#LDchat Archive

Understood holds this weekly Twitter chat that aims to keep the momentum going and raise awareness of learning and attention issues. Follow along with hashtag #LDCHAT and follow users @understoodchats & @understoodorg. Experts will be available to answer your questions and concerns and share resources from Understood.org.

Wednesday August 8, 2018
12:00 PM EDT

  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:00 PM EDT
    LIVE NOW Welcome to today's #ldchat! This is Dan with the Understood team. We're joined today by psychologist and #ADHD specialist @DrSharonSaline to discuss her 5 C's of ADHD parenting.
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:00 PM EDT
    Who's with us today? #ADHD #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    I'm very excited to be here. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Thanks for joining! Don't forget to use #ldchat with all of your tweets so everyone can see.
    In reply to @TheLadyGes
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:02 PM EDT
    Hi #LDchat, long time no tweet. Kerri, blogger, adult with #ADHD + learning issues.
  • ItzzName Aug 8 @ 12:03 PM EDT
    Hi #LDchat, long time no tweet. Kerri, blogger, adult with #ADHD + learning issues.
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:03 PM EDT
    We'll begin in just a few minutes... #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:03 PM EDT
    Welcome to those who've arrived. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:05 PM EDT
    Let's get started! This will be a "super-sized" chat running until 12:45pm ET. #ADHD #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:05 PM EDT
    We'll use the Q1, Q2… format for questions. Please use the A1, A2… format for answers. #ADHD #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    First question coming up... #ADHD #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    Q1. The first "C" is for self-control. What are some ways you manage your own feelings so you can teach your child or student with #ADHD to do the same? #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Aug 8 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    Jenn here in Iowa, enjoying the last of summer break! #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    Just in time for the first question! Great to have you, Jenn! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    Throwback to the 1h a week chats! #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:07 PM EDT
    Kerri!! So glad to have you back! #ldchat
    In reply to @kerriYWG
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    A1. From the #adultADHD perspective: grounding exercises (identifying items for each colour of the rainbow), writing, taking a mental “step back” from the situation. #LDchat
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    Thanks!! #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodJennO Aug 8 @ 12:10 PM EDT
    A1: With my children, we practice mindfulness techniques, such as breathing, when they lose control of their emotions. #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:10 PM EDT
    It's normal to get frustrated. Follow these steps to cool down. #ADHD #ldchat https://t.co/1OFzCuEYsV
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:11 PM EDT
    That sounds great Jenn. #ldchat
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:11 PM EDT
    Highly recommend the @Smiling_Mind app for working on #mindfulness for all ages. #LDchat #adhd
    • UnderstoodJennO Aug 8 @ 12:10 PM EDT
      A1: With my children, we practice mindfulness techniques, such as breathing, when they lose control of their emotions. #LDchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:12 PM EDT
    Sounds good too Kerri. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:12 PM EDT
    When your child has a learning or attention issue, your worries may be different or more involved. #ADHD #ldchat https://t.co/T1YKxjv4dR
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:13 PM EDT
    Many parents of kids with ADHD or people living with ADHD get easily frustrated. It's good to have tools on hand. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:13 PM EDT
    What are some things you'd recommend? #ADHD #ldchat
    In reply to @DrSharonSaline
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:14 PM EDT
    My 5C's approach helps families living with ADHD #reduce conflict and #nurture closeness. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:14 PM EDT
    Let's move onto Q2... #ADHD #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Aug 8 @ 12:15 PM EDT
    Tell me about it! My oldest, now 7, likely has ADHD-inattentive and I feel like we live in Groundhog Day, with all the repetition going on. #ldchat
    In reply to @DrSharonSaline
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:15 PM EDT
    Q2. The second "C" is for compassion. Why is it important to meet a child with #ADHD where she is, and not where others expect her to be? #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:15 PM EDT
    I'm sorry. I have several answers to Q1 but didn't see it in the way I expected it. #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:15 PM EDT
    The first C is for self-control. #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:16 PM EDT
    A1. The more things get ratcheted up, no one can manage anything. Learn when you’re becoming triggered so you can slow things down. #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:17 PM EDT
    Start with noticing what’s happening in your body. Is you heart beating faster, are you perspiring, are you feeling out of breath? #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:18 PM EDT
    Acknowledging and valuing your child's feelings is a powerful way to connect. #ADHD #ldchat https://t.co/JegCYkQ3UO
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:18 PM EDT
    Once you've identified your signals, use breathing techniques or even go to the bathroom to collect yourself if you have to - #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:20 PM EDT
    Sorry about that. Now I'm ready for Q2 #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Aug 8 @ 12:21 PM EDT
    A2: Asking a child to be where others are is not fair to the child. It's not like children intentionally want to have less success and rate of growth. #LDchat
  • wcvirgo Aug 8 @ 12:22 PM EDT
    It is true but when you learn how you can handle this is more easy to have more patience #LDchat
    In reply to @DrSharonSaline
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:22 PM EDT
    When you show a child you understand and respect her needs, you're helping her stay motivated and gain self-esteem. #ADHD #ldchat https://t.co/lU1hxDZCNi
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:22 PM EDT
    Whoops, typical ADHDer, got distracted by an email seeking a dance instructor (not me haha). I am back #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    Q3 is coming up... #ADHD #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    Compassion: It's important to meet a child with #ADHD where she is, and not where others expect her to be. #ldchat
  • EstherRitva Aug 8 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    A2. Meeting students where they're at increases opportunities to be successful and make meaningful, incremental growth. Progress comes from leveraging strengths, setting appropriate goals, and monitoring progress #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    Kids with ADHD experience frequent criticism about how they’ve missed the mark and carry around #shame about disappointing others. #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    People with #ADHD are trying to do the best they can while living with significant executive functioning challenges. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    Q3. The third "C" is for collaboration. How can parents, teachers and the child work together to find solutions to her daily challenges with #ADHD? #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    Kids with #ADHD need to feel like their parents accept them for who they are to build #self-esteem and to learn about #love. #ldchat
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    A2. Diagnosed at 21, I spent the first two decades of my life feeling like I wasn’t “keeping up” to everyone else, even though I was told I was “smart”. Didn’t feel like it! Understanding my #ADHD + why I felt like I did would have been immeasurably helpful. #LDchat
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:25 PM EDT
    A2. If you start from where I am, instead of where I “should be”, we’ll BOTH have more success and less frustration. #adhd #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:26 PM EDT
    You may not be on the same page as your partner on a particular subject, but it's important to be on the same team. #ADHD #ldchat https://t.co/rADiK3zkD1
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:26 PM EDT
    A3 Collaboration: Parents, teachers & the child w/ #ADHD can work together to find solutions to daily challenges. #ldchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    A3: Compassion: Including the kids' opinions in conversations about how to address problems ensures their buy-in. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Aug 8 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    A3: This is SO IMPORTANT. Working as a team is essential to support children. Meet with teachers, link school plans and home plans for structure and stability, have children give input in their plans for ownership. #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    It's so important to allow the child to have a voice. #ADHD #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO
  • kerriYWG Aug 8 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    A3. Kids know what they need, or can figure it out with guidance. They can tell you if they just don’t get it, or if they simply need more time to accomplish tasks. Offering choices for solutions may help them have less resentment of being different. #LDchat
  • DrSharonSaline Aug 8 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    A3 Genuine brainstorming, listening to ideas & finding sensible solutions to you & your child's #ADHD means more cooperation. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    A parent communicating her concerns with the child's teacher early can sometimes head off bigger problems. #ADHD #ldchat https://t.co/tWTSdgWdvy
  • UnderstoodOrg Aug 8 @ 12:29 PM EDT
    If you're just joining us, this chat will run until 12:45pm ET. Two more questions to go… #ADHD #ldchat