#resiliencechat Archive

Co-moderated by Dr. Robert Martinez and Sara Truebridge, #resiliencechat focuses on promoting resilience amongst educators and students.

Monday August 13, 2018
10:00 PM EDT

  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:01 PM EDT
    Happy Monday all! For many of our #resiliencechat folks school is starting soon, or is just around the corner. Is anyone with us tonight, or are you all getting those last few days of summer in?
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:03 PM EDT
    This is @ResiliencyGuy moderating #resiliencechat I'm starting my 32 year in public education this year as the Assistant Superintendent of Human REsoures for @FairfieldSuisun I've started school as a #student, #SchoolPsych, #AssistantPrincipal #Principal, and #AssistantSup
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:05 PM EDT
    Well, I'll hop to it, and see if we have any takers out there tonight. TidBit: Each one of us experiences the start of school differently: Excitement, anxiety, fear, tension, wonder, all can be part of the normal anticipation each year. #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:06 PM EDT
    Q1. Depending on developmental level of your students, what are some of the feelings that you might anticipate from your students? #resiliencechat
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT
    Some are anxious first year or new school, others are happy because school is better than their home reality, many are happy to be back in their familiar social dynamic #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT
    Q2: Knowing that many children experience anxiety about returning to school what are some ways in which you can ease their anxiety, normalize the experience, and provide a safe place for them to be? #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    Hi Brian @Bhsteeler Thanks for joining in! #Resiliencechat
    • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT
      Some are anxious first year or new school, others are happy because school is better than their home reality, many are happy to be back in their familiar social dynamic #resiliencechat
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:12 PM EDT
    A2: we are small enough that we can typically partner new students with a buddy for the inevitable list of anxious questions, positive people & positive first impression #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:13 PM EDT
    New school year's often are complicated with questions for students: -Who is in my class? -Who is my teacher? -Will I make friends? -When's lunch? -What if I don't know something? -Are they going to like me? Q3 -How do we calm their fears? #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:15 PM EDT
    A2 #resiliencechat One of the ways to lessen anxiety is to build an environment that is calm, accepting, positive, safe and secure. When we seek to meet the basic needs of our students first, we can then support their comfort levels, and lessen anxiety.
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:15 PM EDT
    A3 always have an orientation block on the student’s first day. Gets to the FAQs quickly and early #Resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:16 PM EDT
    Great suggestions! Sometimes simply having one connection that you can count on can make a huge difference for a student. #resiliencechat
    • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:12 PM EDT
      A2: we are small enough that we can typically partner new students with a buddy for the inevitable list of anxious questions, positive people & positive first impression #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT
    Q4 Some schools focus on providing students and parents with a welcome back they will never forget! Does your school seek to make this a memorable occasion, or just start up like it's any other day? #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:20 PM EDT
    A4: My place of employ hosts an annual "Back to School" Day."#resiliencechat
    In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT
    Q5 In @FairfieldSuisun we held a #Back2School #ResourceFair where students were able to get backpacks, dental checks, hear from community resources, see principals, and get information. #resiliencechat Does your community hold events to engage parents in #Back2School?
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:22 PM EDT
    A4: we try and have a typical day. Do have option loading for Jr High, closest thing to a highlight #resiliencechat
  • arron_degracia Aug 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT
    Been a while since I participated in the #resiliencechat had to double back to hashtag 😜
    • arron_degracia Aug 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT
      A3: Start simple by greeting them with a smile at the door, affirm their presence by awknowledging them, and respect and value their individuality! #trust will follow!
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT
    That sounds cool! #Resiliencechat Many of our principals, and staffs are out front greeting students and families, and Central Office Administrators are all out at our school sites for the first 2 days of school. Our public must be shown that we care!
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:24 PM EDT
    A5: about two weeks in we have a Meet the Staff function and combine it with the Celebration of Excellence from the prior school year #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:24 PM EDT
    Members of senior leadership at my place of employ are also out in front of the main building daily to greet students. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:25 PM EDT
    Tidbit2: #resiliencechat Many of the things that we do for students, might also be some ideas we can do for new teachers and staff. In @FairfieldSuisun we will have over 300 new employees joining our team, and must work to #connect #engage and lower their #anxiety too!
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    So very true. #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    Q6 #resiliencechat We have had some great ideas like, Principals writing welcome back cards to all students, teachers making community visits prior to school starting. What other ideas come to mind that truly demonstrate to our students and their families that we #care?
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:28 PM EDT
    A5 Yes. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @FairfieldSuisun
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:30 PM EDT
    A5: I think letting families know that help and support are available long after the first day of school, and how to effectively access that help and support. #resiliencechat
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:31 PM EDT
    A6: we always give the full school tour for every family/student considering a move to our school #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:31 PM EDT
    Q7 We have heard it said that #eachmomentmatters and sometimes teachers are told to focus on the pacing guides, get to the academics, and yet, if time is taken to build community #classroom and #school, don't we really gain more in the end? In what way? #resiliencechat
  • arron_degracia Aug 13 @ 10:32 PM EDT
    A4: #resiliencechat @ArmijoHigh @SheilaB_Smith They roll with WOW-Week of Welcome and it has been a tremendous hit for students, staff, and parents!
    • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT
      Q4 Some schools focus on providing students and parents with a welcome back they will never forget! Does your school seek to make this a memorable occasion, or just start up like it's any other day? #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:33 PM EDT
    Absolutely, if it's just a one time shot, then the opportunity to demonstrate the care, compassion, and services is a lost opportunity. We have had some principals keep the red carpet rolled out over the first two weeks of school to students and families! #resiliencechat
    • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:30 PM EDT
      A5: I think letting families know that help and support are available long after the first day of school, and how to effectively access that help and support. #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:33 PM EDT
    A7: I think both need to happen in the first days of school. One shouldn't be to the exclusion of the other. #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:34 PM EDT
    That's wonderful! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:34 PM EDT
    A7: course outlines, grading schemes and class room rules can wait untilday two. Humanize yourself and begin to build classroom culture #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:36 PM EDT
    Yes! I think our School Leaders must also work to build the relationships with all staff as well. If we are not focused on the big people as well as the little people in our schools we have lost a grand opportunity! #resiliencechat
    • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:34 PM EDT
      A7: course outlines, grading schemes and class room rules can wait untilday two. Humanize yourself and begin to build classroom culture #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT
    Course outlines, etc. are de-humanizing? Really? #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Bhsteeler
  • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT
    A7: So much is gained by taking the time to set the foundation for relationships to grow and classroom community to form! This also allows Ss to feel at home in the space. If they are comfortable, Ss are more likely to take learning risks & support one another. #resiliencechat
  • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT
    By the way, thanks for letting me jump in so late!! #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT
    Q8 Some students might be excited, some might be quiet, well others might be full of fidgets on day one. What are some strategies that we can use to make sure that each one is able to be them, yet, finds comfort in our classes, and schools? #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:40 PM EDT
    With all due respect, how long were you in the classroom? #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Bhsteeler
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:40 PM EDT
    Glad you jumped in Stacia! @StaciaHang Yes, #Relationships are a key ingredient in students success, and in building #resilience. #Resiliencechat
    • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT
      A7: So much is gained by taking the time to set the foundation for relationships to grow and classroom community to form! This also allows Ss to feel at home in the space. If they are comfortable, Ss are more likely to take learning risks & support one another. #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:41 PM EDT
    And, I was referring to your comment re: teachers humanizing themselves, rather than focusing on rules, etc. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Bhsteeler
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:42 PM EDT
  • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:43 PM EDT
    A8: Know your kids. Spend time chatting with them, remember likes/dislikes, connect with their parents/guardians, find out what makes them tick, & create a classroom culture where fair means that everyone gets what they need to be the best learner they can be! #resiliencechat
    • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT
      Q8 Some students might be excited, some might be quiet, well others might be full of fidgets on day one. What are some strategies that we can use to make sure that each one is able to be them, yet, finds comfort in our classes, and schools? #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:43 PM EDT
    A8: I allow each student to participate at his/her own pace. #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:45 PM EDT
    No harm at all. Right? #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Bhsteeler
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:45 PM EDT
    A8: there are those extroverted young people who can be helpful getting conversations started, Letting others enter when comfortable #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:45 PM EDT
    Yes, connecting with students, and ensuring that they know you are an authentic person who cares about them goes a long way towards building trust, and helps them to build that comfort level of wanting to be present with you! #Resiliencechat
    • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:43 PM EDT
      A8: Know your kids. Spend time chatting with them, remember likes/dislikes, connect with their parents/guardians, find out what makes them tick, & create a classroom culture where fair means that everyone gets what they need to be the best learner they can be! #resiliencechat
      • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT
        Q8 Some students might be excited, some might be quiet, well others might be full of fidgets on day one. What are some strategies that we can use to make sure that each one is able to be them, yet, finds comfort in our classes, and schools? #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:46 PM EDT
    #Resiliencechat working to ensure that we differentiate based on need is extremely imporrtant.
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:49 PM EDT
    I believe we each have the power to help each other feel more safe and secure in our educational settings, thus we create safe places for out students. Q9 What are some steps we can take to help each other feel safe, secure, and positive about this new year? #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT
    A9: Ideally, we should have our colleagues' backs in the same way we have our students' backs. #resiliencechat
  • Bhsteeler Aug 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT
    A9: showing vulnerability, asking for help when you need some, important reminder for administrators. Hard to get staff to be forthcoming if leaders do not model collegial growth #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT
    A9 One strategy is the "Power of Positive Intent" This means that when we are working with others, we can help things get better by presuming positive intent for others actions, rather than negative intent. When we do this, we can often feel more positive. #resiliencechat
  • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT
    A9: Be consistent. Choose words and actions carefully and genuinely. Show empathy. Do whatever it takes. #resiliencechat
    • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:49 PM EDT
      I believe we each have the power to help each other feel more safe and secure in our educational settings, thus we create safe places for out students. Q9 What are some steps we can take to help each other feel safe, secure, and positive about this new year? #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    Q10 Well, we were a small but mighty group tonight, and I thank each of you for your participation in #resiliencechat I anticipate @saratruebridge returning next week, and she often asks - What can you do as a result of #resiliencechat tonight to help #resilience grow?
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    Amen to that for sure! #resiliencechat
    • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT
      A9: Be consistent. Choose words and actions carefully and genuinely. Show empathy. Do whatever it takes. #resiliencechat
      • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:49 PM EDT
        I believe we each have the power to help each other feel more safe and secure in our educational settings, thus we create safe places for out students. Q9 What are some steps we can take to help each other feel safe, secure, and positive about this new year? #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:56 PM EDT
    A10: Be vulnerable, be authentic. Have fun! #resiliencechat
  • teachermrw Aug 13 @ 10:57 PM EDT
    Thank you to all who participated this evening! Thank you, Rob! @ResiliencyGuy #resiliencechat
  • StaciaHang Aug 13 @ 10:58 PM EDT
    A10: Always remember our why. Staying true to our personal purpose helps us remain on our positive path. #resiliencechat
  • ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Aug 13 @ 10:58 PM EDT
    #Resiliencechat
    • arron_degracia Aug 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT
      A3: Start simple by greeting them with a smile at the door, affirm their presence by awknowledging them, and respect and value their individuality! #trust will follow!