#Kinderchat Archive
#Kinderchat, glue, glitter, gogurt, bringing daily joy to twitter. Find us Mondays, 9 pm EST and 8:30PM London time when we talk all things Early Years!
Monday March 6, 2017
9:00 PM EST
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:00 PM EST
Come out, come out, wherever you are! Say hello & share your fave "home from school" ritual.
#kinderchat
participatechat
Mar 6 @ 9:00 PM EST
Participate in the upcoming
#Kinderchat
by sharing resources and collaborating at
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KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:02 PM EST
Christine from freezing cold Alberta! I like to watch Y & R at the end of a long day.
#judgenot
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:02 PM EST
Hello
#kinderchat
! Michelle from BC... "home from school" ritual features a big glass of water & going to the bathroom.
#forceddehydration
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:03 PM EST
No judgement here!
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @happycampergirl
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:03 PM EST
Thanks friend
#kinderchat
:-)
In reply to @MauiMickey, @happycampergirl
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:03 PM EST
@KeeneeLou
I used to watch w/my mom as a teen. Genoa City has some kind of fountain of youth - Victor & Nikki look SAME now
#Kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @KeeneeLou
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:03 PM EST
I know...I lead such a glamorous life, right?
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:03 PM EST
There is no aging on this show. And the SLOWEST moving plot line in the world
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
KC_SEASportsFan
Mar 6 @ 9:04 PM EST
Evening! Brett, Aspiring K teacher, Lamar, Mo.
#KinderChat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:04 PM EST
Hi ho! I put on "house clothes" and play a phone game!
#kinderchat
CAlcoser
Mar 6 @ 9:04 PM EST
Hi! Connie from NJ. Playing with my kids- then sneaking the "good snacks" after bedtime!!
#aceparenting
#Kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:04 PM EST
Carrie here in PEI. My “home from school” is usually some form of cardio. I know. Don’t judge me
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:04 PM EST
Amy here, moderating from The Canada. Home from school ritual = ridiculous, enthusiastic greeting from my dog.
#Kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:05 PM EST
Lately my after school routine includes planning for my upcoming trip to NYC. The weather is stressing me out!
#kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:05 PM EST
I also take off my bra ASAP
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:05 PM EST
I often watch Y&R on the treadmill!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:05 PM EST
Srsly. Victor & Nikki first wedding in 1984. AND THEY STILL LOOK THE SAME.
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:06 PM EST
I used to watch Days of Our Lives religiously. I understand the love of the storyline
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:06 PM EST
Young and Restless?! Omg I love a soap opera or game show on snow days or vacations!
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @happycampergirl
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:06 PM EST
Hi
#kinderchat
, Jodi from MN. If it is not too chilly, I like to grab my camera and go for a walk.
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:06 PM EST
Hello! Megan here from Chicago. I usually change right into My pajamas when I get home.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:06 PM EST
Hi Brett!
@CarrieMarshall1
Hi Carrie!
@hechternacht
Hi Heidi!
#kinderchat
In reply to @KC_SEASportsFan, @CarrieMarshall1, @hechternacht
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
haaaa right there w ya sister!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
fun fact: the first song I learned to play by heart on the piano was the theme from Y&R
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
@teachermeg
Even the crappiest day can be redeemed by jammies before 6pm!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg, @teachermeg
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
I used to watch Days of Our Lives, too!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1, @KeeneeLou
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
Those all lined up pretty! Hello! :)
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @KC_SEASportsFan, @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
Bra’s are the invention of the devil
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
Jack and Jennifer were my jam!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @KeeneeLou
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:08 PM EST
True! Though I'm not usually home until 7:30 or 8!
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:08 PM EST
Hi Meg. Did you get any storms? We were under a tornado warning for a bit, normally it is a blizzard warning!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:08 PM EST
Amen!! Omg!! The comfy ones are too slouchy the good ones too tight! Can't win!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:08 PM EST
Hi Meg! TEN DAYS TO GO!!!
#kinderchat
#Hamilton
In reply to @teachermeg
teachtocore
Mar 6 @ 9:08 PM EST
Need help with behavior? Help your students succeed in the classroom!
#kinderchat
#1stchat
https://t.co/ZNcqnTg1Dn
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:09 PM EST
Roman and Marlena! Bo and Hope! Good times.
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1, @KeeneeLou
KC_SEASportsFan
Mar 6 @ 9:09 PM EST
Evening!! Cannot wait for this topic tonight!! Great choice
@happycampergirl
!!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @CarrieMarshall1, @hechternacht, @happycampergirl
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:09 PM EST
OMG, girl. Tell me you don't start work until 10am or 11? You REALLY need a self-care talk!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:09 PM EST
YES!
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:07 PM EST
@teachermeg
Even the crappiest day can be redeemed by jammies before 6pm!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg, @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:09 PM EST
Hi Jodi. Not yet, but we may get some tonight. How was your presentation? Was it this past Friday?
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:09 PM EST
And the only “bad people” were Stefano, Victor, and those under mind control, lol!
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @KeeneeLou
EduGladiators
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
💥
#EduGladiators
LIVE podcast happening NOW w/
@maverikcrq
on DOK!💥 ⏯
https://t.co/bX2CBRgllZ
#ksedchat
#TeacherEdChat
#ByronEdChat
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
Q1: In 140 characters, how you do define "self care?"
#kinderchat
AssignmentHelpN
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
#coascd
#eduality
#EdVoice
#ellchat
#iechat
#kinderchat
Facts to Know Before Choosing Fashion Designing as a Career
https://t.co/OG8sswnZES
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
That is seriously late Meg!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl, @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
I know it. I am usually at work by 8:30. It’s the perils of running a small school.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
WOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
It was great, got a few people going on Twitter. Talked about
#kinderchat
in many of my slides.
In reply to @teachermeg
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
I must admit I geared up a bit when Stefano died a few weeks ago. The Phoenix will not rise again.
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1, @KeeneeLou
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
Self-Care: making sure I put the oxygen mask on first.
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:10 PM EST
Though w a workout in there it's 6 or 7pm before I'm home! 12 hour day
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl, @teachermeg
jkawchuk
Mar 6 @ 9:11 PM EST
catching up with my Twitter feed and kitty snuggles!
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:11 PM EST
A1 Finding time/space to be quiet, calm, and not think about school commitments
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:11 PM EST
No. That was sad! Another part of my misspent youth gone
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @KeeneeLou
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:11 PM EST
We close at 6. And sometimes I don’t leave until 6:30 after clean up. Then a train ride home.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht, @happycampergirl
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:11 PM EST
Self-care = staying connected to the parts of me that are NOT "Mme Amy."
#Kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:12 PM EST
A1 Self care is putting the oxygen mask on yourself so that you can help others.
#airplanerules
#kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:12 PM EST
Self Care: also means wine or beer.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:12 PM EST
Lucky! I have no EA.
#kinderchat
In reply to @MelaniePostle
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:12 PM EST
And popcorn. With real butter.
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:12 PM EST
We are so twinsie! I said the same thing!!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:13 PM EST
On nice (no rain or hail) I try to take a 30 minute walk mid day though. so that helps.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht, @happycampergirl
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:13 PM EST
A1: Being kind to myself so that I have plenty of kindness and compassion for others.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:13 PM EST
You and I are
#kindertwins
!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:14 PM EST
Self-Care-Making sure that I do things not related to the role of being school director.
#kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:14 PM EST
Great! Congrats!
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:14 PM EST
I like that...I also need to take care of the parts that are not MOM or WIFE.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:14 PM EST
Self care is an intentional process and commitment to (yourself) to care for your well being physical, mental, and instructional
#Kinderchat
CAlcoser
Mar 6 @ 9:14 PM EST
A1- self-care = a balanced approach to work and home!
#Kinderchat
massignmenthelp
Mar 6 @ 9:15 PM EST
#coascd
#eduality
#EdVoice
#ellchat
#iechat
#kinderchat
5 Signs Indicate that you Need to Hire Online Math Tutor
https://t.co/KM38333Kxz
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:15 PM EST
Amen to that too!! Braless w a beer- haaa
#Kinderchat
omg :)
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:15 PM EST
AND BASEBALL!!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
KC_SEASportsFan
Mar 6 @ 9:16 PM EST
Not into alcohol. But pop, food & baseball!!
#Kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:12 PM EST
Self Care: also means wine or beer.
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:16 PM EST
it truly is a commitment and involves some intentionality in this busy and often emotional profession.
#kinderchat
In reply to @beyondplaydough
MrsStills
Mar 6 @ 9:16 PM EST
So many great chats going on right now!
#tlap
#Kinderchat
#ellchat
hoping to jump in tonight
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:17 PM EST
I’m trying to get back to nature. Weekends are dedicated to hiking, to being outside. That puts me back in balance.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:17 PM EST
A1 Self care can also involve retail therapy.
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:17 PM EST
this is sounding divine Carrie!!
#Kinderchat
Outside on a summer night-mmm!!!
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:18 PM EST
@happycampergirl
intentional is key for self care you have to actively move & choose it which can be a challenge
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer, @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:19 PM EST
I can't wait for our weather to get drier and warmer. I need to get outside more.
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:19 PM EST
hiking, and it’s winter counterpart- snowshoeing. It’s the best thing that I’ve done this past year
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:19 PM EST
Yes, green is good for the soul. Nothing soothes the soul and slows me down like nature!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:19 PM EST
There is a beautiful elevated trail (make on old railroad tracks!) near the school that I like to walk during lunch.
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:20 PM EST
Q2: On a scale where 1 = I take care of everyone but me, and 10 = I am a MASTER OF SELF CARE, where would you rank yourself?
#kinderchat
PreKPages
Mar 6 @ 9:20 PM EST
Books for St. Patrick's Day
https://t.co/JAI8OkxIS3
#teachpreschool
#ecechat
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:20 PM EST
Absolutely, it can be. Why is it so much more difficult to make a commitment to ourselves?
#kinderchat
In reply to @beyondplaydough, @happycampergirl
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:20 PM EST
Nice! We haven’t had enough snow (any really) for snowshoeing this year.
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:21 PM EST
We either have feet of snow, or it’s melted.
#weirdwinter
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:21 PM EST
I’m trying to find all of the urban nature spots since I can’t realistically go to the forests every weekend.
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:21 PM EST
A2 I'll give myself a 5...I am not good and not horrible at self-care.
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:22 PM EST
A2 Depends a bit on the time of the year, but, generally I'm about a 6
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:22 PM EST
Hello...did you move to BC?
#toomuchsnow
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1, @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:22 PM EST
A2 I’m probably at a 3. I’m working on it!
#kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:22 PM EST
A2: Since I’m now an empty nester I’d say I’m closer to 8 on the scale
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:22 PM EST
I've definitely improved as I've gotten older! Maybe about an 8?!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:22 PM EST
Chicago had no snow in January and February this year. First time in over 100 years! So weird!
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @CarrieMarshall1
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:23 PM EST
A2: I have room for improvement, maybe a 4?
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:23 PM EST
A2: I would say 7 or 8. I am better at my job when i take better care of me.
#Kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:23 PM EST
A2 when I am really good at self-care is school breaks. Holiday time! But it has to be AWAY FROM HOME.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:23 PM EST
We have had more snow than Winnipeg this year!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg, @CarrieMarshall1
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:24 PM EST
This year has been particularly bad in terms of my self-care. It’s taking some adjustment to running a school.
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:24 PM EST
I will be an empty nester next year, so maybe there is hope for me yet?
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
KC_SEASportsFan
Mar 6 @ 9:24 PM EST
Self care is something I should vastly improve in.
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:24 PM EST
Agreed! This is why we are gone for month every summer to a warm place
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @teachermeg, @CarrieMarshall1
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:25 PM EST
I wish we could afford a month away every summer. Too many commitments at home.
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @teachermeg, @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:26 PM EST
There is! And trust me. It’s good. It’s really good!
#kinderchat
#emptynest
#itsagoodthing
In reply to @jodialtringer
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:26 PM EST
We go back to IL each summer. Because nothing says hot like IL In july and August
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @KeeneeLou, @teachermeg
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:27 PM EST
I totally get it! We still take mini breaks that are cheap dates!
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @teachermeg, @CarrieMarshall1
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:27 PM EST
I appreciate that you are sharing that, I am very nervous about it, I feel like I will need to reinvent myself
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:27 PM EST
To me it's not about vacations but a daily routine that helps me feel grounded and happy
#kinderchat
beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:27 PM EST
A2 - wait, -10 isn't an option? jk time was a time that was true solid 7 role modeling self care demos to children it's good too
#kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:28 PM EST
I have loved every stage of my kids’ life. Their young-adulthood as well. But I will say, it’s tough 1/2
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:28 PM EST
I like that. That’s what I need to work on.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:29 PM EST
It’s tough because you have to sit back and watch them live their lives with no interference
#kinderchat
#thatswhyweraisethem
In reply to @jodialtringer
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:29 PM EST
Turning of "Mme Amy" in summer is not enough. Need to just be Amy for part of EVERY day.
#Kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:29 PM EST
My daily routine has too many demands on my emotional energy right now. Vacation helps me escape and relax.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:29 PM EST
A2 - wait, -10 isn't an option? jk there was a time that was true solid 7 role modeling self care demos to children is good too
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:29 PM EST
Good point. I am better at supporting routines with the kids than myself. I need to be better about this.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
I know many people who plaster it all to the wall all the time and then chill on vacay
#kinderchat
Not sure I see that as self care!
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
Q3: WHY is self-care so hard, as a teacher? What are the obstacles to taking better care of yourself?
#kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
We don’t have a summer break. I think that’s more of a reason that I need to do better at daily care.
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:29 PM EST
Turning of "Mme Amy" in summer is not enough. Need to just be Amy for part of EVERY day.
#Kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
I agree...I try to leave Mrs. Hiebert at the school and Michelle/Mom comes home.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
Q3 For me, it's hard to turn off my brain. I have a lot of roles in our school. I have a small brain.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
A3: because there is ALWAYS something else that has to be done. From report cards to IEPs to cleaning and planning
#kinderchat
#itneverends
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
@teachermeg
Do you get vacation time? And do you TAKE it? ;-)
#Kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg, @teachermeg
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
Some of us have no choice but to hang on for dear life to deal with the cards we are dealt. Emotionally hard.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
A3: There is no moment when everything that can possibly be done is DONE. That moment DOES NOT EXIST.
#Kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
Nothing against vacay for those who can afford them! Very nice! Just saying self care can be reading, cooking, etc
#Kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
I get a little vacation. I take it when I can. Usually in October once teachers have taken all their vacation.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
Of course...and I wish my life were at a place where simple joys could be daily.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
A3 The demands of "being e best teacher I can be" will never be met. Must say no at times. Turn off the brain.
#kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
For me personally, self-care is hard because I am trying to keep a little school afloat. I’m teaching, doing admin, mentoring.
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:34 PM EST
Yes. There were many, many years that the only "holiday" we had was going to Starbucks. Once a month.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht, @MauiMickey
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:34 PM EST
Thats rough!! Definitely harder! Those breaks help tremendously for sure
#Kinderchat
plus new position- all tough!!
In reply to @teachermeg
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
Is it ok to CHOOSE to not be a great teacher? To sometimes choose to be a good enough teacher?
#Kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
I am passionately invested in making my tiny school an awesome place with happy families and teachers. So I put in extra for now
#kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
For me personally, self-care is hard because I am trying to keep a little school afloat. I’m teaching, doing admin, mentoring.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
And we forego Starbucks et al to make vacation a priority. Doesn't have to be far or $$$. Just AWAY.
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @hechternacht
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
Hey
#kinderchat
in the past month 4 people I have known/been in contact with died unexpectedly. Lesson: Live Your Life Now!! Self-Care is #1
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
Our jobs are complicated, even if things are going okay for me, I often internalize the stress of others, want to help and fix!
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
So how to carve out time? Esp hard for the first year to get it going!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
Some days that is all I can manage.
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
Is it ok to CHOOSE to not be a great teacher? To sometimes choose to be a good enough teacher?
#Kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
haaa I forgo all that and still can't go! :)
#kinderchat
In reply to @MauiMickey, @KeeneeLou
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
@teachermeg
I also think it is okay to have times in your career when it is all consuming, esp when you love what you do.
#Kinderchat
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teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
That’s what the weekends are for for me. And my books. I read when I’m home to give brain a rest.
#kinderchat
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beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
A3- now that I am not direct teaching I look back & think
#earlyed
is such a critical period of dev. I didn't want to miss a sec
#Kinderchat
EdTechBham
Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
Anyone have any interesting resources/research on movement, brain breaks or
#recess
?
@Martiwest24
#Kinderchat
#urbaned
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hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
Reading is a fantastic form of self care for sure!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
That’s kind of my thought. It’s not forever. And I have this chance to turn this school into something awesome.
#kinderchat
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CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
But not reading education books/articles! Read a novel!
#kinderchat
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MrsStills
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
#Kinderchat
A3 self care is tough b/c teachers wear many hats. For me self care is nap time on the weekends eating healthy physical activity
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
@teachermeg
Reading is huge for me. I struggle to do prof reading bc it has always been something for pleasure & fun & for ME.
#Kinderchat
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hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
For me- losing myself in a novel is the ultimate! Though it happens---RARELY! I read news,nonfiction daily!
#Kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
I am addicted to YA novels. I read fiction all the time.
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1, @hechternacht
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
We all have seasons in our lives. What is imperative today may not be next year
#kinderchat
#rollwithit
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jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:39 PM EST
I try to remember that children in toxic stress need us to buffer, make it tolerable, that is hard to do when we are stressed.
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
Q4: What do you DO, to take care of yourself, every day? Every week? Every year?
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
Because early relationships have such an impact, we need skilled, driven, but healthy ECE professionals
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:41 PM EST
those are nice bc they go fast!
#Kinderchat
Also reason I like fluffy movies!!
In reply to @teachermeg, @CarrieMarshall1
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
A4: I’ve been doing some creative writing in between work and Masters. Bonus: It’s helped with my prof writing & writing instruc
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
A4: Every day, EVERY SINGLE DAY, I read fiction over brkfst & before bed.
#Kinderchat
JonFines
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
Self care is mindful. Playing the piano. Hugs with my family. Quiet-time. Breathing. Bacon.
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
A4 I try to have reading time & family dinner daily, meet girlfriends at least once a month, vacation with husband once a year.
#kinderchat
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
Especially the bacon
#kinderchat
In reply to @JonFines
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
Q4: I have realized that I need to surround myself with reflective, positive, mindful people, I need fountains, not drains!
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
A4 Reading and hot baths.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
BACON!
#kinderchat
JonFines
Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
Self care is mindful. Playing the piano. Hugs with my family. Quiet-time. Breathing. Bacon.
#kinderchat
JonFines
Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
esPECIALLY!
#kinderchat
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learningmurd
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
You know those moments when a little weed knows you have seen them? Really seen them? Grownups need to feel "seen" too
#kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
A4 I indulge in my morning starbucks. I take those walks. I talk to others to reflect and process.
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
Try new things, learn new things, be curious, read, connect with others outside of work....
#kinderchat
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
And here you are with your words of wisdom. ((Mardelle))!!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @learningmurd
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
I also nurture my non-education passions: ballet, Harry Potter, cookies, movies, current events.
#kinderchat
EduGladiators
Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
Catch the
#EduGladiators
podcast REPLAY w/
@maverikcrq
⏯
https://t.co/bX2CBRgllZ
#ksedchat
#TeacherEdChat
#ByronEdChat
#kinderchat
#SXSWEdu
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
Harry Potter is obviously self-care!
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
I also nurture my non-education passions: ballet, Harry Potter, cookies, movies, current events.
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
OMG I MISS MY BATHTUB SO MUCH
#kinderchat
😭😭😭
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @happycampergirl
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
And I interact with friends who are NOT teachers.
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
it is gr8 that as a leader ur modeling reflective practice, important 2 recognize that emotions go w/ our work.
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:48 PM EST
@hechternacht
HOW HAVE YOU MOVED 3 TIMES SINCE I MET YOU AND STILL NO BATHTUB?
#Kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht, @KeeneeLou, @hechternacht
CarrieMarshall1
Mar 6 @ 9:48 PM EST
Well
#kinderchat
in the spirit of the evening,1 thing I need to do for self-care is sleep more. So I bid you all good night! Live Life Now!
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:48 PM EST
I don't know!!! 😭😭😭😭
#Kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl, @KeeneeLou
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
I try. I have Reflective Supervision with my teachers every month to help them process their work.
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer
beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
A4 - soak in and be silly in all moments like this ❤❤❤
#kinderchat
#earlyed
#onguard
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
Night!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
No bathtub? I really like my bath tub. I'm sorry you don't have one.
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht, @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
Good night
#kindertwin
!
#kinderchat
In reply to @CarrieMarshall1
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
Q5 - If, over the course of your career, you have changed your self-care habits: how & why have they changed?
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
Yes! Prevent burn out/turn over, move practice forward, and support one another=better outcomes for kids
#kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
I try. I have Reflective Supervision with my teachers every month to help them process their work.
#kinderchat
In reply to @jodialtringer
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
A5 I am a work in progress. That is all.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
beyondplaydough
Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
Q5 - mindfulness has certainly entered my personal and professional habit
#kinderchat
it is powerful to watch in adults and children
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
I know! Once I complained and a drought ridden Californian said "at least you have water!"
#kinderchat
In reply to @KeeneeLou, @happycampergirl
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
A5 Self-care has depended on how many others are requiring my emotional energy (my own kids, husband, parents). I come last.
#kinderchat
KeeneeLou
Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
My sis in law used to come over once a week for a bath when they had water probs!
#comevisit
#kinderchat
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learningmurd
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
A5 getting just the right amount of old is a kinda awesome way to realize the big stuff is little, and the little stuff is gold.
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:54 PM EST
Q5: Traumatic death in my family 2 yrs ago changed my habit of working long days. Now more careful about keeping gas in my tank.
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
A5 I used to think I needed to justify myself socially/professionally w being "busy" and over committing
#Kinderchat
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
A5 I’m working on the self-care. But I’m passionate about what I do which I couldn’t always say, so it’s all a give and take.
#kinderchat
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
love this!
#kinderchat
In reply to @learningmurd
JonFines
Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
A5 I must first take care of myself so my students will get the best me possible. It's no fun running on empty.
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
I have become unapologetic about setting boundaries & saying no.
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
She's our resident poet-genius
#kinderchat
❤
In reply to @jodialtringer, @learningmurd
JonFines
Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
Good night! Nice to peek in for a moment. Going to self-care with city league volleyball.
#kinderchat
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
@JonFines
Truth: I am afraid of volleyball.
#Kinderchat
In reply to @JonFines, @JonFines
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
Passion is good, my commitment to stay relevant & push my practice, makes me feel more competent & less burnt out.
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
We are all routing for you Meg!! You are taking on a big project!! Go girl!!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
Have fun! I’m waiting for the beach courts to open up during Memorial Day so I can play volleyball.
#kinderchat
In reply to @JonFines
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
Same for me...death has a way of...changing priorities.
#kinderchat
In reply to @happycampergirl
jodialtringer
Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
volleyball is my favorite. My son plays on my co-ed team now, love it!
#kinderchat
In reply to @teachermeg, @JonFines
teachermeg
Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
Thanks, Heidi. I just want to keep fighting that fight for play and childhood!
#kinderchat
In reply to @hechternacht
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
Students and FAMILY!
#kinderchat
JonFines
Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
A5 I must first take care of myself so my students will get the best me possible. It's no fun running on empty.
#kinderchat
hechternacht
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
Having a big project like that and getting going in a career is self care in another way too! :)
#Kinderchat
Long term career!
In reply to @teachermeg
MauiMickey
Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
Take care Jon! Aloha!
#kinderchat
In reply to @JonFines
happycampergirl
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
Time to wrap up, friends. Take good care of yourselves & each other!
#Kinderchat