#INZpirED Archive
This is a weekly chat often based around one or two questions to spark discussion & debate around educational issues.
Friday June 17, 2016
10:30 PM EDT
Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:31 PM EDT
Hi, welcome to this week's chat
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:32 PM EDT
Good morning/evening
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PLN. Diana, checking in from Manila.
KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:32 PM EDT
Sunny joining in from Kathmandu
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:33 PM EDT
@DJCE57
Hi Diana :)
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:33 PM EDT
@KSThakral
Hi Sunny!
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:34 PM EDT
@Ajarn_Adam
Hi Adam. Hope you and
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are both well.
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:34 PM EDT
@Ajarn_Adam
Hi Adam. Good morning😀
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:35 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@DJCE57
Good here thanks
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:35 PM EDT
Been quite a difficult time for many this week, what with events in the US & the UK
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:36 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
Hi ya, Sunny😀 Still waiting for your updates on your new venture. Hope all is well.
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:38 PM EDT
All schools encounter this at some point. The loss of a student or a staff member or the need to make sense of something global.
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:41 PM EDT
We use mentors and counsellors to support. Discuss events in mentor time/assemblies/PSHE.
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The one thing we don’t do is ignore.
Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:41 PM EDT
@KSThakral
I've unfortunately had experience of both, not sure any training would fully prepare you
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:43 PM EDT
@Ajarn_Adam
The sense of loss is always personal. Impacts everyone differently and you are right no training fully prepares you
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stuartkellynz
Jun 17 @ 10:47 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
I agree, often need to lead with the head and the heart. A 24 year former student had a funeral yesterday.
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:47 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
each one has their own way in dealing with loss & pain. What matters is Ss know we are there for them.
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Ajarn_Adam
- Moderator
Jun 17 @ 10:48 PM EDT
@stuartkellynz
@KSThakral
Hi Stuart, very sorry to hear that
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Ajarn_Adam
- Moderator
Jun 17 @ 10:48 PM EDT
@DJCE57
@KSThakral
Good point Diana
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:49 PM EDT
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https://t.co/gXkgYLd784
stuartkellynz
Jun 17 @ 10:49 PM EDT
@Ajarn_Adam
@KSThakral
Thanks and on the same of one of my former colleagues from the same school.
#toughweek
#togetherstrong
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:50 PM EDT
@stuartkellynz
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
that's tough. Leaves all w/a heavy heart. We had one few years back & whole school mourned.
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KSThakral
- Moderator
Jun 17 @ 10:51 PM EDT
@stuartkellynz
@Ajarn_Adam
Sometimes teachers have to overcome their sense of loss to stay strong for others.
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stuartkellynz
Jun 17 @ 10:51 PM EDT
@DJCE57
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
Nice post. Tough when it's someone well-respected through-out the school.
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stuartkellynz
Jun 17 @ 10:51 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
Excellent point Sunny, I dealt with it by helping out- often being busy helps.
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rinikaran
Jun 17 @ 10:52 PM EDT
Hello
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! Harini from Perth.I agree we all have diff ways of grieving ,it's hard to make sense of it all .
https://t.co/BePYfDtu71
DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:47 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
each one has their own way in dealing with loss & pain. What matters is Ss know we are there for them.
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:53 PM EDT
@stuartkellynz
@KSThakral
I think you're right about keeping busy Stuart
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:53 PM EDT
@rinikaran
Hi Harini
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 10:53 PM EDT
@stuartkellynz
@Ajarn_Adam
Often find that adults don’t take up support as much as children though.
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 10:55 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@stuartkellynz
Yeah that's probably true
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 10:55 PM EDT
@rinikaran
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
Hi Harini. Glad you could join us today on
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stuartkellynz
Jun 17 @ 10:55 PM EDT
@KSThakral
@Ajarn_Adam
Good point, in a big, all teachers need to be on deck and on guard.
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stuartkellynz
Jun 17 @ 10:56 PM EDT
@Ajarn_Adam
@KSThakral
Otherwise Ts and Ss just feel helpless.
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 11:02 PM EDT
Thanks for sharing your thoughts today everyone - stay strong
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KSThakral
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Jun 17 @ 11:03 PM EDT
Dealing with loss is often a personal experience but in schools it can be a collective experience which helps as well. Thanks all
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DJCE57
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Jun 17 @ 11:05 PM EDT
@Ajarn_Adam
thanks, Adam! Have a great weekend!
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 11:06 PM EDT
@KSThakral
Thanks Sunny
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Ajarn_Adam
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Jun 17 @ 11:06 PM EDT
@DJCE57
Thanks Diana, you too :)
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rinikaran
Jun 17 @ 11:14 PM EDT
Glad could join 4 a little while.
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. Have a great weekend.My thoughts and prayers are with the families of all the people .Thx all.