#resiliencechat Archive

Co-moderated by Dr. Robert Martinez and Sara Truebridge, #resiliencechat focuses on promoting resilience amongst educators and students.

Monday April 30, 2018
10:00 PM EDT

  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:00 PM EDT
    Welcome to #resiliencechat! Who is joining us tonight?
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:01 PM EDT
    Hi there! I'm Jason, a secondary education major at the University of Wyoming. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:01 PM EDT
    Hi Jason! Great to have you here in #resiliencechat tonight!
    In reply to @jasonwilk23
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:02 PM EDT
    "Lumpy" is here along side me. Debbie from her living room on Chicago's NW side. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:03 PM EDT
    Hi Debbie! Good to see you in #resiliencechat--as always!
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • dlpetrie69 Apr 30 @ 10:04 PM EDT
    Buona sera! Dorothy here from a Rochester, NY #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:04 PM EDT
    What? You're not greeting "Lumpy"? Crushed. "Lumpy." Not me. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:04 PM EDT
    Hey Dorothy!! How ya doin' in NY? #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:05 PM EDT
    Don't want you to be crushed... All are welcome in #resiliencechat!
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:06 PM EDT
    C'mon #resiliencechat lurkers...identify yourselves...I know you're out there...
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:07 PM EDT
    HAPPENING NOW: @saratruebridge hosting a talk on strengths-based versus deficit-based perspectives. Follow along at #resiliencechat!
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:07 PM EDT
    Well, don't tell "Lumpy" but I actually do want it to be crushed, so to speak. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:07 PM EDT
    Thanks, Dale for the shout-out! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:08 PM EDT
    Tonight's #resiliencechat topic: "The Difference Between Having A Strengths-Based Perspective vs. a Deficit/Risk-Based Perspective" .
  • mcmeibeyer Apr 30 @ 10:08 PM EDT
    Hi everyone! I am a student teacher at an alternative high school in the Bay Area. I'm looking forward to joining in this chat! #resiliencechat
  • MelissaPatschke Apr 30 @ 10:08 PM EDT
    Hello everyone! Missie, Elementary Principal from Pennsylvania! #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:09 PM EDT
    Hi Melissa! We're neighbors! I'm in the East Bay. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @mcmeibeyer
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:09 PM EDT
    Hi there, Melissa! Glad to have you back in #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MelissaPatschke
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    As always, #resiliencechat starts out with a Tidbit. Here's tonight's...
  • TraceyEnser Apr 30 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    Hi! Tracey from Kansas. I teach K-5 at a Therapeutic Learning Program. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    #resiliencechat Tidbit: A core aspect of embracing and discussing the concept of resilience, is maintaining a strengths-based mindset, perspective, and practice.
  • vkcommeducate Apr 30 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    Hey #resiliencechat! Veronica, Teacher Mentor, from IL!
  • Watermelonworks Apr 30 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    #resiliencechat bon soir mes amis!
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:10 PM EDT
    Hi Tracey! Glad you could join in #resiliencechat tonight!
    In reply to @TraceyEnser
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:11 PM EDT
    Welcome, Veronica! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @vkcommeducate
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:11 PM EDT
    Bonjour, Jenny! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Watermelonworks
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:11 PM EDT
    Ready to roll? Here we go... #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:12 PM EDT
    Q1: What is the difference b/t having a strengths-based perspective vs. a risk-based/deficit-based perspective? #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:14 PM EDT
    A1 Glass half full versus glass half empty. Not sure if that is what you're aiming for, but that is what came to mind. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:14 PM EDT
    TOTALLY! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:15 PM EDT
    A1) I think strength-based perspectives allow for optimism and positive action, whereas risk-based/deficit-based perspectives carry concern and uncertainty. #resiliencechat
  • Watermelonworks Apr 30 @ 10:15 PM EDT
    A1: your focus is more based on a can do attitude than a can't do. Play to your strengths instead of your weakness. #resiliencechat
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:15 PM EDT
    A1: It’s glass half full vs. half empty. For example, is an ELL student at a disadvantage because he/she isn’t yet fluent in English or should we admire and value his/her ability to see the world through an entirely different lens? #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:16 PM EDT
    Absolutely. A risk-based focus also leads to a sense of hopelessness. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @jasonwilk23
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:16 PM EDT
    I agree, Jenny. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Watermelonworks
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:16 PM EDT
    Naturally I am thinking about my cancer diagnosis. And our economic situation which compels me to ask for donations. https://t.co/IURXmSe20B #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:17 PM EDT
    Yes. It is also about reframing. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Watermelonworks
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:17 PM EDT
    Love this example, Dale. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:17 PM EDT
    The latter can carry pessimism, too. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @jasonwilk23
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:17 PM EDT
    I am struggling with this a great deal right now. Too many crises at once. #resiliencechat
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:18 PM EDT
    Thanks Sara! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • TraceyEnser Apr 30 @ 10:18 PM EDT
    A1: You help the S identify their individual strengths and talents and use these throughout instruction to increase engagement & understanding, rather than focusing on weaknesses. Through a growth mindset and increased engagement, the S will make academic gains. #resiliencechat
  • vkcommeducate Apr 30 @ 10:19 PM EDT
    A1: Strengths-based - assuming positive intent and facilitating Ss in growing their successes. Deficits-based - viewing Ss as needed to be fixed by others because “they can’t, won’t, don’t.” #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:19 PM EDT
    It is such a service to a student when you can help them to identify their strengths and use those to support areas of challenges #resiliencechat
    In reply to @TraceyEnser
  • dlpetrie69 Apr 30 @ 10:20 PM EDT
    Interested in how the group think about ACEs and Trauma Informed Care. Seems like focus is again on deficits. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:20 PM EDT
    You bring up a really important point. Students are "things" that need to be fixed. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @vkcommeducate
  • mcmeibeyer Apr 30 @ 10:20 PM EDT
    A1) I connect strength-based perspectives to seeing opportunities and hope. Deficit-based is all about the mistakes/misses #resiliencechat
  • MelissaPatschke Apr 30 @ 10:20 PM EDT
    A1) Leadershipwith a strengths based mindset ignites🔥 and inspires! #resiliencechat Without it...adequacy becomes the bar.
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:20 PM EDT
    WOW!! You are really reading my mind. We are going to be talking about that in a later question. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:21 PM EDT
    Hold that thought! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:21 PM EDT
    Hi, joining late after kid bedtime reading. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:21 PM EDT
    YUP! We get to choose the way we see things. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @mcmeibeyer
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:22 PM EDT
    This is a big issue when it comes to equity and student discipline https://t.co/wwxTnDzsV8 #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge, @vkcommeducate
    • HFSmovement Mar 20 @ 11:51 AM EDT
      "The descriptions of white children by teachers included 'gifted but can’t use his words' and 'high strung,' with their actions excused because they 'had a hard day.' Black children, she said, were 'destructive' and 'violent,' and 'cannot be managed.'” https://t.co/OuGBVikonU
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:22 PM EDT
    Tidbit: Despite how I come across on #resiliencechat, I really can focus on the negative.
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:23 PM EDT
    This is such a good point. We can really see the mindset of leadership by their policies and actions and how leadership perceives us, our students, and our community. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MelissaPatschke
  • vkcommeducate Apr 30 @ 10:23 PM EDT
    Right. When we shift the focus from blaming students to reflecting on what needs to shift in our instruction, then we start leaning toward strengths-based. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:23 PM EDT
    And I've said it before: Learning to speak a second (or third or fourth) language is an ADVANTAGE many of us don't have. Nonsensical to consider it a deficit. #resiliencechat
    • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:15 PM EDT
      A1: It’s glass half full vs. half empty. For example, is an ELL student at a disadvantage because he/she isn’t yet fluent in English or should we admire and value his/her ability to see the world through an entirely different lens? #resiliencechat
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:24 PM EDT
    So true, Dr. Patschke. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MelissaPatschke
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:24 PM EDT
    Dale, this is such a great example of how destructive, and discriminatory a deficit-based perspective can be. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu, @vkcommeducate
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:25 PM EDT
    Well said, Veronica. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @vkcommeducate
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:25 PM EDT
    Nonsensical is right, Jeremy! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:25 PM EDT
    This is so true. (Hi Jeremy!) #resiliencechat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:25 PM EDT
    Q2: What are some ways we can incorporate more strengths-based perspectives/practices into our schools? #resiliencechat
  • ItsAMrY Apr 30 @ 10:26 PM EDT
    #resiliencechat A1: It's not enough to show people darkness and say "run from this." We need to show them the light and give them a direction to run towards. Especially when that direction is within themselves!
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    AMEN Veronica! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @vkcommeducate, @saratruebridge
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    Hi! ;) #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    I think a great way to do this is to show students what their strengths are. I feel that all too often do teachers focus on the negatives and what needs improvement; if we focus on their strengths, I think we are more likely to see students succeed. #resiliencechat
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    This was my A2 by the way. #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    A2 Praise students. Don't treat kids like they are only to be seen and not heard. None of my teachers taught me how to speak up for myself. I had to learn that on my own. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:27 PM EDT
    Yes, resilience and strengths are within all of our students. It's not a matter of whether they have it. It's a matter of whether or not it's been tapped. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • ItsAMrY Apr 30 @ 10:28 PM EDT
    #resiliencechat A2: this year I'll visit almost every classroom. I am producing a document highlighting each Ts observed strength. This will establish a database of "what to see" for future T-visits. ALL POSITIVE. Good for PD and good for morale!
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:28 PM EDT
    Great to see you in #resiliencechat, Adam!
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • Watermelonworks Apr 30 @ 10:28 PM EDT
    A2: enact a manners policy and see how it can shift just from that alone. The happier and more appreciated the people, the easier it is to shift to positive people and engage their strengths. #resiliencechat
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:29 PM EDT
    A2: By embracing a diversity of viewpoints and adopting a culture of tolerance and respect. #resiliencechat
  • dlpetrie69 Apr 30 @ 10:29 PM EDT
    A2: We create and maintain a school culture that values diversity and the worthiness of every student. We recognize the strengths that each person brings to the classroom and school community #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:29 PM EDT
    Yes, it is just as important to model strengths-based practices with our teachers as it is with our students. "Take care of the caretaker!" #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • TraceyEnser Apr 30 @ 10:29 PM EDT
    A2: You can use more PBL, STEM, or community projects. You can also incorporate S choice in your units. I did a PBL unit last week and was amazed what I learned about one of my Ss. She showed great leadership and it truly changed and improved our relationship. #resiliencechat
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:29 PM EDT
    Good stuff, Adam! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:30 PM EDT
    A2 Students should not be treated as if they were a bother, which is pretty much my K-8 experience. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:30 PM EDT
    It is amazing how our students can shine their light when we give them an opportunity to do so. It makes everyone's day brighter. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @TraceyEnser
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:31 PM EDT
    I am so sorry that you had this experience! Talk about resilience...you did a great job tapping yours, Deb! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • MelissaPatschke Apr 30 @ 10:32 PM EDT
    A2) We all need to model what we want in our classrooms. ✔️Every layer of leadership must establish the expectation of a strengths based vision for those following. ✨Make it clear that each human being is valued & contributes! ✨#resiliencechat
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:32 PM EDT
    A welcoming culture is key! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • dlpetrie69 Apr 30 @ 10:32 PM EDT
    A2: My favorite action step: During September, teacher calls home and tells parent something positive, a strength, of their child. First Contact is a positive one! #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:32 PM EDT
    OK, @dlpetrie69...get ready for #resiliencechat Q3...
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:33 PM EDT
    A2) Drop grading for formative assessments focused on goals that build on strengths. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:33 PM EDT
    I so love this practice. It's amazing what happens with parent- teacher relationships when they ALL start out positive. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:33 PM EDT
    For now, Sara. Having to deal with my cancer diagnosis and anxiety over our financial situation feels like it's beyond my capacity. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:34 PM EDT
    I am all about progress vs. performance. (Another great #resiliencechat topic!)
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • Dale_Chu Apr 30 @ 10:34 PM EDT
    Yes, as should the second, third, and fourth contact too! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:34 PM EDT
    We are all here with you, Debbie. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:34 PM EDT
    Q3: Trauma informed practices and adverse childhood experiences (ACES) are "hot topics" in education. How can we be sure to address these topics without perpetuating a risk-based perspective? #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:35 PM EDT
    Touche! Which doesn't mean you turn a blind eye to a student's needs. It the way in which we handle them. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu, @dlpetrie69
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:36 PM EDT
    And I appreciate that. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:36 PM EDT
    ...and we appreciate YOU! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • vkcommeducate Apr 30 @ 10:36 PM EDT
    A2: Communicate success criteria clearly to Ss. Ss should be able to know what the end result is supposed to look like and how they’re going along the way. Too often, we end up being keepers of knowledge + Ss lose out for not knowing what they didn’t know. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:37 PM EDT
    This is so true. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @vkcommeducate
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:37 PM EDT
    Q3: Trauma informed practices and adverse childhood experiences (ACES) are "hot topics" in education. How can we be sure to address these topics without perpetuating a risk-based perspective? #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:37 PM EDT
    A3 It's important to tap into the difference between survivor and victim for starters. #resiliencechat
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:39 PM EDT
    A3) I don't see a strengths-based approach as ignoring the negative and challenges students have faced. That'd be uncaring. But you can frame the positive as a way to move beyond. It's empowering to overcome -- and is certainly a component of a positive mindset. #resiliencechat
    • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:34 PM EDT
      Q3: Trauma informed practices and adverse childhood experiences (ACES) are "hot topics" in education. How can we be sure to address these topics without perpetuating a risk-based perspective? #resiliencechat
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:40 PM EDT
    A3) It goes back to the first question and strength-based perspectives, imo. Rather than continuing to make students feel that their past is inhibiting them from being successful in school, we should identify their strengths and use those to brighten their future #resiliencechat
  • ItsAMrY Apr 30 @ 10:40 PM EDT
    #resiliencechat A3: I'll take a shot here. If I understand the Q. Lots of big words! I think we need to assume that every S WANTS to move forward...safely. Checking in with Ss metacognitively is imperative to helping them overcome ACES and progress comfortably.
    • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:34 PM EDT
      Q3: Trauma informed practices and adverse childhood experiences (ACES) are "hot topics" in education. How can we be sure to address these topics without perpetuating a risk-based perspective? #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:41 PM EDT
    A3 When I was bullied as a kid, I also have to share my bedroom on weekends with my grandma who maybe had dementia and who preferred to speak in Yiddish. No sanctuary. My parents were oblivious.A kid needs a safe place & someone to listen without being judgmental. #resiliencechat
  • TraceyEnser Apr 30 @ 10:41 PM EDT
    A3: You continue to focus on S strengths & how you can help them through challenges when they arise. By building trusting relationships, you can focus on the strengths & incorporate S choice. S who are regulated emotionally are more available for learning. #resiliencechat
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:41 PM EDT
    And imagine the consequences when starting with a negative. You're starting the relationship with pulling yourselves out instead of building yourselves up. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:41 PM EDT
    Yes. Victim is such a deficit word. Survivor is a strengths-based word. Think about those who Holocaust. You never hear someone refer to themselves as a victim--they refer to themselves as "survivors." #resiliencechat
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • MelissaPatschke Apr 30 @ 10:41 PM EDT
    A3) There is a base level of awareness that must be achieved through analysis, sharing & education. I understand the concern, but we haven’t arrived at a tipping point. As educators, we are still early in the process. We need time. #resiliencechat
  • dlpetrie69 Apr 30 @ 10:42 PM EDT
    A3: As a nurse, I need to know History and risk factors. These are different than a persons readiness to learn and ability to build new competencies that will help them live a healthier life. ACEs/TIC inform us, but not whole story. #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:42 PM EDT
    Exactly. And we need to apply that to #MeToo and survivors of domestic violence for starters. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • Watermelonworks Apr 30 @ 10:42 PM EDT
    You put it so much more eloquently than I. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:43 PM EDT
    It is not about ignoring the negative or the challenges or having rose-colored glasses. It is about validating ALL of that but then not identifying outcomes solely based on risks. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:44 PM EDT
    Exactly! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:45 PM EDT
    I am not negating trauma--I am just concerned that when some discuss ACES, they FOCUS on the trauma and risks without acknowledging the role of resilience and strengths-based practices and perspectives. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:45 PM EDT
    Tidbit: Some cancer patients object to surviving cancer as a battle. While I see their point, I choose to fight. It is a battle as far as I am concerned. #resiliencechat
  • vkcommeducate Apr 30 @ 10:46 PM EDT
    A3: A foundation in ACES may enhance the strengths-based frame in that one would be even more determined to build relationships with Ss, focusing on student strengths, while also being sensitive to trauma and student needs. #resiliencechat
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:46 PM EDT
    Yup. The Native-English-speaking perspective is but one identity from which we base our biases. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:47 PM EDT
    @MelissaPatschke You bring up a good point. I just want to ensure that when we talk about trauma and ACES we understand how easy it can be to go down a deficit/risk based rabbit-hole. We need to have an awareness of this from the get-go. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @TraceyEnser, @MelissaPatschke
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:48 PM EDT
    I like the idea of not going gently into that good night. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:49 PM EDT
    I think you said it really well, Dorothy. ACES helps to inform us. What we do and say next defines our perspective--whether it's strengths-based or risk-based. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @dlpetrie69
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:50 PM EDT
    This is what I mean by having ACES inform what it is we do next from a strengths-based perspective. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @vkcommeducate
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:51 PM EDT
    Q4: Labeling children often perpetuates a deficit/risk-based perspective and can often turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy for some. When have you seen this happen? #resiliencechat
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:51 PM EDT
    Sometimes it's more about relationships than mindset. You don't have to think "growth mindset" if you see all the good for yourself. #resiliencechat
    • TraceyEnser Apr 30 @ 10:41 PM EDT
      A3: You continue to focus on S strengths & how you can help them through challenges when they arise. By building trusting relationships, you can focus on the strengths & incorporate S choice. S who are regulated emotionally are more available for learning. #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:52 PM EDT
    A4 All of Kid O's life. Better part of twenty-two years. When she was only six, the school psychologist told me not to expect too much. They wrote her off. We never did. #resiliencechat
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:53 PM EDT
    A4) An example of this that I've seen is quickly diagnosing young children with ADD or ADHD. Although they may exhibit some of those behaviors and symptoms, it could just be that fact that they're kids. By doing this it marginalizes these kids. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:53 PM EDT
    You are a good mom! How lucky Kid O is to have you as mom! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @jasonwilk23
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:54 PM EDT
    It's always about their future. And we're all helping to shape one another's, too. #resiliencechat
    • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:40 PM EDT
      A3) It goes back to the first question and strength-based perspectives, imo. Rather than continuing to make students feel that their past is inhibiting them from being successful in school, we should identify their strengths and use those to brighten their future #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:54 PM EDT
    Yes! Perhaps they are just passionate and excited! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @jasonwilk23
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:54 PM EDT
    A4 We showed them a video of her following directions with her yoga instructor. They chose to ignore what was right in front of them. #resiliencechat
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:54 PM EDT
    Yes, we all have choices about what we want to focus on...#resiliencechat
    In reply to @MissShuganah
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    Q5: Can you provide an example of when you reframed something that was deficit/risk-based into something strengths-based? #resiliencechat
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    I think that was meant for me. Thanks. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge, @jasonwilk23
  • ItsAMrY Apr 30 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    #resiliencechat Tangent4: Counterexample. T for my 8th grade son, talking about locker room banter, said to class:"You're going to do this. We know you are doing it." He stood up and said, "No we're not. We know better. When you say that, you make it ok. It's not ok." SO PROUD!
    • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:51 PM EDT
      Q4: Labeling children often perpetuates a deficit/risk-based perspective and can often turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy for some. When have you seen this happen? #resiliencechat
  • jasonwilk23 Apr 30 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    Exactly! I think people forget that young children like to have fun and move around and aren’t always aware of the setting. This doesn’t mean they should get medicated and punished for having energy. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:55 PM EDT
    Proud Daddy!! You have a reason to be! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @ItsAMrY
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:56 PM EDT
    I agree. They chose to focus on her disabilities and not who she was as a whole person. Not everyone but the majority throughout her years in school. #resiliencechat
    In reply to @saratruebridge
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:57 PM EDT
    My mother always tells me that if they gave medication in "my day" the way they do today, I would've been the most medicated kid known to man. I was SO passionate about learning--hence excited and active! #resiliencechat
    In reply to @jasonwilk23
  • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:58 PM EDT
    Q6: What will you do tomorrow as a result of #resiliencechat tonight?
  • MissShuganah Apr 30 @ 10:58 PM EDT
    A5 I think that this time with cancer is a time for my husband and I to strengthen our relationship. I think there's some things that he is finally starting to get. #resiliencechat
  • dlpetrie69 Apr 30 @ 10:59 PM EDT
    A4: In the language we use to describe people. This “special ed kid/student”...This is a child, a human being first and foremost. ACEs help us recognize the human condition #resiliencechat
  • mcmeibeyer Apr 30 @ 10:59 PM EDT
    A4: An important part of alternative school is helping students to shed so many of the deficit-focused labels that have been placed on them just because they have yet to find success in their past school environments #resiliencechat
  • JeremyDBond Apr 30 @ 10:59 PM EDT
    Just want to remind everyone how impressionable kids are. Labels are hard to shake as a part of their identity. Appreciated this chat! #resiliencechat
    • saratruebridge - Moderator Apr 30 @ 10:51 PM EDT
      Q4: Labeling children often perpetuates a deficit/risk-based perspective and can often turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy for some. When have you seen this happen? #resiliencechat