#3rdchat Archive

Wednesday February 15, 2017
9:00 PM EST
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:00 PM EST
    Hi and welcome to #3rdchat Let's begin with intros. Tell us your name, location and your favorite, or worst Valentine moment this year!
  • participatechat Feb 15 @ 9:00 PM EST
    Participate in the upcoming #3rdchat by sharing resources and collaborating at https://t.co/bYrzKJz0E0
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:01 PM EST
    #3rdchat Mindi from the Chicago suburbs. Just got home from parent/teacher conferences!
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:01 PM EST
    I am Terry, co-moderator at #3rdchat from Florida. I had a wonderful dinner with the hubby on Valentine's Day.
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:01 PM EST
    #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:01 PM EST
    Hi Mindi, I barely made it in the door from church myself. #3rdchat
    In reply to @mindi_r
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:02 PM EST
    #3rdchat Hi Everyone. My name is Dawn and I teach K-5 science in Indy.
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:02 PM EST
    I am glad you are here. I hope the conferences went well. #3rdchat
    In reply to @mindi_r
  • tnochumson Feb 15 @ 9:03 PM EST
    If you teach at the elementary level I'd like to learn how you use Twitter for PD https://t.co/AijtDwHNh2 #1stchat #2ndchat #3rdchat #edchat
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:03 PM EST
    So far so good… second half tomorrow afternoon/evening, but then I have Friday & Monday off! :-) #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:03 PM EST
    Hi Dawn, glad you are here as always. Our faithful friend. #3rdchat
    In reply to @bickd
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:03 PM EST
    Hi @MrsPug1 happy to see you. Everyone healthy again? #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsPug1
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:04 PM EST
    I wonder if it will be a quiet night...Valentine's week has been a long one! #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Q1: What needs to you see in your students or students you know? #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Q1 is up, Q1, A1 to respond tonight. Don't forget #3rdchat so we can see your thoughts.
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:05 PM EST
    hi #3rdchat. Im Sue in Alaskaconferences are tomorrow. Best valentines moment was my S winning our district 3/4 battle of the books
    In reply to @mindi_r
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:06 PM EST
    #3rdchat A1 Ss are coming with so much emotional upheaval in today's time. Parents aren't being parents, they are being friends
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:06 PM EST
    For the most part! Just colds, coughs, and ear infections now. Better than what we started with! Haha #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:06 PM EST
    A1: I can see kids in all the areas. Basic need, psychological needs, and the highest as well. They come with a lot of baggage #3rdchat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Jerrica, 4th grade teacher and co-mod for #3rdchat. I met my husband on V-Day 6 yrs ago on a blind setup. Best memory ❤️
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:07 PM EST
    #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:07 PM EST
    It is sad. So many problems. So much sadness and fear. #3rdchat
    • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:06 PM EST
      #3rdchat A1 Ss are coming with so much emotional upheaval in today's time. Parents aren't being parents, they are being friends
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:07 PM EST
    #3rdchat In my school, I see needs in love/belonging and self esteem. It seems many don’t know how to deal with disappointment or challenge
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:07 PM EST
    Awesome! What conference? #3rdchat
    • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:05 PM EST
      hi #3rdchat. Im Sue in Alaskaconferences are tomorrow. Best valentines moment was my S winning our district 3/4 battle of the books
      In reply to @mindi_r
  • MunroeClass Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
    A1: lack of sleep #3rdchat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
    #3rdchat I worry about nutrition. Fresh Fruits & veg is so hard to get here and all stuff in cafeteria is processed.
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
    #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsAlligood13
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
    We talked about that today. We see that as well. #3rdchat
    • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:07 PM EST
      #3rdchat In my school, I see needs in love/belonging and self esteem. It seems many don’t know how to deal with disappointment or challenge
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
    #3rdchat I don't know how to counsel Ss on the problems they face, especially emotional and social
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
    A1. Safety and love/being. Thought many times psychological isn't met either #3rdchat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:09 PM EST
    parent-teacher conferences & in off the the Aste conference on Friday #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:09 PM EST
    So true this is another common problem. Welcome Mrs. Munroe, glad you are here. #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:09 PM EST
    Empathy, as well. 😕 #3rdchat
    In reply to @mindi_r
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:09 PM EST
    Hey! Kim from Raleigh, NC!! Running a little late!!!#3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:09 PM EST
    Interesting. Environment certainly plays a part, something I didn't think of. #3rdchat
    • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:08 PM EST
      #3rdchat I worry about nutrition. Fresh Fruits & veg is so hard to get here and all stuff in cafeteria is processed.
      In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
    #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsPug1
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
    #3rdchat Absolutely.
    In reply to @MrsPug1
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
    Hi Kim, glad you are here. #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • milesnawmiles Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
    A1 Ss r missing out on the stability of home life and regular routine. Many are moving 2 & 3 times during the school yr 😥 #3rdchat
  • BrookeFridy Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
    I agree. I see an increase in their need for attention. Someone to listen to them. #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
    #3rdchat I’ve been working so hard this year on breaking the dependence cycle. Just lately I’m seeing progress.
    In reply to @MunroeClass
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:11 PM EST
    Yes, and sometimes we end up creating a classroom full because it is made after we get started. #3rdchat
    • milesnawmiles Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
      A1 Ss r missing out on the stability of home life and regular routine. Many are moving 2 & 3 times during the school yr 😥 #3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:11 PM EST
    Lindsay Munroe from North Battleford #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:12 PM EST
    What are the effects? #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:12 PM EST
    Awesome, be sure to share the strategies as we chat about this tonight. I think cycles must be broken. #3rdchat
    • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:10 PM EST
      #3rdchat I’ve been working so hard this year on breaking the dependence cycle. Just lately I’m seeing progress.
      In reply to @MunroeClass
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A1 I feel love, belonging and self esteem are areas of need! Definitely areas I'm focusing on in the classroom! #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:12 PM EST
    Hi Lindsay, thanks for joining in. #3rdchat
    In reply to @LindsayMunroe
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:13 PM EST
    #3rdchat Because kids give up so quickly, they’re looking to me to help them. I’ve been asking “What tools do you have to help yourself?"
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:13 PM EST
    A2: #3rdchat Time spent dealing with psychological issues instead of teaching. So much more time counseling and trying to solve disputes
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:13 PM EST
    grapes at the store $8 I can afford for my kids, but not many families can #3rdchat kids come in hungry if miss school breakfast
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:13 PM EST
    #3rdchat A2/p2 For sure, I don’t always get a response, but at least I know who realizes they have tools and who doesn’t. I go from there.
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:13 PM EST
    A2; It is hard to keep attention. Hard to persevere. Bad attitudes. Poor focus. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:14 PM EST
    So true, our roles get stretched more and more. #3rdchat
    • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:13 PM EST
      A2: #3rdchat Time spent dealing with psychological issues instead of teaching. So much more time counseling and trying to solve disputes
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:14 PM EST
    A2 building relationships is the first place to start! Letting them know I love them, happy they are there! Acknowledge them! #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:14 PM EST
    #3rdchat A2: Couple the fact that Ss are pushed harder academically than ever before with the fact that Ss don't have a strong foundation
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    #3rdchat Our social-emotional curriculum is helping me to teach students the tools they need to learn “stick-to-it”-ness.
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    A2: 1/2 I use a lot of Growth Mindset strategies and that is helping, especially with perseverance and accepting mistakes. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    A2: I also think of balance, I want to push, but how far should I push. Where are their brains, am I asking too much? #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    Good point! We try to make sure they have food, but is it what they need? I take things like fruits/vegs for granted. #3rdchat
    In reply to @spiraledu
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    A2 S get distracted & cant focus on lesson. Low energy and grumpy #3rdchat I keep snacks on hand for emergencies
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    #3rdchat This is an important consideration at all grades, but I think esp, in 3rd, as it is such a jump in expectations.
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
    Read Q2 too quickly.... disruptive, not focusing on the work, worrying about things, fighting with other kids #3rdchat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:16 PM EST
    I have to pop out and get my little guy in bed. Be back in a bit #3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:16 PM EST
    A2: 2/2 We will soon be starting Zones of Regulation learning to help them recognize what is standing in their way of learning #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:16 PM EST
    A2 talk a lot about being positive and how to handle problems better! #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:16 PM EST
    they are at so many different levels academically, socially emotionally- where is the balance?, and it changes daily #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:17 PM EST
    true, relationships with one another are tough. They also want your attention, don't like to share. Or seek with poor behavior. #3rdchat
    • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:15 PM EST
      Read Q2 too quickly.... disruptive, not focusing on the work, worrying about things, fighting with other kids #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:17 PM EST
    Wish I could. We have so many kosher rules and allergy issues I can't give these kids any food. #3rdchat
    In reply to @spiraledu, @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:18 PM EST
    A3: We have a heavy assessment coming up...lots to think about for these kids. #3rdchat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:18 PM EST
    had to coach S through 1 & 2 digit addition gaps when others are multiplying #3rdchat so much growth in him but not "grade level"
    In reply to @bickd
  • mindi_r Feb 15 @ 9:18 PM EST
    That was my week this week. Benchmarking and my student growth goals. PARCC comes in April #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:19 PM EST
    Q3: How do we address basic needs? #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:19 PM EST
    This is true. So many needs, so many kids. Leaves you feeling unequipped often. Time is not in our favor. #3rdchat
    • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:18 PM EST
      had to coach S through 1 & 2 digit addition gaps when others are multiplying #3rdchat so much growth in him but not "grade level"
      In reply to @bickd
  • BrookeFridy Feb 15 @ 9:19 PM EST
    A2: increased demands on core subjects = less time building character in the classroom. Finding balance is hard. #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:20 PM EST
    Absoultely agree! And at any age! #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • milesnawmiles Feb 15 @ 9:20 PM EST
    helps to know that u all r experiencing same emotional needs of Ss across country. #3rdchat These poor kiddos have much 2 deal w/ at home!!
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:20 PM EST
    A3: Some students get food on Fridays. @DonorsChoose is now helping with things like this. #3rdchat
    In reply to @DonorsChoose
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:21 PM EST
    Here is Q3....#3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:21 PM EST
    A3: 1/2 extra winter clothing, snacks/lunches when needed, backpack food program on Fridays for those in need. #3rdchat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:21 PM EST
    A3 School provides breakfast & lunch. We also get "fruit day" every once in a while with a fresh fruit snack #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:21 PM EST
    A3: 2/2 liaison worker to help families hook up with community programs #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:21 PM EST
    It is good, yet bad. We apparently need a change. Very sad. #3rdchat
    • milesnawmiles Feb 15 @ 9:20 PM EST
      helps to know that u all r experiencing same emotional needs of Ss across country. #3rdchat These poor kiddos have much 2 deal w/ at home!!
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:22 PM EST
    I have one who is allergic to nuts, eggs, & milk. Popcorn has been a good one that works #3rdchat
    In reply to @bickd, @FirstAtBat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:22 PM EST
    A3 I see many kids at the midd school skipping lunch. Try to keep a variety of snacks in my room. Also let them snack in class. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:23 PM EST
    A3: We offer help at holidays. We will bus the "homeless" in. #3rdchat Get breakfast and lunch. Get them in touch with services. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:23 PM EST
    A3 try to keep snack on hand- many wonderful parents donate it!! We are very lucky to have Back Pack Buddies too! #3rdchat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:23 PM EST
    There are match offers on @DonorsChoose for basic needs. I might try a fresh fruit project. #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat, @DonorsChoose
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:24 PM EST
    Q4: How do we meet the psychological needs? #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:24 PM EST
    A3: We have a community food drive. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:24 PM EST
    A3 School supplies for students who need it, I stock up too at Target or Walmart- love school supply shopping!! #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:24 PM EST
    Here is Q4...#3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:24 PM EST
    A3 Offer clothing/jackets, food programs, sleep if needed, contacts for help for housing and such. Let Ps know what's available. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
    A3 Mitten mountain for students during the holidays!! #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
    A3: Good teachers recognize when their child is ready and receptive to learn. It just requires a pair of eyes. And a good heart. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
    A4: Building relationships. Take the time. These kids need mentors, heroes, someone who cares. #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
    #3rdchat A4 Counselor comes and sees Ss 2x a week, multi grade level lunch and recess, celebrating mistakes and failures
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
    A4: counsellor ( only 1 day/wk tho) Friendship clubs. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
    Love this. We need with-it-ness #3rdchat
    • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:25 PM EST
      A3: Good teachers recognize when their child is ready and receptive to learn. It just requires a pair of eyes. And a good heart. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:26 PM EST
    A3: I think, the way we present lessons. Pull them close, listen to them. Spend time knowing them, letting them know they matter. #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:27 PM EST
    A good teacher recognizes that, some days, it’s okay to put the content aside to talk about more impt things. Like their emotions. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:27 PM EST
    Oops, this is A4 #3rdchat
    • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:26 PM EST
      A3: I think, the way we present lessons. Pull them close, listen to them. Spend time knowing them, letting them know they matter. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:27 PM EST
    A4 building relationships-lunch bunch to get to know kids, guidance lessons focusing on relationships! #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:27 PM EST
    Love my lunch time with kids. Take out two a week. #3rdchat
    • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:27 PM EST
      A4 building relationships-lunch bunch to get to know kids, guidance lessons focusing on relationships! #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:28 PM EST
    #3rdchat Where is the line between listening as a teacher and being a friend?
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:28 PM EST
    A4: Need to teach them how to have a relationship with each other as well. #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:28 PM EST
    It’s so important to listen to THEM during lessons. If we allow them to open up during lessons, they will open up in other ways. #3rdChat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:29 PM EST
    Q5; How do we help student's with the need to reach their full potential? #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:29 PM EST
    #3rdchat How do you teach teamwork, collaboration?
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:29 PM EST
    Good question. Kind of like parenting, we need to stick to our role, Have expectations. #3rdchat
    • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:28 PM EST
      #3rdchat Where is the line between listening as a teacher and being a friend?
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:29 PM EST
    A4 acknowledgement on morning show, pics/names in halls. Positive notes to Ts or Ss. Support by attending Ss sports or events. #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    A5: Tell them. And tell them often. We, as adults need constant motivation and inspiration. So do our kids. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    Great Q. Use models, point out moments as examples. Give them time to do it. Reflect. Challenge improvement. #3rdchat
    • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:29 PM EST
      #3rdchat How do you teach teamwork, collaboration?
      In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • BrookeFridy Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    Late introduction. Brooke Fridy, 3rd Grade teacher, Florida. Learning not to be so wordy on Twitter. #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    A5 #3rdchat Having lots of opportunities for Ss to explore their interests, be successful, differentiation to help find success
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    Yes, being interested in their interests! #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    Here is Q5 #3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:30 PM EST
    A5: @geniushour has been huge for this. They are SO proud of their learning and independence l #3rdchat
    In reply to @geniushour
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:31 PM EST
    A5: I think choices, time like Genius Hour, let them explore their passion, curiosties. Growth Mindset. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Hi Brooke, glad you are here. That was a tough transition for me. #3rdchat
    In reply to @BrookeFridy
  • Kidsmathtalk Feb 15 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Hi everyone Desiree from MI #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Glad you could join us! It's hard!! Hahaha #3rdchat
    In reply to @BrookeFridy, @FirstAtBat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:32 PM EST
    A5 If they come in with an artifact or story to share I give them time for it. Hockey medals, etc. Let them know they are important #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:32 PM EST
    I agree 100% Mine is called Hour of Empower and they LOVE it. #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Today a child told me SCHOOL stood for “Seven Crappy Hours Of Our Lives.” We - as adults - need to find ways to get them engaged. #3rdChat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Hi, glad you joined in. #3rdchat
    In reply to @Kidsmathtalk
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
    #3rdchat This is sad.
    In reply to @eatteachblog
  • Kidsmathtalk Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
    A5: choice for sure and creating structure where ss are responsible for own learning and can reflect on their learning #3rdchat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
    A5. Knowing students and having high expectations for all students so that they feel they can meet their potential #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Those kind of moments break my heart. #3rdchat
    • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:33 PM EST
      Today a child told me SCHOOL stood for “Seven Crappy Hours Of Our Lives.” We - as adults - need to find ways to get them engaged. #3rdChat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:34 PM EST
    So sad. It broke my heart. But it opened up really great conversation about what frustrations he was feeling. #3rdChat
    In reply to @bickd
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:34 PM EST
    #3rdchat
    • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:31 PM EST
      A5 believe in them, show them we care, be positive, compassionate and don't give up! Continue to gently push them to their potential#3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Q6: How do we teach Blooms with so many needs not being met? #3rdchat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:35 PM EST
    it always gets to hear stuff like that! #3rdchat
    In reply to @eatteachblog
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:35 PM EST
    A5: Knowing their learning styles, give choices, time to explore. Don't rush, teach with theme. Let them go deeper. #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:35 PM EST
    #3rdchat So great that you have time for these conversations. I don't feel like I have that time, having 6 grades for 30-55 min at a time
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:35 PM EST
    And so many adults take it as a personal attack. I think we need to figure out why they feel this way and help fix it. #3rdChat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:36 PM EST
    So reality check with Q6 #3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:36 PM EST
    A6: if it's a friend or emotional problem I set a time with them later in the day for us to talk. It seems to help. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:36 PM EST
    I agree. That comes from somewhere and it a challenge to fix it. #3rdchat You may change them for life.
    • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:35 PM EST
      And so many adults take it as a personal attack. I think we need to figure out why they feel this way and help fix it. #3rdChat
      In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • kimmykcollins Feb 15 @ 9:37 PM EST
    A6 Find a way! Keep positive! Design lessons/activities to keep students engaged! #3rdchat Allow some student voice and choice!
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:37 PM EST
    create flexibility into schedule! When I taught PK, let them eat snack when hungry or nap if tired #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:37 PM EST
    A6: As educators we have to make tough choices. Time to think, reflect and plan what is best for our Ss. #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:38 PM EST
    Moving to the midd sch that is tough for me. 3rd mostly has interest/motivation. Ss tend to lose it as they get older. #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:38 PM EST
    A6. Give time for the Maslow by giving short lessons and opportunities and then focus on the academics #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:38 PM EST
    A6: Creating a connected class has helped. Using resources to make it more engaging, and fun to learn. Step out of comfort. #3rdchat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:38 PM EST
    A6. Find the time and opportunities for teaching Maslow #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:38 PM EST
    #3rdchat How do you know they aren't taking advantage of you and your kindness? Just wanting to nap to get out work?
    In reply to @spiraledu, @FirstAtBat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:39 PM EST
    ha! They get bored after a couple minutes if they aren't really tires #3rdchat
    In reply to @bickd, @FirstAtBat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:39 PM EST
    A6 #3rdchat Responsive classroom strategies and morning meetings seem to help for Ts that have homeroom
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:39 PM EST
    A6: Give reasons to learn, challenge them, give them choice. show them their potential. Do what you can to meet those basic needs. #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:40 PM EST
    My room is across from the bathroom, there are Ss that are in there all the time to get out class #3rdchat
    In reply to @spiraledu, @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:41 PM EST
    A6: Give them support and gradually release. Don't lecture and bore them. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Q7: What stories can we use to show Ss how to overcome? #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:42 PM EST
    A6: I think building relationships with parents too. Break those barriers. #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Our students may be facing some difficult, challenging moments at home. Take the time to know them, support them, and love them. #3rdChat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:43 PM EST
    I think we need to break patterns. Stories are a great way. What books/stories show kids overcoming hard times. #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:43 PM EST
    #3rdchat How do you communicate to Ps that you're trying to help, not trying to pry into their business? Concern in intentions?
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:43 PM EST
    for bathroom we have designated breaks for it. #3rdchat
    In reply to @bickd, @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:44 PM EST
    You need to build trust and relationship with them as well. Share your struggles, let them realize you are human, and care. #3rdchat
    • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:43 PM EST
      #3rdchat How do you communicate to Ps that you're trying to help, not trying to pry into their business? Concern in intentions?
      In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A7: Ida B is a great book of a little girl who is angry and hating school. It changes through a caring teacher. #3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:45 PM EST
    Thank You Mr. Falker, Amazing Grace, Rosa #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A7: Crenshaw, about a very realistic family and feelings of tough times. #3rdchat
  • BrookeFridy Feb 15 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A7: Thank You, Mr. Falker by Patricia Polacco #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:45 PM EST
    #3rdchat S said she needed a water bottle,she brought in a water https://t.co/hy09T6LyS9 day everyone had a water bottle= Problem vs need?
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:45 PM EST
    Yes, love that one too. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A7: Feel free to share other resources that may help. Guidance programs/curriculum. #3rdchat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:46 PM EST
    And, if anything, you have to understand that a child isn’t acting out with the intention to make you angry. Understand why. #3rdChat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:47 PM EST
    A7 The Most Magnificent Thing #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:47 PM EST
    #3rdchat Where does the attitude of entitlement come in to Maslow? I deal with this way more than I should from Ss.
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:47 PM EST
    @peterhreynolds has some great books as well. #3rdchat
    In reply to @peterhreynolds
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:49 PM EST
    Sometimes I'm not sure about this. they know how to push my buttons. Especially when they are disrespectful and smile #3rdchat
    In reply to @eatteachblog
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:49 PM EST
    I had a friend who asked me for suggestions on books, that was the inspiration for this chat. #3rdchat
  • milesnawmiles Feb 15 @ 9:49 PM EST
    @bickd Tell Ps positive things their exhibits and ask for ways u can work together to continue to help their child succeed. #3rdchat
    • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:43 PM EST
      #3rdchat How do you communicate to Ps that you're trying to help, not trying to pry into their business? Concern in intentions?
      In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:49 PM EST
    A7. Fish in a Tree, story was about a girl with dyslexia #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:49 PM EST
    I haven't read that. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:50 PM EST
    Q8: Let's dream big, what does ideal look like? #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:50 PM EST
    Fly Away Home is about a homeless Dad and his son. Another good one. #3rdchat
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:50 PM EST
    I have it. It was okay. I liked the message but the writing wasn't amazing you know? #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:50 PM EST
    #3rdchat My daughter read it for an English project. she enjoyed it.
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:50 PM EST
    I know how that feels. BUT, I genuinely believe no child wakes up thinking about how they can make your day miserable. #3rdchat (1/2)
    In reply to @bickd
  • eatteachblog Feb 15 @ 9:50 PM EST
    There is likely another reason for their behavior. Have your read Lost At School by Ross Greene? #3rdChat (2/2)
    In reply to @bickd
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:51 PM EST
    Q8 So let's dream....what would it look like if you could decide. #3rdchat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:51 PM EST
    i agree. I don't wake up wondering how to make their lives miserable either. #3rdchat
    In reply to @eatteachblog
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A8: In a perfect world, Ss and Ts would sit down to nutritious meals together and talk. #3rdchat
  • BrookeFridy Feb 15 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A:7 There's a Boy in the Girl's Bathroom by Louis Sachar. Best book about dealing with bullies, being a friend, families, etc. #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A7 #3rdChat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A8: We have easy nice meals together. Invite Ps for breakfast. No schedules, assessments, maybe not even grades. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:52 PM EST
    By assessments I mean high stakes. #3rdchat
    • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:52 PM EST
      A8: We have easy nice meals together. Invite Ps for breakfast. No schedules, assessments, maybe not even grades. #3rdchat
  • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:52 PM EST
    that's how it is in preschool, I miss having family style lunches with students #3rdchat eat in cafeteria sometimes but loud
    In reply to @LindsayMunroe
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A8 #3rdchat Everyone would feel safe, have 2 parents at home and know how to communicate their feelings peacefully
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A8: Families would be a normal part of the school and everyone would work together for the Ss. #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:53 PM EST
    No in my dream it is more intimate. : ) #3rdchat
    • spiraledu Feb 15 @ 9:52 PM EST
      that's how it is in preschool, I miss having family style lunches with students #3rdchat eat in cafeteria sometimes but loud
      In reply to @LindsayMunroe
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:54 PM EST
    A8: Counseling and help for Ps, with accountability. Mentors for Ss and Ps. Partner with organizations to assist with getting jobs #3rdchat
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:55 PM EST
    A8: education would be a community responsibility and everyone would pitch in. It takes a village and all that. #3rdchat
  • BrookeFridy Feb 15 @ 9:55 PM EST
    Yes! Students and teachers not seen as a number, but as a human with endless possibilities! #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:55 PM EST
    A8 #3rdchat Ps have one job that makes ends meet so that they can focus on the needs of the child instead of their own basic needs
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:55 PM EST
    A8: Decision makers would really get it, and plan and make decisions based on reality. (we're dreaming) #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:57 PM EST
    Thanks so much for joining us tonight. We hope to see you back here next week at #3rdchat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A8: School would have a more family feel, less institution. More time, less stress. #3rdchat Love of learning could happen there.
  • bickd Feb 15 @ 9:57 PM EST
    Thank you @FirstAtBat and #3rdchat for another great chat! Lots to think about.
    In reply to @FirstAtBat
  • FirstAtBat - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:58 PM EST
    Glad you were here tonight. We can break cycles, maybe pieces of our dreams could come true. Let's be the change makers. #3rdchat Be a hero
  • LindsayMunroe Feb 15 @ 9:58 PM EST
    Thanks for the chat! #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:58 PM EST
    #3rdchat
  • milesnawmiles Feb 15 @ 9:58 PM EST
    A8 dreaming big...every child an avid reader by end of 3rd grade, passionate about what they r reading @ReadtobeReadyTN #3rdchat
    In reply to @ReadtobeReadyTN
  • MrsAlligood13 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:59 PM EST
    Thank you everyone! Sorry I was in and out, fussy 2 year old #3rdchat
  • MrsPug1 - Moderator Feb 15 @ 9:59 PM EST
    Less stress! Less paperwork for all! 😉 #3rdchat
    In reply to @FirstAtBat