#mschat Archive

A chat that offers middle school teachers a chance to have a collaborative discussion about a different topic each week. Our topics change from week to week, ranging from Common Core State Standards to Character Education. During the chat, participants exchanges ideas and resources. The chat group ranges in size each week from 10 to 50+ participants. Discussion can be general talking about instructional style or process to specific. Recently members of the chat group help each other create lessons.

Thursday January 12, 2017
8:00 PM EST

  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:01 PM EST
    Tick tock we don't stop! It's 8pmET & time 4 #mschat! Buckle up & get ready 2 blast off & share yr insights, knowledge, & ideas!
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:02 PM EST
    8 pm Time for the #mschat ship to depart ALL Aboard!!
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:03 PM EST
    2nite's #mschat is inspired by this @AMLE article: https://t.co/QlDbTyRLil and reflects the 16 Characteristics of an Effective Middle School
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:03 PM EST
    Moderating tonight is the Wonderful @DruTomlin_AMLE Follow him for questions and AWESOME information #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:03 PM EST
    Hi! Christie from suburban Chicago here tonight. #mschat
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:03 PM EST
    good evening, #mschat - michael from columbus, OH - very excited to be here tonight!
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    ✨Hi everyone! Excited to connect with my fellow @EduGladiators & discuss such a critical topic! #mschat #realtalk #fearless #advocacy
  • schink10 Jan 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Play benefits everyone! Register for Global School Play Day. Celebrate the power of unstructured play! #mschat https://t.co/LtIReQnc0v
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Hello, Zoe from Elon University joining tonight #mschat #eloned
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Thx @blocht574! Here to learn and to serve. 😀 #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Let's kick off #mschat w/ intros! This is Dru fr @AMLE Dir. of Middle Level Services & MS/HS teacher & MS/ES Admin 4 many years 😀How ab U?
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Todd checking in from Warren, MI Chat organizer and 7th grade science teacher #mschat
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Good evening, #mschat! Ryan in MI. 6/7 world geo/history.
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Hi, #mschat! Jordan from MI finally joining back in. I've missed you all!:) 8th grade ELA.
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Glad UR here, Michael! Bringing the edu-flavor! #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Hey Todd! #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • dr_helgeson Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    #mschat. John ELA TOSA from WA
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Welcome Ryan! #mschat
    In reply to @Mr_Lisek
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Hi Jordan! #mschat
    In reply to @_MsHubbard_
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Thx for being here 2nite, @zoegrove16! #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Welcome Zoe! #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Good evening Marlena Hope all is well in Tn and the snow is melting away (Rainy and high 30's here) #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Good evening, Marlena! #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor, @EduGladiators
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Always a pleasure to be in your company, Marlena! #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    Hey my friend! #mschat
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    high 30s? we had low 60s here today!) #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574, @mgrosstaylor
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    Welcome Christine! #mschat
    In reply to @cmt215il
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    Bravo 2U for being here, @Mr_Lisek! You rock! #mschat
    In reply to @Mr_Lisek
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    Good evening John hope all is well #mschat
    In reply to @dr_helgeson
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    Welcome back, Jordan! #mschat
    In reply to @_MsHubbard_
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:08 PM EST
    Hey Ryan hope you had a great day! #mschat
    In reply to @Mr_Lisek
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:08 PM EST
    Yeah try 70 degrees today!😲🤧😷 #mschat #winterinthesouth
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42, @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:08 PM EST
    Thx for joining up with the tweet up, @dr_helgeson! #mschat
    In reply to @dr_helgeson
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:08 PM EST
    The rules as usual 4 the tweet up: use A1 for Q1, A2 for Q2, etc, always put #mschat on all tweets, & retweet, favorite, reply & follow!
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
    Right back at you! #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
    It was a great day. Same to you, sir! #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    Here comes Q1 for #mschat: why is it so important 2 address LGBT & gender issues in the middle grades-why not wait?
  • hollandgirl321 Jan 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    Joining from Arkansas, principal at Greenbrier Middle School #mschat #gmsstory
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    A1: MS is all about adolescents' journey to understanding themselves & world. Perfect time teach #equality #love #tolerance ❤️ #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    A1: Students are questioning their identity in so many way in middle grades: We want to provide guidance in finding them #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    Hi... Jeremy from Connecticut, middle school parent and more. #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    A1: Why wait longer? It could be too late for some who don't make it past the middle grades #mschat
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    A1: To make sure all Ss feel included and to feel like they aren't alone in everything they're feeling #mschat #ElonEd
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    Glad to have you here Jeremy #mschat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • elSrKoeppen Jan 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    #mschat is all over my feed. Tuning in from Wisconsin!
  • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    Jove MS principal from MO excited to learn and share my story with you all #mschat
  • dr_helgeson Jan 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    #mschat A1: It is important to build a culture of respect at this time of growth
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    Hey, Kelli!! Thx for being here! #mschat
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    A1: Middle school students aren't "too young" to come out and may do in the middle school years. We shouldn't shy away from the conv.#mschat
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    a1: unfortunately if you don't address it in Mid grades, they may not be around later #mschat https://t.co/tDdwTNEAV4
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    Q1 MS is such a critical time of development for Ss & their sexuality/curiosity. Ss need their Qs answered sooner rather than later. #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    Boom! They need 2 know we R there 2 support & care now--not later. Too late #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    A1: Need to make a culture of acceptance early, don't want students feeling like they can't be themselves! #mschat
  • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    A1 it's a critical time in the development and understanding of others learning tolerance compassion & equity can be truly practiced #mschat
  • dr_helgeson Jan 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    Yes, each S needs to feel welcomed on order to feel safe to grow acad. emotionally, spritually, and physically #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    Hi everyone sorry I'm running late:) Jackie Hanlon -8th grade ELA from NH! #mschat
  • teresagross625 Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    I think #mschat happening as well!
    In reply to @EdCampBROOKLYN
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    Exactly! Some ppl may question if middle school kiddos can "handle" gender talks. They R ready and need to get support #mschat
  • AssignmentHelpN Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    17 for ’17: Experts on E-learning & EdTech Trends for 2017 https://t.co/I9aiwWWsrV #mdeschat #MEMSPAchat #mschat #TNedchat #IRAchat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    Welcome Jeremy! #mschat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    A1. Can't w8 b/c Ss are going thru big identity shifts/questions/concerns. They need 2 know we're there 2 support, care, celebrate #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    Never too late! Welcome! #mschat
    In reply to @jbhanlon
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    welcome, friend! #mschat
    In reply to @jbhanlon
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    Ss at the middle level are just getting to understand themselves. It is important for Ss to be informed about their feelings. #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    Thx for joining up, @JoveStickel! #mschat
    In reply to @JoveStickel
    • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
      Jove MS principal from MO excited to learn and share my story with you all #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    Jackie, great to see you... life of a teacher is so busy we are lucky to make things at all! #mschat
    In reply to @jbhanlon
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    A1: MS is where Ss hit puberty & start to physically, emotionally, & socially figure out who they are- must support all Ss #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    📌Need a reminder for #mschat? Join our @RemindHQ group! 2️⃣Ways to join: Text 📲or click the link https://t.co/PqYV8KgYzm
  • KnoblauchDee Jan 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    Hi #mschat Dee from Otterbein U. here. MS is a time to explore and solidify your identity. Sexual identity is a big part.
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    Bravo! Must bravely lead and support from ethic of care. #mschat #worthit
    • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
      A1: Middle school students aren't "too young" to come out and may do in the middle school years. We shouldn't shy away from the conv.#mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    A1: For those that are know their gender role then it is important to inform them that for some this is a very confusing time #mschat
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    Sorry for being late! Adam, joining from Melbourne for #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    Sobering reminder, @TeacherRunner42. Silence can have dire consequences #mschat
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    @blocht574 Here's the deal: Ss will talk about it anyway w/friends. They need caring Ts/Ps to help! #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE, @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    Awesome energy already on #mschat 2nite! Keep it up! Here comes Q2....
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    Hi Adam! Welcome! #mschat
    In reply to @adamsomes
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    A1) Never wait. Don't deny their finding themselves and understanding others. And many have had/known same-sex parents since birth. #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    #mschat Q2. What is 1 specific challenge your school faces as U support LGBT & gender issues in the middle grades--& how RU facing it?
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    A1 Ss understanding grows during adolescence...we must be willing to listen, answer and empathise with their Qs #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    YES and we need them to have informed conversations ! Too often when they talk they are missing big ideas #mschat
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
      @blocht574 Here's the deal: Ss will talk about it anyway w/friends. They need caring Ts/Ps to help! #mschat
      In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE, @blocht574
  • FNGraham Jan 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    Hi #mschat Popping in for a bit from the giant deepfreeze 🍁Ferrah, VP of K-12 school in Saskatchewan. Midyrs is my love. Teach 7-9 math/sci.
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:21 PM EST
    Right on! Must give caring and compassion and accurate information during the middle grades! #mschat
    • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
      A1: MS is where Ss hit puberty & start to physically, emotionally, & socially figure out who they are- must support all Ss #mschat
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:21 PM EST
    YES! and we need to make sure they know it's ok to talk to Ts/Ps about it all and that they are there to support them #mschat #ElonEd
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
      @blocht574 Here's the deal: Ss will talk about it anyway w/friends. They need caring Ts/Ps to help! #mschat
      In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE, @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:21 PM EST
    Thx for being here, @KnoblauchDee! #mschat
    In reply to @KnoblauchDee
    • KnoblauchDee Jan 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
      Hi #mschat Dee from Otterbein U. here. MS is a time to explore and solidify your identity. Sexual identity is a big part.
      In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    @DruTomlin_AMLE Exactly! We don't want Ss to resort to school bus convos to figure this out. #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574, @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    A2 I think it's just a general misunderstanding of these issues and the difficulty for people to identify . #mschat
  • SusZanti5 Jan 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    Hello all, stopping to join in #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    Right on, @adamsomes! Balancing listening and informing is key. #mschat
    In reply to @adamsomes
    • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
      A1 Ss understanding grows during adolescence...we must be willing to listen, answer and empathise with their Qs #mschat
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A2: some Ss don't understand what everything means&might not get tht its normal&ok to feel that way/4 others to feel tht way #ElonEd #mschat
  • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A2b not sure we are working at it partly because we always default to treating students as people regardless of personal views #mschat
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A2 The challenge is making Ss comfortable enough to ask their Qs in a supportive environment. #mschat
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A2: Not all families believe in equality so I feel iike I need to be careful sometimes when discussing LGBTQ issues. #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A2: Parents feeling this issue should not be addressed in school... Have to educate about the harms of not educating #mschat
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    a2: a few - but the big one is the balance between teaching and preaching - not all families are open to LGBT topics #mschat
  • FNGraham Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A2: Overcoming misunderstandings or lack of knowledge can be tricky. Also concerns over parent response is often mentioned. #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A2) Lack of adult leadership. LGBTQ students have had to pursue & create their own supports, even their own welcome & info packages. #mschat
    • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
      #mschat Q2. What is 1 specific challenge your school faces as U support LGBT & gender issues in the middle grades--& how RU facing it?
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A2 We tackle this by giving Ss a supportive, safe and open forum to ask their Qs during Sex Ed sessions. #mschat
  • KnoblauchDee Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    #mschat I think teachers are partly worried about backlash from parents and administrators.
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A2: some parents sadly aren't as accepting and don't want their child to be exposed to it, and it can be hard to overcome it #ElonEd #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    A2: Biggest challenge in discussing & addressing this issue is Ts/admin/Ps want to invoke religious views & fears... #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    True. How do we bring up a critical topic like LGBT while also honoring family cultural norms? #mschat
    • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
      A2: Not all families believe in equality so I feel iike I need to be careful sometimes when discussing LGBTQ issues. #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    A2. Ss perceptions/notions ab LGBT. Need 2 have strong relationships 2 have critical conversations & build critical bridges #mschat
  • corabelle131 Jan 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    Joining late. Great topic. #mschat
  • adolesuccess Jan 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    .@zoegrove16 Such a difficult position. Ss really need to talk about it, put sometimes Ps (and Ts) want to "protect" them. #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    A2 A variety of easy-to-access resources for Ss.I try to supplement my library with texts on LGBTQ issues & with LGBTQ protagonists. #mschat
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    A2: only issue is contradictory messages someof ourSs hear at home.OurPrincipal is the 1stgay mayor in NH&our school is progressive #mschat
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    .@zoegrove16 Such a difficult position. Ss really need to talk about it, put sometimes Ps (and Ts) want to "protect" them. #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    .@adolesuccess such a sad reality #mschat #ElonEd
    In reply to @adolesuccess
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    A2: Huge issue is many teachers don't feel comfortable talking to students about topic... ALL schools need training #mschat
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    Good Q! I try to just make sure & discuss it as it fits into my subject. I probably should do more but it's tricky. Ideas?? #mschat
    • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
      True. How do we bring up a critical topic like LGBT while also honoring family cultural norms? #mschat
      • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
        A2: Not all families believe in equality so I feel iike I need to be careful sometimes when discussing LGBTQ issues. #mschat
  • SusZanti5 Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    A2: Sensitivity is key, in relating to those who are uninformed,uncomfortable & those who are asking questions & seeking information #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    Interesting how most of the Q2 responses are ab adult fears--not student stuff. Maybe kids are more ready than we are? Why is that? #mschat
    • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
      A2) Lack of adult leadership. LGBTQ students have had to pursue & create their own supports, even their own welcome & info packages. #mschat
      • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
        #mschat Q2. What is 1 specific challenge your school faces as U support LGBT & gender issues in the middle grades--& how RU facing it?
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    A2. (Con't)...Religion is often used as justification to marginalize & discriminate. Major relions teach ❤️ not hate. #imaPK #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    Bravo 2 everyone on #mschat! More 2 answer & see with Q3! #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    @mgrosstaylor @DruTomlin_AMLE @blocht574 and so by extension, adults need to be on their side. #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16, @mgrosstaylor, @DruTomlin_AMLE, @blocht574
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    So true and they try to force their beliefs on others. #mschat
    In reply to @cmt215il
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    as a parent I'm very comfortable, but as a teacher I don't know what I'm ALLOWED to talk about, which is the problem #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    Right! I talk to my kids about it all the time but in the classroom it is difficult to navigate! #mschat
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    A2 A big hurdle is making this important topic a commonplace convo in the classroom without invoking political & personal conflict. #mschat
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    A2: we really work on people first language & the idea that we are not promoting anything other than acceptance,respect,& safety #mschat
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    Often times our Ss don't think they can ask about their LGBT questions to their Ts and As. #mschat
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    .@DruTomlin_AMLE Generational change is a massive factor...Ss are willling to have these conversations in a more open fashion. #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    🎯 Districts & schools need diversity training now more than ever & not just on race. #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    .@DruTomlin_AMLE most parents grew up in a time when they weren't exposed to the LGBT world&weren't taught abt it in schools #mschat #Eloned
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • OnPointEdu Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    Instructional Grouping in the Classroom: https://t.co/BstC9d5Htz #edtech #edchat #elemchat #mschat #hschat
  • nevadasadler Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    A2. Locker room usage - considering unisex changing stalls - looking for ideas #mschat
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    A2 (rookie mistake) #mschat
    • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
      Often times our Ss don't think they can ask about their LGBT questions to their Ts and As. #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    Ah-men to this... sadly the teachers that need it the most feel it is a waste of their time ... #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    The world needs it! #mschat
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
      🎯 Districts & schools need diversity training now more than ever & not just on race. #mschat
      In reply to @blocht574
  • dr_helgeson Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    this why Ts need to do their best to build authentic w/ Ss so a safe culture is present #mschat
    In reply to @Mr_Lisek
  • MrJGore Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    This chat is amazing right now. #mschat
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
      🎯 Districts & schools need diversity training now more than ever & not just on race. #mschat
      In reply to @blocht574
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    #preach #mschat #ElonEd
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
      🎯 Districts & schools need diversity training now more than ever & not just on race. #mschat
      In reply to @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    Yes! Should LGBT convo be part of school multicultural/diversity initiatives or should it be separate? #mschat
    • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
      A2 A big hurdle is making this important topic a commonplace convo in the classroom without invoking political & personal conflict. #mschat
  • ScholarBound Jan 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    Great Q: What Could $4 Billion Do for American Education? >>> https://t.co/6tU2EUCyKJ #education #sccrowd #highered #mschat #hschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    @DruTomlin_AMLE It is tricky b/c our jobs/livelihood can be threatened. That's why we must be @EduGladiators for our Ss!💪🏾 #mschat
    In reply to @cmt215il, @DruTomlin_AMLE, @EduGladiators
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    could trans students even be out when we were kids? Today many are growing up w it more visible--so more acceptance. #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    .@zoegrove16 @DruTomlin_AMLE So true! Today's Ss do seem more accepting...times have changed and so too must our thinking/teaching #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16, @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    Not to get us off track but this proposed legislation in Texas is pretty terrible in my book: https://t.co/i6Zhy0DY2K #mschat
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    A2: the LGBT &Gender questions from Ss are never about sexual intercourse- they are about relationships/feelings-just like a str8 S #mschat
  • dr_helgeson Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    and it needs to move beyond surface level to encourage deep thinking #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor, @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    Thx 4 sharing all of these stellar ideas 4 LGBT support! So much learning! #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    Q3 for #mschat: What R some Gr8 resources, programs, ideas that UR using 2 support LGBT students in the middle grades?
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    I think it should absolutely be a part of these initiatives. Diversity needs to be examined in all facets. #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    Exactly! That would mean adults have to face their prejudices/fears 1st b/f they lead convo w/Ss. #mschat
    In reply to @dr_helgeson, @blocht574
  • wnyfrac Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    Hi #mschat I'm Danny Fracassi: Asst Princ at inner city school in Fort Worth ISD. Love education kids and headbands. Oh and red pumas
  • SusZanti5 Jan 12 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Yes, and parent education seminars, on relevant adolescent issues, a safe place to get heir own questions answered #mschat
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
      🎯 Districts & schools need diversity training now more than ever & not just on race. #mschat
      In reply to @blocht574
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:34 PM EST
    Ugh!! #mschat
    In reply to @cmt215il
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:34 PM EST
    it's so much about mindset. I imagine walking into any training with a closed mindset yields little. #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574, @mgrosstaylor
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:35 PM EST
    .@_MsHubbard_ &its hard 2 have a conversation abt something controversial w/o making it seem like ure pushing ur own beliefs #ElonEd #mschat
    In reply to @_MsHubbard_
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:35 PM EST
    I think it should absolutely be a part of these initiatives. ALL diversity needs to be examined & appreciated. #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:35 PM EST
    SURE does many Teachers hear PD and the mindset closes due to past experiences #mschat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond, @mgrosstaylor
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:35 PM EST
    A3 Well, @GLSEN is phenomenal. Website resources and conferences both. #mschat
    In reply to @GLSEN
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:36 PM EST
    A3: I don't have anything specific but just try to weave it into the conversation when it comes up in a lesson/class discussion. #mschat
  • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:36 PM EST
    A3 we have a great counselor and SW and we have tons of organizations one outside counselors available #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:36 PM EST
    We have to break down the stereotypes on so many levels. Diversity training should be ongoing & Not 1st Day checklist. #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:36 PM EST
    A3: A well trained school Counselor and Social worker... The ones I work with ROCK!! #mschat
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    A3 Check out the work of @projectrockit and @minus18youth Aussie groups teaching Ss about inclusion, acceptance and compassion #mschat
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    A4 My kids also chose "George" by @lxgino as a read-aloud. #mschat
    In reply to @lxgino
  • corabelle131 Jan 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    A3: The Trevor Project is good for crisis support and suicide prevention. Suicide is a concern for these kids. #mschat
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Bravo! Do schools provide time & guidance to have these vital dialogues ab LGBT? #mschat
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
      Exactly! That would mean adults have to face their prejudices/fears 1st b/f they lead convo w/Ss. #mschat
      In reply to @dr_helgeson, @blocht574
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Be clear that all students will be accepted as they are. Teach cultural differences; don't submit to them. #mschat @DruTomlin_AMLE @cmt215il
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE, @cmt215il
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:38 PM EST
    We talk about a lot of these topics in Advisory aroundRespect,Acceptance &Understanding- we allow Ss to lead the discussion with Ts #mschat
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:38 PM EST
    A3 One of the best books I've read recently is This Book Is Gay by James Dawson. https://t.co/4BMTcwAqJr #mschat
  • cmt215il Jan 12 @ 8:38 PM EST
    A3+: Vietnam war-- men avoiding the draft by saying they were gay. Sts were shocked that being gay used to = no military service. #mschat
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:39 PM EST
    A3 The greatest resource we can provide Ss is time to talk, an ear to listen and our understanding and acceptance. #mschat
  • RossCoops31 Jan 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    3 Reasons to Embrace (Some) Worksheets #education #mschat #byotchat https://t.co/HGaMirSMeL
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    A4. Also careful that LGBT doesn't cr8 an "othering" situation. Emphasis should be that we R all worthy of grace, support & respect #mschat
  • MrJGore Jan 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    All students have a right to be heard and accepted. #mschat
    • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:39 PM EST
      A3 The greatest resource we can provide Ss is time to talk, an ear to listen and our understanding and acceptance. #mschat
  • KnoblauchDee Jan 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    #mschat glsen has a comprehensive lgbtq curriculum that is a wonderful resource.
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    A3. Find & read gr8 LGBT lit like they do in this @AMLE article: https://t.co/QlDbTyRLil Spark a dialogue thru powerful books! #mschat
    In reply to @AMLE
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    Gender non-specific dress codes (if you must have one at all) are very important. #mschat
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    Yes, definitely! I find that framing all discussions around respect, empathy, & compassion helps to curb some of that. #mschat
    In reply to @zoegrove16
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    Here's Q4 for #mschat: How do we educate the community beyond the schoolhouse 2 help them understand/support LGBT students in middle grades?
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    A3: Literature is ALWAYS a great starting point. School libraries should have diverse selection including 🏳️‍🌈 novels. #mschat
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    Teachers can also normalize different pronouns, use non-specifically gender language, not assume heterosexuality. #mschat
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A3: #mschat I reached out via FB to this youngauthor &asked my T questions-under the pretense that I really wanted to help Ss -reach out
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A3 @GLSEN is another PHENOMENAL source. I find that just having their posters up and around my room helps. #mschat
    In reply to @GLSEN
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    .@mgrosstaylor Media in general can be a great avenue of support and understanding. Films, mags, TV, Social Media etc! #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:43 PM EST
    A4: This👆🏾is my answer! 🎯#mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:43 PM EST
    @mgrosstaylor @blocht574 I'm on a committee that sponsored this. Students provided the learning for adults of any role. #mschat
    In reply to @SusZanti5, @mgrosstaylor, @blocht574
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:43 PM EST
    A4: Need to keep parents and community informed of all educational efforts going on in school #mschat
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:43 PM EST
    Q4 Well, I blog, and #LGBTSupport is an ongoing hashtag. #mschat
  • EduGladiators Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    🍎 #EduGladiators BACK SATURDAY w/@bethhill2829 ▶️ Join her LIVE afterwards https://t.co/llHTUz5i6u #mschat #UrbandEdChat #G2great #mdeschat
    In reply to @bethhill2829
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A4 Show your community that you have #empathy around LGBTI issues. Show unwavering support for all!!! #mschat
    • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
      Here's Q4 for #mschat: How do we educate the community beyond the schoolhouse 2 help them understand/support LGBT students in middle grades?
  • CarolineLehman Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    Some great middle level texts with trans girls: George @lxgino Lily and Dunkin @DGephartWrites #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor, @lxgino, @DGephartWrites
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    For next 10 minutes #mschat, I'll be driving, so all tweets will be at red lights and stop lights!
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A4: We need have Sshelp us. The things adults get caught up on like bathrooms,&pronouns are not the issues we think they are for Ss #mschat
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A4 It all starts with open dialogue with the community. Many of the hurdles our Ss who identify LGBTQ face exist outside school. #mschat
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A4 And as with anything - call people in and help them learn. "She'll be interested in boys soon." "Well.. maybe..." #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    👋🏽Hey! Did you know #mschat continues all week? DM @PrincipalMKelly or me to be added to the group! Reflection Q drops after the chat!
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    it's awful. Dangerous even. When you need to carve out an exception for "abuse," it's a terrible idea to begin with. #mschat
    In reply to @cmt215il
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    Absolutely they can. Ss self select in school libraries & may be more comfortable 📚about it first before 🗣w/adults. #mschat
    In reply to @adamsomes
  • Mr_Lisek Jan 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    A4: Always open the door for Ps to come in and express their thoughts. Be a listening ear and don't listen to respond. #Habit5 #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    A4: Need to quell all fears and open doors for a frank honest discussion! #mschat
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    What a coincidence! (sent from another school's parking lot). #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • SusZanti5 Jan 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    A4: Have resources for parents and developmentally appropriate resources for Ss in counseling office, & a list of online resources #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    If we don't include diverse selection in our libraries then we are censoring. If Ps try to ban 📚we have to stand firm. #mschat
    In reply to @adamsomes
  • JoveStickel Jan 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    A4 difficult uestion given how controversial this topic can be one way is to lead by example and the consistency of policies for Ss #mschat
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A4: making sure the appropriate info can be accessed by all& having an open door policy where Ss or Ps can talk at any point #mschat #eloned
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:48 PM EST
    Awesome recommendations. #mschat
    In reply to @CarolineLehman, @lxgino, @DGephartWrites
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:48 PM EST
    Couldn't agree more! If we don't/can't/won't talk about it, how is understanding and acceptance going to build? #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:48 PM EST
    A4. Like any family/community engagement, we must know community & cultural norms & inform/educ8 fr there. And do lots of listening #mschat
  • CarolineLehman Jan 12 @ 8:48 PM EST
    A4: important to engage community + even more important staff is informed. Need to understand what being ally is,not just for show #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    For LGBTQ students. For kids of all types. #WeNeedDiverseBooks #mschat
    • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
      Absolutely they can. Ss self select in school libraries & may be more comfortable 📚about it first before 🗣w/adults. #mschat
      In reply to @adamsomes
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    We're lucky in our school that Ps support our text choices. #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    we have Ps insomeplaces thattry to fightbooks w/profanity,biracial relationships, sexualassault- must educ8 #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor, @adamsomes
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    Also helps if district office stands up for what's right & support equality for ALL Ss & Not just test scores. #mschat
    In reply to @JoveStickel
  • FarleyJeffrey Jan 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A4) Many Ps just need an ally at the school who will help them help their child to navigate the stigmas of coming out. Be that ally. #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    We wonder why kids "act straight." They're swept along in societal assumptions. #mschat
    In reply to @bivey
  • adamsomes Jan 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    Thanks for the great chat, @DruTomlin_AMLE Gotta go...look forward to joining #mschat again soon!
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    Love this so much -- I hope one day I can be that ally to a student or parent #ElonEd #mschat #BeThatAlly
    • FarleyJeffrey Jan 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
      A4) Many Ps just need an ally at the school who will help them help their child to navigate the stigmas of coming out. Be that ally. #mschat
  • dr_helgeson Jan 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    this is so important...books contain the stories that inspire inclusion and respect #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor, @adamsomes
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    Also need guidance to support some of the teams & emotional needs of Ss struggling with identity- I've seen too much self harm😞 #mschat
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    Yup. It helps we have kids out in a least three different genders and five different sexualities. "Just another kid." #mschat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    That's awesome Adam! Not so in the US. As MS Ts/Admin I've had Ps try to ban Hick Finn, Poe's Tell-Tale❤️ #Mschat
    In reply to @adamsomes
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    So much wisdom, #mschat crew! Get ready 2 feast on Q5!
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:53 PM EST
    Exactly!!! #mschat
    In reply to @dr_helgeson, @adamsomes
  • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:53 PM EST
    Q5 for #mschat: if LGBT & gender issues are foods 4 middle level education, what food would they be and why?
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:53 PM EST
    Why students in our high schools created pronoun guides. And they're flummoxed why where they relieve themselves is still an issue. #mschat
    • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
      A4: We need have Sshelp us. The things adults get caught up on like bathrooms,&pronouns are not the issues we think they are for Ss #mschat
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    So true! Ps have tombe willing to open their hearts even if their minds struggle with LGBT concepts. #mschat
    In reply to @FarleyJeffrey
  • CarolineLehman Jan 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    important to remember when challenged- these are Ss stories- them living their life is not controversial. #mschat
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor, @adamsomes
  • jbhanlon Jan 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    sadly theyget it before staffdoes sometimes.I worryless about what a S might say thana T or para whothinks they r right #mschat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    #mschat Every Ss story is valuable & deserves to be heard.
    In reply to @CarolineLehman, @adamsomes
  • SusZanti5 Jan 12 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A5: Pizza, plain, supreme, with anchovies, without, basically any way you like it because it's all good, pizza is relative to teens! #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A5: Sushi comes in many styles but not everyone can stomach it #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    here in Connecticut we also have @TrueColorsCT. 👊🏽 #mschat
    In reply to @_MsHubbard_, @GLSEN, @TrueColorsCT
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    Remember that #mschat is here every Thursday 8 PM ET during the school year!
  • TeacherRunner42 Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    thank you for the great open dialogue, #mschat - have a great friday!
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    A5 Sushi combo. Every one unique, but more similar than different, and forming a beautiful whole. #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    Follow those that help you learn and Grow! #mschat
  • CarolineLehman Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    #mschat Our LGBT Ss are everything that's already there. LGBT kids exist in middle school. It's just some choose not to see them #mschat
  • FarleyJeffrey Jan 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    Right, @mgrosstaylor. And we can help teach them to do that. I mean, that's what we do, right? Teach. #mschat #BeThatAlly
    In reply to @mgrosstaylor
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    Ha! See what I wrote?! #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • zoegrove16 Jan 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    Can't wait for next wednesday #ElonEd #mschat
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    Have a great Friday and remember to be KIND to everyone you meet #mschat
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    focus on American ideals: All are created equal. #mschat
    In reply to @_MsHubbard_, @zoegrove16
  • blocht574 - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    Great minds think alike #mschat
    In reply to @bivey
  • mgrosstaylor Jan 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    A5: Food would be King Cake! Special dessert made w/many fillings, sprinkled w/different colors & celebrated! #mschat
  • _MsHubbard_ Jan 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    Thank you as always, #mschat! So thankful for my middle grades tribe.❤
  • bivey Jan 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    Every day. 😉 All my best! #mschat
    In reply to @blocht574
  • JeremyDBond Jan 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    You could assign all the letters in the world, but we're all people first. #mschat
    • DruTomlin_AMLE - Moderator Jan 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
      A4. Also careful that LGBT doesn't cr8 an "othering" situation. Emphasis should be that we R all worthy of grace, support & respect #mschat
  • SusZanti5 Jan 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    Thank you all for the amazing candid chat, it's always a pleasure to spend time with the awesome mschat PLN! Thanks @DruTomlin_AMLE #mschat
    In reply to @DruTomlin_AMLE