#SafeSchoolsChat Archive
#SafeSchoolsChat is a weekly chat moderated by @teresagross625 and @daviswelcome to increase safety awareness in schools. Every Sunday at 3:00 PM Eastern.
Sunday April 3, 2016
3:00 PM EDT
DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#SafeSchoolsChat
!
@teresagross625
and I are looking forward to having a chat that is on fire today!
https://t.co/8WT25WtBTi
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Thank you for joining us!
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:01 PM EDT
Joining from near Baltimore -- and I wasn't bullied to be here.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:02 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Welcome Jim!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:02 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Nice! Welcome, Jim!
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:03 PM EDT
Good afternoon
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- Phiona in Ontario
RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:03 PM EDT
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@DavisWelcome
@JKatzaman
Hello there!
@Daviswelcome
@Teresa
Gross Rita in eugene stopping in. I loathe bullies!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:03 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Welcome Phiona!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:04 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Welcome!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:04 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
@JKatzaman
@teresa
So glad you could make it, Rita!
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FoleyKev
Apr 3 @ 3:04 PM EDT
Hi to all.Kevin here a Teaching Principal of multi classes in a small rural Irish Primary school
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:05 PM EDT
@FoleyKev
Hi Kevin! Welcome!
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:05 PM EDT
#safeschoolschat
Happening now! Join in! :-)
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#SafeSchoolsChat
!
@teresagross625
and I are looking forward to having a chat that is on fire today!
https://t.co/8WT25WtBTi
DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:05 PM EDT
@FoleyKev
Welcome, Kevin!
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:06 PM EDT
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@ReasonerCynthia
Spot on. Supervision has to be like flies on the wall, gnats n the air. Better than Eugene pollen today!
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:06 PM EDT
Hello to all! Alex here from
@CitrusSchools
in FL.
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
Hi Everyone! I'm Karen...a 4th grade teacher from Delaware. Happy Sunday!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
Welcome Alex! Thanks for joining us!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
@JKatzaman
@teresa
Thank you, Rita!
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edu_taraw
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
Greetings! Tara Woodard from Wilson, NC
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
@teacher_city
Welcome Karen!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
Hi Tara!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:07 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
@CitrusSchools
Welcome, Alex!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:08 PM EDT
Question #1 coming up in a moment.....
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@DavisWelcome
DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:08 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
Hey there, Tara!
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:09 PM EDT
Hi Everyone! My name is Karen and I am a 4th grade teacher from Delaware. Happy Sunday!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:10 PM EDT
@teacher_city
Welcome, Karen!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:10 PM EDT
Question #1
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/pCIKmpMFz1
JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:11 PM EDT
A1 Face-to-face bullying is the most personal and intense assault. It's especially hard to avoid or walk away from.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:12 PM EDT
A1: happening "live" and in person
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:12 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Absolutely.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:12 PM EDT
A1: can be both verbal and non-verbal
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:13 PM EDT
A1:A form of harassment where the bully seeks to create a sense of dread around the victim's mere act of existing.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:13 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
Yes.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:13 PM EDT
A1: can be 1:1 or in groups
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Amy_MacCrindle
Apr 3 @ 3:15 PM EDT
A1: In person, verbal or physical actions targeted at a person
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https://t.co/OdUD7zSsUc
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:10 PM EDT
Question #1
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/pCIKmpMFz1
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:15 PM EDT
@Amy_MacCrindle
Welcome Amy!
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Amy_MacCrindle
Apr 3 @ 3:16 PM EDT
@teresagross625
thanks :) Amy from Illinois
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:16 PM EDT
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@DavisWelcome
@teresagross625
Burning desire to wipe out bullying, that's for sure!
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#sunchat
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#SafeSchoolsChat
!
@teresagross625
and I are looking forward to having a chat that is on fire today!
https://t.co/8WT25WtBTi
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:17 PM EDT
@Amy_MacCrindle
Thanks for joining us!
#safeschoolschat
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:17 PM EDT
Question #2 coming up in a moment......
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@DavisWelcome
DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:17 PM EDT
You got it!
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https://t.co/Tvio3FvMkn
RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:16 PM EDT
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@DavisWelcome
@teresagross625
Burning desire to wipe out bullying, that's for sure!
#safeschoolschat
#sunchat
https://t.co/QsBdKg6Jnl
DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#SafeSchoolsChat
!
@teresagross625
and I are looking forward to having a chat that is on fire today!
https://t.co/8WT25WtBTi
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:18 PM EDT
Question #2
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/oDqnQ2AUC7
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:19 PM EDT
A2: unstructured times w/ minimal adults: stairwells, restrooms
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edu_taraw
Apr 3 @ 3:20 PM EDT
A2) recess / bathrooms/ hallway - wherever supervision is less
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:20 PM EDT
A2 Face-to-face bullying will most likely occur on playground, but even in classroom, for which teachers need to be alert.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
A2: before/after school while waiting to come in or leave
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
A2: Wherever the teachers/adults can't see what's happening... in hallways, lunchroom, bus, bathrooms, etc.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
Absolutely!
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
A2Bullying is likely to happen anywhere that differences are seen through the eyes of ignorance instead of being celebrated
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
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@teresagross625
A2. Challenging to be phantom-like all over the place. Have to outsmart bullies.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Yes, Adults need to pay attention.
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:22 PM EDT
A2: f2f bullying occurs on playgrounds, hallways, cafes, school buses, & on the walk to/from school
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:22 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
Excellent!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:22 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
Yes, I tend to "appear" in stairwells during passing times and before/after lunch when possible.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:22 PM EDT
Yes.
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https://t.co/mvXeWMGehd
JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:20 PM EDT
A2 Face-to-face bullying will most likely occur on playground, but even in classroom, for which teachers need to be alert.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:23 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Yes, esp when minimal adults around.
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2: it happens wherever bullies feel safe/unmonitored & where they're unlikely to be challenged/reprimanded
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:23 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Exactly.
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2: What this tells us is that kids know it's not OK so they find places/spaces where adults aren't around and watching.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:24 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Exactly. They know.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:24 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Welcome!
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:24 PM EDT
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@teresagross625
Yes. As P, I hung out in cafeteria, bus lines, playground, where real action was.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:22 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
Yes, I tend to "appear" in stairwells during passing times and before/after lunch when possible.
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Amy_MacCrindle
Apr 3 @ 3:24 PM EDT
A2: "down" times, unsupervised times... Cyber- On computer, home, with friends
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:18 PM EDT
Question #2
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/oDqnQ2AUC7
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:24 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
Definitely.
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:25 PM EDT
A2.1 Face-to-face bullying can occur anywhere at anytime upon anyone. Worst defense is, "It can't happen here."
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:25 PM EDT
Unfortunately teachers can be the very ones perpetuating the bullying. 😕
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:21 PM EDT
A2: Wherever the teachers/adults can't see what's happening... in hallways, lunchroom, bus, bathrooms, etc.
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:25 PM EDT
I agree
@JinnieSpiegler
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:25 PM EDT
@Amy_MacCrindle
Next week we will focus on cyber bullying!
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:25 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Sad but true.
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:25 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
Could you tell us more? Interesting.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:26 PM EDT
A2: have to watch the back of buses on field trips as well. In bleachers during assemblies.
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:26 PM EDT
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@JKatzaman
A2 True. Bullies are everywhere. sad but true.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:27 PM EDT
A2: in bleachers during sporting events
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:27 PM EDT
For Admin- Are there any innovative practices underway at your school to address bullying before it happens?
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:27 PM EDT
Question #3 coming up in a moment......
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:27 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
@JKatzaman
So true!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:27 PM EDT
You got it!
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https://t.co/oc3XQgRgbc
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:27 PM EDT
A2: in bleachers during sporting events
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
Some teachers create an environment that is hostile against this or that "type" of person.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Question #3
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/bvyacsoNRN
schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
@DavisWelcome
That exact thing happened to my son in 5th grade. Teachers led bullying by example.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Hi
#safeschoolschat
friends, Spiri from PA, joining late...power outage w/ these crazy high winds!
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
I understand what you mean.
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:29 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
(cont.) sometimes it's due to ignorance but I've heard teachers use words like "thugs" to refer to Ss of color
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:29 PM EDT
A2:It's important to help students learn to be allies because they are the ones who usually witness bullying, not adults.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:29 PM EDT
@teacher_city
We are a Leader in Me school that practices the 7 Habits, character ed.
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:29 PM EDT
@RitaWirtz
I've heard teachers refer to an ill informed decision as "retarded"
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Welcome!
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edu_taraw
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
A3) interact with the kids (at recess, for example) - always be visible
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Welcome Spiri! Nice to see you!
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
A3: Teachers can proactively teach about bullying and help students learn how to be an ally.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
@teresagross625
Thank you Teresa! So good to be here!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
Perhaps staff needs to take a look at what they are modeling.
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:30 PM EDT
A3 School staffs need to be trained to watch for signs of bullying and how to deal with bullying when they see it.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:31 PM EDT
Awesome!
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https://t.co/MnKImKnenU
JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:29 PM EDT
A2:It's important to help students learn to be allies because they are the ones who usually witness bullying, not adults.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:31 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
Hello friend! I hope all is well 😊
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:31 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
I have talked to Ss about this. They don't know what to do when they see it.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:31 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
The Power of Words! WOW!
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MathFlashcards
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
Teresa Gross on Twitter
https://t.co/00HE4v1qPi
#safeschoolschat
https://t.co/T51NKbZIEp
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
YES! I get a lot of steps in the cafeteria.
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
A3: Social and emotional skill development. Also, teach kids about bias since so much bullying is bias/identity-based.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Absolutely.
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
A2: Consistent message from adults. Can't always stop it from occurring. But consistent consequences lesses frequency.
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edu_taraw
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
@teresagross625
I am at a Leader in Me School, also! No wonder I agree with so many of your responses!
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:32 PM EDT
A3.1 Posting signs stating "This is a bullying-free zone" is not being proactive.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:33 PM EDT
3A) Build relationships, model, discuss, bring issues to light, don't sweep things under rug, Ss need guidance, listen
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:33 PM EDT
@schoolcnxt
Absolutely.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:33 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
Yeah! We will have to chat!
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:33 PM EDT
@teresagross625
It's important they are given a host of strategies, not just "standing up." And then practice.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:34 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Need action as well.
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:34 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
@RitaWirtz
That is upsetting. My son got "special" used...with air quotes. The kids knew what T meant.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:34 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Listening so important!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:34 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Time to practice, role-play.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:35 PM EDT
A3: time for Ss, sometimes they just need to talk, building relationships essential!
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:35 PM EDT
A3: Teachers also need to be approachable + non-judgmental so students feel comfortable talking to them--many Ss don't.
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:35 PM EDT
@schoolcnxt
@RitaWirtz
It takes some tact in guts to have courageous conversations e colleagues to say that's not okay
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:35 PM EDT
@teresagross625
Some Ts like to put blinders on, such a disservice to Ss
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:35 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Exactly.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:36 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Hey there, Spiri! All is well, my friend!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:36 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
I had to do it once. It's what is best for kids.
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FoleyKev
Apr 3 @ 3:36 PM EDT
A3.As a school leader I am always conscious of bullyng among students and staff.I encourage all to talk talk talk
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:36 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
Glad to hear 😊
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:36 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Unfortunately.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:36 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
@schoolcnxt
@RitaWirtz
Absolutely!
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:37 PM EDT
A3: anti-bullying efforts should be restorative &they have to be proactive & must address the reason for as well as the act
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:37 PM EDT
Question #4 coming up in a moment....
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:37 PM EDT
A3: Be genuinely intrigued by the unusual and share your wonder w Ss in ways that say "it's cool to be different"
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:37 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Consistency and follow through.
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:38 PM EDT
A3: I like the idea of schools becoming a "resourvoir of kindess". Check it out!
#safeschoolschat
https://t.co/NVqnUy4Jg1
DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:38 PM EDT
You got it!
#safeschoolschat
https://t.co/61sXMvTaEL
PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:37 PM EDT
A3: anti-bullying efforts should be restorative &they have to be proactive & must address the reason for as well as the act
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:38 PM EDT
@alexstubenbort
I always encourage them to be themselves.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:38 PM EDT
I share stories about myself to make connections.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
Question #4
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/cOzHCS2vQh
itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
Time for a system that puts the value & benefit of learner first, they are not learning if they are scared/bullied
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
@teresagross625
all Ss must know that the safety & wellbeing of each of them is imperative
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Absolutely not!
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MathFlashcards
Apr 3 @ 3:40 PM EDT
Jinnie Spiegler on Twitter
https://t.co/oyNMSqcwOZ
#safeschoolschat
https://t.co/wp9NYYeEbi
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:40 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Exactly, safe schools means many, many different things.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
A4: giving them tools (ex. what to say) either when being bullied and/or witnessing it
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
A4: Understanding bias and bullying, responding to bullying + most importantly, different ways to be an ally.
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
Sorry I'm late - I was driving. Going to try to catch up.
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
Absolutely!
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https://t.co/KtYQziOuii
itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
Time for a system that puts the value & benefit of learner first, they are not learning if they are scared/bullied
#safeschoolschat
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
Welcome! On Q#4
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Empowering Ss to help others.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
A4: Encourage students to speak up for themselves. Student advocacy skills!
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
A4 After being made aware of what bullying is -- some might not know -- genuinely confidential counseling should be offered
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edu_taraw
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
A4) character education (7 habits!), mentors, positive role models, and incentives to help end bullying
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Looking at the whole child....academic/social/emotional needs.
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
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@alexstubenbort
@schoolcnxt
@inclusionchick
#spedchat
@Teach4SpclNeeds
Shocking comment, not typical. Uncool. Hurtful.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
Welcome, Robyn!
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
A4) For K-2, used "You Can't Say I Can't Play" to spark convo about feelings, confidence for young Ss, phrases to use
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
A1: To me, face to face bullying means it's very personal and directed right at the person.
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
From my son: Adults need to consistently enforce rules. Can't always stop it. But can make it so it is not accepted.
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
A4: Ss are taught to say "stop" firmly, to tell an adult if it doesn't ; Ts are now required by law in Ontario to act
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:44 PM EDT
Absolutely!
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:42 PM EDT
A4: Understanding bias and bullying, responding to bullying + most importantly, different ways to be an ally.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:44 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Sometimes it is hard for them to differentiate.
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:44 PM EDT
@teresagross625
Right! Even if students don't do anything in the moment, just reaching out/supporting target has benefits.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:44 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
We have peer mediation.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:44 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
You got it, Tara!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:45 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Yes! It is different at all levels! Grade/age/etc.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:45 PM EDT
Well said!
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:43 PM EDT
From my son: Adults need to consistently enforce rules. Can't always stop it. But can make it so it is not accepted.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:45 PM EDT
@schoolcnxt
Those are very wise words.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:46 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
NYS as well.
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FoleyKev
Apr 3 @ 3:46 PM EDT
A4.We instill the confidence in Students to talk to and confide in teachers.Talking and confiding helps.Say NO say STOP
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:46 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Absolutely, had S come & tell me a T was bullying them, that was so hard to hear & approach but, we did
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:46 PM EDT
@teresagross625
Especially tough if your "friend," parent, teacher or adult role model is actually your bully.
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teacher_city
Apr 3 @ 3:46 PM EDT
Terrible! Should NEVER be tolerated!!!
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@alexstubenbort
@schoolcnxt
@inclusionchick
@Teach4SpclNeeds
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:46 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Which we would HOPE is not the case.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:47 PM EDT
Such meaningful conversation today!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:47 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Have to do what's best for kids.
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edu_taraw
Apr 3 @ 3:47 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
I have that book in my professional library - thanks for inspiring me to get it out and read again!
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:47 PM EDT
A2: Recess time or out at the lockers. Anywhere a teacher is not directly supervising a specific group of students.
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MathFlashcards
Apr 3 @ 3:48 PM EDT
Jinnie Spiegler on Twitter
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:48 PM EDT
A3: BE PRESENT!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Question #3
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@DavisWelcome
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:48 PM EDT
@teresagross625
I found helping young Ss express themselves, give strategies, etc leads to less issues later in that area
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:48 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
The phys ed lockers!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:49 PM EDT
Amen!
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:48 PM EDT
A3: BE PRESENT!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Question #3
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@DavisWelcome
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:49 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Giving them the language to communicate. Needs to be taught.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:49 PM EDT
Question #5 coming up in a moment....
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:50 PM EDT
@teresagross625
Not about us, some Ts have hard time w/ this it's about Ss, helping them to succeed in all aspects of life
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:50 PM EDT
It's important to proactively teach what bullying is & how to resolve conflicts peacefully including being good upstanders
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:50 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Exactly.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:50 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Great read "Upstanders" just did roles in society lesson w/ 8th graders.
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:51 PM EDT
A4: Teach diff. between tattling and telling. Walk away. Provide a safe place to talk about it.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
Question #4
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@DavisWelcome
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:51 PM EDT
So true!
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:50 PM EDT
It's important to proactively teach what bullying is & how to resolve conflicts peacefully including being good upstanders
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:51 PM EDT
Question #5 (Last question)
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@DavisWelcome
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
Younger students have trouble differentiating sometimes.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
@teresagross625
Agreed! The language & the tone! The mannerisms, the way to apologize & not seek additional drama/revenge
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
Love this!
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https://t.co/Ns7SiHZjBE
RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:51 PM EDT
A4: Teach diff. between tattling and telling. Walk away. Provide a safe place to talk about it.
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https://t.co/1B2WzNz1ni
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:39 PM EDT
Question #4
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@DavisWelcome
https://t.co/cOzHCS2vQh
teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
Great read!
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
A4: Hard for S being bullied. Other Ss need to know how to step in safely. Ss know what is going on.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:53 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
I used to teach all that as speech therapist. Loved working on it.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:53 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
Its a wonderful resource! I still have mine! Simple techniques to assist young learners
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:53 PM EDT
A5: Don't be afraid to advocate for your child. You are your child's biggest advocate.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:53 PM EDT
@schoolcnxt
Yes, they are often scared themselves.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:53 PM EDT
@itsmeSpiri
Which book?
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:54 PM EDT
So true!
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
A4: Hard for S being bullied. Other Ss need to know how to step in safely. Ss know what is going on.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:54 PM EDT
A5: we have places in the community where Ss can go
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JKatzaman
Apr 3 @ 3:54 PM EDT
A5 Involvement starts with awareness. A sense of urgency needs to be conveyed to parents, community to get their attention.
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:54 PM EDT
A5: Model good, inclusive behavior. Talk about bullying. Take action if their child bullies.
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itsmeSpiri
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
@teresagross625
This loud, emotional
#greekgirl
learned a lot too 😊
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
A5: Parents need to be aware of what bullying is/actively talk to kids about it. You can't assume your kid is not bullying.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Yes.
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alexstubenbort
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Yes.
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RitaWirtz
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
.
@Teach4SpclNeeds
Know I'm different. Aren't we all? Celebrating differences makes the world happy
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Teach4SpclNeeds
Apr 3 @ 3:52 PM EDT
#celebrate
differences
#celebrate
ALL
@RitaWirtz
@alexstubenbort
@schoolcnxt
@inclusionchick
PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
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Markfinnis
Mar 8 @ 4:30 PM EST
Please check out this on
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practice and RT
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@_Hannah_Edwards
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:56 PM EDT
A5: As a parent, I always have my antenna up + have open conversations about the slippery slope of bullying behavior.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:56 PM EDT
@JinnieSpiegler
Wonderful!
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
Good for you!
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:56 PM EDT
A5: As a parent, I always have my antenna up + have open conversations about the slippery slope of bullying behavior.
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PLloydHenry
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
many think this is off campus and far from authorities
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
I can't believe the hour is almost over!
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FoleyKev
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
A5.Lets be careful here.Parents sometimes can bully staff
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
@FoleyKev
True, that can happen.
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
So very very true. Made my other son apologize to a S in front of his mom. VERY effective.
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JinnieSpiegler
Apr 3 @ 3:55 PM EDT
A5: Parents need to be aware of what bullying is/actively talk to kids about it. You can't assume your kid is not bullying.
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DavisWelcome
Apr 3 @ 3:58 PM EDT
Thank you for your great participation today! See you next week!
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:58 PM EDT
@schoolcnxt
Fantastic!
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schoolcnxt
Apr 3 @ 3:58 PM EDT
It's where some kids learn the bullying behavior.
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FoleyKev
Apr 3 @ 3:57 PM EDT
A5.Lets be careful here.Parents sometimes can bully staff
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RobynCharb
Apr 3 @ 3:59 PM EDT
Try to get ALL the facts. Stories often change if you bring the child in when discussing bullying issues with parents.
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teresagross625
Apr 3 @ 3:59 PM EDT
Thanks so much for joining us for this very important conversation!
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