#SafeSchoolsChat Archive
#SafeSchoolsChat is a weekly chat moderated by @teresagross625 and @daviswelcome to increase safety awareness in schools. Every Sunday at 3:00 PM Eastern.
Sunday November 6, 2016
3:00 PM EST
AdamBrownEDU
Nov 6 @ 3:00 PM EST
Hi! Adam from va. Principal
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JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:01 PM EST
Joining
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from Maryland.
evsmomgen
Nov 6 @ 3:01 PM EST
Gen. 6th gr T. Excited to chat!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:01 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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vsbradle
Nov 6 @ 3:01 PM EST
Hello from Texas
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JessicaStacey25
Nov 6 @ 3:01 PM EST
Good afternoon! Jessica, 6th grade science teacher from Al here!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Welcome, friend.
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In reply to @JKatzaman
JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Hi, Eric.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Welcome!
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edu_taraw
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Good afternoon! Tara Woodard from Wilson, NC
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MrSmall215
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Victor From San Leandro, CA
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whiteeducator
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Happy Sunday from NYC. Come on Jets :)
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:02 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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FloradTeach
Nov 6 @ 3:03 PM EST
Hi
@DavisWelcome
and everyone at
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A beautiful day with lots of sunshine ☀️
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:03 PM EST
Welcome!
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In reply to @JessicaStacey25
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:03 PM EST
Welcome, Tara!
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In reply to @edu_taraw
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:04 PM EST
Hey there, friend!
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In reply to @MrSmall215
leslielehner
Nov 6 @ 3:04 PM EST
Leslie Lehner, joining as Admin from Virginia Beach, VA on this beautiful Sunday!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:04 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @whiteeducator
susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:04 PM EST
Susan from the Jersey Shore coming to you from Massachusetts today! Hope all are well!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:05 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @FloradTeach
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:05 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @leslielehner
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:06 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @susankotch
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:06 PM EST
Question 1 coming up ....
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marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:06 PM EST
Marci from Mid-Missouri joining
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PeterBanhan
Nov 6 @ 3:07 PM EST
Looking forward to a deep conversation about safe schools
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:07 PM EST
thank you,
@DavisWelcome
!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:06 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @susankotch
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:07 PM EST
Q1: Why is it important for leaders to demonstrate humility?
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:07 PM EST
good to see another
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-ter here
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In reply to @marci_minor
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:08 PM EST
Welcome!
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:08 PM EST
@safeschools
have you joined
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before? If not I think your voice would be appreciated.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:09 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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leslielehner
Nov 6 @ 3:09 PM EST
A1: Leaders should be seen as human, too- relatable & approachable. This makes others feel comfortable & builds trust.
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:09 PM EST
Humility allows for leaders to be vulnerable and grow. To have the empathy needed to understand those they serve and lead.
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:09 PM EST
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There is one obvious reason: modeling behavior.
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:07 PM EST
Q1: Why is it important for leaders to demonstrate humility?
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AdamBrownEDU
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
A1. A leader puts all else before them to progress the greater good.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
Yes!!!
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JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
A1 Leaders who act like they're better than the rest place an unnecessary chasm between them and their team.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
Amen!
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leslielehner
Nov 6 @ 3:09 PM EST
A1: Leaders should be seen as human, too- relatable & approachable. This makes others feel comfortable & builds trust.
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
Always applicable to tie safety to student learning during
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https://t.co/G08BAy7a7t
teacherchalky1
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
A1 it demonstrates that they are taking the approach that we're all in it together rather than them an us
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evsmomgen
Nov 6 @ 3:11 PM EST
A1) Humility disarms and can level the playing field.
#nopowerplay
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:11 PM EST
You got it!
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JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
A1 Leaders who act like they're better than the rest place an unnecessary chasm between them and their team.
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whiteeducator
Nov 6 @ 3:11 PM EST
A1: Impt. to show humility because you can't always be perfect. Need to take risks. And encourage team to do the same, too!
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:11 PM EST
If you are better than everyone in the place, it's time to find a new home. Time to learn and grow somewhere else.
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JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:10 PM EST
A1 Leaders who act like they're better than the rest place an unnecessary chasm between them and their team.
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JessicaStacey25
Nov 6 @ 3:12 PM EST
A1. Shows that Ts are human, are approachable, & it helps open the door for trust/ relationships
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:12 PM EST
Exactly. Showing it's okay to take risks, okay to be wrong, okay to say "Not sure - let me check." Human.
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leslielehner
Nov 6 @ 3:09 PM EST
A1: Leaders should be seen as human, too- relatable & approachable. This makes others feel comfortable & builds trust.
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:12 PM EST
Ezactly.
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In reply to @AdamBrownEDU
FloradTeach
Nov 6 @ 3:12 PM EST
A1 it allows leaders to be approachable, need to know you are open to all and value all
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:12 PM EST
Absolutely!
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In reply to @whiteeducator
edu_taraw
Nov 6 @ 3:13 PM EST
A1) A true leader should work as a team with the staff and empower teachers to take on leadership roles
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:13 PM EST
yes, that vulnerability makes you approachable. An underrated attribute of a leader.
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In reply to @JessicaStacey25
kimmykcollins
Nov 6 @ 3:14 PM EST
Hi Kim from NC late, sorry!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:14 PM EST
Question 2 coming up ....
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AMitchell828
Nov 6 @ 3:14 PM EST
A1 It shows that we are all life-long learners.We can continue to grow even as adults. People feel safe to approach you.
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marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:14 PM EST
A1: What she said
@lesleylehner
and showing that leadership means you are still looking to learn from others
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kimmykcollins
Nov 6 @ 3:15 PM EST
A1 because we are all part of the team working together for the students on our building! No one is better than the other!
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:15 PM EST
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @kimmykcollins
vsbradle
Nov 6 @ 3:16 PM EST
A leader needs to model humility because they "can "
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:16 PM EST
if you can't learn from others youre no longer a leader. Youve stopped progressing & will soon be the follower
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In reply to @marci_minor
DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:16 PM EST
Q2: What are the pitfalls for an arrogant leader?
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AMitchell828
Nov 6 @ 3:16 PM EST
Love this!! It is so true. We need to model humility for our students.
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In reply to @kimmykcollins
JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:18 PM EST
A2 Arrogant leaders will lose the support of their team and -- if they're paying attention -- their superiors.
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AMitchell828
Nov 6 @ 3:18 PM EST
A2 The entire building suffers Teachers and students don't feel supported. Low morale. High turnover.
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:18 PM EST
Arrogant leaders don't leave room for others to grow/shine. They can't do it all & eventually fail. Best people leave too.
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:18 PM EST
I want a ldr I'd follow off a bridge b/c they've explained their path in a way I could buy into it. Talk to me, not at me.
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AMitchell828
Nov 6 @ 3:14 PM EST
A1 It shows that we are all life-long learners.We can continue to grow even as adults. People feel safe to approach you.
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FloradTeach
Nov 6 @ 3:18 PM EST
A2 an unwelcoming environment, lack of a cohesive group, know all makes for an unfriendly place to work
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MrSmall215
Nov 6 @ 3:19 PM EST
A1: The moment you miss an opportunity to show humility, your staff loses respect for you... When that happens: doom
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:07 PM EST
Q1: Why is it important for leaders to demonstrate humility?
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whiteeducator
Nov 6 @ 3:19 PM EST
A2: They think it's only about winning/their ways, rather than succeeding together for our Ss, staff, fams, school.
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:19 PM EST
... and they "should".
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I agree, Victoria!
vsbradle
Nov 6 @ 3:16 PM EST
A leader needs to model humility because they "can "
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vsbradle
Nov 6 @ 3:19 PM EST
The pitfalls of arrogance can be devastating for the culture of the school.
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JessicaStacey25
Nov 6 @ 3:19 PM EST
A2. Arrogance makes them unapproachable, & people tend not to have much faith, trust, or respect in arrogant leaders
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marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
A2: Another trusted person will be determined the leader by default, even if they don't have the title
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AdamBrownEDU
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
A2. Everything
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evsmomgen
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
A2) Thinking they hold all the cards, have the only good ideas, the only plan to follow, etc. This excludes others' voice.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
Absolutely!
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
Pitfalls: A disgruntled group of minions who fight every decision, don't trust the path, don't want to give 100%.
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:21 PM EST
Arrogant leaders can literally make 1+1=0. Leadership isn't about being right, it's about multiplying those around you.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:21 PM EST
Question 3 coming up.....
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kimmykcollins
Nov 6 @ 3:21 PM EST
A2 High T turn over, lack of support, no respect from others, unwelcoming environment. Push back from other! Unproductive!
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edu_taraw
Nov 6 @ 3:21 PM EST
A2) An arrogant leader will lose respect, support, and credibility
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leslielehner
Nov 6 @ 3:21 PM EST
A2: Strong leaders buildup & empower others to lead, make ppl believe they CAN. Arrogance creates resentment & distrust.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:22 PM EST
Yes.
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
Pitfalls: A disgruntled group of minions who fight every decision, don't trust the path, don't want to give 100%.
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FloradTeach
Nov 6 @ 3:22 PM EST
A2 wouldn't want to work with an arrogant leader, don't think I would label that person a leader
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:22 PM EST
Love this. Real leaders always rise to the top. Lead through power & watch someone else become the leader through service.
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marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
A2: Another trusted person will be determined the leader by default, even if they don't have the title
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MrSmall215
Nov 6 @ 3:23 PM EST
A2: Teachers need to feel heard... arrogance makes people feel as if they won't be heard... then communication breaks down
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:16 PM EST
Q2: What are the pitfalls for an arrogant leader?
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:23 PM EST
Q3: What are some leadership actions of someone who is humble?
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:23 PM EST
Without a doubt!
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edu_taraw
Nov 6 @ 3:21 PM EST
A2) An arrogant leader will lose respect, support, and credibility
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:23 PM EST
they aren't leaders, they are people in power. Big difference.
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In reply to @FloradTeach
marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:23 PM EST
A2: Former English teacher & I'm going totally Lord of the Flies on this discussion already...
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teacherchalky1
Nov 6 @ 3:24 PM EST
A2 they tend not to be aware when staff moral is low and don't accept when there are problems
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nathanerics
Nov 6 @ 3:24 PM EST
A1. Nathan, from Mt. Airy (late start). Humility is essential 4 building relationships & trust. It shows all can learn more
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:24 PM EST
good point! And that can cause dissension internally that will keep goals from being reached.
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marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:20 PM EST
A2: Another trusted person will be determined the leader by default, even if they don't have the title
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AdamBrownEDU
Nov 6 @ 3:24 PM EST
A3. Highlight their shortcomings and seek to learn from others
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:24 PM EST
Absolutely!
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teacherchalky1
Nov 6 @ 3:24 PM EST
A2 they tend not to be aware when staff moral is low and don't accept when there are problems
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In reply to @DavisWelcome
susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:25 PM EST
A good leader surrounds themselves with good people who may know the things he may not.
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:25 PM EST
Humble leaders change their opinions when they listen to others. They don't push down info, they pull up info.
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JessicaStacey25
Nov 6 @ 3:25 PM EST
A3. Ask for help, reflect, communicate w/ others in a respectful way
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JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:25 PM EST
A3 A humble leader is inclusive, open to suggestions and decisive. Inspires others. The definition of a leader.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
Awesome!
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BBDaneDell
Nov 6 @ 3:25 PM EST
Humble leaders change their opinions when they listen to others. They don't push down info, they pull up info.
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teacherchalky1
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
happy Ts make happy Ss, happy Ss make better progress. When staff moral is low this doesn't happen
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In reply to @FloradTeach
whiteeducator
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
A3: Admitting they need help, asking for feedback (& implementing it), empowering others, thanking their team genuinely!!
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FloradTeach
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
Yes, it would b devastating 4 that school, Ss, Ts, Ps, unproductive & in-fighting, not what a school should be
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edu_taraw
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
A3) Satisfied staff, students, and parents who feel they have a voice /is approachable /empowers others
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nathanerics
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
A2: The pitfalls are losing influence, alienating people, stifling collaboration & openness.
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leslielehner
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
A3: Humble leaders seek the best for those they serve. They lead with passion & courage. Leadership is a service.
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
Nice!
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JessicaStacey25
Nov 6 @ 3:25 PM EST
A3. Ask for help, reflect, communicate w/ others in a respectful way
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
A3 "Thanks for pointing that out - it's one aspect of this I haven't thought of." (puts a note into teacher's mailbox)
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FloradTeach
Nov 6 @ 3:26 PM EST
Agree!
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MrSmall215
Nov 6 @ 3:27 PM EST
A3: it's like being a good teacher, right? Praising good actions, putting others before yourself, and being honest...
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:23 PM EST
Q3: What are some leadership actions of someone who is humble?
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kimmykcollins
Nov 6 @ 3:27 PM EST
A3 Risk taking, learning from mistakes- celebrating success and failure, walking the walk and talking the talk! ☺️
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marci_minor
Nov 6 @ 3:27 PM EST
A3: Recently talked to Ss about having F2F convos-T called it belly button to belly button. Show interest & "I've got time"
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susankotch
Nov 6 @ 3:28 PM EST
No where in the definition of Leader does it say "must be perfect, know it all, and make all decisions"
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teacherchalky1
Nov 6 @ 3:28 PM EST
A3 they make Ts feel valued, they show an interest i what you are doing and they value support staff
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:28 PM EST
Fantastic!
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kimmykcollins
Nov 6 @ 3:27 PM EST
A3 Risk taking, learning from mistakes- celebrating success and failure, walking the walk and talking the talk! ☺️
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DavisWelcome
Nov 6 @ 3:29 PM EST
Thank you for your great participation today!
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evsmomgen
Nov 6 @ 3:29 PM EST
A3) a humble leader listens, hears, guides, coaches, supports, cares, and respects.
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nathanerics
Nov 6 @ 3:29 PM EST
A3: Humble leaders listen, encourage, publicly praise, empower and acknowledge expertise and insight of others.
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JKatzaman
Nov 6 @ 3:29 PM EST
@DavisWelcome
Take care, Eric. See you Friday on
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