#TLAP Archive

#TLAP is a weekly chat for educators who embrace author, keynote speaker, and moderator David Burgess' approach of teaching like a pirate. Burgess is author of Teach Like A PIRATE: Increase Student Engagement, Boost Your Creativity, and Transform Your Life as an Educator and co-author of P is for PIRATE: Inspirational ABC’s for Educators.

Monday July 16, 2018
9:00 PM EDT

  • EduGladiators Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    Welcome to #TLAP! Please introduce yourself and share a GIF that expresses your thoughts tonight! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    Hi everyone, are we chatting tonight? #tlap
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    Awesome! Love the artwork too! #tlap #leadlap #BeREAL
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU, @dbc_inc, @burgessdave, @HeckAwesome, @burgess_shelley, @AnnickRauch, @nankr1120, @aaron_hogan, @bmilla84, @BethHouf, @JayBilly2, @tamaraletter
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    ✨☠️Hi Crew! I'm Kimberly from NE, and I teach 7th grade ELA. I Iove Monday nights when I get to spend time with you! #TLAP is always on fire with amazing educators and hot convos! Looking forward to @kimbearden steering the ship tonight! Let's do this! 🔥☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
  • jmattmiller - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    Sticky note inspiration: What kids REALLY need https://t.co/pzZO9xGiZM #ditchbook #edchat #tlap
  • LisaDegnan1 Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Lisa - Instructional Coach - Texas y’all #TLAP
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Hi, everyone! I am Kim Bearden, the cofounder & ex dir of the Ron Clark Academy. I also teach ELA. My 2nd book, Talk to Me: Find the Right Words to Inspire, Encourage, and Get Things Done was released today! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Ryan from IL, business & tech teacher. Enjoying the end of a nice day. #tlap
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Hi there! Fourth grade teacher from Northern Kentucky here! Super pumped about the chat! #TLAP
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    You bet! Follow @kimbearden for #TLAP Qs!
    In reply to @teachermike72, @kimbearden
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    #tlap Hi! I'm Mike, a HS social studies teacher from California. Great to be back on #tlap!
  • sew1080 Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
  • happyteacherguy Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Justin Thomas, elementary principal near Nashville, TN #TLAP
  • timlriley Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Hello everyone. Tim in Nebraska #TLAP
  • MrsMonty5thGrd Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Do we want to be good, or do we want to be great? Check out @TaraMartinEDU's Be REAL as she inspires and challenges us to Be GREAT! #REALedu #buncee #edchat #educhat #LeadLAP #tlap #BookSnaps #inspire #Bunceechat
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    The book teaches 6 principles for effective communication, and it is designed to equip you with ways to better interact with coworkers, students, and parents. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hi, Katelyn! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @k_callahan4
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    That as me a year ago. #tlap
    In reply to @timlriley
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hi, there, I'm David, an English teacher from Baltimore, MD, and I'm super excited for the chat tonight! #tlap
  • msweisenbeck Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Thank you all! @PaulSolarz Thank you for a book that inspires so many of us! I've said it before, but it was a true game changer for me! #tlap #learnlap
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hi everyone, Im Kristin from MA, coming to you from vacation on LBI in NJ. I'm here for the great conversation and of course, the #DBCChallengelbi no #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Sarah! #4OCFPLN in the house!! #tlap
    In reply to @sew1080
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hi! Nicole Taylor from @CaldwellElemenin Florida! Excited 😜#tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Ryan! Beautiful sunset GIF! Good to see you! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @Ryan7Read
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hello #TLAP This is Melissa from Katy TX - hello fellow pirates argh!
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    I'm just getting ready to read the first one. I loved Ron's book Move Your Bus, and I have loved all by Pirate books, so I am excited #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
      Hi, everyone! I am Kim Bearden, the cofounder & ex dir of the Ron Clark Academy. I also teach ELA. My 2nd book, Talk to Me: Find the Right Words to Inspire, Encourage, and Get Things Done was released today! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Good evening! Jason, Elem Ed Director in NC! It’s going to be a fun #TLAP chat this evening with @kimbearden!
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Brandi- 1st Grade Teacher @CaldwellElemen in Florida!! So excited to chat with @kimbearden tonight! Congrats on the release of #TalkToMe! #tlap
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Kristen Dolen, middle school AP in Liberal, KS. #tlap
  • HillaryRB Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Busy, productive day = tired mama, but I’ll try to keep my 👀 open for #tlap! Hillary, Reading Specialist from VA.
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Good evening y’all! Pumped to chat tonight. Elyse from North Texas & I work with severe behavior students & love it! #tlap #talktome
  • lmcdonell14 Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Laura MCDonell teacher and advisor in Saint Clair, MI. Just finished up a night at the baseball field. #TLAP
  • MrsAsztalos Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hello #tlap Melissa, 7th Grade Science from NY, tweeting from VA at a STEM workshop. Been a long day of learning, but I am ready to chat!
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Good evening @kimbearden and #tlap. Congrats on the Book! - Can't wait til mine gets here. I'm Jay, an elementary principal from NJ
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hi Brandi! Happy to see you in #tlap tonight!
    In reply to @bmilla84, @CaldwellElemen, @kimbearden
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hey, Tim!!! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @timlriley
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Amy...Principal from CA. 30 days and counting until our kids are back! #tlap
  • LeaLoves2Teach Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi there...I a multi-grade teacher from Mariposa, CA. #TLAP
  • Dr_LMR Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi #TLAP friends! Lena Marie, HS AP from MA joining tonight. Excited for this convo!
  • tishrich Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi! Tisha former HS Culinary Tr & new Tech Instructional Coach from Medford, OR! Excited to chat tonight with @kimbearden and #tlap crew!
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hey #tlap! This is Michael A. from #122edchat in Chicago. I am an award-winning #STEM Facilitator for @SmartLab_tweets from @Simmonsknights1. Excited for the conversation, trying to beat the heat and humidity.
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Adam Johnson fourth grade teacher mount airy, NC #TLAP
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi, Justin! Hope your summer is going well! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @happyteacherguy
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi friends! Kimm from NC! #TLAP
  • kescalante_edu Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Karen, teacher educator from CA. Stopping by for a bit! #tlap
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi #tlap! Noel, ELA teacher here and ready for some piracy tonight.
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Shayna, 2nd Grade teacher from MA #TLAP
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hello my Pirate Family! Kristen 3rd grade Pittsburgh ready to hang out with my peeps! #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    YES! Love this, Matt! #tlap #edchat #ditchbook #passionforkindness
    In reply to @jmattmiller
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    special ed inner city title I school Tampa Florida #tlap
  • bcampbell70 Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi there! Bryan, Elementary Principal from Missouri. Excited to be here! #TLAP
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi everyone, Im Kristin from MA, coming to you from vacation on LBI in NJ. I'm here for the great conversation and of course, the #DBCChallenge #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hey, Sarah! Super cool #EduGIFs creation!! I LOVE IT! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @sew1080
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hey!! Glad to see all of you in #tlap tonight with the amazing @kimbearden leading us. Let's talk about effective communication principles!! This topic is based on her new book, #TalkToMe which is out TODAY!!! https://t.co/mk4l6qpFky #LeadLAP
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hello #tlap crew! Excited to learn with you and @kimbearden instructional coach from utah
  • Dr_LMR Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Will you be attending #ILA18 in Austin later this week? #TLAP
    In reply to @LisaDegnan1
  • timlriley Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Hi Kim #TLAP
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Good evening #TLAP, Rachael Collins from CA. Middle School Social Studies teacher. Post vacation ...
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Good evening! Jason, Elem Ed Director in NC! It’s going to be a fun #TLAP chat this evening with @kimbearden!
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Mariah from KS! #TLAP
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Craig from PA. HPE. #TLAP
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Tamara! Great to be chatting with you again!! #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @bmilla84, @CaldwellElemen, @kimbearden
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    The gangs all here- this chat is going to rockthe boat my friends #TLAP let’s set sail mateys
  • MrElmerLLC Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Struggling with tiered supports? Our intervention library is loaded with the best options from @khanacademy and other fabulous resources. We make sure you know the right move to help kiddos who need a little extra! #tlap #boldschool Hit get started! https://t.co/9MHxmk3I8o
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hi I'm Jenny! I teach 4th grade in North Carolina. I am so excited to be a part of this amazing chat! #tlap #ElonEd
  • timlriley Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hi Kimm #TLAP
    In reply to @kmurfitt1
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hi, Mike! Glad to have you back! Welcome!☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @teachermike72
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hey, Kim! Tara Martin from Kansas! I'm PUMPED UP for you to host #tlap about #TalkToMe !!! Yeah BABY! Let's do this thing!
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    April educational coach starting off on a new adventure with @Cyndi_Leigh769 and @BringEdLife #tlap
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Paul France, 3rd Grade teacher in Chicago! #tlap
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    .@PurpleEducator, @kimbearden from Ron Clark is hosting #tlap right now. I know you love them; thought you might be interested.
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hi, Mike!! Sure are...all questions from account of @kimbearden tonight! #tlap
    In reply to @teachermike72, @kimbearden
  • AllysonApsey Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hiya!! Allyson Apsey, elementary principal in Michigan and author of The #Path2Serendipity ❤️❤️❤️ Happy t😊 learn from @kimbearden tonight!! #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Ha! Jason.. this GIF! Hillarious! Nice to see you! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs, @kimbearden
  • msyoung114 Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Hey #tlap Heather, Seattle, Kindergarten teacher.
  • wadewhitehead Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    I'm Wade. I teach fifth graders and direct https://t.co/Y2RInPVEli Pumped to be here with to support my friend @kimbearden #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Welcome, Jenny!! #tlap
    In reply to @jenny_rathjen
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hello I’m Jove a MS Principal from MO #TLAP
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hi, Gretchen from KY joining in. STEM. #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Where did you vacation to? ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @rcollins_edu
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hello #tlap joining in for a bit from oh so hot Pittsburgh, I teach Spanish and STEAM
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Glad you're here!!! #tlap
    In reply to @ChouinardJahant
  • MrCoachEli Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hello #TLAP I’m Eli and I’m the Lead Learner/Principal at Monte Vista Elem in Las Cruces, NM. Pumped for tonight’s chat!
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Always Paul, if you ever write a second I would love to review it as well #learnlap #tlap
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hi! James joining in from South Texas... Instructional Technology...congrats on the book! #TLAP
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hey there, I'm John Martinez principal of Rowland Elementary, a K-6 school in Southern California #TLAP
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Jarrod from Marysville, Ohio. Former HS social studies teacher, now w/ state of Ohio. Let's do this! #tlap
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hi! Suzanne from North Texas. Excited for my first chat with #tlap
  • McEnglish101 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Evening All! High school English teacher, entering year 15 (=teacher midlife? 🤔) rural Virginia. #TLAP
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    that is exactly how my cats look around here! #4OCFPLN #tlap
    In reply to @msyoung114
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Craig, RTI Facilitator from Texas #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hola!! Cam Carter joining in from Columbus, OH! #TLAP
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hi, Mariah! #tlap
    In reply to @heywaysELA
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    So excited to be here! Alicia from NC joining from #nccatgenz at @NCCATNews! Game night in the commons area! #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Tamara, tech integrator from VA, excited to join in the celebration of @kimbearden book release of #TalkToMe! #tlap
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hi! Teri, Elem Principal from Rome, GA! #tlap
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Hilarious GIF, such a fun part of the movie! #tlap
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU, @kimbearden
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Love this! #tlap
    In reply to @craigklement, @kimbearden
  • klubkraker Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    HI Cheryl from Michigan #TLAP
  • LKapuchuck Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Leslie- elementary principal in VA. So excited you’re moderating, @kimbearden!! Not a gif but a pic of a great memory @ronclarkacademy ! #TLAP
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    I know what you mean @_on11 #tlap
    In reply to @_on11, @SmartLab_tweets, @Simmonsknights1, @_on11
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Hi I’m Maegan, a 3rd grade teacher from Texas #tlap
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Hi Tisha :) #tlap
    In reply to @tishrich
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Glad you're here, Rachael!! #tlap #CArepresent!!
    In reply to @rcollins_edu
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Cabo San Lucas, MX and then two days home before weekend fun with friends in Vegas! #tlap
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Kim from MI. I teach science, social studies and ELA. Happy to be here! #tlap, #KidsDeserveIt
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Welcome! It’s a fast and furious hour! #tlap
    In reply to @swebsterteach
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Congratulations, Kim!! So exciting! I can't wait to read your book! #TalkToMe #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • AllysonApsey Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Hi Heather!! ❤️❤️❤️ #tlap
    In reply to @msyoung114
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Ugh I just love this one #tlap
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Loving these GIFS! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • MsRommelBand Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    The development of hobbies and personal growth outside of your profession can help you become a better teacher. #TLAP @burgessdave @TaraMartinEDU @dmdacosta13 #BookSnaps
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Hey, Cameron! #tlap
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    I hope you're enjoying your vacay! Sounds amazing! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @daleyscience
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Hi #tlap!! Annick, grade 1 teacher in Winnipeg, MB 🇨🇦! So happy to be back tonight after missing the last few weeks! ☠️
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Let’s go BUCKS!! #TLAP
    In reply to @GreatWeissOne
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Bonus points for that Simpsons gif, yo! #tlap
    In reply to @CristinaDajero, @SmartLab_tweets, @Simmonsknights1
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Welcome, Maegan! #tlap
    In reply to @perrymanclass
  • AprilSuter5 Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #PROEpirate #tlap #PROEcenter Collaboration can make all contributors better teachers. Pg170
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Yep, trying to chat and watch home run derby #tlap
    In reply to @iluveducating, @kimbearden
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Love your GIF! How did you make it? #tlap
    In reply to @sew1080
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Good evening, fellow #TLAP #PLN! I’m Anna (close friends call me Sparrow), a passionate PIRATE from San Diego! #TalkToMe
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Welcome, and like your KC style, Craig! Aka #DBCChallenge winner!!! EEEK! #tlap
    In reply to @craigklement, @kimbearden
  • khoggardGRT Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hey #TLAP Kelly from Va Beach Fewling pumped to be here #champforkids
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Bryan! Lovin' this GIF! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @bcampbell70
  • Dr_LMR Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    I hear ya! Looking forward to some down time in early August! #tlap
    In reply to @LisaDegnan1
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #TLAP 👏🏼👍🏼🤗🤗
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Any #tmgenius crew out there on Twitter right now? Come join in the #TLAP chat!
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @paul_emerich
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    A1: what do you know about their background. Where are they coming from, who are they as a person. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Welcome, Jarrod! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @GreatWeissOne
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hello, I am Tika Epstein, and I am an elementary school teacher & mentor in Las Vegas, NV. I can’t wait for my copy of Talk to Me to be delivered this week! #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:01 PM EDT
      Hi, everyone! I am Kim Bearden, the cofounder & ex dir of the Ron Clark Academy. I also teach ELA. My 2nd book, Talk to Me: Find the Right Words to Inspire, Encourage, and Get Things Done was released today! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hi everyone! Jeanneen from Wisconsin and I teach K-8 Technology...we are finally getting into the swing of things and readjusting to having a baby in the house after 6 years! #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hi Shellie! Where in Virginia are you from? #tlap
    In reply to @McEnglish101
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hi, it’s Diane back from a day at beautiful East Matunuck Beach in RI. Ready to #TLAP
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hi, Attiya from Florida! So excited to join this chat! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    who they are, where they are coming from, How they might interpret based on background etc #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Hi, Friend!!! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @nankr1120
  • PreK33 Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    I always try to consider that everyone has a story, and we have no idea what others are struggling to overcome. I realize that I will never know what it is to walk in another’s shoes, and this mindset guides my approach. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Welcome aboard, Eli. PUMPED, too! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @MrCoachEli
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Q1 is here!! Join #tlap and @kimbearden to talk about effective communication! #LeadLAP #LearnLAP #KIdsDeserveIt #BeTheWildCard
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    What is their story? Everyone has one and when you know their story you can listen with empathy and understanding. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Love the pic! Welcome, Leslie! #tlap
    In reply to @LKapuchuck, @kimbearden, @ronclarkacademy
  • NCS_Principal Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Jenni - I’m a principal of a small private school in south Louisiana! I heard Kim speak last year in Atlanta so I’m excited about tonight and her book! #tlap
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    My tweets for the next hour will be apart of the teach like a pirate twitter chat! #tlap #LUlearns
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Same here, Kim. #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Feeling tired? We are about to wake you up, Jove! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @JoveStickel
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A1: Try to be empathetic and keep in mind that their perception is their reality. #tlap
  • AllysonApsey Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Well hello there my friend!! Sneaking in a lil twitter chat time between the bike ride and movie time! #TLAP
    In reply to @klubkraker
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Oh hi! Long time no talk, my friend! 💜#tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @kimbearden
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A1 Identifying who I am speaking about/to, the identified struggle or area of weakness, and also pointing out the good because it’s not just negative. #talktome #tlap
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A1: Where are they coming from? Where have they been? We have to understand what makes someone tick & what has influenced their live to be in a position to help them. #tlap #talktome
  • LisaDegnan1 Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A1 - I always take into account that this parent is sending me their very best. With a coworker, Inoffen think that they just need some TLC, training, modeling, help. No is a lost cause. #TLAP
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A1. I have to consider the whole student. Not just what they show in my class, but who they are outside of school, what's going on in their lives, their interestes, their passions, their struggles. We don't talk to a person, but a life. #tlap
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Hi, #tlap! I’m troubleshooting laptops tonight and packing to move and all that fun stuff. So this is me... #talktome
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Hey! Andrew from Buffalo, NY SPED and compartmentalizing hs science this year #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Cristina Dajero, Reading Specialist from Virginia Beach, VA #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • kescalante_edu Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A1: Give (student, parent, teacher) the space to be heard. We all know the saying, Listen w the intend to understand rather than respond. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    You're going to rock it! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @apadalino, @Cyndi_Leigh769, @BringEdLife
  • education_geek Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Can we stop pretending that all students need the same thing, at the same time, on the same day? #edchat #TLAP #LeadLAP #KidsDeserveIt
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1 If it is a difficult situation, I like to give the other person time to calm down (student or adult) then empathize and LISTEN before saying anything. Most times they just want you to hear their side #tlap
  • Dr_LMR Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1 I always think about how I would like to receive the message. Then think about how they might perceive it and try to be considerate of their feelings. #TLAP
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: always to look for something positive and make sure they know your intent is not judgement but growth #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Ditto amd listening to my sons @HotshotsHC game in SD. #tlap
    In reply to @craigklement, @iluveducating, @kimbearden, @HotshotsHC
  • BusEd11 Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Theresa here, tweeting from Southern Illinois! #tlap
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Hello! Crystal from MO! I ordered my copy today and can't wait to get it! #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: Listen with empathy, lead with compassion. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Agreed! Perspective is oh so important. #tlap
    In reply to @docvs1
  • happyteacherguy Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: What matters to me may not matter to them. How does the world look from their eyes? How can adopting their perspective help us both to meet our goals? #TLAP
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1 There may be more to the situation than meets the eye. Offer an ear to listen and a hand to help. #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: Obviously their state of mind. If they're upset, you use a different tact than if they're aggressive. I try to listen first before reacting. #tlap
  • AllysonApsey Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Hey friend!! ❤️❤️❤️ #TLAP
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @kimbearden
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Thanks for joining us, Jenni!! #tlap #TalkToMe is unbelievable!
    In reply to @NCS_Principal
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1 - It always starts with listening and relationships. Getting to know your students is key. Then, it’s about showing empathy and a positive attitude. We should consider each situation as unique and adjust based on that student. #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Q1 Again...#tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: Timing. Tone. Focus on the “do”, not the “who”. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • smgaillard Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Love being in the band with you, my bandmate! #Daymaker #tlap #ThePepperEffect #XPLAP #HiveSummit #MasteryChat #CelebrateMonday #EduHeroKim
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass, @nankr1120, @MrsHankinsClass, @SteinbrinkLaura, @JordanPotrzeba, @AggieSalterITS, @Ms_Morgan15, @KidsDeserveHaM, @kristi_daws, @mpilakow, @Slapshot99, @Gameboydrew, @hmarrs24, @MarisaEThompson, @MarshaKGreen, @Stella_Pollard, @iluveducating, @mospillman, @timlriley, @Rdene915
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Welcome! #tlap
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Hi Kristen!! #tlap
    In reply to @nankr1120
  • Mrjonresendez Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Jon from Irvine coming to you from the Redwoods! #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: You always have to be cautious, especially when speaking to children. People will forget what you said but people will NEVER FORGET how you made them FEEL! Always be open and honest and make sure families know you are available to chat! 👍🏼 #TLAP
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Good evening #tlap crew! Late but here!
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Nice Jason...just trying to catch up to your level...#tlap
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Hi, #tlap friends! I'm a literacy coach, MYP Language and Literature teacher, and international literacy consultant in Tokyo, Japan.
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1- remind myself not to take anything personally. Ask them how they are doing, do they need anything I can help with. Everyone has a struggle or burden we don't know about. Take time. #tlap #talktome
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 the considerations I try to always take are to listen, support, and help in anyway I can! #TLAP
  • tishrich Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: I try to put myself in their shoes, to better understand where they are coming from. #tlap
  • teachlikeaninja Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Hey #tlap crew. Josh Stock, 6th grade ELA teacher from Olathe, KS, doing a little multitasking during the chat.
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: my focus on day one is developing that relationship. I can’t help if I don’t know who they are. #TLAP
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Hi everyone! I’m Ellen a kindergarten teacher from Wentzville, Mo! #tlap #lulearns
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Hey, y’all! I’m Ashley from Baltimore (by way of ECU.. looking at you @mrronclark_ ) a 6th grade math teacher at an all boy charter school in Baltimore City, MD! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden, @mrronclark_
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 #tlap
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1) I want to know what communication style they are most comfortable with. Can I use humor, should I be quieter/calmer, should I be extra positive and upbeat. This matters. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    You're going to love it, Crystal. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @thoughtsinflow
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Definitely! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • timlriley Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1. Have I experienced this too #talktome #TLAP
  • LisaDegnan1 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 I always put myself in their place. You don’t understand unless you walk on someone else’s shoes- Support without judgement. . #TLAP
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: The source of the struggle...we must be able to empathize with what someone else is feeling before being able to fix the issue. LISTEN to their concerns, find the root of the issue, and take action to rectify if possible! #TLAP
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: Consider where they’re coming from and then specifically what you can do as the T to help. What you’re going to do to follow up with them. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: I think the biggest thing to consider is their background (where they are coming from, their lives outside of school, what is their previous interaction with the school like) #tlap
  • MrsAsztalos Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 Realize that no one WANTS to be unsuccessful. Listen to their side, and always give the person a lifeline to pull themselves up. Some people just don't know how to get out of the hole they are in. Be their rope and light. #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    I-O!!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 #tlap
    In reply to @GreatWeissOne
  • HillaryRB Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: perspective taking has been a personal area of professional growth. It helps me to perceive motivations + understandings and respond appropriately. #TLAP #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Here you go @_on11 #TLAP
    In reply to @_on11, @SmartLab_tweets, @Simmonsknights1, @_on11
  • LKapuchuck Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: The most important factor for me is the relationship & trust I’ve built with them. I always try to see things from their perspective & do more listening than talking. I’ve found that sometimes they just need someone to listen & help guide them. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • khoggardGRT Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 - perspectives and situations are important to take into consideration. Some people are struggling bc of a specific situation that may be causing stress, often has NOTHING to do with you! Also must think about other people’s perspectives! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: I try to remember that you never know what is going on in someone’s life. Treat them with kindness and empathy, show grace, you never know how your kindness can lift another up. #TLAP
  • MrCoachEli Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 I try to rely on the relationship I have w/ them (hopefully I have one as that’s the goal), really listen and be intentional w/ the conversation, and I try to remember to “V.A.B.B.” #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: Try to think of their situation, their personality stlye. My way isn't always best. #tlap
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: I try to find out as much as I can... what’s their background or are they going through something personally. I approach the conversation with an open mind, willing to listen and support, and express my intent to come up w/ a solution together! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Naomi Austin from SW Missouri 7-12 principal. Happy to learn with you all tonight. #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Always a joy to catch up with you, Mike! It’s been too long! #tlap
    In reply to @teachermike72, @bmilla84, @CaldwellElemen, @kimbearden
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1 Do we understand the things that happened before Ss get on the bus? Is there a reason why Ss act out? Take time to invest if we want Ss to give us their best! #TLAP
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A1: Know the story. What do you know or can you learn about the individual to inform the conversation. Listen. Lead with empathy. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • I_teach_urban Jul 16 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Hey I’m here! I’m west Shaw! Let’s this this started! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1 what is there state of mind what does their body language say, what kind of a relationship do I have with them. I must be a good listener first and foremost, have compassion and be genuine #TLAP
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1. #tlap Student - stop, find out about them, give some extra attention. Parent - stop, acknowledge their frustration, and explain. Sometimes not ALL or correct info. went home. Colleague - stop, try and see their side and problem solve together.
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: I try to be empathetic and understanding #ElonEd #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    #tlap
    In reply to @paul_emerich
  • Mrjonresendez Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: First thing I do is NOT try and solve their problem. Listen, pause, ask a question. #tlap
  • msyoung114 Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: What’s my purpose, the why behind the conversation. What perspective might they have? How can I make sure the conversation is as positive as possible? #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: I consider that there are many factors (to the struggle of someone else) that I don’t know about. I try to ask non-invasive questions to gain a deeper understanding of who they are and how they are affected by a situation. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    #TLAP The why? Is the struggle academic, emotional, social. The how? How can I best address the sittwith mindfulness & calm. Words are my ally-I pause & listen-this is my best strategy then when I fully understand the needs of my student -I can actively guide them to a solution
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • ItsAMrY Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    #tlap Anyone who is struggling does not want to struggle. We all want to be successful. Always assume good will, interest, and desire. What are the obstacles? How can I remove or help you avoid obstacles to your success?
  • Clymer_Edu Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: When is the last time you’ve talked to them? Has it been a while? If so, we need to be more intentional about building relationships #TLAP
  • MarciaMentor Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    I use empathy & think how can I “clear the path” for this person. What do they need from me? What resources can I provide to support them? Starbucks helps too #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: When it comes to staff, I try not to think the worst. Sometimes it’s a case of didn’t know instead of refusing to do something. I give lots of feedback and support in any way I can. #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: St. Francis of Assisi said it best: "O master, grant that I may never seek so much to be understood as to understand." #tlap
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1 I’ve learned that I need to speak concisely. Not use idioms, etc. Sometimes a misunderstood reference can make a conversation take negative turn. #learnedthehardway #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    THERE'S JUST SO MANY TWEETS!! #tlap
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    It's always good to understand that parents are sending their most prized possessions- we can try to see things from their point of view #tlap
    In reply to @LisaDegnan1
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    Truth! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1 Is this the first time I've had meaningful contact with them all year? Try to ask myself that every time... #TLAP
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1 Love this @alicekeeler quote: "You're not going to get that light bulb moment talking at kids, you're going to get that light bulb moment talking with kids." This doesn't only apply to kids, but the same goes when communicating with parents and colleagues too! #TalkToMe #TLAP
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    Good evening, #tlap! A1. Where am I coming from in this interaction? Am I in a good state of mind? Am I down to listen to understand? Did I have my coffee?
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: Not everything is always what it appears to be when one is struggling. I work really hard to listen intently and validate feelings. One may not be looking for a solution just a listening ear. #TLAP
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    Preach it! So true! #tlap
    In reply to @LisaDegnan1
  • maryroach26 Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    Things to consider: lol past the illusion and see what’s really going on. Students behavior typically is not related to me or the assignment or the class. Listen and share with empathy. Find middle ground #TLAP #talktome @kimbearden
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1b - Above all else it comes down to respect, kindness and a willingness to understand the situation and what a person might be going through. #TLAP
  • bcampbell70 Jul 16 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1 What type of relationship is there? Have we been friends or colleagues for a while and focus on empathy, understand where theyBre coming from. #Tlap #talktome
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: When talking to students, I remember that they are someone else's little boy or little girl. I need to treat them with honor. When speaking to other adults, I need to remember that like me, they make mistakes, and are on a journey to greatness. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    We should try to have a hangout sometime this summer! #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @bmilla84, @CaldwellElemen, @kimbearden
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    I truly try to put myself in their shoes, that and I grew up poor, with a learning disability, I am able to relate #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:08 PM EDT
      I always try to consider that everyone has a story, and we have no idea what others are struggling to overcome. I realize that I will never know what it is to walk in another’s shoes, and this mindset guides my approach. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: I put myself in their shoes and try to remember what it's like when I struggle. #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @jmartinez727
  • PreK33 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: Empathy, compassion, understanding, listening. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1 Taking time to hear their side of the story. Listen to Learn is one of the REAL Talk Treasures I love. Also, leading with Humble Inquiry. No judgement. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Allyson!!!! #tlap
    In reply to @AllysonApsey, @kimbearden
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: Consider multiple perspectives, remain open-minded, and listen, listen, listen. #tlap
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1 try to make sure I know them and have an understanding about their struggle, lean in and listen first, really listen intentionally, try help focus on small parts first and then work through it #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Auen_Ed_Tech Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Patrick Shipway, MN, tech intergrationist, science teacher and trying to to this while walking with my wife... A1: I try to put myself in their shoes, see through their lens, what wouldn't I like in this situation if I was them? #tlap
  • jillmclean27 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Assume positive intent. This has been leading me in so many good directions lately, allowing me to connect with people. #tlap
    In reply to @paul_emerich
  • borg5027 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1 When you take the time to get to know a child and their family, you can engage with your heart and show the parents that you truly care about their child and not just about academics. Their child becomes my child for life! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @Clymer_Edu
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1. I'm usually the most patient with parents first because they have the most power in encouraging students to be openminded with my message. Least patient with colleagues but getting better. I just feel like we all have the same education here, but remind myself that #tlap
  • WentzvillePRE Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Hello #TLAP joining for a bit from Wentzville, MO!
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1 I want to think of the situation through their lense. I also want to think about their needs. Do they need advice, a person to listen, or choices? #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • teachlikeaninja Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: I try to think what I would want/need to hear if I was the student or the parent. I also take into consideration what will have the greatest impact. Some kids gma has a huge role in that kids life. Another it might be a coach. Who is their person? #tlap
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1 seek to understand and lead the conversation with empathy. I always want to make sure that they can feel how much I care. #tlap
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Getting in late! Matt from Utah, ELA and Edtech Coach. #tlap
  • LeaLoves2Teach Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    I try to listen to them in the moment...what's happening right now....how does the now effect their past story...and where they are going...#TalkToMe #TLAP
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    The mama in me appreciates this! Every Ss is somebody's "baby". #tlap
    In reply to @_on11
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Love this! I also try to remember that this is their prize position that they giving me and I need to treat each situation with that sensitivity in mind! #tlap #LULearns
    In reply to @LisaDegnan1
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Hey #tlap Stopping in for a bit! Pam, Instructional Coach from Charleston,SC.
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Haha! Haven’t talked to you in forever! (In milliseconds, lol!) #tlap
    In reply to @AnnickRauch, @kimbearden
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: What is their story? What does their walk look like and how do I fit into it? Can I walk beside them and listen? Can I take the lead and extend a helping handq? #RelationshipsMatter #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Always and forever! Communication is KEY to forming a RELATIONSHIP with families, students, and colleagues! #TLAP #kidsdeserveit
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    This is a hard one for me. I’m always trying to fix it. #tlap
    In reply to @Mrjonresendez
  • Mrs_Boecke Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: I try to always remember that everyone needs to be heard to feel valued. #TLAP
  • sew1080 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1 It's all about the relationships, no matter who you are talking to! Take the time to truly to get to know your colleagues and students! #tlap
  • Teachintjay Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: I try not to define my Ss as struggling. I approach each by attempting to get to the root that is causing the problem by communicating. I try to help them devise a plan to address the problem. #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: It's so important to really know and respect the other person's position. Listen with empathy and make sure not to be defensive. Be reflective and sensitive so that when it's time, you can be heard too #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: What is the main focus that needs to be addressed, what positive can I include, how would I want someone to say this to my own child or to me? Is this the best time, setting, mode of sharing information? #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    You gotta put yourself in their shoes! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @ASMILEwithAnna
  • spqrmiguel Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Miguel from Texas and elementary school principal. #tlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Party central on nights like these! #tlap
    In reply to @paul_emerich, @TaraMartinEDU
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Hey Pam! Hope you're doing well! #tlap
    In reply to @specialtechie
  • tishrich Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    We are totally twinning with our answers! 😜👭 #tlap
    In reply to @thoughtsinflow
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    TRANS👏FOR👏MA👏TION👏AL #tlap
    In reply to @jillmclean27
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    So true, listening and making sure they feel heard is so critical #tlap
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU, @kimbearden
  • SenorSouderSHS Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1. I consider what is going on underneath the surface that may be causing the confusion or undesired behavior. I also consider my timing and my way of communicating. The right thing to do at the wrong time or in the wrong way is the wrong thing to do. #tlap
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    #toolong 😉 #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @kimbearden
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Love me some Converse! #tlap
    In reply to @tishrich
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    YES! YES! YES! #tlap
    • Mrs_Boecke Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
      A1: I try to always remember that everyone needs to be heard to feel valued. #TLAP
  • JWankum Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: We never know as educators what others have faced. What have their previous school experiences been like? You never know someone until you have walked in their shoes. #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    #TLAP ❤️❤️❤️❤️
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Hey! Welcome! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @AustinELA8
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Thanks! You too! #TLAP
    In reply to @iluveducating
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Hey girl, add the hashtag #tlap to your replies. You're rocking it!
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: Background...we are only together for a portion of the day/week and everyone's life outside of school is different. LISTEN! Everyone wants to feel heard, especially when discussing a difficult topic. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Lean in and listen! Yes! #tlap
    • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
      A1 try to make sure I know them and have an understanding about their struggle, lean in and listen first, really listen intentionally, try help focus on small parts first and then work through it #tlap
      In reply to @kimbearden
  • wadewhitehead Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: Talk less. Remember that "listen" and "silent" are made of the same letters. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1) Some times those voices are heard in small moments. Especially with staff and admin. #tlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Hi Pam! Hope you’re having a great Monday! #tlap
    In reply to @specialtechie
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Absolutely! #tlap
    In reply to @teachermike72, @bmilla84, @CaldwellElemen, @kimbearden
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1 You must understand the persons story. Where are they coming from, what are they hoping for/needing from you? #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1 - What is their perceptions of the situation? Is this a necessary issue or something of a nit picking nature? Is there a way that I can share and help and reteach rather than confronting them? #tlap
  • NCS_Principal Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1: Listen, listen, listen. Often that’s what teenagers need from me. To be “heard” them and truly understood. Also striving to understand the motivation behind what they are saying. Whether I agree with it or not, it’s important to them so i need to listen ! #tlap #talktome
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1: I like to stay as calm as possible and listen intently. I like to share all the positives I can and talk about all the things I am going to do to help! #tlap #lulearns
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Right on, girlie! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @MrsAsztalos
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1) Consider that every individual has varied perspectives based on their experiences. Those experiences are not often outwardly shown so give all parties a bit of time to process/reflect before response. Be cautious & empathetic. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    It's summer! All days are great days. :) #tlap You too!
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Definitely! I often say, I’m not looking for an excuse but I am looking for something that may help explain it #TLAP
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Feeling valued goes a long way, for sure!! #tlap
    In reply to @Mrs_Boecke
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Hi my friend! #tlap
    In reply to @AnnickRauch
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Liz from San Jose joining my first #tlap
  • tarheelscpl Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1: I always remember that all parents are advocating for their students. They may do it differently, but they want the best for them. #kidsdeserveit #TLAP
  • PrincipalKrantz Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1 Definitely after with empathy. I also consider the relationship I have with them and leverage that to offer support. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Hey girly, add the hashtag #tlap to your replies. So we can all see them. ;)
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1: There is always a cause behind the struggle. Extending grace and patience can go along way in the support. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    I try to do extravagant acts of kindness without telling anyone in order to keep my motives in a pure and unselfish place. When I am struggling with interacting, I assess my motives and try to reframe my mindset. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Whoop Whoop!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 #TLAP
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    So true! ☠️✨#TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @paul_emerich
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    YES!!! I’m trying to deflect all the BTS posts for a few more weeks. I just can’t yet. #tlap
    In reply to @specialtechie
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: Always good to know where they are coming from, but even if that isn't possible, I can make sure that I am listening and restating and asking for clarification. I do what it takes to make sure we're on the same page. #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1- I struggle with Dyslexia #TLAP and so I understand what it feels like to be confused and disconnected and yes discouraged- so my first approach is positive reinforcement and listening this way they feel comfortable talking to me
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1b: listen to understand, home in on their needs, what is the root of the stuggle. #tlap
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A2: Learning from mistakes and when life goes down. Find the positive in it, even when you feel that you are on empty and build from ground up again. #tlap #TalktoMe
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: It is definitely important to know the person that you’re communicating with. Take caution to your words and how you approach the conversation. Professionalism is key, especially when addressing parents #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Good point, Rachael...perspective can mean everything! #tlap
    In reply to @rcollins_edu
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: I try to picture myself in their place and let them talk first. I know it's not comfortable for some parents to discuss the difficulties their child may be facing, so I always offer solutions or help even if that means that I will give up my personal time. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Wow! Just a simply beautiful response! #TLAP
    • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
      A1: When talking to students, I remember that they are someone else's little boy or little girl. I need to treat them with honor. When speaking to other adults, I need to remember that like me, they make mistakes, and are on a journey to greatness. #tlap
      • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
        What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • sew1080 Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A2 Presume positive intent! Most people do not want to be mean on purpose. #tlap
  • spqrmiguel Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: Be compassionate and understanding. As a principal, I always listen before coming down with a response to the situation. #TLAP
  • McEnglish101 Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: Perspective- What might appear 1 way to me might appear completely opposite to the other person, & as we know, the “reality” usually lies between the 2. Authenticity I think is important too- not giving responses just bc they are expected or to make the convo easier. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    "Grace and patience" love that! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kmurfitt1
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1c - If we think and reflect on our tough times, it will hopefully help us to see how we can make the person feel good, safe and welcome. #TLAP
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A2: being relatable and able to sympathize with their situation #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: I try hard to listen to understand so because of the need to know the perspective of others. Sometimes that is all they need. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A2. When we keep the best interest of the student at the center of every conversation, knowing that is the common goal, it helps make it easier to stay positive. #tlap
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A2: Idk about y'all, but I've got to censor myself when I get frustrated... surrounding with positive people helps. #tlap
  • HowardKiyuna Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1: I once received this parenting advice, "Don't ask Q's you already know the answer to" because you set your kid up to lie. As a T in a full inclusion setting, I have to find ways to build Ss confidence. Have supring levels of vision. #tlap
  • PrincipalKrantz Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A1 Definitely agree with empathy. Also consider the relationship already developed (or not) and leverage that to offer support. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • kescalante_edu Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A2: Use postive presuppositions! Always! #tlap
  • WentzvillePRE Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A1 Never take things to personal and remember everyone has things going on and you are someone that can make things better or worse for them, choose better! #TLAP # talktome
  • WallerALPHApack Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A1: Don’t assume I know how they feel. Never presume I have the answer to solve their concern or problem. Offering support and that I am there to help is a good start. Let them know I am here to help and listen if needed. #tlap
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2) Always stay positive. Remember that what you are hearing for the seventy-fifth time may be the first time for someone else. Take cheer in other peoples growth. #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Extending grace and patience...love this, Kimm with 2 m's!! #tlap
    In reply to @kmurfitt1
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Q2 is up! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • MrsJohnsNSHS Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A1: I strive to be investigative but not interrogative. I strive to listen and maintain open body language. I consider the length of my relationship w/ the person, how we can do things differently next time & let them know I’m available to help however possible. #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Give. Give. Give. Show curiosity, learn about people, and figure out what they want. Then give it to them without giving up your boundaries at the same time. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2 Stop and listen when others are giving their input, encourage open and honest relationships, and be intentional in conversations and actions. #talktome #tlap
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2: Remember to try to stay positive yourself because you’ll draw in what you give out. Don’t let small things build up. Address things as they come up and don’t let them linger. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    You took the words right out of my mouth. So important to remember that everyone with different backgrounds and has individual needs. #tlap
    In reply to @CoraBoucher
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A1. Perspectives, situations are extremely important to take into consideration when communicating with someone. You never know what someone is going through unless your walking in their shoes. Trust is a main factor! #tlap
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2- Always assume the BEST in people. Remember you have impact to make a negative a positive with a smile & friendly tone! Be aware of your body language & tone of voice! #tlap #TALKTOME
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    YAY! Welcome! My husband is from San Jose! Glad you're here! #tlap
    In reply to @nmtond98
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2. Reminding myself that by focusing on the positive motivators, we ALL get better. We're all in this to make everyone better, so the negative motivators should be pushed away hard! #tlap
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2 have an open door and an open mind, model positive behavior, make people feel appreciated, valuable and important. Make school engaging, fun, kind, and mindful for all. BE SUPPORTIVE #TLAP
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    respect is huge, focus on positives and growth, be real and sincere #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Willmdunn Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A1) First, I ask myself if I’ve tried everythig I can think of with the student directly. Second, I rethink the situation putting one my own children in the role of the student. #tlap
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Love this! Listening is such a powerful thing! #tlap #lulearns
    • NCS_Principal Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      A1: Listen, listen, listen. Often that’s what teenagers need from me. To be “heard” them and truly understood. Also striving to understand the motivation behind what they are saying. Whether I agree with it or not, it’s important to them so i need to listen ! #tlap #talktome
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    You are so good at this too :) #4OCFpln #tlap
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Well said, Attiya! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @batool_attiya
  • MrPStrunk Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Hey it's summer! Kick back, relax, and watch the newest episode of #Edusations with @MrsAsztalos! https://t.co/GqmaZ9CVqx #edchat #tlap
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: being relatable and approachable...it’s all about the golden rule: treating others the way you want to be treated #tlap
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    So much love and heart in this response. :) #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @_on11
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Leave your ego at home. As a leader, my job is to build others up, not myself. When you are focused on the right things, the positive motivators come. #tlap
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: I think that creating a real bond with colleagues and Ss and working towards shared goals is a way to focus on positive motivation. #TLAP
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Word choice. The words we choose can be POWERFUL. Always assume positive intentions and make sure your facial expressions match the words you are exclaiming. #TLAP
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    I like this! Don't automatically try to find the negatives. #tlap
    In reply to @sew1080
  • MrCoachEli Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2 My biggest way is definitely relying on surrounding myself w/ the right people that help me keep that focus. Being real and kind. The 7 Habits and a focus on relationships have also helped w/ this and being such a huge piece of culture. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • timlriley Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2. I walk away from the negative which includes myself at times #TLAP
  • Mrjonresendez Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Here is a tip that has worked for me. If a colleague breaks a norm, search for a GOOD reason for them to have transgressed. For instance, if they are snarky with a colleague, they may have a negative situation at home. #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Q2 is up!!! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Remember that it’s not just about you. Communicating requires listening and not just speaking. When having a tough convo, remember that we’re all in this together! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • happyteacherguy Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: I just wrote a blog post about this! https://t.co/LX8sELehr9 #tlap
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A1: For P's, put yourself in their shoes. If this was my kid... This was much easier for me once I became a parent. For T's and S's, just be real & embrace your emotional intelligence. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Hi Everyone! I'm Vicki! Sorry to be late to the party! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Good question! Self reflection is key. Oftentimes we say things without thinking of where those thoughts are coming from. Negative motivators often come from being insecure. Lean into that trust you have with your colleagues to keep each other in check. #TLAP #talktome
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2. To stay positive in communication, you've got to check yourself! Why am I saying the things I'm saying? Are they helpful? Are they true? Am I ready and willing to learn from this person? #tlap #talktome
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Surround yourself with positive people because you become like the 5 people you're around the most. Great people will keep you focused on positive motivation #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • fantasticfirst2 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    I’m Devon Napps. 1st grade teacher in Richland, Mississippi. I’m excited for this chat! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Thanks! You are too! #tlap
    In reply to @Rdene915
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: When we focus on solutions and creating a positive outcome and look at growth then we make others understand our motivation and they will be receptive #tlap
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Bonnie checking in. Elem music and K-12 Gifted in western Iowa. Headed to Madison tomorrow for PLCtraining. Anyone else? #tlap
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2b I also think thank if you have a positive swagger how can people not help but be positive with you #TLAP
  • LKapuchuck Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Remember- as the leader, it’s NOT about you! It’s about building capacity & growing other leaders! Leave your ego at the door & list others up. Always do more listening than talking & don’t feel like you have to solve all the problems! #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    Preach! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    We all need a little grace! #tlap
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kmurfitt1
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2 Setting agreed upon norms and referencing them before meetings. Remembering why you are a teacher and keeping your focus on helping kids #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A1: Find the joy in simple moments and shine the light on other’s accomplishments. Show a true interest in others and remind them in unique ways just how special they are! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: Motivations start with the heart. Connect with the heart. I have found any struggle has an emotional seed that when identified changes the whole perspective. #tlap
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    It's actually kept me out of Target. I don't want to see it yet. ;) #TLAP
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2 being available, model the positivity, knowing about others, building relationships helps us to know how to interact better #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    #TLAP Mindfulness-awareness of the needs & personalities of others. Facial expressions and body language have such an impact on those around us. Keep a calm demeanor, positive tone and smile. When we truly find joy in teaching it shows & this keeps the atmosphere cheerful 😀
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: Keeping the big picture goal in mind, especially when working on the same team or organization. We need to operate collaboratively rather than competitively. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: My class once a month has #TBhThursday “to be honest Thursday” they may write a letter to anyone in the school encouraging them. Ex. “To be honest you are an amazing principal” #TLAP
  • HillaryRB Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: Remember your overall goal- student success! Positive motivators help us reach our goals of creating independent and strategic lifelong learners! #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A1: That they probably want to be heard, students especially. That may fall under validation, but the past couple of years, I've made a cognizant effort to focus on actively listening first, and it has helped. #tlap
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    For sure! Grace - I've got LOADS of... patience, notsomuch. #tlap
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kmurfitt1
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2. A practical way to keep the focus would be to print this image and post in our classroom. At home, too. Love this! #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2 - I personally promise to be positive. Yes, certain situations can be tough. But, if we separate the person from the issue, things usually work out. Learning to smile and stay calm will always put people at ease. #TLAP
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    Hey!! You kinda nailed two of the three #REALedu words of @TaraMartinEDU Love it!! #tlap
    In reply to @mrsjeagon, @TaraMartinEDU
  • HillaryRB Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    Love the mindset for your acts of kindness, Kim! So great! #tlap #TalkToMe #passionforkindness
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    Or I guess I could just say Be REAL, right @TaraMartinEDU? #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden, @TaraMartinEDU
  • DFerrera521 Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A1: When communicating w/ a struggling S, a parent or co-worker, I think about the S as though they were my own child, myself as a S or my sibling, and a parent or co-worker as though they were myself. How would I want to be viewed or communicated with? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2 LOVE AND LISTEN ❤️👂❤️👂❤️👂 Remember to be compassionate and just listen. Sometimes people just need to get their feelings out in the open, so let them! Have an open mind, be optimistic, and give them the chance to be heard! ☠️✨ #TalkToMe #TLAP
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    You can learn something valuable from every single person in your school (student, staff, administrator, colleague, parent...)! #tlap #talktome
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2 Find the positive even if it simply means learning and growing from the negative. Find those who have positive outlooks so you can push one another. #tlap
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Hi, I'm here about 20 mins late, but hopefully I can catch up quickly. My name is Victoria; I am a 5th grade science teacher in FL. #tlap
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: remembering that I’m dealing and working with people and they respond better to honey than vinegar. And if it has to be vinegar at least make it apple cider vinegar #tlap
  • TeacherRunner42 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    good evening, #tlap - michael from columbus ohio checking in late - middle grades teacher :)
  • wadewhitehead Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: Be too big to take offense and too kind to cause it. #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Words are POWER!!!! #TLAP #TALKTOME @kimbearden
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU, @kimbearden
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Open mimd is key...#tlap
    In reply to @JoveStickel
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: Intentionally focus on positive interactions with others! When we approach with the right motivations, we are open to learning from others & working together towards a common goal! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: My class once a month has #TBhThursday “to be honest Thursday” they may write a letter to anyone in the school encouraging them. Ex. “To be honest you are an amazing principal” we then hand deliver them! #TLAP
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2) Ways to focus on the positive motivators with students: "Make them shine in ways they don't know they shine." -Fellow teacher in a twitter chat. Loved this, so I noted it. #tlap
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2 Surround yourself with positive people. Keep doing what you know is right. Listen to the "other side", but chin up, always. #tlap
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Absolutely. Assume the best intentions of others. We are all on a different journey and in different places. #tlap
    • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:15 PM EDT
      A2: Idk about y'all, but I've got to censor myself when I get frustrated... surrounding with positive people helps. #tlap
  • PreK33 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: Remember that everyone has a story, and most times it will break your heart. Handle every situation with love & care. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Yah...Jeanneen for the #REALedu WIN! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @burgessdave, @mrsjeagon
  • Auen_Ed_Tech Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: I think it all starts with classroom norms. #tlap
  • MiddleMsGus Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Keeping in mind that negative motivators say more about me than others helps me to refocus on positive motivators. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2 - Smiling helps. I remind myself to smile as I stand outside my classroom, if I am listen to a student, if I am walking down the hall. Some days it is hard, but when I remember it helps to maintain and propagate a positive motivation in my daily interactions. #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: You hbe to know them on a personal level- not only what are their cademic strengths & weaknesses but what do they enjoy? What inspires them? What do they do outside of school? When you have a true connection, then you can motivate. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    YES YES YES! Word choice 100% #tlap #lulearns
    • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:17 PM EDT
      A2: Word choice. The words we choose can be POWERFUL. Always assume positive intentions and make sure your facial expressions match the words you are exclaiming. #TLAP
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: I try to stay positive in all situations. Being a good role model for others is important as well. I always try to treat others like I want them to treat me! #ElonEd #talktome #tlap
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2 surround yourself with positivity. Remember to lead with the heart. Truly listen to others without the intent to respond or fix anything. Build on those relationships. #tlap
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Now I'm singin! #tlap
    In reply to @TeachDMD
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2 I have a pause and a breath where I rephrase the questioning to bring about a more positive light. Often, ss and ts and ps all have damaged relationships with each other. Quickly, conflict will disappear if we ask What does success look like? #tlap
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A1. Some of the factors I take into consideration are how tough it is for them to talk about this (probably again), remain open, nonjudgmental, empathetic and paraphrase what they are saying to verify understanding. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • BusEd11 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2 Look at the Ss body language, it will tell you if you get off the positive track. #tlap
  • jenchitmon Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A1 When communicating w/struggling Ss, parents or coworkers, determine areas with which you can relate & empathize in a given situation. Give them a chance to speak uninterrupted. Listen to really hear what’s being said & not just to respond. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    I saw some on my weekly grocery run but I avoided it. ;) #tlap
    In reply to @specialtechie
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2b - Listen first, then respond inal a way that will inspire and uplift. #TLAP
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Yay! Another Columbus educator!!!! #TLAP #TALKTOME
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Love this SO much! YES! #tlap
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass, @JayBilly2
  • ebony_forte Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    I always consider that there is a cause for the behavior, and I try to be empathetic to the person that I am dealing with. #tlap
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    Very true! Practice the pause. #tlap
    In reply to @jordanhohm
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2 Constantly remind ourselves to focus on the positives. We may be the only light that shines in our Ss lives so don’t blow it out being negative! #TLAP
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2: Focus on what to do, rather than what not to do. Reinforce the idea that we're all on the same team & working together to be the best we can be. I try to use "we" vs "I" or "you" as much as possible. Build and maintain a positive culture as that in itself is motivating #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    yes, smiling makes a huge different! and not always easy, when that comes I play some fun music to lift the mood :) #tlap
    In reply to @TeacherWinters
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2 I always think about the relationship. I think about a positive story or event I have shared with the person. I also always try to remember the 5 to 1 rule: 5 positives to every redirect or negative. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    Great answer, Craig!! 🙌🏻💜 #tlap #REALedu
    In reply to @craigklement, @kimbearden, @TaraMartinEDU
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2b: Surround yourself with the positive. It’s important for us to recognize that we (educators) are in this together—to build each other up. There’s no room for negativity in our profession. Who has time for that? #TLAP #talktome #tmgenius
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2: celebrate the small things! This is especially true with students. Noticing and celebrating small things can instantly change someone’s day. It’s all in the detail and it lets them know that you’re paying attention! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2 Dont close your door for lunch or avoid the Ts lounge...be the change through your voice and actions #TLAP
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    This. #tlap
    In reply to @JoveStickel
  • spqrmiguel Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2: As a principal, the choice of words and how we respond. #TLAP
  • McLane_Ryan Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    #TLAP Sometimes it’s easy to want to “teach kids a lesson” when they mess up. How about taking the positive mindset of “helping” them avoid making the same mistake in the future. Our tone of this communication is huge.
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    oh me too, been using it almost all year, drawing on my own struggles #tlap
    In reply to @NAEmmanuele, @seanmarnold, @DMooreSpanish
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2: If you want to live fully and love your work with others, you have to focus on positives. Being positive isn’t really about others...it’s about you. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    #tlap @kimbearden @GuysBride
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:19 PM EDT
      Yes. Nonverbals can speak as loudly as words!
      In reply to @GuysBride
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2 So important. It is easy to get caught up in everything else and forget this #tlap
    • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:18 PM EDT
      A2 Setting agreed upon norms and referencing them before meetings. Remembering why you are a teacher and keeping your focus on helping kids #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    Couldn’t agree MORE!! 🤗🤗 Expressing our voices and LISTENING are two powerful tools in POSITIVE communication! #TALKTOME #TLAP
    In reply to @EllenJacobsen9
  • WallerALPHApack Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A2: Carry a smile, be a good listener, be a problem solver...remember misery loves company and that is company I prefer not to keep. Ask if help is needed. If not, just let the person know you are there if needed, just ask. #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    That's a cool idea, Adam! Thanks for sharing! #TalkToMe #tlap
    In reply to @Adam_Johnson07
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: Never assume the motivations of another and don't always see what they say as negative. Let people's words just be and don't add your own meaning. Take them for their word and they will take you for yours. #tlap #talktome
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Hi, LAURA! Always makes my night chatting with you!✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2 #TLAP Set mindful intentions- repeat them throughout the day- focus on them- even in times of frustration & doubt- repeat aloud the intentions- always respond not react-this keeps the energy positive & productive and more importantly contagious-calm is contagious
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: Try to remember that the negative motivators really aren't going to improve a situation. And accepting that people have different experiences and perspectives. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Yes! Regularly assessing motives... good point! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: Great rule of thumb is to assume positive intentions, work at bonding with responses, and truth is always the best. Unless they ask how their hair looks, and it looks bad, but they are proud of the new do. #tlap
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2 As a staff our goal is to support kids! As long as we share that goal, how can we help but have positive interactions! #kidsdeserveit surround yourselves with positive people! #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: The motivator should always be to come to some positive consensus, and NEVER to be to attack or tear someone down. We have to speak with grace, even when we're tempted to speak with rage. Maybe especially then. #tlap
  • DrLMNelson Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2. If we keep in mind our WHY, we are more likely to remain in purpose and on target with positive motivators! #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • aaron_hogan - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: Tackle every opportunity your day offers as a moment to engage with others and let them know they are worth getting to know. #TLAP
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2. There is always a positive that can come out of every situation. Always search for the positive and work to create a positive outcome. Give people the benefit of the doubt and know that everyone wants to be their best. #tlap
  • MiddleMsGus Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: Keeping in mind that negative motivators say more about me than others helps me to refocus on positive motivators. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Love this! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @Auen_Ed_Tech
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    So true. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @DrLMNelson
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: I stay focused on the big picture and goal, which is to see my students succeed and be happy. When you lead with that, all interactions can stay focused on positives. #TLAP #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • msyoung114 Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2: I try to check myself: Am I being kind in the interaction? I know that I'm a conflict avoider so if I sense that a conversation isn't going well, I will stop or change the topic (which is something I need to work on!) #TLAP
  • ebony_forte Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2 One of the ways I try to stay focused on the positive is to keep the end goal in mind. #tlap
  • khoggardGRT Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A2 Sharing the truth and being prepared to hear the truth, being solution oriented is a HUGE way to stay focused on effective communication! I often listen and jot down concerns and then attempt to get the team brainstorming solutions! #tlap #TalkToMe #champforkids
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Q3 from @kimbearden is up!! #tlap Kim...put #tlap hashtag into your replies so all can see!!
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A1: It's important to realize not everyone comes from the same background. Some people have faced traumatic difficulties in their lives that others cannot fathom. People have to take a step back and give others a chance, realizing they may have good intentions as well. #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Love that GIF, could probably stare at it for hours! LOL! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @CRCarter313, @TaraMartinEDU, @kimbearden
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    I host a Mothers’ Night Out to thank my amazing mamas. We have volunteers from the business community who serve them a delicious dinner. We have music, inspirational messages, a photographer, and more! It is a beautiful night of bonding! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2 #tlap
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Ohhh yeah! High five to this! #TLAP
    • MiddleMsGus Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      A2: Keeping in mind that negative motivators say more about me than others helps me to refocus on positive motivators. #TLAP #TalkToMe
      In reply to @kimbearden
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2. Try to be positive, ignore the naysayers and the negative people! If there is someone playing a Jekyl and Hyde character, they will get caught in the end! Don't let their negative culture bring you down! #tlap
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    My name is Maura and I am studying Digital Communication with @ghartman I will be participating in the #TLAP
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2: As I heard @docspeaks say at #NPC18 - you must stay on the balcony. Always. Don’t let them take you to the basement! Keep a positive outlook, smile, and keep on smiling. Acknowledge others’ feelings but spin it toward the ➕ #TLAP
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Nice GIF Jason...#tlap
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    ooohhh...like that, Paul. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @paul_emerich
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Hi, Michael! Always better late than never!!!! Glad you're here!! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @TeacherRunner42
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    I’m LOVING all the GIFs tonight!!!! 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥#TLAP #TALKTOME
  • TheAshleyWarren Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    I think through my communication by asking what impact will I make rather than outcomes. My impact must be long term and always in the best interest of those I’m serving. Relationships must be the motivator in every situation! #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2. This retweet from #ISTE18 seems appropriate right now. #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    #tlap @kimbearden
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      Yes— LEARN from others with different perspectives!
      In reply to @jordanhohm
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    It's my buddy, Kim! Makes my night chatting with you as well! #tlap
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • TeacherRunner42 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    a3: physically say it and write it. tell people you appreciate them. e-mail parents that you appreciate their help. #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2: Honestly if we stay focused on the kids we can’t go wrong! By keeping them at the forefront we keep the positive overflowing! #tlap #Nan3EDU
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A3: Previous school we did shout outs, I made Pixel Badges for achievement and even sent art set achievement cards to parents. #tlap
  • SenorSouderSHS Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2. I remember that I am not going to solve everyone's problems, but if I can do my part to take myself out of the equation and let Ss know that they matter, then that is a good day's work. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    I agree that words are important but also that you are aware of body language- sometimes it’s not what you say but HOW you say it. #TLAP
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • BusEd11 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A1 Try to first put yourself in their shoes, what if you had a bad day, was up late arguing with their kids, or working two jobs and still short for paying bills. Then you can talk to them, listen, understand and problem solve better. #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    #TALKTOME #TLAP 🙌🏼🙌🏼
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass, @TaraMartinEDU, @kimbearden
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A3. I love finding things of interest to them and simply sharing what I found with them. Kids love to know I am thinking of them at random times & care enough to share a photo, song, magazine, book, article, etc. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A3 Call out the little things that no one else will call out #tlap
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2: Keep it positive! Sometimes, you are the only person that has said a good thing to them (P's,S's,T's) all day. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • aaron_hogan - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: Sometimes we overthink the little things. A simple, genuine thank you can go a long, long way. Genuinely noticing what others are doing is powerful. #TLAP
  • educatorTHR Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Staying true to the cause - the best interest of students #talktome #tlap
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Huge difference, playing as Ss come in, random 80s or one hit wonders, gets them pumped. #tlap
    In reply to @TeacherWinters
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: I love leaving notes of encouragement around with a sweet treat (sometimes anonymously) #tlap
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: When I was an edtech instructional coach, I did a tech teacher of the week award. Now, I send out shoutouts via campus wide email #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A2: One way I motivate myself to be positive with others is to stay calm and cool: “Vanilla Ice Cube” Style: chickity check myself first. Then, if you’ve gotta problem, yo, I’ll solve it. (My other answer is: finding the silly side of things.) #TLAP #TalkToMe #MashUpAnswer
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Simply saying "I appreciate you" goes so far! Also leaving little happy notes or something meaningful to the person directly. If I know you like Reese's, I will bring you Reese's, etc. #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: I take time to go tell them how much I liked what they did or said. I try to focus on stuff they did on behalf of me or our mutual students, even if it doesn't clearly benefit me. I try (but don't always succeed) to put my own ego out of the picture. #tlap
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3 I show my appreciation by praising my students every chance I get! My role is facilitator/cheerleader and I’m proud of it! #tlap
  • Ruby_SneakersRT Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A1. Reyna from NY jumping in a few minutes late. I find the best way to effectively communicate is first to give space for them to express their feelings and perspective. Then, collaborate with them on possible solutions to come up with a plan to solve the problem. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3 I like sending hand-written notes/treat. If I do this when I feel unappreciated, it completely changes my mood and I'm grateful for the people in my life. I'm not perfect but this helps! #tlap
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    humbling pt.! #tlap
    In reply to @MiddleMsGus, @kimbearden
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3 I have decided that the joy I get from helping and adding a positive vibe is enough. If I’m not appreciated I think that maybe a little positivity could help chip away at whatever is making things so negative. #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3 Show up & be intentional in your words, actions, and relationships. Be positive and proactive. Engage and be encouraged by the others that share your community with you. Compliment & be real. #talktome #tlap
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Gratitude journal thank them for anything that they do for me/kindness/etc Drop in bucket, positive calls home, colleagues--send email with cc to principal live with attitude of graditude #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • DFerrera521 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A2: I try and stay focused on who I am and what is important to me. I also try to always do by best and when I fail, I try to do better. This helps to keep me positively motivated. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Yes!!!! Our facial expressions tell SO MUCH!! #TALKTOME #TLAP
    In reply to @CristinaDajero
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @MrCoachEli
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: Tell the truth. Look them in eye and tell them SPECIFICALLY why I appreciate them. Build them up with kind words. To the haters, I find their good and speak it over them. If they want it, it is there for the taking. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    LOVE it, Jason. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Thanks! #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3. Best way to show appreciation to folks you interact with: Spend time with them. Listen to them. Remember what they talked about. Ask them about it later, genuinely. #tlap #talktome
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: I always give my students and coworkers hand written notes of appreciation. It takes little time to thank someone for their hard work or for going out of their way for someone else. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: I think I need to get better at this...but we send positive post cards home to students, fun positive affirmations to colleagues, I’ll send a quick email or note home to parents. Just not enough. It needs to be a daily goal for me. #TLAP #talktome
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: Simply saying "I appreciate you" goes so far! Also leaving little happy notes or something meaningful to the person directly. If I know you like Reese's, I will bring you Reese's, etc. #tlap
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: Make a positive phone call or send a note sharing your appreciation. I keep my special notes in a Smile File for those days where the seas are rough and I need a little wind in my sails! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: Finding things that are special to them and showing that you care. Hand written notes are always a great way to show appreciation! #TLAP
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A1: And... we also cannot be preachy or act like our perspective is better than theirs. We have to be considerate and truly LISTEN. #tlap
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3: Giving our positive notes/ cards. Just surprising them with nice things. Remember that they’re human and don’t take things personally. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A2. Remain a calm & empathetic, reframe what is being said with a focus on the positive, & make every attempt to not "go down the rabbit hole" or the "dark forest" with them. Goal is to be their anchor. #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • DesrosiersEryka Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Hey #Tlap peeps! I’m super late, but still wanted to drop in for a few! I’m Eryka, teach HS ESL and I’m interested in making my class more student-centered and #innovative by getting my Ss involved in the #community and hopefully experimenting w/ #entrepreneurship.
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3 be kind be supportive be respectful be honest be honerable be Upstanding. Give praise I write two notes a day to staff. Get out andrhank people and ask how they are call home for positive things send out positive referrals #TLAP
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Non verbals definitely speak louder than words. How do you prevent yourself from making negative faces or body language when you don't like something but need to maintain a positive environment? #tlap #lulearns
    In reply to @kimbearden, @GuysBride
  • TracyMailloux Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Hello, Tracy - 6th gr T - from MA jumping in late for a bit. Hope you're all enjoying summer! #tlap
  • cheryljglasser Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3: For students, I like to make positive phone calls to parents. Parents are always so surprised to get a good call from the principal and the kids love getting to brag about their accomplishments. #tlap
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3. Even when I struggle with feeling appreciated, I try to remember that the Ss being there is them giving me the chance to reach them, even if I don't always succeed. Them giving me chance after chance is their version of patience and I keep hoping I hit the right note. #tlap
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3 - I am terrible at presents and letters, but I am great at trying to give honest praise and remembering to make students feel special. I students to remember me like Ron Swanson - If he says something, he means it. #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3: As a leader you can do so much to show appreciation for what others do, but the most simple is the most effective -- just be there for others. Show them you value them and their work. The simple things can have huge impacts. #tlap #talktome
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Agreed! Relationships are such an important part of teaching! #TLAP
    • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
      A3: Giving our positive notes/ cards. Just surprising them with nice things. Remember that they’re human and don’t take things personally. #TLAP
      • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
        How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TeacherRunner42 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    WOOHOO! hello, stranger! :) #tlap
    In reply to @TracyMailloux
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3 I love to leave note for my Ss and point out things I appreciate about them during our carpet time. #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Great idea for the gratitude journal! #tlap
    In reply to @docvs1
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Just following your lead Cameron...👊🙌😂 #TLAP
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3. I am sincere in my interactions, and when they do something awesome or show improvement, I make sure to praise them. I like to show off their work, whether it is a student or a coworker. When a parent helps me, I make sure that others are aware of their wonderfulness. #tlap
  • LisaDegnan1 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3 - Put kids in charge of their learning, their growth, their goals. We forget - It’s THEIR education. Kids need to care as much as WE do. #tlap
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Q3 (part 1) Compliments go a long way, any chance you can get; in person, on social media, through another colleague. (part 2) Two wrongs do not make a right, so give people compliments, even if it doesn't get returned #modeling #highroad #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Love your transparency, Matthew. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @TeacherWinters
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    #tlap @kimbearden
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
      There is so much power in a smile. TIME magazine has a special issue out now about the power of smiles and laughter!
      In reply to @TeacherWinters
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A2: I try to remove my ego from the equation. It's not about me. My job is to serve others, so start with kindness, maintain relationships, and be honest. I don't always succeed though.#TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3a: I try to write or verbally give specific affirmations. A3b: I’m a sentimental person 🙈, so I keep all the nice notes I’ve ever been given and sometimes I just pull them out and they’re a good reminder of why I do what I do. A burst of encouragement. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: Write them notes, tell them thank you, give them shoutouts, treats, coffee time mornings, a hug or pat on the back, whatever I feel they seem to need. #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: I make sure that my positivity shows through and that everyone know how much I appreciate their work by shouting them out on SM and by thanking them F2F. When I feel unappreciated, I go back to my why! It's not about me #tlap
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3 A short handwritten note goes a long way to make someone feel appreciated. Remember your why even when you feel like no one notices all you do. It’s not about recognition! #tlap
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Sometimes, people don't realize how much they appreciate you until later. You may not even be in their lives anymore. We just have to have faith that we are being the best we can be. Right?:) #TLAP
    In reply to @mospillman
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A2: Stay curious. Focus on the joy and the good. Choose kindness. Question hurtful thoughts and turn them around (love using @ByronKatie's the work for this—read more here about using it with students here: https://t.co/OxP7HmxcKR ) #tlap
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3- you show them they have value when you create amazing experiences for them they will never forget, Teach & show them they matter! Boys & Girls event @CaldwellElemen inspires by @kimbearden #tlap #TALKTOME
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    It does. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @iluveducating
  • NCS_Principal Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: I started doing a pre-summer survey for teachers. Two of the questions - What do you like to receive as a treat? And what can I do for you? I use that intel ALL year! #tlap #talktome
  • HillaryRB Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: keep smiling. Keep serving. Model appreciation for all acts of kindness, big and small. Give of your time, talents, resources. Say yes whenever possible. #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Yep, we got to be like Chick Fil A employees: “it is my pleasure to serve” #tlap
    In reply to @mospillman
  • Teachintjay Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3:I love to build anyone I know up with specific compliments.I also love to share "little happys"with my Ss like special treats,extra game time,etc.With Ps I always acknowledge the wonderful job they're doing and how hard parenting is If I feel slighted,I rembr my why #tlap
  • DrLMNelson Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3. One of the most underrated forms of appreciation is simply being in the moment and acknowledging the presence of our people! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3 Random acts of kindness will help to build specific relationships. No matter the circumstance, find positives in every child, every teacher, every day! #TLAP
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    #TLAP Just before the bell, beginning of class period- I greet them with enthusiasm and I say “I am excited to learn with you today” & at the end of class “thank you for learning with me today. “ it is a daily thing- sets a mindful energy
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Oh! That is a wonderful idea! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3) State focused on the most important thing: The STUDENTS! Look for the positives in small moments when necessary. Find their love language and reach out. #tlap
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3 - Positivity above all other things is transformational for school. If we stay upbeat and always remember that kids deserve it we can change our class and school. #TLAP
  • ItsAMrY Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    #tlap 1 day, in the winter, I took time at end of class to tell each S what their unique contribution was to the class. How proud I was of their specific growth. In front of all the whole class. First time I did that. I will do this every year going forward.
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3 Really focuses on this last year. Best way I found was to offer opportunities or Ts to appreciate one another. Compliment cards, staff shoutouts, thankful cards, etc. These were big hits. #tlap
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A2: Assume positive intent. 😁😃👍🏻👋🏽#tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Yes, and the idea that those are handwritten notes means a lot. Much more intimate than emails. Good on ya, Tamara! #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Yes, one thing I’m trying to get better at is listening to understand, not listening to speak. #tlap
    In reply to @WentzvillePRE
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: I love to send home handwritten notes or E-Mail’s to parents thanking them for their support! Even those who don’t communicate as much DESERVE your support as well. The students know I appreciate them from my passion in the classroom each and every day! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3 make sure to celebrate those little moments so everyone feels appreciated. Feeling valued and appreciated will move mountains!! #tlap
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: I head straight to social media! Everyone wants to feel “famous”/appreciated every once in a while. Photos or work are easy things to post. A simple thank you goes a long way as well. #TLAP
  • jillmclean27 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    I love the phrase "you made my day" whether it's the person who runs the computer lab who fixed a tech issues, or a student who shared where she sees physics in her life. Doesn't need to be a big thing. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    You exude JOY and love and appreciation, Jay. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @JayBilly2
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A2: Being competitive/jealous of others does NOT make us better. It is NOT a good motivator bc although our results may be decent, intentions of getting there were lousy. We have to be practical, realize everyone has something good to offer, and collaborate respectfully. #tlap
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    TIME (without distractions of phone etc.) to chat are valuable gifts to people- It's making meaningful MOMENTs count! #tlap
    In reply to @GreatWeissOne
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: First of all, leadership of any kind, is about service to others. And the best types of leadership are the ones without an “official” title. Appreciation is shown when you keep showing up and keep your commitments to those you’re serving. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • spqrmiguel Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: Our students are rewarded often and periodically for good behavior and excellence academic scores. Our teachers are usually rewarded with “jean day” 😂 or an hour lunch. Our parents are usually invited to our school and are treated to free breakfast or lunch. #TLAP
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @jamesvarlack
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3b - Good morning, hello, thank you, have a great day and lots of 😀😀😀👍👍👍👍 #TLAP
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3 I ❤️ to leave sticky notes with a little note for my peers and admin. I make sure to call parents for even the smallest thing for Ss who have had a tough time in previous years. I ❤️having lunch with my Ss to hear about what is going on outside of school. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • 2ndGradeMama Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A1: when talking to with/about struggling students I try to focus my conversation with a STRENGHTS/Compliment first and then to be CLEAR (no jargo) and KIND about the concern #TalktoMe #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Q3 again... #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • DFerrera521 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Jumped on late and never introduced myself. Diana Ferrera, 5th grade ELA, NJ & I love getting excited about things! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: I am a big believer in not holding back authentic compliments, and I try to show appreciation for small things. #TLAP
  • DrLMNelson Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3. Hand-written notes are a lost art form, but truly are considered a special treat by all! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • tishrich Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: Sincere thank you’s go a long way. Make sure you acknowledge the things that people do. Tell them f2f, write thank you cards, give shout outs at meetings. I still have the thank you’s my former principal @KevinCa28581019 gave me. It’s a big deal! #tlap
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: Be specific in what you appreciate about them and their actions. Be real and remember why you are doing what you are doing it. I have to remind myself that much of what I do is not necessarily expected, but what I want to do to make the world better. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Haters are so hard for me to deal with, but I'd rather hear their truth though than to wonder what they think. Typically my brain creates a worse version of the situation than the actual situation. #tlap
    In reply to @_on11
  • Mrs_Boecke Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: Lots of positive reinforcements in the form of notes or pictures to share successes! I try to always remember what is best for the student no matter how much EXTRA it might involve! Their smile or aha moment is enough appreciation! #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    #tlap A2 ask questions and actively listen.
  • Jonesa7Jones Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    #tlap A1 today in training @UNCGMSPS we talked about different people's personality traits. I came up super strong on the blue-caring spectrum. It made me think about how we all come with traits which influence how we interact w each other. #ElonEd #MED523
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3b: When I don’t feel appreciated? I can be pretty hard on myself...but it doesn’t cause me to appreciate anyone else less. I try to think about what the other person might be dealing with and know lack of appreciation shown isn’t necessarily intentional. #TLAP #talktome
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3. I try to make it habit to give status checks once a week with parents. When I worked with my dd kiddos, they produced their own picture based newspaper that said what each student was doing during a week. If like to do something similar for my hs ss this year. #tlap
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: I remember that an appreciated person is always willing to do more!! I love giving notes of encouragement & thanks! I think it’s important to recognize the efforts of others even if it’s not returned! Always do what’s right! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Mrjonresendez Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: I tend show my appreciation through actions. I show you I love you by being reliable and helpful. This is a problem sometimes because words matter too. I have stated to send random appreciative texts to my team and individual colleagues when I think of them. #tlap
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: Take the time to notice the hard work, the improvements, and the effort. Verbally thank others often for their input and contributions. Little handwritten notes of appreciation and food. Food is big. #TLAP
  • PreK33 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: We have class reward parties, we do silent cheers for great ideas and actions. I send all parents thank you notes for coming to conferences. When I don't feel appreicated, I do some mindfulness exercises and focus on the good & positive. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    It is one of those things that people remember. I was in Union Station in DC once waiting for a train. I got on any my seat partner was tickled that she was sitting next to me because she saw me smiling while I was getting on. I was just excited to be traveling. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Nothing is more valuable than reflecting on your interactions and actions! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Love that! Each teacher in our school fills out a survey sheet with favorites that we keep in the office so all stakeholders can surprise others with acts of kindness here and there! Such a joy to see a surprise in our mailbox from our favorite's list! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @NCS_Principal
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: I am a big believer in thank you cards and positive notes! I say thank you for everything and tried to leave positive notes for students, parents, and staff each week even if I am not receiving anything back! #tlap #lulearns
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Welcome to #tlap!
    In reply to @MrsKatieCulver, @kimbearden
  • MrsAsztalos Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3 Tell them! I find a simple "Thank you" and You rock!" go a long way! I try to be extra nice and kind to others, even the ones who do not reciprocate. We don't know other people's struggles #tlap
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: I make sure to always say thank you and tell them how much their gesture means to me. I smile and say something positive to each student every day! #ElonEd #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: I bring my A GAME every day... I do not take one day of their learning or my time with them for granted. That is one thing that every child and parent alike knows about me... they have my heart, my time, my everything. All in! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3. I absolutely love showing people I appreciate them...it can be a simple thank you, to a card, to a gift, a public acknowledgement, or a simple hug. I consider myself to be a Chief Encouragement Officer (CEO) and appreciation is the easiest way to do that! #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Keeping the nice notes is a great way to feel appreciated or boost you up on a tough day. #warmfuzzies #tlap
    • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
      A3a: I try to write or verbally give specific affirmations. A3b: I’m a sentimental person 🙈, so I keep all the nice notes I’ve ever been given and sometimes I just pull them out and they’re a good reminder of why I do what I do. A burst of encouragement. #tlap
      • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
        How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    You always hear Ts say, don’t smile until Christmas. I always try to smile and make kids laugh all the time. Spread some joy, make school a happy place #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden, @TeacherWinters
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: The more you know your people, the easier it is to know their "love language". So, relationships are key! If I don't feel appreciated, that's when I have to do some self reflection as to why I do what I do. It's not about me. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: Quick notes of appreciation, positive social media posts, a short & specific "thank you" in person, emails & thank you cards. Keep it genuine. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Making 5 phone calls per week is my #KidsDeserveIt goal for #DBC50Summer https://t.co/DrYvAVFLR3 #tlap Love this!!!
    In reply to @tamaraletter
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: Part 1: I write each of my students personalized letters at the end of the school year and make them personalized holiday ornaments as well. I celebrate their accomplishments and process that encompasses both successes and "failures". #tlap
  • 2ndGradeMama Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A2: when talking with others I try to see the good, while being honest. #TalktoMe #tlap
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    You are right. Calm is contagious. I need to be mindful of that, too. #tlap
    In reply to @ChouinardJahant
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    I LOVE HANDWRITTEN NOTES! #tlap #lulearns
    In reply to @sandeeteach
  • teachlikeaninja Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: I love to record positive videos for kids and parents. I always send out a thank you email to parents after conferences and send out our positive videos to kids talking about all the awesome things they are doing. #tlap
  • LKapuchuck Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: Saying “thank you” sounds simple but it’s so important & too often forgotten. I also make the #goodnewscalloftheday for Ss & Staff. They love this& parents have cried with joy to hear something positive their child has done- big or little! I love to write cards, too. #TLAP
  • TheAshleyWarren Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: personal time! Building and strengthening relationships through face to face connections...there’s nothing greater to show appreciation than being heard and being told directly the impact you’re making! #TLAP
  • WentzvillePRE Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    We have served our staff breakfast, lunch, and dinners. We have taken them bowling and provided other special treats like massages and special mindfulness activities throughout the year. We celebrate our kids all the time but need to do a better job serving parents. #TLAP
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    I end the day by telling kids, "Thank you for choosing to be here today." They always look at me, astonished, but it is a choice, honestly. And the next day, when they come back again, they hear me say, "I am glad you are here!" #tlap
    In reply to @ChouinardJahant
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Welcome! I love the little things too. #tlap
    In reply to @DFerrera521
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3 I try to make things fun by recognizing staff w/prizes, food, and of course dress down days. :) I don’t get bogged down in thinking if Im getting appreciated enough. That’s not why I do what I do. It’s not about me, it’s about the kids. A happy staff makes for happy kids #tlap
  • kjones_m Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: Hand written notes to staff and not forgetting what its like to be a teacher! #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3 #TLAP The most meaningful appreciation is consistent, mindful interactions. Greeting, smiling, intently listening, being respectful and through positive interactions helping reinforce a positive school culture. Squashing negativity with a positive spirit- lots of smiles
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Yes, Yes, YES! Random acts of kindness are so very important! And they don't have to cost a thing! Total morale booster! #tlap #talktome #passionforkindness
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3 We feel appreciated when we're known #tlap
  • Ruby_SneakersRT Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A2. Remember that everyone has strengths. When you mirror the positive aspects in others and elevate their positivite actions, it strengths relationships which is the biggest motivator of all! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3 🗣️👇 TTY NOW...NOT TTYL! Show others that you appreciate them by giving them your time! It's that simple! It isn't about the things, it's about the relationships! Stop when you're doing, drop what you're doing, and give them your time NOW! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Lol. Food always works!! #tlap
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    So right! It’s not about me. #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @specialtechie
  • McEnglish101 Jul 16 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A2: It can be aided by focusing on the issue at hand (vs the communicator) & questioning if we are being influenced by a preceding bias or history w/ the person- asking ourselves would our understanding & response be the same w/ someone else. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3: It's important to celebrate and recognize those who do the work and put in the effort. I shout them out on the loud speaker, in meetings, and whenever I can. Your school can't be great until you talk about your school and staff as great #tlap
  • jmartinez727 Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    I try to be humble, acknowledge others frequently, say thank you, and "notice" positive things about others. #YouMatter #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Willmdunn Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3) Perhaps I’m not good at that. I shake their hands, and publicly praise when it’s appropriate. Something must work. I’ve had enough find me in their weakest moments for support. That’s how I l know I’m appreciated. #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3b: Every Friday is Free-Write Fri-YAY!! The students get a handwritten response from me to their free-write on their desk every Monday morning! It’s a SUPER way to MOTIVATE writers and BUILD RELATIONSHIPS! #TLAP #TalkToMe @kimbearden
  • McEnglish101 Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A2: It can be aided by focusing on the issue at hand (vs the communicator) & questioning if we are being influenced by a preceding bias or history w/ the person- asking ourselves would our understanding & response be the same w/ someone else. #TLAP
  • MrCoachEli Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3 This is one of my favorite parts of my job as a principal. I love doing random appreciations for staff as well as the predictable ones, Good News Call of the Day, assemblies, etc. Parents are an area I need to work to improve #TLAP
  • DesrosiersEryka Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A1: Try to start by showing them I understand their struggle. After I try to bring the S to find solutions to give him ownership or offer specific help to P or coworker instead of asking how I can help. Otherwise asking them to come up w/ solution doubles their work! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3 2nd part of Q...take time to appreciate yourself. Stand back and appreciate the culture and community you are building #tlap
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    You have to. Students need that kind of informal kindness and affirmation. I wouldn't want to be around a teacher that did not smile. #tlap
    In reply to @craigklement, @kimbearden
  • ShenaIBlcps Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    How they feel about themselves... #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Everyone loves food. #TLAP
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Ha! Love this! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3 Remember names and always be courteous when you see them outside of school...don't avoid them, engage them #TLAP
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3c - I try to concern myself with students. If they appreciate my positivity and kindness, most other stuff is easily dealt with. Even if a student doesn’t appreciate me, I try to help them and maintain the good attitude. #TLAP
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    when you find out they still have them years later #tlap
    • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:25 PM EDT
      Yes, and the idea that those are handwritten notes means a lot. Much more intimate than emails. Good on ya, Tamara! #tlap
      In reply to @tamaraletter
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Love it!! Those phone calls feel incredible for all those involved!! #tlap
    In reply to @iluveducating, @tamaraletter
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3: Part 2: I would love to learn (more) about what some of my co-workers do and celebrate their creativity as well as their innovative mindset. I love how my teaching partner was the first to incorporate escape rooms. I love how she took a huge step a few years ago. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    I feel validated when students write me notes or emails thanking me for a lesson they enjoyed. It lets me know that they see that I am working hard to make learning meaningful and engaging #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    oh I love this! And Love Languages can totally change! Mine has!!! #tlap
    In reply to @specialtechie
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3: I not only tell them but more importantly show them. It’s the small things, genuine kind gestures that go a LONG way. People will always remember how you made them feel, so make it positive! I remain positive by knowing what’s in my heart & that my intentions are good #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    I love receiving handwritten notes! They mean SO much, especially this day and age! #tlap #passionforkindness
    In reply to @DrLMNelson
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    It still hurts sometimes though. We are human. ;) #tlap
    In reply to @mospillman
  • LeaLoves2Teach Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    I have to fall back on the Golden Rule: Do to the other guy what you would want done to you if you were in their shoes...I always have to think about this before I say something when I'm feeling negative. Reminds me that it's not all about me. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3: Say thanks and show thanks. Let them know that I see them and they matter. Greet them when passing, ask how they are doing, and REALLY listen to their replies. Offer support. #tlap
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    #tlap
    In reply to @CRCarter313
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3. If you aren't feeling appreciated, I guarantee you there are others in your building feeling the same way. Go out of your way to recognize others and say thanks and you'll forget pretty quickly the way you were feeling! #tlap #talktome
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A4 Remember your why you do what you do and what sparked your interest into education. Lead, guide, model, and be proactive everyday. #talktome #tlap
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3. Engage them in conversations about things outside of school so they know I appreciate them as people and not just at school. #TLAP
  • am_vargas Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Hi! I’m late but so excited to join! #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3a I ❤️ when my Ss show their appreciation for each other with shout outs. #TALKTOME #TLAP
  • AKReinking Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3: surprise letters, surprise Starbucks cards, a thank you, and for my college students a random surprise night off. #surprisesareworthit #TLAP
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Or coffee. Or gift cards for food or coffee!! #tlap
    In reply to @daleyscience, @diane_mackinnon
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Q4 is here!!! Join #tlap and @kimbearden right now!!! #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    I printed out positive note paper and write each students name on a sheet. Every day I send 1-2 positive notes home to parents. This keeps me accountable for sending one about each student at least once a month and keeps the positivity in my classroom! #tlap #lulearns
    In reply to @k_callahan4
  • TracyMailloux Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A3: What Kimm said! 🙌 #tlap
    • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
      A3: First of all, leadership of any kind, is about service to others. And the best types of leadership are the ones without an “official” title. Appreciation is shown when you keep showing up and keep your commitments to those you’re serving. #tlap
      • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
        How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    #tlap
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    So true #TLAP I like that. I also like to say- thank you for the momentum- class was very energetic today due to your insight & support
    In reply to @_on11
  • kjones_m Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: When I call parents for Positive Office Refereals, I like to make sure I tell them how special their kid is, thank them for teaching them respect at home and that I’m so blessed they are at our school. #tlap
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3) This past school year I did a mid year and end of the year survey. A "teacher report card" of sorts, if you want to call it that. My intent was to show appreciation of student voice and their input on my practice and planning. #tlap
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    Is there a love language for teachers? If not, we need to write that one! @burgessdave #TLAP
    In reply to @iluveducating, @burgessdave
  • HowardKiyuna Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A2: Motives are either Self or Others. Why am I doing/asking/requiring/ disciplining? A3: Appreciations - Create momentous memories: My BDay I serve them lunch "every" yr. #tlap
  • AKReinking Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: stay focused on my goal and make the goal and reaching a goal the way I show myself appreciation #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3 I love leaving Anchors of Appreciation-- an idea inspired by @burgess_shelley & @BethHouf! #tlap #TalkToMe Wrote about it here...https://t.co/R8nemEZqY4
  • happyteacherguy Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: Handwritten notes. Say thanks in person. #tlap
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3 Part 2 - PIZZA PARTIES! #tlap
  • Jonesa7Jones Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    #tlap A3 Even the smallest gestures deserve a ty. When a child brings you a tattered teddy bear...it may be their most treasured possession. #ElonEd #MED523
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4. I feel most validated when Ss quietly tell me that they learned something or loved a lesson or just thank me for the year. Handwritten notes at the end of the year are my favorites examples. #tlap
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    I love to say "acts of kindness" take out the random, they acts should be whatever the opposite of random is! 😉 #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @jasongriffinccs
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: Via email, hand-written note, or in-person chat, I acknowledge their contribution to the solution. Next year, I will invite coworkers to go for free with me to the San Diego Zoo as a gesture of appreciation. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    Smile files rock! definitely helps on those super hard days! #tlap #lulearns
    In reply to @tamaraletter
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: Part 3: My parents... I think it's important how I ask them to tell me about their sons or daughters at the beginning of the school year. I contact them regularly and always do my best to tell them about their kids' positive attributes. #tlap
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: It can bring you down a little when you feel your interactions are misunderstood/not appreciated. However, at the end it's not about you. It's about all of us working together as a unit. I don't need a badge of honor for every single good thing I do for my peeps. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4 I feel validated when my peers and our staff and students tell me I have done a good job or tell me they appreciate me. I also feel validated when they ask for my opinion #TLAP
  • WallerALPHApack Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: Face to face compliments, expressions of thanks, phone calls, and verbal praise are effective - even more than an electronic message. Handwritten notes and posting amazing work products are visual displays of praise. I am always happier to give than to receive! #tlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    Well, you know. :) #tlap There are just some questions we can't really respond to with the truth.
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4: I’ve had many times this year when I’ve spent hours on something, lost sleep, just been exhausted...@me1odystacy @kim_laughlin know I appreciate Words of Affirmation and will stop to tell me I’m appreciated and valued. Know the Love Language of others around you. #TLAP
  • DFerrera521 Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4: I try and always follow through on what I say I am going to do and give it my best. My hard work and my word is how I show appreciation with my own children, my Ss, coworkers, Ps, friends and family. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    The greatest validation I have ever received has always been from students. To see them create actions for change...to make a difference for others—well there’s no words to describe that. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4: Attention to detail, checking in with specific questions about what's going on in your world, true appreciation shared for work on a project... these are small ways to make hearts soar! #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • PreK33 Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4: "I'm sorry you don't feel like I pay attention to what's happening in your class. I should do better. It's just that I trust you and know you're doing wht's best for kids." #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4- specific praise for legit hard work! Don’t fluff my feathers I don’t need it! @bmilla84 is amazing at leaving notes with specific praise for me! She is a strong encourager! #tlap #TALKTOME
  • Auen_Ed_Tech Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3: I write a negative sandwich down. 1 thing that frustrates me about said person, then something good, then something frustrating. Then rewrite the good thing and burn (rip up if you're not a chemist) the old one to let the frustrating ones go away. Give them the 2nd one. #tlap
  • ItsAMrY Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    #tlap *DISCLAIMER* As a Stats teacher, I have to say that there is no such thing as a "random" act of kindness. No coin was flipped, no random number generator was used. The acts are deliberately calculated and chosen, although surprising to the recipient. Ok, rant over.
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A4: From the #nccatgenz game group in NC... Mr. Rogers - always Mr. Rogers... #tlap
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: Just a simple thank you. A note or post it is always appreciated and easy to do. Bringing snacks or food. Giving a helping hand. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: Graduation. When I watch my Ss walk across the stage w/ their diploma I know that our time together in HS was worth every minute. That's when I know our work is complete. #tlap #talktome
  • AKReinking Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3: ask about things outside of school that show you listen, care, and want to know them outside of the professional world. #caring #TLAP
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: @Flood1Tracy and @dsimpsonsimmons were specific in their compliments. Instead of giving a dismissive, "Nice," I heard exactly how I had helped make their lives a little easier. When we are specific with our praise, we are more likely to have repeat performances. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3. Welcoming Ss, P, T in, smile, sharing what Ss are working on, thank them for coming, listen to their stories, share stories! Remind myself who your doing it for, the Ss! #tlap
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4. I have had the most generous human beings as my students. They have sent emails, written me letters, hug me, and use beautiful words. I try to do the same for them. Everyone should feel like someone cares and is willing to show it! #tlap #talktome
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4b When I see those smiles and notes, my heart bursts. My students are my why and I want them to feel valued and loved daily. #talktome #tlap
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    #tlap
    • educatorTHR Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
      A3: Call parents to share something positive - building + relationships #ltap #TalkToMe
      In reply to @mospillman, @burgessdave
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: When students and parents come back to thank you and when they talk about you outside of school in a positive way then I feel validated. Here is one blog that validates what we do: https://t.co/QIAwhBslxR #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3 #TLAP Positive postcards home- different students every week. I love when the receive them and then come in the next day beaming 💥
  • HillaryRB Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: I feel validated when a parent or student recognizes my efforts both inside and outside the classroom to encourage student success. As a parent, I try to send text messages, emails, and notes to my children’s Ts when I see them going above and beyond. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: when I won employee of the year this school year. It was voted on by the entire staff. I can help others feel validated by honoring them in word and deed. Cover a duty or write a quick thank you letter #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4 We must encourage everyone to tell their story. When we make space for people to tell their stories, they know they are valued. #tlap
  • ShenaIBlcps Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    Q2. Continue to be positive with them. Let them know you knowledge their positive impact. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    There's a love language for the workplace but I think you should write a book especially for teachers! :) #tlap
    In reply to @specialtechie, @iluveducating, @burgessdave
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4 We have PRIDE write ups that the staff fills out for Ss. Our principal comes in and announces the recipients each Friday... one day one was announced for me that a Student wrote up. Was great validation! It started a new trend too. #tlap
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    When I combined classes with other teachers/job coaches and they looked at me as a leader and were very receptive to my ideas. Acknowledging ideas/effort before shooting things down, and learning to brainstorm and combine instead of choosing only one idea. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • klubkraker Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3 Positive notes, being fully present making them feel valued. It is not about me it is about them. #TLAP
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: It's giving compliments to a job well done. Even a small learning step. A fist bump can go a long way. #tlap
  • TeacherWinters Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4 - It was unexpectedly being asked to do more by my superior. I just wanted to do a good job and I got more opportunity. I think the same applies to our students. If teachers reward students for their good work with more opportunities rather a gold star, change happens. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    Cleaver idea! A4 #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:30 PM EDT
      Ooo! Videos! That is clever! :)
      In reply to @teachlikeaninja
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: Validated. An E-Mail from a past second grade student this summer! #TLAP #TALKTOME @kimbearden
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    #tlap
    • educatorTHR Jul 16 @ 9:26 PM EDT
      Place anonymous positive comment on classroom doors, notes/treats in mailboxes, pride cards sent to home address #lap #talktome
      In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • DrLMNelson Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    I do, too! Some of the greatest gifts that I have ever received were hand written cards from my students! #TLAP
    In reply to @tamaraletter
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4 a few years back I had a S (at 8th her graduation) tell me thank you for not giving up on me. Talk about feeling beyond validated. #tlap
  • MarciaMentor Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3: when I host a PD I always provide coffee, water & snacks & when possible provide a special lunch, a quality guest speaker like @alicekeeler & of course #dbc books. When I don’t feel appreciated, I smile & do my best to model professionalism #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden, @alicekeeler
  • TheAshleyWarren Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: we can take risks on people....follow their dreams with them and allow them to fly or fail. Either way you’re on a learning journey together so there’s no way to lose!! #TLAP
  • Willmdunn Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3) I’ve never felt I wasn’t their teacher just because the bell rang that ended class. Similarly, even if you’re not on my roster- I still think I’m your teacher. I hope they know it’s because I value them enough to stop engaging with that relationship with them. #tlap
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    someone saying good job, thanking me for the extra time and hard work, acknowledging it #tlap
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4a: When I have former Ss come see me, write to me, or send me a message; that’s pretty validating! A4b: We can validate others by supporting them and advocating for them. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    That takes a LOT of courage, Rachel. I know I have done that in the past and it was with a ton of trepidation. Need to take a deep breath and do it!! #tlap
    In reply to @rcollins_edu
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A3: I think another thing is how at the end of the school year, I put together a 45-minute slideshow of memories and photos and do quite a bit for my Tech Club students by coming up with an amazing overnight trip as well as a competition where they showcase their talents. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Love it A4 #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:29 PM EDT
      WONDERFUL!
      In reply to @iluveducating, @tamaraletter
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A3b: This past year for Thanksgiving week. I hand wrote a thank you to each staff member. It was restorative for my heart to reflect on the good in each of them. #tlap
  • am_vargas Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Q4: A parent came to visit the last day of school. She came to tearfully thank me for the progress her son had demonstrated throughout the year. It brought tears to my eyes. #tlap #talktome
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4: I talked about this in A3, too. We validate others by seeing them, hearing them, respecting them, and lifting up their awesomeness. #tlap
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    When people see the work and content behind our room transformations. Yes they are big and fun but more importantly they are rigorous and require student cooperation and higher thinking. #tlap
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4 - This past year I was awarded most inspiring teacher by our 12th grade students. While it felt good, it was even better to make them happy. #TLAP
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    YES! Love graduation. Love getting to share one last nugget of wisdom with our 8th Graders before they "leave the nest" and head to high school. #tlap
    In reply to @GreatWeissOne
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4: I received a very sweet letter from a P on the last day of school. It was very heartfelt & reflective. It gave me such validation & reaffirmed me belief in what I’m doing. We need to take moments to let others know we believe in them & their work! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Q4 is up and ready to rock! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • jenchitmon Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A2 It takes a concerted effort to focus on positives, esp if it hasn’t been habit. It’s easy to focus on negativity, & social media makes this harder b/c we tend to only see snapshots of “perfect” lives. We must keep perspective & find our marigolds to support us. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4: In all seriousness, when someone verbalizes their validation, it means so much to me. I'd rather that be one-on-one than in a group though. Validation in groups makes me uncomfortable. If I'm doing something right, tell me. I will want to keep doing it. #tlap
  • PrincipalKrantz Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A3 I have my staff fill out a survey with their favorite soft drink and candy bar and keep a stash so that I can give them a cold one or a treat to say thanks or as a pick me up. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4 UNPLUG and FOCUS on the person! Have a real conversation without interruptions and make the time about the other person. #tlap
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: I feel validated when my principal or district RTs my students work. They are very busy people and to know they take the time and appreciate my students hard work is validation enough. Your students hard work is a reflection of you and how you teach. #TLAP
  • jillmclean27 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: It's kind of crazy how an email from a former student saying they appreciated me or still think about our class can keep me floating for weeks. #tlap
  • MrCoachEli Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4 For me it was simply verbal praise or validation from people I respect. I try to be very intentional about being impeccable with my word because words are so powerful. I try to be intentional and consistent w/ recognition and praise #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: I feel validated when parents or students send notes or emails thanking me for something I have done. Words of affirmation go a long way for both students and teachers. #tlap #LULearns
  • kescalante_edu Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A3: Show appreciation by including (teachers, parents, students) in the excitement of learning! Our outcomes improve when we include all stakeholders #tlap
  • DesrosiersEryka Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A2: Once problem is defined, focus on solutions rather than let the problem look bigger than it is by going on and on about it. However, must remain positive in word choice and nonjudgmental: so how can we change the situation...? NOT don’t do that anymore... #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      There are positive and negative motivators behind our everyday interactions. What are some ways to keep focus on the positive motivators while communicating with others? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • AKReinking Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: support in front of higher ups. Ask to collaborate, encourage by providing materials if needed #TLAP
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: When Students, teachers and families are running into school instead of out. When smile abound and you can feel the joy - validation #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: To me the strongest factor in validating is truly listening and engaging in what matters to others. To sit on your own thoughts and allow that moment to be gifted. That moment of full attention and meaningful eye to eye contact is priceless! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • tamaraletter Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    I like a mix of both! Sometimes my acts of kindness are very deliberate and other times they just happen in the moment! It’s a happy mix of joy either way! #tlap
    In reply to @daleyscience, @jasongriffinccs
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    All a part of building those crucial relationships. #tlap.
    In reply to @mrsjeagon
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    You're the queen of validation! Any comment or message I've sent you, you've responded, which is special because you are one busy lady. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4. When someone uses your work in their classroom, it is the nicest feeling. I love it when people want to incorporate one of my ideas. I always try to tell the person whose idea I am using. It is nice to know that you have been helpful. #TLAP
  • walkchrysj Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4 Ways we make our team members feel validated is by recognizing them with specificity, finding out if they like to be recognized publicly or privately, and how they like to be recognized. Shows that we value their contribution to the team & remembered their preference #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • cheryljglasser Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: The best validations for me are those that specifically state what actions I took that made a difference. Anyone can say "You're great". It's better to say the reasons why. #tlap
  • LKapuchuck Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4:When I became principal, I got a hand written letter from a student that made me cry. She wrote abt the monthly read alouds I do in classrooms & the special lunches we had- w/ music of course! All in everyday for my Ss & school & the kids know it! #tlap #talktome
  • Ruby_SneakersRT Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A3. A true act of kindness is done when nothing is expected in return. By spreading kindness two people benefit, the one receiving & the one giving it! Appreciate the gift you’ve given yourself. Face to face compliments is my personal favorite way to show appreciation! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: It has to be genuine. I don't like public praise. #bereal #tlap
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4 So this happened today. A teacher was working in her room & came by the office to talk. She said she wanted to give me a hug. She was excited about where our school was headed & wanted to thank me. That felt pretty good. A great reminder for me to do the same for others. #TLAP
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    #TLAP
    In reply to @k_callahan4
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: Last week I wrote a proposal for FLEX camp @elonuniversity @Elon_Ed I put in many hours and felt really good when my professor gave me feedback! #ElonEd #MED523 #tlap #talktome @aprilpatton257 @Jonesa7Jones @boggess_carol @scomorrison
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: I got a written message from a kid that was clearly not perfunctory or one she had sent to just any old teacher. The kid had had a terrible semester that included testifying in court in a molestation case. I didn't think I did anything special...:) #tlap
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: Working with Ss is the validation everyday in teaching. Seeing Ss sense of accomplishment, and letting hem own their own learning is a great validation too. #TLAP
  • Jonesa7Jones Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    #tlap A4. Validation can come in as simple as a smile or short email. I try to lift my colleagues as often as I can! #ElonEd #MED523
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4 Agreed. Validation does go far, but people need to be careful, because actions speak louder than words. I'm not a fan of people who validate your thoughts and say you have great ideas, but then do the complete opposite, like they didn't even listen. #PetPeeve #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4 💙💖💚💛 This quote by @smgaillard in #ThePepperEffect says it all... L I S T E N We all feel validated when someone truly listens to us, especially when they L.I.S.T.E.N. 👇✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
  • Mrjonresendez Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: Appreciation is about you. Validation is about them. To validate, you have to know what they are passionately striving for and acknowledge, understand and celebrate it systematically. #tlap
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4 I received this email a week ago from a Ss I taught in 1999 and 2001 (2nd &4th grade). I will keep it forever! #Appreciation #TLAP #TALKTOME
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4 I feel validated when colleagues or members of my PLN say “tell me more about...”. When people notice the good that I’ve done or the risks I’ve taken, it fills my soul and grows the fire within me to keep going! #tlap
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    Love this! Students make the best storytellers. #tlap #LULearns
    • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:31 PM EDT
      A4 We must encourage everyone to tell their story. When we make space for people to tell their stories, they know they are valued. #tlap
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    I was chosen as beginning teacher of the year at the first high school I taught at. I was selected by the administration and my peers. That year was my hardest year of teaching by far and it was beyond awesome to be validated by those around me #tlap
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    The word validation comes from Latin, the root word also is used for: I am healthy, I am strong, I am worthy Take that into consideration when building others up -- you're making them feel healthy, strong, worthy. #tlap #talktome
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4b - Spread love, respect and a willingness to make each person’s day better. #TLAP
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: I have been lucky this year with many positive moments of feeling validated and appreciated. This wasn't always my work experience and having had the opportunity to move into a positive culture situation is what propels me to make sure others feel the same way. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • 2ndGradeMama Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A3: SAY~ THANK YOU for specific reasons and SAY I appreciate ___ I show appreciation: Ts ➡️Random Act of Kindness (notes/gifts/emails) Ss ➡️ brag 📝 , + office referrals, 1:1 conference, ☎️ 🏠 Ps ➡️ ☎️ 🏠, thank you letter, notes, newsletter #TalkToMe #tlap
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: I felt validated when my sensational scientists from last year came in on a Saturday to celebrate science and review our standards from over the course of the year. I love how my school let me make this a possibility-- and how they had faith in me. #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: When parents, students and teachers stand up at board meetings to share the story of your school = validations #tlap
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: Relationships with students (when they thank you for being there every day), with teachers (when you just have dinner together and share life both schools and personal), and parents (when you go over our conference time just talking about what’s new with them) #tlap
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    It is the best when the validation comes from the kids. They are the ones that matter the most. #tlap
    In reply to @Shapiro_WTHS
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    Q4. Recently a colleague was struggling, someone observed our conversation & sent me an email thanking me for being such a good friend. I was deeply moved by their acknowledgement. I strive to be this for as many people as I can be-to see, support & validate. #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    Pure bliss! #TLAP #TALKTOME
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • PrincipalKrantz Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    It is not about us. That is an important belief. #tlap
    In reply to @JayBilly2
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    True, true, as long as kindness is in your veins, doesn't matter how it happens. #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter, @jasongriffinccs
  • jillmclean27 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    #tlap Yep, this takes courage. But if we want our students to listen to feedback and grow, then we need to listen too.
    In reply to @teachermike72, @rcollins_edu
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: I'm sure there are a couple in the last 21 years, but the one that sticks out is a letter from a parent thanking me for years of work with a severely dyslexic boy along with an invite to his HS graduation. I still have it hanging! #TLAP If you appreciate it, tell them!
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4 When someone I look up to and really want to make proud, tells me they are proud of something specific I've done to help others. That makes me feel validated. Or, of late--feedback on my book (good and critical...both make me feel like I have purpose) #tlap #TalkToMe
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4 @Milken educator award was a big deal. To be honest though, I learned through that network to seek out like minded individuals and it has been a personal renaissance to my resolve and creativity. That shocked face though! #tlap
  • jdeek Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    #TLAP A3 - This always comes back to having a relationship. You understand what is the best way to praise and encourage. Has to be personal or it’s meaningless.
  • paul_emerich Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    It's good to know everyone's "love language" #tlap
  • PStepko Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    The biggest reflective factor I take into consideration for parents and students ...Have I communicated with them the positive and highlighted achievements and growth? As this is the piece which builds trust, relationships, reflection and growth for all. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • tb2boyz Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: validation by sharing ideas FROM others TO others #tlap
  • DrLMNelson Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4. It's such an exhilarating, yet humbling experience to have old Ss come to share their success in college/career!And say THANK YOU!#tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kescalante_edu Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4: Offer specific feedback, rather than a generic comment showing appreciation. #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    #tlap I really appreciate when Ss genuinely thank me for not teaching them but for teaching them how to think and teach themselves-they share anecdotes of HS & college where this skill proved useful- they always say- I understand now why you forced me to figure it out on my own
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4 Sincere feedback is what showed me that what I did for colleagues was appreciated. Not empty praises. Makes it worthwhile when you know you’re helping someone. #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4: I feel validated when my PLC listen to my ideas. I can have very off the wall ideas and them just listening is enough for me. :) I love hearing their ideas as well. #TLAP
  • TeacherRunner42 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    a4: best validation I get is when my dyselxic students choose to handwrite me a thank you note. it's amazing. #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    It’s helped me as a reminder on various occasions 😉 #TLAP
    In reply to @k_callahan4
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    YES! #tlap
    • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
      A4: I'm sure there are a couple in the last 21 years, but the one that sticks out is a letter from a parent thanking me for years of work with a severely dyslexic boy along with an invite to his HS graduation. I still have it hanging! #TLAP If you appreciate it, tell them!
      • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
        Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • WallerALPHApack Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4: I feel the most validated when I receive positive feedback from my Ss. The beautiful letters, notes, cards, pictures they give me make my heart full of love for them and my job. We have the best and most impacting jobs next to parents in the world! The kids validate! #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    It sounds like your school is exactly this! I loved reading about @TaraMartinEDU's visit to @SlackwoodSchool! Sounds like such a magical place! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @JayBilly2, @TaraMartinEDU, @SlackwoodSchool
  • jamesvarlack Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4 Just by connecting with them...it's no surprise that many Ts, Ss, and leadership go days without having a meaningful conversation with someone...we have to be connected to each other #TLAP
  • teachlikeaninja Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A3: I love to give out video shoutouts called Tweetups after my daily announcement videos showcasing awesome things students have done. https://t.co/uuwOsnWnRH #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    It's just painful when you get it at the end of the year and then have to think about it all summer. I know we get to implement changes the next year, but it still can feel like a lost opportunity. #tlap
    In reply to @jillmclean27, @rcollins_edu
  • walkchrysj Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    This is an important point, Kristin. Leaders must be purposeful with not only engaging in conversations with team members but specifically referencing how they have used the team members input in later decisions @daleyscience #tlap
  • sew1080 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4 I think you have to know how people want to be validated. Some might want an email or note, others would prefer a public shout out. #tlap
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    I recieved cards from teachers after the year was over thanking me for pushing them to do things out of their comfort zone. It was in their growth that I felt validation. #tlap
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    Things that you do oh so well, Tamara! So thankful to have you on this crazy journey called life!!! #tlap
    In reply to @tamaraletter
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    This is awesome! #tlap #lulearns
    • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:33 PM EDT
      A4: When Students, teachers and families are running into school instead of out. When smile abound and you can feel the joy - validation #tlap
  • HowardKiyuna Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4: I sent home a math problem to use specific digits & make the largest #. Ss next day, "I broke [the spreadsheet]". Coworker, "No you didn't!" I corrected the Tr privately. The Ss was right. We must be in this to celebrate & make others great or we are missing the pt. #tlap
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    Come on, YES! Validation in groups basically invalidates the action. When you go to a baseball game and Javier Baez makes a good play, you don't praise the team. You cheer for Baez who made the grab and you tell others why it was remarkable. #tlap
    • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
      A4: In all seriousness, when someone verbalizes their validation, it means so much to me. I'd rather that be one-on-one than in a group though. Validation in groups makes me uncomfortable. If I'm doing something right, tell me. I will want to keep doing it. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    At RCA, students are not allowed to raise their hands while another student is speaking. I love this because they must focus on what is being said, not what they want to say. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    At RCA, students are not allowed to raise their hands while another student is speaking. I love this because they must focus on what is being said, not what they want to say. This hesitation strengthens their ability to listen. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A4: One is my more difficult students told me the year after teaching him that he was going to invite me to his Harvard graduation. Validation ten fold! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A4: I had a teacher send me an email. He had seen great improvements this year and was thanking me for sharing my learning and ideas with him throughout the year. He was the heart and soul of that room, but it made what I try to do feel validated and my heart sang. #tlap
  • MarciaMentor Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    Q4: the last time I was validated was at a board meeting, my boss said some nice things about me; it made me feel like all my hard work was finally noticed. Recognizing people in public or around their peers is something most people like.#TLAP
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    It's pretty special. Thank you #tlap
  • Teachintjay Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A4:Last year I had just finished a small group working with words lesson and this little fellow looks up and genuinely says"Thank you Mr. J for that wonderful lesson.I understand it now because you are a wonderful teacher"It was raw and real.We can make others feel it too. #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    Girl we shop in the same section... have a pair! ♥️ #LoveThoseShoes #tlap
    In reply to @AnnickRauch
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    Congrats to @kimbearden for being the #1 new release in "Schools & Teaching" on @amazon on 1st day of release!!! This incredible book will help you communicate more effectively. https://t.co/mk4l6qpFky #tlap #LeadLAP @dbc_inc @burgess_shelley @TaraMartinEDU
  • DesrosiersEryka Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A3: Talking w/ each other is underrated. Bonding w/ Ss+coworkers by asking questions and getting to know them on a daily basis makes all the difference. Plus, we often think we aren’t appreciated, but sometimes just talking makes you realize that person had a lot going on! #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • WentzvillePRE Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    I worked in my building as a 5th grade teacher, hired as AP by a panel of my peers, then they selected me as their principal! I can’t let these people down! #TLAP
  • DrLMNelson Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A4.We can help foster this feeling in others by challenging them to go beyond their comfort zones to experience success on new levels! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A5. Give them time to think before speaking. Make the conversations genuine. Don't look for stock answers or something just to move along the discussion. We need to model this sort of time, as well, so I try not to rush answers to them myself. #tlap
  • smgaillard Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    Thanks for the shoutout during #tlap, Kim! Visible Listening is a sincere form of validation. Appreciate you, Pal. #ThePepperEffect #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    A4: Recieving the #tlap award from my P, at a board meeting, & having my principal read what the P-I-R-A-T-E stood for and how I manifested those daily. That let me know that what I did was noticed, & was shared with the board. To some degree, we can do that w/Ss.
  • TracyMailloux Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4 Some of the most meaningful validations come from former Ps. Thank yous in following yrs are huge. Makes you realize the impact we have. #tlap
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4: Additionally, we cannot let awesomeness go unnoticed. We need to thank/celebrate others. By not focusing on competition, being cookie-cutter, and the end result (end of year exams), we focus more on teachers' creativity, risk-taking, and unique learning environments. #tlap
  • TraskMSMedia Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    Lisa SLMC @traskbears. What an amazing chat to creep in on. 😂 #TLAP
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4: Any gesture of acknowledgement goes a long way: a card, a visit from a former student, a quick email letting me know I made a difference. I try to make sure to celebrate the positive and validate even the authentic negative vulnerability that someone shares. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4. One of the P had thanked me for taking the time to spend with the Ss working on the STEM activities which were different from their normal science class activities! #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    It can make all the difference!! #tlap
    In reply to @MarciaMentor, @kimbearden
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4 I have felt most validated when something I’ve done with students is mentioned specifically in a compliment or conversation. It is nice to know they are noticing what I’ve been working on. Therefore, I try to be specific when praising #tlap
  • CRCarter313 Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A5: We start our opinion writing unit off by defending our opinions ORALLY by learning RESPECTFUL conversation starters... especially when we may be in disagreement with someone else’s opinion! Listening is KEY to a successful conversation with effective communication! #TLAP
  • Willmdunn Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4) I’ve reached the point now that when I sit down in my admins office and say, “I have this crazy idea that...” and he cuts me off and says, “Go for whatever it is, just be clear and upfront with everyone, especially parents.” That’s validation. #tlap
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A5: Stick to the facts in conversation. Pause and clarify before continuing. Don't assume what the other person is thinking. That's so hard for me! Give Ss opportunities to engage in conversation. Model conversation. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    Agreed. It MUST be sincere. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @daleyscience
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4 When coaches or Ts I lead begin to own or develop new methods of teaching/leading--bc of our conversations or encouragement or the two of us crushing goals together--love that! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A5 we hold daily morning meetings where students discuss the topic of the day with a partner then share each other’s thoughts with the class. It requires them to actually listen to what the other person is saying! #tlap
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4 I recently felt validation when a former student reached out to me and told me that they were going to college. Don’t take what we do for granted because we will grant opportunities for Ss to achieve their dreams! #TLAP
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    That is an awesome rule that can teach some powerful lessons. #TLAP #LULearns
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:36 PM EDT
      At RCA, students are not allowed to raise their hands while another student is speaking. I love this because they must focus on what is being said, not what they want to say. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4 : I feel validated when parents, grandparents, students, or colleagues are continuing to use what I have shared or taught them. My favorite is when students email me about the books they are reading two years later. #tlap #BringEdLife
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A5 I love having students practice within the four walls of their safety net. I also know our students watch our every interaction. Therefore, we have to model and do what we’re asking our students to do. #talktome #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4 #TLAP I was teaching a science summer camp a few weeks ago and another teacher I just met said to me- I read your blog & follow you on Twitter, you inspire me - I was taken a back- I felt humbled and honored
  • educatorTHR Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A4: Announce appreciations at staff meetings, public meetings, in newsletters and every chance you get. Leaders put others before themselves. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A5: taking the first weeks of school to build relationships will set the foundations for great conversation for the school year #tlap
  • smgaillard Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    One of my favorite #EduGIFs by you, Kim. #ThePepperEffect #TalkToMe #tlap #CelebrateKim
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    A5: This past year I received a #GreatDreamsNeedGreatTeachers letter that was submitted on my behalf. Colleagues wrote about how much they appreciated how much I had done for them, I was speechless & so honored. We need others to know when they’ve done something we value #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • MiddleMsGus Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A4: By being a mirror of their efforts. Sometimes it can be difficult to see the impact of the work that we do. Show them! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Auen_Ed_Tech Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A4: Most of the memories that come back are from students thanking me for listening and caring. Think that answers the second question too. #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    Q5 has arrived! Join @kimbearden in #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Jonesa7Jones Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    #tlap A5 I like the hesitation part...teaching the thoughtful waiting for otherd to finish their thought or just get thier thoughts out! #ElonEd #MED523
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A5: Talking chips. Sentence starters. “Rules” for conversations, like during philosophical chairs or Socratic seminars... teaching these skills through specific guidelines. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • DesrosiersEryka Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    And sometimes that’s all they needed! #TLAP
    In reply to @_on11
  • wiecheln Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    Nate from Michigan jumping in late for a bit here! #TLAP
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A5. Lean forward, make eye contact, listen, remain silent to let them collect their thoughts, ask for clarification, summarize...but let them speak...no filter...no editing...just speak from the heart. #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    Nice! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @jordanhohm
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    modeling, role play, opportunities to practice #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A5 I use Number Talks to initiate meaningful discourse. It spreads beautifully throughout the day. We also practice a #growthmindset daily. #TLAP #TALKTOME
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    As @JayBilly2 showed in his blog post, it’s the letters and notes of appreciation that make me and the work I do feel validated. It’s better than any material gift. #TLAP
  • kmurfitt1 Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    I ask for students to listen for something specific that challenged their thinking, expanded their thinking, or changed their thinking. Then, I give them different opportunities to say who and what specifically impacted them. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A3: Forgot about this! I also have my students demonstrate their appreciation by taking time out of our class period to affirm one another. I teach them about what affirmations are and how they make others feel. #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A4: This past year I received a #GreatDreamsNeedGreatTeachers letter that was submitted on my behalf. Colleagues wrote about how much they appreciated how much I had done for them, I was speechless & so honored. We need others to know when they’ve done something we value #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A4 We had our accreditation this year and that was hugely validating as a leader. Without us in the room Ps, Ts and Ss all told the team how much they loved our school and felt like a family. Validation for all! #tlap
    • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:34 PM EDT
      A4: When parents, students and teachers stand up at board meetings to share the story of your school = validations #tlap
  • TraskMSMedia Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    Focus on what they do well. Work with their strengths. #TLAP #nhcschat
    • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:12 PM EDT
      A1: When talking to students, I remember that they are someone else's little boy or little girl. I need to treat them with honor. When speaking to other adults, I need to remember that like me, they make mistakes, and are on a journey to greatness. #tlap
      • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
        What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: Model, practice, discussion. #tlap
  • MrsMonty5thGrd Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    Check out @TaraMartinEDU's Be REAL. She stresses we need a balance. We want to inspire our Ss to not only learn - but to LOVE learning! Powerful! #REALedu #buncee #edchat #educhat #LeadLAP #tlap #BookSnaps #inspire #Bunceechat https://t.co/eKhP8hLroB
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: definitely practice their listening skills. Meaningfully listening without interrupting is difficult for my students sometimes. By listening they learn to gather their thoughts t carefully curate and form their opinions and share them with others. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • walkchrysj Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5 We see the clarification piece often emerge in the peer mediation process. S leaders are given opportunities to guide their peers through conflict resolution. Part of this requires Ss to state their understanding of other Ss perspectives and develop reasonable solutions. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5 This brings to mind the idea of “wait time” that works so well with #ell and #sped students. You pose a question. Wait. They respond. Wait again. Helps so much. And teaches you patience! 😆 #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: Random name generators, wait time, accountable talk questions, backing up with evidence, 1-on-1 peer and group discussions...modeling w Ss and other Ts. Provide many opportunities to work on conversation daily! They should be talking more than we are any day! #TLAP #talktome
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A4: I feel validated when other teachers at school request me for their children. It shows me that they see and appreciate my efforts and passion. To make others feel this way, give credit where credit is due even if it is something minute. WeAllDeserveIt #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • AKReinking Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: morning meetings, positive classroom culture, conversations, #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    Q5 is UP! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • MrWellsScience Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A4: This. Received it last month from a (now former) student, and it still chokes me up. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5 Listen, pause, reflect, share thoughts, repeat! #TLAP
  • happyteacherguy Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A4: I’m just crazy about this question. We work with human beings. They bring all of their personhood to work. Fears, dreams, need for belonging, desire for recognition. We can validate them by letting then know they are “enough”. #tlap https://t.co/RMLH1ZKs5V
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    #tlap
    • educatorTHR Jul 16 @ 9:32 PM EDT
      A3: Keep a folder of positive notes given to you and look at it on tough days #ltap #TalkToMe
      In reply to @mospillman, @burgessdave
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: Teach methods of engagement before class discussion. Make sure that students agree on what respectful, meaningful dialogue is first. Then, move forward and practice. #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    The best is a thank you #tlap
    • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:38 PM EDT
      As @JayBilly2 showed in his blog post, it’s the letters and notes of appreciation that make me and the work I do feel validated. It’s better than any material gift. #TLAP
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: I use hesitation, and instead of instantly responding, I let it stay quiet for a second and often times, students start to solve their own problem once they hear their thoughts out loud. So they think I gave them advice, but really they figured it out on their own! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5- We use accountable talk that help them learn how to respectfully agree or disagree by listening & stating facts, information from the conversation. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • wiecheln Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A4: I have felt validated when smy admin and other Ts notice, and comment, on the hard work I do and the successes I have. Noticing what others do, and commenting on it, can do wonders! #TLAP
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5: Showing interest, letting them lead the conversation, asking questions, NOT giving advice right away, and just listening. And helping students learn that it is not always about them. #tlap #talktome
  • Ruby_SneakersRT Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A4. Recently a student told me they helped another student reconnect during a challenging time by coaching them through it with a mindfulness strategy learned with me. It’s so important to share with students & staff that the work they are doing is being seen and heard. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    Thanks! Not always good at it, but I know what I should be doing! #tlap
    In reply to @spqrmiguel
  • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    5) To help me participate I try to get up from behind my desk and sit WITH whoever is speaking to me. My desk can be a barrier or a designation of power. Sitting WITH as opposed to across FROM makes a huge difference. #tlap
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5 Modeling! Set the example for your students, have high expectations, let them know that failure is something to be expected and encouraged, great conversations will follow! #TLAP
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5: My big thing is teaching students how to be active listeners. They need to consider EVERYONE'S contributions. I model to students how I am an active listener and conversationalist. Respect is pivotal. #tlap
  • errinjennings Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A3: I’m always looking for new ways and ways to do better. I believe it has to be authentic and a good combo of the little things done consistently throughout the yr & some big WOW celebrations of appreciation during holidays and appreciation weeks. Finally, schedule it! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5 I like giving students the opportunity for “turn and talks” so everyone feels they have the chance to come up with a contribution to the conversation or discussion and then come back as a whole group to share #tlap
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5: I love doing some of the assignments I give students. I’ll just sit down with a dif group as we’re working and chat with them about anything and everything. It’s definitely important to just ask a Q and then listen and nod your head sometimes. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    Oh role playing is great! Love that you brought that up. #tlap
    In reply to @docvs1
  • ItsAMrY Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    #tlap No "comma dumb-ass" Meaning, pay attention to your tone when responding to a fellow S. Don't answer in a tone that sounds like it could be followed with ", dumb-ass." Also, make sure to respond to previous comment rather than ignore it and give your own idea.
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5. Using names frequently and purposefully! #tlap #talktome
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5 I'm a big kid and can hold my own in most video game and comic book conversations and I often relate them to the work we do in the class. In homeroom, I try to have convos about @CNN10 #tlap
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: With the early elementary grades we have thinking time before we can raise our hands and we put our hands down when someone else is speaking so we can focus on listening. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • spqrmiguel Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A4: Our school was not performing to the level of expectations three years ago and now it is one of the top performing schools in Laredo and in our district. As for validation, it is our teachers that made the difference. As a principal, it is not about me but our children.#TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    Awww....so sweet. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @MrWellsScience, @kimbearden
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: In Kindergarten, we practice speaking to each other for our morning meeting. We take turns walking up to each other, looking them in the eyes, sharing something kind about them, listening, and responding. #tlap #lulearns
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5. I intentionally teach communication skills because many don't have them. I use structures like Socratic Seminar and Visible Thinking Debating protocols to help build their capacity to communicate effectively. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: being intentional about the language I use, making sure I provide appropriate wait time when I ask a question (speed doesn’t equal intelligence), throw in some “so what you’re saying is...” #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: I start with the students interest. You have to show you care about them and their thoughts. They can tell if you are faking it. “Be Real” @TaraMartinEDU with them. Develop strong relationships and they will come to you when they need you! They will feel safe. #TLAP
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5 Reading this, I feel like maybe I haven’t learned good conversation techniques. :(. Is hesitation similar to “wait time”? I feel like I need a refresher and maybe some actual conversations, lol #TLAP
  • WallerALPHApack Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: I love using Socratic Seminar to teach kids how to communicate with one another. This entails active listening, asking questions of others, making clarifying statements, and how to agree and disagree effectively. They have to learn to talk to each other w/meaning! #tlap
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5 - 10 second rule. Wait 10 seconds while a student answers. Also, we use the I’m done rule. Wait for any person to be done before speaking. #TLAP
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: I think I need to read the book before I can respond meaningfully to that one, but those are excellent strategies in and of themselves! #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    KEY!!! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @jordanhohm
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5 I try to ask they questions that require them to give me their thoughts, feelings and perspectives. I want to hear their voices #TLAP
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: I really like the idea of teaching Ss not to raise their hand while one of their classmates are speaking. No one likes to feel rushed or get cut off, even kids. Its also a great exercise in patience. #tlap
  • jenchitmon Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A3 When showing appreciation to others, try to notice efforts or qualities that might otherwise get overlooked & spotlight these with one-on-one conversations, emails, or post-its. When feeling unappreciated, Ts have to reflect on + moments & future goals. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • am_vargas Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: In kindergarten, I teach students to build on each other's ideas and follow the conversation by looking at the speaker, adding information or giving feedback. Build respect in the classroom. Everyone is an integral part of the classroom community! #tlap #talktome
  • Mrs_Boecke Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: Teaching students to disagree and challenge others' ideas respectfully is crucial! This can also carry over into PLC meetings with other educators. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    That wait time is so important, right? #tlap
    In reply to @jasongriffinccs
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: Stop, look, listen to understand. Giving someone your complete attention shows you value them and their thoughts. #tlap
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: I teach my students to keep eye contact with the speaker and to stay focused on what they are saying. I also remind them how important it is to not interrupt! #tlap #ElonEd #MED523 #talktome
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    I agree. It is better to sit among the students if you are going to be sitting at all. #TLAP
    In reply to @daveschmittou, @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    That is something I want to get better at! #tlap
    In reply to @jordanhohm
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: Teaching your students how to have conversations in the classroom is so important! Eye contact, listen, share, and more. Give students a chance to practice. #TLAP #LULearns
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: We used Kagan collaboration strategies for meaningful whole group discussions. We have sentence stems on the wall with things like “to add to what you said”, we model appropriate conversation skills. #tlap
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    That was such an impressive part of the RCA visit! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: I stick to a “3 Before Me” philosophy where Ss nurture their relationships with others before coming to me. They must see 3 classmates before seeing me. This builds trust in peers in place of thinking I am the all be it in their world. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • ShenaIBlcps Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    Q4. My validation comes through the Lord. The word of God reminds me "whatever I do, do it as until the Lord." #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: My Ss do most of the talking in my classroom, so I feel it is important to make sure that they practice the art of communication/conversation. We practice engaging in mature listening and responding and analyze the outcomes through meta cognitive reflection. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KnightsWhoTeach Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A4: Both of us were asked to mentor first year teachers this year and host education majors for their senior field exp. This validates our passion for growing kids and the profession. My goal is to be a source of validation for kids this year. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: When students are getting to share their passions they don't hesitate to participate, hesitate to clarify, provide more informatioin and make sure that their points are clear #tlap
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5 It is really hard not to call out a student for being disruptive or distracting to the clas. Finding ways to re-work the behavior by having this kind of conversation benefits everyone. It takes work though, at least for me. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5: I use the moves I know as a coach when conferring with students. This lets them know I'm listening and there to support, but also empowers them to find the answers within. https://t.co/sWLRNXPnH6 #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    #tlap Weekly 1-min check in w/ every student-I intently & purposefully listen, make eye contact, ask probing questions- model these skills. This also builds trusting & respectful relationships. I lean in & really pay attention & I tell them-paying attention is deeply listening
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5b I give them the time they need if they aren’t ready we can come back to it when they are. I try to never interrupt and be understanding and supportive #TLAP
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5: I also demonstrate hesitation because sometimes our own contributions need to "bake", and it is better to think for a moment than give a fast, immediate response. #tlap
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5. Give Ss time to reflect before answering questions! Ss need time to think about responses in order to participate in discussions and also form arguments! Depending what your working on! Ss voices leading! #tlap
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5 We end our days in a circle at the carpet just discussing our day and current events. This is a great opportunity for modeling, opinions, and for practice with conversational respect. #tlap
  • mellomama6 Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    I made a "rainy day box" for each of my teachers to keep cards, notes, pictures from students, parents, staff for times when they were struggling. Helps you remember your why. #tlap
    In reply to @educatorTHR, @mospillman, @burgessdave
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    Modeling being an ACTIVE listener is KEYYY!! #tlap #lulearns
    • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
      A5: My big thing is teaching students how to be active listeners. They need to consider EVERYONE'S contributions. I model to students how I am an active listener and conversationalist. Respect is pivotal. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    This is important well beyond kindergarten. Thank you for starting them early! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @am_vargas
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    Modeling is such a great idea! I teach Kindergarten and would love to have some older elementary students model good conversations! #tlap #LULearns
    • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
      A5 Modeling! Set the example for your students, have high expectations, let them know that failure is something to be expected and encouraged, great conversations will follow! #TLAP
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    I always love hand written notes over gifts - any day!! #tlap
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon, @JayBilly2
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5 Clarification. That is my go-to. Paraphrasing to make sure I hear them correctly and am on the same page. I love it when they say--"No, not that...(and then clarify)" Paraphrasing is powerful. #tlap #TalkToMe https://t.co/ubHBSdXV8n
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    silent pause and listening, oh so important, but somehow we seem to feel stressed by empty space #tlap
    • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:40 PM EDT
      A5: Showing interest, letting them lead the conversation, asking questions, NOT giving advice right away, and just listening. And helping students learn that it is not always about them. #tlap #talktome
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    A5 ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ CREATE A CONVERSATION CULTURE Sometimes the littlest things make the largest impact! I love pushing aside the tables and opening up the floor for circle conversations and collaborative sharing. ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
  • walkchrysj Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    True, Jason. Reflection is integral for our Ss to engage in strategic learning. It's imperative that we guide our Ss on how to engage in purposeful reflection, so that they will use the information from mistakes and successes to strengthen their learning @jasongriffinccs #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    Q6 for #tlap with @kimbearden
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    Yes! So importent to realize that these skills must be learned!! Model, model, model! #tlap
    In reply to @SawickisSupers1
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    At our staff retreat, we always take time to share our personal journeys— we start with the history of “us,” and each of us shares why we chose to teach or work with kids, what led us to RCA, and how we have grown together while being here. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A5: Provide various ways to participate, talk about what is causing the hesitation, clear up any misconceptions, determine what information is most important to share. Sometimes Ss share individually & others as a collaborative group. Ultimately, talk WITH them not at them. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • DesrosiersEryka Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A4: Receiving personal, handwritten letters from S parents w/ kids in HS about specific things I did for their child that made a difference. Said personal messages to each one of my Ss in front of class to show them I understood them based on things that happened in class #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A5: I learned about using improv strategies with students at an @edtechteam Summit here in SC last year. I can't remember her name... Use "Say yes, and..." Make statements, no mistakes just opportunities. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A5: I incorporate Accountable Talk & Kagan Structures in my classroom! It’s great for building communication skills with my Ss! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A5 During a class discussion I like to allow Ss to sit in silence. I try not to “save” or restart the conversation when it goes silent. #tlap
  • GinnyGills Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    I had the same principal for many years. He allowed me to take risks, both in the classroom and with sponsorships. His thank you’s and his approval for new ideas was validation. He made me have confidence to try and that is a powerful tool. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A5. Teaching Ss the art of the conversation (listening eyes, ears, body, brain, and heart and validation of pts made) is so important - particularly now with social media/texting so often taking the place of verbal communication. #TLAP
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    Yes!! I do this, too! #tlap
    In reply to @nankr1120
  • MeghanASheridan Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    Meghan, from MA. Got home too late from school committee meeting to join in but I can’t wait to read your chat! Thank you!#TLAP
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A6. I delieberately take time to point out the good when I see it. Even if it's something like clapping for a student whose name was broadcast over the PA for scoring a goal, recognizing talent and goodness keep the world a-turning! #tlap
  • apadalino Jul 16 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    Setting the groundwork and expectaion for all is a great idea.#tlap #BringEdLife
    In reply to @noel_hoffmann
  • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    So true. In education, the little things are the BIG things. #tlap
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    go to their games, care about their lives outside of school, and celebrate their successes, talk to parents, email, etc Care about co-workers, acts of kindness, help anyway you can #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    A6: Had the best time celebrating an amazing year in the dunking booth. We celebrate constantly, but this was a highlight for me. #tlap
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    Sounds like a perfect way to bond and make sure that everyone is on the same page in the same book! Love it! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • teachlikeaninja Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    I think it’s all about knowing the person too, because I selfishly love public recognition. #tlap.
    In reply to @iluveducating
  • wiecheln Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    A5: I have started focusing on giving Us more guidance in giving feedback. I like to model and teach how to give constructive and useful feedback. #TLAP
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    You are right! It is an art! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @diane_mackinnon
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    A6) Snapchat pics with the students and teachers are always fun. #tlap
  • jillmclean27 Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    #tlap This happened to me this year and it really took a lot to let things simmer for a while until I could think of a way to make a positive change.
    In reply to @teachermike72, @rcollins_edu
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    A6: Go to a ballgame! Show them you care and celebrate them in everything they do! #tlap
  • Jonesa7Jones Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    #tlap A6 one of the things I do is provide lots of visuals to go w the community practices we are trying to build...we talk about these &, revisit when situations arise.
  • BarbaraGruener Jul 16 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    A5: Howdy #tlap from Barbara in TX. We use the SOLER model from #capturingkidshearts to help students develop their conversational skills. So much non-verbal body language involved in listening to understand.
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A4 #TLAP A pause is a mind upload, this is what I tell my students- so when there is a lull in a class discussion- I say uploading and wait until they are ready to share
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: trying to make school like a positive family atmosphere. I would let students call me by nicknames, some of my favorites: Mr K, Coach K, Klem Shady, Fam #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Most definitely! I don't mind a Twitter kudos, but am so embarrassed by a staff meeting kudos - does that make sense? #tlap
    In reply to @teachlikeaninja
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6 - We do letter writing, daily positive words and Flipgrid videos. Each day we share positive vibes. As for parents, call home early and with only positive calls. #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    I like this, Brandi. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @bmilla84
  • ShenaIBlcps Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Q5. Asking critical thinking questions that require deeper thinking. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Love this idea, Kim!! #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: I do class accomplishment photos. I can't share do to privacy, but I'm taking a cue from @mrmatera and create an accomplishment wall. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6. When my wife and I found out we were going to have this little nugget, my coworkers and principal threw a surprise baby shower and stocked us up on diapers and wipes. No better way to show love and celebrate than to know big events in people’s lives and do it up right! #tlap
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6-invite them to your home! Know their lives! When a parent invites you to their pinning ceremony- you GO! Be involved! #tlap
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Oh it was awesome! I love doing things like this for the kids. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: Our classroom is a COMMUNITY and a FAMILY. We share our stories and celebrate each other and our successes as often as possible. Fun as often as possible. A LOT gets tweeted out for parents. Our staff has monthly get togethers outside of school #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: Cultivating relationships with my Ss is my favorite! We take time daily—no matter what we’re doing—to laugh, share stories, tell jokes, have fun! The important thing is that this starts on Day 1! We are a family from the first day of school to the last. ❤️ #TLAP #talktome
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    This is great when collaborating with colleagues as well! Wait time equals: it’s okay, take time to collect & prepare your thoughts. . . We value what you have to share with us. . .we can wait. . . you’re worth it #TLAP
    In reply to @mospillman
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: passion projects! Let them share things they know. Entertain their randomness. Be open with them and open your classroom up to them. Help them feel comfortable and welcome. Ask about their lives. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • McLane_Ryan Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A5: Kids (and adults) are too quick to respond. Take your time. Think before you speak. Press pause. DON’T HIT SEND. #TLAP
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: we celebrate by enjoying being together. By sharing fun and excitement and by including everyone #TLAP
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: I never just walk by someone in the hallway or office without saying something. Acknowledgement is huge to cultivating relationships. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • MarciaMentor Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Q5: provide opportunities for these skills, model them, practice them, provide various prompts to have Ss experience a variety of situations #tlap
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • whitneegrant Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    I learned this year how teaching kids to use a conversation protocol is helpful to ensure everyone participates, shares information, and encourages others to clarify. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Willmdunn Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A5) I politely disagree and challenge them on ideas. Students often struggle with arguing using reasoning and evidence. I really try to model this as much as possible. #tlap
  • RogerGurganus Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Just finished Book 7 of the #Rogerssummerbooklist2018 This book by @abehege & @adamdovico #LimitlessSchool was FANTASTIC & a great reminder of the AMAZING things happening at my school & gave me some new ideas & tools to keep pushing us in the right direction!! #tlap #Leadlap
  • MeghanASheridan Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    @burgessdave just shared my vision for my curriculum boot camp and everyone is on board with your PIRATE theme and book...thank you for sharing your passion, energy, and enthusiasm #tlap
    In reply to @burgessdave
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    LOVE this. REALness! Yes. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @JoveStickel
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    A6: Celebrate their highs, listen to their lows, love them, encourage them to grow, look for ways you can learn from them, and have fun! #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    This is awesome! Not at all surprised that you would volunteer for this! Total rockstar!✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @iluveducating
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6: If I'm ever out and see something that reminds me of them, I'll either buy it for them or take a picture, depending on the situation. I try to do activities with students outside of school that allows me to get to know them more. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • McEnglish101 Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A5: Emphasizing collaboration & giving students time to communicate w/ peers before blending those ideas into a whole class discussion. I spend a lot of time modeling this to them early in the yr & assist the process as needed to spark/redirect the convos later. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • wiecheln Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6: Be there. #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    I love talking chips. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @KristenDolen
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    Probably not a comfortable simmering, huh? But you did have data to help you take the steps you needed...#tlap
    In reply to @jillmclean27, @rcollins_edu
  • walkchrysj Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6 Cultivating relationships begins with a purposeful investment in time and conversation with our stakeholders. We celebrate the relationships by acknowledging stakeholders supports, efforts, and work in building our momentum to reach the vision of success for all Ss #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6. For us as an alt. ed HS, graduation is the ultimate celebration! One year, we had 2 graduates & 300+ guests! We do monthly celebrations recognizing completed credits, yearly awards for citizenship, as well as Words of Wisdom celebrations when Ss finish. #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    Sharing and celebrating others’ success is beautiful! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @MsGarlisi204
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6: with coworkers, I try to get to know them personally. About their families, hobbies outside of school, etc. Last year, I took a first year teacher out for tacos one day after school because that is his favorite food #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6b - With co-workers it’s about giving praise and going into classrooms. We also celebrate all the great things that happen. #TLAP
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6; When the kids are stressed have a drop everything and talk time. Tell them that you care and then back it up when they need you to listen. Pay attention to their cues. Go to their events outside of the school day & tell them how well they did. Back up words with deeds. #tlap
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6: Show interest in life outside of school-- or even after-school inductions or sports games. I always attend plays at the community theater, tell families about events like Maker Faires, and seek out opportunities for my students to grow. #tlap
  • batool_attiya Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A5: I use reciprocal teaching with my students where they lead discussions on an article. This method covers all components of meaningful conversations among students. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:35 PM EDT
      The components of meaningful conversation include Participation, Hesitation, Information, and Clarification. What are some strategies you use to enhance these skills with students? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6 I go on at least one or two class field trips a school year. Gets me off campus and I also get to build relationships. #tlap
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6 At my school, we LOVE confetti, aka funfetti! Not sure our custodians love it though. 😂 #tlap
  • laurarfarmer Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A5: I ❤️ this and can’t wait to teach my Ss better speaking and listening strategies in this new year. The goal for me is to stay neutral during classroom discussions (more of a guide) #tlap #talktome
  • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    6) These were game changers. As risks were taken, they were acknowledged and celebrated with a Brag Tag. As tags were worn, conversations occurred explaining why, inspiring another risk by another person...and another...and another #tlap
    In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    A6 every year we take our 8th graders to camp for 3 days. We use this to celebrate our Ss accomplishments and growth in middle school. It is something they look forward too from the time they are in 6th grade. The memories they make at camp last forever #KidsDeserveIt #TLAP
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6. Smile, Share stories, Welcome them in. listen to their stories, ask questions, Thank them for coming! #tlap
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A5. Sometimes we assume once students reach a certain age they should be able to carry on a conversation, but I think sometimes adults even need reinforcement especially when involved in face to face interactions. #tlap
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6 We do an activity where every student writes down their favorite memories of the year and puts it in a balloon. Each day we pop one and read the@ to countdown to summer. It’s a great way to reflect on some amazing moments! #tlap
  • wiecheln Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: I've also found Instagram is a great way to interact with kids and their families. #TLAP
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    Yes! Speaking in the hallways is so simple, yet people fail to do it! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @KristenDolen
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6 we give praise, build relationships, and we tell our story on social media, we model this for each other and our kids and we let people know we are proud of their growth #TLAP
  • happyteacherguy Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: Laugh with them. You can’t help but like a person more after you have laughed together. Now you’re connected. Trust is slowly built. You’re on the same team. Laugh! #tlap
  • GreatWeissOne Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: I have no shame! I have done the Ice Bucket Challenge in front of the whole school, been in the musical, dressed up like the Mad Hatter, had an annual dance off at prom, dressed up like a cheerleader for pep rallies... #tlap #talktome
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6 I love using @Seesaw for this! Sending a quick message of validation, celebrating risks & successes, etc. ❤️ the fact that this all gets shared w families who can continue to celebrate at home. It also makes it easy to share more of me with my students & their families #tlap
  • BarbaraGruener Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: We give our teachers the same circle time that we expect them to give their students, so they can feel the benefit of harnessing the power of connection knee to knee, shoulder to shoulder, eye to eye, smile to smile, heart to heart. #tlap
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6 Every year my Ss have a name to live up to. Last year they were called the #Luminaries. The whole school knew who they were and understood the importance of their name. Our class relationship was positive and strong throughout the entire year. #TLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    So sweet. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @jordanhohm
  • NCS_Principal Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: Our faculty really tries to "do life" together in good and bad times. Our in-service and PD days all have an element of team building that focuses on really knowing each other. There's never enough time, but this is too important to ignore! #tlap #talktome
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    Thanks Kim, you're rocking this chat. Nice job #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
      Great pics!
      In reply to @JayBilly2
  • Jonesa7Jones Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    #tlap A6 I also check out lots of literature for students to discover ways to cope with feelings and interactions w others...
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    Thanks! We had a blast! They loved dunking me - I couldn't stop laughing, lol! #tlap
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6 We had some pretty awesome events this year, including our principal in a dunk tank, winning an award from the mayor, Saturday community academies, etc. We need to continue to improve and make education a celebration #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    Q6 is UP! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: I think we celebrate them by continuing to cultivate them as long as we can, in ways that are appropriate and genuine. Relationships that are the deepest don't stop when graduation is over! #tlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A6: Best way I've found is to attend their events: sports, art, music,and club events. By watching the Ss do what they love or are into, it goes a long way with them and with the parents too.Pic below is w/my softball pitcher at a summer game. She rocks. #tlap
  • specialtechie Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    Gotta run! Thanks everyone! #TLAP
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A6: I connect with colleagues over the summer and try to be active in my community so I get to see Ss in different environments over summer too. #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A6: We embrace all moments! If the moment screams for dancing we dance. If someone says they are in the mood for waffles then we make them! Go with the vibe... don’t feel like everything must be planned to perfection or you will miss the ride of a lifetime! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • sandeeteach Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    Fabulous idea! Conversation AND Celebration swag Validation at its finest! #tlap
    • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:47 PM EDT
      6) These were game changers. As risks were taken, they were acknowledged and celebrated with a Brag Tag. As tags were worn, conversations occurred explaining why, inspiring another risk by another person...and another...and another #tlap
      In reply to @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A6: Celebrate with your students, listen to their highs and their lows, help them grow, laugh with them, and have fun! Become a family. #tlap #LULearns
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    You are right. Relationships are an investment! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @walkchrysj
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    #TLAP Parents- coffee house night, invitations to field trips and class activities Students- 1-minute check ins, staying in the power zone not behind my desk, sitting & talking with them. Also after-school clubs is a great way to meet new & stay in contact w/former Ss
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • lmcdonell14 Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A4) we have administrators @bradrobb @MrDomagalski who give feedback that matters. It is real, authentic and guides us. It is positive and meant to matter and build us up not defeat us. I feel like my hard work is noticed and appreciated. That motivates me. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • khoggardGRT Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A3 kind words, notes, texts to coworkers and parents! I continue to look to encourage them in an effort to bring them onboard the positive/productive train! It’s not about my feelings; it’s about being our best for Ss! #tlap #TalkToMe #champforkids
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      How do you show appreciation to your students, coworkers, or parents? How do you remain appreciative when you don’t feel like they appreciate you? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    I do compliment cards with my students! They love shouting out others that they see doing good work, and they really love recognizing others. It definitely builds meaningful relationships in our class! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • MrWellsScience Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A6: In my Biomedical Science class, we celebrated the end of the year with a big breakfast. We invited other teachers, admins, even our school resource officer! We had a huge feast! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    I don’t understand how people don’t lol. I think it’s awkward to walk by someone and NOT say something 😂🤷‍♀️ #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A6) Celebration is the best trait thus far. With students & staff, you celebrate the big gains and the small, personal connection and growth through challenge. Students bring exponential meaning to your work and staff become true friends. #tlap
  • MarciaMentor Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    Q6: always celebrate birthdays, but at our weekly meetings everyone shares how they are, successes& challenges, always make time to help, support others when they need it, team retreat in the mountains, value others ideas #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • MiddleMsGus Jul 16 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    Organized a grade level team appreciation week. Each teacher was a secret "passion patron" for another teacher. (Passion=theme of the yr). Notes, surprises, and gifts secretly delivered all week long. Culminated at an end of week breakfast where all members were honored. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    So true. We often wear “busy” as a badge of honor. What a game changer it would be if we all found the time to smile and celebrate that instead. #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden, @KristenDolen
  • BarbaraGruener Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6a: I also had my daughter draw these feeling tiles, and we put them into the ceiling in our Leadership Lab. That way when there's a conflict either in a story or in real life during our skills time, we can practice emotional literacy to communicate thru issues and grow. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    They will remember that forever! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @MrMarshsClass
  • WentzvillePRE Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    We started the year with “everyone has a story” and I shared my “This I Believe” statement with Staff and then encouraged them to write one and share out at Staff meetings. The goal was to remember we all have a story and then to transfer that reminder to every student. #tlap
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A5 I always try to pause first, just give them time to process, and push their thinking a bit more, #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6: I do compliment cards with my students! They love shouting out others that they see doing good work, and they really love recognizing others. It definitely builds meaningful relationships in our class! #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • ShenaIBlcps Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    Q6. You spend quality with them outside of school hours such as attending events they are participating in and asking them questions to get to know them better. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6: I think it’s so important to recognize the importance of building strong relationships with others! We celebrate growth & success together! We’re one big family! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    I love it! #tlap
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • TeacherRunner42 Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    a6: we have acknowledgements and hurrays at each morning gathering. recognize students and staff for accomplishments #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    #tlap
    In reply to @AnnickRauch
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    Compliment cards are a great way to build your classroom community! #tlap #LUlearns
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6: I used to avoid friend requests from parents on FB. Now I am flattered and gladly accept their requests! It means I care about their family and they get to see a glimpse into my family and other non-principal aspects of my life. #TLAP
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6 There are million ways to build and celebrate relationships! It isn't important how you do it, the important thing is that you do it! ❤️☠️❤️☠️❤️☠️❤️☠️❤️ "Building relationships & rapport with kids is the heart of teaching." -@burgessdave#TalkToMe #TLAP
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6 I love to celebrate 🎉 out in the open. On twitter. In the hallways. At the central office. Tell them now that you appreciate them. 🤗 #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Auen_Ed_Tech Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6: Show them you care about their personal loves. All questions and really listen, go to their extra curriculars, talk to them about them. Ask about coworkers families, hang out. #TLAP
  • jenny_rathjen Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6: I make it a point to ask them about their extra curricular activities! I attend as many events as I can to show them I care about what is important to them! #ElonEd #MED523 #tlap #talktome #iceskating
  • jasongriffinccs Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    Heading out early #TLAP. Thank you @kimbearden for an engaging chat!
  • PrincipalSJV Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    Thanks Smolchaji! Hey this INCLUDES getting to see @ValeriaBrownEdu FOR FREE, if you're able to get to Jacksonville you should definitely go, it'll be worth the trip! #FitLeaders #principalsinaction #JoyfulLeaders #LeadLAP #dadsasprincipals #kidsdeserveit #BetheOne #tlap
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6: Be genuine and real. See students, colleagues, etc. as real people and let them see you as one, too. Take time to pause and celebrate the awesome things happening whenever possible—there is so much to celebrate if you take the time to notice. #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    Love the pink! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @AustinELA8, @SteinbrinkLaura, @LeachTeach4, @sew1080, @mhayes611, @mlarson_nj
  • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    #5) communication is so much more than just verbal. #TLAP My friend, @BrianMendler made me this poster to honor a challenge I presented to my teachers daily.
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    Love your #EduGIFs, Kim! So cool! I've GOT to go read that guest blog and learn how to create them! #tlap
    • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:50 PM EDT
      A6 There are million ways to build and celebrate relationships! It isn't important how you do it, the important thing is that you do it! ❤️☠️❤️☠️❤️☠️❤️☠️❤️ "Building relationships & rapport with kids is the heart of teaching." -@burgessdave#TalkToMe #TLAP
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6: Celebrate by spending time outside of the classroom together and supporting their interests: Reading books together, being a band-fan, going to parties and Disneyland together, or practicing for Facutly vs. Seniors game at Dave & Buster’s. I have SO much fun! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    Q7 is up!! #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    LOVE IT!!! These are adorable and awesome! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    I intentionally seek relationships with those who have walked a different path. I also read works written by those who have a different perspective, and I constantly strive to understand through meaningful, loving dialogue with others. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A6: Remind one another of our why. This wonderfully funny crew had just spent two hours playing with students after-school. They teach school and work in our after-school program each year! #tlap
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    Yes, it means so much to kids when you show an interest in their outside lives! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    be totally real and be willing to be their go to when they need something from day one, they open up--listen with empathy, support them, highlight positives, engage #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A6. We clap and hug, we cheer, we have formal celebrations and informal-You-deserve-a-special-lunch - celebrations. There are whole group, small group, and individual celebrations all year. #tlap #talktome
  • perrymanclass Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A7 Home visits! Last year was my first year doing this and it really helped to understand my students on a deeper level #tlap
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
  • craigklement Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A7: biggest thing is to spend time asking questions and showing genuine interest #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A7: Previous school, I use to do a "after class" when we do mini projects and talk about backgrounds to build out ideas. Miss that. #tlap #TALKTOME
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A6 spend time getting to know them, engaging Ss in diff events to share their work, welcoming families in, keeping connected and share the work being done by Ss and also of peers #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    Food always finds friends! YUM! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @MrWellsScience, @kimbearden
  • GuysBride Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A7-Asking them to share more about it! Ss love to talk about themselves. When you seek to understand a student, they feel that & it builds a bond! They know they are valued, seen & part of a bigger community. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    I am hoping to get rid of my desks this year so that I can inspire more natural conversations like this! Great idea! #TLAP
    In reply to @CoraBoucher
  • nmtond98 Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    Thanks for a wonderful introduction to the #tlap community! Dinner time but I’ll be back next week!!
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    otherwise we live in an echo chamber #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
      I intentionally seek relationships with those who have walked a different path. I also read works written by those who have a different perspective, and I constantly strive to understand through meaningful, loving dialogue with others. #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • TeachDMD Jul 16 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A7. Try to bring out what they want to share through projects. Let them choose something they care about/connects to them and create videos, songs, etc. Going back to A6, CELEBRATE their uniqueness! #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6 Recently got to celebrate learning at @JayBilly2 school! Every day is a celebration. That school has All The Feels! Just coming to school is a celebration! We even greet kiddos in silly hats when they get off the bus! #tlap #TalkToMe --> https://t.co/lYO6kFBCLr
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6b - One thing about celebrating success that is important is knowing how to celebrate. Sometimes little things make a huge difference. #TLAP
  • WallerALPHApack Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6: My Ss, their families, our community partners, & I all celebrated the culmination of a school years worth of hands on biology lessons & environmental PBL data collection on a field study trip. Getting out of school & learning together! Nothing beats that experience! #tlap
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    You, my friend, are the sweetest! ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP
    In reply to @khoggardGRT
  • k_callahan4 Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: That goes back to the relationships you build with your Ss. Giving each student time to regularly share about their lives outside of school enables you to see more into their lives, but also helps other Ss to develop empathy for those who are different from them. #TLAP
  • walkchrysj Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    That's a key point, Rachael. When team members experience challenges, develop a plan to address them, and experience victories as a result of their collective work, it strengthens the bonds of the team and builds team capacity to handle the next challenge @rcollins_edu #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6: We’ve done lunch bunch celebrations, popcorn/movie parties for end of quarter growth, sweet treat celebrating success of goals met. Pretty much, find the opportunity to celebrate & always get Ss input into how we should celebrate- that’s key for motivation! #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:43 PM EDT
      How do you cultivated and celebrate meaningful relationships with your students, parents, or coworkers? Pictures are welcomed! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6 Everyday is a celebration. From what my students learn, to personal goals teaches, to new things tried. It’s the little things that matter! Taking time to cultivate relationships and experiences matters! #talktome #tlap
  • PurpleEducator Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: home visits! You get to meet the student and their family in their comfortable space. Knowing who they are outside of school is extremely important #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • jenchitmon Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A4 Everyone wants to feel recognized & validated for their efforts. Strive to find what might otherwise be unacknowledged or overlooked & make a positive impact. #TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      Think about a time you felt validated for the work you do. What happened that made you feel this way? How can we make others feel this way? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6 I'm also very active in the community with my hockey team. We actually just played in an event to raise cancer monies called the @11DayPowerPlay #tlap
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    Oh! This is what I want my classroom to look like!!!! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: Depending on the specifics, I ask the kid, either in a whole class discussion or privately, what their family thinks of this event or situation. Gotta remember, though, they don't speak for their *entire* nationality, culture, religion, or whatever. #tlap
  • MsGarlisi204 Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: We share a lot in our room, especially around breaks, holidays, long weekends. I love hearing about the home lives, traditions and celebrations of my students. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A6 Throw parties, play music, have fun, laugh, share stories, work hard, celebrate learning, celebrate weird holidays. Take time to enjoy stuff. Put relationships first. #tlap
  • heywaysELA Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: I read a lot about differences to help me gain a better understanding, but definitely finding ways to immerse yourself in differences and asking questions about it out of curiosity and interest. #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CoachHolleyT Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A3: one thing we did last year is we had a shout-out board to show our appreciation to our fellow teachers #tlap #talktome
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • JoveStickel Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7 boils down to one thing building relationships, greeting people, find out their story be genuine with them at show them that you care, be willing to listen #TLAP
  • _on11 Jul 16 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: We work in a very diverse environment. Students and teachers appreciate when we ask questions and listen to the responses. We let the kids teach us their story. We need to set aside preconceived bias and hear the story directly. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A6 Just be willing to have a good time in front of Ss. Life is too short to not have fun! This was our End of the year Blindfold Musical Chairs- Proud 2018 Winner (student rounds were held after) Such a great way to end the year! #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    This was epic #tlap
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7: Ask the Ss - my middle school Ss are willing to talk to me about anything racial or religious if I am genuinely interested and have built the relationship prior to the question asking. Otherwise, it comes off as insincere. #tlap
  • AustinELA8 Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7) Spend time getting to know your students. Find out what they like and why. Go to their events. Show them that you value what they have to say. Learn to do something they value. INVEST in their lives. #tlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    Q7 is ready to rock... #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • khoggardGRT Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    Thanks friend! ❤️❤️😘🥊😘❤️❤️ #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @KimSnodgrass
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    Love that, Adam. #tlap #TalkToMe
    In reply to @Adam_Johnson07
  • KellyDecker407 Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    Hiiii Teacher Friends! I'm Kelly Decker and I teach 2nd grade. I am going back and forth getting stuff together to leave for our RCA trip in 1 more day! WOO HOO! That's how I'm feeling! EEK! Congrats @kimbearden on your book release! #tlap #talktome
  • teripendley Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7 I love the Dr Seuss quote - “A person’s a person no matter how small.” This applies to race, religion, and background as well. #tlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7 Listen to your students and watch their interactions. Learn about them through their words and information. Be present and willing to learn from them. #talktome #tlap
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7: Talk to them. Ask questions. Show them you want to listen and learn. #tlap
  • BarMillEDU Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    Excuse me while I promote my website like a pirate: @learninate - the (brand new) social network for learning. #tlap
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A6. Celebrate the successes! Especially for our Ss! Build relationships! Keep it positive! Celebrate the Ss growth! #tlap
  • mospillman Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7. This one is HUGE! We must seek to learn the cultural norms of our students so we can understand the WHY of what they do. Simple example is that in Spanish many words are not capitalized as they are in English. Will the #ell lose points for that? 🤔 #tlap #talktome
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7. I have learned to ask questions. How do you want me to refer to your race, culture, heritage? We have conversations about perspectives - how does an economically poor person see this situation v. a wealthy person? TALK to them!!!! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A7: Giving students a variety of ways to tell me their story is very helpful. Draw, speak, write, rap, video, etc. find their strengths! Allow them to shine the brightest they possibly can! #TLAP
  • jordanhohm Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7. Thanks for the opportunity to shout these people out! Follow these people and hashtags: @JEFordNCTOY @ValeriaBrownEdu @ShanaVWhite @TheJLV @DingleTeach @nate_bowling @DulceFlecha @CSpearsEDU #ClearTheAir #EduColor Listen, learn, change #tlap #talktome
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7 love connecting with students during recess duty to build on relationships and better understand them. To build that trust we mustn’t forget to open up, ourselves, too. #tlap
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7 in some of the activ/projects we do or through blogging, ask Ss to share /create an About Me, and definitely make time to have conversations, so much to learn from one another #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7: I specifically remember a few years ago we did a bus tour on one of our PD days. We got on school buses that took us around the neighborhoods of the kids in our boundary. It was eye-opening to a lot of us. It’s something I’ll never forget. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • thoughtsinflow Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7: Dont make assumptions rather build relationships. #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    #tlap Talk to them. I share my story of Dyslexia and growing up bullied and living in England for two years. I ask them about them in our 1-minute check ins- I build a rapport week one & a natural, organic energy begins to flow, the more I talk to them the more I get enlightened
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    Yes— you can learn so much from traditions! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @MsGarlisi204
  • MrMarshsClass Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    Q7 EDUCATE YOURSELF! Books, videos, Travel, TALK TO PEOPLE, ask questions and listen! #TLAP
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    I learn SO much from these chats! Mondays are probably my new favorite day of the week because of all of you! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • bmilla84 Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7: I think there’s great value in providing Ss a platform to share their voice! When we open the dialogue, tremendous learning, understanding, & growth can occur! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • L3Hess Jul 16 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7: I love that, and also try to do the same. I try to ask questions to get to know kids and how they have developed into who they are today. They always think I'm nosy at first, but eventually they realize I'm genuinely interested in getting to know them. :). #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7: We also cannot act like there is a best way to live our lives. I love listening to students share about holidays and events. #tlap
  • VickiRD13 Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7. It is better to understand than to be understood. I make an attempt to learn greetings if they speak a different language...they often chuckle at my bungles, but so greatly appreciate the effort. Ask about a custom or experience. Smile-the universal language! #tlap #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A6. I give each K-3 student a bookmark on their birthday with a handwritten greeting on back. #tlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7: It's good to find out what they're into, watch the shows they watch, read the books they read, ask, ask, ask, and listen, listen, listen, and listen. #tlap
  • burgessdave - Moderator Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    Special thanks to @kimbearden for hosting #tlap tonight! I can't wait for the pirate community to read #TalkToMe. Thanks to all who contributed tonight! Your wisdom inspires me!! https://t.co/mk4l6qpFky @dbc_inc @burgess_shelley @TaraMartinEDU
  • franziski123 Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7 Ive always been comfortable talking, sharing and asking my kids about culture and their lives. Creating an open dialogue of learning means we need to be open to learning bout our ss. #tlap
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7 - Bag of Life. It showcases each individual student and their culture, likes and family. We do this the 1st week of school. Takes time, but always one of the best, most important lessons of the year. #TLAP
  • TracyMailloux Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7 I ask them! Ss love teaching us what we don't know, esp when it's about themselves. #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7: Make sure to invite families in to share their culture and their experiences. We have such a diverse population and we all become better when we understand where people are coming from #tlap
  • diane_mackinnon Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7: As #SparksInTheDark says, adults should be reading books w/characters that are NOT like us & be sure to have lots of children’s lit that represents ppl of diff races, religions, and backgrounds. Also, with a large # of ELLs in my school, I want to learn more Spanish! #TLAP
  • Ryan7Read Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    Great chat tonight. #TALKTOME is next on my list. See everyone later. #tlap
  • ChouinardJahant Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    @kimbearden Thank you Kim #TLAP for a great chat tonight! Awesome questions 🌺
  • love5thgrade Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    Very cool idea, @Shapiro_WTHS! #tlap
    In reply to @Shapiro_WTHS
  • BarbaraGruener Jul 16 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A7: Best strategy is to ask them. I find that when you use words like "Tell me more" or "Help us understand that better" then Ss will jump in and tell you everything you want to know. If they seem private or cautious, just make sure to not ask them publicly. #tlap #talktome
  • MrPStrunk Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Hey #tlap hope to see you Thursday at 9pm ET for #waledchat! Summer days are drifting away, so let's spend some time reflecting on rest and our Ss for next year!
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Yes, Kim! Seek to understand! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @kubteach
  • swebsterteach Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7: Volunteer in the community your students live in, get involved and be supportive. Seeing where your kids are coming from helps to understand them. I am also a fan of the home visit. My kids school does a yearly home visit for every student, the kids ♥️ it #tlap
  • AnnickRauch Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    🙌🏻 #tlap
    In reply to @thoughtsinflow
  • sew1080 Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7 We learned how to say hello in many different languages, most belonging to the languages my students knew. They felt proud when others would greet them in their language. #tlap
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7b - Chat with students about their like and how they make each day special. #TLAP
  • TerrasetTrout Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Q6: By finding a student over the summer to share a book you just read that you thought she’d enjoy....#tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • Rdene915 Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7 sometimes through the activities we do in our mentoring homerooms, and in my classes through readings and also #pbl helps with this too #tlap
  • CristinaDajero Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7: Coming from a diverse cultural background myself, I share my story. I ask questions & encourage them to share their stories, traditions, perspectives with us. I do “research” to be more aware so I can respect the cultural differences as well as celebrate similarities #TLAP
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • docvs1 Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    So agree thanks @kimbearden looking forward to the book #tlap
  • ASMILEwithAnna Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    So happy you made it to the chat, Craig!!! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @craigccollins, @burgessdave, @kimbearden
  • TaraMartinEDU Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7 Allow them to share their REAL story without trying to share ours as a comparison. No two humans are the same or have the same strengths, experiences, etc.--so we really shouldn't compare. Just let them be REAL, while we model our REALness, too. #tlap #TalkToMe
  • daveschmittou Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    7) @burgessdave reminds us all to jump in and swim. In my case I LOVED going to the park every Friday and just jumping on the swings in their neighborhood. I earned street cred. by hitting the streets #TLAP
  • Auen_Ed_Tech Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Thanks @kimbearden for a great #TLAP chat tonight, awesome questions!
  • mrsjeagon Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7: Educate yourself about their culture, ask them meaningful questions, and showing them you care enough to learn more about them #tlap
  • JayBilly2 Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Great job with the chat @kimbearden and I can't wait until my copy of #TalkToMe gets here. Keep doing what you do #tlap
  • teachermike72 Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Great chat tonight...and it felt good knowing that I could enter grades AND chat somewhat articulately at the same time! Good night all! #tlap
  • rcollins_edu Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    A7) Within Social Studies Curriculum for US History I want to further illuminate my student's background in the historical voices we study. Ex. cross curricular unit with ELA, my ELA colleague added Mendez v Westminster case to our unit to accompany Brown v. Board of Ed. #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    It is beautiful that you share your story with them! #TLAP #TalkToMe
    In reply to @ChouinardJahant
  • ShenaIBlcps Jul 16 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    Q7. It's simple, just LISTEN. #TLAP
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    Thank you for joining us, #TLAP! You guys ROCK! #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • tikaee Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7 I learn so much from my kids when I have lunch with them, go@to their extra curricular and important events (baptisms, etc.). As they got older they invited me to their mission send offs and weddings😊#TLAP #TalkToMe
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • noel_hoffmann Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7. Embrace and experience different cultures and attend events held in your area. Read about them as well. Have a day where the kids share with you something that they love about their cultures. #tlap
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7: Build relationships. Get to know your students and families. Invite them to come into the classroom and share things from their cultures. Our school has a Passport Night once a year that allows families to create a booth and share things about their cultures. #tlap #LULearns
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:51 PM EDT
      How might educators seek to understand students from different backgrounds? What are some strategies you use to learn about the perspectives of students who come from a different race, religion, or culture than you do? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • KellyDecker407 Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    We don't know about the struggles others have gone through in their life. I remind myself that they might have a bigger mountain to climb right now. Instead of getting frustrated...I think to myself what can I do to HELP?! What do they NEED? It's not about me. #TalkToMe #tlap
    • kimbearden Jul 16 @ 9:07 PM EDT
      What are some factors that you take into consideration when communicating with a struggling student, parent, or coworker? #TLAP #TalkToMe
  • BonKramer Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7. “I don’t know very much about that. Can you tell me more?” #tlap
  • kubteach Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    @kimbearden THANK YOU:-) Keep inspiring the world!!! #tlap #TalkToMe
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    "Life moves pretty fast, if you don't stop and look around once in awhile, you could miss it". - Ferris Bueller. #tlap
    In reply to @CoraBoucher
  • smgaillard Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    Thanks for the connection to #CelebrateMonday in #tlap, Monica!
    In reply to @mospillman
  • teachlikeaninja Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A6: we do team celebrations every month for my team students and recognize rock star students, rock out some team builders and showcase some awesome things students are doing in class. #tlap
  • Mr_Lisek Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A6: One of my favorite events to take part in was our year end "awards" celebration. We invited all parents to an event and we celebrated each S by telling a story about them. Ps and Ss loved it. As said it was the best P event in the history of the school. #tlap #talktome
  • Shapiro_WTHS Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    That was an awesome chat. Very inspiring Qs and As. #TLAP
  • iluveducating Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    I refuse to accept that #tlap is already over for tonight... I need something to look forward to! Thank you @kimbearden for leading the way tonight! Your book should be in my mailbox Thursday! WOO HOO!
  • gdorn1 Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7. I like Ss from the different cultures to talk about their different backgrounds from holidays, to foods, countries, whatever information they'd like to share with all Ss in learning. Sharing culture and diversity is important in learning! #tlap
  • CoraBoucher Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7 Give Ss an opportunity to share the things that make them unique! Converse with them and ask questions to learn more. #tlap
  • EllenJacobsen9 Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    Love this! #tlap #lulearns
    • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:54 PM EDT
      A7: Giving students a variety of ways to tell me their story is very helpful. Draw, speak, write, rap, video, etc. find their strengths! Allow them to shine the brightest they possibly can! #TLAP
  • WentzvillePRE Jul 16 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    A7 It is important to get to know them, have home visits, read, and immerse yourself in their culture as much as possible. It also extremely important as an administrator to work hard and hire people who reflect your students. #TLAP
  • Adam_Johnson07 Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    @kimbearden thank you so much for hosting the chat tonight!! I’ve learned so much and met many awesome educators! Come paycheck time I’m grabbing my copy or #TalkToMe #tlap
  • daleyscience Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    That is a good way. Thanks for sharing. #tlap
    In reply to @McEnglish101
  • Mrs_Gilchrist Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    It was a great chat! Thanks, @kimbearden! 🌟💖 #tlap #TalktoMe
  • KimSnodgrass Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    A7 FIND A CONNECTION! We aren't as different as our differences appear. ❤️💛❤️💛❤️💛❤️ "Humans are about connecting. The most important thing a teacher can do is build relationships." ~ @mrmatera ✨☠️ #TalkToMe #TLAP #XPLAP
  • wiecheln Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    A7: Asking questions about their lives and interests, while also sharing about myself and family. I know a ton more about fishing and hunting culture than I did 15 years ago! #TLAP
  • KristenDolen Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    This chat was fire tonight! Great questions. Thanks for moderating! I must buy this book!!! #tlap
    In reply to @kimbearden
  • SawickisSupers1 Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    Thanks @kimbearden for the questions and all educators for an awesome first twitter chat! #tlap #lulearns
  • SteinbrinkLaura Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    A7b: Also do a passion page on my S blogs. They are to cultivate videos, pictures, and information on what they like. The purpose is to teach me about what their passions are. #tlap
  • nankr1120 Jul 16 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    A7: Become the student... let them teach you! Build it from the ground up starting on day 1. Create the opportunity and make it meaningful. Allow for your Ss voice to shine through. #tlap #TalkToMe