#educoach Archive

The #educoach hashtag is used by instructional coaches around the world. We chat each Wednesday at 8pm CST on Twitter and use the hashtag throughout the week to share resources, ask questions and collaborate with instructional coaches.

Wednesday January 31, 2018
9:00 PM EST

  • participatechat Jan 31 @ 9:00 PM EST
    Participate in the upcoming #educoach by sharing resources and collaborating at https://t.co/aU12WOvkon
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:00 PM EST
    Love the personal touch. We are honored you are joining us! #EduCoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:00 PM EST
    Good evening #educoach Let’s start by introducing ourselves and sharing a success story from the week!
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:00 PM EST
    I'm celebrating staying up later enough to be part of this conversation! #educoach
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:02 PM EST
    Christina Robins, SPED Team Lead, North Texas. New to coaching. New-ish to Twitter chats. Enjoying this book study!! #educoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:02 PM EST
    Right this second I'm celebrating an #IowaState win (basketball). We needed this one. Professionally - a great planning sessions with our Teacher Leadership team today! #EduCoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:02 PM EST
    Welcome Christina! So glad you found our chat! #EduCoach
    In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:03 PM EST
    And we are certainly celebrating having you here! #educoach THANK YOU.
    In reply to @boxofcrayons
  • Lynchteaches Jan 31 @ 9:03 PM EST
    Bobbie in NC. Not new to ed coaching but new to it being my primary role beginning next week. #educoach
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:03 PM EST
    Hi everyone, Joël from Callander, Ontario Canada. Thought I would pop in! #educoach
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:04 PM EST
    Hi, I'm Julie Nelson, Advanced Learning Facilitator in Arlington Heights, IL. Celebrating that I've slowed down to listen more than speak this week. #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:04 PM EST
    Good evening! Lauren, K-5 Instructional Coach, Indiana and co-moderator for tonight's chat. My #eduwin is colleagues taking new risks like using @goswivl for the first time! Looking forward to tonight's chat with @boxofcrayons! #educoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:04 PM EST
    Welcome Bobbie. Congrats on the new role! #educoach. We chat ever Wed. at 8pm CST. Great PLN for coaches!
    In reply to @Lynchteaches
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:04 PM EST
    Genevie checking in for a bit! My #eduwin is getting our #WorldReadAloudDay in order for tomorrow! #educoach
  • dkreiness Jan 31 @ 9:04 PM EST
    Hey #educoach! It's been a little while. I'm Dan, a coach from Connecticut.
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Fellow Canadian! #educoach
    In reply to @jprofNB
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Welcome Dan. Great to see you! Hope all is going well in your world! #educoach
    In reply to @dkreiness
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Thanks for joining #educoach tonight! The book study has been powerful!
    In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:05 PM EST
    Impressive, Genevie! Have a great day! #educoach
    In reply to @genevie79cr
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Welcome! You are getting to take on new opportunities. Exciting work ahead! #educoach
    In reply to @Lynchteaches
  • sekiebler Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Looking for other math consultants who serve CA but don’t live in CA. Need some quick advice re: taxes. Anyone?? #mtbos #elemmathchat #EduCoach
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Thank you! I’m so excited and the kids were buzzing about it this afternoon! #educoach
    In reply to @KathyPerret
  • dkreiness Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    I forgot my #eduwin - helping Ss record and produce a podcast to present info. in health class. #educoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Welcome! So glad you found us! #educoach
    In reply to @jprofNB
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Hi #educoach! My #eduwin was modeling @WODBMath and #numbertalks in two schools this week. Good to be here, but probably have to leave half way through to pick up my kid at swimming.
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Welcome! Thanks for joining for tonight’s #educoach chat!
    In reply to @jprofNB
  • laurarose1276 Jan 31 @ 9:06 PM EST
    Laura, K-2 math coach in CT; third year in the role but my first #educoach chat! so excited to connect!
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    If you are new to #educoach we use a Q1 A1 format. Please make sure to include the hashtag in your tweets
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    Check out https://t.co/d7iETHNXyL to participate in chat and obtain transcripts. #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    Listening deeply takes ongoing practice. Great to celebrate the “slow”. #educoach
    In reply to @mrsjulienelson
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    We are so honored to have the author of The Coaching Habit, @boxofcrayons, with us this evening. THANK YOU, Michael for joining us! #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    👋🏼Welcome @boxofcrayons & @jimknight99 to our #EduCoach Winter Book Study on #TheCoachingHabit 📒
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    Thanks Kathy, glad to be here! #educoach
    In reply to @KathyPerret
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:07 PM EST
    Let’s get started with tonight’s topic: Chapter 4 - The Foundation Question. We will keep this short so you have time to ask Michael all your questions! #educoach
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    Way to go!! This is a great group to hat with! #educoach
    In reply to @Lynchteaches
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    Thank you Lauren! #educoach
    In reply to @lsmith0917
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    Awesome! Thanks for joining in tonight, Dan! #educoach
    In reply to @dkreiness
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    Yes, floor is open ... ask me anything you think I might have a useful answer for! #educoach
    In reply to @KathyPerret
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    Thanks for joining us! Your book is very helpful for instructional coaches! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    my pleasure #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:08 PM EST
    Welcome, Laura! #educoach
    In reply to @laurarose1276
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:09 PM EST
    Q1 Have you tried incorporating any of The Coach Habit’s 1st 3 questions: What’s on your mind? And what else? What’s the real challenge here for you? Share your experiences. #educoach
  • CHuckeba Jan 31 @ 9:09 PM EST
    Yes!! Excited to chat about it this evening! #educoach
  • MrsGroganWWS Jan 31 @ 9:11 PM EST
    Hello! I’m Karen, a first-year K-4 Instructional Coach from Indiana. My #eduwin this week was some great purposeful planning with my Ts this week and supporting them as they took some big steps/risks with their instruction! #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:11 PM EST
    A1 if you're going to pick one of those to start using, "and what else?" is often the easiest one. You can add it in to almost any convo: their first answer is rarely their best or only answer #educoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A1 Our Teacher leader planning group had a great discussion of the questions use and plan to incorporate them w/out work with coaches in a few weeks. #educoach
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A1: After modeling today, I asked "what did you think?" This took the conversation in different directions. Sometimes I ask "what did you think about how students responded?" "And what else" keeps the conversations going. I can always talk less though... #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
    Hi, Karen! Thanks for joining #educoach tonight!
    In reply to @MrsGroganWWS
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A1: Yes, very effective. I still need a log of work on AWE, but "what's the real challenge" was extremely effective in focusing an idea. #educoach
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A1: I noticed by asking "and what else" in a group, more voices and ideas were heard. #educoach
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
    A1: Yes! It went really well. However, I found it easy to get pulled into the conversation, especially if it’s really interesting! Have to be able to refocus and make sure it’s about them, not you. #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:13 PM EST
    #educoach
    • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:12 PM EST
      A1 Honestly reflecting back on my day i had a missed opportunity to use “what’s the real challenge here for you?” Those old habits are hard to break!
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:13 PM EST
    A1 I've also been using with my virtual coaching clients! They have really opened up the conversation allowing for coachee ownership. #educoach
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:13 PM EST
    That's always a challenge - providing space for ALL voices, not just the first ones. #educoach
    In reply to @mrsjulienelson
  • CHuckeba Jan 31 @ 9:13 PM EST
    That’s a great one with students as well to probe for deeper learning! #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:11 PM EST
      A1 if you're going to pick one of those to start using, "and what else?" is often the easiest one. You can add it in to almost any convo: their first answer is rarely their best or only answer #educoach
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:13 PM EST
    A1: Yes, very effective. I still need a lot of work on AWE, but "what's the real challenge" was extremely effective in focusing an idea. #educoach #educoach
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:14 PM EST
    Great point - I realized I used it today in "Which One Doesn't Belong?" demonstrations - @WODBMath. Students noticed so many things! #educoach
    In reply to @CHuckeba, @WODBMath
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:14 PM EST
    Great observation. I can see where the AWE question would help with voices in the room. Too often we stop at a few ideas - and move on. #educoach
    In reply to @mrsjulienelson
  • CHuckeba Jan 31 @ 9:14 PM EST
    A1: The ‘what’s on your mind?’ Is a good one to ask yourself before planning a conversation as well. #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:14 PM EST
    nice! #educoach
    In reply to @mrsjulienelson
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:15 PM EST
    Great point. I'll have to remember that! #educoach
    In reply to @CHuckeba
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:15 PM EST
    well said! #educoach
    In reply to @jprofNB
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:15 PM EST
    Agreed. We all need to help each other 'share the air' in a discussion. #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:15 PM EST
    #EduCoach A1: Yes have worked on asking more questions that begin with "What." Now I see @boxofcrayons how your 7 essential ?s in #TheCoachingHabit start with "What." 🗳Will stick with more "What" questions and less "Why" questions. 📒
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:15 PM EST
    And adding "for you?" to that, makes the answer often more personal and more real to them #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:15 PM EST
    Q2: What are your thoughts about reframing “why” questions to “what” questions as @boxofcrayons describes in the opening of Part 4 in The Coaching Habit? #educoach
  • Lynchteaches Jan 31 @ 9:16 PM EST
    I’ve definitely had that struggle! Talking about teaching and learning is my passion, but I need to temper my talking a bit to encourage their passion! #educoach
    In reply to @jprofNB
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:16 PM EST
    it's very hard to ask a Why question with a tone that doesn't make it sound a bit ... accusatory #educoach
    In reply to @mydesk_not
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:16 PM EST
    @boxofcrayons how true to the order should one generally stay? Obviously a convo will dictate, but are they in this order as a way to structure a convo? #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:17 PM EST
    Yes, allows you to narrow your focus and get to the root of your discussion. #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:17 PM EST
    This really makes sense to me. I'm so glad you pointed out the difference between Why and What questions in coaching work. Totally get it! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @mydesk_not
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:17 PM EST
    great question, Heath. The 7 questions do have an "arc" to them ... but I'd encourage people to listen, and then ask the best question that occurs to you, no matter where it appears in the "right order" #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:17 PM EST
    A2 i think why questions can shut people down sometimes because it requires much deeper thought. Reframing to what is much more approachable #educoach
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
    A2: Makes sense. Why can absolutely come across as accusatory at times. #educoach
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
    Yes and it shows deep respect for thoughtful responses. #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:11 PM EST
      A1 if you're going to pick one of those to start using, "and what else?" is often the easiest one. You can add it in to almost any convo: their first answer is rarely their best or only answer #educoach
  • laurarose1276 Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
    A2 why causes teachers to get defensive; what causes them to be reflective #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
    A2 sometimes we ask "why... ?" so WE get more data, so WE can solve the problem. Asking the question helps us more than it helps the person we're asking #educoach
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
    Open-ended... I like it. #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
    #EduCoach ⚠️A2: Now understand why posing ?s w/a why in a focused conversation can backfire & put Ts on the defensive. 🤚🏼From 📒@boxofcrayons "You want more detail because you want to fix the problem. Suddenly you're back in the vicious cycle of overdependence & overwhelm."🌀
  • MrsGroganWWS Jan 31 @ 9:19 PM EST
    A2: “Why” often puts someone on the defensive. They need to justify their thoughts or actions. “What” brings about a more productive response. #educoach
  • Lynchteaches Jan 31 @ 9:19 PM EST
    I was going to ask what you recommend instead, but then I saw the graphic in the thread. Great examples! I always told my Ss I was going to ask them “why” abt everything, but we can’t treat professionals as Ss. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @mydesk_not
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:19 PM EST
    A2: "What" questions are less threatening than "why" questions. So many of the tips in this book can apply to our work with students, too - make sure everyone feels safe. #educoach
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:20 PM EST
    Yup! #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:20 PM EST
    I agree with this! Digging deeper with WHY. #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:18 PM EST
      A2 sometimes we ask "why... ?" so WE get more data, so WE can solve the problem. Asking the question helps us more than it helps the person we're asking #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:20 PM EST
    Q3: What role can understanding what each other wants in adult-to-adult conversations play in your work as a coach? #educoach
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:21 PM EST
    This will be a big/important shift for me. It is so easy to default to asking "why?" #educoach
    In reply to @mydesk_not, @boxofcrayons
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:21 PM EST
    Yes - I was just thinking about how these questions would be helpful with students. The questions don't have to be secrets for the coach. Share them with teachers! #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell
  • PrincipalJ - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:21 PM EST
    That is such a great point! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:21 PM EST
    Working on my listening skills to better support those I collaborate with. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @truebluehes
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:21 PM EST
    It can provide us with important background information. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:21 PM EST
    Great to see you at #educoach, Jessica. Thanks for joining us.
    In reply to @PrincipalJ, @boxofcrayons
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:22 PM EST
    #EduCoach A3: ❤️Therein lies the heart of the #TheCoachingHabit aka The Goldfish question: 🐡💧💧💧 "What do you want?" @boxofcrayons
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:22 PM EST
    A2: I’m a big fan of #Why questions. Starting with it... changes everything. #npdl #growthmidset #startwithwhy #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:22 PM EST
    ha! #educoach
    In reply to @mydesk_not
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:22 PM EST
    A3: Our wants can frame our goals. Goals can guide our coaching. #educoach
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Great point about implications for our students as well. Being mindful of our words we use with students is so important! #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Our Teacher Leader Network planning group watch this today - 5 disciplines for asking great questions https://t.co/efKV58yeC2 from @boxofcrayons videos https://t.co/SOUjUZJznR #educoach
    In reply to @genevie79cr, @boxofcrayons, @truebluehes, @boxofcrayons
  • IAteacherNan - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Nancy -- joining in a little late from Southwest Iowa. #educoach
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Good to see you here again! #educoach
    In reply to @PrincipalJ, @boxofcrayons
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Welcome, Nancy! Glad you could join in tonight! #educoach
    In reply to @IAteacherNan
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Yes - lots of this chapter reminds me of Culturally Responsive Teaching and the Brain by @Ready4rigor #educoach
    In reply to @lsmith0917, @Ready4rigor
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:23 PM EST
    Thanks for sharing! #educoach
    In reply to @KathyPerret, @boxofcrayons, @truebluehes
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:24 PM EST
    nice! #educoach
    In reply to @KathyPerret, @genevie79cr, @truebluehes
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:24 PM EST
    A3 it is the key to any healthy and productive conversation! #educoach
    • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:20 PM EST
      Q3: What role can understanding what each other wants in adult-to-adult conversations play in your work as a coach? #educoach
  • MrsGroganWWS Jan 31 @ 9:25 PM EST
    A3: As coaches, we need to meet Ts where they are. We have to understand where they are, and what their needs are in order to support them and their progress. #educoach #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:25 PM EST
    I don't know this work ... thanks for the tip #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell, @lsmith0917, @Ready4rigor
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:25 PM EST
    Q4: How can you increase the TERA components in your work as a coach? (p. 121-122) T=Tribe, E=Expectations, R=Rank, A=Autonomy #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:26 PM EST
    #EduCoach A3: Role can be the difference between clarity &👇🏼We assume what the other person wants or needs which then leads to frustration. #TheCoachingHabit "The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place." ➰🔘➰ -George Bernard Shaw
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:26 PM EST
    #EduCoach A3: The simple yet powerful question "What do you want?" can👇🏼and 🔜 "has the effect of pulling people to the outcome, and once you see the destination, the journey often becomes clearer." From #TheCoachingHabit 📒@boxofcrayons #BetterTogether #PLN
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:27 PM EST
    @boxofcrayons I really liked The Miracle Question. What's the first question that didn't make the top 7 that you really like? #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:27 PM EST
    A3 "what do I want?" is a really useful variation to ask yourself, when you're feeling discombobulated or knocked off balance. Helps you find your feet #educoach
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:27 PM EST
    A4: All so important! Tribe - coach is part of the teaching tribe Expectation - clarity of the coaching cycle or work together Rank - coach and teacher must share rank and build status of teacher Autonomy - teachers must have choice in coaching #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:28 PM EST
    #EduCoach A3: When we clearly understand each other's wants & needs we can move towards more meaningful & productive conversations. #TheCoachingHabit
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:28 PM EST
    Oooh, juicy question! "What's (already) working well?" was on the short list #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:28 PM EST
    A3: In a coach-coached conversation, it is vital to understand each other’s role. That’s how we get to the nitty gritty a lot faster. #educoach
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:28 PM EST
    Also helpful in a crucial conversation - what do I really want out of this? #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:29 PM EST
    A4 Goes back to the foundation of coaching and being a co-team member and not a person in a position of authority #educoach
    • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:25 PM EST
      Q4: How can you increase the TERA components in your work as a coach? (p. 121-122) T=Tribe, E=Expectations, R=Rank, A=Autonomy #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:29 PM EST
    A4 TERA is not just for coaching. Any interaction with someone is easier (for you, for them) if you can raise the TERA Quotient #educoach
  • vscollet Jan 31 @ 9:29 PM EST
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:29 PM EST
    Q5 Okay … enough of the question prompts! What’s on your mind? What do you want to ask @boxofcrayons. #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:30 PM EST
    btw - if you've not yet got a copy of The Coaching Habit, you can download the first 3 chapters here https://t.co/aXIzlHPCoi #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:30 PM EST
    A5: 😊As an #EduCoach so impt to communicate as was recently shared "This is a face of a friend. I want you to succeed. If you see pain, then I'm doing something wrong." Just like Ss if they feel safe & their affect filter is lowered they're most likely to take risks & engage
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:30 PM EST
    I keep thinking about this quote and how important our relationships at work are. #educoach
    • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:26 PM EST
      #EduCoach A3: Role can be the difference between clarity &👇🏼We assume what the other person wants or needs which then leads to frustration. #TheCoachingHabit "The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place." ➰🔘➰ -George Bernard Shaw
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:31 PM EST
    A5 Happy to answer any question that comes to mind for you! #educoach
  • Lynchteaches Jan 31 @ 9:31 PM EST
    Thanks for this. I’ve always struggled with how to bridge the rank gap erroneously created by position/title. In my mind, im still the same “let’s share ideas and collaborate” T that I’ve always been, but that title changes the way other Ts look at u sometimes. #educoach
    In reply to @jkjohnsonbell
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Yes, and I loved how the idea of feeling safe is at the heart of it all! #educoach
    • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:27 PM EST
      A4: All so important! Tribe - coach is part of the teaching tribe Expectation - clarity of the coaching cycle or work together Rank - coach and teacher must share rank and build status of teacher Autonomy - teachers must have choice in coaching #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:33 PM EST
    A4 Rank, in the moment, is typically not about title or hierarchy. You can manage Rank (the R in TERA) but such tactics as sitting or standing at the same level, sitting next to not across, shaking hands or touching them on the elbow #educoach
    In reply to @Lynchteaches, @jkjohnsonbell
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:34 PM EST
    Yes, I love the idea of being thinking partners and exploring ideas together! #educoach
    In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:34 PM EST
    A5 Any tips for starting to reframe these conversations for Ts who are cautious and/or just looking for you to “solve their problem” #educoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Be sure to check out all the videos here https://t.co/SOUjUZJznR as well! #educoach
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
    @boxofcrayons can you also provide examples of altering the other elements of TERA? #educoach
  • MrsGroganWWS Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
    A5: @boxofcrayons If you could give advice to a first-year Instructional Coach, what would be the most important little nugget you would share? #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
    A5 eg "I know I've tended to jump in and answer the question when we've talked before ... but this time just let me ask, what's the real challenge here for you?" #educoach
    In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
    A5: @boxofcrayons What kinds of effective ?s can we ask ourselves as Coaches to truly identify what we really really want and need??? Are there essential questions we could be asking ourselves? #TheCoachingHabit #EduCoach
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:37 PM EST
    #What prompts an execution; #Why empowers critical thinking, engagement, ownership, innovation, capacity building. In an education setting, even in management, I want my team to engage.... not execute. #UnlearnWhatYouHaveLearned Calling @jprofNB to share thoughts? #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @simonsinek, @jprofNB
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:38 PM EST
    A5 I like "what do I know to be true for me right now?" it helps me to start teasing apart data, feelings and judgments/opinions. That often calms me down and gets me clearer on what I want #educoach
    In reply to @mydesk_not
  • Lynchteaches Jan 31 @ 9:38 PM EST
    Nice coaching question for encouraging teacher agency! #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
      A5 eg "I know I've tended to jump in and answer the question when we've talked before ... but this time just let me ask, what's the real challenge here for you?" #educoach
      In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:38 PM EST
    I'm going to start using the 7 questions on myself - both professionally and personally. #educoach
    In reply to @mydesk_not, @boxofcrayons
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:38 PM EST
    Time for me to use with my students and family too. :) #practicemakesahabit #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:29 PM EST
      A4 TERA is not just for coaching. Any interaction with someone is easier (for you, for them) if you can raise the TERA Quotient #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:39 PM EST
    A5 nice question, Karen! I'll tell you my thoughts ... but first, let me ask you: what advice would YOU share? #educoach (I know you know what I'm doing here *grin*)
    In reply to @MrsGroganWWS
  • CmunroOz Jan 31 @ 9:40 PM EST
    In a coaching context, "why" questions can easily lead to a downward spiral of problem focused thinking. "What" Qs lead to what's wanted instead - solution focused! #educoach
    In reply to @sylvain_lacasse, @boxofcrayons, @simonsinek, @jprofNB
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:40 PM EST
    I feel an “And what else” coming. I can smell it 😜#educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @MrsGroganWWS
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:40 PM EST
    A4 once you understand TERA, it's then lots of small tactical things that can raise the TERA quotient. Asking questions is always a good approach of course! For A = Autonomy, I'm always asking: what small choices can I give them #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:41 PM EST
    Our teacher leader network planning team had this same convo about using with family members. :) #educoach
    In reply to @mrsjulienelson
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:41 PM EST
    Beautiful way to model your own growth too. #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
      A5 eg "I know I've tended to jump in and answer the question when we've talked before ... but this time just let me ask, what's the real challenge here for you?" #educoach
      In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • genevie79cr Jan 31 @ 9:41 PM EST
    A reflective way to have that crucial conversation with oneself to gain clarity. I like this! TY! #educoach Btw, I enjoy your podcast.
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:38 PM EST
      A5 I like "what do I know to be true for me right now?" it helps me to start teasing apart data, feelings and judgments/opinions. That often calms me down and gets me clearer on what I want #educoach
      In reply to @mydesk_not
  • 1kalevi Jan 31 @ 9:41 PM EST
    Kerri from Iowa joining late, but glad I could be here for a little bit. #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:41 PM EST
    I'm not sure what "prompts an execution" means. Can you explain? #educoach
    In reply to @sylvain_lacasse, @simonsinek, @jprofNB
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Can you give a concrete example of that? Thanks! #EduCoach
    In reply to @CmunroOz, @sylvain_lacasse, @boxofcrayons, @simonsinek, @jprofNB
  • jkjohnsonbell - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Thanks! Great actionable ideas for building connection and trust! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @Lynchteaches
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    ha! #educoach
    In reply to @EDMathHysteria, @MrsGroganWWS
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Welcome Kerri. I'm in Iowa, too. Glad you could join use. We are currently asking @boxofcrayons questions on our minds about his book The Coaching Habit. #educoach
    In reply to @1kalevi, @boxofcrayons
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    True. The ‘what’ direct and clarifies success... yet, educators can differentiate, or gage, with background information. #educoach Great challenges @boxofcrayons #kudos
    In reply to @jprofNB, @boxofcrayons, @boxofcrayons
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    thank you #educoach
    In reply to @genevie79cr
  • lsmith0917 - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Welcome, Kerri! We are currently asking @boxofcrayons questions. Open floor, so feel free to share what’s on your mind! #educoach
    In reply to @1kalevi, @boxofcrayons
  • sjmalcolm Jan 31 @ 9:43 PM EST
    How do you feel about admin mandating coaching cycles? #educoach
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:43 PM EST
    I missed you coming in ... welcome Chris. Happy Thursday to you! Glad you could join us! #educoach
    In reply to @CmunroOz, @sylvain_lacasse, @boxofcrayons, @simonsinek, @jprofNB
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:44 PM EST
    I think both types of questions are necessary. It’s up to the coach to gauge which one, when, and how often. It depends on the person being coached. #educoach
    In reply to @sylvain_lacasse, @boxofcrayons, @simonsinek
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:44 PM EST
    The coaching I see that has the most impact is small, daily interactions (drip irrigation beats an occasional flash flood) ... and for me coaching is "simply": can you stay curious a little longer, rush to action and advice a little more slowly #educoach
    In reply to @sjmalcolm
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:45 PM EST
    I almost think it’s these relationships that pose the greatest coaching challenge for me. SO many emotions! #EduCoach
    In reply to @KathyPerret, @mrsjulienelson
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:46 PM EST
    quite right #educoach
    In reply to @sylvain_lacasse, @jprofNB
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:46 PM EST
    This is a brilliant metaphor. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @sjmalcolm
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:46 PM EST
    So may be useful to see how The Drama Triangle roles of Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer play out for you there #educoach
    In reply to @EDMathHysteria, @KathyPerret, @mrsjulienelson
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:47 PM EST
    Yes! #educoach
    • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:44 PM EST
      I think both types of questions are necessary. It’s up to the coach to gauge which one, when, and how often. It depends on the person being coached. #educoach
      In reply to @sylvain_lacasse, @boxofcrayons, @simonsinek
  • CHuckeba Jan 31 @ 9:47 PM EST
    Love this example. Now I just need to remember to use it. #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:36 PM EST
      A5 eg "I know I've tended to jump in and answer the question when we've talked before ... but this time just let me ask, what's the real challenge here for you?" #educoach
      In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:47 PM EST
    Love the idea that coaching doesn’t have to be this huge undertaking. But more simply small daily interactions to help Ts problem solve #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:44 PM EST
      The coaching I see that has the most impact is small, daily interactions (drip irrigation beats an occasional flash flood) ... and for me coaching is "simply": can you stay curious a little longer, rush to action and advice a little more slowly #educoach
      In reply to @sjmalcolm
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:47 PM EST
    Will do. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @KathyPerret, @mrsjulienelson
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:47 PM EST
    We'll be discussing that section next week! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @EDMathHysteria, @mrsjulienelson
  • mrsjulienelson Jan 31 @ 9:48 PM EST
    Stay curious longer! #newmantra #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:44 PM EST
      The coaching I see that has the most impact is small, daily interactions (drip irrigation beats an occasional flash flood) ... and for me coaching is "simply": can you stay curious a little longer, rush to action and advice a little more slowly #educoach
      In reply to @sjmalcolm
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:48 PM EST
    Read chapter one of The Coaching Habit, create a habit and then go for it! (Just trying to remember to use it is going to be less successful, typically) #educoach
    In reply to @CHuckeba
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:49 PM EST
    For us at Box of Crayons, if you can't coach in 10 minutes or less, you don't have time for coaching. And coaching (or being more coach-like) is not something you're ADDING to what you do. It's about transforming what you currently do #educoach
    In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:50 PM EST
    I love the way you put that. #educoach
    In reply to @mrsjulienelson
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:50 PM EST
    Great questions coming in for @boxofcrayons .... And what else? #educoach
  • 1kalevi Jan 31 @ 9:50 PM EST
    I completely agree! #educoach
    • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:49 PM EST
      For us at Box of Crayons, if you can't coach in 10 minutes or less, you don't have time for coaching. And coaching (or being more coach-like) is not something you're ADDING to what you do. It's about transforming what you currently do #educoach
      In reply to @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:51 PM EST
    Consistency can be a challenge! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @CHuckeba
  • Lynchteaches Jan 31 @ 9:51 PM EST
    Absolutely makes sense. Anything more can become overwhelming and just seem like a laundry list of things to do. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:52 PM EST
    You’re right. I’ll add that the confidence level of the coach-coached will be stronger that way! #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @sjmalcolm
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:52 PM EST
    I think it becomes a part of who you are. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • sjmalcolm Jan 31 @ 9:52 PM EST
    I feel that mandating formal coaching cycles takes away the authenticity and trust; rather it becomes viewed as more of an evaluative element. #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:52 PM EST
    exactly. As @bryonkatie says, everytime you fight with reality, you're going to lose ... #educoach
    In reply to @Lynchteaches, @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:53 PM EST
    Off to bed for an early morning workout! Thanks @boxofcrayons and everyone for the feedback and productive conversations! #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:53 PM EST
    #EduCoach Love it! So important to build trust one question, conversation, & interaction at a time. Indeed as Coaches we can only go as fast as we can deposit into the bank of trust. Our foundation is begins with building relationships and trust. #TheCoachingHabit
    • MrsRobinsPKSpEd Jan 31 @ 9:47 PM EST
      Love the idea that coaching doesn’t have to be this huge undertaking. But more simply small daily interactions to help Ts problem solve #educoach
      • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:44 PM EST
        The coaching I see that has the most impact is small, daily interactions (drip irrigation beats an occasional flash flood) ... and for me coaching is "simply": can you stay curious a little longer, rush to action and advice a little more slowly #educoach
        In reply to @sjmalcolm
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:53 PM EST
    agreed. same thing happens with performance management in organizations. Performance and management have an inherent tension between them #educoach
    In reply to @sjmalcolm
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:53 PM EST
    Q6 We are nearing the end of the hour. Feel free to keep the questions coming for @boxofcrayons OR What is something you will take away from tonight’s chat and try in your own situation? #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:55 PM EST
    #EduCoach Would love to learn more about this!👇🏼 "But there are still new frontiers of knowledge to be explored, & one of the most exciting is neuroscience... we're starting to see that the art of leadership has its basis in science." 〰🔹〰#TheCoachingHabit #BrainBasedCoaching
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:55 PM EST
    A6 I do have a small favour to ask (related to "what do you want?): If you've read The Coaching Habit and are so inclined, a review on Amazon is v appreciated #educoach https://t.co/OQXwMluDMm
  • jprofNB Jan 31 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A person has to want to be coached to help guide them to what they are striving for. #educoach
    In reply to @sjmalcolm
  • KathyPerret - Moderator Jan 31 @ 9:56 PM EST
    Love it. (I need to learn to do better at asking for reviews for our book - The Coach Approach to School Leadership) #educoach I loved your page in the middle of the book, too! :) Masterful!
    In reply to @boxofcrayons
  • EDMathHysteria Jan 31 @ 9:56 PM EST
    Q5: what process do recommend for teachers to enter into coaching relationships for a system with a new coaching model? Obviously not thinking about mandating, but would love some fresh ideas... thanks! #educoach
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A7: Excellent chat that showcased the power of Twitter! Thank you @boxofcrayons for your insight and taking the time to participate! #educoach
  • mydesk_not Jan 31 @ 9:57 PM EST
    #EduCoach Great question! Mandating is loaded and diminishes voice & choice. I recently heard this difference: Coaches can request & suggest Admin can require Huge difference!
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @sjmalcolm
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:57 PM EST
    my pleasure #educoach
    In reply to @truebluehes
  • sylvain_lacasse Jan 31 @ 9:57 PM EST
    And... by sustaining a “transformation”... you are enabling a leader to adopt a leadership role of “disposition” to support, in his/her turn others.... avoiding the autocratic leadership. #educoach
    In reply to @boxofcrayons, @MrsRobinsPKSpEd
  • truebluehes Jan 31 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A6: Excellent chat that showcased the power of Twitter! Thank you @boxofcrayons for your insight and taking the time to participate! #educoach #educoach
  • boxofcrayons Jan 31 @ 9:57 PM EST
    And sometimes we need to do both. It's just good to be clear, on both sides, what role is being played #educoach
    In reply to @mydesk_not, @sjmalcolm