#oklaed Archive
This is the official Twitter account for #OklaEd, thehashtag that brings OK educators together. #OklaEd is not political & promotes constructive dialogue.
Sunday July 16, 2017
9:00 PM EDT
participatechat
Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
Participate in the upcoming
#oklaed
by sharing resources and collaborating at
https://t.co/PCV0aPuKUs
stephoni
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Stephoni Case here - SNU Ed Leadership ready for tonight's chat!
@SNU_MAEL
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
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KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Thanks for joining
@bakerleft
and me for a conversation about LGBTQ issues in ed. Who do we have online tonight?
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Thanks for joining
@bakerleft
and me for a conversation about LGBTQ issues in ed. Who do we have online tonight?
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
Drew Robinson, Lead Designer, Tulsa Public Schools
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BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
Andrea, kinder teacher
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MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
Michael Pogue, Gateway to Technology teacher at
@IrvingMSCougars
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Thanks for joining
@bakerleft
and me for a conversation about LGBTQ issues in ed. Who do we have online tonight?
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s_j_timm
Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
First timer here... Sophie T, studying world language education at OU
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kennethdward
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Kenny Ward principal
@bridge_creek_ms
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watersenglish
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Michelle Waters, 9-11th English, Wayne High School.
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
David Burton, Social Studies & Business Ed Curriculm Coordinator for
@MoorePublicSch
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Thanks for joining
@bakerleft
and me for a conversation about LGBTQ issues in ed. Who do we have online tonight?
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sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Steven Pyle. Sulphur Middle School Principal.
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
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KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Kim, 4th grade T at Jefferson elementary, Norman public schools.
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jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
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John Bennett, Emeritus Engineering Faculty, Midlothian, Virginia
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Thanks for joining
@bakerleft
and me for a conversation about LGBTQ issues in ed. Who do we have online tonight?
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jefferson_first
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Tasha Jefferson, first Grade T from
#cpsreds
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jasonbengs
Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
Jason Bengs Tech Director
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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MPSTechnology
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
Jun Kim, Dir. Of Tech. Moore
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MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
Jackie Rasnic - Edmond North AP Language and Gay Straight Alliance Sponsor
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vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
Vanessa Perez, Tech Integration & Library Media Specialist,
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djthoreson
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
Debbie Thoreson, P of 2nd grade girls, T of English 3 & AP, Dewey High School
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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Phynyx.. Auxillary Caption Head..(Color Guard)...Midwest City
TwyllaHester
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
Twylla Hester, PC West Asst Principal
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
A1 Wow, big first question. Not sure 140 characters will be enough. Sufficed to say I believe none of those terms are binary.
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Stv_Gilliland
Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
Steve Gilliland, Del City High School, Asst. Principal.
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
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MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
A1 Sex is biological, gender is "user defined."
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
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Honestly, whatever tge current generation decides whenever they decide it!
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
Jennifer, HS ELA
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tawnrundle
Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
Tawn Rundle, Merritt Schools
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
I think it's not just the current generation. Previous generations had different definitions, they just weren't free 2 share them.
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
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Honestly, whatever tge current generation decides whenever they decide it!
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
A1: it's always pedagogically smart to start out with common definitions for terminology to be used 🤓
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Angela Little |
#OKLAED
ADVOCATE | Edmond Public School Mom |
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s_j_timm
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
A1: I think gender identity is who you are, and gender expression is how you show it
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Sex= male/female/trans SO=who you are(n't) attracted to GI= how you identify masc/fem/non-binary GE= how you present gender
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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coach57
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Kevin Hime Superintendent
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.
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jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
#OklaEd
A1: Thanks, Michael. I'm with you.
MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
A1 Sex is biological, gender is "user defined."
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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MPSTechnology
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
A1: that line has blurred. Used to be able to say it was genetic. Even the Genes can't determine/define.
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grimmspanish
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Zach Grimm, Spanish teacher and President of the Education Association of Moore. Ready for great convo!
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vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
A1 biological classification, preferred gender of partner, how u classify yourself, how u ostensibly show your self-classification
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JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Checking in. Jonathan Atchley, principal for
@NormanSchools
at
@IrvingMSCougars
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angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
@FreedomOklahoma
you should join this chat tonight!! This is something we chat about often. :)
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Thanks for joining
@bakerleft
and me for a conversation about LGBTQ issues in ed. Who do we have online tonight?
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JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
A1:
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This is a huge question for this format. Unless I create a thread...
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
A1. Comes out of the gates swinging for the fence!
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great question.
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
I think society is built on binary concepts like male/female, white/non-white. I believe that is an oversimplification.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
go big or go home, right? and pretty much, but it goes further than that. What are your thoughts?
djthoreson
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
A1: I think Christoper defined them pretty well!
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Sex= male/female/trans SO=who you are(n't) attracted to GI= how you identify masc/fem/non-binary GE= how you present gender
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
Yes, but then we'd be giving the As before the Qs. We need to know how people think first, and then clarify to correct assumptions.
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
A1: it's always pedagogically smart to start out with common definitions for terminology to be used 🤓
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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CordellEhrich
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
Hello,
#Oklaed
! Cordell, principal at Cimarron MS in Edmond.
TwyllaHester
Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
I like this graphic. Thanks for sharing!
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In reply to @bakerleft
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
A1: good definitions with which to start the discussion
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
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Absolutely! In my day, we had 1 flag and we were happy with it (uses old man voice). I was shocked when I saw how many flags now!
In reply to @FatCatArtist
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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tchingelements
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
Hey all! Joining a little late; Sci Curriculum Coord. from Putnam City
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
I love how the Pride flag grows and adapts. I wish our American flag was as flexible and inclusive.
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
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Absolutely! In my day, we had 1 flag and we were happy with it (uses old man voice). I was shocked when I saw how many flags now!
In reply to @FatCatArtist
AprilStobbe
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
Tuning in late. April Stobbe, Shawnee board of ed.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
A2: Open and honest communication but first listen to those who are not you!
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
Where's this graphic from? It's helpful.
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In reply to @bakerleft
amberphillipsaa
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
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Jul 16 @ 7:54 PM EDT
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lindahaslerreid
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
Linda Hasler Reid, Site Principal, Jenks
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#hothothot
https://t.co/YeUlILgD4R
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
A1: I think they are all the same in context. Some just have to be louder because they are used to not being heard.
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jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
#Oklaed
A2: Have serious and honest discussion.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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Cari4OEA
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
Join us now!
@ProfEdNorman
@bjemsdove
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bakerleft
Jul 9 @ 10:00 PM EDT
Please invite someone new to join next Sunday night!
@krystalgr80
and I will be facilitating on "LGBTQ+ Issues in Education."
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MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
A2: Using terminology correctly around others is a big help. Fighting ignorance just like in every other subject.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
In what ways do you think they are the same?
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JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
A1: I think they are all the same in context. Some just have to be louder because they are used to not being heard.
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2 I always appreciate when people ask Qs. If you're genuinely interested, I'm all about sharing knowledge. That goes for any topic.
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jefferson_first
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2) definitely need to start w/educating myself and getting past my own ideas, thoughts, biases etc
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2: This poster is hanging up in my classroom. It was free, inside a Teaching Tolerance magazine.
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BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2: Expose others to the differences and acknowledge how harmful language hurts others.
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vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2 talk about it, be open to conversation BUT also not talk about it but communicate visually, other ways
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JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2: I think at the end of the day you advocate for all kids, regardless of their decisions or backgrounds.
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
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A2: Say it's okay not to know, but I can help you understand!
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
What a great resource!
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2: This poster is hanging up in my classroom. It was free, inside a Teaching Tolerance magazine.
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angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A1) Sex is about your anatomy, gender is who you feel you ought to be and sexual orientation is who you're attracted to.
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sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
Q2 More importantly than understanding all the terms...it is imperitive that we have the mindset that everyone is treated equally
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2: non threatening conversations ar great ways to broach difficult ideas; like we're doing here.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
I've got to first be open and ready to understand for myself and then share my understandings with others
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2: listen to understand, not to reply.
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vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
.
@Tolerance_org
is an amazing resource
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2: This poster is hanging up in my classroom. It was free, inside a Teaching Tolerance magazine.
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JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
Everyone wants to be heard. They just find their own, unique way of doing so. We've all done it at some point.
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In reply to @krystalgr80
collums_dawn
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
Dawn Collums
@HFAAFirehawks
Checking in late.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2: Use proper pronouns and ask what people want to be called
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JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2:
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discuss them in class. Read & write about them. Just like I'd do w/ race, culture, etc.
TwyllaHester
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2: Education is key as is listening to opinions and beliefs.
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massignmenthelp
Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
How to Write the Best Conclusion Chapter for Dissertation
https://t.co/fqDrf1O90N
#hsgovchat
#iaedchat
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AssignmentHelpN
Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
A Simple Guide on How to Design an Effective Case Study
https://t.co/AMXIhIlSMV
#hsgovchat
#iaedchat
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dougeb00
Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
Doug Brown Supt.
@IdabelPublicSch
joining late. Been mowing the lawn!
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MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
A2. Using factual information is important. Doesn't have to be political. Don't be afraid to talk about the definitions.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
This is a very important point. Misgendering students can be so damaging.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2: Use proper pronouns and ask what people want to be called
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tracytrips1
Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
A2: Make sure students understand that it's alright to not understand, but not acceptable to not respect.
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
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A2b: I do think that we must first begin with teaching tolerance for others in general. Race, gender, social status,etc.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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s_j_timm
Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
A2: Keep an open mind, and try to address ignorance where you see it
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angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
A2) it's something we need to openly discuss with others without being embarrassed or inflicting shame.
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MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
Awesome way to look at it!
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jefferson_first
Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
A2) definitely need to start w/educating myself and getting past my own ideas, thoughts, biases etc
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
A2 1/2 I have struggled in the past w/ my identity as a lesbian and a teacher. Not every district is accepting.
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
I wasn't meaning facilitator should give As. Discussion of terms and meaning; creating consensus in discussion is the good pedagogy
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In reply to @krystalgr80
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
Thank you for advocating for these kids. Trans kids have a high suicide rate, and because their gender identity is not accepted.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
One of the most damaging things that can be done is to tell a student they are not trans. Seen teachers do this and had to call that out.
DiscipleLeaders
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
I disagree. Tolerance is "I don't like you but I'll put up with you." I think respect is the goal.
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In reply to @PhynyxRising
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
2/2 But I believe as an adult, I need to show Ss that courage takes many forms. And that it does get better.
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angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
A2) Parents - your kids are following your lead on this. Set the right example.
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
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We can help with that!
In reply to @jefferson_first
justbeccase
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
Yes! So many great inclusive and culturally responsive lesson ideas!
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In reply to @vperezy, @Tolerance_org
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
A3: No PD and only discussed because I'm out in the classroom and make it an issue.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
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KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
A3: I never heard it be discussed at my former district and never PD offered.
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JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
A3:
@NormanSchools
has people in place for this very reason. I'm proud to say how we collectively advocate for children.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Absolutely! It really does start with tolerance!
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
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A2b: I do think that we must first begin with teaching tolerance for others in general. Race, gender, social status,etc.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Sound point. Tolerance should be bare minimum common human decency, not goal.
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DiscipleLeaders
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
I disagree. Tolerance is "I don't like you but I'll put up with you." I think respect is the goal.
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In reply to @PhynyxRising
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
A3: "district"? I don't believe so. Local OEA affiliate? Yes they've done some.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
I favor acceptance over tolerance.
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MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Absolutely! It really does start with tolerance!
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
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A2b: I do think that we must first begin with teaching tolerance for others in general. Race, gender, social status,etc.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
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FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
A3 I think there has been PD at schools here and there but not at the district level.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Important information for all educators
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
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MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
A3 No and no. Non-academic issues are usually moved to the back of the PD queue.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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jefferson_first
Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
A3) not that I am aware of 🤔
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
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nobody should be expected to like everybody. It's more about working through uneducated preconceived notions.
In reply to @DiscipleLeaders
djthoreson
Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
A3: We have 1 S who has raised the issue for our school. It's been interesting, but it's challenging for some - esp bathroom issues.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
Take it a step further and call acceptance the goal. Rules #1 and #2 should always be, "Be nice".
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In reply to @vperezy
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
Just putting this into perspective - would you say the same if the conversation was about race?
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PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
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nobody should be expected to like everybody. It's more about working through uneducated preconceived notions.
In reply to @DiscipleLeaders
sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3. We do not judge others at Sulphur and we do not discuss any student's or teacher's sexuality. All are treated equally.
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TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
We do! Even offered a community conversation this year! I attended & couldn't have been prouder of
@TulsaSchools
, learned alot!
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
FYI
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JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3:
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at my previous schools, not even. Not sure at my new school. Even stories of admin's kids being rampantly homophobic.
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
I'd love to see more discussions among teachers around how to support questioning students rather than how to "deal w/ them"
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andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
A2. Listen without judgement.
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angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
I forgot Troy Stevenson sequestered himself for GOT season premiere. I wish I would have seen the topic earlier!
@FreedomOklahoma
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
Regardless of religious ideologies, this information is NOT acceptable. Respect for all is needed
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
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susieghendo
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
A3: no, but our school counselor offers guidance in situations. She has given valuable advice to help teacher navigate situations
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
I wonder if that is actually dealing with the issue or hiding it?
#noshade
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In reply to @sulphurmiddle
phhscience
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
A3 No and No
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JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
A2:
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at the beginning of the year, I ask for name and pronoun preference. Gives me a chance to also explain why I do that.
EdCampEOC
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
Did you register for
#EdCampEOC
yet?
#foodtrucks
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Register at
https://t.co/9GnRMEJOJo
and don't forget to pick up your 2017 shirt!
Cari4OEA
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
#oklaed
this convo is so IMPT. Until we can have
#realtalk
and not shy away from LGBTQ discussion, we are doing a disservice to our S
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
We have gay teachers who can fill in lol
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@FreedomOklahoma
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
I forgot Troy Stevenson sequestered himself for GOT season premiere. I wish I would have seen the topic earlier!
@FreedomOklahoma
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
Do you think NOT talking about it may reinforce heteronormativity?
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sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3. We do not judge others at Sulphur and we do not discuss any student's or teacher's sexuality. All are treated equally.
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justbeccase
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
Yes.This is so important. Fear of being a burden is what kept me in the closet for so long. Still is why I avoid the topic @ school.
#oklaed
In reply to @FatCatArtist
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
A3) this is actually the very thing that
@FreedomOklahoma
and I have chatted about. I am not sure if
#epsok
does.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
#oklaed
jasonbengs
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
Tolerance is a misnomer and doesn't exist. It is a word used by groups to make themselves feel better about their thoughts.
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
I had a principal tell me at a district I use to work at that the high school had no gay kids. There were over 3,000 kids there.
#oklaed
In reply to @cvian87, @sulphurmiddle
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
A3. Our building does not offer any kind of PD. Unfortunately, LGBTQ issues are not discussed a great deal with Ts.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
If you don't discuss any sexuality, you are ignoring it & that can be harmful as well. It can be read as being unwelcoming.
#oklaed
BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
I try to stop the culture that gay is bad and using it as a negative adjective.
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
There were no LGBT kids in my high school either until we all came out after high school
#oklaed
In reply to @FatCatArtist, @sulphurmiddle
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
I need help with this on an elementary level. How do I approach it with 4th graders?
#oklaed
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
A2:
#oklaed
at the beginning of the year, I ask for name and pronoun preference. Gives me a chance to also explain why I do that.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
But it's not an opinion...it's an identity. Again, I think this conversation would be different if we were talking about race.
#oklaed
DiscipleLeaders
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
However, acceptance requires ideological alignment. Respect does not. I don't have to agree with someone to respect them.
In reply to @krystalgr80
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
Fear kept us all in the closet at some point in our lives. Which makes our decisions to come out even more brave.
#oklaed
In reply to @justbeccase
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
Actually, He's been really interested in learning more from all of you on how this is handled in K-12. : )
#oklaed
In reply to @cvian87, @FreedomOklahoma
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
Ignoring it can be like telling a student or teacher something that matters DEEPLY to them, doesn't matter, that they don't matter.
#oklaed
BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
I talk about famous LGBTQ individuals in my class. It normalizes LGBTQ people as people not an orientation.
#oklaed
jasonbengs
Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
Our actions should come from empathy and compassion for others. We should be able to do that even if we disagree
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
#oklaed
Need more characters! Yes! Just because somebody is or identifies as something, does not mean that stereotypes should be applied..
In reply to @krystalgr80
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
I've always look at it as being the teacher I needed when I was younger. So I will be a burden
#oklaed
In reply to @justbeccase, @FatCatArtist
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
With people (students and staff) being bullied and committing suicide, we can't just gloss over LGBTQA+.
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
#oklaed
.. get to know and understand the other person first. Understand that the other person has just as much value as you do.
In reply to @krystalgr80
MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
A4 Emphasize empathy. Depending on my relationship the conversation may get more serious.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
KristinAtchley
Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
Kristin Atchley, late and watching my kiddos, student advocacy coordinator, Norman High.
#OklaEd
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
@vperezy
speaking truth tonight
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
With people (students and staff) being bullied and committing suicide, we can't just gloss over LGBTQA+.
#oklaed
jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
#Oklaed
A4: Should be accepting of any & all; but of course, sadly, not true. I'd argue for education rather than punishment.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
room20awesome
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
Wow lost track of time and almost missed out on
#oklaed
tonight!
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
#oklaed
AMEN
In reply to @MrBurtonMPS
KristinAtchley
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
A3: absolutely we talk about these topics, and I do on location PD with staff.
#OklaEd
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
Yes, thank you! Silence is dangerous!
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
With people (students and staff) being bullied and committing suicide, we can't just gloss over LGBTQA+.
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
A4 This is a tough one. I still struggle w/ co-workers who aren't accepting or who are outright hostile.
#oklaed
TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
Depends on the degree. If they're mean, I engage, treat it as an opportunity to teach tolerance. If they're respectful, we're good.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
I make it an issue and make it very clear that I disagree with them My room becomes a space for all my students to be seen and heard
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
I'd take it a step further and say I'd advocate for the needs of needy kids, period, they're everywhere. I like that platform.
#oklaed
In reply to @JennWillTeach, @krystalgr80
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A3. I'm curious to know if this conversation happens in early childhood classrooms? I can see it in mid/jr high/high school.
#oklaed
TwyllaHester
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: Having open conversations with individuals to learn together and educate is so important. Respect is vital.
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
#oklaed
A4: cheerfully but softly remind them of the district's non-discrimination policy.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
KristinAtchley
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A3: my job as advocate is to be a safe place for kids to share their needs, especially with this topic. I then advocate for them!
#OklaEd
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: We must not be afraid to call out when our students are being hurt. We must be the teachers they need and step up
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
I hate it that "That's gay" and "No homo" became so widely used in schools recently. I will not tolerate it.
#oklaed
BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
I try to stop the culture that gay is bad and using it as a negative adjective.
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
I think that that all Ts should be having this conversation. The language we use with kids is so powerful.
#oklaed
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A3. I'm curious to know if this conversation happens in early childhood classrooms? I can see it in mid/jr high/high school.
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
Very carefully! I find when you lead with acceptance and compassion, many will follow you. Set the tone.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
tchingelements
Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
A4 I like 2 ask non-threatening ?s to encourage real discussion Many times T/S/A misunderstand something that's outside their "norm"
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A4: Just like in teaching, if you model behaviors and exemplify them, the idea is people will eventually catch on.
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
THIS👇👇👇👇
BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
I talk about famous LGBTQ individuals in my class. It normalizes LGBTQ people as people not an orientation.
#oklaed
s_j_timm
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A4: Avoid us vs. them mentality; they feel just as strongly about their opinions and telling them they're wrong won't help
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A4: I hate the term "deal with".. but I teach Elem. Ss so I have to be careful & and start w/ conversations w/ Ps.
#oklaed
susieghendo
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A4: I make sure I call out problematic statements because the reality is that I teach gay kids cause I teach all kids.
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A different world
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bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
#oklaed
MrWilliamsOK
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
Say it again for those in the back!!!
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: We must not be afraid to call out when our students are being hurt. We must be the teachers they need and step up
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A4) you have to figure out underlying cause. Many times it's lack of understanding or misconceptions.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
Yes, thank you for pointing out the harsher-than-intended language.
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
A4: I hate the term "deal with".. but I teach Elem. Ss so I have to be careful & and start w/ conversations w/ Ps.
#oklaed
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
A4: I tend to stress the need for respectful behavior/speech. Their "acceptance" involves deep seeded ideological changes.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
A5 I always show this short video when I get upset w/ Ss saying that's so gay...
https://t.co/2sjEyf0NFf
#oklaed
room20awesome
Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
It's about respect and taking time to see things from another's perspective.
#Oklaed
TwyllaHester
Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: Having open conversations with individuals to learn together and educate is so important. Respect is vital.
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
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MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
A5 One of my first expectations is that "gay" and "retard" are off-limits as slurs. I can forgive cursing more than those words.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
I'd ask them why "gay" was bad. What they'd think if they found out their BFF was gay. Led the discussion to valuing differences
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
#OKLAED
A5: Perfect time to start the conversation, regardless of class subject.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
A5: Depends on relationship with student all openly called out some nicely, some with sarcasm, then make them call me gay, they wont
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
jasonbengs
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
A4 It is imperative that Ts treat all students w/compassion, empathy no matter their creed, ethnicity or orientation
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
#oklaed
A5: I explain why that statement is hurtful and inappropriate. Then ask them for their response if the statement was directed 2 them
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
Feel like you've gotta balance open conversation w/ respect for privacy. Never want to out someone, that's always a personal choice.
#OklaEd
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
Louder for everyone to hear!
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
Feel like you've gotta balance open conversation w/ respect for privacy. Never want to out someone, that's always a personal choice.
#OklaEd
toekneeduh
Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
I came out to my family a year ago on this day. I am so glad
#oklaed
is having this discussion right now. It makes me so happy.
tchingelements
Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
A5 I correct Ss just like I do when they use other inappropriate language
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
A5. Speak up and say it's not acceptable. (possibly the easiest one to answer in this week's chat!). Great questions this week!
#oklaed
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
Sounds like you're on the right track
@sulphurmiddle
! Acknowledging the issue is the biggest roadblock. Great start.
#oklaed
In reply to @JennWillTeach, @sulphurmiddle, @sulphurmiddle
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
#oklaed
another good one created by students...
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
A5: most commonly with "that look", if it continues a conversation on respect would be held
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
A5 I ask how that statement makes sense & break it down. Oft make point that it's unacceptable to say, "That's so Asian."
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
Proud of you. Proud of
#oklaed
for having this convo too.
toekneeduh
Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
I came out to my family a year ago on this day. I am so glad
#oklaed
is having this discussion right now. It makes me so happy.
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
As an elementary T I have to tread lightly on such topics. It has to start w/ conversations w/ parents. They're my best advocates.
#oklaed
room20awesome
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
Agreed conversations in elem are different. I start with respect, compassion...lay a foundation.
#oklaed
In reply to @KimberBlodgett
jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
#OKLAED
Thanks for sharing!!!
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
A5 I always show this short video when I get upset w/ Ss saying that's so gay...
https://t.co/2sjEyf0NFf
#oklaed
MrWilliamsOK
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
A5: this is just one of many "off the cuff" loaded & derogatory, phrases & terms in our vernacular. Good time to start convos
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
I am glad it makes you happy. I hope tonight's
#oklaed
chat has a positive effect to come.
In reply to @toekneeduh
tracytrips1
Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
Q4.. honestly I would try my best to educate them, and if that doesn't work just make sure my voice is louder than theirs *shrugs*
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
A5) I can honestly say my boys have never used that terminology. I started teaching them acceptance vs toleration long ago.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
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tracytrips1
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
A4: Honestly I would try and educate them, and if that doesn't work I'd make sure my voice is louder than theirs *shrugs*
#oklaed
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
It's hard to gather intent from 140 characters. I'd wager further to say I try to model love and care regardless of, well, whatever.
#oklaed
In reply to @JennWillTeach
jasonbengs
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
A5 W/Elem Ss I would say we don't talk like that here because it was meant as a put down and we don't treat others that way
#oklaed
MrWilliamsOK
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
There are a few celeb videos and talks abt how & why they don't say certain things anymore... Always good resources
#oklaed
In reply to @FatCatArtist
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
#oklaed
Take your time with this one. It is so good!
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
A5 It's not just straight kids that say it. Sometimes it's gay kids or adults. It's a great conversation about the power of language
#oklaed
Carnie4Oea
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
This phrase and the "R" word are on my non negotiable list...students know saying those words are off limits.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
Late elem is when many Ss discover their gender identity and/or sexual orientation, so avoiding those convos in elem can be hard
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KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
As an elementary T I have to tread lightly on such topics. It has to start w/ conversations w/ parents. They're my best advocates.
#oklaed
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
#oklaed
Acknowledging Ss' sexual identity is as important as their race. You can't be blind on this either. Not talking about it isn't okay!
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
I agree. There's a large majority of kids who would rather be at school than home. I'm fine with facilitating that.
#oklaed
In reply to @MsRasnic
Lsooner2
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
Q5) and as Ps we HAVE to model appropriate language at home, no "r" word either!!!
#oklaed
#Respect
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
BlackApple4edu
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
I also make sure to not make gay a bad thing. Because gay is okay unless you use it in a negative way (anchor chart that)
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justbeccase
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
Yes!!
#bantheRword
#oklaed
In reply to @MrPogue
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A5. I do believe it's a different conversation in ele vs sec. We must tread carefully for our young Ss and keep them safe.
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
A5: the same way when I hear the R word. I don't tolerate it. It starts with a conversation. Maybe they didn't know any better.
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
There are some great kids books out there that can help w/ that convo:
https://t.co/OOxQy7kYxb
#oklaed
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A5. I do believe it's a different conversation in ele vs sec. We must tread carefully for our young Ss and keep them safe.
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
Q6: I'm not sure. I talked about it but I don't know if my admin knows.
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
It's important to remember parents don't educate their children on all things. It is possible our conversation will b their first.
#oklaed
MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
A6 Fortunately, I don't think anyone would care or notice. It would be no different than any other pride celebration.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
It wrks both ways tho. Like this assumption Im including Troy Bc he's gay when actually it's bc we talk wkly about this very topic.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
We have gay teachers who can fill in lol
#oklaed
@FreedomOklahoma
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
I forgot Troy Stevenson sequestered himself for GOT season premiere. I wish I would have seen the topic earlier!
@FreedomOklahoma
#oklaed
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
A6 No different than any other topic as long as parents are notified about the conversation and that I'm not "persuading" minds.
#oklaed
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
Just like any conversation with a student. Ss need the opportunity to understand others. School is the greatest teacher of that.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
A5. It is not an acceptable use of language in my room, and my students learn that on day one. It is on my "Rasnic Hates List."
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
#oklaed
TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
Proud to say
@TulsaSchools
would stand behind me in support.
#oklaed
#successtps
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
Well, evidently your students didn't tell their parents, or their parents just didn't throw a fit, which is a good sign.
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cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
Q6: I'm not sure. I talked about it but I don't know if my admin knows.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
djthoreson
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
A6: I have no idea! But there are a lot of authors with interesting orientations, so that could be an opening.
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room20awesome
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
Many of my little don't know the meaning, but are repeating what they've heard.
#oklaed
In reply to @andredaughty
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
A6 Not sure on this one. I believe that we could talk about this more. There's a difference b/w "it's acceptable" and "you matter."
#oklaed
andredaughty
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
A6. And being real
#oklaed
, admin will want to see it in the lesson plans too! So make sure to make it a teachable moment!
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
#oklaed
A5: I have so many kids that are, they talk about it all the time anyway. They had me take a pic at Pride and tweet it to our super
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
#oklaed
File under "Use year round."
jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
#OKLAED
A6: IF there's been good discussion & parent involvement, no problem... IF not, I'd expect a horrible situation blowing up.
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
Thank you for this!
#queerkidsmatter
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
A6 Not sure on this one. I believe that we could talk about this more. There's a difference b/w "it's acceptable" and "you matter."
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
#oklaed
A6. Got lost for a second sorry.
JonnyCurriculum
Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
Hopefully I never indicated I wouldn't learn the "terms". Advocating for gender equality and race would be equal in this case.
#oklaed
In reply to @JennWillTeach
sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
A6. A school can't get on board to approve or disapprove any type of pride or celebratory events concerning sexuality.
#not
the place
#oklaed
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
A5:
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"Don't use 'gay' as an insult. It's not bad for someone to be gay. What do you actually want to say? Let's find accurate words."
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
A6: (1 of 2) well, a parent complained on me for having a Muslim speaker in geography; no complaints for other religious speakers...
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
justbeccase
Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
A6: Not sure, but I fully intend to incorporate LGBTQ+ statistics and issues into my sec math classroom a year from now.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
A6: (2of2) so even with a focus on other identify months as well, I'm sure "agenda pushing" complaints would be made
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
Everywhere is the place to validate our students and if board or admin wont than Ts must step up and fill the void
#queerkidsmatter
#oklaed
sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
A6. A school can't get on board to approve or disapprove any type of pride or celebratory events concerning sexuality.
#not
the place
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
LGBTQ issues are not only about sexuality...nor is Pride. Many of those at Stonewall were trans.
#oklaed
sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
A6. A school can't get on board to approve or disapprove any type of pride or celebratory events concerning sexuality.
#not
the place
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
A6. My building would not be supportive of this. I would probably be called in for a meeting with my A.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
A6: I would first have a conversation with my admin, with my parents, then students. It's all about open communication.
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
Being gay is not just about sex!
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A7: Absolutely and in a heartbeat (lunch is an unofficial meeting anyways!)
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A7 Several of our schools have GSAs. I cheer them on during the Pride parades. But yes, I believe I could take a more active role.
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6) Not sure about
#epsok
but when I posted about it in our 29K member FB group. Only 1 person took issue. He's no longer in group.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
#oklaed
tchingelements
Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6 In former District if it tied 2 curriculum it'd be no problem; hard to find ways 2 bring it n2 Sci BUT have been working on it
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
#oklaed
A7: not sure if we have one. Absolutely!
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
This makes me sad. But I've been there.
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
A6. My building would not be supportive of this. I would probably be called in for a meeting with my A.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
That is unfortunate. I hope over time they come around. Can you start these conversations with others in your school who are "safe"?
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
A6. My building would not be supportive of this. I would probably be called in for a meeting with my A.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
#oklaed
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Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
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#oklaed
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krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
I would encourage you to find out...and offer to sponsor! Can literally save lives by helping LGBTQ students not feel isolated.
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
#oklaed
A7: not sure if we have one. Absolutely!
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
#OKLAED
Thank you for reminding me of the GSA! Ss talking with all involved has been fantastic in my grandson's school!!!
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
A7: not sure about that in an elementary school, however I would be all for it.
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
#oklaed
tchingelements
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
A7 Yes & yes; my former school had this & I wore a rainbow Ally button with my name tag
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
In elem school, might be possible to lump a few issues into one club...maybe "understanding differences" or something like that.
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
A7: not sure about that in an elementary school, however I would be all for it.
#oklaed
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
A6:
#oklaed
my last district admin wouldn't have been ok w/ it. I talked about a lot that wasn't "acceptable." Prob why I wasn't asked back.
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
A7: Met my husband when he fought to start one at Westmoore in the late 00s when we were in our teens. These groups are so important
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
A7 I'm the sponsor of the GSA in my building. Been going strong for about 8 years. We're one of the largest clubs. 50-75 kids per/wk
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MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
A3: I believe each of our Moore PS high schools have a GSA; my current role wouldn't allow me to sponsor any student organization.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
This makes me happy!
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
A7 I'm the sponsor of the GSA in my building. Been going strong for about 8 years. We're one of the largest clubs. 50-75 kids per/wk
#oklaed
PhynyxRising
Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
#oklaed
I kind of already have one..1/3 of my guard is out and it's beautiful!
In reply to @krystalgr80
TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
Yup x 2
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
It's also possible you may be the 1st person Ss come out to. I've had that happen.
#oklaed
In reply to @KimberBlodgett
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
Will you share more about what GSA does?
#OklaEd
In reply to @MsRasnic
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
TCTAJennifer
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
I'm not sure about interest level at elem but I'd be happy to sponsor
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
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jcbjr
Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
Got to go! Great & important topic. Good night Gracie!!!
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
A8: Be out in the classroom and fight for them whenever and wherever they need it
#allmykids
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
A7: I believe each of our Moore PS high schools have a GSA; my current role wouldn't allow me to sponsor any student organization.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
A8 Since I'm at the district level, I work to have open & honest dialogue with all Ts I come across. I don't hide my identity.
#oklaed
TCTAJennifer
Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
Do my best to be educated and create a safe comfortable space
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
#oklaed
File under "LGBTQ resources."
jasonbengs
Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
A8 Compassion, empathy and halting hate filled comments/actions of any kind. This should be offered all Ss
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
Safe space for LGBT+ students/allies to learn more about topics of interest and to provide ways to combat student bullying
#oklaed
vperezy
Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
Will you share more about what GSA does?
#OklaEd
In reply to @MsRasnic
MrPogue
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
A8 Being a conscientious advocate. Be a voice for the marginalized. Recognize problems and offer solutions to accommodate.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
TCTAJennifer
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
Like an acceptance group?
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
In elem school, might be possible to lump a few issues into one club...maybe "understanding differences" or something like that.
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
A7: not sure about that in an elementary school, however I would be all for it.
#oklaed
TPSElemMath
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
Let ALL kiddos know I love them and I'm on their team, no matter what...ALL Ss should have + experience at school.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
FatCatArtist
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
Incorporate a safe spaces @ elem schools. Make sure books that are inclusive are available (not hidden) in the library for starters.
#oklaed
bakerleft
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
#oklaed
sulphurmiddle
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
A8 Build a culture of acceptance and equality that improves the lives of all students. We will never achieve equality by labeling.
#oklaed
MsRasnic
Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
We meet every week. Safe space for students to meet. Student leaders discuss LGBTQ+ topics and legislation. Many group gatherings
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
Something like that...more a way for students to have access to new ideas and perspectives they may not be learning at home.
#oklaed
TCTAJennifer
Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
Like an acceptance group?
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
In elem school, might be possible to lump a few issues into one club...maybe "understanding differences" or something like that.
#oklaed
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
A7: not sure about that in an elementary school, however I would be all for it.
#oklaed
cvian87
Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
There has been very little I have cherished more than my Ss trusting me enough to be honest and open with me about who they are
#oklaed
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
It's also possible you may be the 1st person Ss come out to. I've had that happen.
#oklaed
In reply to @KimberBlodgett
JennWillTeach
Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
A7:
#oklaed
yes & YES!
KimberBlodgett
Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
A9: open communication, and lots of it! Open minds lead to open hearts. Not to sound cheesy but it's true. Our Ss need both!
#oklaed
MrBurtonMPS
Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
A8: I rotated in/out of all 35 of our campuses. Smiles, waves, & head nods go a long way in showing respect.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
A8) I felt
#okcps
made a very symbolic and supportive gesture by putting bus in the pride parade. It said - you are loved here.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
tchingelements
Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
A8 Be vocal about your support - actions will speak volumes; even small changes will be noticed by Ss.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
OKCPS also has LGBTQ Board Chair! I was so happy when she won!
#oklaed
angmlittle
Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
A8) I felt
#okcps
made a very symbolic and supportive gesture by putting bus in the pride parade. It said - you are loved here.
#oklaed
krystalgr80
Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
#oklaed