#ecet2 Archive

Sunday May 7, 2017
8:00 PM EDT
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:00 PM EDT
    Welcome to #ecet2 chat. Our most challenging topic yet: Questions Around 13 Reasons Why. A show we cannot get out of our heads. Guests: us!
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:01 PM EDT
    Let's start with name, location, role, and what are your experiences with bullying? #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:02 PM EDT
    Derek - English teacher - Pittsburgh - Trying to be more vigilant to protect vulnerable students. #ecet2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:02 PM EDT
    Amanda Z, upstate NY. Experiences include self, guiding/supporting students working through. VERY important topic, ready 2 learn! #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:02 PM EDT
    #ECET2 Starr from NY. HS Teacher. Mother. I was certainly the butt of many rumors as a student, but I was never... https://t.co/tabU2BLs7s
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:02 PM EDT
    Brian, Aurora IL Evening Barry & all other #ecet2 peeps Great topic for discussion
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:03 PM EDT
    Ann Rose, Instructional Coach from NY. Not so much bullied but felt invisible at times. #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:03 PM EDT
    Reahna from Jacksonville 16 sophomore future chorus teacher #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:03 PM EDT
    Welcome to #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci
  • JayBilly2 May 7 @ 8:04 PM EDT
    Good evening #ecet2 - Jay from NJ and I had to google what this show is about. #deep
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:04 PM EDT
    We're going to use the Q1/A1 format for this chat #ecet2
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:04 PM EDT
    Kaity, teacher in NJ. The story captivated me as a teen, but as a T im always worried about bullying and its impact #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:04 PM EDT
    Barry, Sup of C&I in NJ; terribly bullied in middle school #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:04 PM EDT
    Welcome to #ecet2
    In reply to @kaity_haley
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Q1 in one minute will be asked by me....#ecet2 @Arsant10 @DerekLong929
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    There's so much we don't see! Thx for Joining Kaity #ecet2
    In reply to @kaity_haley
  • JessicaUrfer May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Jessica English teacher, CO, and very interested in tonight's conversation (also can't stop talking about 13rwhy) #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Steve, Naperville, IL. Teacher and lifelong learner. I want to be better. #ecet2
  • PrincipalNyberg May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Hello from Wyoming. Interesting topic. #ecet2
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    #ecet2 I'm Sue, 3rd grade in Alaska. Seen some bad examples of bullying going on even after people leave school. Very important topic!
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Hey Jess! #ecet2
    In reply to @JessicaUrfer
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:06 PM EDT
    I was bullied...and bullied in elem schl Lost a 3rd gr schl mate when I was in 4th gr to suicide Still think about her...a lot #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:06 PM EDT
    Why do you think 13 Reasons Why has been such a educationally polarizing topic? #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:06 PM EDT
    A1: #ecet2 13RW is polarizing bc it shines a light on a very sensitive topic that we think we are doing enough... https://t.co/BZR1AEDWVi
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:06 PM EDT
    Definitely that, my friend #ecet2
    In reply to @JayBilly2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    A1. Educators know the reality of how s's understand coupled with an unwritten a responsibility to use as a learning experience. #ecet2
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    Q1: Why do you think 13 Reasons Why has been such an educationally polarizing topic? #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    Reahna from Jacksonville 16 sophomore future chorus teacher. In the past, I've experienced bullying because I'm a person who's blind. #ecet2
  • yankee_todd May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    Interesting topic! Todd, Principal of a middle school in San Antonio #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    A1: I think most adults aren't ready to deal with this topic so they want to shut it down. #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:06 PM EDT
      Why do you think 13 Reasons Why has been such a educationally polarizing topic? #ecet2
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    A1. Suicide is an important topic, but it's hard to address in the classroom. Often focus on aftermath rather than the lead-up #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    You and me both Jessica #ecet2
    • JessicaUrfer May 7 @ 8:05 PM EDT
      Jessica English teacher, CO, and very interested in tonight's conversation (also can't stop talking about 13rwhy) #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    A1: The series depicts Ts and Admins in a negative light. Makes them seem more concerned with perception than students. #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    A1: I believe that the best educators have high empathy for students. We hurt when the hurt. #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    A8: #ecet2 We need to recognize that these issues are deeper than they appear and far more serious. Real action... https://t.co/jtoMoEdvCo
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    Diana C #ecet2 soon to be teacher, bilingual teaching fellow- I want to learn strategies to stop bullying
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    And there's so many things that build to this, we need to unravel those antecedents #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    A1 As Ts we know the importance of the topic in society, but I don't feel the home & school has a way to corral it yet #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    Does that mean controversial? #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • JayBilly2 May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    A1: I think part of the reason is our society is filled with copycats and taking on a deep topic like that means people might copy #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    Why do you think that is? @spiraledu #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu, @barrykid1, @spiraledu
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    A1: Its difficult to gauge what level of exposure we want our Ss to have. All have Ss best intentions in mind #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    #ecet2 Crystal Monteiro 3rd grade teacher, RI. Acting as teacher and parent of 2 girls ages 16 and 12. Engaging topic 4 me
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    Let's be honest, it's a sensitive one and I get why. I don't necessarily thing ignoring is helpful...#ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    How do you discuss in class when Ss are at such a diverse #SEL level? #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu, @barrykid1
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    I think ignoring tough topics does much more harm. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • yankee_todd May 7 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    A1: the show touches on topics that students face. It's unlike anything that has ever been produced, watched & discussed. #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:06 PM EDT
      Why do you think 13 Reasons Why has been such a educationally polarizing topic? #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    It does, seems people either are all in or all out on this (thx for joining btw) #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    Although these topics are not new. #ecet2
    In reply to @yankee_todd
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    I think a lot of people don't really know how to properly handle these situations. or they just don't want to. #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    #ecet2 A1 Ss seem curious of the unknown
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    Often times, suicide is discussed only after it happens. Hard to find speakers who will say why they decided not to #ecet2 #semicolonproject
    In reply to @Arsant10, @barrykid1
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:11 PM EDT
    Q2 in one minute will be asked by @Arsant10....#ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:11 PM EDT
    There are some topics, regardless of #sel or developmental level, we need to talk about #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:11 PM EDT
    True. Or to even acknowledge these things exist. #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu, @barrykid1
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:11 PM EDT
    There are so many #WhatIfs that Ts/As feel we are walking on egg shells #ecet2
    In reply to @kaity_haley
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    A2: #ecet2 We need to be aware that Ss aren't always showing us the whole picture and their behaviors may be indicative of something bigger.
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    Agreed: it's honest, real, and graphically shown. Not for the feint of heart #ecet2
    In reply to @yankee_todd
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    Q2: How can your day-to-day interactions with all people be more sensitive and intuitive? #ecet2
  • yankee_todd May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    - has anything been so talked about, popular or discussed by students ? #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    A1.2: from my understanding, suicide rates didn't start really risi until The last 20 years or so. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    Hmm. #ecet2
    In reply to @yankee_todd
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    A1 students' experiences go beyond our eyes #ecet2
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    Q2: How can your day-to-day interactions with all people be more sensitive and intuitive? #ecet2
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    #ecet2 teaching empathy can be done at any level. Suicide occurs when people feel no one cares. Kindness is prevention.
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @barrykid1
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    A2 Need to approach people w/ relevancy Too many people feel invisible Everyone matters & we need to show that in our interactions #ecet2
  • yankee_todd May 7 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    - @netflix has changed the game. The shows all stopped at once created a buzz #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @netflix
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    #ecet2 Tough topic to discuss w/o parent consent and understanding. All hands on deck approach
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    A2: You need to spend time listening to students and other teachers. One of the biggest issues in the series is lack of listening. #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    A2: #ecet2 if we can listen with an open mind instead of judging first and take all the things we hear seriously,... https://t.co/gdqab87NIs
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    we need our #sel to be on point, be very surgical and precise in what we say; we need to know our Ss to have these convos #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    I totally agree with this. We need to have these conversations before a tragedy. #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu, @Arsant10, @barrykid1
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    A2: I saw a video of a teacher who made a special hand shake with each student and did it when they came in. I want to do that! #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    A2: We can show genuine concern and interest in others. Be prepared that not everyone will say I'm fine. What happens if that happens #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    A2: I watch this video at least once a month to remind me about different perspectives. https://t.co/HNGoGbRn6n #ecet2
    • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:12 PM EDT
      Q2: How can your day-to-day interactions with all people be more sensitive and intuitive? #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    When we don't shine a light on things, don't talk about things, that's when the worst is more destined to happen #ecet2 #Mindfulness
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    A2: know your Ss! Relationships are key! #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    And hindsight is 20/20. After we see all that was missed. Why? #ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @spiraledu, @barrykid1
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    1. Was planning on just listening, but I will say this. Suicide or attempted is an extremely complicated event with many causes. #ecet2
  • massignmenthelp May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    #1stchat #apchat #ecet2 #edchatri #GCLchat #ISNchat Top 5 Concerns Students Have While Writing Assignments https://t.co/QNgbrlLwjX
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    A1.3: Although there is a lot of mental health awareness out there, it is still taboo in a way especially with older generations. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    I saw this too. We should all know something pertinent and special about each S and T we connect with daily #ecet2
    In reply to @FitzgeraldMY4
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    Authentic relationships! Know them beyond school work. #ecet2
    In reply to @cmonteiro8172
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    2. When suicidal thoughts enter the picture, the person is in a place that most people can't comprehend. #ecet2
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    This is where rapport you establish the first month is harvested The more you know your Ss, the easier hard discussions are to have #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    Make a list of all your Ss, can you list one thing about them besides academics. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @FitzgeraldMY4
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    A2: Watch What is Water? to remind yourself that we need to be conscious of our defaults. https://t.co/HNGoGbRn6n #ecet2
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    Very true. When we ask how a student is we have to really want the real answer and take time to talk with them when necessary. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    https://t.co/FjHGSRR1Ay A2: Understanding, teaching and practicing empathy needs to continue in all aspects of our lives. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    this reminds me of the acceptance speech Jennifer Lawrence gave after winning the Oscar for Silver Linings Playbook #ecet2
    • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
      A1.3: Although there is a lot of mental health awareness out there, it is still taboo in a way especially with older generations. #ecet2
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    3. Most people don't have the skills to help on such an issue, nor know where to begin. #ecet2
  • NancyEPitts May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    A1 Underestimation. Ss exposed to more than Ts want to believe. Not teaching doesn't mean they don't hear about it inappropriately. #ECET2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:07 PM EDT
      Q1: Why do you think 13 Reasons Why has been such an educationally polarizing topic? #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    A1.4: There is a lot of work that needs to be done. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    Q3 will be asked in one minute by @DerekLong929 .... #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    So important! #ecet2 Be prepared for the negative.
    In reply to @FitzgeraldMY4, @barrykid1
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    Yes, empathy is teachable at all grades, & we need to let Ss know there is always someone who cares about them #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu, @barrykid1
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    I missed so much when watching the tv show -- and I knew what was going to happen -- can only imagine what I don't notice daily #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    A2 being able to accept differences! listening students with an open mind and without rejection #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    I would tweak this, and say rapport is developed daily, w/a consistent effort the first 6 weeks of school. Always learning #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    Q3: How can we teach Ss to be more empathetic towards others? #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    A3: #ecet2 Ss need to be able to understand other people's experiences. We can do role playing activities to help... https://t.co/nK8WwerSle
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    Yes. Watching it a second time proved I did as well. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    you mean like every 3 weeks list something academic, social, and neither? I was taught this by @responsiveclass #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @responsiveclass
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    I love this survivor's powerful story. https://t.co/WoIjWiabUL #ecet2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    A3. Connecting it to them. More than, this could happen to you...needs to go deeper. Hard conversations are key + the start. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    even a handshake/high five/fist bump each day, some way to say 'I hear you, I see you, you matter' #ecet2
    In reply to @FitzgeraldMY4
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    That what I teach my participants in @responsiveclass workshops. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @FitzgeraldMY4, @responsiveclass, @responsiveclass
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    A3 1st step is for Ts to model empathy The more we model the more Ss will follow suit We have seen that in other areas of edu #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    it's what I wanted when I was a S, what I want for my own children, and every person's child #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    A3: I think we can teach students to be more empathetic towards others by modeling it for them #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A3: It is important for Ss to recognize what their classmates have to bring to the table. Everyone has strengths. #ecet2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A3.5. I think we need to teach students and adults how to establish these connections. Demonstrate how one could show empathy? #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A3: Talk to them about their world and more importantly listen! #ecet2
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A3: Elevate #empathy w/fiction & by teaching Ss to listen with their whole bodies, to step into each other's stories, to understand. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    I learned this from our friend Sarah Fillion, oh, about 8 years ago! #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @responsiveclass
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A2: Be Kind; Everyone You Meet is Fighting a Hard Battle #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    Every child is someone's baby. So important to remember. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    I now do this w/my T staff #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @responsiveclass
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    thank you Brian! #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    Such a great activity! #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @FitzgeraldMY4, @responsiveclass
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    and ppl are sending you the best they have; they're not keeping the better kid at home #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    And sometimes Ts are the bullies. Ask my son Zachary. #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    A2: Make them feel comfortable in your presence. You don't always need to say something to be sensitive and intuitive. #ecet2
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    A3: We can start by modeling. In 6th gr SS we discuss so many hard topics and I always share my thoughts and ask for theirs #ecet2
  • StefOlbrys May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    A3 Meet others where they are at. #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    Put teaching and modeling empathy at the forefront #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    LOVE THIS!! #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @BKd204Sci, @spiraledu
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    I once had a very hard year, but I felt I couldn't let anyone know #ecet2 put on a happy mask. Hurt people didn't know it was fake
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @Arsant10, @barrykid1
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    And the one's who bully & feel invisible we need to see in that light so we can make a diff in their lives! #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @barrykid1, @spiraledu
  • briandurgin May 7 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    A3: Finding ways that show challenges that everyone may face. Highlight how Ss are more similar than different. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    If I don't do this, how can I model it, expect it from my staff? #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @responsiveclass
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    A3b: We teach the SOLER model from @flipflippen & Capturing Kids Hearts. We can't leave anything to chance; we must teach #listening. #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    A3: There are some powerful #TED talks connected to empathy. Watch and discuss. https://t.co/ywxtX0XvO6 #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:23 PM EDT
    Q4 will be asked in one minute by me...#ecet2
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:23 PM EDT
    Its just the saying "be kind to unkind people, they need it the most." Even the most unruly students may just need us #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:23 PM EDT
    I've had this too. @Jonharper70bd got it out of me in his recent @BAMRadioNetwork podcast #ecet2
    In reply to @spiraledu, @Chemteach201, @Arsant10, @Jonharper70bd, @BAMRadioNetwork
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:23 PM EDT
    Hey #ecet2 Sorry I'm late! Was having issues getting something done for class. Great discussion here!
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:23 PM EDT
    A3: We need to teach others to accept differences and recognize we all belong. Ts MUST model this. Ss are always watching. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:23 PM EDT
    glad you're here Miss Rosy! #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    Q4 Why do you think there's a mentality that bullying happens, and we just need to accept that it's part of school culture? #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    A4: #ecet2 it is happening and it's not normal. We have to do better for our kids and not accept that kids are... https://t.co/YOMROqnAFP
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    Well first I would like to thank you for making this statement. *recieves standing ovation from my fans* #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:16 PM EDT
      this reminds me of the acceptance speech Jennifer Lawrence gave after winning the Oscar for Silver Linings Playbook #ecet2
      • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:15 PM EDT
        A1.3: Although there is a lot of mental health awareness out there, it is still taboo in a way especially with older generations. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    Welcome to #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    Well, I like awesome! #ecet2
    In reply to @CHitch94, @historycomics, @jacq_mccarthy, @ECET2NJPA, @liz1544, @SteveFigurelli, @SchleiderJustin, @SeanAThom, @MsGrotrian, @AJBianco, @techcoachz, @bohndrake, @RACzyz, @MathDenisNJ
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    I hate that I'm late! But I will definitely scroll through what I missed later on! #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • ChrisQuinn64 May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    Join me on Wed. at 7:30 pm EST for the NEW #edumoves ! Looking back at our school year. #ecet2 #tlap #edchat #leadupchat #LearnLAP #T2T #pbl
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    A4. Laxidasical b/c it has happened to everyone. Not sure what to do. Fear of reparations from handling it. Totally unaware (big prob)#ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    I'm like 5 minutes behind, so....there's that #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    A5. Similar-still have sports, school, educators. Different w/ social media, more pressure in all directions, more access to info. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    A4: Adults make excuses for kids' bad behavior bc they might not want to deal with it. #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
      Q4 Why do you think there's a mentality that bullying happens, and we just need to accept that it's part of school culture? #ecet2
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    Q4: Why do you think there's a mentality that bullying happens, and we just need to accept that it's part of school culture? #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    Thanks! I've been wanting to discuss this for some time now! Glad you all are doing this! #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    there's such a consistency in our discounting approach: it happens everywhere, so can it be that bad? #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    A4: Now more than ever, not accepting bullying is under attack. #ecet2
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    A4 IBecause a large portion of society was bullied in school Even 1 incident affects a person The grand scope of bullying is huge #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    A4: #ecet2 We absolutely can't be complicit on any level when kids say or do mean things to other kids. If we see... https://t.co/goQaCSdGar
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    A4: bullying has always been there, just like poverty or homelessness but that doesn't mean we don't try to help #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    Thanks! #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    it's the next step in connecting the whole child philosophy to the whole teacher philosophy #ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @spiraledu, @Arsant10
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    Ts can be the biggest bystanders. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    We have a @voxer group we talk about this show and topic daily #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke, @Arsant10, @voxer
  • seanrussell311 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    A4. Because bullying is a huge, multifaceted issue that is really, really hard to eliminate. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    Absolutely! #ecet2
    • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:26 PM EDT
      A4: bullying has always been there, just like poverty or homelessness but that doesn't mean we don't try to help #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    A4: I know this might have been true once, but I think this is the exception and not the norm today. #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:24 PM EDT
      Q4 Why do you think there's a mentality that bullying happens, and we just need to accept that it's part of school culture? #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    A4: Addressing bullying takes hard work, but there aren't a lot of people who want to take the time to address it. #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    A4 1. I think b/c it has that "cry wolf" aspect to it so I don't think it's taken as seriously as it should #ecet2
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    A4: So many of us experienced bullying so it's often seen as a right of passage. But we always should want better for the next gen. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    Still talking about it. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @rosy_burke, @voxer
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    A4 not knowing how to face/stop bullying, so it is easier to accept it that deal with it #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:28 PM EDT
    A4: people are used to bullying, and it has become classified as a normal in school culture. However, it should not be normal. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:28 PM EDT
    Steve, I've seen/heard it in each place I've worked, and each district I've presented in. It's as real as the fabric in our shirt #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:28 PM EDT
    When society has no idea how to stop something we often just accept it as reality w/little hope of change #Unfortunate #ecet2
    In reply to @anaidjac
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:28 PM EDT
    A4 2. sadly, it really is just accepted. I experienced it as an adult in a school! It's grossly become "normal" in some schools #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:28 PM EDT
    Society, entertainment, and media have put a spotlight on unacceptable behavior... making it "the norm" Our kids are watching.#ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:29 PM EDT
    Q5 will be asked in one minute by @Arsant10 ...#ecet2
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:29 PM EDT
    I agree! Teachers need to develop a zero tolerance policy for teasing. #ecet2
    In reply to @mssackstein
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:29 PM EDT
    THERE: so easy to discount b/c topic is so huge, and addressing something head on is dangerous professionally #ecet2
    In reply to @JessicaUrfer
  • karsner May 7 @ 8:29 PM EDT
    #ecet2 A3, every mo eff ning start with a LG group community building activity. Then acknowledge every time Ss used the community skill.
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    A5: #ecet2 Kids have sadly always been cruel, but now they are more mature earlier and have a greater capacity to be mean without recourse
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Q5: How are the culture and experiences for Ss the same and different from when you were in HS? Why? #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    I've also seen Ts bully each other, then talk about character and morals. We need to reflect on ourselves #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    What if the teacher participates? #ecet2
    In reply to @FitzgeraldMY4, @mssackstein
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Definitely. Ts need to make a professional decision when they see it crossing a line. #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    that is the reality of working with people, of any age. #ecet2
    In reply to @seanrussell311
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Because it takes more than one person and that seems overwhelming to one. Need to encourage multi ppl to take a stand #ecet2
    In reply to @anaidjac
  • NancyEPitts May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    A4 The bootstrap mentality. Buck up and be strong. It will make you better. Our own past experiences. #ECET2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:25 PM EDT
      Q4: Why do you think there's a mentality that bullying happens, and we just need to accept that it's part of school culture? #ecet2
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    Q5: How are the culture and experiences for Ss the same and different from when you were in HS? Why? #ecet2
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    My pleasure. I think he'd be a powerful speaker to bring to our HS school family. #ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    Teachers have to remember that they are the example. This always has to be in the back of our minds #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    That is the sad truth #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    A4 A lot of times, students do things without realizing their broader impact #ecet2
    In reply to @ECET2natl
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    Yes. Also, I dealt with it, and I GOT THROUGH IT. #ecet2
    In reply to @NancyEPitts
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    I don't think we're talking perfection, we do look for the good, but if bullying was not as major an issue, why is #sel so important? #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    A5: High school Ss lack confidence, so they look for reassurance by putting others down. It takes a school culture shift. #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    A5: #ecet2 it was the norm to spread rumors in hs when I was a kid or to be at the heart of them. I feel like it... https://t.co/ewMdA0IdkK
  • yankee_todd May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    A5: social media & cell phones have changed the game - both 4 good & bad. I faced peer pressure but SS today face it 24/7. #ecet2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
      Q5: How are the culture and experiences for Ss the same and different from when you were in HS? Why? #ecet2
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    It's really tricky when the teacher exhibits bullying behaviors. How do we change that? What do we tell Ss to do? #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @mssackstein
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    A5: Read 13RW as a teen and it became my fav. However today social media and constant connection means Ss often can't get away #ecet2
  • mrterborg May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    It still exists. From staff to students. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @rechargeedu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    I know some Ts who are the biggest bullies in the school. #ecet2
    • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
      Teachers have to remember that they are the example. This always has to be in the back of our minds #ecet2
      In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10
  • piptinning May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    "Parenting for a Peaceful World" is a great book that looks at how we can raise children to treat others with respect. #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    We teach the difference between teasing and taunting. I think when there is clear definitions/action steps, that helps #ecet2
    In reply to @FitzgeraldMY4, @mssackstein
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    it's so sad. Let's be honest: everyone knows who they are, too #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    I would say it's much harder. Ss have both an in person and social persona to upkeep. #ecet2 A5
    In reply to @ECET2natl
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    What do we do when we witness it? #ecet2
    • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:32 PM EDT
      It's really tricky when the teacher exhibits bullying behaviors. How do we change that? What do we tell Ss to do? #ecet2
      In reply to @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @mssackstein
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    A5: Experiences were similar but we didn't have the means for immediate response through tech. Reflection was a part of the process #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    I can hear my grandmother saying 'oy vey'. Of this I believe #ecet2
    In reply to @spEDTECHer, @FitzgeraldMY4
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    A5: I think the culture for students is becoming more and more performance based than it used to be #ecet2
  • johnEverFi May 7 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    A4 teaching Ss to stand up to bullies & practice empathy leads to positive conflict. Too many Tt are afraid of conflict in any form. #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    The sad thing is that (as we saw in the series), the chain of command doesn't always want to deal with it. #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    It seems like they are the last to know! #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    We need to talk about why to live not what happens if you die or the way people might feel when you're gone #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @barrykid1, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    I sometimes think a lot of that is this dehumanizing of things-kids don't realize what's "real" as in feelings, actions etc #ecet2
    In reply to @mssackstein
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Talk about your courageous conversation. If we adopt the belief that what we permit we promote, there's no other way but address it. #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    A5 My gen: bullied more about ability & socioeconomic status Today's gen: Anything diff about you is fair game #ecet2
  • JayBilly2 May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    A5: I'm much older but bullying and hazing were common place and never discussed when I was in school. I think many didn't get it. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    this is so well said -- and I wonder the correlation between fear of failure and this #ecet2
    • johnEverFi May 7 @ 8:33 PM EDT
      A4 teaching Ss to stand up to bullies & practice empathy leads to positive conflict. Too many Tt are afraid of conflict in any form. #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Also sad but true #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Q6 will be asked in one minute by @DerekLong929 ....#ecet2
  • JayBilly2 May 7 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    This is a great way to think about it #ecet2
    • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:34 PM EDT
      Talk about your courageous conversation. If we adopt the belief that what we permit we promote, there's no other way but address it. #ecet2
      In reply to @Arsant10
  • ChristinaMLuce May 7 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Ts, admin too...your words and actions need to match. If you say #otherpeoplematter your actions better back that up. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    are they the last, or are they placated b/c it's an easier thing to do? #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Sometimes admins can be really big bullies as well. Most schools have a complaint process through ethics commission #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • NancyEPitts May 7 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    A5 D: Ss more connected in ways adults can't see. More exposed to adult themes S: Puberty, drama, trying to fit in. #ECET2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
      Q5: How are the culture and experiences for Ss the same and different from when you were in HS? Why? #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    Q6: What role does social media play in the lives of Ss? #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    A6: #ecet2 SM amplifies the impact of bullying in that it spreads much faster. Movies like the Duff show that first hand
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    the challenge we face is making sure it is not romanticized; if they didn't like you before...#ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    How about a Conversation on how to handle the way people feel while you are alive so so when you feel sad you can cope properly #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10, @barrykid1, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    I do think we need to separate suicide from some other things in this chat. Mental illness is complex, no one cause of suicide. #ecet2
  • BarbaraGruener May 7 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    Wait, but we as school counselors are trained to ask questions. Someone needs to have a courageous conversation with that SC! #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @spEDTECHer, @FitzgeraldMY4
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    A6: #ecet2 SM also allows for more anonymity in how the bullying happens and outside of the view of what adults see
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    A5 Nowadays It got easier to communicate but also to bully through Social media. #ecet2
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    A6 In many ways social media is their lives...its where they live #ecet2
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Q6: What role does social media play in the lives of Ss? #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Kids are ALWAYS watching/listening. I've had kids ask me/tell me things they've noticed Ts treating other Ts negatively #ecet2
    • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:31 PM EDT
      Teachers have to remember that they are the example. This always has to be in the back of our minds #ecet2
      In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    feel good about this; this is still work in progress: just the divide between how schools are handling this shows we have ways to go #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    A6: I think social media often amplifies bullying, but it also cannot discount the friendships it forms or maintains #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    A6: Most Ss don't realize that SM is forever and as far reaching as it is. Ss may not be ready, developmentally to grasp that. #ecet2
  • PrincipalNyberg May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Don't forget about #WyoEdChat 8:00pm MST. Hope to see you there. #wischat #ecet2 #21stedchat #iaedchat #kidsdeserveit #oklaed #txeduchat
  • spiraledu May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    Exactly! It is hard when they see the caring that happens after a suicide. That might be a factor that causes it #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    A6: Social media is how Ss connect during and outside of school. It provides a level of anonymity that is dangerous. #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    I was actually thinking about this. like what do t's think now that they see school culture from a s's perspective? #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    amen, couldn't agree more: this requires understanding who we are, and a desire to always be better #ecet2
    In reply to @ChristinaMLuce, @Arsant10
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    A6: For many Ss SM is life. As Ts we need to continue to show Ss their true value, not one based on likes amd followers #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    Or the reassurance they are looking for comes in the form of "likes" 5min of fame etc and they strive to get that over & over #ecet2
    In reply to @DerekLong929
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    I am nodding my head. You got it. #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • seanrussell311 May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    A5. I have seen some amazingly devious forms of bullying over the last few years. It's appalling. #ecet2
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    Imagine being a teenager & having to deal with all of that on social media too. #ecet2. It is WAY harder than when I grew up. A6
  • JasonKohls May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    A6. It is integrated, a part of their everyday lives. That is why we can't just back away & say it does not concern us. #ecet2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
      Q6: What role does social media play in the lives of Ss? #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    The result of how Hannah was treated does not need to end in suicide. 13RW made us see the result of our actions. #ecet2
    In reply to @jasonfalconio
  • piptinning May 7 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    A6 Social media is huge in the lives of ss. It needs to be a collective effort to teach them how to use it responsibly and ethically. #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    That's exactly what I was going to say. There's no escaping it. And it's out there for the whole world #ecet2
    In reply to @yankee_todd
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    these topics become major areas of focus when ppl see the value in it, i.e., high profile situations: Clementi, Lewinsky #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    I think that contributes a whole lot! #ecet2
    In reply to @yankee_todd
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    coach them to grow or go, but school needs to be the safe haven #ecet2
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @spEDTECHer, @FitzgeraldMY4
  • seanrussell311 May 7 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    A5. The proliferation of tech and social media has only given bullys more options, in my humble opinion. #ecet2
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    Teenagers r biologically moving away from home, finding like groups, pushing independence, & doing risky things. SM new but this not. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    A6: Bullies can remain anonymous with SM. They can be cowards. It takes a little more guts to bully someone face to face. #ecet2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
      Q6: What role does social media play in the lives of Ss? #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    What makes it even trickier is that Ts tend to not want to address other Ts when they notice negativity yet we ask Ss to. #ecet2
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @mssackstein
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    is it done in a meaningful way, or does it sound like Charlie Brown's teacher? #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    Q7 will be asked in one minute by me....#ecet2
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    Very true! While SM can help some relationships, it also can destroy real life relationships. it is risky #ecet2
    In reply to @jasonfalconio
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    A6: It's a big part of their daily routine. Good and bad. How do we teach balance and how do we support parents who agree ?#ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    that is interesting: would you expand on this? #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • piptinning May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    A6 part of the problem is that adults often can't use soc med for good. How can we expect our kids to be able to constantly? #ecet2
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    Yes, but in real life, suicide is complicated and hard to pin on a reason why. #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    And we know that works-confronting, addressing, changing yet we as adults struggle with our own peers to do just that #ecet2
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @Arsant10, @FitzgeraldMY4, @mssackstein
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    A7: #ecet2 Schools need to be aware first and then make inroads to protect Ss who are more susceptible to bullying
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    I feared for the future of my own children in school #ecet2
    In reply to @kaity_haley, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    Absolutely. #ecet2 And young kids may not see the finality of it.
    In reply to @jasonfalconio
  • mrterborg May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    b/c staff, teachers, and students aren't taught how to handle it. Need to work with both victims. (Bully is/can be a victim too) #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    I've noticed that recently too #ecet2
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    Most ignore or make excuses. #ecet2
    In reply to @mssackstein
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    Continues with or without you. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    A6 Ss are affected by Sm every day. they don't know what to do without it. we need to find the way to help them to use it mindfully #ecet2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    A7. Demonstrates schools are paying attention to all media + are willing and have responded; it is essential to focus the whole child.#ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    w/C&I now in my title, I look to embed #sel #empathy in all curriculum, as I did in my lesson plans #ecet2
    In reply to @mrterborg
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    A5: I think it is different. I mean it's the same culture but social media is a big factor of life now. #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    A6 Social Media is how Ss think and want to get noticed. That's where a lot of status comes from too #ecet2
  • mssackstein May 7 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A7: #ecet2 it's our job to be vigilant and connect with Ss in a way that works for them. We must get through at all costs
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    Ts aren't trained to handle complex mental health issues we are dealing with more and more Ss who need professional help with less #ecet2
  • NancyEPitts May 7 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A6 Everything! Connected 24/7. Easy to say things they wouldn't in person. They feel closer but anonymous at the same time. #ECET2
    • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:37 PM EDT
      Q6: What role does social media play in the lives of Ss? #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    Quick example. My twins love sports. They are not athletic. Group of parents knowing who we are froze them out of local sports #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:41 PM EDT
      that is interesting: would you expand on this? #ecet2
      In reply to @rechargeedu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    this is true of anything: if we quit a job, stand still, life will go on, but everyone has an opportunity to matter to someone #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    that. is. disgusting. #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    Agreed. The pain they are in is overwhelming & reasoning it out makes sense to them. #ecet2
    • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:42 PM EDT
      Absolutely. #ecet2 And young kids may not see the finality of it.
      In reply to @jasonfalconio
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    And that's also why we can't just ban it either but rather work with it and Ss #ecet2
    In reply to @JasonKohls
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A7: Use as a tool for conversations, between all stakeholders. Continue to teach empathy and help Ss find self worth in themselves #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    Amen: and SM is as real as popularity and status. What's more real is what you do, not what you say you are #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    Something to be said for parents who are knowledgeable, open &understanding of the realities and accept their students as they are. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @kaity_haley, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    when it's required, it's like checking a box; when it's important, we do it b/c we should. Mindsets need to shift #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    A7: As a @responsiveclass consultant, these skills are VITAL!! #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    It can be emotionally exhausted even if you aren't bullied at school. cool. You never know what's happening at home #ecet2
    In reply to @kaity_haley, @barrykid1, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    Q8 will be asked in one minute by @Arsant10 ....#ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    and themselves, and their reality, and....#ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @kaity_haley, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @spiraledu
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    So important. The role we play is much more than just a "teacher." #ecet2
    • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:44 PM EDT
      Ts aren't trained to handle complex mental health issues we are dealing with more and more Ss who need professional help with less #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    Q8: How/What can we learn from 13 Reasons Why? #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    Sometimes we don't even want to share that part with the world; we fear being judged or misunderstood. #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @kaity_haley, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    A7: I think schools should work hard to put positive influences on social media #ecet2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    A8. It is OK to have challenging conversations about topics that aren't necessarily sexy! Conversations should happen NOW not after. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    forgiveness is essential; they might not get it, but we don't have to live at their level. Otherwise they rent space in our head #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    Q8: How/What can we learn from 13 Reasons Why? #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    A8: SOOO MUCH. We have to be more aware, ask tough Qs, be prepared for the worst. #ecet2
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    this might be the fastest hour the chat has ever had #ecet2 @Arsant10 @DerekLong929
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    A8 That little things do matter & can build up. You can't assume your interaction w/others is the only interactions that person has #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    A8: We need to get to know each of our Ss, and we need to listen to them. Make time for them. Respect and value them. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    Just thinking the same thing!! #ecet2
  • timneedles May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    A7: Positives from #13ReasonsWhy are the conversations w/ students on the impact of our actions, having empathy & resources for help #ecet2
  • piptinning May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    I think we are being expected to take this role on to a greater extent due to cuts in mental health. In NZ anyway. #ecet2
    In reply to @jasonfalconio
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    A8: A lot! We have to be prepared to have the hard conversations. It's part of our job #ecet2
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    A8 knowing that our students are not only what we see in our classroom. #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    This #ecet2 chat is not easy for the parent side of me, but I agree that it is essential. We need to make the most of a flawed world.
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
      forgiveness is essential; they might not get it, but we don't have to live at their level. Otherwise they rent space in our head #ecet2
      In reply to @rechargeedu
  • mgrosstaylor May 7 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    💪🏾We're in the home stretch! Are you FINISHING STRONG for your Ss?Join me MONDAY on #NVedchat 🏃🏽‍♀️💨 #mnlead #wischat #nbtchat #ecet2
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    When you really listen, you will be shocked by what they say. Key is don't stop listening and bring in MH experts. #ecet2
    • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
      A8: SOOO MUCH. We have to be more aware, ask tough Qs, be prepared for the worst. #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    A8 I think it's easy to assume your part "isn't that bad" but you never know what someone is truly going through. #ecet2
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    A6: social media is a part of daily life now. It can have a positive or negative affect depending on who you surround yourself with. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    I think being prepared will help a lot! Expect the unexpected! #ecet2
    In reply to @FitzgeraldMY4
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    I think @Chemteach201 and @ImTheRealReRe need to co-mod an #ecet2 chat. I know I look fwd to both your perspectives!
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @spiraledu, @Chemteach201, @ImTheRealReRe
  • piptinning May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    I was mega late bc I was teaching. I'm really sorry I missed most of this chat. It looked really worthwhile. Thanks!! #ecet2
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    A8 Be need to be willing to have difficult conversations at home & classroom #ecet2
  • EduGladiators May 7 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    🙋🏼 Want more Dunk Tank? Join #EduGladiators LIVE MONDAY w/@RebeccaCoda @RickJetter 🖥https://t.co/a4RMlKkd3x #ecet2 #Mnlead #RJLeagueChat
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Amen, my friend, amen. #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Glad you were here. #ecet2
    In reply to @piptinning
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    I've done the same. When they know you've handled real adversity you become real to them #ecet2
    In reply to @kaity_haley, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Q8 My daughter watched and walked away feeling like she wanted to go the extra mile to make her peers feel special & worthy. #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Sounds good!! #ecet2 Let's book them!!
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Chemteach201, @ImTheRealReRe, @spiraledu
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Excellent point! There is more to our Ss than what we see from 8-3 See them for who they are, not who we think they are #ecet2
    In reply to @anaidjac
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Thanks. I think we should too. I don't even know what we would talk about LOL. #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Chemteach201, @Arsant10, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    Q9 will be asked in one minute by @DerekLong929 .... #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    I hope Ss have this reaction. #ecet2
    In reply to @cmonteiro8172
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    that's for you two to figure out and tell us! #ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Chemteach201, @Arsant10, @spiraledu
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    That's. Awesome. #ecet2
    • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:52 PM EDT
      Q8 My daughter watched and walked away feeling like she wanted to go the extra mile to make her peers feel special & worthy. #ecet2
  • piptinning May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    Time zones make it a little difficult. However, the #ecet2 are always great when I can make them!
    In reply to @Arsant10
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    A8 I also think we as adults need to realize this actually happens and on a daily basis no less. This is real life to a lot of kids #ecet2
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    A8: We all have a story. We all deserve a chance. We all have a purpose. #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    Q9: What are your key takeaways from this chat? #ecet2
  • spEDTECHer May 7 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    Build trust. Take time to chat w Ss. Ss can sense authenticity. #ecet2
    In reply to @BKd204Sci, @anaidjac
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    Q9: What are your key takeaways from this chat? #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    Q8 The lesson is to listen and observe closely as Ts. Address what seems unsettling #ecet2
  • timneedles May 7 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A8 I think watching #13ReasonsWhy teaches us to all be more considerate of one another, you never know what someone's going through #ecet2
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A9: Talk and talk some more. Confront the tough things and change the culture whenever possible. Don't give up! #ecet2
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    Thanks for participating in our #ecet2 chat tonight on this very important topic
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    Make sure to continue the conversations by following people you met tonight. #ecet2
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    This is our responsibility as both teachers and members of the human race. Too preachy? #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    I loved their interplay. So witty, so smart. #ecet2
    In reply to @timneedles
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    just right, as Goldilocks would say #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • FitzgeraldMY4 May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A9: The hardest situations will happen in my classroom, its not just on TV. It is my job to be my students advocate and example #ecet2
  • rosy_burke May 7 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    So glad this chat happened and that I knew about it! Great conversations and thoughts! #ecet2
    In reply to @ECET2natl
  • jasonfalconio May 7 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    That T here are focusing on this for the benefit of our Ss. That being kind and helping Ss find value in themselves is vital. #ecet2 a9
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    and I read the 20th anniversary with the alternate ending....#ecet2
    In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    You helped make it powerful! Glad you were here! #ecet2
    In reply to @rosy_burke, @ECET2natl
  • anaidjac May 7 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    A9 take our time to get to know our Ss, build trust ! don't assume and don't give up on doing what it is right for Ss #ecet2
  • cmonteiro8172 May 7 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    Q8 Don't be afraid to talk to Ss. Most are hoping someone notices. #ecet2
  • DerekLong929 May 7 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    Next week #ecet2 welcomes in @classtechtips
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    I cannot tell you how often I preach this same thing and see this same result! #ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @ImTheRealReRe, @Arsant10, @spiraledu
  • rechargeedu May 7 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    Please know that I am not complaining. I take it all in as a learning experience. #ecet2
    • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:49 PM EDT
      forgiveness is essential; they might not get it, but we don't have to live at their level. Otherwise they rent space in our head #ecet2
      In reply to @rechargeedu
  • ECET2natl May 7 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    Let's continue to support each other, so we can better support our kids. #ecet2 This weekend #ecet2ok @ECET2OK has their convening #shoutout
  • BKd204Sci May 7 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    A9 There a many Ts that can be great models for their peers & advocates for their Ss This has been a powerful chat #ecet2
  • kaity_haley May 7 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    A9: If it can open such rich conversation, its worth watching and learning from! #ecet2
  • Chemteach201 May 7 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    Thank you @barrykid1 @Arsant10 @DerekLong929 and all #ecet2 participants for tonights conversations. Tough but forward thinking + on point!
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    we're talking and making good conversation. We'll keep these convos going, too! #ecet2
    In reply to @rechargeedu
  • ImTheRealReRe May 7 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    End it was crazy because Netflix had the audio description and it was describing everything it was just not cool #ecet2
    In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10, @Chemteach201, @spiraledu
  • Arsant10 May 7 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    Thanks for being here! See you soon! #ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @barrykid1, @DerekLong929
  • barrykid1 May 7 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    now go get your prep work on for a future chat with @ImTheRealReRe #ecet2
    In reply to @Chemteach201, @Arsant10, @DerekLong929, @ImTheRealReRe