for every educator #scchat
    • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:45 PM EST
      #scchat it is crazy how we tend to go towards the negatives. we need to teach Ss appropriate use. It is not the tool, but how it is used that can create issues. @JCasaTodd book #socialLEADia is a great read and tool
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:46 PM EST
    You are absolutely correct. Thanks for the resource!!! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @sadkinsump, @JCasaTodd
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A2) lots of name calling and rumors, both in person and online #scchat
  • tscesney Nov 7 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A1 #scchat Social Media has changed Permanence. Once the button is clicked it can't be taken back
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:47 PM EST
    Thanks for joining us tonight! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @TheMrsNeforos, @MrsAveryBMS
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A2 #scchat cyberbullying and name calling, as well as behind the back name calling that is relentless, particularly among girls
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A2: Before I left my school in May, I saw a lot of exclusion, something Ss weren't even really ready to recognize as bullying yet. #scchat
  • hoffer_d Nov 7 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A1. Everything kids do seem "documented" with social media. The good AND the bad. #scchat
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
    I have so many Ts in my building who would rather ban devices versus training Ss to use. #scchat
    In reply to @SSpellmanCann
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
    Thanks for being present in this dialogue tonight!!!!!! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @tscesney
  • LangeCounselor - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
    A2: In 5 years, I have actually only had one true bullying issue. All the rest have been students being mean. Kids say mean things and then when the kids they said it to respond in a mean way, they don't know how to handle it. They only tell 1/2 the story. #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorPowers
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
    A2: The things that I have had to deal with the most is the aggressive and mean comments said to other kids especially between girls. It takes the “mean girls” to a whole new level. #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
    Important Q3 coming up... how does all of this technology impact our students? @CounselorPowers #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
    A2: I’ve been dealing with a lot of cyber bullying this year. Ugh!! #scchat
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 8:49 PM EST
    A2 It varies from year to year. Sexting related stuff, kids calling each other names or making threats, etc #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:49 PM EST
    That needs to change #scchat
    In reply to @sadkinsump
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:49 PM EST
    Yes, a lot of students struggle with the idea of boredom or being in a state where they are not engaged or entertained! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @mrbrummet379
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 8:49 PM EST
    Ben Barry, Carlisle Middle School, Carlisle, Iowa checking in tonight. Thanks for hosting! #scchat
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 8:49 PM EST
    A2: I think we get see a lot of mean and rude - simillar to what happens IRL but more visible. Lots of work around kindness & compassion and PARENT education #scchat
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:49 PM EST
    A2 lots of issues w/ he said/she said...issues w/ name calling #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    THIS!! Lots of meanness back and forth, but rarely one sided #scchat.
    • LangeCounselor - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:48 PM EST
      A2: In 5 years, I have actually only had one true bullying issue. All the rest have been students being mean. Kids say mean things and then when the kids they said it to respond in a mean way, they don't know how to handle it. They only tell 1/2 the story. #scchat
      In reply to @CounselorPowers
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A2: Often times it’s something that starts online but then continues on the following day inside the building. #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    Q3 is up #SCCHAT
  • mrbrummet379 Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    Cyberbullying and rumors, that turn into targeting, are some that I deal with often. #scchat
  • LangeCounselor - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A3: Students place their own value on what they see in the media and it doesn't measure up. #scchat
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS, @CounselorPowers
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A3 #scchat It's so constant: the negativity and comparison to other peers. That's hard enough in person developmentally. To then have it 24/7 socially and online must be torture for some as far as self esteem goes.
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A3) trying to get followers and likes fuels insecurity when they don't get what they're after #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A2. Very few true bullying issues get reported/founded, but the ones students officially report are usually verbal/exclusion/kids being mean behind their backs. Some cyberbullying aspects to it. Ones founded typically are physical or verbal. #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:51 PM EST
    A3: Social media creates loneliness. It is just a kid and their phone. No conversation, no talking to someone when they see things on social media that hurts them, and the never measure up syndrome. #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:51 PM EST
    What is real bullying? #scchat https://t.co/c7IpYkXDAf
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:52 PM EST
    #scchat. Middle school kids seem to be into shaming or isolating individuals. At that age not all kids are confident to share their story so we need to be watching for changes in behaviour- behaviour is language #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 8:52 PM EST
    A3: That whole "likes" thing drives them to do weird things, really messes with their esteem. So excited that our HS kiddos are doing these PSAs to help combat what's happening. #scchat https://t.co/J6uU2ULT4F
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:52 PM EST
    A3 Ss put value in the number of likes, mentions, retweets and all the instagram/snapchat stuff I don't know. Care more about what others think than what they value in themselves #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:52 PM EST
    Yes, so much is being studied around this very subject of feeling lonely in an interconnected world. #SCCHAT https://t.co/lx5ZmrlPqJ
    In reply to @TromineTonya
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 8:53 PM EST
    A3. I think it depends on the kids and the way they use social media. Some kids are able to use it as a healthy way to connect with others and express themselves while others seem to find trouble wherever they go. #scchat
  • hoffer_d Nov 7 @ 8:53 PM EST
    Absolutely! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • TheMrsNeforos Nov 7 @ 8:53 PM EST
    A3. I find my students find a community and sense of belonging on social media that they might not find within school as easily. It’s important to explore their self-concept to get to the root of what might be driving them to a digital world to find that connectedness. #SCCHAT
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS, @CounselorPowers
  • tscesney Nov 7 @ 8:53 PM EST
    A3 #scchat Social Media and Self Esteem? IRL I don't walk around with a number of 'friends' or 'followers' I'm just me!
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 8:53 PM EST
    A3: Technology has huge effect on self-esteem. I've noticed hardest part on students is seeing or hearing of students having fun together at sleep-over, party, etc. via snapchat, social media, or text. Then feeling bad they aren't there and their life "isn't as fun". #scchat
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:53 PM EST
    we are 1:1 too w/ chromebooks this year. this has helped. but still a ways to go #scchat
    In reply to @MsDayinMS, @SSpellmanCann
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    So ironic because kids don’t want it done to them, and they fall apart when it does happen, yet many times they don’t think twice about doing it to someone else. Crazy! #scchat
    In reply to @EHordyskiLuong
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    YEs!!! #scchat
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    This is great resource 25% of teens report feeling LESS lonely because of social media https://t.co/vHGYu4pvKf #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    Joining late, I am Veronica, elementary school counselor in Plano, Texas #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    I agree with others. In the 90s we compared ourselves to a magazine.... now kids compare themselves to everyone #SCChat
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    A3 Kids also use all sorts of filters on their photos and I notice tons of people commenting "So beautiful" or "You're gorgeous". I would imagine reading that and seeing those pictures can hurt self-esteem of our middle school students as they naturally compare. #scchat
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
    A3: It absolutely does. Similar to Q1 and how students can’t unplug and remove themselves from that type of conversation, it can impact one’s self-esteem. #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:55 PM EST
    Q3 is all about those positive implications of technology. Let's hear it! @MrsAveryBMS #SCCHAT
  • hoffer_d Nov 7 @ 8:55 PM EST
    Thanks for sharing. I love student led initiatives! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:55 PM EST
    I talk to kids about citizenship- it’s the same online or in real life. Respect means treating someone the way you want to be treated #SCChat
    • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:54 PM EST
      So ironic because kids don’t want it done to them, and they fall apart when it does happen, yet many times they don’t think twice about doing it to someone else. Crazy! #scchat
      In reply to @EHordyskiLuong
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A1. Students have access to a lot of info. They keep comparing themselves to people they see in SM. They try to imitate them & live a life that is not real #SCCHAT
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:56 PM EST
    Q4 is all about those positive implications of technology. Let's hear it! @MrsAveryBMS #SCCHAT
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A4 #scchat I've seen students use their voice online for good! I've seen kids posting positive post-its that they gave out to students or on lockers, as well as people posting a pic without makeup on to be real
  • mrbrummet379 Nov 7 @ 8:56 PM EST
    Social Media is students’ reality. I had a student tell me that she felt awesome because she had over 200 people on Snapchat, yet couldn’t tell me how many were “true friends.” Kids base their personal value and esteem on others, some that they don’t even know. #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A1. Cont. however they also have access to the world, to opportunities, they can connect w people around the world #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 8:57 PM EST
    A4: We have some students who have connected w/others outside of our school and found "their group" online and outside our walls. What could feel like being an outsider, now has them connected and helps them know they are not alone. #scchat
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 8:57 PM EST
    A3: I think adult vs teens views on this can be very different. This is their world - they are far less fearful or worried about it than we are #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 7 @ 8:57 PM EST
    A4) students can find peers like them online, even if they can't in real life #scchat
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 8:57 PM EST
    A4: The school where I counsel at is a 1:1 school where every student is issued a device. The types of classroom activities they can do as a result is truly amazing and definitely a positive. #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 8:58 PM EST
    I have had student use social media to norm the positive in our building #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 8:58 PM EST
    A4: Students make a difference online every day! millions and millions of students use social media for good we need to model it for them and share the good others are doing #scchat
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 8:58 PM EST
    A4 social media has helped give Ss a voice and a platform that many would not have tried. This is very helpful for Ss who do not like being in front of peers. #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 8:59 PM EST
    A3: Our third-grade Jax served as a spokesperson for @KidsForPeace #KindCoins last year at this time. So rewarding; he did an amazing job and Skyped with a lot of the schools that donated, to connect and show #gratitude! #scchat https://t.co/gEnwDYVICx
  • erebss Nov 7 @ 8:59 PM EST
    Join us tomorrow for #escchat! #scchat #sccrowd #cgadhope
  • mrbrummet379 Nov 7 @ 8:59 PM EST
    A4. Connecting with family and friends that they wouldn’t otherwise hear from often. Finding friends who have similar interests, family situations, or traumas that they are experiencing or have experienced. #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:00 PM EST
    How amazing! Love this:) #SCCHAT
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @KidsforPeace
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:00 PM EST
    Q5 is up... Make sure to respond with A5 #scchat How do you talk about coping skills with cyber education?
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:00 PM EST
    A2. Cyberbullying. The students love to use youtube & other apps and they can be very mean. I’ve had reports about Kik, snapchat & https://t.co/MRVXAQ2L0h #SCCHAT
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 9:00 PM EST
    A4: kids can connect online when sometimes they can't at school. They can find their tribe :) #scchat
  • tscesney Nov 7 @ 9:00 PM EST
    A4 How have I seen technology used for good among youth? #scchat I may run out of space here... Teamwork! Shared resources that offer a collaborative environment have been influential.
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:01 PM EST
    Question 5! #SCCHAT
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 9:01 PM EST
    A4: I have Ss do gratitudes our social media. We write things we are thankful for. Some kids do it and some don’t, but I have a pretty big following of kids who look at my lists. I’ve also seen kids use social media to display their art or creativity to share with others #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:02 PM EST
    Absolutely! As educators we pave the way and model positive engagement using technology! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @tscesney
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 9:02 PM EST
    A5 I am getting ready to do a class lesson on coping skills and was going to talk about how social media impacts. This will help Ss realize that they have the ability to read something they may not agree w/ and not feel the need to argue back or lose their mind #scchat
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:02 PM EST
    A1: S’s have to choose to be disconnected. If it’s cold, raining or simply late in the evening S’s have to choose to disconnect. I didn’t have that choice. When I was inside, I was not disconnected, especially if my brother was on the phone #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:02 PM EST
    A5: Show Ss this video clip about the 100 Club, then talk with them about their Digital Footprint. We simply can't ignore these trends. https://t.co/m5gyIXwX8x #digcit #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:02 PM EST
    A3. Kids keep comparing themselves to the social media influencers & you tubers. They want to live & look like them. They have a hard time understanding that is not real. They live for the perfect pose & are desperate for all the likes they get from their pics #SCCHAT
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:02 PM EST
    Great idea! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @Becca_e_Moore
  • tscesney Nov 7 @ 9:03 PM EST
    A4 #scchat Ss can progress as communicators with technology. Educational technology can allow all Ss to express themselves in constructive ways and provide all a voice.
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:03 PM EST
    #SCChat a positive social media campaign I helped students organize
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 9:04 PM EST
    A5 Interested in answers to this. Always looking 4 ideas. I try to be real w/students & tell them that seeing others have fun is tough for extravert like me. Its tough to see friends together looking happy on s. media. But I know this is just 1 snapshot, not whole event #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:04 PM EST
    I love doing a girls leadership group which gives me an opportunity of teach being strong, self-esteem, conflict resolution, and dealing with stress. When they talk to each other, they see they are not alone! #SCCHAT
  • TheMrsNeforos Nov 7 @ 9:04 PM EST
    A4. I truly admire how the MSD High students in Parkland used social media to leverage change and awareness. The @MFOLParkland movement is pretty remarkable. I applaud their maturity and the way they honor their fellow classmates. #SCCHAT
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:04 PM EST
    A2: social media is the most common with snap chat most referenced. There is boldness in S’s who are typing rather than speaking. #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:04 PM EST
    Coping skills resource #scchat https://t.co/VzdLAX6eGQ
  • sadkinsump Nov 7 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Thanks for sharing! This will be helpful! #scchat
    In reply to @SSpellmanCann
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:05 PM EST
    An outstanding #digitalcitizenship project #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Q6 let's us explore protective factors! #SCCHAT @MrsAveryBMS
  • MsDayinMS Nov 7 @ 9:06 PM EST
    A5: I host a parent workshop with our #edtech team where the kids teach the parents about social media apps they use, time management strategies, responding to negtivity. Its amazingly powerful! #scchat
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 9:06 PM EST
    A5: Great question, looking forward to learning from other counselors here tonight with what resources they use. #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:06 PM EST
    A5 #scchat I've taught my students this year about coping skills to use IN the classroom to keep them focused in class and not walking out due to emotional issues. They need those skills to manage places they can't just leave when stressed.
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:06 PM EST
    A4. The students have been able to connect & learn from others. Not only that but they’ve been able to see how people use SM to spread kindness and they have used SM to share their positive experiences and highlight their learning #SCCHAT
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
    A3: self esteem may be the most impacted area from social media. Everyone plays the comparison game but they are comparing their everyday life with the filtered and altered “reality” of others. No one can really compare with instagram #scchat
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
    A5. I talk about coping skills all year long! But I also talk about impulse control with responding b/c that’s what gets them in trouble. I talk about what they can control & then ask them what gives them value as a person & whose voice they should listen to #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
    Q6 is up! #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
    I think using mistakes even digital ones as learning opportunities to help our Ss self reflect #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
    This is an incredible idea! They are the experts and it is such a great way to harness leadership skills and empower kids. #SCCHAT
    In reply to @MsDayinMS
  • mrbrummet379 Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
    A5. I’m planning a lesson on social media anxiety, and how it can impact one’s self-esteem, as well as how to cope with feelings of isolation. This hasn’t been a topic I have spent a lot of time on, but I’m looking forward to sharing information with students! #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:08 PM EST
    A5 #scchat Teaching about assertiveness and I statements is really helpful! Also giving them their power back: talking about simple ways to manage a cyber bully or negativity online. Empower them to sign off, block the bully, report issue
  • tscesney Nov 7 @ 9:08 PM EST
    A5 #scchat @CommonSenseEd has great resources for educators. I recently used this Digital Friendships lesson which was beneficial! https://t.co/euDa16Cp7Q
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:09 PM EST
    A5. As I always say, we need to stop separating our lessons into digital citizenship and the rest of the topics. When I talk & read about self-esteem in guidance I remind them of the importance of being the same person online & offline. How they need to love themselves & #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:09 PM EST
    A6 loved when a student to me the Math teacher showed her the app @Headspace so importantthat they see everyone cares about coping skills #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:10 PM EST
    A5. Cont. and stop comparing to others who have a “perfect” life online #SCCHAT
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:10 PM EST
    This comment is on point. They are so intertwined! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @K1counselor
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:10 PM EST
    A6: We brought in a speaker @JoshOchs to talk with the Ss and the parents about social media safety and being a light in the darkness. His website is filled with amazing video clips, ideas, tools. https://t.co/OBXqgSCxA3 #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:10 PM EST
    Let’s teach them to be authentic on and offline #alessonforallofus #scchat #edchat
    • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:07 PM EST
      A3: self esteem may be the most impacted area from social media. Everyone plays the comparison game but they are comparing their everyday life with the filtered and altered “reality” of others. No one can really compare with instagram #scchat
  • TheMrsNeforos Nov 7 @ 9:11 PM EST
    A6. School-wide we do #digcit lessons so students have tools/resources in/out of school. I’m loving my new hashtag #digitalWOKEness for kids to evaluate screen time and their wellness in a digital world. Having a digital wellness week this year! 🙌🏼 #SCCHAT
    In reply to @CounselorPowers, @MrsAveryBMS
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A6 #scchat Protective factors: Trusted Adults, mentors, sports and clubs and getting involved!
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A6b: Practicing mindfulness can help; using these apps helps students unwind proactively and reactively for prevention and intervention. Inhale courage and exhale chaos. #scchat
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A6. Definitely makes a huge difference to have parents who are checking their child’s media. If kids know their parents are looking it helps them be better but also helps them know they don’t have to worry about what to do if they are being bullied b/c they’ll know #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:12 PM EST
    Q7 is next #scchat Let's talk about the serious side of bullying...
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:13 PM EST
    A4: it’s so easy for many to focus on the negative and unintended consequences of social media but it has so many positives as well (see this chat). Among S’s, they are able to connect and learn from others quickly and easily. #scchat
  • tscesney Nov 7 @ 9:13 PM EST
    A6 #scchat What are some protective factors that help our kids? Our Parents! Connections and communications with our families are essential.
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:14 PM EST
    Q7: Let's here those beautiful stories of inspiration. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 9:14 PM EST
    A6 last year in advisory, we had students read the article/research on how social media and smart phones have some connection to decrease in sleep & increase in anxiety and depression. Helped students think and even limit time on technology. #scchat
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:14 PM EST
    A4 Cont: I have seen S’s reach out to other S’s in concern and do good for others #scchat
  • hoffer_d Nov 7 @ 9:14 PM EST
    This is so true! #SCCHAT
    • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 9:12 PM EST
      A6. Definitely makes a huge difference to have parents who are checking their child’s media. If kids know their parents are looking it helps them be better but also helps them know they don’t have to worry about what to do if they are being bullied b/c they’ll know #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:14 PM EST
    A6. It is important to remind the students about their digital footprint & how SM can impact their lives positively or negatively, but most importantly, we need to embrace SM & be the role models the S’s need to use SM in a favorable way #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:15 PM EST
    A6c: And practicing #mindfulness through these stories can also help Ss stay in the moment, mindfully aware, unwrapping the present (escaping the past if need be). #scchat
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 9:15 PM EST
    A6: Taking a school-wide approach to addressing these issues and concerns while letting students know that all staff members are there for support. We are all part of the protective factors for our students. #scchat
  • jdeek Nov 7 @ 9:16 PM EST
    #scchat Jim, MS counselor from Texas, joining late. We have incident report forms in the office that the kids can fill out. Our district has also started using an anonymous report app this week. Kids have numerous ways to communicate.
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 9:16 PM EST
    A7 if a student reports to me, I report it up. I also check back as well as telling kids that if it happens again I want to know and if it happens 10 times a day I want to know every time. We want to make sure we get it stopped! #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:17 PM EST
    I usually start with talking to the students involved, although I have had incidents in the past where I have asked my Sro to join our conversation too #SCChat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:17 PM EST
    What an amazing resource of book recs! I recently worked with my librarian to get some mindfulness books into our school library. #SCCHAT
    • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:15 PM EST
      A6c: And practicing #mindfulness through these stories can also help Ss stay in the moment, mindfully aware, unwrapping the present (escaping the past if need be). #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:17 PM EST
    Find ou more about #scchat and sign up for remind School Counsellor Co- Moderators (via https://t.co/MvTvz0RAgK) https://t.co/vg053aAvX1 #edchat #cdnedchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:17 PM EST
    Thanks for ioining! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @jdeek
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:17 PM EST
    YES #scchat
    In reply to @K1counselor
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:18 PM EST
    A7. We take cyberbullying very seriously. We investigate and follow the same protocols we use for a regular bullying report #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:18 PM EST
    Absolutely #scchat
    In reply to @Counselor_Myers
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:18 PM EST
    Thanks; these are just our favorites. There are SO many more out there now. Julia Cook's Be Where Your Feet Are is pretty good, too! #scchat https://t.co/D1KneLH6y4
    In reply to @CounselorPowers
  • TheMrsNeforos Nov 7 @ 9:19 PM EST
    A7. I appreciate it when parents or students report anything of concern. I think it’s critical for parents to go through their Ss phone *with* them to address anything and ensure appropriate use. #SCCHAT
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:19 PM EST
    Check out Digital Citizenship (via https://t.co/MvTvz0RAgK) https://t.co/ffaUAk5nFz #scchat resources for you
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:19 PM EST
    A5: We have taught solution focused methods in classroom guidance lessons in response to self-destructive behaviors. These lessons are applied to social media and it is mentioned throughout but I have not done a lesson on social media specifically #scchat
  • Counselor_Myers Nov 7 @ 9:20 PM EST
    A7: Usually starts with the counselor. But administrative support is there if needed. It’s a great team of counselors working with admin support. #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:20 PM EST
    Check out #WHOSFRANKYYC (via https://t.co/MvTvz0RAgK) https://t.co/WoXgBc9k6l an antibullying initiative #scchat resources for you
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:21 PM EST
    Q8 is about those inspiring stories that we all want to hear about @MrsAveryBMS #scchat
  • counselorspain Nov 7 @ 9:21 PM EST
    A7: Students can complete a bullying report. We investigate the situation and if possible try to have a mediation with the students to resolve the issue. Depending on the severity we put a safety plan in place and change the students classes/teacher.#scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:22 PM EST
    Check out Positive Wheels (via https://t.co/MvTvz0RAgK) https://t.co/QRQ9y4N8xl this is fun for all age levels #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 9:23 PM EST
    A7. We have a district report students can get and fill out in my office. I help students fill out. If report is filled out, it is investigated. Many are not founded, but still good to have Ss fill out. I help Ss understand just b/c it isn't "bullying" doesn't mean its ok #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Check out Emotional Regulation Resources (via https://t.co/MvTvz0RAgK) https://t.co/J704ZnVOjE #scchat prevention
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:24 PM EST
    A8: We focus on #kindness proactively, first by putting it on the walls and in the halls, then by engaging in campaigns to #MakeKindnessNormal. We model and teach empathy, compassion and kindness intentionally; we can't leave something this important to chance. #scchat
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:24 PM EST
    A6: helping S’s focus on the positive, the solutions that work (solution focused) can help their resilience in situations that bring challenge. Focusing on what has worked in other situations for a S can present methods that work in a new situation #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:25 PM EST
    here we go Q8 !! #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:25 PM EST
    #SCCHAT For those of you who are interested in learning more about trauma. We will be talking about secondary traumatic stress. Next Wed, 8:00 cst
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 9:25 PM EST
    A8. This is simple for me. We have a student who created a group called "Joyology". Has about 7 members. She has facebook page & they do positive events throughout year. She wants to be a "Joyologist" when she grows up. She already is! https://t.co/EXBqzchNc7 #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:26 PM EST
    A8 #scchat Our students just completed a UNITE Against Bullying Walk last week where our whole school stood up against bullying and pledged to be kinder! We wrote a pledge, had speakers, and all kids signed pledges stating how they'll be kind
  • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 9:26 PM EST
    A8 Our 6th graders also have "Wonder" as one of their ELA books that they read and discuss. #ChooseKind #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 7 @ 9:26 PM EST
    love this #studentsaresosmart #digitalcitizenship in action #scchat
    • CounselorMs Nov 7 @ 9:25 PM EST
      A8. This is simple for me. We have a student who created a group called "Joyology". Has about 7 members. She has facebook page & they do positive events throughout year. She wants to be a "Joyologist" when she grows up. She already is! https://t.co/EXBqzchNc7 #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 7 @ 9:26 PM EST
    And I've got an #SEL board so Ts can easily find resources to weave into the DNA of their classroom climate. https://t.co/aMTCcAkz2k #scchat
  • Becca_e_Moore Nov 7 @ 9:26 PM EST
    A8 our kids are gettingbetter at standing up for one another and looking out for each other. #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:27 PM EST
    It's been a fast and fun night with you all! Here is our last question Q9 #scchat
  • K1counselor Nov 7 @ 9:28 PM EST
    A8. As I said previously, we need to model for them. We’ve had kindness challenges where teachers post pics abt acts of kindness. I’ve been wanting to run a social media club to spread kindness but this has been just an idea #SCCHAT
  • counselorspain Nov 7 @ 9:28 PM EST
    A8: I think I need to focus more attention on promoting kindness schoolwide. We participated in Unity Day and teachers are teaching Second Step. I’m interested in reading other responses and learning new ideas. #scchat
  • CounselorPowers - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:28 PM EST
    Final question right here! #SCCHAT.
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:28 PM EST
    A8 #scchat Here are my students at the bullying prevention walk https://t.co/ptjLBPLOSX
  • counselorspain Nov 7 @ 9:29 PM EST
    A6: Teaching students coping strategies are preventive measures and also strategies for what to do when they experience negativity. #scchat
  • Hlstd_Counselor Nov 7 @ 9:29 PM EST
    A7: if it disrupts the school day, from a discipline standpoint, it is handled as any other bullying incident. However the challenge comes when other students share the images, statement or source of bullying. #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 7 @ 9:29 PM EST
    A8 #scchat Get the kids involved. Listen to them. Take their ideas seriously. Give them a voice. THAT is how you make real change among students: get their youth out there speaking up!