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TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:00 PM EDT

Welcome to #TchLIVE ! Tonight we are talking Raising our girls to become Women Leaders with @themathdancer

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:00 PM EDT

Welcome to #tchlive ! I'm Crystal- I'll be your host. Introduce yourself- role and location

TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:00 PM EDT

Welcome to #TchLIVE ! Tonight we are talking Raising our girls to become Women Leaders with @themathdancer
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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:02 PM EDT

Lisa, Former SS T, Editorial Content Manager @TeachingChannel , Feminist ;) PA #TchLIVE

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:03 PM EDT

Hi from Georgia. My name is Diana and I teach EL Ss in grades 1,3,4,5 #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:03 PM EDT

Let's start with Q1: #TchLIVE

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:04 PM EDT

#TchLIVE is happening NOW! Important conversation - You don't want to miss it!

TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 3:54 PM EDT

Don't forget! #TchLIVE TONIGHT @ 7ET / 4PT w/ @themathdancer !
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TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:05 PM EDT

Great to see you here ! #TchLIVE

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:06 PM EDT

A1 Depends where the girl lives. Some are lucky to have opportunities and others might not for different reasons #TchLIVE

DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:08 PM EDT

A1 Talented #TchLIVE

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:08 PM EDT

A1: Sweet, Pretty, Good, Nice, Princess. Implications are unrealistic beauty ideals, a set of behavioral norms that aren't rewarded #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:03 PM EDT

Let's start with Q1: #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:09 PM EDT

Princess is interesting... I hear that a lot too. What are the undertones of using this label? #TchLIVE

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TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:10 PM EDT

That's a great one! #TchLIVE

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:11 PM EDT

I think a princess is pretty and also delicate. How we interpret delicate depends on context. #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:11 PM EDT

A1: I hear a lot of "bossy" terminology for girls when young girls exhibit leadership qualities. #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:03 PM EDT

Let's start with Q1: #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:12 PM EDT

Q2: #TchLIVE

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:12 PM EDT

I was a bossy girl! Haha. Or . . . am . . . #TchLIVE

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:12 PM EDT

A1Lucky to be in a school where I hear kind, creative, bright, energetic #tchlive

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:12 PM EDT

Thank goodness #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:12 PM EDT

Why are girls bossy but boys tough or leaders? #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:13 PM EDT

What are the conditions that make this able? How could others schools learn from yours? #tchlive

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:13 PM EDT

I have often been confused by this... it has stumped me my entire life. #tchlive

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heywerner59 Mar 30 @ 7:14 PM EDT

Michael, Granite Falls WA HS 9-12 #CTE Manufacturing & @Shell_ecomar eco car ShopGirls; 1st all girls team+2016 Americas Champions #tchlive

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:16 PM EDT

We do the 7 mindsets and anything is possible at our school! #Tchlive Bossy might end up being the CEO

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:17 PM EDT

Exactly! I know it's supposed to be an insult, but I own it. I know I'm doing something right :) #TchLIVE

DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:16 PM EDT

We do the 7 mindsets and anything is possible at our school! #Tchlive Bossy might end up being the CEO
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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:17 PM EDT

Can you link us to the 7 mindsets resources or website? #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:21 PM EDT

A2: Boys are referred to as strong, tough, leader, champ. It might sound all good - but that's a lot to live up to. #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:12 PM EDT

Q2: #TchLIVE

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:21 PM EDT

A2: And no room to feel emotions. #TchLIVE

DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:21 PM EDT

7 Mindsets Academy #Tchlive We talk about it and have class meetings. https://t.co/QCZm0S2gwv

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:21 PM EDT

Q3: #tchlive

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:22 PM EDT

What are some negative implications for boys? #tchlive

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:23 PM EDT

Looks like a great resource!! #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:24 PM EDT

A3: Labels for boys have connotations of strength and power, for girls they are rooted in emotion and imply dependence and weakness #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:21 PM EDT

Q3: #tchlive

RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:25 PM EDT

#TchLive Hey everyone! Sorry I'm late. A1: Pretty. And it's surface deep. Sends message of beauty is seen prior to understanding a girl.

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TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:25 PM EDT

Welcome, Michael! Jump on in! #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:26 PM EDT

What is interesting is these are most often adult spoken labels not kid spoken labels. #tchlive

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:26 PM EDT

Labels might come from family and culture. #tchlive

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:27 PM EDT

Welcome!! That physical beauty is a measure of success #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:27 PM EDT

Welcome to #TchLIVE !

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RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:27 PM EDT

#TchLive A2: Strong. Or smart. Implication being strength is visible prior to all contributions the boy could possess.

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GenevieveDeBose Mar 30 @ 7:27 PM EDT

Girls are "cute" and boys are "tough." #tchlive

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:28 PM EDT

So opinions are instantly valued at a higher level? #tchlive

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heywerner59 Mar 30 @ 7:28 PM EDT

I shall make it a "kid" label survey in my classes tomorrow! #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:28 PM EDT

Boys hold in their emotions to the point where it becomes a problem or suffer the consequence of teasing. It's a societal sanction. #TchLIVE

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GenevieveDeBose Mar 30 @ 7:28 PM EDT

Every time I tell my nieces how cute they are my sister says, "AND smart!" #tchlive

GenevieveDeBose Mar 30 @ 7:29 PM EDT

And, hello all. I'm Geneviève and I'm popping in for a bit. I teach middle school #ELA in the #Bronx. #tchlive

RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:29 PM EDT

#TchLive A3: Though I recognize the aesthetic contrast, beauty for girls, strength/smarts for boys, even I hold these initial perceptions.

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:30 PM EDT

These seem to be the ideal personalities parents have- I have to admit as a parent to a boy/girl sometimes I fall into the trap #tchlive

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:30 PM EDT

Q4: #tchlive

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:31 PM EDT

I'm very careful when I meet a small child - what am I first inclined to say? What is that message? We have to be intentional. #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:31 PM EDT

I would agree... it feels engrained in me as well #tchlive

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RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:31 PM EDT

@lisa_hollenbach #TchLive Just now reading what others replied, and agree w/ you. Girls-relational. Boys-physical.

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heywerner59 Mar 30 @ 7:32 PM EDT

a visual #tchlive

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:32 PM EDT

Think before we speak... great point #tchlive

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:33 PM EDT

Or legos #tchlive

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TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:33 PM EDT

Women Leaders in Education #TchLIVE https://t.co/BNHHX2m1di

RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:33 PM EDT

@themathdancer #TchLive Yes! Was just thinking that. We have many more years than the kids, of that being a societal norm.

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:35 PM EDT

I think being honest and transparent that we are fighting using these stereotypes is imperative #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:35 PM EDT

It really is crazy how deeply it is rooted! #TchLIVE

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RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:36 PM EDT

#TchLive So when greeting Ss at car rider duty, I really need to STOP saying "Hey pretty girl." OMGosh!

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:37 PM EDT

Agree! Many women live second guessing themselves because of perceptions, yet hold the stereotypes themselves. #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:38 PM EDT

I also think we have to be careful about the word "smart" when labeling girls too-that worked against me in terms of taking risks #tchlive

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:38 PM EDT

Q5: #tchlive

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TeachingChannel - Moderator Mar 30 @ 7:39 PM EDT

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GenevieveDeBose Mar 30 @ 7:41 PM EDT

A5. They sometimes make me quiet when I should speak up. May make me doubt my strengths and gifts as a woman and woman of color. #tchlive

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:42 PM EDT

A4: I think we reward behaviors girls are naturally better w/ in the classroom; but, these are not behaviors rewarded in the world #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:30 PM EDT

Q4: #tchlive

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:42 PM EDT

A5: They limit what a girl allows herself to become. #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:38 PM EDT

Q5: #tchlive

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:44 PM EDT

What makes you speak up even though you may doubt it? #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:44 PM EDT

Also, what kind of smart?Are we teaching Ss what they need to excel in the world?Or just in academia?Boys tend to emerge better off #TchLIVE

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RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:44 PM EDT

#TchLive A4: Preconceived notions influence our words-actions/interactions. Self-fulfilling prof. Be intentional about NOT labeling is 🔑

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:45 PM EDT

In my experiences... the transition often happens in jr high- where success is not always a desirable quality for girls #Tchlive

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:46 PM EDT

A5 Many might have been leaders in elementary but change interests in later years. We need to encourage girls through college. #TchLIVE

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:46 PM EDT

Exactly!! #TchLIVE Girls "DO School" so well because they have compliance down.

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:46 PM EDT

Boys are risk-takers and rabble-rousers ... School doesn't reward that, but life does! #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:46 PM EDT

Agreed... I think we can start by challenging labels and pointing out many examples where the labels simply don't fit #tchlive

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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:47 PM EDT

If you are too smart, you are not popular ;) #TchLIVE

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:47 PM EDT

#Tchlive In high school, I could both catch salmon in the ocean and led my high school cheer team. I definitely wasn't classified easily!:)

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DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:47 PM EDT

A5 Specifically in science and engineering. Trying to encourage my EL Ss to think about college even though they are in elementary. #TchLIVE

themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:47 PM EDT

So you often learn to hide intelligence rather than being proud of it. #Tchlive

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RhAnJe Mar 30 @ 7:48 PM EDT

#TchLive A5: Could that contribute to why some adults react incredulously when a woman shatters a glass ceiling. How dare she? Break role?

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themathdancer Mar 30 @ 7:48 PM EDT

So agree! #tchlive

lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:46 PM EDT

Boys are risk-takers and rabble-rousers ... School doesn't reward that, but life does! #TchLIVE
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lisa_hollenbach Mar 30 @ 7:48 PM EDT

Yes! We need much more of this kind of encouragement! #TchLIVE

DelaneyELDiana Mar 30 @ 7:47 PM EDT

A5 Specifically in science and engineering. Trying to encourage my EL Ss to think about college even though they are in elementary. #TchLIVE