#edchatME Archive
A Maine-based Twitter presence for a network of educators everywhere.
Monday October 3, 2016
8:30 PM EDT
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Good evening, and welcome to
#EdChatME
! This week’s topic: “Resistance to Change.
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:31 PM EDT
Lets start with some introductions: who you are, where you work, what you do, etc. AND: how do YOU feel about change?
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:31 PM EDT
I'm Matt- Dir of CIA for
@AOS94ME
, & I'll be mod-ing tonight's chat
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:32 PM EDT
For tonight’s discussion, we’ll be using the Q1/A1 format. Lurkers are welcome, but please jump in! We’d love to hear your voice!
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Jeff Bailey, HS Technology Teacher in Rumford. Change is fine, as long as it happens to someone else (sarcasm)
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Change is the only constant in life. Gotta learn to love it!
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Jessica, 6th grade in Lincoln, Maine. Excited, but nervous. Concerned about how it might go/be received.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:33 PM EDT
Q1) Coming up in 1 minute. Let’s get rolling!
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:33 PM EDT
Hello,
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Tara from Veazie here. Middle School SPED and a bit of everything else. Not a fan of change at first but...OK in the end
nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:33 PM EDT
Natalee, Head of HS & Humanities teacher at Windham Christian. I embrace change in a big bear hug!
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:33 PM EDT
@MsMeservey
I hear you. Especially with so many unpredictable unknowns... it can be scary!
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Q1) 1st level of resistance: “I don’t get it.” What does this mean? How does this look? Give an example.
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johannaprince
Oct 3 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Hi
#edchatme
, Jo in
#highered
, love change, move furniture often:) just to see if better, w/ change we can see what works, and design better
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:34 PM EDT
@FrazierTeacher
Wassssssssup!
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Megh from Gorham MS. Sixth grade LA and SS. Easily a love/hate relationship with change.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:35 PM EDT
ICYMI- tonight's chat is based on a framework/model fr/
@rickmaurer2
. Check out his work, folks!!!
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A1: Lack of exposure to the overall concept or the process/details to get there. "What are Guiding Principles again?"
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A1: Critical Thinking. How do I manage to get the 4Cs in my classroom, but still cover content. I know they are important but AH!
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MichaelisMath
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Oct 3 @ 8:36 PM EDT
Hi
#EdChatME
! Jennifer Michaelis, H.S. Math. Everyone who know me knows I seek out change & then cry a whole lot 'til it feels normal again!
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:36 PM EDT
@FrazierTeacher
just short of flipping fantastic!!!
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A1) Why are we changing to Standards? How will my kid get into (preferred school)?
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 8:36 PM EDT
Good Monday Eve! I am the Principal Madison High School and I welcome change!
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nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A1: No frame work to fit it into. "We've never done it like that before."
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1: I don't get it = help me understand. Ss say it all the time, and my quick reaction is always 'let's figure it out together'
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1) To me this is about learning a new skill, and synapsis just haven't fired yet
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
@FrazierTeacher
What do you mean by moving to standards? You have no standards???
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1: Lack of understanding is OK, lack of willingness to try to understand cannot have a place in Prof. work.
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johannaprince
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1) Often when others don't see a problem = no need to change = resistence
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
Q1 again:
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https://t.co/Wp4m8331Sg
MichaelisMath
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A1: Sometimes "I don't get it" is not seeing the concept. Sometimes, it's someone who gave it a lot of thought & truly got stuck.
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:38 PM EDT
Truth. Words to live by.
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https://t.co/SKhRP8auBx
jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1: Lack of understanding is OK, lack of willingness to try to understand cannot have a place in Prof. work.
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:38 PM EDT
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Bob, MS Principal in Gorham. Joining for a bit tonight, been a long weekend, and not in a fun way!
nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A1: What don't you get? Always try to get them to be more specific about what don't they understand. Ss, Ts, & Ps!
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:38 PM EDT
@FrazierTeacher
is this a quote? Tell us more!
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nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:39 PM EDT
Yes!
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https://t.co/STJenRDDmi
jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1: Lack of understanding is OK, lack of willingness to try to understand cannot have a place in Prof. work.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:39 PM EDT
Love the "together" part especially!
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A1: I don't get it = help me understand. Ss say it all the time, and my quick reaction is always 'let's figure it out together'
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A1) Admitting that what we are currently doing may not be the "right" thing...hard to own that...
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nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:39 PM EDT
@FrazierTeacher
True for Ss, Ts, & Ps for all manner of things!
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:40 PM EDT
@jbailey8
agree. But I think this gets to another layer of resistance that is more than "I don't get it"
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l_gerhard17
Oct 3 @ 8:40 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
some Ss are quick to give up & I love being able to sit down w/ them and help them figure it out
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#UNEedu
MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:40 PM EDT
@jessicawrd3
So true. Sometimes we love one activity, so we don't see that there is a better way to do it.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:40 PM EDT
It's why we do what we do!
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l_gerhard17
Oct 3 @ 8:40 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
some Ss are quick to give up & I love being able to sit down w/ them and help them figure it out
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#UNEedu
nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:41 PM EDT
@MsMeservey
@jessicawrd3
We all have our sacred cows. Hard to let them go!
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:41 PM EDT
@MsMeservey
well, I worry people often. LOL
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l_gerhard17
Oct 3 @ 8:42 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
&eventually seeing them go through the thought processes by themselves eventually
#UNEedu
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:42 PM EDT
@nataleestotz
@MsMeservey
@jessicawrd3
I love me some sacred cow tipping!!
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A1) This stage of resistance is an easy fix: ppl want to know, but don't. Logic/reason/rationale take over here FTW.
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A2) Invite them into classrooms to see it modeled, give them the support they need. Don't expect them to get it over night.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:44 PM EDT
Remember: HMW = "How Might We"
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nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A2: Sometimes just takes a little clarification & they come around. Get buy-in & ownership.
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MichaelisMath
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A2: I'm a big giant fan of modeling. Someone who can say without pressure "I'm doing this & it's working this way..." Convo time!
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A1
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There are so many possible causes of the "I don't get it", boredom, disengagement, relationships, fear of being wrong.
jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A2: Study groups, school visits, professional readings, teacher led PD, KWL chart for staff
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A2) I agree
@MsMeservey
, modeling, coaching, observing, collaborating, discussing, relating
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tedlund1
Oct 3 @ 8:45 PM EDT
PPL need to feel like they are part of the change
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A2) Start from where you agree. State the core values and allow for room for differences. Don't strip people's gears.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:46 PM EDT
A2) Start with empathy. Listen to the needs; help them address them. Create an environment/culture of empathy.
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:46 PM EDT
A2: Create safe spaces, one:one, judgment free where questions can be asked, research done together, remind about common goals
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 8:47 PM EDT
A2) In addition working to develop growth mindset with Ts, help them to understand it doesn't have to be perfect the first time..
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:47 PM EDT
@briley8557
agree! It's hard to determine causality in these cases. In fact, do we need to? Is causality important to change?
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tedlund1
Oct 3 @ 8:47 PM EDT
Also ID bottom line beliefs
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A2: Let ts decide what they need more PD on rather than telling them & having them sit through something they all ready know.
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johannaprince
Oct 3 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A2 - Begin with better questions rather than answers/solutions
https://t.co/5DjoGCosEI
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:49 PM EDT
SO MUCH THIS!
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https://t.co/H0C6YNjjMI
MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A2: Let ts decide what they need more PD on rather than telling them & having them sit through something they all ready know.
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:49 PM EDT
@tedlund1
yes! Something to build on!
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:49 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
great ideas! How might we build a culture if this?
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:49 PM EDT
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If we could ever change the culture of Sch so that Ss understood no great invention came without lots of failure first.
MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:50 PM EDT
@briley8557
Very interesting thought.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:50 PM EDT
#edchatme
#micdrop
#thewaymicdropsshouldbe
#openformicdrops
https://t.co/oBOWC0mtIt
MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A2: Let ts decide what they need more PD on rather than telling them & having them sit through something they all ready know.
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tedlund1
Oct 3 @ 8:50 PM EDT
Systems of Peer Observations
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:51 PM EDT
Why CANT we? What's stopping this? Let's push through!!!
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:49 PM EDT
#edchatme
If we could ever change the culture of Sch so that Ss understood no great invention came without lots of failure first.
MichaelisMath
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:51 PM EDT
.
@briley8557
Every year I eventually bust out a bottle of Formula 409. Do you know its story? So cool. Keep a bottle on your desk.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:52 PM EDT
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:51 PM EDT
@DrewetteCard
A constant reminder of why we're here (Ss) and maintaining steam in their best interests. Ts get bogged down fast; important..
tedlund1
Oct 3 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Schools should be places of can not can't
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:52 PM EDT
I don't know the story... but, I'll Google it!
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https://t.co/o9F2Vqv0Xk
MichaelisMath
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:51 PM EDT
.
@briley8557
Every year I eventually bust out a bottle of Formula 409. Do you know its story? So cool. Keep a bottle on your desk.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:52 PM EDT
I like 408 myself...
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https://t.co/PBctz6y6p8
MichaelisMath
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:51 PM EDT
.
@briley8557
Every year I eventually bust out a bottle of Formula 409. Do you know its story? So cool. Keep a bottle on your desk.
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A3: I think it comes more from I don't understand. if you don't comprehend, how can you like it? Especially if it is being forced
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:53 PM EDT
For both teachers, admins, and students!
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tedlund1
Oct 3 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Schools should be places of can not can't
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:53 PM EDT
So stage 1: "I don't get it." Stage 2: "I don't like it." Via
@rickmaurer2
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A3) I don't like it often = This feels hard. I'm scared I will fail.
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A3: I don't like it = it's different, new, challenging, too much work, I still don't understand, etc.
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A3: cont...you need time to get something and grow to understand and like. Can't be done overnight.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:55 PM EDT
A3) I think "i don't like it" Is about history, experience, and fear more than anything else.
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A3: Ts feel change = condemnation of their current practice. Ask what's good with what we do AND honest about what doesn't work.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
HMW build a culture where failing is looked at positively?
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#mindset
https://t.co/LokDBAzAXo
FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A3) I don't like it often = This feels hard. I'm scared I will fail.
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
A3) I don't like it = Why bother, too much work, it will hopefully just go away....
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
A3: I think about experienced Ts who have worked through so much educational change already and are resistant to proficiency-based
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
#edchatme
Child: I don't like Spinach Mother: Have you ever tried it? Child: No Mother: Ah! How do you know if you don't try!
jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
A3: When we add new "initiatives" have to be honest about time it takes. What can we take off the plate instead?
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 8:58 PM EDT
@jbailey8
so true! Change means we were wrong vs. meaning there is a better way to do it.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:58 PM EDT
#edchatme
#WickedDecentmicdrop
#PokemonMicDrop
#TeachersLoungeMicDrop
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A3: Ts feel change = condemnation of their current practice. Ask what's good with what we do AND honest about what doesn't work.
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nataleestotz
Oct 3 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Enjoying
#edchatme
but I've slipped into lurking mode, and now I need to slip out completely & head to bed.
jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 8:59 PM EDT
@jbailey8
I agree, teachers are already overwhelmed, small steps with support might be better accepted.
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 8:59 PM EDT
@DrewetteCard
@FrazierTeacher
I try to celebrate failure in the classroom, but it really needs to happen school wide
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Does this approach work? On kids, OR seasoned professionals?
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https://t.co/MMw25n1dGO
briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
#edchatme
Child: I don't like Spinach Mother: Have you ever tried it? Child: No Mother: Ah! How do you know if you don't try!
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:00 PM EDT
@jbailey8
I don't think it's about taking off the plate; but rather seeing what's in the plate differently & how it all connects.
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 9:00 PM EDT
#edchatme
Neither!
https://t.co/2pBSJYuYYz
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Does this approach work? On kids, OR seasoned professionals?
#edchatme
https://t.co/MMw25n1dGO
briley8557
Oct 3 @ 8:57 PM EDT
#edchatme
Child: I don't like Spinach Mother: Have you ever tried it? Child: No Mother: Ah! How do you know if you don't try!
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Q4) HMW turn Level 2 resistance into support? HMW move people out of “I don’t like it?”
#edchatme
(focus on ur exam…
https://t.co/lhPEdIfAVV
MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 9:02 PM EDT
A4: Give time to grow, break it into manageable chunks with support, and celebrate the growth we are making.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:02 PM EDT
#EdChatME
https://t.co/Xi87wBYXgj
FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Because of my core Ss, we are here a lot. First Attempt In Learning. So many stories out there.
https://t.co/NFt9Uyu0WT
FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Oops keep forgetting my tags.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:03 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
@jbailey8
why? If we simplify everything & make all the initiatives connect, wouldn't that be easier?
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Q4: What can agree might work? See it in action in another classroom, or visit another school. Testimonials from Ts Ss Ps
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 9:03 PM EDT
A4) I like the idea of discussing failures and success, also asking for Ss perspectives
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 9:03 PM EDT
#edchatme
Sometimes it's best just to pull the bandaid off, other times, a more gentle approach is required.
msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 9:04 PM EDT
A4: Can admin differentiate how we teach Ts about the change?
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:04 PM EDT
A4: Maybe ask the Ss what is working for them and what isn't. Maybe the change is trying to better serve them
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:05 PM EDT
If you fail while moving ahead, you are still ahead of where you were.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:05 PM EDT
A4) again: empathy. Understand the needs of those resisting; see fr their shies. Then design solutions TOGETHER
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 9:05 PM EDT
@DrewetteCard
@jbailey8
absolutely agree; had never thought of it this way before
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:06 PM EDT
A4) "I don't like it" often comes fr/ a lack of buy in/ voice in the decision. Easy way to fix that: give voice ahead of time!
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 9:07 PM EDT
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often veteran Ts believe they are changing when they are really just "fitting" what they've always done into a new vocabulary.
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:07 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
@jbailey8
my mantra last 2 years: simplify & connect. PEPG & PBE & RTI etc are all interrelated. Find the thread.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:08 PM EDT
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 9:08 PM EDT
@DrewetteCard
What happens if the ahead of time voices aren't for the upcoming change? How do we collect these voices?
FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:08 PM EDT
a4) stakeholders valuing each other's input is key as well
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:09 PM EDT
@msroundstweets
Empathy is part of a cyclical process, and unintended consequences will always occur. Keep empathizing.
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MsMeservey
Oct 3 @ 9:10 PM EDT
Love the convo, but need to dip out so that I can put the blue light away and get ready for bed.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:11 PM EDT
Last stage coming up, & it gets really hard...
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:11 PM EDT
@MsMeservey
night!!
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 9:12 PM EDT
A5: Oof, that's where I get lost. That personal hit hurts. I have to remind myself constantly that it isn't about me.
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A5) that's not how last year's teacher/school/person did it...and we did fine then...you are the problem
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 9:13 PM EDT
#edchatme
that response means you haven't taken care of job 1, relationship building. Why should Ss or Ts follow someone without relatnship
jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A5) this is personal, deep breaths, repair relationship mode and get to the bottom of the issue
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:14 PM EDT
Stage 1: "I don't get it." Stage 2: "I don't like it." Stage 3: "I don't like you." via
@rickmaurer2
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:15 PM EDT
A5: This is a problem with trust, communication and relationships.
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:15 PM EDT
A5: Maybe offer this person a voice at the table as the "chief cynic". Looking for where change takes us away from our vision
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:16 PM EDT
Left off the tag again... this may also mean we are going around the bend again
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 9:13 PM EDT
#edchatme
that response means you haven't taken care of job 1, relationship building. Why should Ss or Ts follow someone without relatnship
jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:16 PM EDT
A5: Need to find others who have a better personal connection to try the change and help shepard the resistor through.
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:17 PM EDT
A5) "I don't like you", to me, is about perception and emotion; not logic or reason. It's driven by feelings instead of facts
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FrazierTeacher
Oct 3 @ 9:18 PM EDT
Night everyone!
@DrewetteCard
-- Thanks again!! Great chat!
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jessicawrd3
Oct 3 @ 9:19 PM EDT
Goodnight all! Thanks for the great questions getting at the heart of resistance
@DrewetteCard
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DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Q6) HMW turn Level 3 resistance into support? HMW move people out of “I don’t like you?”
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(focus on ur exa…
https://t.co/SXnXLlDTuF
DrewetteCard
- Moderator
Oct 3 @ 9:20 PM EDT
@jbailey8
I like this idea of using the energies of our opponents against them!
#edujitsu
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msroundstweets
Oct 3 @ 9:21 PM EDT
Thank you for some great material to think about & bring with me to my Organizational Behavior class w/
@AnitaStewartMcC
tom night
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Oct 3 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A6)distributive leadership. Put them at the helm; help them with empathy to understand the difficulty of leadership.
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A6: Is it too dismissive to go with the "Why don't you come up with a better idea then" approach?
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briley8557
Oct 3 @ 9:23 PM EDT
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Bedtime for this old Prin, night all and thanks for making my brain work tonight a bit!
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Oct 3 @ 9:24 PM EDT
@jbailey8
it's not dismissive. It's practical and bridge building. It's showing you are willing to concede & listen.
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Oct 3 @ 9:25 PM EDT
Tonight's
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has ppl dropping out like flies!
https://t.co/e02iB0lYf4
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Oct 3 @ 9:28 PM EDT
#nextsteps
Im excited to be having a workshop day this Fri that honors Ts choice & voice. Hoping to build on/improve our
#colchat
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jbailey8
Oct 3 @ 9:29 PM EDT
Stepped away for a bit but I'm back.
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Oct 3 @ 9:30 PM EDT
TA-DA!
#EdChatME
does it again! Thanks for being a part of this space for collaborative problem-solving and support!