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rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT

Ritu from AKLD. Welcome 2 #INZpirED please introduce yourself if here :) Q.1 A.1 format.Use hashtag #INZpirED Topic:Helicopter Parents

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT

Ritu from AKLD. Welcome 2 #INZpirED please introduce yourself if here :) Q.1 A.1 format.Use hashtag #INZpirED Topic:Helicopter Parents

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT

Welcome to #INZPirED - Sunny from Kathmandu, Nepal joining in.

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:31 PM EDT

@rsehji Morning Ritu #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:32 PM EDT

Q.1 coming up soon.... #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT

Hey #INZpirED, I'm Leslie in Mty, MX. I'm trying to decide if I am a helicopter parent. https://t.co/I6m9p7qUkh

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT

Whew, almost missed my flight, made it just in time! Good morning #INZPirED PLN, @rsehji and @KSThakral. Diana checking in from Manila.

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT

Q.1. What other terms have you heard as being used for overindulged parents? #INZpirED https://t.co/tClW6VztBz

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq Morning Leslie and what a brill gif #INZPirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT

#INZpired Jena Ball Not Perfect Hat Club creator tweeting from North Carolina.

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT

#INZpired Has anyone pinged @DeanJulie ? She=the expert on this topic. Wrote NY Times bestseller" How to Raise an Adult" about helicopter Ps

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq lovely dp, Leslie :) Lovely to have you board the #INZpirED flight

adamsomes Jun 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT

A1 Many names that shouldn't be repeated out loud. #INZPirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane hi ya, Jena! Welcome! Glad to have you here today on #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT

@DJCE57 @KSThakral Good morning, glad you made it #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT

@DJCE57 #INZpired Waves

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT

@DJCE57 @rsehji Morning :) The spitfire is here #INZPirED https://t.co/3adwLytB5H

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT

A1: Smothering? I'm not sure. Helicopter parent is so apt. #INZpirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT

@adamsomes hahaha😅😂 I agree!!! #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane Morning Jena. Welcome #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane @DeanJulie oh no, hope your nudge works #INZPirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT

@KSThakral Evening, Sunny! Thanks, it was one of the first hits on the Twitter GIF search for helicopter! #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT

@adamsomes Hi Adam. Yup - silence is definitely golden on this one #INZPirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT

@rsehji Thanks, Ritu! Happy to be here! #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT

@KSThakral @DJCE57 good one, Sunny! Now where are the others? #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT

#INZpired A1: I'd call them byproducts of current edu system. They don't know any better. Think testing, grades & perfection=road 2 success.

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq Haven’t started using it - Sounds like a whole lot of fun #INZPirED

MrsMsClassroom Jun 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT

A2: #INZpirED coddling, overprotective, helicopter, needy, denial, spoiling

adamsomes Jun 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT

.@KSThakral ..,not to mention restraint #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:38 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane What other terms have you heard being used for helicopter parents? I found some new ones I never knew #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:38 PM EDT

@KSThakral It amuses me and sometimes others. It's probably medium on the fun scale. #INZpirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:38 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq Agree...A1 Helicopter P, over protective, breathing down neck type, over bearing...#INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:39 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane Also peer pressure and keeping up with the neighbours etc pays a huge part in this #INZPirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:39 PM EDT

@DJCE57 Meddlesome is one that just came to mind. #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:40 PM EDT

I also found hovering, overindulgent as describing the term #INZpirED https://t.co/NdYrTt5WsB

MrsMsClassroom Jun 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT

A2: #INZpirED coddling, overprotective, helicopter, needy, denial, spoiling

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT

@adamsomes @KSThakral hahaha, how about we use emojis instead, I've felt like this around some...😁 or 🙄 and 😖 #INZpirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT

A1 I'm not so good with terms. I cut right to the chase for smothering parents: privileged, spoiled rotten. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:42 PM EDT

@rsehji @DeanJulie #INZpired If you haven't seen her video you must. SO articulate: https://t.co/4SyUQnipkr https://t.co/mtkKiUT6Xt

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:42 PM EDT

@rsehji underlining this is often a desire for their children to do better - give them a boost in life #INZPirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:42 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq ooohhh, love that Leslie! Moments when you wish you had a separate school for Ps😅 - what to do and NOT TO DO #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:42 PM EDT

Thanks for sharing, Jena #INZpirED https://t.co/nWVPwAMzPj

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:42 PM EDT

@rsehji @DeanJulie #INZpired If you haven't seen her video you must. SO articulate: https://t.co/4SyUQnipkr https://t.co/mtkKiUT6Xt

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:43 PM EDT

@rsehji #INZpired I understood ? just want 2 avoid name calling & address reasons. Of COURSE Ps hover. They're byproducts of current system

adamsomes Jun 10 @ 10:44 PM EDT

@DJCE57 @KSThakral Spend a lot of time doing this then...🤔 #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:44 PM EDT

@KSThakral of course or live their life through them,fight 4 whts best 4 their child. I don't think I could call myself one though #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:44 PM EDT

Agree Better understanding their needs to do this and then advising them how to do this effectively is better than just labelling. #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:44 PM EDT

Q.2 coming up...#INZpirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 10:45 PM EDT

A1 Other words that come to mind: snooty, haughty, detached from reality. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:45 PM EDT

@rsehji #INZpired She's articulate about this. The myth of perfection - & belief Ps should push their kids 2 achieve it=at heart of issue

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:45 PM EDT

@rsehji @JenaiaMorane Hi Ritu and Jena. Am I in time for #INZpirED?

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:45 PM EDT

@MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Welcome Deb. You are #INZPirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:46 PM EDT

Hello #INZpirED Valerie here from Parparapumu (translplanted Canadiean) sorry to come in late. What's the Q ? topic?

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:46 PM EDT

Q.2 Will they ever be able to seize the mantle of adulthood asks Julie Lythcott-Haims https://t.co/VeE4PSui4O #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:46 PM EDT

@KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Hello Sunny! How have you been? What is tonight's topic? #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT

@v_lees Welcome to #INZPirED. We are discussing helicopter parents and their impact on the development of learners.

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT

@KSThakral #INZpired All part of mindset that says some are more worthy than others & we're in competition w/one another 4 survival & love.

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT

A1 or we use expressions to go w/emojis when a P becomes meddlesome... seriously🤔 how abt we switch places😋😁 for real😁😖 oh boy🙄 #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @JenaiaMorane yay, Deb in da house after ages. Topic: Helicopter parents #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT

@KarlyMoura #INZpired Thank you Karly I got em. Can you feel me hugging you back?

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT

@KSThakral Hmmm - great to have support/show support but need breathing and growing room to make mistakes and learn #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:48 PM EDT

@MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Been good :). Disucssing helicopter parents and their impact on the development of learners. #INZPirED

adamsomes Jun 10 @ 10:48 PM EDT

Sorry everyone...I'm disappointed, but have to go. Enjoy your weekend!! #INZPirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT

@rsehji #INZpired Kids needs 2 be allowed to embrace the process of trial and error that is life - not be taught to fear the process.

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane oh Deb!! So happy you can join us, this is like a reunion - good old days☺️ #INZPirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT

@v_lees welcome to #INZPirED Valerie😀

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT

#INZpired Another great book about this is "The Gift of Failure" by Jessica Lahey. Fit right in with @DeanJulie and Not Perfect Hat Club.

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane Yes, learn to be resilient through the process and learn from mistakes or as they mature #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane Yes understanding failure better and giving space to breathe leads to greater happiness and enjoyment of life #INZPirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT

A2: Humans have an amazing capacity to cope and "figure it out," when needed. Why should mollycoddled Ss be any different? #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT

@rsehji @KSThakral @JenaiaMorane Sorry that it's been a while. New job, big move... I know my share of helicopter parents! #INZpired

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT

@adamsomes happy weekend, Adam! Thanks for joining us today on #INZPirED...don't forget to 🤔 - 😅😂

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT

@adamsomes Thanks for joining Adam and the emoji chat is something we need to do more often #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @JenaiaMorane seems like you are enjoying the change.#INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT

@KSThakral #INZpired Life IS a process not a test that you grade. Edison said he didn't fail, just found 10,000 ways something didn't work.

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane @rsehji Article emphasizes the importance of giving students choice and responsibility as they grow up #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:52 PM EDT

@KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Helicopter parents often turn into bullies! They intimidate their child's way through school.#INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:52 PM EDT

@v_lees True - it stems from anxiety of parents and leads to anxiety for children. #INZPirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT

A2 Transition from being spoiled into responsible adult is a challenge, even unlikely, short of drastic life-changing event. #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT

@adamsomes glad you could stop by for a bit. We will let you parachute off, Adam #INZpirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT

Important to continue educating & shifting community/P expectation that greater testing = better learning #INZpirED https://t.co/JLod4ZywZC

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT

@KSThakral #INZpired Life IS a process not a test that you grade. Edison said he didn't fail, just found 10,000 ways something didn't work.

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT

@MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Yes some can indeed - micromanaging every aspect leading to a very unhappy childhood #INZPirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq #INZpired I'd go further & this is HOW humans learn. We need 2B challenged-How boring life would be if we knew all the answers

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT

@KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Kids need space to breathe and find their own way. #INZpirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:54 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Sadly true sometimes. #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:54 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @JenaiaMorane PTI recently made me wonder about this Q. Have to say Ps at my current school are cool/balanced #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:55 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane I would have gone further too, but 140 characters. Doom and gloom generalizations are rarely accurate. #INZpirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:55 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Portfolios and reflections help Ss and Ps see their own growth over time #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:55 PM EDT

@KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Some kids become timid others try to intimidate just like their parents. #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:55 PM EDT

Thanks for joining, Valerie and for the share #INZpirED https://t.co/0WDWPVGMXb

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane @rsehji Article emphasizes the importance of giving students choice and responsibility as they grow up #INZpirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 10:55 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane I'd say helicopter parents don't turn into bullies. They *are* bullies. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:56 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq #INZpired Hahaha don't I know it! Drive me nuts sometimes. I end up sounding so freakin emphatic. Everything a statement-sigh.

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:56 PM EDT

@v_lees @MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Yes its not about a grade/number but the journey #INZPirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:56 PM EDT

@JKatzaman @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Jim, that is funny and true! I was trying to be polite! lol #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:57 PM EDT

@JKatzaman @KSThakral @rsehji #INZpired Be gentle. Tho I don't agree w/what they do there is a reason. They're byproducts of broken system

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:57 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane Why did Henry Bodkin write this piece? To finally make us aware of big societal problems or to sell newspapers? #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:57 PM EDT

It's difficult because parents need to be involved to work as a team with the T, but respect the T to lead the education process. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 10:58 PM EDT

@v_lees @MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji #INZpired Yes! And a way 2 model a different approach not based on grades but individual needs & growth

cvarsalona Jun 10 @ 10:58 PM EDT

@rsehji Ritu, I just arrived at #INZpirED but don't know how long I can stay awake. Carol from Long Island

v_lees Jun 10 @ 10:58 PM EDT

@KSThakral @MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane We get too impatient trying to collect data before we develop data to report #INZpirED

MrsMsClassroom Jun 10 @ 10:58 PM EDT

A2- I truly feel it depends on how the S responds to Ps behavior-- as they get older they become quite vocal ;) #INZpirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:58 PM EDT

@JKatzaman @MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane true... #INZpirED wish there was a switch Ps & Ts day to make them see what it's like

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 10:58 PM EDT

@JKatzaman @MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane In my experience this is true and it's amazing to whom they can be bullies. #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq Tru,have to trust their child enough and listen to T & their child's voice #INZPirED Sometimes Ts fear takes the better of em

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT

@MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji @JenaiaMorane No one's accused me of being polite and made the charge stick. #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT

@v_lees @MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane The data we need to focus at times is qualitative or perhaps a happiness index #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT

Q.3 coming up..... #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT

Q.3 Is there a correlation between the socio economic status and helicopter parenting? #INZpirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq @JenaiaMorane Yes. #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 11:00 PM EDT

@rsehji 9 yrs of teaching seniors and even though I worried about several Ss, they are all just fine now. My worry was about me. #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:00 PM EDT

@cvarsalona @rsehji Hi Carol #INZPirED Discussing helicopter parents today.

dubioseducator Jun 10 @ 11:00 PM EDT

Not sure the topic but agree w/tweet @MittAubs Can u send link 2article? Haven't been to #INZpirED in a long time https://t.co/Nu9Y2kfTlY

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:57 PM EDT

It's difficult because parents need to be involved to work as a team with the T, but respect the T to lead the education process. #INZpirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:01 PM EDT

@KSThakral @MittAubs @rsehji @JenaiaMorane Ps/commun struggles w/ "soft" skills focus even though employers stress them greatly #inzpired

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:01 PM EDT

#INZpired I know Ps can be awful but think of kids who're bullies. We know there are reasons & they need help. Ps do 2! Can we stop blaming?

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:01 PM EDT

@MrsMsClassroom They often rebel too and in some cases it impacts their learning behaviour negatively #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:02 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq I can relate,sometimes we worry more & think Ps do 2.Ss rise to the expectations we have of them. we need to believe #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:02 PM EDT

@v_lees @KSThakral @MittAubs @rsehji #INZpired Yes! This=where learning needs to happen. Neuroscience finally supporting importance of SEK

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:02 PM EDT

Not sure whether it's a lack of respect, trust or fear-letting go of child's educ that causes Ps to hover #INZpirED https://t.co/kfNN5Uo1Yo

dubioseducator Jun 10 @ 11:00 PM EDT
Not sure the topic but agree w/tweet @MittAubs Can u send link 2article? Haven't been to #INZpirED in a long time https://t.co/Nu9Y2kfTlY
- MittAubs Jun 10 @ 10:57 PM EDT
  
  It's difficult because parents need to be involved to work as a team with the T, but respect the T to lead the education process. #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:03 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane that's a tough one Jena. Parents who try to control the education and child often won't listen or accept help. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:03 PM EDT

@DJCE57 @JKatzaman @MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji #INZpired LOL me too. Walk a day in my shoes and all that. All Ps should have 2 teach :-)

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:03 PM EDT

@v_lees @MittAubs @rsehji Like @JenaiaMorane said they didn’t experience it during their time (byproducts) & don’t know any better #INZPirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 11:03 PM EDT

A3 I'd like to say no, but I have a hard time seeing parents in poverty telling their kids what salad to like. #INZpirED

cvarsalona Jun 10 @ 11:04 PM EDT

@KSThakral @rsehji Sorry I can't stay awake.Long day. Prof Dev session w Ts today & hosting Poetry Friday https://t.co/4M6fBRUQ5x #INZpirEd.

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:04 PM EDT

@MittAubs #INZpired I know that. Have even heard horror stories from U. But until we begin to address the causes we won't get anywhere IMHO

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:04 PM EDT

We need community, Ps and gov'ts to educate and share this in support of Ts efforts #INZpirED https://t.co/Y1d25knrzH

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:02 PM EDT

@v_lees @KSThakral @MittAubs @rsehji #INZpired Yes! This=where learning needs to happen. Neuroscience finally supporting importance of SEK

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:04 PM EDT

@cvarsalona @rsehji Thanks for popping in Carol. Always good to catch up with you. #INZPirED

dubioseducator Jun 10 @ 11:05 PM EDT

@v_lees @MittAubs Letting go is just plain hard! From POV of a retired kinder teacher. LOL #INZpirED But empathy/understanding paves the way

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:05 PM EDT

Graphic I found that relates to our #INZpirED topic today! https://t.co/WlknZZqtq9

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:05 PM EDT

@KSThakral @v_lees @MittAubs @rsehji #INZpired Don't hear me saying should tolerate-BUT do need 2 understand & address underlying cause

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:06 PM EDT

@dubioseducator @MittAubs Very true! Shared vision and discussions help- share the support #INZpirED

DJCE57 - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:06 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane @JKatzaman @MittAubs @KSThakral @rsehji absolutely, they will only be able to appreciate us more then #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 11:06 PM EDT

@rsehji I believe. Watching my own little ones grow up I think we sometimes sell Ss short of their capabilities. They are amazing. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:06 PM EDT

@v_lees #INZpired Yes! Really does take a community 2 raise kids. Lessons learned in class must translate 2 real-world w/Ps help 2 reinforce

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:07 PM EDT

#positiveparentingspectrum #INZpirED https://t.co/jy1iUBrsbR

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:07 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane Similarly us Ts can be bullies & exert unfair pressure due to our own pressures. Glass houses and stones. #INZPirED

cvarsalona Jun 10 @ 11:08 PM EDT

1st edition of my gallery with a look at springtime around the world=>https://t.co/eQZQCM0PIz #INZpirED @KSThakral https://t.co/mowyoHb61p

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:08 PM EDT

@KSThakral #INZpired I know we all need places like this to safely vent, so apologize if I keep redirecting. This subject is a pressing one.

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:08 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane @KSThakral @rsehji In some cases the underlying cause is deep & personalTherapy is required but the P can't see that #INZpirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 11:08 PM EDT

@rsehji Helicopter parenting and cutting the cord -- is that what you call a mixed metaphor? #INZpirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:08 PM EDT

I wonder how much is a byproduct of how fast we (adults/society) are used to getting things done 1/2 #INZpirED https://t.co/h4TtqkzsIj

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:05 PM EDT

Graphic I found that relates to our #INZpirED topic today! https://t.co/WlknZZqtq9

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:09 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq I recently wrote a blog on this very same belief that we need to believe following an observation i made w/ sum Ts #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 11:09 PM EDT

A3: The helicopter might be a nanny or 2. If you have 3-4 adults in your life it's far more invasive than 1 working P could be. #INZpirED

dubioseducator Jun 10 @ 11:09 PM EDT

We all have narratives that influence who we are & how we relate to Ps, Ts, Sts schools and "the village we live in" #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 11:09 PM EDT

@rsehji Ah, blogging, the final frontier. #INZpirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:09 PM EDT

#INZpirED 2/2 Easier to do things than wait for Ss to learn/grow ? Fast paced / first world problems?

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:10 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane You are right Jena. Continuous badgering does not generate solutions. Better to focus on underlying causes #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:10 PM EDT

@JKatzaman i guess, when you put it like that :) #INZpirED Makes sense, doesn't it?

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:11 PM EDT

@dubioseducator #INZpired Yes :-)

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:12 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq in the hope that at least a few wud get the message or at least pen my thoughts as a reflective practitioner #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:12 PM EDT

@v_lees #INZpired Interesting. We are certainly a culture that likes quick fixes.

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:13 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq through experience I knew the way I learnt and found my direction my kids would too find their passion. It worked! #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:13 PM EDT

@v_lees #INZpired Also easier 2 impose single system & timeline on all kids instead of allowing each 2 develop & find his/her own way & time

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:13 PM EDT

@MittAubs @JenaiaMorane @rsehji Then it is up to us to turn their excess energy into positive - Involve them in school more #INZPirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:14 PM EDT

@KSThakral @JenaiaMorane Underlying causes can be deep. Some are highly personal. The P's are on a mission protect their child. #INZpirED

JKatzaman Jun 10 @ 11:15 PM EDT

@rsehji @lesliefarooq Where's the blog? #INZpirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:15 PM EDT

@KSThakral @JenaiaMorane The problem is the P's are not really protecting the child in most cases. #INZpirED

lesliefarooq Jun 10 @ 11:15 PM EDT

@JKatzaman @rsehji All this talking about a blog and we could just have the link, yes! Great call, Jim! #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:16 PM EDT

@KSThakral @MittAubs @rsehji #INZpired Would luv 2 discuss more. It's about more than what Ts have 2 do, but certainly a great place 2 start

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:16 PM EDT

@MittAubs @JenaiaMorane I believe they are their child’s no 1 advocate. We need to support them too - never give up #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:16 PM EDT

Thanks to everyone of our lovely PLN who joined #INZpirED Do pls DM if you have a Q you would like to mod. We would love to hear from you😊

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:17 PM EDT

Many are too involved in school to the point they practically work there. Actually some do work there to be closer to their S.#INZpirED

trtboelman Jun 10 @ 11:17 PM EDT

@rsehji please please keep tweeting! Let's empower our kids! #INZpirED #dothemafavor

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:18 PM EDT

Very true - challenging w/ large classes and lots of needs/lack of resources #INZpirED https://t.co/LK3TK0G7Vt

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:13 PM EDT

@v_lees #INZpired Also easier 2 impose single system & timeline on all kids instead of allowing each 2 develop & find his/her own way & time

dubioseducator Jun 10 @ 11:18 PM EDT

YES! If we look at Ps and Ts as advocates for the Ss then we set up trust that we both want what's best #INZpirED https://t.co/4iT9vJgAdr

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:16 PM EDT

@MittAubs @JenaiaMorane I believe they are their child’s no 1 advocate. We need to support them too - never give up #INZPirED

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:18 PM EDT

I agree that all "helicopter" parents want what's best for their child in their opinion. #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:18 PM EDT

@v_lees #INZpired Oh yes. It's why I believe we need a revolution in Edu. But that's a topic for another chat - LOL

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:18 PM EDT

Thanks Tammy for your support and encouragement. Much appreciated! Will do :) #INZpirED https://t.co/X3BjGmP2yh

trtboelman Jun 10 @ 11:17 PM EDT

@rsehji please please keep tweeting! Let's empower our kids! #INZpirED #dothemafavor

dubioseducator Jun 10 @ 11:20 PM EDT

THx for sharing your ideas & listening to mine. Have a great week. School is over for the summer in most of the US #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:20 PM EDT

@trtboelman @rsehji #INZpired I've discovered if U give Ss creative tools & show U care about them (not grades) they'll knock your socks off

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:21 PM EDT

@JKatzaman @lesliefarooq haha Blog link coming up https://t.co/dmdn78CoCu #INZpirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:22 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane @MittAubs @DeanJulie Involving them in committees - getting them to run events - deflecting their attention helps #INZPirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:22 PM EDT

@lesliefarooq @JKatzaman Would love to hear your thoughts #INZpirED

SOC54 Jun 10 @ 11:22 PM EDT

@KSThakral @JenaiaMorane @rsehji #INZpirED https://t.co/ug8XbLhHsc

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:23 PM EDT

@dubioseducator Thanks for joining in Faige. #INZPirED

v_lees Jun 10 @ 11:24 PM EDT

#INZpirED Great chat - lots of thinking. Have to run - have a great weekend :)

MittAubs Jun 10 @ 11:24 PM EDT

@KSThakral @JenaiaMorane @DeanJulie Maybe. Some however badmouth good Ts that they are angry at and spread untrue rumors. #INZpirED

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:25 PM EDT

@JenaiaMorane I believe that.Am seeing results despite grades being involved.It's lightg a spark and then letting it catch on fire #INZpirED

JenaiaMorane Jun 10 @ 11:25 PM EDT

@v_lees #INZpired LOL didn't say it hasn't started. I just think we need to fuel and grow it.

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:25 PM EDT

@MittAubs @JenaiaMorane @DeanJulie Use parent reps to counter them & spread positivity. Leaving them alone is never a good thing. #INZPirED

KSThakral - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:26 PM EDT

@v_lees Thanks for joining in. Really was pleasure to connect. #INZPirED indeed.

rsehji - Moderator Jun 10 @ 11:27 PM EDT

@v_lees Thanks again. Happy weekend, Valerie #INZpirED