#resiliencechat Archive

Co-moderated by Dr. Robert Martinez and Sara Truebridge, #resiliencechat focuses on promoting resilience amongst educators and students.

Monday January 23, 2017
10:00 PM EST

participatechat Jan 23 @ 10:00 PM EST

Participate in the upcoming #resiliencechat by sharing resources and collaborating at https://t.co/mtjT3iXa2c
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:00 PM EST

I didn't receive an invite, but I noticed @ResiliencyGuy tweet. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:01 PM EST

A fantastic evening to all of our #resiliencechat followers! #Resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:01 PM EST

@saratruebridge isn't here tonight, yet I (Cue hero music) am here to lead the way tonight for #resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:01 PM EST

Resilience comes with a backpack? Who knew? Could have used one at the march. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:02 PM EST

I'm Rob Martinez, AKA @DrRobM_FSUSD AKA @ResiliencyGuy AKA "Dr. Rob" here to moderate tonight's #resiliencechat
In reply to @DrRobM_FSUSD, @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:03 PM EST

I hail from Northern California, where we are continuing to receive rain, rain, and more rain, and no one is complaining, #Resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:03 PM EST

Who might be out there tonight with us on #Resiliencechat? and please remember to use #resiliencechat in all of your responses.
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:04 PM EST

Hi Deb! Thanks for checking in! #resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:04 PM EST

Hi, Rob. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:05 PM EST

Being part of a chat is really easy. Just track #resiliencechat in your feed, and join in with your responses, and use the #Resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:06 PM EST

I had the privilege of speaking tonight with some of my #ACSA "Association of CA School Admins" tonight on #resiliency #Resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:06 PM EST

Hey there Jose @ILifelearner follow along, and join in as you desire. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ILifelearner
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:07 PM EST

Tonight's topic: Building your's and others' resilience back-packs. #Resiliencechat
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:07 PM EST

Cuing that hero music just for you @ResiliencyGuy https://t.co/g2iMzsg3FE #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:10 PM EST

The "40-developmental" assets have been developed for many developmental ages by the "Search Institute" and shared liberally #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:11 PM EST

#Resiliencechat Q1. Have you considered the importance of children developing #assets as a way to enhance their #resilience?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:11 PM EST

What about what adults need? Seriously, some of us are pretty stressed out. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:11 PM EST

Asking for other participants to let us know you are here. #Resiliencechat
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:12 PM EST

A1 I could have used that when I was a kid. I was bullied. Didn't know how to stand up for myself. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:13 PM EST
#loveit Deb @MissShuganah I might need to add this to my blog site. #resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
- MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:07 PM EST
  
  Cuing that hero music just for you @ResiliencyGuy https://t.co/g2iMzsg3FE #resiliencechat
  In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:14 PM EST
Me too Deb. The idea behind the 40-assets is to build awareness of community, educators, of what is needed. #Resiliencechat
- MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:12 PM EST
  
  A1 I could have used that when I was a kid. I was bullied. Didn't know how to stand up for myself. #resiliencechat
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:15 PM EST

We had block mothers when I was a kid, but that wasn't enough. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:16 PM EST

#Resiliencechat As a principal I used the #40assets to build consensus among staff & community of many of the skills that our Stds needed,
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:17 PM EST

The #40assets are identified as being either #external or #internal and we will examine the sub-categories tonight. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:19 PM EST

#Resiliencechat Q2 In your educational community, do you target the types of #support your children need? Family? Neighborhood? Climate?
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:21 PM EST

Small crowd toniht, and yet I will move it forward for any late-comers. #Resiliencechat
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:22 PM EST

A2 If they did, they wouldn't punish parents of #specialneeds kids. Three times through the DCFS wringer instead of support #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:23 PM EST

Q3 #Resiliencechat Does your educational system focus on #Empowerment? Value youth? Youth have roles in the community? Service? Safety?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:24 PM EST

A2 Only one teacher offered me an oasis. Most of the time I was either under microscope or shown indifference. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:24 PM EST

So true, working to be #inclusive and expand opportunities to hear and respond to all parents is key #Resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:25 PM EST

I wish more were like you, Rob. My experience has been more like, "go play on the freeway." #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:25 PM EST

A3 #Resiliencechat If we value youth it should be clear that we listen and hear, that we act to support, and that we #empower them each day
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:27 PM EST

A3 Even when they are not verbal. Especially when they are not verbal. Work harder to include them. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:27 PM EST

Q4 #Resiliencechat Does your educational system establish boundaries and #expectations for the children who are part of the school culture?
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:28 PM EST

Q4 #Resiliencechat (2) Are there clear consequences-responsibility laid out, community of students working together, w/high community goals?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:29 PM EST

A4 Boundaries or barriers? My experience has been one of barriers. Not In My Backyard (NIMBY). #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:29 PM EST

Yes, value comes from an understanding that truly #Each child is important, #eachchildmatters #resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:30 PM EST

And those of us who advocate for our children should be given more than lip service. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:30 PM EST

These boundaries are specific to children so they can see them and understand consequences of going beyond. #resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:34 PM EST

Q5 #Resiliencechat Our systems should use time wisely - in #creative endeavors, youth #programs #faith connection, #home balance
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:34 PM EST

I understand. Don't bully. Things like that? #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
daveryca Jan 23 @ 10:35 PM EST

A4 #resiliencechat Expectations shared with Ss but boundaries regularly ignored-Many Ss say they prefer strict accountability
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:35 PM EST

Q5 #Resiliencechat (2) How does your educational system work with your students to teach the value of time?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:35 PM EST

That is very important. I have had too many people being hostile towards me. They were the experts. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:36 PM EST

Hi David, Thanks for jumping in. #Resiliencechat
In reply to @daveryca
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:37 PM EST

Too many of Kid O's therapists have treated me like I'm a know nothing.Forcing their views (expertise) on me. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:39 PM EST

We have focused on the four #external factors of the #40assets, so now let's turn to the #internal factors #resiliencechat
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:39 PM EST

A5 Haven't seen much evidence of that.Our Kid Q cuts corners with her homework.No one has taught her why she needs to listen #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:40 PM EST

The #internal factors is where we can build our #resiliencebackpack #resiliencechat The four areas will be found in the next #tweet.
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:41 PM EST

#resiliencechat Commitment to Learning, Positive Values, Social Competencies and Positive Identity are the 4 #internal areas of #40assets
daveryca Jan 23 @ 10:42 PM EST

A5 #ResilienceChat Ts & Admin gathering best practices, making awareness vids etc...Focus on abs/tardy, but in-class ⏳next
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:42 PM EST

Q1 #resiliencechat Is your educational community actively motivating Stds, #engaging Stds, supporting their individual learning, bonding?
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:43 PM EST

Q6 #resiliencechat Is your educational community actively motivating Stds, #engaging Stds, supporting their individual learning, bonding?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:44 PM EST

A6 Not based on what I've seen. Maybe now that Kid Q is in HS, that will shift. #resiliencechat
EduGladiators Jan 23 @ 10:45 PM EST

👩🏻‍💻 Don't miss our last chat of Rethinking Discipline series: PBIS 1/28! #EduGladiators #EdTechAfterDark #resiliencechat #ssdedu #IEedchat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:45 PM EST

A6 #resiliencechat By creating a culture that is #inviting #accepting, #engaging we support a child's commitment to their own learning.
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:46 PM EST

Yes, let's hope so. Sorry Deb, Sure wish things were better for her. #resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MrSmall215 Jan 23 @ 10:46 PM EST
A3: Yes... We run restorative justice... 😉 #Resiliencechat
- ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:23 PM EST
  
  Q3 #Resiliencechat Does your educational system focus on #Empowerment? Value youth? Youth have roles in the community? Service? Safety?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:47 PM EST

Kid Q has a chance. Kid O, well, it's as good as it's going to get. Ablebodied/verbal vs disabled/nonverbal. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:47 PM EST

Q7 #resiliencechat Does your school seek to support Student's values, teach them school values, through #caring, #integrity, #honesty,
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:48 PM EST

Yes! We are actually looking at using some #restorative justice circles to work with employees as well. #resiliencechat
In reply to @MrSmall215
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:49 PM EST

Our Kid O has so much going on inside of her. Not enough people ever tried to unlock her mind. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:50 PM EST

Q7 #resiliencechat (2) Seeking to respect the values a child comes to school with is very important. People first, be human!
daveryca Jan 23 @ 10:50 PM EST

A6 #ResilienceChat Engagement, motivation & support are front burner & constantly evolving. Need MORE of same from community.
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:51 PM EST

Q8 #resiliencechat Share how your school network build's a child's social competencies. Through decision making? Cultural competence, etc?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:51 PM EST

A7 No. Not really. Just in a very limited way. Part of the reason why I marched on Saturday. Justice, empathy, compassion. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:52 PM EST

Q9 #resiliencechat In what ways does your ed community seek to support each students Positive identity?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:53 PM EST

We're one of the few Jews in this neighborhood. Kid Q has been sort of treated like a token representative. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:53 PM EST

Q9 #resiliencechat (2) Are you working to build personal power? Self-esteem? Sense of purpose? Positive personal future?
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:54 PM EST

A9 Trying to. Would be better if we had more support from the school. #resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:55 PM EST

#resiliencechat Each of the assets are important to a child's development, and quite frankly are essential for the adults who with them!
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:56 PM EST

#resiliencechat As educators we must continue to grow our #assets & place those skills in our #resiliencebackpacks More tools = more success
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:57 PM EST

I'm glad you shared your interesting ideas @ResiliencyGuy We need more discussions like this. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:57 PM EST

Tonight's #resiliencechat challenge! Focus on building your #resiliencebackpack, and build system's for others to help them add to theirs!
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:58 PM EST
Thank you Deb. We were a small, yet vibrant group tonight #resiliencechat
- MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:57 PM EST
  
  I'm glad you shared your interesting ideas @ResiliencyGuy We need more discussions like this. #resiliencechat
  In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
MissShuganah Jan 23 @ 10:59 PM EST

I wish I was less tired. You are a very thoughtful man. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Jan 23 @ 10:59 PM EST

Here's hoping that we increase our attendance at #resiliencechat Thanks to all for stopping in tonight. Rob @DrRobM_FSUSD AKA @ResiliencyGuy
In reply to @DrRobM_FSUSD, @ResiliencyGuy