#edumatch Archive
The mission of EduMatch is to connect educators around the world, along similar topics of interest.
Sunday March 12, 2017
6:00 PM EDT
participatechat
Mar 12 @ 6:00 PM EDT
Participate in the upcoming
#edumatch
by sharing resources and collaborating at
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dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:00 PM EDT
Tweet & Talk 81: Difficult Conversations about to go down!
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gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:01 PM EDT
This is my first twitter chat.
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dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:01 PM EDT
Welcome Gail, hey!
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In reply to @gailacoughlan
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:02 PM EDT
@gailacoughlan
Welcome, Gail!
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In reply to @gailacoughlan, @gailacoughlan
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:02 PM EDT
RT edu_match: gailacoughlan gailacoughlan Welcome, Gail!
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:04 PM EDT
Welcome to
#EduMatch
! Tonight we talk about difficult conversations in
#education
. Please introduce yourself!
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:04 PM EDT
Thx. This is a live chat from 6 to 6:15, correct. What's the topic?
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:04 PM EDT
@gailacoughlan
This is correct. Our topic is difficult conversations in educaiton.
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In reply to @gailacoughlan, @gailacoughlan
dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:04 PM EDT
Yes, difficult conversations
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In reply to @gailacoughlan
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:05 PM EDT
Here is Q2!
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LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:05 PM EDT
Hello
#EDUmatch
Lemarr Treadwell, Fresno CA
IMD918
Mar 12 @ 6:05 PM EDT
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hi Irene from NJ
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:05 PM EDT
Sorry, pictures have not been posting. Q1. Please introduce yourself with your name, location, and role in education.
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:06 PM EDT
Q2. What types of difficult conversations do we regularly have to have as educators, and what makes them difficult?
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Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:06 PM EDT
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hi, Rachelle from Pittsburgh, Spanish and STEAM T,
In reply to @edu_match
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:07 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Welcome to
#EduMatch
! Tonight we talk about difficult conversations in
#education
. Please introduce yourself!
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:07 PM EDT
RT edu_match: gailacoughlan gailacoughlan This is correct. Our topic is difficult conversations in educaiton.
#edumatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:07 PM EDT
Welcome, Rachelle! Great to see you. Thanks for joining!
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In reply to @Rdene915
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:07 PM EDT
Welcome, Sylvia! Great to see you! Thanks for joining.
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In reply to @SylviaEllison
dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:07 PM EDT
Hey Rachelle!
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In reply to @edu_match, @Rdene915
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:07 PM EDT
Difficult talks with students & parents when they have checked out of their educational opportunity.
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rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:08 PM EDT
Rylee Middle School sped Valdez, AK so excited for this chat!
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Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:08 PM EDT
Hello everyone! Shawna. Pre-k/kindergarten readiness educator in Phoenix, Az!
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In reply to @edu_match
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:08 PM EDT
A2.
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The most difficult conversation are about importance of State Standardized Testing Scores.
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:06 PM EDT
Q2. What types of difficult conversations do we regularly have to have as educators, and what makes them difficult?
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:09 PM EDT
Great point. How do we get stakeholders back on board when this occurs?
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In reply to @gailacoughlan
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:09 PM EDT
Life Skills special ed. teacher for grades 9-12+ in Gardiner, ME
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Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:09 PM EDT
A2: behavior issues. Sometimes they only happen at school so its hard for parents to believe
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In reply to @edu_match
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:09 PM EDT
Thanks Rylee! Great to see you!
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In reply to @rownbey
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:09 PM EDT
Hi Shawna! Great to see you!
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In reply to @Hudsonwife16
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:09 PM EDT
A2 Pedagogical coversations with teachers - my desire is to support, often time gets in the way
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:06 PM EDT
Q2. What types of difficult conversations do we regularly have to have as educators, and what makes them difficult?
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massignmenthelp
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
#EduMatch
5 Signs Indicate that you Need to Hire Online Math Tutor
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Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
Awesome to be here! Can't wait to connect!
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In reply to @edu_match
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
#edumatch
great to see you all relationships are so important especially now
In reply to @dene_gainey, @edu_match
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
Q3. Why is it important to have difficult conversations in education?
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
Great point, Sylvia! How does it get in the way, and how do you have these difficult conversations?
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In reply to @SylviaEllison
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
A1: jumping in. Kenny. Asheville, NC . HS literacy coach.
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IMD918
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
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a difficult talk is showing a Ss where they are according to their grades
Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
A3: If u keep something to yourself that will not promote change
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In reply to @edu_match
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
I've heard about this happening a lot lol. What strategies can you use in this situation?
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In reply to @Hudsonwife16
ChristieNold
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
Yes! Identity, tradition, innovation - all challenging!
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gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
Work hard at building bridges & showing interest in each individual student. It helps when difficult conversation needs to happen.
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Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
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A2 talking abt behavior, student progress, conversation with peers/ admin, diff if news not always positive, but necess
In reply to @edu_match
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Rdene915 Welcome, Rachelle! Great to see you. Thanks for joining!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: SylviaEllison Welcome, Sylvia! Great to see you! Thanks for joining.
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: RT Rdene915: Join in the
#edusnap16
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book study going on now. Great conversation, share ideas with authors, build
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: gailacoughlan Great point. How do we get stakeholders back on board when this occurs?
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: rownbey Thanks Rylee! Great to see you!
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Hudsonwife16 Hi Shawna! Great to see you!
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Q3. Why is it important to have difficult conversations in education?
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https://t.co/DMDbaCiIK6
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: SylviaEllison Great point, Sylvia! How does it get in the way, and how do you have these difficult conversations?
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Hudsonwife16 I've heard about this happening a lot lol. What strategies can you use in this situation?
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
Hi Kenny! Great to see you!
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In reply to @kennycmckee
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
So true!
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Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
A3: If u keep something to yourself that will not promote change
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In reply to @edu_match
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A3 ... can't grow our craft or pedagogy without difficult conversations .. need to always be pushed out of comfort to change
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
Q3. Why is it important to have difficult conversations in education?
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LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A3.
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Most times they are important to have because I've found they were not that difficult. We actually agreed on most of the ideas
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
Q3. Why is it important to have difficult conversations in education?
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
Catch the live panel now at
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
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MLRing100
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A1: MaryLu ITF, Wake County, NC
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kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A2: conversations about stereotypes and generalizations about people are often difficult.
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TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A3: The worst behavior you are willing to accept determines the level of school excellence. Have the difficult conversation.
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Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:13 PM EDT
Observations! And have another set of eyes do the same so they know its happening
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In reply to @edu_match
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:13 PM EDT
Try to do coaching cycles .. takes time ... most tchrs need to make time to get back time ... some can't, some won't
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
Great point, Sylvia! How does it get in the way, and how do you have these difficult conversations?
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In reply to @SylviaEllison
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:13 PM EDT
those are hard.
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In reply to @gailacoughlan
rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:13 PM EDT
A3 My role as an advocate 4
#sped
Ss is serious &means I have to be okay w/difficult conv. Sometimes I'm the only 1 in a Ss corner
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:13 PM EDT
Q4. Shara an anecdote about a difficult conversation you had in the workplace and what you learned as a result.
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ChristieNold
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
I would add questioning to that great list of three!
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
Q4. Share an anecdote about a difficult conversation you had in the workplace and what you learned as a result.
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LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
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Sylvia. So totally agree. Most times learning occurs outside the comfort zone.
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A3 ... can't grow our craft or pedagogy without difficult conversations .. need to always be pushed out of comfort to change
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:10 PM EDT
Q3. Why is it important to have difficult conversations in education?
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kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
A3: it's how we grow. It helps us improve. It protects kids.
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TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
A3: Choose integrity over popularity. Do what is best for kids. All day. Every day. It is better to be trusted than to be liked.
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AssignmentHelpN
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
#EduMatch
10 Facts you Must Know Before Choosing Fashion Designing as a Career
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
I agree, many times they may seem daunting, but surprisingly parties can find common ground.
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In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
MLRing100
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
A2: That technology alone does not make a great lesson.
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
Welcome, MaryLu!
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In reply to @MLRing100
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
This is so true!
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kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A2: conversations about stereotypes and generalizations about people are often difficult.
#EduMatch
Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
A4: b/c I am good at what I do don't cont. to ignore me to give attn. to the negative. Keep being myself. Get noticed
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In reply to @edu_match
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:15 PM EDT
Good point!
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TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A3: The worst behavior you are willing to accept determines the level of school excellence. Have the difficult conversation.
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TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:16 PM EDT
Sorry. Travis from Colorado dropping in late.
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rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:16 PM EDT
A4 w/fellow T about not requiring my
#sped
Ss to write in cursive due to his OT challenges. Deep philosophical diff of opinion!
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:16 PM EDT
Great to have you, Travis!
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In reply to @TravisDGaroutte
IMD918
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
#edumatch
reteaching and reassessing works!!!!
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
Ah! What ended up happening?
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In reply to @rownbey
MLRing100
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
A3: Difficult conversations can lead to growth. If we don't have them T's & S's think everything they are doing is great.
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: kennycmckee Hi Kenny! Great to see you!
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: So true!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/UwT5Zd9TRz
Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:11 PM EDT
A3: If u keep something to yourself that will not promote change
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In reply to @edu_match
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Catch the live panel now at
https://t.co/CS3VNW9jZq
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: LemarrTreadwell I agree, many times they may seem daunting, but surprisingly parties can find common ground.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: MLRing100 Welcome, MaryLu!
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: This is so true!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/rJVqYHYHEP
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A2: conversations about stereotypes and generalizations about people are often difficult.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Good point!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/7ZQsWGqscK
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:12 PM EDT
A3: The worst behavior you are willing to accept determines the level of school excellence. Have the difficult conversation.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: TravisDGaroutte Great to have you, Travis!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
RT edu_match: rownbey Ah! What ended up happening?
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LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:17 PM EDT
A4.
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The rabbit and the tortoise. Growth mindset. Which one?
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:18 PM EDT
#edumatch
A3 everyone needs feedback, help to grow, move forward, connect, we are all learners
#edchat
In reply to @edu_match
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:18 PM EDT
Difficult conversations could be about risky behaviors we are aware of the S engaging in
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:18 PM EDT
Interested in receiving grad credits for all of this connecting? Contact
@RandallSampson
!
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In reply to @RandallSampson
cwolfe_ghesl
Mar 12 @ 6:18 PM EDT
#edumatch
I am Cathy Wolfe ESL literacy and tech teacher adult multi-level literacy classes
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
This is true! Very important to have!
#EduMatch
In reply to @gailacoughlan
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
A4 Lately ... mediating students "you were their entertainment" - Sts react instead of assume positive intent and ask
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
Q4. Share an anecdote about a difficult conversation you had in the workplace and what you learned as a result.
#EduMatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Thank you, super Travis. It is better to be trusted....
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:14 PM EDT
A3: Choose integrity over popularity. Do what is best for kids. All day. Every day. It is better to be trusted than to be liked.
#EduMatch
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
A4: I put a teacher into "Fight or Flight" mode by telling them I needed to see improvement. I should have worked on a win-win.
#EduMatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
Hi Cathy! Great to see you!
#EduMatch
In reply to @cwolfe_ghesl
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
Sharing that mistakes are valuable if we can learn from them. Basic age-old premise.
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:20 PM EDT
Mentioned by the panel on
#EduMatch
:
https://t.co/mYBfXX7eOU
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:20 PM EDT
#edumatch
@edu_match
key words immediate feedback, don't wait. Then Listen, Validate is so key, redirect, these steps build relat & trust
In reply to @edu_match
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:20 PM EDT
Start with some positive behaviors before addressing the negative ones. May be more willing to receive the message.
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edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:20 PM EDT
This is a fantastic point. I like the win-win mentality.
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TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
A4: I put a teacher into "Fight or Flight" mode by telling them I needed to see improvement. I should have worked on a win-win.
#EduMatch
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:20 PM EDT
I can agree ... building bridges toward trust is so much harder when I've blown them up or allowed them to be destroyed
#EduMatch
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
A4: I put a teacher into "Fight or Flight" mode by telling them I needed to see improvement. I should have worked on a win-win.
#EduMatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Last question! Q5. How do we help our students engage in difficult conversations?
#edumatch
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Difficult Dialogues in Education from
@VanderbiltU
#EduMatch
https://t.co/SGH2gKUGOG
In reply to @VanderbiltU
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Thanks so much for sharing!
#EduMatch
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Difficult Dialogues in Education from
@VanderbiltU
#EduMatch
https://t.co/SGH2gKUGOG
In reply to @VanderbiltU
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Have as many positive contacts with S & parents before a challenging situation has to be addressed. Work in partnership.
#edumatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
That is fantastic. I'm glad it had a great resolution.
#EduMatch
In reply to @rownbey
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
Handbook for Facilitating Difficult Conversations
#edumatch
https://t.co/BLxnWmiUTv
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
Great to have you!
#EduMatch
In reply to @cwolfe_ghesl
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Interested in receiving grad credits for all of this connecting? Contact RandallSampson!
#EduMatch
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TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: RT Rdene915: edu_match
#edumatch
A3 everyone needs feedback, help to grow, move forward, connect, we are all learners
#edchat
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: gailacoughlan This is true! Very important to have!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: cwolfe_ghesl Hi Cathy! Great to see you!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Mentioned by the panel on
#EduMatch
:
https://t.co/GZirMWX2na
https://t.co/CS3VNW9jZq
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: This is a fantastic point. I like the win-win mentality.
#EduMatch
https://t.co/OkycIJlxwu
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
A4: I put a teacher into "Fight or Flight" mode by telling them I needed to see improvement. I should have worked on a win-win.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Last question! Q5. How do we help our students engage in difficult conversations?
#edumatch
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https://t.co/3OkuqyDOPA
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Thanks so much for sharing!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/pQXeptrOpS
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Difficult Dialogues in Education from
@VanderbiltU
#EduMatch
https://t.co/SGH2gKUGOG
In reply to @VanderbiltU
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: rownbey That is fantastic. I'm glad it had a great resolution.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: cwolfe_ghesl Great to have you!
#EduMatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Travis. First talked about success Ts had. Second. Be specific on the improvement. Third, other success. I call it my Oreo talk.
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:19 PM EDT
A4: I put a teacher into "Fight or Flight" mode by telling them I needed to see improvement. I should have worked on a win-win.
#EduMatch
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
A5 Model ... create a safety net for the conversation to occur ... protect everyone
#edumatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Last question! Q5. How do we help our students engage in difficult conversations?
#edumatch
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
In retrospect, I would seek to understand, not to be understood. Now I have an adversary. If I could only have a redo!
#EduMatch
In reply to @edu_match
MLRing100
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
A5: Must first build trust & they need to believe we care. Then model conversation norms to help them express themselves.
#EduMatch
rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
A5 Modeling!! Being honest at the start that the conv isn't an easy one but necessary Ts need also to be non-reactive
#EduMatch
rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
Yes, trust is SO crucial!!
#EduMatch
In reply to @MLRing100
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
Calm tone. Provide privacy. Focus on a better way to do something and/or correct behavior.
#edumatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
You and David said the same thing at the same time! Psychic!
@pewithmrt
#EduMatch
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
In reply to @pewithmrt
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
In retrospect, I would seek to understand, not to be understood. Now I have an adversary. If I could only have a redo!
#EduMatch
In reply to @edu_match
Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
I take my cue from
#DaringGreatly
Be open and vulnerable. Truth. Age appropriate of course
#edumatch
In reply to @edu_match
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
Relationshiops underscore everything!
#EduMatch
In reply to @MLRing100
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
Our pleasure! Thank you for having this conversation about difficult conversations <= essential
#EduMatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Thanks so much for sharing!
#EduMatch
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Difficult Dialogues in Education from
@VanderbiltU
#EduMatch
https://t.co/SGH2gKUGOG
In reply to @VanderbiltU
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
Thank you! Shoutout to
@ValeriaBrownEdu
for moderating and coming up with the topic!
#EduMatch
In reply to @CCTE_Tech, @ValeriaBrownEdu
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
A4: I had to clear up a misconception about race and achievement. I showed research matrix on impacting factors.
#EduMatch
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:25 PM EDT
Glad we can add to the convo,
@TechTia
#edumatch
In reply to @TechTia
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:22 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Thanks so much for sharing!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/pQXeptrOpS
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:21 PM EDT
Difficult Dialogues in Education from
@VanderbiltU
#EduMatch
https://t.co/SGH2gKUGOG
In reply to @VanderbiltU
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:25 PM EDT
A5: it's so hard. I think working on listening is really important. I know I'm always working on it.
#EduMatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:25 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Travis, my wife MS principal had diff covo on Thursday. Ts took Fri, thru Friday.
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
In retrospect, I would seek to understand, not to be understood. Now I have an adversary. If I could only have a redo!
#EduMatch
In reply to @edu_match
MLRing100
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
Calm tone is so important, S's often have different perceptions of our tone depending on their background
#EduMatch
In reply to @gailacoughlan
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
Yes, these conversations are very important, but sometimes difficult. Would love to see the matrix!
#EduMatch
In reply to @kennycmckee
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
She's doing amazing work! Perfect for moderating this convo (re:
@ValeriaBrownEdu
).
#EduMatch
In reply to @ValeriaBrownEdu
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
Thank you! Shoutout to
@ValeriaBrownEdu
for moderating and coming up with the topic!
#EduMatch
In reply to @CCTE_Tech, @ValeriaBrownEdu
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
Careful word choices, i.e. concerned rather than worried, etc.
#edumatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Thank you
@ValeriaBrownEdu
for tonight's topic.
In reply to @ValeriaBrownEdu
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
Thank you! Shoutout to
@ValeriaBrownEdu
for moderating and coming up with the topic!
#EduMatch
In reply to @CCTE_Tech, @ValeriaBrownEdu
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
#edumatch
A5 model appropriate conversation,
@dene_gainey
give space and time, we need to listen and support
In reply to @edu_match, @dene_gainey
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
RT edu_match: RT CCTE_Tech: Handbook for Facilitating Difficult Conversations
#edumatch
https://t.co/8cRCkqEm9n
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
RT edu_match: You and David said the same thing at the same time! Psychic! pewithmrt
#EduMatch
…
https://t.co/MJZzBQMqWc
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:23 PM EDT
In retrospect, I would seek to understand, not to be understood. Now I have an adversary. If I could only have a redo!
#EduMatch
In reply to @edu_match
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
RT edu_match: MLRing100 Relationshiops underscore everything!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
RT edu_match: CCTE_Tech Thank you! Shoutout to ValeriaBrownEdu for moderating and coming up with the topic!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
RT edu_match: kennycmckee Yes, these conversations are very important, but sometimes difficult. Would love to see the matrix!
#EduMatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
Thanks so much, Lemarr! Always awesome to see you!
#EduMatch
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell, @ValeriaBrownEdu
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
it was specifically about impacts on reading. I made it from a graduate school text. I'll look for it.
#edumatch
In reply to @edu_match
dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
Totally Rachelle.
#edumatch
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
#edumatch
A5 model appropriate conversation,
@dene_gainey
give space and time, we need to listen and support
In reply to @edu_match, @dene_gainey
rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
A5 I've learned how significant body language too is during tough convos It can totally shift the momentum or emotion
#EduMatch
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
A5: Tell them how much you appreciate transparent and honest conversations.Then have the difficult conversation.Model and reflect.
#EduMatch
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
Helping S see relationship between their actions & the consequences.
#edumatch
MLRing100
Mar 12 @ 6:28 PM EDT
good point, giving time is crucial, some people need time to process before responding
#EduMatch
In reply to @Rdene915, @edu_match, @dene_gainey
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:28 PM EDT
#edumatch
@edu_match
thanks
@pewithmrt
for anecdote, and focus listen validate redirect, this panel is
#eduawesome
so many ideas
In reply to @edu_match, @pewithmrt
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:29 PM EDT
Thanks! If you find it, that would be awesome.
#EduMatch
In reply to @kennycmckee
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:29 PM EDT
Great point!
#EduMatch
rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
A5 I've learned how significant body language too is during tough convos It can totally shift the momentum or emotion
#EduMatch
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:29 PM EDT
@rownbey
Agree with body language along with tone. I work with a nonverbal student with Autism & this is ultra important.
#edumatch
In reply to @rownbey
SylviaEllison
Mar 12 @ 6:30 PM EDT
Thanks everyone ... love the short chat! ... and adding new people to my PLN 🙂💜
#edumatch
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:30 PM EDT
https://t.co/LSI2gHOs1y
here it is!
#edumatch
In reply to @edu_match
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:30 PM EDT
Thanks, Sylvia! It is awesome learning with you!
#EduMatch
In reply to @SylviaEllison
Hudsonwife16
Mar 12 @ 6:30 PM EDT
Thank you so much for having me!
#edumatch
In reply to @edu_match, @TheOddCentricT
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
Thanks so much, Kenny!
#EduMatch
In reply to @kennycmckee
inez9900
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
A5: foster a safe environment for SS and build relationships- implement simple protocols to use with SS
#edumatch
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
Thank YOU! It's great to learn with you!
#EduMatch
In reply to @Hudsonwife16
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
First twitter chat. Appreciate the welcoming atmosphere & positivity.
#edumatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Which is better?
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
Thanks so much! It's great to learn with you. Hope to see you again!
#EduMatch
In reply to @gailacoughlan
kennycmckee
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
anytime! The left column looks funky on my phone, so I'll need to fix that.
#edumatch
In reply to @edu_match
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: LemarrTreadwell ValeriaBrownEdu Thanks so much, Lemarr! Always awesome to see you!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: RT Rdene915: edu_match
#edumatch
A5 model appropriate conversation, dene_gainey give space and time, we need to listen and …
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: kennycmckee Thanks! If you find it, that would be awesome.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Great point!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/Rshg6LjIFd
rownbey
Mar 12 @ 6:27 PM EDT
A5 I've learned how significant body language too is during tough convos It can totally shift the momentum or emotion
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: SylviaEllison Thanks, Sylvia! It is awesome learning with you!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: kennycmckee Thanks so much, Kenny!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Hudsonwife16 Thank YOU! It's great to learn with you!
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: RT inez9900: A5: foster a safe environment for SS and build relationships- implement simple protocols to use with SS
#edumatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
RT edu_match: gailacoughlan Thanks so much! It's great to learn with you. Hope to see you again!
#EduMatch
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
Bam! Kids are worth it!
#EduMatch
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
THIS!!!!
#EduMatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Which is better?
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:32 PM EDT
It looks great on the laptop.
#EduMatch
In reply to @kennycmckee
RhAnJe
Mar 12 @ 6:33 PM EDT
A3: Because while they are initially uncomfortable, long term they lead to productive growth & mutual understanding.
#EduMatch
In reply to @edu_match
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:33 PM EDT
@kennycmckee
agree
#edumatch
In reply to @kennycmckee
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:34 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Travis. Remember the lion is alone the sheep travel in flocks! Be the lion.
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:34 PM EDT
#EduMatch
Snapshot in Education is available as a free PDF, a paperback, or on Kindle! Check it out
https://t.co/0UNqvuCCIK
#edusnap16
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:35 PM EDT
Powerful conversation going on now on the panel:
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
#EduMatch
Rdene915
Mar 12 @ 6:35 PM EDT
Get yours today
#edumatch
#remakelearning
#engagechat
#education
#edusnap16
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:34 PM EDT
#EduMatch
Snapshot in Education is available as a free PDF, a paperback, or on Kindle! Check it out
https://t.co/0UNqvuCCIK
#edusnap16
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:36 PM EDT
Going to
#ISTE17
? Join our
#EduMatch
meetup on June 25 from 12-3. RSVP and more info at
https://t.co/YJjOwnaUJs
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:37 PM EDT
RT edu_match: THIS!!!!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/8lsQA234L3
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:31 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Which is better?
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:37 PM EDT
RT edu_match: kennycmckee It looks great on the laptop.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:37 PM EDT
RT edu_match:
#EduMatch
Snapshot in Education is available as a free PDF, a paperback, or on Kindle! Check it out…
https://t.co/KPevg2IO2C
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:37 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Powerful conversation going on now on the panel:
https://t.co/CS3VNW9jZq
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:37 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Going to
#ISTE17
? Join our
#EduMatch
meetup on June 25 from 12-3. RSVP and more info at …
https://t.co/zOnDFzxcmt
cwolfe_ghesl
Mar 12 @ 6:39 PM EDT
#edumatch
This conversation makes me very self-reflective -- realizing that I avoid difficult conversations.
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:39 PM EDT
So do I, Cathy! I will try to do better.
#EduMatch
In reply to @cwolfe_ghesl
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:40 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Difficult Conversation Checklist
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:40 PM EDT
Thanks so much for sharing this, Lemarr!
#EduMatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:40 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Difficult Conversation Checklist
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:41 PM EDT
@cwolfe_ghesl
Yes!
#edumatch
In reply to @cwolfe_ghesl
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:41 PM EDT
@cwolfe_ghesl
Yes!
#edumatch
In reply to @cwolfe_ghesl
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:42 PM EDT
You don't want to miss this convo going on now...extremely powerful.
https://t.co/AQrocmYPxs
Topic: Difficult Conversations
#EduMatch
sarahdateechur
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:42 PM EDT
You don't want to miss this convo going on now...extremely powerful.
https://t.co/bBhE2JklVE
Topic: Difficult Conversations
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:42 PM EDT
RT edu_match: cwolfe_ghesl So do I, Cathy! I will try to do better.
#EduMatch
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:42 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Thanks so much for sharing this, Lemarr!
#EduMatch
https://t.co/YxCLOsbPep
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:40 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Difficult Conversation Checklist
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:42 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Difficult conversations happen because we are uncertain about the objective.
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:42 PM EDT
Bonus question: Q6. Where do we go now? What actionable steps can we put in place tomorrow?
#EduMatch
Wesley_Vinson38
Mar 12 @ 6:44 PM EDT
Wes Vinson, Texas, educator
#EDUmatch
cwolfe_ghesl
Mar 12 @ 6:44 PM EDT
#edumatch
@dene_gainey
i am moved to tears by your song Let it begin with me
In reply to @dene_gainey
gailacoughlan
Mar 12 @ 6:46 PM EDT
https://t.co/rRSAhFlO5L
Found this article encapsulated many of ideas presented tonight.
#edumatch
TravisDGaroutte
Mar 12 @ 6:46 PM EDT
A6: I think I will follow
@LemarrTreadwell
's difficult conversation checklist and do what is best for kids. All day. Every day.
#EduMatch
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
TechTia
Mar 12 @ 6:47 PM EDT
RT edu_match: Bonus question: Q6. Where do we go now? What actionable steps can we put in place tomorrow?
#EduMatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:48 PM EDT
#EDUmatch
Mindset of inquiry
Wesley_Vinson38
Mar 12 @ 6:48 PM EDT
A1: Difficult conversations: diagnostics progress with students, differences in home and school culture
#EduMatch
Wesley_Vinson38
Mar 12 @ 6:49 PM EDT
A3: Because we want to preserve humanity
#edumatch
ValeriaBrownEdu
Mar 12 @ 6:50 PM EDT
Thank you so much for joining us!
#EduMatch
CCTE_Tech
Mar 12 @ 6:26 PM EDT
She's doing amazing work! Perfect for moderating this convo (re:
@ValeriaBrownEdu
).
#EduMatch
In reply to @ValeriaBrownEdu
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:24 PM EDT
Thank you! Shoutout to
@ValeriaBrownEdu
for moderating and coming up with the topic!
#EduMatch
In reply to @CCTE_Tech, @ValeriaBrownEdu
TeacherPants_01
Mar 12 @ 6:52 PM EDT
#EduMatch
Thanks again for having me on Tweet & Talk 81: Difficult Conversations where panelist
@dene_gainey
for blessed us with a solo :)
In reply to @dene_gainey
gegrmm13
Mar 12 @ 6:52 PM EDT
#EduMatch
Tweet & Talk 81: Difficult Conversations
https://t.co/eUuacBLxyN
via
@YouTube
In reply to @YouTube
Wesley_Vinson38
Mar 12 @ 6:53 PM EDT
A4: This is all about advocating for kids. This is a tad sensitive. Let's say all tough convos are worth it
#EduMatch
Wesley_Vinson38
Mar 12 @ 6:55 PM EDT
A5: I think videos are available for this sort of thing. This is a social skill. Authenticity is the key
#EduMatch
JudyArzt
Mar 12 @ 6:57 PM EDT
Map of Educators on Twitter
https://t.co/T6Kl3OmgrW
#edchat
#ukedchat
#edumatch
#globaled
dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:57 PM EDT
Erica what a pleasure it was tonight!!
@edu_match
@IntoOutside
@pewithmrt
@ChristieNold
@ValeriaBrownEdu
#edumatch
In reply to @TeacherPants_01, @edu_match, @IntoOutside, @pewithmrt, @ChristieNold, @ValeriaBrownEdu
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:57 PM EDT
#edumatch
Teri. Sam here too. Around and around in a vicious cycle.
mrstbauerly
Mar 12 @ 6:53 PM EDT
No prob. I feel like this happens a lot at staff meetings. Discuss the same thing month after month... avoiding hard convos
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
Wesley_Vinson38
Mar 12 @ 6:57 PM EDT
A6: Don't be afraid to do it. You may be the one who can make a difference
#EduMatch
IntoOutside
Mar 12 @ 6:58 PM EDT
Wow! Just got done with a chat with some A++ educators from across the US on
#difficultconversations
.
#edumatch
https://t.co/boC87dvNjC
edu_match
- Moderator
Mar 12 @ 6:59 PM EDT
Check out the Tweet & Talk from 9.4.16. Topic:
#Blogging
w/ mod
@jonharper70
https://t.co/AM1R0feSaR
#education
#edsquad
#edumatch
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 12 @ 6:59 PM EDT
#edumatch
Isolation is now a choice educators make. Isolation kills innovation and creativity.
ValeriaBrownEdu
Mar 12 @ 6:59 PM EDT
Y'all gave me so much life on
#edumatch
tonight. Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️✊🏾❤️✊🏾❤️✊🏾
dene_gainey
Mar 12 @ 6:57 PM EDT
Erica what a pleasure it was tonight!!
@edu_match
@IntoOutside
@pewithmrt
@ChristieNold
@ValeriaBrownEdu
#edumatch
In reply to @TeacherPants_01, @edu_match, @IntoOutside, @pewithmrt, @ChristieNold, @ValeriaBrownEdu