#EngageChat Archive | Participate

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:00 PM EDT

Joining #EngageChat from Maryland to talk about modeling confidentiality.

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:00 PM EDT

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kimmykcollins Mar 17 @ 8:00 PM EDT

Hey Kim from Raleigh NC, third grade! #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Welcome Jim #engagechat

In reply to @JKatzaman

AdamBrownEDU Mar 17 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Hi, Adam from Virginia. Principal #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:01 PM EDT

My first #engagechat.

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Ron Martiello, 3rd Grade. Friday Fistbump, #engagechat

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Hi, Scott. Good to see you. #EngageChat

In reply to @sdgalich

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Hi There Kim #engagechat

In reply to @kimmykcollins

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Rylee from Valdez, AK middle school special ed #engagechat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Hello - Phiona in Ontario #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Welcome!!! #engagechat

In reply to @YvetteJobe1

dkreiness Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Hey #engagechat, I'm Dan an instructional coach from Connecticut!

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Hello! I'm Carla from Tampa, FL looking for to this #EngageChat

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Karen from NC 2nd grade teacher. Happy Friday! #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Wes Vinson, Texas, educator #EngageChat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Lemarr Treadwell, Fresno CA joining #engagechat PLN for the next hour.

PrestonMcKellar Mar 17 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Preston, from Virginia, checking in, Happy St. Patrick's Day! #EngageChat

In reply to @sdgalich

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Hey there Adam #engagechat

In reply to @AdamBrownEDU

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Angie, elementary media specialist from NC #engagechat

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Rhianna from Jacksonville 16 sophomore future chorus teacher #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:04 PM EDT

Good evening! Ready to chat with you...Jace from NJ. #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:04 PM EDT

I'm an ITF in Wilson, NC! #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:04 PM EDT

You will love it. Great group here. #engagechat

In reply to @YvetteJobe1

Rdene915 Mar 17 @ 8:04 PM EDT

#engagechat hi from Pittsburgh, I teach Spanish and STEAM, enjoying some snow here finally :)

In reply to @sdgalich

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Happy St. Patrick's Day! #engagechat

spiraledu Mar 17 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Happy #stpatricksday to everyone at #engagechat Sue, 3rd grade in Alaska

In reply to @sdgalich

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Hello! Rebecca from Nevada #engagechat

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Good evening, Jason from NC, Twitter chat and NCAA! #EngageChat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Welcome Yvette #engagechat

In reply to @YvetteJobe1

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Elizabeth from FL ... teacher of Ss with autism #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Is this chat open to Australians? Hillary from South Australia. High school English and senior school coordinator #EngageChat

JoveStickel Mar 17 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Jove MS principal from MO checking in #EngageChat

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Justin from Northern VA but MSU alum. Go Sparty! #engagechat

LaneWalker2 Mar 17 @ 8:07 PM EDT

#engagechat Lane from STL

JV_lack Mar 17 @ 8:07 PM EDT

James from Mission, TX...Tech Integration...cool #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:07 PM EDT

Welcome Everyone to the Group. Glad you're here! #engagechat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:08 PM EDT

of course it is 😊- welcome to #EngageChat - we're happy to have you join us

In reply to @HillaryTrotter

whiteeducator Mar 17 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Running late! Greetings from NYC! #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Question 1 Coming up... #engagechat

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:09 PM EDT

Ts and Ss at my school think it's awesome that I chat with Ts from Australia on Twitter. You raise my cool factor!😎👍#engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Is this chat open to Australians? Hillary from South Australia. High school English and senior school coordinator #EngageChat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:09 PM EDT

Hello everyone! Jusmar Maness principal from NC joining from the soccer field 💨#EngageChat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:09 PM EDT

my pleasure! It must take an immense trust from Ps to let me teach their kids .... so I'm grateful for the opp #engagechat

In reply to @justindavidwilk

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:09 PM EDT

@HillaryTrotter same here!! #engagechat

In reply to @Ron_Martiello, @HillaryTrotter

JulieCraigCCPS Mar 17 @ 8:09 PM EDT

Julie LD teacher from VA here. Struggling with March Madness, but will try to be engaged.#engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Hi Jace @inspire0818 , a little late, hi everyone 👋🏼#engagechat

In reply to @inspire0818

whiteeducator Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Yep! And lots of slush! How are you??? #engagechat

In reply to @LemarrTreadwell

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Welcome! What time is it there? #engagechat

In reply to @HillaryTrotter

AdamBrownEDU Mar 17 @ 8:11 PM EDT

A1. Wasted breath #Engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:11 PM EDT

Hi all, Susan, instructional coach from Loudoun County VA #engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:11 PM EDT

Hi @sdgalich, nice to see you moderating #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:11 PM EDT

A1. Information meant to detract from the overall mission of being advocates for our students. #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:11 PM EDT

A1 conversation that doesn't serve a healthy purpose. Don't always speak the truth but when you do speak, be sure it is truth #engagechat

dkreiness Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1: Spreading rumors and taking behind people's backs #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 Words said about someone that would not be said to that same person #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1: wasted time and drama drama drama! #EngageChat

kimmykcollins Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 Sharing something that is private about someone else! Judging someone-what they did or said with others! All in a mean way! #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 Words that spread hate #engagechat

LaneWalker2 Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 talking about people in a way that is not helpful and not kind. #engagechat

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1: Sharing info with a malicious intent. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

JulieCraigCCPS Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1: Gossip is unfounded chatter spreading like wildfire. It usually entails speculation that changes as it goes. It may be true.#engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 Gossip is the repeating of information that you can't guarantee is true and sharing of information that attempts to harm. #engagechat

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 Engaging in conversations that are not true #EngageChat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1: reminds me of the game "the telephone" pass information whether it is true or not. #EngageChat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 Gossip ~ what you hear from others, true or not, and telling others without thought of individual #engagechat

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 Gossip is talking about others. It can be malicious, taking delight in their foibles. #EngageChat

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

Amy Mac- Director of Literacy from Illinois! #engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1: Unsolicited information about others-be they Ss or adults-you don't want to hear it, nor do you care to spread it #engagechat

Rdene915 Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

#engagechat A1 just awful, disruptive, I avoid it,

In reply to @sdgalich

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 delighting in saying mean/critical things which could undermine and hurt the person if said to their face #EngageChat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

#engagechat A1. Talk between people who are too concerned about someone else's life.

spiraledu Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

#engagechat gossip is making assumptions about someone with a 3rd party rather than communicating with them directly

In reply to @sdgalich

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: Gossip is what is said that is speculated with a lack of knowledge out of earshot of someone or scuttlebutt #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

Kevin a Teaching Principal with Irelands first and only school STEAM Room.We celebrated St Patricks Day here today #engagechat

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: Gossip is the stuff you say about a person behind their back. #EngageChat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

#engagechat A1. Potentially damaging

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

I used to do this with my elem Ss to show just how gossip gets started...the he said/she said dilemma. #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1: reminds me of the game "the telephone" pass information whether it is true or not. #EngageChat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

stories about people you know told with IMPURE intent #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: mean spirited & spiteful words that can cause harm to others #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

#engagechat A1. Waste of Time

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

Hi #engagechat. Joe, Math & STEAM Coach from Palo Alto, CA.

JV_lack Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 A lot of times it's the everyday language of a school...Ss, Ts, & Staff...most of the time it's negative... #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 a powerful force that can have long lasting effects on reputations of people/projects. #EngageChat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 Gossip is spreading info about someone or something without representation. "Behind your back" #EngageChat

PrestonMcKellar Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Gossip comes from rumors, sometimes traces of truth grossly exaggerated. Sometimes falsehoods. Gossip is unproductive #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

I would add truths that are hurtful if known and spread too! #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 delighting in saying mean/critical things which could undermine and hurt the person if said to their face #EngageChat

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

A1 Gossip is like a speed bump...it impedes your ability to move forward #EngageChat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Does it really have to be malicious intent in the beginning? Some may not intend to be malicious initially #engagechat

In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Like this definition, question is why are we so concerned with others, make us feel better? #EngageChat

In reply to @inspire0818

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:16 PM EDT

so true, if it wasn't gossip, you'd say it to their face #engagechat

In reply to @R_CILR

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:16 PM EDT

A1: #EngageChat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:16 PM EDT

#engagechat A1. And many times, Gossip starts rumors

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:16 PM EDT

Good point... But then the question becomes when does it become gossip then? #engagechat

In reply to @Jyoung1219

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Not so much malicious with intent but it ends up being the outcome more often than not. #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Does it really have to be malicious intent in the beginning? Some may not intend to be malicious initially #engagechat
In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

but easy to slip into at times #EngageChat

In reply to @inspire0818

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Great follow up Q. Often it does reflect something in ourselves #engagechat

In reply to @FloradTeach, @inspire0818

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

A1. Talk that leads to peer exclusion with malicious intent. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

A1.I don't do gossip.I teach from the heart and not from the book.It leads to lifelong learning #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Question 2... Coming Up. #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

gossip in a positive way is praise! And it's ok to praise people behind their back :) #engagechat

In reply to @HillaryTrotter, @sdgalich

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Where is the fine line between sharing with a trusted colleague and gossip then? #engagechat

In reply to @HardRockCarla, @Jyoung1219

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Gossip is rumors in action. #EngageChat

In reply to @inspire0818

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Agreed, sharing others good news however well intended can quickly become gossip presented negatively #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Does it really have to be malicious intent in the beginning? Some may not intend to be malicious initially #engagechat
In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

the intent might not always be malicious, but this does not necessarily negate the impact #engagechat

In reply to @Jyoung1219, @Amy_MacCrindle

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Amy. Great minds think alike. #engagechat

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:12 PM EDT
A1: Sharing info with a malicious intent. #engagechat
- sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT
  
  Q1: #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

I just think gossip is engaging in convo about others that may not be true. Intent & malice is 2ndary #engagechat

In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

A1: Gossip = Nothing I need to move move forward or help my Ss learn. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Jon, just hit it on the head. Current gossip. #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

this sums up my feelings. I LITERALLY don't understand how Ts have TIME to gossip... don't they have stuff to do? #engagechat

In reply to @jmaness4

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

A1: gossip, talking behind someone's back. #engagechat

mistershayELA Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

a1 alternative facts, fake news, slander #engagechat

In reply to @LemarrTreadwell

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

A1: Gossip is everywhere. It takes away the focus from what needs to actually be said. #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Jornea Erwin, Instructional Technology Specialist, Huntsville, Alabama #engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Sad, but true #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:18 PM EDT

It's a shame, right? Some don't have anything better to do.
In reply to @FloradTeach

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

I believe the point is being mindful of our speech. May start without malice intent but can turn to such. Be mindful to stop #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Not so much malicious with intent but it ends up being the outcome more often than not. #engagechat
- Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:15 PM EDT
  
  Does it really have to be malicious intent in the beginning? Some may not intend to be malicious initially #engagechat
  In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2 #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

also people's mental wellbeing and confidence in themselves #engagechat

In reply to @LaneWalker2

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Celebrating 30 years as a Teaching Principal yesterday #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

#engagechat A1. It's just malicious...mean spirited talk

AdamBrownEDU Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

A2. Disease with no known cure #Engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

agree! #engagechat

In reply to @LREjubilee, @sdgalich

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

And there lies the more critical Q. Defining gossip is one thing, analyzing its intent is another #engagechat

In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle, @HardRockCarla

JV_lack Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

#engagechat True that! Stop the gossip...change the atmosphere!

In reply to @LaneWalker2

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

A2 Lack of confidentiality destroys trust and confidence in the system from top to bottom. #EngageChat

SpanishEagles Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

A1: usually it's not positive. Usually about a 3rd person - in his/her absence. Joining from Texas! Howdy! #EngageChat

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2. Well, legally is another situation, but on a basic level can lead to the complete erosion of trust within a building. #EngageChat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

Congratulations Kevin! #engagechat

In reply to @FoleyKev

teresagross625 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

Please join me Sunday evening for #Read4fun #engagechat #satchat #leadupchat #satchatwc #edugladiators #nt2t @Dr_LMR @kathyiwanicki

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

You always need that one! #EngageChat

In reply to @JulieCraigCCPS, @HardRockCarla, @Jyoung1219

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A1: Gossip is a cycle full of ill-intentions. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

kimmykcollins Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Damage the school culture! Breaks down the trust between people. #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2: handicap the willingness to take risks and allow to relinquish control. Leading everything instead of building sts to lead #EngageChat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

Nice put. Tweeted this earlier-key is to be mindful of impact of our words #engagechat

In reply to @PLloydHenry, @Amy_MacCrindle

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 as a #sped T I am acutely aware of confidentiality once it's broken so is trust which is a heartbeat 2 any great relationship #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Cause division and steal the focus away from the true purpose: our Students. #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

#engagechat A2. Trust breaks down...Culture can become damaged

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 A lack of confidentiality in any relationship is detrimental. In a school, it can destroy the foundation of trust. #engagechat

JV_lack Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

#engagechat Don't think it's hard to separate student issue discussion from gossip...have to be really intentional

In reply to @HillaryTrotter

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2: It can create a culture of distrust amongst all stakeholders. #EngageChat

JulieCraigCCPS Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: Asking for a lawsuit. Things are confidential for a reason, regardless if we agree. #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

The first and WORST thing is does is sheds light on Ts in an unprofessional manner.... and reinforce a lot of public opinions #engagechat

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2 Decreases trust and moral--in the end decrease focus on Ss #engagechat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: Aside from legal ramifications, it can breed mistrust in those invested in the school. Can cause negative perception. #engagechat

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: it can destroy trust. Once trust is lost gossip can turn into rumors and people stop taking risks to learn. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2 #engagechat

giveawayvucio Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

#engagechat A2. Trust breaks down...Culture can become damaged

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2 An environment with no trust #engagechat

Rdene915 Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

#engagechat A2 lack of trust, misinformation, legal issues as well

In reply to @sdgalich

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

Great point! Handicapping Ts and Ss alike from taking risks which is the opposite of #innovative classrooms! #engagechat

In reply to @jmaness4

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

can you tell me what's in the picture because I can't see it #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: Completely change its reputation-deflate the culture-discourage the community-demotivate Ts, and Ss lose #engagechat

MsSLNorth Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A1: Socrates-style: Is it TRUE? Is it GOOD? Is it USEFUL? #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

dkreiness Mar 17 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: A lack of confidentiality can expose students to inappropriate conduct (electronics/social media) #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2 #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2 breaks trust and inhibits building positive, nurturing relationships. It is all about relationships #EngageChat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Love the reference to CCSS MPS3 #engagechat

LaneWalker2 Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Building vs. dividing https://t.co/Kz5IbhmwEB
In reply to @Amy_MacCrindle, @HardRockCarla, @Jyoung1219

kimmykcollins Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Exactly!! Very hurtful! #EngageChat

In reply to @inspire0818

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2 Lack of confidentiality destroys trust and confidence in the establishment. Damages morale. #EngageChat

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Sorry I'm late but excited to stop in! I'm Jen, a 6th grade Eng teacher from IN!#engagechat

tracygilmeredu Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2 Ruin any chance of being trusted or confided in. #engagechat

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2. Remember how he protected confidentiality? #EngageChat

spiraledu Mar 17 @ 8:23 PM EDT

confidentiality means only those who need to know. When things leak: causes gossip when people try to fill info holes #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2 I believe schools make progress when we talk to each other and not about one another 🤔 #EngageChat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2 can cause community to mistrust the school and therefore can be bad for relationships #EngageChat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2: it contributes to a negative climate, damages relationships, & limits the ability to serve Ss & the common good #engagechat

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2: Reputation damaged #engagechat

teresagross625 Mar 17 @ 8:24 PM EDT

Please join me Monday for #ImpactMatters #learnlap #tlap #peopleskills #engagechat #daretobe #makeitreal #ohedchat #edugladiators

SpanishEagles Mar 17 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2: fear, distrust, etc, none of which are productive to Ts nor Ss. #EngageChat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2: Lack of confidentiality leads to lack of trust which results in school climate & culture being toxic #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2 #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2. Fight or flight. Those hit with gossip leads poor self-concept, especially for girls, then entire school becomes infected. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2 #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2: Definitely lack of trust, safety, and openness. Other victims are collaboration, cohesiveness, and productivity #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2 #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Mar 17 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2) it can lead to a lack of trust. It can also be a liability. Ss and teachers both have items for confidentiality #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:25 PM EDT

Congrats Kevin. 30 years. Wow. #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Celebrating 30 years as a Teaching Principal yesterday #engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

well said! #engagechat

In reply to @Jyoung1219

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A2: Lack of confidentiality can cause gossip wildfire in the teacher and/or parental world. This energy brings down the school! #engagechat

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

Yes, and more importantly, relationships damaged. #engagechat

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2: Reputation damaged #engagechat

whiteeducator Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A2: Can lead to confusion, hurt feelings, misinformation. #engagechat

branowar Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

Unproven "alternative facts" with an intent to bias feelings of others. #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A2 Confidentiality is important to maintain in schools. People lose faith in you when they can't trust you. #EngageChat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A1: I always tell students: If someone will gossip to you, they will gossip about you. Be careful of the company you keep. #engagechat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

true -we should reflect on our need to be disparaging of others when they can't defend themselves #engagechat

In reply to @Jyoung1219, @Amy_MacCrindle

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

No. Thank you, for your service and dedication bro. #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

Thanks Lemarr

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Well said! Gossip can be contagious. Collaboration ends. Dominoes begin to fall and the students end up loosing. #engagechat

In reply to @i4peace_sean

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

#EngageChat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

that's so true.... gossip is an attempt to fill holes with what entertains us ... instead of mundane facts #engagechat

In reply to @spiraledu, @sdgalich

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Congrats! #engagechat

In reply to @LemarrTreadwell

StartsWithMe_ Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

A:1 #engagechat when people speak about others with the intention to put them down or posture moral superiority & or breaking trust

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: #engagechat

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Truth! #EngageChat

In reply to @MrH1029

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

great advice! #engagechat

In reply to @MrH1029

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

True! #engagechat

In reply to @MrH1029

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

A2: Lack of confidentiality destroys network of trusting support needed to equalize student learning & build communities #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Have seen THINK acronym: is it True, Honest, Inspiring, Necessary, Kind? #engagechat

In reply to @MsSLNorth

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

A2: it is not a safe space for students who might need it because of bad home lives etc. I wish people would be mindful of this. #engagechat

StartsWithMe_ Mar 17 @ 8:28 PM EDT

THIS! #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT
A1: Gossip is a cycle full of ill-intentions. #engagechat
- sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT
  
  Q1: #engagechat

JV_lack Mar 17 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2 Blur the lines of discretion between school and community...all business is known #engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2: This! Celebrate joy in others skills-our differences-lets talk about joy, not gossip! #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:29 PM EDT

yes. in small community negative rumours bout school have far reaching impacts and see Ss sent to other schools #engagechat

In reply to @i4peace_sean

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:29 PM EDT

I'm going to start using this! So true and very important to make aware to Ss.... and adults for that matter! #engagechat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A1: I always tell students: If someone will gossip to you, they will gossip about you. Be careful of the company you keep. #engagechat

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:29 PM EDT

Hi, Jen! #EngageChat

In reply to @MrsLedford6Eng

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:29 PM EDT

True not just for students. #engagechat

In reply to @MrH1029

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:29 PM EDT

Question 3 Coming up! #engagechat

SpanishEagles Mar 17 @ 8:29 PM EDT

Yes! True. #engagechat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A1: I always tell students: If someone will gossip to you, they will gossip about you. Be careful of the company you keep. #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Yes and it's way easier to break those things down than build them up. Protect your assets. Don't gossip #engagechat

In reply to @Jyoung1219

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Yes, surround yourself with positive, intentional, caring others-avoid the negative people #engagechat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A1: I always tell students: If someone will gossip to you, they will gossip about you. Be careful of the company you keep. #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:30 PM EDT

What Yvette is saying is so true. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair. #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 A lack of confidentiality in any relationship is detrimental. In a school, it can destroy the foundation of trust. #engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:31 PM EDT

This hangs in many of our school hallways and lunchrooms-libraries-classrooms-all over! #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Have seen THINK acronym: is it True, Honest, Inspiring, Necessary, Kind? #engagechat
In reply to @MsSLNorth

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:31 PM EDT

Absolutely. A mentor of mine always said it takes 5 positives to counter the effects of 1 negative #engagechat

In reply to @LREjubilee

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A2.Lets teach from the heart and not from the book or to the test .Leads to lifelong learning. #engagechat

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Excellent advice! I have told the same thing to many when they came to me about what a supervisor told them about others.#engagechat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A1: I always tell students: If someone will gossip to you, they will gossip about you. Be careful of the company you keep. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Q3: #engagechat

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A2 (cont.) Wise words to avoid gossip. https://t.co/2KODvVbTos #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

Teach from and TO the hearts. #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A2.Lets teach from the heart and not from the book or to the test .Leads to lifelong learning. #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3 confidentiality is a cornerstone to trust. The end goal is trust, confidentiality helps get you there #engagechat

JV_lack Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A2.1 How many times has a parent of another student mentioned something about another Ss I thought was confidential #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3: it allows to build respect and an understanding that the other person "has my back". It also builds the relationship! #EngageChat

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3. I think strong leaders can leverage information from others without throwing people under the 🚌 ! #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

wow. #engagechat

In reply to @MrH1029

Amy_MacCrindle Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: Confidentiality is when you walk the walk - meaning others will continue to trust you with more. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Q3: #engagechat

JoveStickel Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3 it says I trust u and u can trust me and it creates a culture of loyalty and support #EngageChat

Rdene915 Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

#engagechat A3 know you can rely on someone for support, helps build relat,

In reply to @sdgalich

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

Oh ya! I like that definition,also. Sums it right up!#engagechat

StartsWithMe_ Mar 17 @ 8:28 PM EDT
THIS! #engagechat
- Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:21 PM EDT
  
  A1: Gossip is a cycle full of ill-intentions. #engagechat
  
  sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:10 PM EDT
  
  Q1: #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: A person can see that they are valued when information remains confidential. When you feel valued by others you trust them. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Q3: #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

#engagechat A3. If I feel confident that I can go to a person and our conversation stays between us, Trust Builds

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: Trust in knowing someone will be respectful. There's a fine line though. Don't abuse it by gossiping in confidence #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Q3: #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: creates a safe space for risks... more risks ... more rewards! #innovatorsmindset #trysomething #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3. According to Covey. Trust is confidence born of two dimensions: character and competence. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Q3: #engagechat

JulieCraigCCPS Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: They go together. If you can't maintain confidentiality, there is no trust. #engagechat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3 Confidentiality builds confidence in relationships. Nothing more precious than the sensitive info we choose to share. =Trust #EngageChat

AdamBrownEDU Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3. Respects the norms of professionalism #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3 Trust and confidentiality aren't mutually exclusive. You can't have one without the other. #engagechat

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3: Belief that confidentiality exists creates a situation where the person will be more open. #EngageChat

spiraledu Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

#engagechat Everyone is not ready for everyone to know things. Keeping things between you builds a special connection between you

In reply to @sdgalich

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

Well said... #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3 confidentiality is a cornerstone to trust. The end goal is trust, confidentiality helps get you there #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3: confide: give information because of trust; not for everyone. As Gandalf said, "Keep it secret, keep it safe #LOR #Tolkien #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3.Relationships and respect starys in the staffroom and filters downwards #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3 It helps to build teams. Teachers feel like they can try new things without fear of ridicule if they don't succeed. #engagechat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3: it allows us to trust, to be able to do our work & count on others to do the same - with honour & integrity #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

#engagechat A3. Confidentiality builds loyalty also

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

What Jornea is saying is right on! Valuing each other. #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3: A person can see that they are valued when information remains confidential. When you feel valued by others you trust them. #engagechat
- sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:32 PM EDT
  
  Q3: #engagechat

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3 Trust is gained when confidentiality is presemt. without confidentiality there can't be trust #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3 Trust is essential in building relationships with our Ss if they see you as a gossip then they will be afraid to trust you. #engagechat

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3 When you build trust among your team, others will follow your lead #EngageChat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3: #EngageChat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3 Confidentiality builds trust and relationships, people need to know you're there for them and nothing goes beyond what's said #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

Engagechat is on fire!!!! #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

Hey, hey Jornea great to be chatting with you again!! #engagechat

In reply to @Savvy_Educator

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

If you have a problem-solving mentality instead of a blaming mentality, information is just facts not gossip #engagechat

In reply to @justindavidwilk

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

People know you have their best interest at heart. This will lead to trust in other areas. #EngageChat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3 Students need to feel safe in order to take chances. #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3 confidentiality on a personal level allows you to share weakness with someone and know that they will support you #EngageChat

kimmykcollins Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3 love having people I can trust at school builds a strong community! Shows Ts value one another- creates a great culture! #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

YES! Glad to see you on tonight @rownbey - it's my first #engagechat

In reply to @rownbey, @rownbey

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3: If I know you will keep my confidences-not hurt me intentionally- I will share more with you-our relationship grows trusting #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3: When you can be vulnerable but kept safe because of confidentiality it engenders team building and strength #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

3) if it is exhibited that teacher or student instantly becomes a voucher for credibility - a rapport starts #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

What Carla is saying, Confidence & competence in our information #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

Oooh, note to self: #engaged in reply to someone in an #edchat is MUCH different than #engagechat I almost told someone we were engaged!! 😂

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

So true. #engagechat

In reply to @justindavidwilk

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

A3,Our students forget most of what we teach them.They will remember us their teachers forever.Lets be good and kind to them #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

It is absolutely about identity safety for all learners #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3 Students need to feel safe in order to take chances. #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:38 PM EDT

this is especially true when dealing with Ss at risk! We need to have trust to do what is right for the kids! #engagechat

In reply to @R_CILR

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Jace. Whoooooomp there it is! #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:35 PM EDT

#engagechat A3. Confidentiality builds loyalty also

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

#engagechat is a great way to close the work week

In reply to @Savvy_Educator, @rownbey

SparkyTeaching Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

When you enter my class, you cross a line... https://t.co/nsLlJHnzyL #engagechat

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Right on!😃👍We all need a trusted person to lean on. #engagechat

In reply to @HillaryTrotter

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Teachers too! Support "Boxless thinking" Ts can take safe risks and try new strategies-which they can then revise and grow with #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3 Students need to feel safe in order to take chances. #engagechat

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

A3 Confidentiality signals that the institution has the best interests of all players at heart and will maintain privacy. #EngageChat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

and for working as a team! Can't work effectively with people you don't trust #engagechat

In reply to @jmaness4

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Question 4 in a few #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

Karen is so right on. You rock! #engagechat

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3 Trust is gained when confidentiality is presemt. without confidentiality there can't be trust #engagechat

TeachFangs Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

A3 Lots of great discussion on this tonight. Honoring your word is the cornerstone of relationships. #engagechat

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

Love this... It can also be said about teachers! #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3 Students need to feel safe in order to take chances. #engagechat

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

A3: Confidentiality can build trust by making a person feel loved. Be careful with that. You might be the only one they have. #engagechat

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

A3: confidentiality leads to more trust. When this happens relationships are strengthened and more risk are taken. #engagechat

R_CILR Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Welcome to #EngageChat! This is a great group!

In reply to @Savvy_Educator

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Justin. Great scene from Titanic and aligns with what we're discussing. Great #engagechat

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

trust... never let go :)
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell

lifeismaikai Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A3: Confidentiality builds relationship:allows the other to know their vulnerability will be honored & shows value for the other #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A good discussion to join teacher friends #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

Engagechat is on fire!!!! #engagechat

FairConsistent Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A3: Albert Einstein put it best "whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters." #engagechat

SpanishEagles Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A3: it's the foundation for trust. Whether it's info on IEP, something Ps, Ts or Ss shared, u were chosen, so keep it 2 urself #EngageChat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

Jusmar. Great minds think alike! #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3: #EngageChat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

The possibilities are endless :) #engagechat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT

love the idea of "boxless thinking" Susan!
In reply to @SusZanti5

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

Let's not forget about parents too! #engagechat

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Love this... It can also be said about teachers! #engagechat
- AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT
  
  A3 Students need to feel safe in order to take chances. #engagechat

jmaness4 Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

Low battery. Hate to leave! Thanks for a great chat! #EngageChat

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4. Always be available. Keep your door open and be willing to hear honest feedback. #engagechat

whiteeducator Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4: Asking for feedback, and then actually responding to it & implementing it. Asking for & accepting help, too! #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

Exactly, strong teams are created based on trust. #engagechat

In reply to @SusZanti5

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:42 PM EDT

All employees #engagechat

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Love this... It can also be said about teachers! #engagechat
- AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:37 PM EDT
  
  A3 Students need to feel safe in order to take chances. #engagechat

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

Very true!... Great point! #engagechat

In reply to @i4peace_sean

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: Taking the first step, be the first to model, being vulnerable yourself, listen, have empathy, ... #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

TeachFangs Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

AR Calm amid chaos gives colleagues confidence. @sdgalich #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

Q4 I always say - it isn't always what you say but how you say it that makes the difference. #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: NOT TALKING ABOUT KIDS in front of them like they're not there... kids are people too #engagechat

polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: When leaders take Ts classes or supervisions to allow Ts to get caught up or just giving them a well earned break. #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:43 PM EDT

Great point. Parents need to feel respected and able to talk to us about hard subjects. They must have our trust. #engagechat

In reply to @i4peace_sean

BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

Perfect! #engagechat

FairConsistent Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A3: Albert Einstein put it best "whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters." #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4 Body language in a collaborative setting is so significant especially that of the leader. It's more than cordial responses #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4. The leadership model is having that "Difficult" conversation. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4 As leaders we must practice the ability to "respond" rather than "reacting" #EngageChat

JoveStickel Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4 being present in conversations, listening, making time for others, validate their feelings or concerns #EngageChat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4: Listen with the intent to understand-Considering V&C of all stakeholders-listening-using their V&C to empower their school #engagechat

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4 Respect for others is embodied in integrity, attentive listening and taking decisive action when confronted with a problem. #EngageChat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4 I would hope that I would b heard & anything said, if private, stays that way. Otherwise, there will not be an open rel'ship #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

Oooh yes! Having proof that you listened and that you cared #engagechat

In reply to @whiteeducator

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4 Modeling respect, listening to all voices and not sharing what someone has told. Refuse to engage in talking about others. #engagechat

MrH1029 Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4: Really hearing others; empathy. Actions that show you understand. Seeking feedback and responding to it with ACTION. #engagechat

JulieCraigCCPS Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4: Lead by example, being willing to listen. #engagechat

RhAnJe Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

#engagechat A3: Ethical behavior is a cornerstone of confidentiality. Without it, the mentor and mentee can not build trust.

In reply to @sdgalich

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

#engagechat How to have a difficult conversation!

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

Those sound like things that may lead to trust. What about those who don't trust leader to start? What other ideas? #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4: A great ability to keep things confidential that need to be, being authentic, being a person of character #engagechat

LaneWalker2 Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4 Acknowledging niches is helpful. Everyone holds a piece of the solution a support for the common goal. #engagechat

ColeCreativeBOS Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4: Bringing in your associate level employees to important meetings shows your commitment to improving from the ground up. #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4 It isn't always what you say but how you say it that makes the difference. Interactions with Ts & Ss model respect. #engagechat

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4: listening, validating, and a willingness,and honest attempt, to meet the other person's needs #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

#engagechat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4 Empathy, Compassion, Confidentiality, Humility, Support, Authenticity are my basics #EngageChat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4 when people say what they think to your face and from a place of support not criticism. Seek understanding not blame. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

If people aren't comfortable showing their vulnerable side how can we expect them to take risks with confidence? #engagechat

In reply to @HillaryTrotter

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

I am a huge proponent of @jenniferabrams' book Having Hard Conversations. Must read for all educators. #engagechat

In reply to @jenniferabrams

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A4. The leadership model is having that "Difficult" conversation. #engagechat
- sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT
  
  Q4: #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

4) treating all as professionals - keeping best interests of Ss even if not a popular decision with all #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4: And being a servant leader who empowers others #engagechat

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4 following through, being accountable, being respectful, listening and hearing others, not being a part of the "gossip" #engagechat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4: being openly caring, kind, honest and valuing people #engagechat

FoleyKev Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4.As a leader I support, empathise with, encourage going to the unknown,encourage and thank staff always #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

#engagechat A4. Continuous building of trust, Respecting all views, Demonstrating support...And a Relationship continues to Build

TeachFangs Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4 Level 5 leaders stay in control of both situation and emotions. Nobody likes to see the boss panic. #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

and more efficient! Great leaders know difficult conversations done right are investments ... #engagechat

In reply to @LemarrTreadwell

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

Beautifully written. Love it #engagechat

In reply to @HardRockCarla

FairConsistent Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4: Leadership is setting the stage for others to succeed. The greatest sign of respect is being on the front lines to support. #engagechat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4 Honesty and integrity. Being Fair and Consistent build trust and demonstrate respect. #EngageChat

SpanishEagles Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4: asking for feedback, not undermining, recognizing others, #EngageChat

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A4: Listen to the rhythm of your school. Keep your ear to the ground and respond when needed. Nurture the culture. #Engagechat

polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:47 PM EDT

Trust can only be built over time. Come through on promises, don't change course midstream, Let Ts lead, etc.. #engagechat

In reply to @Jyoung1219

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

A4: Respectful actions & words - what people see & and hear you do is important. Stand up when others are not respectful #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Q4: #engagechat

i4peace_sean Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

So true, too often people speak to be understood but forget to listen to understand. #engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4: Listen with the intent to understand-Considering V&C of all stakeholders-listening-using their V&C to empower their school #engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

Trust is earned, takes time-many examples of trustworthiness- consistency and follow through-visibility and transparency #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:45 PM EDT

Those sound like things that may lead to trust. What about those who don't trust leader to start? What other ideas? #engagechat
In reply to @polonerd

LaneWalker2 Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

A4 I think it is important to not be "sensitive," meaning "touchy." Give others the benefit of the doubt. #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

#engagechat A4. Listening builds Trust

teresagross625 Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

Want to join a twitter book study? We hope you will join us! #GiftofFailure @jesslahey #engagechat #read4fun #sixtybooks

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT

Nicely put. Yes, have clear vision, stay consistent with vision & mission. Be a partner with Ts. #engagechat

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polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

Right! And you can't do that from your office. You have to be out there. Involved and Engaged with Ts & Ss. #engagechat

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HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

it's not something expected but built over time. Giving people confidence in you takes time #Engagechat

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LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

Yes... I've been trying to not promise more than I can deliver and deliver what I promise. #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd, @Jyoung1219

whiteeducator Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

A4: Listen. Actually listen. And pause & think before responding. #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

Jornea. You are right on. Respect is an action. #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A4: Respectful actions & words - what people see & and hear you do is important. Stand up when others are not respectful #engagechat
- sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:41 PM EDT
  
  Q4: #engagechat

lifeismaikai Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

A4: W/integrity genuine recognition of tchrs,sts.,families efforts & contributions- w/out leadership actions ring hollow. #engagechat

polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

Like how you put that w/ vision & mission. If we all stay focused on that, everything we do would fit better. #engagechat

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sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:50 PM EDT

Question 5 Comig UP #engagechat

Skymazef3 Mar 17 @ 8:50 PM EDT

#engagechat a4 Leadership model big time respect+ engagement when they acknowledge you and give you the thumbs up on yr expertise #AussieED

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:50 PM EDT

A4 Seeing how administrators treat parents, admin.assistants, custodians, parent volunteers, teachers reflect the people they r #engagechat

MrsLedford6Eng Mar 17 @ 8:50 PM EDT

A4: Being able to forgive and move on, display positivity, reaching out to others... #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT

Adopt an open mindset with gossipers. #engagechat

Jyoung1219 Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT

THIS #engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:50 PM EDT

A4 Seeing how administrators treat parents, admin.assistants, custodians, parent volunteers, teachers reflect the people they r #engagechat

LREjubilee Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT

#engagechat I LOVE A CHATTY BUNCH

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT

Q5: #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:52 PM EDT

Hi Andrea. #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:46 PM EDT

#engagechat

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:52 PM EDT

Absolutely! Be present, not just visible. Ts and staff included. We can all contribute. #engagechat.

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BPiperJohnston Mar 17 @ 8:52 PM EDT

Always!#engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:50 PM EDT

A4 Seeing how administrators treat parents, admin.assistants, custodians, parent volunteers, teachers reflect the people they r #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:52 PM EDT

Here it comes, Jove. Are you ready for it? #engagechat

Skymazef3 Mar 17 @ 8:52 PM EDT

#engagechat a5 Leadership that trust+acknowledge their workers, has so many benefits (see the pic) 😃➕➕➕

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

Be clear about your objectives. #engagechat

JKatzaman Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5 Model confidentiality by handling information on a need-to-know basis. #EngageChat

polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

What about asking Ts to offer suggestions for change? What can we do to support our vision/mission? #engagechat

In reply to @HardRockCarla, @Jyoung1219

justindavidwilk Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5. All comes full circle. Don't gossip. Have one on one conversations in a private setting. Truly think before acting #engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5 when colleagues come to talk to me, usually in my room, I tell them this is the zone of silence, and I keep it that way! #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

Nice! #engagechat

Skymazef3 Mar 17 @ 8:52 PM EDT

#engagechat a5 Leadership that trust+acknowledge their workers, has so many benefits (see the pic) 😃➕➕➕

JoveStickel Mar 17 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5 simply put u have to live it #EngageChat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT

A5: Be transparent with the things you can and be honest when you need to remain confidential. People respect honesty. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT

Q5: #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT

A5: I think for those who don't understand it well, maybe skits could work, or short films #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT

#engagechat A5. I think that comes from within. Thinking and Listening before Speaking.

polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT

Loved the story of the principal who moved his desk into the front hallway for a day. #engagechat

In reply to @Ron_Martiello

Skymazef3 Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT

Listen, actually listen. No eyes on puter/ipad/time. This would have to be my favourite quote so far @whiteeducator #engagechat #AussieED 😃

whiteeducator Mar 17 @ 8:49 PM EDT

A4: Listen. Actually listen. And pause & think before responding. #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT

I can't tell you - lol Respecting it #engagechat

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LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

Isolations kills creativity and innovation. Isolation is now a choice educators make. #followfive from tonight's chat. #engagechat

SusZanti5 Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: I'd say talk the talk, but actually-talk less. Listen more=learn, model the change you wish to see-be consistent #engagechat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5 Walking away from Gossip will help show people you are trustworthy. People will see that and feel safe sharing. #engagechat

HillaryTrotter Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5 I always tell the person if it is necessary to share some info to get more help or do my job of supporting them better #EngageChat

jasongriffinhgs Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5 Model confidentiality by proving your loyal. Others will notice and trust is built. #EngageChat

JulieCraigCCPS Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: People don't know what they don't know. Not engaging in talk. Ts may share what you already know, but they have no idea. #engagechat

SpanishEagles Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: listening and more listening. #EngageChat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: by keeping confidences, not joining in with gossip, being fair, honourable & trustworthy #engagechat

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5 It is simple - I treat others the way I would like to be treated. #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5 I blogged about this topic 5 T's 2 Ss Led IEPs Trust Transparency Tough Conversations Team Work Time https://t.co/aTBtoQmPFv #engagechat

LaneWalker2 Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5 Be consistent, kind to all. Even the biggest challenges have something lovable about them. Each is an opportunity & treasure #engagechat

ImTheRealReRe Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

can someone tell me? #engagechat

In reply to @sdgalich

kcoffeyteaches Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5 Being honest, walking away from gossip #engagechat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5 By respecting the trust/relationship I have built with those who trust me. Leading by example, spreading positivity & love! #EngageChat

polonerd Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

I don't even know where to go with that. Pretty sure that's a culture I don't want to be part of #engagechat

In reply to @justindavidwilk, @Ron_Martiello

english_maven Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

Teaching for profession and passion are antonyms. Which describes you? #thetattedteacher #edchat #engagechat #pblchat

AMitchell828 Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

Love this. #engagechat

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LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

Have a great weekend everyone. What a way to start it off. Thank you, Scott for moderating tonight. You #engagechat

Ron_Martiello Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

A5: Treasure the information of others. There is a reason why you have been trusted with it. #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT

Q5: #engagechat

PLloydHenry Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

I love it too - it makes me think of Ubuntu - "I am - because we are" #engagechat

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HowardKiyuna Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

A5: Ps ask about other Ss. I assure them I wouldn't share any info on their S. It goes both ways. They always understand #engagechat

FloradTeach Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

This is specially true when dealing with Ss, need 2 b honest that what they tell u may not b confidential if it may harm them #engagechat

Savvy_Educator Mar 17 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A5: Be transparent with the things you can and be honest when you need to remain confidential. People respect honesty. #engagechat
- sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:51 PM EDT
  
  Q5: #engagechat

sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

Awesome #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5 I blogged about this topic 5 T's 2 Ss Led IEPs Trust Transparency Tough Conversations Team Work Time https://t.co/aTBtoQmPFv #engagechat

inspire0818 Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

#engagechat A5. I try to distance myself from others who gossip about othets...Just negativity

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:57 PM EDT

Oh my goodness!! Thanks for all of the likes and retweets on my blog!! #engagechat

LemarrTreadwell Mar 17 @ 8:58 PM EDT

Rylee just nailed it! #engagechat

rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5 I blogged about this topic 5 T's 2 Ss Led IEPs Trust Transparency Tough Conversations Team Work Time https://t.co/aTBtoQmPFv #engagechat

HardRockCarla Mar 17 @ 8:58 PM EDT

Wonderful and engaging! Thanks for sharing everyone! #EngageChat

spiraledu Mar 17 @ 8:58 PM EDT

model by having 1-to-1 private conversations w/ students who are struggling rather than putting them on the spot #engagechat

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sdgalich Mar 17 @ 8:58 PM EDT

Thanks for the Great Participation everyone. Have a Great Weekend! #engagechat

TeachFangs Mar 17 @ 8:59 PM EDT

A5 These are good questions. Keeping valuable or sensitive information to yourself is priceless. Gossip is a cheap thrill. #engagechat

Skymazef3 Mar 17 @ 8:59 PM EDT

#engagechat A3 Confidentiality is super important when you want to get something off your chest. #engagechat #AussieED

YvetteJobe1 Mar 17 @ 8:59 PM EDT

Had a great time with #engagechat tonight!! Hope to join you all next week!

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rownbey Mar 17 @ 8:59 PM EDT

Thanks for an awesome end to the week!! #engagechat

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