#caedchat Archive
#caedchat is for California educators, by California educators. All are welcome as moderators and participants discuss issues that emerge in California education, which are generally applicable to other regions of the United States.
Sunday October 22, 2017
11:00 PM EDT
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:00 PM EDT
Q1: Has the
#MeToo
hashtag and discussion come up in your classroom or school? If so, how has it come about?
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:00 PM EDT
Q1: Has the
#MeToo
hashtag and discussion come up in your classroom or school? If so, how has it come about?
#caedchat
participatechat
Oct 22 @ 11:00 PM EDT
Participate in the upcoming
#caedchat
by sharing resources and collaborating at
https://t.co/7y0wlfunj8
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:00 PM EDT
A1: I teach just one class, and it hasn't specifically come up in there, but I hope our students feel comfortable raising it.
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TeacherHovey
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
Rich from SLO. Thank you
@Dowbiggin
for this important topic.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
A1: But I've been talking about it a lot on Facebook and Twitter. And I think it's a really important conversation to be having.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
Is
#metoo
only in California?
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K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
A1: It has not come up in my classes, yet, but I imagine that it is only a matter of time.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
No, but it just came up very recently in response to Hollywood issues and Harvey Weinstein.
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
ERosenberger78
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
A1: I only teach small groups (intervention) and it hasn't come up - but have read about it online
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https://t.co/6YqPXFtiwj
baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:01 PM EDT
What up,
#caedchat
? I'm Evin from Seattle repping the Upper Left of the US of A. 9th/10th Grade Humanities (LA/SS blend).
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:02 PM EDT
I was not at all surprised to see how many of my colleagues were identifying with
#metoo
on FB and Twitter.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:02 PM EDT
A1: Should we, as educators, bring it up? Or maybe should we be more mindful that these things are happening daily?
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ERosenberger78
Oct 22 @ 11:02 PM EDT
here's an article about it that raises some interesting points
https://t.co/6YqPXFtiwj
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:03 PM EDT
Do you have some great
#metoo
resources you can share w/ educators in
#CAedchat
? Please leave a comment on the doc
https://t.co/RIswUCSRbt
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:03 PM EDT
A1: I included a link to an article in the resources (see the questions doc), written by a former student.
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CohenD
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:03 PM EDT
Good evening
#caedchat
- David, HS English teacher, writer, Palo Alto - good to be here
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:03 PM EDT
A1: I have been heartbroken at the number of my former students I've seen sharing on
#metoo
. Some only barely out of high school.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:04 PM EDT
I work in the lowest ranked school in WV and it has even been at the lowest in the US. Certainly the topic is prevelant here
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K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:04 PM EDT
I think we should be mindful of it and strive to be a place where Ss can trust us with their
#MeToo
experiences.
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In reply to @Dowbiggin
ERosenberger78
Oct 22 @ 11:04 PM EDT
A1: mindful and informed teachers make an impact - i try to be as informed as possible even tho its a gen gap sometimes
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principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:05 PM EDT
A2: We ALL should be engaging in work around cultural proficiency. I believe it begins as an internal journey that moves outward
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baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:05 PM EDT
A1: I teach HS & my kids are hella woke & I'm SURPRISED it hasn't come up. We talk about deep stuff -- it's weird we haven't.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:00 PM EDT
Q1: Has the
#MeToo
hashtag and discussion come up in your classroom or school? If so, how has it come about?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:05 PM EDT
A1: I am concerned that if we DON'T talk about it, it will continue to live in the shadows of our students' lives.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:05 PM EDT
Thank you! Added the article to the resources.
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In reply to @ERosenberger78
dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:06 PM EDT
We talk about some pretty profound experiences students have had. I plan to have students look at metoo
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:06 PM EDT
I had a student come to me about something else that falls under
#metoo
, and I found out she had an assault take place previously.
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msgunter
Oct 22 @ 11:06 PM EDT
Carolina, AP from private Catholic middle school outside Los Angeles
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scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:06 PM EDT
Hi
#caedchat
Scott Petri, HS Hist T in So Cal checking in. Had 1st convo on
#metoo
after reading
https://t.co/lJZB1GYEhf
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:07 PM EDT
@TheWeirdTeacher
had an awesome blog about it & it’s surprising how many women’s first
#metoo
exp. is in middle & high school.
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin, @TheWeirdTeacher
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:07 PM EDT
A1:When we understand our own biases and open ourselves to understanding and loving each other we develop empathy and compassion
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:07 PM EDT
I'm wondering, in CA what rules exist to engage in this type conversation with students?
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TheWeirdTeacher
Oct 22 @ 11:08 PM EDT
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I only hosted the stories and wrote an intro. Many women shared
https://t.co/rmhGrlxbnt
In reply to @K8Applebee, @Dowbiggin
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:08 PM EDT
I'm at a private school, so it's a little different for us. Depends on admin's comfort level, most likely.
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
TheWeirdTeacher
Oct 22 @ 11:08 PM EDT
Also, thanks for the shout out
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In reply to @K8Applebee, @Dowbiggin
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:09 PM EDT
------------> Q2 is up next. Look for
@dowbiggin
.
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ERosenberger78
Oct 22 @ 11:09 PM EDT
thats an interesting point - I would imagine it would differ based on districts - thats who it is in WA
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:10 PM EDT
Q2: How do you have age-appropriate discussions aimed at preventing the need for such a hashtag for future generations?
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:10 PM EDT
Q2: How do you have age-appropriate discussions aimed at preventing the need for such a hashtag for future generations?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:10 PM EDT
A@: I am thinking about our youngest students, and also my own son, who is in 8th grade. How do I explain this without scaring?
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:10 PM EDT
A2: I am thinking about our youngest students, and also my own son, who is in 8th grade. How do I explain this without scaring?
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iCoder1978
Oct 22 @ 11:11 PM EDT
A1:
#caedchat
That its tied to old tradition. With new tradition and education cultures, classroom needs a face lift too.
In reply to @Charlene_Know
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:11 PM EDT
I hate when I @ instead of 2.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:12 PM EDT
That is a tough call sometimes and I think we have to research to br prepared to answer. Statistics help
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RyanPForan
Oct 22 @ 11:12 PM EDT
Hey
#caedchat
! Ryan from
@ArcadiaUnified
jumping on! I'm Chief Communications Officer. Glad to be here!
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:12 PM EDT
Welcome, Coder J! I think you're replying to last week's question...
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In reply to @Dowbiggin
scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:12 PM EDT
A2 Start by teaching teenage girls they need to call out creepy boys who stare & make them uncomfortable.
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msgunter
Oct 22 @ 11:13 PM EDT
A2: In English, using combo of info & narrative texts to build knowledge & empathy & avenue for discussion
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:13 PM EDT
Welcome, Coder J! I think you're replying to last week's question...
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In reply to @iCoder1978, @Charlene_Know
ERosenberger78
Oct 22 @ 11:13 PM EDT
A2: teach students how to use their voices effectively and efficiently - remind them that they have a voice
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K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
A2: I’m not sure. A friend is teaching her son not to trust women, but I think teaching fear is the wrong way to go.
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(1/2)
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
Fair enough, but -- having been a teenage girl once -- this often makes it worse if there's not a culture of support.
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In reply to @scottmpetri
iCoder1978
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
#caedchat
I am. Just realized. In the tiny window I get to participate the date gets back seated. 😊
In reply to @Dowbiggin, @Charlene_Know
RyanPForan
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
We have over 300 staff from
@ArcadiaUnified
on Twitter & haven't seen a lot there, but did see more
#metoo
on Facebook.
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:00 PM EDT
Q1: Has the
#MeToo
hashtag and discussion come up in your classroom or school? If so, how has it come about?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
Not to trust women? What does that even mean?
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In reply to @K8Applebee
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
A2: I want my daughter and Ss to trust others and express empathy and kindness while being proactive about safety.
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(2/2)
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:14 PM EDT
A2:We begin by teaching and living the Golden rule. It exists in nearly every culture and religion. Create a safe place for ALL Ss
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msgunter
Oct 22 @ 11:15 PM EDT
A2: I'm in Catholic school, so can frame it in Catholic social teaching based on principle 1 to respect human dignity
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:15 PM EDT
I'd much prefer parents and other adults call out creepy boys and teach them not to creep.
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In reply to @scottmpetri
RyanPForan
Oct 22 @ 11:16 PM EDT
The
#metoo
campaign opened many eyes & I think could be used as a positive learning opportunity with students & good discussion.
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:10 PM EDT
Q2: How do you have age-appropriate discussions aimed at preventing the need for such a hashtag for future generations?
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K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:16 PM EDT
That all women can claim rape and he’s better off not touching girls in any way in order to avoid accusations. He’s in 5th grade.
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In reply to @Dowbiggin
scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:16 PM EDT
As a male T, I don't see it in my class. I am eyeballing 40 kids staying on task not interpersonal dynamics.
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In reply to @Dowbiggin
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:16 PM EDT
I am hoping we can all do more to help our youngest Ss learn from the start that respect is more important than coolness.
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scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:17 PM EDT
I suspect I am very guilty of that also
#metoo
.
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In reply to @dormanmath
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:18 PM EDT
A2:Teaching fear and mistrust will do nothing but compound the issue.I will continue to promote the presumption of positive intent
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:18 PM EDT
#caedchat
. A2 I think the situation can go in either gender direction and we must teach No means No
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:18 PM EDT
I think we need to get all the mean girls and awkward boys to stand down. Just give ppl space.
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In reply to @scottmpetri, @dormanmath
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:19 PM EDT
------------> Q3 is coming very soon. Watch for
@dowbiggin
’s tweet!
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:20 PM EDT
Q3: Outside of the mandatory sexual harassment micro-meeting, how does your site facilitate conversation about proper behavior?
#caedchat
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:20 PM EDT
Q3: Outside of the mandatory sexual harassment micro-meeting, how does your site facilitate conversation about proper behavior?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:20 PM EDT
A3: My first on-the-job sexual harassment in my education career was from another teacher. In 1995. There was no training.
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dormanmath
Oct 22 @ 11:21 PM EDT
Space, understanding and outlets for feelings
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In reply to @Dowbiggin, @scottmpetri
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:21 PM EDT
I would use ⚠️when using that # esp as a male T🍎. Someone somewhere (future employment) could use it against you out of context.
#CAedchat
In reply to @scottmpetri, @dormanmath
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:21 PM EDT
A3: But there WAS a response to what I reported, so that was good. We have more than a micro-meeting where I am now.
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msgunter
Oct 22 @ 11:21 PM EDT
fiction/art is safe entry point to reveal truths of human experience, examine multiple perspectives, evaluate using moral compass
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:22 PM EDT
A3: And we also had a T who was charged (later charges were dropped) with something from years ago. So it's a convo we have more.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:22 PM EDT
A3 We have the program PBIS are my school and use our ARMOR to teach respect for all and positive choices
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:22 PM EDT
😬🍎👋🏽 Shabana Jameel, M.Ed™ Substitute + EduConsultant. This is a convo I would like to simply listen in on.
#CAedchat
RyanPForan
Oct 22 @ 11:23 PM EDT
A3: I think our schools & staff do a great job by modeling professional & appropriate behavior on all levels. Model what u expect
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:20 PM EDT
Q3: Outside of the mandatory sexual harassment micro-meeting, how does your site facilitate conversation about proper behavior?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:23 PM EDT
A3: I think we are past the years of joking about sexual harassment (I hope!) and firmly in the realm of taking it seriously.
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scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:23 PM EDT
Love Rosalind Wiseman, her books and her team at
@cultureodignity
to help with his.
https://t.co/u8K7pxhzsH
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin, @dormanmath, @cultureodignity
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:23 PM EDT
A3:Sexual harassment training is nothing more than a CYA. It speaks more about what happens if you do. develop cultures of respect
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listenwiselearn
Oct 22 @ 11:25 PM EDT
How did one school increase
#CAASPP
listening scores by 26 percentage points? Webinar on 10/26:
https://t.co/zafinSRqY6
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:25 PM EDT
While yes, our IS a CYA to an extent, I believe everyone where I work really does believe in what we're saying.
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In reply to @principledlady
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:26 PM EDT
A2-3:👋🏽
#caedchat
iNoticed a T🍎 had WRITTEN about his predatory😮behavior w/Ss + immediately contacted
#ClassDojo
👈🏼they PUBLISHED it.
msgunter
Oct 22 @ 11:26 PM EDT
A3: district-wide mandate for certification to ID predatory behavior--take classes, read articles but nothing for Ss or curriculum
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principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:27 PM EDT
A3: All organizations especially ed. institutions should have a set of well articulated and visible core values owned by all
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:28 PM EDT
I have to say, while it is a sad fact of life, sexual harassment occurs on every level
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:28 PM EDT
#ClassDojo
did not respond. The T🍎DELETED the predatory behavior. I suggested
#ClassDojo
work w/ Authorities to address it.
#CAedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:28 PM EDT
A3: I think our annual mandated reporter training helps remind our Ts of what is NOT okay behavior.
#caedchat
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:29 PM EDT
------------> Q4 is set. Keep watch for
@dowbiggin
.
#caedchat
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:29 PM EDT
A3: I like to think that our staff models this but there have been contrary instances. I have to assume best intentions.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:30 PM EDT
Q4: You know a student, a teacher, or an admin who is part of the
#MeToo
movement. How do you support her?
#caedchat
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:30 PM EDT
Q4: You know a student, a teacher, or an admin who is part of the
#MeToo
movement. How do you support her?
#caedchat
dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:30 PM EDT
We had some serious conversations on many levels about SH when the gender identity and bathroom issues were such big news
#caedchat
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:30 PM EDT
#ClassDojo
👸🏼🤴🏽🤴🏼
#DontTellUsWhatToDo
#CAedchat
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:30 PM EDT
Unfortunately our site doesn’t facilitate conversations regarding sexual harassment of any sort.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:31 PM EDT
A4: When the person involved is a minor, I have no choice but to report, but I also seek counseling help as well for the S.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:31 PM EDT
Q4- I do not but will be investigating if my colleagues are aware and if not, inform
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MaryC_37
Oct 22 @ 11:31 PM EDT
A4: Thanking her for her strength to come forward and share her story
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In reply to @Dowbiggin
msgunter
Oct 22 @ 11:32 PM EDT
Maybe recent events and
#metoo
will maintain momentum/presence & influence culture change
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:33 PM EDT
A4: Listen as an acknowledgement of her story, if she chooses to share. Avoid minimalizing or trivializing her experience.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:33 PM EDT
A4: EVERYONE knows someone who COULD respond with
#metoo
, even if they're not choosing to. Trust me.
#caedchat
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:33 PM EDT
📚
#QueenBeesAndWannabees
was one of the first to address female aggression + female bullying.
#NationalBullyingMonth
#CAedchat
In reply to @scottmpetri, @Dowbiggin, @dormanmath, @cultureodignity
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:34 PM EDT
A4: I definitely agree with the not minimizing their experience. Also, avoid any kind of judgment or victim shaming.
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baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:35 PM EDT
A2: We do work at my school around social justice w/ race, but not gender. (Doing a whiteness & Things Fall Apart unit now)
#caedchat
1/
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:10 PM EDT
Q2: How do you have age-appropriate discussions aimed at preventing the need for such a hashtag for future generations?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:35 PM EDT
A4: Avoid any kind of question along the lines of "what were you..." or "what did you..." that constitutes victim-blaming.
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RyanPForan
Oct 22 @ 11:36 PM EDT
A4. Listen and support. Also let them know of rights and resources.
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baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:36 PM EDT
A2: I'm intrigued of maybe doing a Handmaid's Tale with some World History unit focusing on gender.
#caedchat
2/2
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:37 PM EDT
That's got all kinds of great implications for the America we're living in right now!
#caedchat
In reply to @baritoneblogger
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:39 PM EDT
------------> Q5 is up next. Look for
@dowbiggin
’s tweet!
#caedchat
baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:39 PM EDT
I'm mdern wrld history tho -- so I need to pair it w/ a time period in Asia or Africa or S. America. (We try to avoid N. America).
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In reply to @Dowbiggin
dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:39 PM EDT
I am a rape survivor and have found that it can be empowering for Ss to hear my story and know life does move beyond that moment
#caedchat
CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:40 PM EDT
Q5: In what ways can you empower your male students and colleagues to be mindful of why the
#MeToo
movement exists?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:40 PM EDT
Q5: In what ways can you empower your male students and colleagues to be mindful of why the
#MeToo
movement exists?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:40 PM EDT
Thank you for being willing to share that, with us, and with Ss. I am certain it does help. I've done similar.
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:40 PM EDT
I like it. Maybe revolutions around the world -- Iranian revolution?
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In reply to @msgunter
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:40 PM EDT
A5:Help them recognize the subtle and not so subtle misogynistic messages easily found in print, ads, TV at any given moment
#caedchat
hesheretohelp
Oct 22 @ 11:40 PM EDT
A1. It hasn't come up in my class. We do work on treating everyone more than fairly from day 1.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:41 PM EDT
A5: I want to tell them I believe in them and trust them to be upstanding young men who will respect and make good choices.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:41 PM EDT
A5: That doesn't sound too Pollyanna, does it?
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baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:41 PM EDT
A3: We don't talk about it at all. It's the same district training when you first get hired.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:20 PM EDT
Q3: Outside of the mandatory sexual harassment micro-meeting, how does your site facilitate conversation about proper behavior?
#caedchat
dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:41 PM EDT
Q5- that NO means NO and that they too can be victims
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:41 PM EDT
A5: Many of my male students are HS athletes, and they might feel pressure to behave in certain ways. I try to challenge that.
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:42 PM EDT
A4: iWould NOT👂🏽 unless it was in a StaffRM w/other 🍎Ts. Sometimes negative info is used4️⃣power by girls/women. 1/2
#CAedchat
hesheretohelp
Oct 22 @ 11:42 PM EDT
A2. Just be real and be respectful of everyone. Groundrules.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:42 PM EDT
When I read this one (dated) book from 1965, I point out the outdated gender roles and say "we're better now."
#caedchat
In reply to @hesheretohelp
MaryC_37
Oct 22 @ 11:42 PM EDT
A5: Reminding them that women sometimes have to put their careers as a consequence for speaking up. Which shouldn't happen.
#caedchat
In reply to @CAedchat
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:43 PM EDT
A5: My husband, also teaches HS Eng, says it’s about recognizing the pervasiveness of the experience as friends share it.
#caedchat
(1/2)
principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:43 PM EDT
A5: Foster restorative practices
#caedchat
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:44 PM EDT
A4: Sometimes girls/women share negative info w/ ppl who are perceived to be socially or professionally inferior 😬🍎. 2/2
#CAedchat
baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:44 PM EDT
A4: For me, it's content I bring in class. I love analyzing Indpndnt Rdng books or TV shows to push all Ss to think deeper.
#caedchat
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:30 PM EDT
Q4: You know a student, a teacher, or an admin who is part of the
#MeToo
movement. How do you support her?
#caedchat
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:44 PM EDT
A5: Once someone has a friend, colleague, relative that they trust share their experience, it can become more real.
#caedchat
(2/2)
hesheretohelp
Oct 22 @ 11:44 PM EDT
A4: Be there for the person to share their story. Support. Don't get in the way of their feelings. Help others.
#caedchat
scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:44 PM EDT
A5 Alarmed by the # of HS girls I hear calling ea other sl_ts & Ho's. Then quickly add JK as disclaimer.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:45 PM EDT
I call out that kind of language from ALL kids, saying it hurts my heart to hear such words used.
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sdominguez_3
Oct 22 @ 11:45 PM EDT
@FeasterCharter
focuses on Ss strengths! All 4-8 ss take
@thrively
assessment n our
#mindlabs
classes
#p21exemplar
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#feasterlearns
hesheretohelp
Oct 22 @ 11:46 PM EDT
A5: Tougher. I would help them to be open to the feelings, opinions, thoughts of others and realize that these are all valid.
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:47 PM EDT
🤓Empower Male Colleagues+ Ss 😬🍎girls/women sometimes share negative info for power or social leverage over other girls/women.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:48 PM EDT
A5: We can't friend Ss on FB until they graduate, but some follow my Twitter, Instagram. I try 2 share good reads on these topics.
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:48 PM EDT
A4: Male Colleagues have the right to 💬This is making me uncomfortable. It doesn’t make you a bad Colleague.
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scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:48 PM EDT
Sit w Ss at a HS football game. You will be broken-hearted. I left b4 halftime Fri w my 9 & 13 yr old girls.
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:49 PM EDT
------------> Prepare for Q6 from
@dowbiggin
.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:49 PM EDT
We can friend Ss but I think it's too much of a slippery slope.
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:49 PM EDT
This format empowers men. Women share in a group despite sharing individually. And men can decide how to share that info.
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TheWeirdTeacher
Oct 22 @ 11:08 PM EDT
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I only hosted the stories and wrote an intro. Many women shared
https://t.co/rmhGrlxbnt
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:50 PM EDT
Q6: Without having it become a distraction to instruction, what are some ways to empower people to share their
#MeToo
stories?
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CAedchat
Oct 22 @ 11:50 PM EDT
Q6: Without having it become a distraction to instruction, what are some ways to empower people to share their
#MeToo
stories?
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:50 PM EDT
I wait until they have graduated. And even then, I am selective.
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:50 PM EDT
Agreed. Recently with boys using the term “attack helicopter” but didn’t think it was hurtful b/c they didn’t create the term.
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baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:50 PM EDT
A4: Speak is a great read for all 9th graders. 13 Reasons Why is dope as well.
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2/2
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:51 PM EDT
It hasn't been too bad at our football games so far. (I go to almost all of them.) But our Ss are sheltered.
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In reply to @scottmpetri
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:51 PM EDT
One of our summer reading option titles for faculty was 13 Reasons Why.
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In reply to @baritoneblogger
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:51 PM EDT
I👂🏽this via
#Hacking
by
#ClassDojo
employees for expressing + sharing
#sexualharassment
+
#AttemptedMurder
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scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:44 PM EDT
A5 Alarmed by the # of HS girls I hear calling ea other sl_ts & Ho's. Then quickly add JK as disclaimer.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:52 PM EDT
A6: Our advisory program is often small-group enough to have the tough conversations in a safe environment.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:52 PM EDT
A6: Also, sometimes intense topics come up in GSA meetings.
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baritoneblogger
Oct 22 @ 11:52 PM EDT
I'm obsessed. The TV show was a bit extra, but love the book.
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dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:53 PM EDT
Q6 It took me almost 20 years to share with someone other than my husband, it's something that every person must decide
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:53 PM EDT
A6: I have found that 1:1 relationships w/ Ss are how the sharing ends up coming my way the most.
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:53 PM EDT
Agreed. Very few people know what happened to me. And my life is usually a pretty open book.
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:54 PM EDT
referring to the assault, not the harassment.
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In reply to @Dowbiggin, @dmkrabbe
MaryC_37
Oct 22 @ 11:54 PM EDT
Making sure the person sharing the story has support and that they have nothing to lose if they decide to share their story.
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K8Applebee
Oct 22 @ 11:55 PM EDT
A6: Create an environment through other interactions that supports the sharing of
#metoo
experiences & supports those sharing
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8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:55 PM EDT
Another way to empower men: keep the🤔wife in mind. Is it something that can be shared w/your spouse? Is it to create😱intimacy🤢?
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principledlady
Oct 22 @ 11:55 PM EDT
Thanks
#caedchat
. Share some love this week. It is the answer to all that is broken.
dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:55 PM EDT
Q6- I think we can let students know it can help others to share their "me too" stories but only if they are ready to share
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:55 PM EDT
This is exactly what I seek to do. Last week, I got more than I bargained for. But I managed okay. (with help)
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In reply to @K8Applebee
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:56 PM EDT
Attack helicopter?
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In reply to @K8Applebee, @Dowbiggin, @scottmpetri
dmkrabbe
Oct 22 @ 11:57 PM EDT
I think teaching kindness by being kind is a start for Ss to see how we should treat others. Only with kindness can we change
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scottmpetri
Oct 22 @ 11:58 PM EDT
If someone tells you teachers would be better off with a 401(k), don't believe it.
https://t.co/fBCdjKonoV
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Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Oct 22 @ 11:58 PM EDT
Definitely need to BE the change we wish to see, and that's how to do it.
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In reply to @dmkrabbe
RyanPForan
Oct 22 @ 11:59 PM EDT
Thanks for the challenging and very important
#caedchat
tonight. Much appreciated.
8blah8blah8
Oct 22 @ 11:59 PM EDT
Girls can be both vulnerable + not understand intimacy + approach Male Teachers instead of peers. 1/2
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