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Monday March 13, 2017
8:00 PM EDT
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Mar 13 @ 8:00 PM EDT
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:00 PM EDT
hello
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ers today's topic is stress! Feeling some (a lot) so a timely topic! Please introduce yourself!
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Good evening, Alex Newsom checking in from Richmond Public Schools. Glad to be here again.
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Good evening. Reed, HS AP from Charlottesville and
@k12albemarle
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Hello all. Tom, HS English teacher from Greene Co PS.
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EduGladiators
Mar 13 @ 8:04 PM EDT
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:04 PM EDT
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welcome everyone... Snowday for you folks tomorrow?
mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Not yet. Waiting ... waiting ... waiting ... waiting ... It's like sitting at bag claim at this point.
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Christine. Elementary gifted. Charlottesville. So far no word on snow. Too close to the rain/snow line.
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Who's doing a a snow dance? Anybody already cancelled?
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https://t.co/DCfKc3MfFy
OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Same in Richmond.
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Christine. Elementary gifted. Charlottesville. So far no word on snow. Too close to the rain/snow line.
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Thanks for joining us! Go Dragons
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:07 PM EDT
ok Q1: what do you find causes youthe most stress as an educator?
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:07 PM EDT
A1: Trying to do all the things I'm supposed to do and do them well.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:08 PM EDT
going to admit I am... So much to get caught up on!
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:08 PM EDT
So much to do with little time to do it.
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MsCsCorner
Mar 13 @ 8:08 PM EDT
Hi-Megan from Fauquier- Social Science
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:08 PM EDT
it is a challenge always to keep up!
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: Really a lot of what often causes the stress is the things you can't control...thus the stress
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:09 PM EDT
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for me it is not doing what I want to do/should do because of trying to do what I must do. No time
AssignmentHelpN
Mar 13 @ 8:10 PM EDT
#nyedchat
#SocEdChat
#STEMHQ
#teacherwellness
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#WonderChat
10 Things you Need to Spring Clean Right Now
https://t.co/7AJrA5H3xE
mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:10 PM EDT
Like, work gets in the way of getting work done.
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:10 PM EDT
Yes! That's absolutely an issue too. Time. I need maybe another 4 hours in the day. Minimum.
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MsCsCorner
Mar 13 @ 8:10 PM EDT
A1: Stress from attempting to do what I think is best with not enough time or resources.
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:11 PM EDT
The lack of promotion of student accountability. Too many misbehaviors and underachievement get swept under the rug. a1
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:12 PM EDT
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me this year, I have a unique stress (to me) I moved 3hours from my family to allow my senior to finish HS.
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I hate it
schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Jumping in a little late from Iowa.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:13 PM EDT
this is what I hear very often.. Unsupportive parents/admin
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:13 PM EDT
That is quite a commute, and a great gift for your senior.
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:13 PM EDT
A2 not planning my priorities and then living in quadrant 4
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:13 PM EDT
@MsCsCorner
And then every other teacher out there shows off how innovative they are and you're like:
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:13 PM EDT
makes the school week a challenge.. Way to quiet!
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:14 PM EDT
What a range of stressors (a1) As we discuss dealing with the stress of being educators on
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jcbjr
Mar 13 @ 8:15 PM EDT
John Bennett, Emeritus Engineering faculty living in Midlothian. Will be jumping on as see appropriate info to share.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Q2: How do you know you are stressed? I mean WAY stressed?
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massignmenthelp
Mar 13 @ 8:15 PM EDT
#nyedchat
#SocEdChat
#STEMHQ
#teacherwellness
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#WonderChat
5 Daily Habits that will Boost your GPA
https://t.co/P32ItfDV0A
EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:16 PM EDT
A2: This is going to sound like a very female answer, but it's when I feel like crying at school. I know I need to chill out.
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:16 PM EDT
I meant A1 It must be the stress
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:13 PM EDT
A2 not planning my priorities and then living in quadrant 4
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:16 PM EDT
@philgriffins
Ever see that episode of Saved By the Bell where Jessie gets hooked on caffeine pills and freaks out? That.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:17 PM EDT
very common response!
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CSmithGoBlue
Mar 13 @ 8:17 PM EDT
The Four Corners of health: Mental, Physical, Emotional, Social. If one is missing, you cannot truly be "healthy."
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:17 PM EDT
A2 I get a headache.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:17 PM EDT
nowbthat's funny!
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:17 PM EDT
At the extreme, mild headaches every now and again. But in general, I can tell by my demeanor. Stress gives me a shorter fuse a2
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A2: Hoping for snow so you can catch up on work=sign of stress ?
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jcbjr
Mar 13 @ 8:18 PM EDT
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A2: When unable to concentrate, when have a short fuse.
philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Q2: How do you know you are stressed? I mean WAY stressed?
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:18 PM EDT
I also stress eat like crazy.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:18 PM EDT
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A2 I eat... And I get short with people... Usually I am very chill
schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:19 PM EDT
agree about the fuse. When my speech bubble gets nasty. I know I need to destress
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In reply to @OnMy_AGame
rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:19 PM EDT
Didn't even think of that one! So true. Comfort foods, sweets are indeed signs of stress
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:18 PM EDT
I also stress eat like crazy.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:19 PM EDT
my speech changes rhythm... Shorter, rapid...
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:20 PM EDT
I gave up sweets for Lent. It may end me.
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:20 PM EDT
I think many educators are stress junkies though. It takes a lot to push us over the edge
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A2: Heh. Sometimes I think can judge the stress level in the building by how quickly the chocolate in my choc drawer disappears.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:20 PM EDT
Stress junkies or we just have a longer fuse?
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:21 PM EDT
I sometimes have to consciously hit the reset button so I don't unfairly take things out on students or others a2
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@schofield2007
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:21 PM EDT
Q3: How does our response to stress impact our students/school
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:22 PM EDT
I don't know. For me there is a certain level of stress that keeps me on my game.
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yankee_todd
Mar 13 @ 8:22 PM EDT
A3: had to remind a colleague to take a breath & relax. People look to us to remain calm during all situations.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:21 PM EDT
Q3: How does our response to stress impact our students/school
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:22 PM EDT
I think this can really depend on the individual involved and the situation.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:23 PM EDT
oh good lord!
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A3: I'm more likely to say no w/o thinking whether or not it's a reasonable request - to Ss, Ts & admin alike. I don't like me.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:23 PM EDT
I mean, I clearly don't do my job as well, but sometimes my reaction to stress has little effect on students.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:23 PM EDT
must have a good relationship to be able to do that.
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Stress response is very important. Students pick up on energy fairly easy. a3
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Depending on the situation students may either reciprocate or manipulate(take advantage of) that energy. a3
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wadewhitehead
Mar 13 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A3: Students say what teachers say and they do what teachers do.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:25 PM EDT
never thougjt of it in thatway!
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#manipulate
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:26 PM EDT
No. I give my students more credit than that. They know how to think for themselves.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:26 PM EDT
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A3: I always try to remember that when the principal sneezes the school catches a cold.
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A3: Stress can cloud one's mind and judgment. Shortened fuses.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:26 PM EDT
Yeah, that is definitely something that happens. I've been actually ridiculed for being stressed before
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:29 PM EDT
Q4: What are some ways that school/ admin/ other Ts can help reduce your stress?
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:29 PM EDT
It's human nature. When the avg person sees someone exhibit vulnerability, they either empathize or attack. A3
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:25 PM EDT
never thougjt of it in thatway!
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#manipulate
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Genuinely appreciate your realistic view here
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:31 PM EDT
A4 I find doing something fun or giving Ts some unexpected time can bring the stress level down. Food helps too.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:32 PM EDT
A4: Build in time to calendar/day to help relieve future stress? Less duties, maybe?
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
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especially for our new Ts, I find that a strong mentor can really help through these rough patches.
rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
A4: More time to work collaboratively
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ErinWest_ITRT
Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
Good evening
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goto tty to catch up on the Qs.
OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
For me, the best avoidance of unnecessary stress would be to set and maintain uniform expectations on a consistent and basis. a4
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ErinWest_ITRT
Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Good evening
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going to try to catch up on the Qs.
mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Or more time to work by myself without distraction or interruption, tbh
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A4: Being an ear, canceling meetings that can be done by email, being able to say, "Chill out."
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A4: We continually add to educators' plates. Need to either take things off or redesign what the plate is
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
I think setting standards proactively instead of reactively will eliminate many headaches. a4
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A4: Honestly? An email from the P that says, "JEANS!" does wonders for one's state of mind.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
such a great point. I had to intro something new today as part of PD, and it is causing great stress for my Ts...
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:36 PM EDT
Appreciate it. In order to prepare our kids for the "real world" we have to anticipate how it already affects them. a3
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:36 PM EDT
I'll have to use that soon!
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ErinWest_ITRT
Mar 13 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A4 Admin can remember the "T lens" and be cognizant of meetings & all that Ts have to do (mandatory mtgs the week of report cards!!)
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mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A4: Just as we learn the rules, it seems we roll out a new game. Constant change for change's sake=stress
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:38 PM EDT
As a school going through reconstitution... Change is a way of life, causes such stress. I hated tonadd to it today
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:39 PM EDT
So many meticulous last minute things get in the way of the big picture. Definitely gets frustrating.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:40 PM EDT
just don't forget to put the cover sheet on your TPS reports.
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mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:41 PM EDT
Yeah, but I'm talking about unnecessary change. Just changing stuff b/c we can.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:42 PM EDT
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Q5: What societal perspectives (myths) cause you stress as an educator?
mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A5: The shift to the Ts are to blame for Ss not doing work or getting good grades. Ss need to accept responsibility for their grades
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:43 PM EDT
That I'm not Robin Williams in Dead Poets Society
#ocaptainmycaptain
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
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mine is that schools in general are failing...
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that and that teachers are done at 3pm
mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
And that we have three months off each year.
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ErinWest_ITRT
Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A5 that IT {teaching/planning} really can be done (and done well) within the duty day.
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giveawayfazo
Mar 13 @ 8:46 PM EDT
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mine is that schools in general are failing...
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that and that teachers are done at 3pm
philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:46 PM EDT
such a lie!
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:47 PM EDT
A5: Where to start: My long paid vacations, all that time off, that we're terrible, we're in it for the summers off...
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:47 PM EDT
The biggest and most frustrating myth I encounter is that the low achievement of kids I deal with is indicative of ability. a5
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mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:47 PM EDT
A4: pt 2
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Crap like this -
https://t.co/5ZRXU0xIwU
philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
Q6: What are your best ways that you have to handle stress? What do you do to regain your sanity?
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A5 that students scores are the most important thing we can focus on
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A4: That we're in "receiving mode."
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
those that can't teach mentality.
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
Also, another myth which is as confusing as it is disheartening is that b/c us teachers hold a degree this makes us experts. a5
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A6: Keep a file with all the positive notes from Ps, Ss, peers, etc. Look thru them when you need a pick-me-up
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
YES. I've gotten into a scrap or two about that one.
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jtmitchem
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A4: Reduce stress with time and validation. Let Ts know their work matters to the success of our Ss
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
I've seen that from people in the education field, believe it or not.
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
Also being told, "Why are you teaching, you could be doing so much more."
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
Teachers, especially us young ones, need continuous and effective molding. a5
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mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:50 PM EDT
On line Scrabble, WWE on tv, and reading books that have nothing to do with my job.
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#DisconnectingFromWork
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:50 PM EDT
I write and podcast about things that don't have to deal with teaching.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:50 PM EDT
THIS!!!
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mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:50 PM EDT
I have my closet at work that I open and see this.
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
I believe in "leaving work at work." Once I leave the bldg I put my attn anywhere else. Easier said than done sometimes lol a6
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
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I do foolish things like this!
mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
I have a few taped to the lectern in my classroom.
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jtmitchem
Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Q3: Stress takes away from a supportive learning environment that we work to create for our Ss.
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mrwilliamsworld
Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A6: I also write children's readers to help keep my sanity.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:53 PM EDT
i almost never send any e.ails to staff on weekends. That is family time.
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Tried that...Any time I crossed over the speed bump near my house, it meant no more thoughts about work.
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
I believe in "leaving work at work." Once I leave the bldg I put my attn anywhere else. Easier said than done sometimes lol a6
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Mann, those outside interests are so important. I'm learning this.
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Laughter is the best stress relief and getting outside.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Most nights, I try to log off my work email by 8:00 or 8:30. It helps me wind down.
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Yes! I do that too. It may mean I'm at work really late, but once I leave, it's over.
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:55 PM EDT
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do try to remember that sleep, exercise, eating right, and a good hug (physical contact) can make kust about anything better
schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:55 PM EDT
Laughing while you are outside is the ultimate
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schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Laughter is the best stress relief and getting outside.
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A6: I declare a "no-people weekend", break out the (totally mind candy) books I've been meaning to read and read.
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A6: Am I the only person who will clean the house because I need to relieve stress?
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EspoLearns
Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
Um...can I give you my address?
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In reply to @mrpanarese
schofield2007
Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
Thanks for a great chat. Take a deep breath and remember you are awesome.
#inspirechange
this week
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philgriffins
Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
Thanl youfor a great hour. I find conversations like these help recjarge my bayteries! Have a great week, snow and all!
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jtmitchem
Mar 13 @ 8:57 PM EDT
A6: Remember that I work to live, but I don't live to work. There must be balance
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rggillespie
- Moderator
Mar 13 @ 8:57 PM EDT
I can't leave house in the am if it's messy...but don't ask to see my work desk
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OnMy_AGame
Mar 13 @ 8:57 PM EDT
I like it. You set a "benchmark" for your goal and practiced making it a routine. That's what you call DISCIPLINE!! Lol
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mrpanarese
Mar 13 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Oh, I am easily the slob of my department.
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