#resiliencechat Archive
Co-moderated by Dr. Robert Martinez and Sara Truebridge, #resiliencechat focuses on promoting resilience amongst educators and students.
Monday April 10, 2017
10:00 PM EDT
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Apr 10 @ 10:00 PM EDT
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#resiliencechat
. Who is joining us tonight?
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:00 PM EDT
Hi! Annette Frazier, Alabama educator, looking forward to joining tonight
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:00 PM EDT
Anyone being resilient tonight?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:01 PM EDT
Hi Annette! Great to have you join us in
#resiliencechat
In reply to @nancyfrazier71
ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:01 PM EDT
Zack in Nevada, thoughts on the San Bernadino shooting leaves me with a heavy heart tonight, tragic
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:01 PM EDT
Here and accounted for! How are you, Debbie?
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In reply to @MissShuganah
PeytonWydickRU
Apr 10 @ 10:01 PM EDT
Hello all! Peyton from KC, MO. Pre-service elementary teacher.
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MrSmall215
Apr 10 @ 10:02 PM EDT
It's been a long time... I shouldn't have left you... without a dope tweet to retweet... *Timberland voice*
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#resiliencechat
. Who is joining us tonight?
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:02 PM EDT
I am attempting to be resilient, hoping this time with you all will assist as we try to make sense of all happening today
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:02 PM EDT
Thank you for joining
#resiliencechat
tonight, Zack Yes, heavy hearts all around.
In reply to @ZapEdu
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:02 PM EDT
OK. Knocking on my wooden head. I head back to my oncologist on Wednesday.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:02 PM EDT
Welcome, Peyton!
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In reply to @PeytonWydickRU
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:03 PM EDT
Indeed, Never an easy way to move forward after such incidents.
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In reply to @ZapEdu
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:03 PM EDT
@ResiliencyGuy
thank you!
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:03 PM EDT
Hi Victor! Good to see you again in
#resiliencechat
!
In reply to @MrSmall215
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:03 PM EDT
Hi Peyton!
#Resiliencechat
In reply to @PeytonWydickRU
ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:03 PM EDT
@saratruebridge
@ResiliencyGuy
One time is too many and this is way more than one time.
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In reply to @saratruebridge, @saratruebridge, @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:03 PM EDT
All of us at
#resiliencechat
will be thinking good thoughts for you!
In reply to @MissShuganah
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:04 PM EDT
Good to have
@ResiliencyGuy
here with me tonight at
#resiliencechat
--as always!
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:05 PM EDT
#resiliencechat
topic tonight focuses on today's sad news of the school shooting in San Bernadino.
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:05 PM EDT
Thanks. I'll let you know how it goes. Going in for bloodwork tomorrow morning.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:05 PM EDT
Good evening! Dorothy here from Webster, NY
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:05 PM EDT
If you missed it check out the next
#resiliencechat
tweet...
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:05 PM EDT
#Resiliencechat
Tidbit: San Bernardino School Shooting: Man Kills Wife Then Himself;1 of 2 Students Wounded Has Died
https://t.co/uq0KmlQxF8
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:06 PM EDT
Thinking positive thoughts for you Deb
#Resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah, @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:06 PM EDT
Hi Dorothy! Always great to have you here in
#resiliencechat
!
In reply to @dlpetrie69
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:06 PM EDT
Difficult topic tonight! Pulling together is always important!
#Resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:05 PM EDT
#resiliencechat
topic tonight focuses on today's sad news of the school shooting in San Bernadino.
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:07 PM EDT
Welcome Dorothy!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dlpetrie69
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:07 PM EDT
Let's get started but please introduce yourself as you join in
#resiliencechat
if you haven't already
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:07 PM EDT
Q1: How did you hear about what happened in San Bernadino?
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:08 PM EDT
Something has to be done to set signals that weapons are on persons entering schools
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:08 PM EDT
Rob from Dallas. A1: heard about news via Twitter
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SOC54
Apr 10 @ 10:08 PM EDT
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#resiliencechat
#bfc530
#CelebrateMonday
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SOC54
Apr 10 @ 10:08 PM EDT
Please vote for this entry in Shaping the Future Video Contest!
https://t.co/F1ykY9gC2I
#resiliencechat
#bfc530
#CelebrateMonday
#ROBOTICS
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:08 PM EDT
It is always interesting to see how people are currently getting their news...
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:09 PM EDT
Hey, Rob! Great to see you on
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:09 PM EDT
A1. I heard what happened in San Bernadino from a co-worker who texted after seeing news report online during her break
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:09 PM EDT
A1 Just now via
@saratruebridge
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:09 PM EDT
Hi Scott--and Rocky and Bullwinkle.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @SOC54
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:09 PM EDT
Thanks, Rob.
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @saratruebridge
MrSmall215
Apr 10 @ 10:09 PM EDT
A1: on Twitter. A minute ago...
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:07 PM EDT
Q1: How did you hear about what happened in San Bernadino?
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Apr 10 @ 10:10 PM EDT
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:10 PM EDT
Hi all. I work in the area & my husband was 1 of the LEOs that responded. Resilience feels like an understatement but truth
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:10 PM EDT
WOW! Your husband is a gem! Thank you for joining us in
#resiliencechat
tonight!
In reply to @MagikMonta
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:11 PM EDT
@MagikMonta
Thank you and thank your husband for your service in such difficult times.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MagikMonta, @MagikMonta
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:11 PM EDT
We will be interested in hearing your insights and his...
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MagikMonta
PeytonWydickRU
Apr 10 @ 10:11 PM EDT
A1 My mom called to tell me after I got out of class today.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:07 PM EDT
Q1: How did you hear about what happened in San Bernadino?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:12 PM EDT
I found out through "breaking news" on my phone while I was at school.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:12 PM EDT
Q2: What were some of your initial reactions/feelings/emotions?
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ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:13 PM EDT
A2: Not again!
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PeytonWydickRU
Apr 10 @ 10:13 PM EDT
A2 Sick to my stomach. Very upset. My heart goes out to everyone involved
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:12 PM EDT
Q2: What were some of your initial reactions/feelings/emotions?
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:13 PM EDT
Took group of 9 8th graders to local elem school today for our service learning. News made me think what if....
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:13 PM EDT
FOR SURE!!!!!!!
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In reply to @MagikMonta
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:13 PM EDT
Absolutely!
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:12 PM EDT
There is a lot of negative daily in Law enforcement and education but the fact is they are some of the most resilient people - they have 2b
In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:13 PM EDT
I know...we all go there...
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In reply to @skeeTX
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:14 PM EDT
A2 Special Ed class. Who shoots up a school especially a Special Ed class?
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Mister_Seeley
Apr 10 @ 10:14 PM EDT
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Hey, student teacher here. Many of my students have a hard time out of class. What resources are there to help them succeed
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:14 PM EDT
A2: heartbroken at first but upset a/b guns and what this community has/will continue to suffer
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:14 PM EDT
Got the word during the day, and after hanging my head for a minute, we began to make plans for potential support for kids
#Resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:14 PM EDT
Thanks for asking, Troy. We have a great crew at
#resiliencechat
who will be able to give you some ideas
In reply to @Mister_Seeley
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:15 PM EDT
Q2: My thought was "how do you tell a parent you sent your child for education but got killed in class today Tears for all
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:15 PM EDT
A2 Recently Kid Q's school was evacuated because of a threat that was made, so suddenly close to home.
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:15 PM EDT
A2- I thought a lot of bad words, more bad words & my heart went immediately to all involved-on so many different levels
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HowardKiyuna
Apr 10 @ 10:15 PM EDT
Howard from NorCal. Special educator. Full inclusion middle school.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:15 PM EDT
Hi Howard! Thanks for joining us in
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In reply to @HowardKiyuna
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:16 PM EDT
It's good to see you again! Where in NorCal are you?
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In reply to @HowardKiyuna
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:16 PM EDT
A2 I have often thought abt if something were to happen to our Kid O. She wouldn't be able to say anything. Disconcerting.
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:16 PM EDT
Students should never be placed in harms way!
#NEVER
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:15 PM EDT
Q2: My thought was "how do you tell a parent you sent your child for education but got killed in class today Tears for all
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:16 PM EDT
A2: makes you take stock, consider what's most important and not to take anything for granted. Life is precious
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:16 PM EDT
A2: overwhelming sadness....The shaking my head variety. When will ever learn kind of sadness.
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:17 PM EDT
I thought the same thing- what plans need to be made. Where would you start? Etc- so many moving parts
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:17 PM EDT
It is always so difficult for me to comprehend and/or make any sense out of these incidents.
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:17 PM EDT
A2 Friend of mine lost her sister and nephew in a similar situation.
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:17 PM EDT
A.2. what is going on to help frightened students who survived?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:18 PM EDT
That's got to be rough and a difficult thing to think about.
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In reply to @MissShuganah
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:18 PM EDT
For those of us in charge of large groups of children takes us to a place of worry that we never thought we'd need to be!
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:16 PM EDT
A2: makes you take stock, consider what's most important and not to take anything for granted. Life is precious
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:18 PM EDT
So sorry to hear that!
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In reply to @MissShuganah
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:18 PM EDT
@MissShuganah
I am so sorry. Very sad! How do you be resilient and come back from that situation?
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah, @MissShuganah
ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:18 PM EDT
A2: Student perspectives keep me hopeful
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:18 PM EDT
Exactly. Daily we worry about minutia in comparison to what truly matters.
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:19 PM EDT
Yes, that's one of my questions as well.
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In reply to @nancyfrazier71
MrSmall215
Apr 10 @ 10:19 PM EDT
A2: No one deserves to die like that. I honestly feel for the victim's families. I can't imagine what they feel right now.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:12 PM EDT
Q2: What were some of your initial reactions/feelings/emotions?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:20 PM EDT
Everyone needs support during these times. Taking care of the caretaker is a must. So on to
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Q3...
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:20 PM EDT
Q3: How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of teachers with respect to sch. shootings?
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:20 PM EDT
A2 Friend's sister divorced husband. Was engaged. Husband entered house, shot the fiance, friend's sister, nephew & self.
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:20 PM EDT
Shouldn't every school be reviewing safety protocols today/tomorrow? No guarantees.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:21 PM EDT
OMG!!
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In reply to @MissShuganah
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:21 PM EDT
I bet they will be!
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In reply to @skeeTX
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:21 PM EDT
My friend never got over it. Was her older sister. She named her daughter after her.
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In reply to @saratruebridge
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:22 PM EDT
A3: schools already lack enough counseling staff, but Ts, Ss, Ps all need support. Community should gather together often
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:22 PM EDT
Happened many years ago. But I'll never forget her calling me up to tell me the news. And then sending news clip.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
I don't think we get over these things, we just move forward until it hurts just a little less- we become the point of
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:21 PM EDT
My friend never got over it. Was her older sister. She named her daughter after her.
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In reply to @saratruebridge
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
Yes, but so many moving parts it can easily be taken for granted.
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In reply to @MagikMonta
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
A3 Care for survivors, families, all students, systems review, connect with agencies, and yet, we can't control it all!
#Resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
I am sure you were a good friend supporting her resilience during such a difficult time.
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In reply to @MissShuganah
ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
A3: Our school usually puts out a thoughtful email but I look to the work of Thomas Hoerr about Teaching Ferguson
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
A3: I think they should be honest with students about how frightening it is to adults and children alike.
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ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
A3: Can't just talk about it but need to find solutions
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:24 PM EDT
I agree, Monta.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MagikMonta
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:24 PM EDT
How do you get families & children to feel safe tomorrow and tomorrow?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:25 PM EDT
BIG question!!!!
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In reply to @skeeTX
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:25 PM EDT
I total agree. Students ask questions. We need to share the dangers so they will listen when there is a situation of fear
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:23 PM EDT
A3: I think they should be honest with students about how frightening it is to adults and children alike.
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:25 PM EDT
A3 We need better legislation to make sure that we have background checks in place.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:25 PM EDT
Kind of goes with my next question on
#resiliencechat
...
In reply to @skeeTX
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:25 PM EDT
Q4: How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of students with respect to shootings?
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:26 PM EDT
My sons are 14 & 9 and I have no idea what I would do if something like this happened at their schools.
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:26 PM EDT
I was. I miss her. Various circumstances caused her to make an extreme right turn politically and she cut me out.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:26 PM EDT
A3: Not a school shooting, but 4 years ago a man set fires, laid in wait, and killed 2 fireman, the community rallied.
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:26 PM EDT
A3. We do drills, but are we really preparing them? I believe we need to be more specific. We teach about sex/alc/drgs?!?!?!
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:26 PM EDT
I know. It's so surreal to even imagine.
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In reply to @skeeTX
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:26 PM EDT
Not an easy task! Work to support each other, demonstrate kindness, be present, grieve for the loss, begin to heal
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:24 PM EDT
How do you get families & children to feel safe tomorrow and tomorrow?
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:27 PM EDT
A4: take the necessary time and provide the help they need to be okay emotionally no matter how long it takes
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:27 PM EDT
Just like with other things that affect our lives. You're probably right.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MagikMonta
ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:27 PM EDT
A4: Talk realities of the situation - allow them opportunity to discuss, ask difficult questions, we may not know answers
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:27 PM EDT
Situations like the one she faced can lead to tremendous changes
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In reply to @MissShuganah
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:28 PM EDT
Whoa!! Was this at your school?
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dlpetrie69
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:28 PM EDT
A3 I think that it's good they have support in place for students and staff.
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:28 PM EDT
Must be tons of Ps inquiring about safety protocol
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:28 PM EDT
Absolutely!
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In reply to @skeeTX
MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:29 PM EDT
We all just need to be there for those affected- listen with open hearts and minds & be ok with not having all the answers
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MrSmall215
Apr 10 @ 10:29 PM EDT
A3: 1. Counseling services/Therapy; 2. Emergency communication procedures; 3. Security Security Security
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:20 PM EDT
Q3: How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of teachers with respect to sch. shootings?
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:29 PM EDT
Another issue: The perpetrator may not have had anything to do with the school - Very scary!
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:29 PM EDT
I think it is important to always admit when we don't have all the answers.
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In reply to @ZapEdu
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:29 PM EDT
Yes. And I miss her a great deal. Haven't heard from her since the 2004 presidential election.
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In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:29 PM EDT
Right!
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
A4: We need officer at door like at airports to check people as they enter. They need to have admin permission to get in
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
The scary thing is this man had a plan & noone knew so there was no way to be proactive without metal detectors at the door
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skeeTX
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
Have to run. Time to say goodnight to my son.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
And of course something like this can't happen w/o affecting the community...
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
Q5:How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of parents/community w/respect to shootings?
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:31 PM EDT
#resiliencechat
Sadly, yes. It was at Christmas time. Rocked the community. We did come together. I do believe there is much resilience here
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:28 PM EDT
Whoa!! Was this at your school?
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dlpetrie69
MrSmall215
Apr 10 @ 10:31 PM EDT
A3: It's nearly impossible to predict a school shooting, but there are ways to limit the ability for someone to do harm
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:20 PM EDT
Q3: How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of teachers with respect to sch. shootings?
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:31 PM EDT
A4 We need counseling available and not just in respect to shootings. When I was in HS, lost a teacher to a drunk driver.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:31 PM EDT
G'night, Rob. So glad you made it here to
#resiliencechat
! See you soon again--maybe even next week!
In reply to @skeeTX
MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:31 PM EDT
So in this horrible situation we have 2 b reactive instead & in that part I think counseling & patience will be key to our
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lizdavis2
Apr 10 @ 10:32 PM EDT
RT
#edchat
#COLChat
#resiliencechat
DanielPink
Apr 8 @ 10:33 AM EDT
Some interesting evidence here that, in the end, tortoises are more creative than hares.
https://t.co/Wo6pzsmdE8
ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:32 PM EDT
A5: Don't overreact, yes this is tragic and senseless and preventable, still only 1 in 7.8 million, how can we defeat w/ ed?
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:32 PM EDT
And Yet, would this provide a false sense of security. Similar to arming teachers/educators. - Don't see that as an answer.
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
A4: We need officer at door like at airports to check people as they enter. They need to have admin permission to get in
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:32 PM EDT
A4: Resilience takes on a meaning here that involves the hearts of kids. They bounce back but never forget. Effective talks!
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Mister_Seeley
Apr 10 @ 10:32 PM EDT
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how do we bring these topics up with students? they need to understand how to handle these events in their world
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT
You have a good point! Having a counseling at schools is more than just a good idea!
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In reply to @MissShuganah
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT
A5 I think it's important that we emphasis paying attention to mental health issues.
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT
Prof Susan in IL able to join
#resiliencechat
for 2nd half. Greetings to all!
MrSmall215
Apr 10 @ 10:33 PM EDT
A5: 1. Counseling services/Therapy; 2. Listen; 3. Mourn the dead as a community...
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
Q5:How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of parents/community w/respect to shootings?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT
Perspective is important and education is vital!!
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In reply to @ZapEdu
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT
#Resiliencechat
4/10/17 Q5
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:30 PM EDT
Q5:How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of parents/community w/respect to shootings?
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT
A5: Make themselves available. Take time to make phone calls personally. Offer to meet in small groups.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:34 PM EDT
You are so right! The point in resilience is not forgetting but rather validating.
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In reply to @nancyfrazier71
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT
Always a treat to have you in
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, Susan!!!!
In reply to @BrilldeRamirez
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT
Give kids a chance to express their fears. Grieve. And the adults, too.
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In reply to @saratruebridge
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:35 PM EDT
A4: Let them talk. Let them ask questions. Reassure them. Their feelings need to be explored for their own wellness
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT
A5 When we seek to educate and
#empower
our parents we build their skills to work together - They become stronger a a force!
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT
A5 Communities, schools need heartfelt discussions re: causes of violence-- both against others & also suicides.
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:36 PM EDT
A5- I think it will b important 2 b honest w/families & themselves- get wvery1 the help they need mentally & then analyze
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT
The more we are discussing, the more I hurt for all involved
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT
A5- look at what everyone did well and what they can improve on, strengths and weaknesses came out 2day- now build on them
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:37 PM EDT
Yes, it makes it ever so real.
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In reply to @nancyfrazier71
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:38 PM EDT
Q6: How old are your Ss/children? How will you respond to them tonight and/or tomorrow if they ask about what happened?
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ZapEdu
Apr 10 @ 10:38 PM EDT
I have to head out! Thanks for the chat
@saratruebridge
and
@ResiliencyGuy
for moderating tonight! Stay resilient everyone!
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:38 PM EDT
A5 All too often, responses are reactive & rarely preventative. For each Dylan Klebold, there were many signs.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:39 PM EDT
Thanks, Zack for joining in
#resiliencechat
. Hope to see you here again!
In reply to @ZapEdu, @ResiliencyGuy
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:39 PM EDT
A5:Bring in parent support teams. Volunteers to be on school watch like community watch to embrace safety
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:40 PM EDT
A6: 8th grade. Will be upfront. Talk about the ways that our school does everything it can to keep people safe.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:40 PM EDT
Q6:How old are your Ss/children? How will you respond to them tonight and/or tomorrow if they ask about what happened?
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:40 PM EDT
A6- because it was close to my site and my husband was there my daughter was already on tech getting info- she needs truth
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT
How old is your daughter? She should be sooooo proud of her Dad!
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In reply to @MagikMonta
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT
A6 My teens (15/17) have little to no patience for "Stupid People" so it's hard for them to not be upset!
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT
Being of an auditory nature, this entered my mind during tonight's
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https://t.co/HzU4Ebfn67
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT
A6: I have explored social stories to help ex ed students engage in safety talks and coping skills
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tPRIDEinstitute
Apr 10 @ 10:41 PM EDT
Being present, meeting basic needs and dealing w/students with a 'spirit of care' is huge!
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#tpi
#maslow
#hierarchyofneeds
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:25 PM EDT
Q4: How should schools respond and/or what can be done to support the resilience of students with respect to shootings?
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:42 PM EDT
Absolutely! (Hi Davon! Thanks for joining us at
#resiliencechat
! Great to see you!)
In reply to @tPRIDEinstitute
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:43 PM EDT
A6: I will listen and reflect on their thoughts. I will have a few who will not attend if they hear abt this due to fear
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:43 PM EDT
Q7: What would you like to suggest/support in an effort to curb violence and aggression at schools?
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:46 PM EDT
Q7:What would you like to suggest/support in an effort to curb violence and aggression at schools?
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT
Our nation is walking pressure cooker: high %addicted to opiods, prescrp.drugs, drastic socioeconomic disparities +
#ofguns
.
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dlpetrie69
Apr 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT
A7: More mindfulness, full yoga unit in gym class, peer mediation, student councils that work on real issues
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:47 PM EDT
A7- I don't know what the suspect was thinking or the victim for that matter- so al we can do is b observant & ready anytime
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:48 PM EDT
Yes, these are definitely tough times!
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In reply to @BrilldeRamirez
MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:48 PM EDT
A7 Create peace within our communities.Take care of the most vulnerable.Make sure that we take care of mental health issues.
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MagikMonta
Apr 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT
A7- we need 2 start by looking@ our current legal system- this person had a history & yet he was avail & able 2 go n the Sch
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT
A6 Was the shooting domestic or workplace violence at a school? Haven't read detail. Either way, needs to be contextualized.
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MissShuganah
Apr 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT
A7 Insist that mayors don't shut down mental health facilities to balance budgets like what happened in Chicago.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT
Yup!
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In reply to @MagikMonta
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:49 PM EDT
So much to do! Foster
#connections
across the board. Students/Teachers/Parents/Admin/Community It takes us all!
#Resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT
Domestic.
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In reply to @BrilldeRamirez
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT
Relationships, relationships, relationships!
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT
A6 After each of these terrible events, people wonder "why," but no one ever really concludes. No one wants to point fingers
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT
Q7: It appears that dom.viol. is not held at high expectation with law. Hitting/knives/etc is assault. Quit allowing it!
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT
Q8: What are you going to do tomorrow a a result of
#resiliencechat
tonight?
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT
Occurred at school, murder/suicide, children killed in the moments, horrible events!
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In reply to @BrilldeRamirez
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT
Really!!!!
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In reply to @BrilldeRamirez
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:51 PM EDT
#AMEN
!
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:50 PM EDT
Relationships, relationships, relationships!
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:52 PM EDT
Yes, children were the innocent victims
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @BrilldeRamirez
giveawayboyya
Apr 10 @ 10:52 PM EDT
A6 After each of these terrible events, people wonder "why," but no one ever really concludes. No one wants to point fingers
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:52 PM EDT
A7 Most important is understanding. And in schools, EACH child must feel valued & safe ... and this means no bullying!
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:52 PM EDT
Touche!
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In reply to @BrilldeRamirez
nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT
Q8: appreciate all at school. work to create security for students and teachers and community. Help make difference.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:53 PM EDT
I know that tonight's
#resiliencechat
discussion was a tough one and I truly appreciate all who participated!
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:54 PM EDT
A8 Reviewing safety plans, providing supports, connecting with school personnel, being present for each person
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:54 PM EDT
We will hold those in the San Bernadino community and school in our hearts and prayers.
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BrilldeRamirez
Apr 10 @ 10:55 PM EDT
A7 Admins, Ts, staff must be accountable for loving & inclusive culture. Help bullies feel valued so will value others.
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saratruebridge
- Moderator
Apr 10 @ 10:57 PM EDT
Hoping everyone has a restful evening. Events like these make you grateful for each day and each relationship.
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nancyfrazier71
Apr 10 @ 10:59 PM EDT
Thank you for being our moderator
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