#RuralEdChat Archive

#RuralEdChat is a chat that focuses on the needs of the rural educator. This chat has been revised by Tammy Neil (@MathNeil), John Martin (@edventures) and Natalee Stotz (@nataleestotz).

Tuesday March 13, 2018
8:30 PM EDT

  • timlriley Mar 13 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Hello everyone #RuralEdChat I don’t believe I’ve been here before
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Good evening, #RuralEdChat Please let us know all about you.
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    Welcome, Tim. So glad you are here. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @timlriley
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    Hello #RuralEdChat friends. John checking in from the snowy mountains of NH after our 3rd Nor'Easter in as many weeks. *sigh*
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    Here is a list of possible questions for tonight's #RuralEdChat https://t.co/x9ahxgQfho Feel free to add to the list.
  • j6panus Mar 13 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    #ruraledchat julie from NH, k-8 STEM teacher. snowday here.. spent the day boiling sap with my son.
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    John! So glad to see you. I'm sure the snow is getting old. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @edventures
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Hello #RuralEdChat! I'm Matt, and I sometimes wish my life was simple enough to fit into a single tweet.
  • EdFuller_PSU Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Hi. Ed Fuller from Penn State Education Leadership program. I've studied and written on trust and school leadership. #RuralEdChat
  • j6panus Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    someone thought they saw a long-range forecast for another storm next week.. O_o #ruraledchat
    In reply to @edventures
  • nataleestotz - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Hey #RuralEdChat Natalee from snowy Maine.
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    I thought that was a syrup boil. I know it is hard work, but so worth it in the end. #ruralEdchat
    In reply to @j6panus
  • nataleestotz - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    NOOOOOOOOOOO #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @j6panus, @edventures
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Yeah, I've given up shoveling off my deck. We get a storm every time I do. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Ed, we are so glad you are here. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @EdFuller_PSU
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    No. NO. NOOOO! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @j6panus
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Hi #RuralEdChat Tuning in from Wisconsin. Former classroom teacher & school librarian (16 yrs). Currently working in outdoor ed, teacher wellness, mindfulness. Back in grad school studying mental health counseling
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Our first question will drop in just a moment. We will use the Q1/A1 format until a conversation breaks out. Don't forget to add #RuralEdChat to your tweet so we can all share your brilliance.
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Howdy All - due to schedule and illness, participation has been delayed - but Nate checking in from SWOhio #RuralEdChat
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    I just want to say how happy my heart is to know @TG_Neil @nataleestotz and @edventures are all here tonight. #familyreunion #ruraledchat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Good evening, Nate. So glad you are here. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @937Nathan
  • LindaAragoni Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Linda joining #ruraledchat from upstate NY
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    I've missed you guys. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @robinhosemann, @TG_Neil, @nataleestotz
  • j6panus Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    not syrup yet! still working on it.. somewhere between sap and syrup. #ruraledchat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Hello #RuralEdChat! I'm Matt, and I sometimes wish I could fit everything about me in a single tweet. #RuralEdChat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    Yes, it is a treat! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @robinhosemann, @nataleestotz, @edventures
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    **Q1** What is trust? How do you define it? #RuralEdChat
  • Dale_Chu Mar 13 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    HAPPENING NOW: @RuralEdChat moderating a discussion on trust. Follow along at #RuralEdChat!
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Awesome, Ed. Glad you are here for #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @EdFuller_PSU
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Hi Tim. Thanks for joining us! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @timlriley
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    I would love a bottle if you would be willing to share. :-) I don't get the really good stuff down here too often. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @j6panus
  • PegGrafwallner Mar 13 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    Peg, Instructional Coach/Reading Specialist, from MKE. Hello #ruraledchat A1 Trust is when I fail and you help me get back on track. Not talk about how I failed to others.
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    A1: It's such a base word for me that I have trouble putting it in other words. I think a combination of honesty and reliability get to the core of it. #RuralEdChat
  • j6panus Mar 13 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    A1: knowing 'what you see is what you get' and doing the same #ruraledchat
  • LindaAragoni Mar 13 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    A1. Confidence that you are not going to be treated negatively just because of something that's nothing to do with you. ..#RuralEdChat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    A1: It is a bond born out of fostering relationships with other - getting to know them - know their voice. #RuralEdChat
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    New to #RuralEdChat, but have lived and taught in both suburban and rural districts. Currently studying #inquiry and at #PennState. Looking forward to thinking and learning with you!
  • j6panus Mar 13 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    making some up to bring to my #ITEEA colleagues in April.. join us in Atlanta! :) #ruraledchat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    Welcome, Logan. Let us know if we can help you in any way. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ruttenlj
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    Hey Logan. Welcome. Thanks for being here with us tonight for #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ruttenlj
  • SJ_Grubb Mar 13 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    Wish I could join in tonight!! I’ll miss being live but look forward to the responses. :) #RuralEdChat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    I will have to try to make that trip. :-) #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @j6panus
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    Great to have you join in @ruttenlj #RuralEdChat
    • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:39 PM EDT
      New to #RuralEdChat, but have lived and taught in both suburban and rural districts. Currently studying #inquiry and at #PennState. Looking forward to thinking and learning with you!
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    So many great definitions so far. Our second question is on its way. #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Reliability, consistency, being true-to-ur-word & copping to it when you aren't or you drop the ball. I have moments of "Hey, I know I said this 1 thing, but this other thing happened. Let me explain & apologize." 2nd graders are great. I always hear, It's OK Ms. H.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    I like this. There is certainly an aspect of caring for the other person that didn't come to my mind at first. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @937Nathan
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    A1 Trust between educators for has something to do with recognizing our individual approaches and not acting threatened by differences. #RuralEdChat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    ** Q2 ** Why is trust with your colleagues so important? How do you build it? #RuralEdChat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    You trust when you care! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @try_rebooting
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat A2: For me trust is about the relationship between myself & others so in the case of my colleagues I build trust through my actions and base my trust in others on theirs.
  • EdFuller_PSU Mar 13 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    Honest, open, transparent communication that is consistent is necessary for trust building #ruraledchat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A2: Trust with colleagues is important due to why we are in the profession - #StudentsMatter #RuralEdChat
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat A2: That said, it is definitely more of a journey, a pattern, than a single event.
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A1. Trust is about active recognition of another person's humanity and listening + responding with that awareness in mind to create a mutual, shared space. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • EdFuller_PSU Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A2: Trust uis necessary bcz when u trust, you dont spend time worrying abt things--you are free to create & try things the best you can without fear. #ruraledchat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    This is beautiful! #RuralEdChat
    • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:45 PM EDT
      A1. Trust is about active recognition of another person's humanity and listening + responding with that awareness in mind to create a mutual, shared space. #RuralEdChat
      In reply to @TG_Neil
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    A2: my colleagues are one of my best sources of feedback. They see me in action way more than admins, can provide non-evaluative feedback, and don't have to worry about a bad grade in my class. #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat OMG. Huge. It's the foundation on which you build your practice. I'm so lucky. Small school. Staff = family. I found out I had melanoma & in a millisecond I had hugs, coverage, a ride to the doctor, follow-up. & complete confidence.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    ** Q3 ** What role does admin play in facilitating trust between teachers? #RuralEdChat
  • nataleestotz - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    A2: Trust is necessary for a community. For teachers to work together effective, they need to feel safe with each other. #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat I see in-fighting elsewhere & count my blessings. Big impact on RETENTION. We're one of the lowest paid around & we don't go because we know there's a value to the comfort we feel here & a cost to the discomfort elsewhere. We comment on that often.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    A2: This is fostered through conscientious effort to build a framework of learning for our student through these relationships. #RuralEdChat
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    Critical b/c it builds sense of safety - a basic human need from which all other convo is possible. Built through little things - small talk, showing interest, validating others' experiences. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • EdFuller_PSU Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    school & district leaders must model trust in act trustworthy to facilitate Tchr trust. But also can facilitate collaboration and guide tchrs thru collaboration that builds trust #ruraledchat
  • nataleestotz - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    A3: The Admin plays a big role is setting the tone/culture of a school. #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat We joke that one of the teachers in our group is like a lioness in interviews of potential hires. She wants to protect our dynamic and hire fit-ins.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    A3: To borrow a line from Braveheart - "Freedom" - the professional freedom to grow and foster the relationships. #RuralEdChat
  • jbretzmann Mar 13 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    Would love to hear the #storiesinEDU of rural educators in the book contest. Need that #RuralEdChat representation in this book of educators' stories. Submit your favorite story in 1 of 6 categories here https://t.co/qcPmZOOhnt #edchat #CUE18
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    Hi, I’m Mark from Gainesville. Admins MUST model the trusting relationship by working to earn the trust of stakeholders. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    I think there's something of a coach and a team dynamic between admin and teaching staff. Admin needs to trust that teachers will work things out and champion the strength of the bonds that will result. #RuralEdChat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    Welcome to #RuralEdChat Mark. You are just down the road from me. I'm currently in Trenton.
    In reply to @mabprincipal
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    ** Q4 ** Trust is easily taken for granted. How do you insure your colleagues know you trust them? #RuralEdChat
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    A3. Admin hires professionals and gives them space & freedom (trust) to do their jobs. Communicates openly and demonstrates understanding of the context. Creates time & space for genuine collaboration around issues teachers find important to improve student learning #RuralEdChat
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @nataleestotz
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat There has to be a balance of debits & credits. Teachers cover yard duty for me because I've had multiple melanomas, but there is no simmering resentment building up because I've "paid into the system" by helping them w/tech, events, or other things I can contribute.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat A4: Tell them! Show them! Foster the relationships.
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Hmm, reciprocation. Give and take, balance resonates.
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    I'm all about it. #balance #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    A4: Provide no quarter to the enemy - give no reason for their to be mistrust - foster those relationships. #RuralEdChat
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Does that include modeling vulnerability? By demonstrating that you trust your folks enough to take chances on their behalf?
    In reply to @JRiveraTeach
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    Admins as coaches! I agree with you Robin. We have to reflect on priorities to make time for this to happen. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @robinhosemann
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    ** Q5 ** How have others shown their trust in you? #RuralEdChat
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    A4. #1 rule - assume positive intentions & approach conflict w/ a smile. I make the effort to follow up & follow through on all promises I make. Try hard not to drop the ball, & admit fault when I screw up. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    A5: a lot of freedom in classroom practices, and room to try things that don't always work. Plus, I'm only a volunteer in one class a day, so me being there at all is a lot of levels of trust. #RuralEdChat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    A5: Through proactive professionalism - seeking me out, checking in on me, asking advice- fostering/nurturing the relationship. #RuralEdChat
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat A5: They accept my decisions even when there may be a question of their outcome. Which isn't to say they don't challenge me beforehand, but they stand behind me moving forward.
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    A5 I'm thinking of a collab teaching experience where I had ideas that took things in a different but ultimately meaningful direction. Partner teacher was skeptical but trusted my vision. We forged a deep friendship. I learned to lean the other way, too. Mutuality. #ruraledchat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    YES! #RuralEdChat
    • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 8:57 PM EDT
      A4. #1 rule - assume positive intentions & approach conflict w/ a smile. I make the effort to follow up & follow through on all promises I make. Try hard not to drop the ball, & admit fault when I screw up. #RuralEdChat
      In reply to @TG_Neil
  • nataleestotz - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    It can be hard to come into a community (schools are communities, for sure) as an outsider. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ajonesmesd
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat I've seen admins B part of the problem. I've seen admins shutout by teachers who circled the wagons & took care biz. I've currently got a former teacher for my principal & we adore her. She'd take a figurative bullet for us, and maybe a real one - she carries a lot.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Very true.
    • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 8:59 PM EDT
      A4: It’s easy to say “I trust you.” It’s much harder to muster the courage to let go. We have to check our egos, and let experts work!
      In reply to @TG_Neil
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Mutual, professional respect from differing fields of vision will go a long way! #RuralEdChat
    • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:00 PM EDT
      A5 I'm thinking of a collab teaching experience where I had ideas that took things in a different but ultimately meaningful direction. Partner teacher was skeptical but trusted my vision. We forged a deep friendship. I learned to lean the other way, too. Mutuality. #ruraledchat
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    A4: It’s easy to say “I trust you.” It’s harder to gather courage to let go. We have to check our egos, and let experts work! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Especially within rural communities and rural schools - their is a #RuralIdentity #RuralEdChat
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Admin can play a critical role. If admin isn't trusting, if it has faves the system will break down. If admin is too trusting, it will break down. Words / intent matter #ruraledchat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat We're also pretty secure in our craft & selves. I've seen vicious cracks formed by the weathering of insecurity. Brutal.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    ** Q6 ** What causes us to lose trust in our colleagues? #RuralEdChat
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    A5. Great ed leaders have given me space and resources to be creative within clear but flexible guidelines. Bad ones micromanage and nitpick. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Brings to mind the fact that sometimes we need to address those insecurities, bring them out and talk them through so they don't erode relationships.
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • LindaAragoni Mar 13 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Re: trust: In last 3 teaching jobs, I never met any staff/Ss. In 1/2 most recent other jobs, never met another employee. #RuralEdChat
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat A6: When their actions belie their words.
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat One of the things I love about my principal is that she does not just put up with my outlierliness/wackiness, she doesn't tolerate it or support it, she revels in it. She's a total "Ha! You do you. You go, girl," kinda admin. Just the way we are with our kids.
    In reply to @robinhosemann
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    How did you not meet any staff or students or other employees? #ruraledchat
    In reply to @LindaAragoni
  • LindaAragoni Mar 13 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Online jobs. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    This, in itself requires trust. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @edventures, @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Now THAT's a challenge. Especially if they have been ingrained and unsuccessfully addressed for years. We could have a while #RuralEdChat night just on that alone. You could moderate.
    In reply to @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Good point. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    That sounds like a great idea. :-) #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @edventures
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    @TG_Neil A6. Lack of follow through is number one reason. Throwing under the bus when we worked as a team. Talking w/o actively listening. #RuralEdChat
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Precisely! Early intervention is better than trying to repair relationships when the damage is already done whether real or perceived.
    In reply to @mrterborg, @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Yeah, those do exist in education (i forget - we don't have those here -K-12) ... But still never meet a colleague? Ever? Hmm .... #ruraledchat
    In reply to @LindaAragoni
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A6: When another educator mistreats student, abuse their power, or make students fodder at teacher lunch and meetings. #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Ha! Wheeeee!
    In reply to @TG_Neil, @edventures
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Yeah, that may be a bit more involved than the 20 minutes we have left eh? #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    ** Q7 ** Trust is also important with online relationships. How do you build that trust with educators in your PLN? #RuralEdChat
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Words are easy... Actions harder ... especially when we just seem to have to do it. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mabprincipal, @TG_Neil
  • robinhosemann - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Argh. The nitpicking and micromanaging are big dealbreakers. Plus, they foment weird allegiances and jockeying for acceptance--all things that erode trust. Big time. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ruttenlj, @TG_Neil
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A5: Usually trust manifests itself in more WORK! It’s really been about showing confidence and belief in me. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    More like 20 years. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Internal too... That is w/n one's own self. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @edventures, @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Look at your calendar and pick a night. :-) #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @edventures, @SHuggins67
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil, @edventures
  • try_rebooting Mar 13 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A7: Consistency, mostly. Following up with what I say I'll follow up with. Not that I'm near a 100% success rate with it... #RuralEdChat
    • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
      ** Q7 ** Trust is also important with online relationships. How do you build that trust with educators in your PLN? #RuralEdChat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A7: Through the same manner - foster relationships through honest and forthright communication. #RuralEdChat
    • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:09 PM EDT
      ** Q7 ** Trust is also important with online relationships. How do you build that trust with educators in your PLN? #RuralEdChat
  • LindaAragoni Mar 13 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    I began working online back in the 1980s (running a daily newspaper). I'm used to working without F2F. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Hmm ... conference time. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Agree! Admin should hire good ppl and then give space to act as professionals. Picking winners and losers, even once, breaks trust. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @robinhosemann, @TG_Neil
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    When they promise, but don’t deliver. Or, when they scrimp on effort. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • ajonesmesd Mar 13 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    I don’t know if other small schools/districts are like this, but when it comes to trust my colleagues at work and I have give each other grace. We can tell each other our struggles and celebrate the success. They are my family. Is this common at small schools? #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    1 of our big things is speaking our minds, calling out bullshit, walking it off moving on. People here often say things like, "You looked like you did not like X." "If I did not like X, I would have said 'knock X off. What the hell you doin'?'" So we're cool. Next! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Oh, it has it's benefits ... and drawbacks :) #ruraledchat
    In reply to @LindaAragoni
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Sounds like my school. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ajonesmesd
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Ugh. Did someone say, "conference"? #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    So this is what it's like outside of D.C .... :) #ruraledchat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Hey, the right conference .... think teacher led unconference .... (forget what they're called ....) #ruraledchat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A7. I teach online. Big part of this is being present and active. No hallway or water cooler chats to build rapport. Have to be all the more intentional, active in the online context, & prompt in replying and feedback. Consistency is crucial. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    I'm so down for that with the exception of potential death & dismemberment by car. I will proudly say I've done the dunk tank. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @TG_Neil, @edventures
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Ah, make it a metaphor. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @TG_Neil, @edventures
  • sbaumgartner94 Mar 13 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A7 (Just popped in) Same truths as A6. Trust is built by not backstabbing, by honesty (if there's a prob, talk directly), & by offering an ear. Also, occasionally, a link to a funny meme. 😉 #RuralEdChat
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Definitely common in my own experience and what I have found in research. Typically the teachers are part of the community. #RuralEdChat
    • ajonesmesd Mar 13 @ 9:12 PM EDT
      I don’t know if other small schools/districts are like this, but when it comes to trust my colleagues at work and I have give each other grace. We can tell each other our struggles and celebrate the success. They are my family. Is this common at small schools? #RuralEdChat
  • ajonesmesd Mar 13 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Can I add that they have taught my children, so I can prove that I have the ultimate trust in the work that they do #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    The Black Hole. One teacher's room we all go into & don't come out of because we're chattin' so much. Fun & informal, but real sh!t gets worked out in there too. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat and conflict can actually be a chance to build that trust.
    In reply to @sbaumgartner94
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    Iron sharpens iron! #RuralEdChat
    • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:17 PM EDT
      #RuralEdChat and conflict can actually be a chance to build that trust.
      In reply to @sbaumgartner94
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    I like the concept of grace. Works at home and at school! 😏 That sharing and trusting has to be BUILT! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ajonesmesd
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Right on! In the burbs, I commuted out from the city. In rural dist, I walked to school past student houses. They see me walk the dog, etc. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @937Nathan
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    True - shared experiences can create bonds, or destroy them. How we choose to approach and deal with that conflict is the determinant. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ruttenlj, @sbaumgartner94
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    By telling me too much! Stop that! Actually, I see trust in me when I'm asked to help with tech & people show their vulnerability & insecurity in after-school one-on-ones where I show them how to do techie stuff. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    AMEN! #RuralEdChat
    • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 9:19 PM EDT
      I like the concept of grace. Works at home and at school! 😏 That sharing and trusting has to be BUILT! #RuralEdChat
      In reply to @ajonesmesd
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    I have definitely been guilty of oversharing. I'm trying to work on that one. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67
  • sbaumgartner94 Mar 13 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Conflict, if handled directly, can be very good at building trust. If only everyone's comfortable enough in making & admitting mistakes together. And brainstorming together. And trying again...together. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @ruttenlj
  • WriteOnJulie Mar 13 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A6: when they backstab/throw under the bus, give credit of success to other/wrong ppl, widely advertise & publicly shame mistakes #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Seriously, people. This town is SO small. You gotta work stuff out because it's like being in the same family & living in the same house & Thanksgiving is coming & you gotta deal. Everybody knows everybody & nobody's going anywhere, so you might as well work it out. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    That sounds like fun. Or not. But better than Urban living .... #ruraledchat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    I am so thankful for the answers you've all shared tonight. Trust between colleagues is very important. If we can't trust each other, how do we get our students to trust us? #RuralEdChat
  • WriteOnJulie Mar 13 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A2 mutual trust builds #PositiveCulture where everyone’s successes & #FailForward work toward a better community today #BetterTogether #InnovatorsMindset #RuralEdChat
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Last question: ** Q8 ** How do you work with colleagues that have proven untrustworthy? #RuralEdChat
  • mabprincipal Mar 13 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    You gotta see these folks at the grocery store and church. Better work it out! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Thanks for welcoming me tonight! Going to tune into the #PA18 coverage of #PAspecialelection. I look forward to the next #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    I'm the city girl transfer in to this rural little town. We reference "Northern Exposure" a lot & they take great pleasure in trying to freak me out by inviting me to "process" turkeys & stuff like that. I learned there is such a thing as an ornamental chicken. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Here, I could go weeks w/o seeing the same people (aside from church / work) #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mabprincipal, @SHuggins67, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • WriteOnJulie Mar 13 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Conflict without derision & shaming #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @sbaumgartner94, @ruttenlj
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    #RuralEdChat Trust begins, and ends, with me. In the decisions I make, in the words I utter, in the things I do. There's an old Navy saying that one oh $h!t knocks out 10 attaboys. Every moment is an opportunity to reinforce or to shatter that trust. Let's build!
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Sounds lovely. Especially the snow. #ruraledchat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • sbaumgartner94 Mar 13 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Best wishes to you all for the week. Thanks for letting me pop in. As a writer for education & folks with t1d, I'm big on trust. We may fear, but we must rely each other. We're stronger together! #RuralEdChat
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    And you know that incredibly good bit of wisdom about not adding parents & students to your Facebook? Yeah, that sh!t don't play here. Roll over & take the friend request. Then go to Twitter, Snapchat, & Instagram & play there. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • mrterborg Mar 13 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    My district would get its ________ in a twist ..... #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • edventures - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Thank you! Looking forward to learning with you! #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @sbaumgartner94
  • 937Nathan Mar 13 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A8: As @mabprincipal said - Grace - and keeping my eye on the reason -#StudentsMatter. #RuralEdChat
  • ruttenlj Mar 13 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A8. Give them space. Be collegial and keep classroom doors and ears open. Smile and keep trying. Remember to put the kids before our personal issues. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @TG_Neil
  • SHuggins67 Mar 13 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Pfft. Everybody's Facebook friends with the superintendent & the board. Welcome to Middletown. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @mrterborg, @edventures, @TG_Neil
  • TG_Neil - Moderator Mar 13 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Or they're related to them. #RuralEdChat
    In reply to @SHuggins67, @mrterborg, @edventures