#resiliencechat Archive
Co-moderated by Dr. Robert Martinez and Sara Truebridge, #resiliencechat focuses on promoting resilience amongst educators and students.
Monday February 6, 2017
10:00 PM EST
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:00 PM EST
Welcome to
#resiliencechat
! My Tweets still may not be coming through but my hero
@ResiliencyGuy
is going to help me. Who is joining us?
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
participatechat
Feb 6 @ 10:00 PM EST
Participate in the upcoming
#resiliencechat
by sharing resources and collaborating at
https://t.co/mtjT3iXa2c
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:00 PM EST
Peyton from KC,MO & I am a preservice elementary teacher!
@saratruebridge
I can see your tweets through tweetdeck tonight
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
Hi all,
@saratruebridge
is leading us tonight, though her
#tweets
aren't shoing on
#resiliencechat
I will be shuttling them into the convo
In reply to @saratruebridge
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
#resiliencechat
#Resiliencechat
topic for 2/6/17: Stress in School Per
@saratruebridge
In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
YAY!! You're here AND you can see my Tweets!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @PeytonWydickRU
Educate2day941
Feb 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
#resiliencechat
This is Kitty in Oakland, Ca. I teach teachers & grad SS & host a radio show on ed. Nice to be with you all.
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
Robert here from Los Angeles. Middle school English teacher and author.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
Always great to see you again, Kitty!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Educate2day941
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
#Resiliencechat
Tidbit: Neuroscience tells us that toxic stress affects the brain and negatively affects learning.
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
Hi Robert! Good to have you here in
#resiliencechat
In reply to @RewardingEdu
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
Great topic
#resiliencechat
Hope to stay awhile. Faige retired kinder teacher. I would add Stress Everywhere
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
#resiliencechat
#Resiliencechat
topic for 2/6/17: Stress in School We will get going in about 10 minutes!
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
Hi Faige!!!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
Hi Robert!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @RewardingEdu
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
Welcome!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Educate2day941
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
Hello! I am a preservice hs science teacher, studying at Moravian College
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
Hi Peyton!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @PeytonWydickRU, @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
Thanks to
@ResiliencyGuy
for being there to share my Tweets on
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
I am joining
#resiliencechat
as per usual.
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
So great to have you here tonight, Kirsten!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
Hi Rob! Excited for tonight's
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
Craig Carson here from Missouri - spoke last week in lower NY on poverty and the brain - much to do with stress & the brain
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
And it's great having you here, as usual!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
rondorland
Feb 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
What Teacher School Forgot To Say
https://t.co/AewIZNKdQX
#edpiper
#colchat
#tlap
#mschat
#txedchat
#resiliencechat
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
Hi,
#resiliencechat
... bedtime routine before I can join. Catch you soon...
massignmenthelp
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
#Aledchat
#ILEdchat
#mbedchat
#MexEdChat
#resiliencechat
Science of boredom
https://t.co/wyuQqq1ufp
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q1: What are some factors that contribute to students' stress?
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
hello Sarah. Trying to stay dry in not so sunny LA
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
I am sure you will have lots to share tonight! Glad you're here!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @CraigLCarson
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
Hi Deb!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
I took a moment to tweet
@SenateDems
Hoping they remain resilient tonight as they
#holdthefloor
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge, @SenateDems
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
Hi ! I'm Shayne and I am a preservice HS English teacher, studying at Moravian College!
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
We will be looking forward to seeing you on
#resiliencechat
!
In reply to @JeremyDBond
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
Me too up here in San Francisco!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
My latest post: Four Questions Every Parent Should be Asking about School -
https://t.co/CuEvUb8LuH
via
@GetConnectDAD
#resiliencechat
In reply to @GetConnectDad
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
A1 Homelife, peers, tests, school work, homework and I could go on
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
Welcome Shayne!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @miss_mcnally2
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
Hi Rob!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
Here is Q1 for tonight's
#resiliencechat
(You can see
@saratruebridge
replies on her page, though she is not showing on
#resiliencechat
)
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q1: What are some factors that contribute to students' stress?
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
Welcome Shayne!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @miss_mcnally2
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
I think some may see me on
#resiliencechat
. Is that correct?
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:08 PM EST
A1 - domestic violence, abuse, bullying, no choice in classrooms, unsafe neighborhoods, death or loss of loved ones...
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
Jeremey sci Ts in Michigan
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A1: Undefined expectations. We must be clear with our directions to properly communicate directions for projects/hw
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
I am asking everyone to let Twitter know my tweets aren't coming through on
#resiliencechat
THX!
https://t.co/gwreUu2Sqz
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
A1 Lack of student planning & preparation are big. I teach being proactive to alleviate preventable stress.
#resiliencechat
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A1: I think sleep deprivation and personal relationships are huge factors when it comes to stress.
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
I wrote this post
https://t.co/xduDP5OB0c
Thinking it fits right into STRESS
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
Good to have you here at
#resiliencechat
, Jeremey!
In reply to @envirojer
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
A1 What aren't?! Lack of control over lives/time, teenage intensity of feeling, + all the "normal" stresses of being human.
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
I can see your tweets through TweetDeck while following the hashtag
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
A1 Being Jewish in a Trump world. Our Kid Q asked us if we would have to move.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
Touche!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey
AssignmentHelpN
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
#Aledchat
#ILEdchat
#mbedchat
#MexEdChat
#resiliencechat
10 Simple Ways to Use Pinterest For Classroom Teaching
https://t.co/0i2sbvZqo7
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
Marcia teacher librarian k-5 wisconsin joining
#resiliencechat
a little late
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
So many issues that impact our students
#resiliencechat
In reply to @CraigLCarson
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
A1 Sometimes they feel like they can only complete it the Ts way when they can complete it in a way that makes sense to them
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q1: What are some factors that contribute to students' stress?
phhscience
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
A1. Stress from not doing well
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
A1 ss belief that academic success is the defining characteristic of their self-worth
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
YAY!!!!! Not sure why some ppl can and others can't?
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
So sad 😭
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
What's up everyone, I'm a preservice teacher from alberta. trying out a few twitter chats tonight
#resiliencechat
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Right on target, Shayne!
#resiliencechat
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A1: I think sleep deprivation and personal relationships are huge factors when it comes to stress.
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Welcome Marcia
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MarciaDressel
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Hello
@twitter
Anybody ta home? Can you fix this problem for
@saratruebridge
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Twitter, @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
I am asking everyone to let Twitter know my tweets aren't coming through on
#resiliencechat
THX!
https://t.co/gwreUu2Sqz
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Hi Marcia! Great to see you!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MarciaDressel
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Please remember to use
#resiliencechat
in your responses to allow others to see them.
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
A1 Academic success defines the S belief. Also, some Ss may be under stress due to the current topics w/in politics
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Yup. :-( One of the things I was thinking about with my "'normal' stresses of being human."
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
A1
#resiliencechat
thinking they can't ask for help. (Guilt abt times I've given that perception)
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Agreed
@ResiliencyGuy
it builds synergistically and changes students' performance in the classroom.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
Hey Glenn!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @phhscience
Educate2day941
Feb 6 @ 10:12 PM EST
A1
#Discriminatory
bullying is big factor Ts don't know how to stop SS who think it's ok 2 laugh at SS from other countries.
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
Here is Q1 for tonight's
#resiliencechat
(You can see
@saratruebridge
replies on her page, though she is not showing on
#resiliencechat
)
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q1: What are some factors that contribute to students' stress?
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:12 PM EST
YAY!! So glad you found us, Mike! We are a friendly bunch! Hope you'll stay and participate in
#resiliencechat
In reply to @mikegurski_
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
We have
#refugee
Ss through our district, stress for sure
#resiliencechat
In reply to @PeytonWydickRU
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
Sad bc my grandparents came here to escape antisemitism in Eastern Europe. I wonder what they would think
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q2: Do you talk to your students/children about stress BEFORE they are stressed? If so what do you say?
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
Yes, current politics seems to be playing a role for all of us!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @PeytonWydickRU
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
Oh man. My heart goes out to them during this time
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
Our Kid Q studied the Holocaust last year. She knows we lost people.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
#resiliencechat
T must address it outright and immediate - Did you mean to say something hurtful when you said that?
In reply to @Educate2day941
_Ashlee_96
Feb 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
Hello! I am an early childhood education major and have a minor in family studies! I am doing this for my technology class.
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
A1: grades, grades to please Ps, social concerns, matters of the heart, Ts, self-image, confidence, next school admission
#resiliencechat
Educate2day941
Feb 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
I am looking for interesting materials on people and countries of mid-East 4 K-12 SS. Short stories; bios; , etc.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
Welcome, Ashlee!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @_Ashlee_96
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
So true, the circles that our students are part of can create internal and external stress
#resiliencechat
In reply to @PeytonWydickRU
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
A2 I want to make sure that my future Ss know that stress is normal & that I am always there to help them w handle stress
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q2: Do you talk to your students/children about stress BEFORE they are stressed? If so what do you say?
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
A2: try to be proactive and at least check-in frequently. Keep eyes and ears open at all times
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
My kids are first generation Americans. My parents survived the war hiding in Poland. My 1st 5years of life a wandering Jew
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
Sad bc my grandparents came here to escape antisemitism in Eastern Europe. I wonder what they would think
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
Hi Rob! Thanks for joining
#resiliencechat
tonight!
In reply to @skeeTX
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
A2 - open conversation is important - give Ss choice in their learning - let them know you are empowering them.
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
I'm guessing surprised wouldn't be part of their response. History is vital for our future
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah, @dubioseducator
SueDuris
Feb 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
Five Science-Backed Strategies to Build
#Resilience
https://t.co/uAQtJ81TNv
#resiliencechat
#SEL
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
A2: relationships trump content every day! Have to be concerned w/ Ss well being. Prioritize.
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
Ooops
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
A1 followup. Took too long to learn but I try to listen longer, praise any questions
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
A2 Stressful situations are natural & ubiquitous. It is how we choose to react to those stressors. Coping skills & balance!
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A2: creating a welcoming class will allow Ss 2 feel comfortable while talking abt stress before/during/after experiencing it
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
Yes and who said "if we don't learn from our mistakes we get to live them again" (more or less)
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer, @MissShuganah
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
Q2
#resiliencechat
Posting again
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q2: Do you talk to your students/children about stress BEFORE they are stressed? If so what do you say?
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
YES! Educating Ss--it's about relationships, relationships, relationships!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
These Qs are making me think hard about things that arent necessarily a priority in our pre-service training. really cool
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
A2 We do periodic meditation in class; otherwise, I wait for them to bring it up, thinking that's the teachable moment.
#resiliencechat
Educate2day941
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
Q2
#resiliencechat
At
@StreetAcademy
there is TLS every day - very brief, eyes- closed directed reflection & centering 2 take away stress
In reply to @StreetAcademy
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
#resiliencechat
I LOVE this and agree full heartedly! We cant reach our students until we form relationships, then stress wont be an issue
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
A2: relationships trump content every day! Have to be concerned w/ Ss well being. Prioritize.
#resiliencechat
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A2: Absolutely, children should know beforehand about stress and have a safe/ comfortable classroom environment to go to
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
A2 - talk to students about stretch / stress / and sizzle. Give them hand motions where they can advocate for themselves.
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
#Relationships
are so important. Do they
#trust
#believeyoucare
and feel
#comfortable
to talk So important
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
A2: relationships trump content every day! Have to be concerned w/ Ss well being. Prioritize.
#resiliencechat
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
A2 stress is normal- discussion on how to develop a plan to reduce stress
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
ThX for your feedback. Often pre-service pgms leave out some of the most impt. things we need as future tchrs.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @mikegurski_
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
#resiliencechat
what does this look like in your classroom? how long for meditation/how many times per week? do all Ss enjoy?
In reply to @bivey
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
Love it!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Educate2day941, @StreetAcademy
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
A2 look at stress indicators when we know our kids/sts. Sometimes good waiting for them to talk to you. If not acting out
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
Ss need to trust Ts so they're open to discussing stress
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
True - We cannot hide children from
#stress
, yet we can seek to
#empower
them to manage and mitigate the effects.
#resiliencechat
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
A2 stress is normal- discussion on how to develop a plan to reduce stress
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
Q3 on the way!
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q3: How do you know/what are some signs when your students or children are stressed?
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
Hi Mark! Great to see you again!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MrBartmas
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
You will love this chat, Mike, because it focuses on the whole child: social, emotional, soulful, academic- all 4 equal.
#resiliencechat
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
These Qs are making me think hard about things that arent necessarily a priority in our pre-service training. really cool
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
A2 building trusting relationships in our classrooms is vital to managing stress.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
Greawt questions, Kirsten.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo, @bivey
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
Trying to find this video of this columnist with Haeratz. About how personal the Holocaust is to Jews.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:22 PM EST
A2
#resiliencechat
re: test stress but more modeling my own stressed day strategy. I share Amy Cuddys power pose strategy
#TEDtalks
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:22 PM EST
Robert, your tweet just made my heart sing!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @RewardingEdu
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:22 PM EST
A2b Ts too need pathways to take when stressed. Relationships are key for T & S
#resiliencechat
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
A3 Living w an anxiety disorder & OCD has given me an advantage in spotting stress/anxiety in Ss/children
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q3: How do you know/what are some signs when your students or children are stressed?
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
A3 Sleep patterns interrupted. Short fuse, withdraws. Lack of interest and joy
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
A3 with littlest...when sweet friends are comforting another
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
Yes, modeling is so powerful for Ss. They catch everything we do--good and bad.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MarciaDressel
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
A3 If you are attuned, attentive &genuinely interested in your students as young individuals, you can sense what is going on
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
A3
#resiliencechat
bickering
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
A3 - hypervigilant, distractible, or learned helplessness could = longterm signs. A Ss that figits alot possibly short term
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
That must have been really hard. My great aunt and her husband hid in the Parisian countryside.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
Thank you for sharing this Peyton.
#resiliencechat
I do believe we can use our real life experiences to help students grow!
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
A3 Living w an anxiety disorder & OCD has given me an advantage in spotting stress/anxiety in Ss/children
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q3: How do you know/what are some signs when your students or children are stressed?
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
A3: many Ss wear their hearts on their sleeves so their demeanor noticeably changes when stressed
#resiliencechat
phhscience
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
expectations causes a lot of stress
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
A3 Wow...nonverbal cues! Lethargy anxiety apathy. We must connect daily to view
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
Yes a safe trusting environment build on respect and the awareness that every voice counts
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
Educate2day941
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A3 We should assume US SS r stressed in some way - # of kids in poverty, homeless, domestic violence; immigration fears
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
A2 outliers in behavior for the S and you have to have a relationship to know it
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A3: Each S will show stress differently. Know your Ss normal behavior& anything out of ordinary is a sign! Show them U care!
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
Absolutely! It's the airplane metaphor--take care of the caretaker before you can adequately take care of others.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MrBartmas
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
A3 withdraw, lack on interest, lashing out, extra emotions, temper, physically nervous, distracted, lethargy
#resiliencechat
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A3: Anger, disciplinary problems, no interest in class, exhaustion...you would definitely sense that they're off/stressed
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
Why we need to teach the humanities. Liberal arts education needs to be emphasized.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer, @dubioseducator
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
A3b When a Ss reacts differently to the norm of what they normally would do - a bit testy, more emotional, withdrawn, etc.
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
Many in my family survivex that way. It took many years before they told my generation their story
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
You all are
#onfire
tonight! Great input, as we discuss
#stress
on
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
I actually do focus gps w/ Ss & ask:How do u know a tchr cares about u? Interesting to hear their answers.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Noticed stress went WAY down when 5th grade T assigned 20 mins of "choice" hmwk & projects done by S in class (not by Ps!)
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
That would be very enlightening!
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
I actually do focus gps w/ Ss & ask:How do u know a tchr cares about u? Interesting to hear their answers.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
Ditto that!!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
A3: Limited experience, but more than anything else i've noticed a general lack of interest.
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
A2 Kid Q has anxiety issues. I need to step up.
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
Absolutely and when anyone questions why I'd like to point them to the direction of our world
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
Why we need to teach the humanities. Liberal arts education needs to be emphasized.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer, @dubioseducator
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
have you heard of "reflective practices?" Your research and the practice seem to go hand-in-hand!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
Lucky to have you as mom!!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
Conscious tightening/relaxing of muscles (2") or guided mediation (10") recorded by counselor. Many enjoy.
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
I quit homework for my biology ss 15 yrs ago, reduced stress for all.
#resiliencechat
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Noticed stress went WAY down when 5th grade T assigned 20 mins of "choice" hmwk & projects done by S in class (not by Ps!)
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
Great strategy
#choice
and
#empowerment
We don't need to give them beans, and have them counted back to us.
#Letthemchoose
#resiliencechat
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Noticed stress went WAY down when 5th grade T assigned 20 mins of "choice" hmwk & projects done by S in class (not by Ps!)
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
A3 Trouble sleeping. Kid Q went through a period of deliberately keeping herself awake.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
Yup! I talk a lot abt that in my book
https://t.co/GtQfvJfAEw
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
One more look at Q3
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q3: How do you know/what are some signs when your students or children are stressed?
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:30 PM EST
our whole school is doing mindfulness training!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey, @misskirstenlebo
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:30 PM EST
I know tchrs who did the same thing in high school and grades went up!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:30 PM EST
A3 In 2014 I went through cancer treatment. In 2015 I had Kid Q given a shot to prevent cervical cancer. She misunderstood.
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:30 PM EST
#resiliencechat
this sounds wonderful and effective! I would love to use this in my future classroom! Good vibes ✌🏻🌀
In reply to @bivey
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
including the teacher! A stressed-out teacher is equally bad for the classroom environment.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q4: What are some techniques/strategies/ideas that can help Ss to cope and alleviate stress?
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
A3 with some of us...quick tears. 😭
#resiliencechat
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
Teach and model appropriate response to stress- smiles reduce stress
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
A3 She thought the shot was to give her cancer. Upset her so much she couldn't sleep. Missed school in 8th grade.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
I also found that when I played classical music in my elem. classroom as background, Ss loved it!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo, @bivey
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
A3 They often tell you. General irritability. Can often sense tension. Maybe you know a potential trigger has happened.
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
smarter not harder... my mantra for years!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:32 PM EST
Thumbs up!!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:32 PM EST
#Awesome
#resiliencechat
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:30 PM EST
our whole school is doing mindfulness training!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey, @misskirstenlebo
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:32 PM EST
Hugs from afar
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:32 PM EST
A3 One night she ran out of the house about 1:30 AM. I heard door slam. Husband found her. She was OK except barefoot.
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:32 PM EST
A4
#resiliencechat
add in something just for fun. Short easy distraction.
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
A3 We never did find out what happened to her shoes.
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CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
A4 - practice
#mindfulness
, provide Ss choice/ more control, BUILD RELATIONSHIPS, teach coping skills, use movement/ music
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
Did anyone see the movie "Race to Nowhere" that dealt w/stress? I was the ed. consultant for that film
#resiliencechat
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
Catching up. Some insightful answers on
#resiliencechat
.
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
A4: creating a plan to use when stressful feelings arise: breathing, meditating, walking, relaxing to gain control
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
Hmm, I used to do this a lot as a French teacher. Should think about it again.
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @saratruebridge, @misskirstenlebo
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
All great!!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @CraigLCarson
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
A4 meet each S with a real greeting and smile. Baggage from home left at the door...or help them carry it!
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
Yes, the body can physically react, and the tension can sometimes be palpable in a room.
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
A3 They often tell you. General irritability. Can often sense tension. Maybe you know a potential trigger has happened.
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:33 PM EST
A3 But after that she finally let it sink in that the shot was to prevent cancer not give it to her. Then she slept.
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:34 PM EST
A4
#resiliencechat
we stand tall and stretch arms up high (modeling i say "oh, that feels good") then gently side to side
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:34 PM EST
Yes...loving everyone's active participation tonight.
#resiliencechat
may even be trending!
In reply to @JeremyDBond
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:34 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Ss experiencing trauma can't see work in front of them, hear or process instructions. Fight or flight mode is real for Ss.
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:34 PM EST
A4 I've been subbing & noticed responsive classroom morning meeting sets the stage 4warmth, humor & joy to start the day
#resiliencechat
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
#resiliencechat
plan fun activities as a break, meditation, take a walk outside, or even a little yoga in the classroom! 🙏🏻
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
Understandable. Would be difficult to talk about.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
A4 I find that we we work to normalize
#stress
we can assist children in preparing for the next stress moment.
#resiliencechat
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
A3: signs of stress for my Ss are nervous movement, no eye contact, and idle Chatter.
#Resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
I also found that music on a pentatonic scale was powerfully relaxing too!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey, @misskirstenlebo
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A4: I have found that Ss will alleviate stress while writing in journals.5-10" evryday can be effective& vehicle2 get 2no Ss
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
Take a hall lap, team bathroom break. Once in awhile mixing up routines is good for modeling real situations
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
I frequently use strategies to support children in adding tools to their
#resiliencebackpack
Then they can use them anytime
#resiliencechat
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
A4: i think its most important to find a way to talk it out (in one way or another). show them that they are not isolated
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
Too much emphasis on business and not enough on the deeper questions that we need to address.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:36 PM EST
Great questions, Kirsten!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo, @bivey
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:36 PM EST
A4) As with adults: Allow them the space to take breaks. Let them talk it out. Empathize; concerns are usually legitimate.
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:31 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q4: What are some techniques/strategies/ideas that can help Ss to cope and alleviate stress?
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:36 PM EST
I love both of our special needs daughters to pieces despite all the challenges.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:36 PM EST
Can you say more about "normalize stress"
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:35 PM EST
A4 I find that we we work to normalize
#stress
we can assist children in preparing for the next stress moment.
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
TS Eliot wrote, "there will be time/To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet." We do this for Ss no matter what
#resiliencechat
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
I used to box to relieve stress. Other sports later. Now workout and learned to walk away for time
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
So true! And BTW Thanks for joining in!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @SubWorksPro
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
A2: I start with new Ss and say... here is the place to make all the wrong answers do its a no stress enviro. Learn from it.
#Resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
I also kept rocking chairs outside my door and Ss could go to them anytime. A rocking motion is so comforting.
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
I've heard nothing but good things about it. We've talked about getting our kids to see it somehow. Bravo!
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @saratruebridge
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
#resiliencechat
YES! We must let Ss know that their worries are legit! We must never downplay their emotions or experiences
In reply to @JeremyDBond
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
Hugs back. Do you know
@toughLoveforx
His parents survived the camps.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator, @toughLoveforx
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
#resiliencechat
both my 2 & 5 grdr have projects done IN CLASS this year, work now looks age-appropriate, no P-led project=less stress 4 us
envirojer
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
oh man😟 Stay strong, you're among friends
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
A4b agreed
@JeremyDBond
I think that we need to model and teach understanding trying to lead Ss to practice empathy.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
I need that for myself too!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
I'd be interested to hear an answer that stuck with you or something you learned or that surprised you.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
I actually do focus gps w/ Ss & ask:How do u know a tchr cares about u? Interesting to hear their answers.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
Hey there Jenny!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Watermelonworks
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
Yes the business of covering curriculum, taking tests. Oh don't get me started
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
Hey Jenny!! Great to see you, as always!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Watermelonworks
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
Thanks. One of the reasons why I enjoy
#resiliencechat
In reply to @envirojer
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
Our social worker
@EilerTiger
has a heavy bag and a treadmill in her room
#resiliencechat
In reply to @EilerTiger
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
THATS SO COOL!!!!! I love your information! I want to be just like you when I'm a real teacher hahaha
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
Authentic understanding demonstrates
#empathy
this is so very important
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
#resiliencechat
YES! We must let Ss know that their worries are legit! We must never downplay their emotions or experiences
In reply to @JeremyDBond
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:38 PM EST
A1: fear of being wrong, bad pronunciation, not knowing vocabulary... all things learning a foreign language.
#Resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:39 PM EST
I don't. Will go look later
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MissShuganah, @toughLoveforx
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:39 PM EST
Q5 up next!
#resiliencechat
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:39 PM EST
Meditation, give them time to do what they want @ end of day, open door policy to let them know you r always ready to listen
#resiliencechat
MrBartmas
Feb 6 @ 10:39 PM EST
Good night --- pillow---sleepnumber stress less: )
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
That, too, but I meant the making money type of business.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
More than once Ss said they knew a tchr cared b/c the tchr would say their name AND pronounce it correctly.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q5: What are some triggers that contribute to your stress?
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
I'm guessing you'd have a lot in common.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @dubioseducator, @toughLoveforx
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
Plus it wouldn't be
#resiliencechat
w/o
@MissShuganah
!!
In reply to @MissShuganah, @envirojer, @MissShuganah
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
I don't like to think about it, but in many (most?) schools, "normalizing stress" is a way of life.
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
Kids experience oppression... and certainly these days, some worrying messaging.
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:37 PM EST
#resiliencechat
YES! We must let Ss know that their worries are legit! We must never downplay their emotions or experiences
In reply to @JeremyDBond
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
Tonight's Q5 - Second time posting
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q5: What are some triggers that contribute to your stress?
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
Ah shucks.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge, @envirojer
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
A5 Sudden routine change is a HUGE trigger to stress for me.
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q5: What are some triggers that contribute to your stress?
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A5: Fear about not connecting with each S/letting them down by not being "there" for them
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
Uh-oh...you are way too kind! I can already tell you are going to rock!!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
Like Ss, Ts stress is triggered by no choice/voice, mandates w/out support, reducing a child to a SS achievement #, etc...
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:42 PM EST
Nighty-night, Mark! Thanks for stopping in and sharing some of your time with us at
#resiliencechat
In reply to @MrBartmas
dawnbraa
Feb 6 @ 10:42 PM EST
@saratruebridge
Thanks for the invite! Want to share about this online book study for
#resiliencechat
members 😀
https://t.co/RoXkgsSFxA
#ece
Educate2day941
Feb 6 @ 10:42 PM EST
A5 Feeling that I could have done more than I did When I've done everything I possibly could, I'm not stressed
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q5: What are some triggers that contribute to your stress?
#resiliencechat
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:42 PM EST
A5: stressed by the rising cost of education, even before college!
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
A5 A persistent fear that historically oppressed/marginalized groups are increasingly in danger.
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
A4 Time to play. Goof around. Veg out.
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
Some take stress as all bad, and yet, that
#stress
initiates
#action
,
#motivation
,
#change
, so, seek to understand it
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
A4: . Right or wrong say it with confidence.
#Resiliencechat
we all make mistakes. It's how we grow and learn.
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
I know. That's a tough one to swallow. It's one thing to cope w/stress. Another thing to normalize.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey, @ResiliencyGuy
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
tech makes it easier to stay connected nowadays
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
A5 Educational bureaucracy drives me nuts! Also when districts value compliance over compassion & common sense.
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
A5 In general, feeling I've let people down stresses me out. Combines with previous fear in a particularly pernicious way.
#resiliencechat
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
This is my 10 yr old's best year with grades! Same T just decided to forgo hmwk for rest of year.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge, @envirojer
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
This isn't a small thing. Think of the message it sends when we get a name wrong without having tried, without even knowing.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:40 PM EST
More than once Ss said they knew a tchr cared b/c the tchr would say their name AND pronounce it correctly.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
A5 Stupid people. That's the short answer. Long answer... Because I allow myself to be triggered.
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
Absolute similarities - Same with some
#admin
I fear.
#resiliencechat
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:41 PM EST
Like Ss, Ts stress is triggered by no choice/voice, mandates w/out support, reducing a child to a SS achievement #, etc...
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
Well, yes. I'm with you on that. Trick is, it's taking a toll on my body, too. Have to deal better w/that.
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
A5
#resiliencechat
not being on same page as school team
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
Couldn't agree with you more!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @CraigLCarson
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:44 PM EST
A5: my stress... constant nagging or interruption or lack of sleep. Lol
#Resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:45 PM EST
A5 Things being unpredictable.
#resiliencechat
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:45 PM EST
Agreed
@ResiliencyGuy
low amounts of stress moves students to action. If done w/ quick movement can increase fun & learning
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:43 PM EST
Some take stress as all bad, and yet, that
#stress
initiates
#action
,
#motivation
,
#change
, so, seek to understand it
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:45 PM EST
A5 Mine when I was in my classroom all that was required the programs, parent conferences I wrote
https://t.co/GpBCwUSggO
#resiliencechat
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:45 PM EST
A5
#resiliencechat
feeling uncertainty abt shared expectations
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:45 PM EST
Went back and noticed context for this tweet was different than I thought. Yes, I see your actual point. :-)
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:45 PM EST
Great point, Rob! Yes, there is good stress AND of course toxic stress.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @bivey
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:46 PM EST
A5: stressed to see many value entertainment/sports over education. See stadiums instead of new schools. Out of whack!
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:46 PM EST
My stress comes from that feeling that I could always have chosen better. Some self-doubtbrings stress.
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Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:46 PM EST
hey there! Sorry I am late.
#Resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:46 PM EST
A5
#resiliencechat
procrastination catching up with me
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:46 PM EST
Hey Sara. Great to be here.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @saratruebridge
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:46 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A5: I worry I won't make the impact I want to achieve w my future Ss. Triggers to stress right now...being a college athlete
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:47 PM EST
Love it!! Must studies show that hmwk is not a positive in elem. grades. Playing is!!
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In reply to @SubWorksPro, @envirojer
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:47 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q6: What are some techniques/strategies/ideas that help you to cope and alleviate stress?
#resiliencechat
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
A6 Going on walks to distract myself taking negative energy and turning it into something positive usually by helping others
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:47 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q6: What are some techniques/strategies/ideas that help you to cope and alleviate stress?
#resiliencechat
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
hey.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Watermelonworks, @ResiliencyGuy
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
Yup! Ss also say they know tchrs. care when they take the time to ask abt their hopes, dreams, & aspiriations.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
A6
#resiliencechat
edchats. Music. Talking w smart people
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
A6: talking to my wife! Acknowledging the feelings and strategizing about realistic solutions.
#resiliencechat
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
As a Rock Band teacher who's a huge supporter of girls/women in sport... I have different stresses than you there!
#ResilienceChat
In reply to @skeeTX
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
Ease your mind minute! If you are with us tonight you are an
#AMAZING
#AWESOME
#WONDERFUL
#PERSON
#FORREALS
!
#resiliencechat
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
A6: talking it out with someone, planning ahead to make things feel manageable, petting my cats.
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
A6 I found walking helped as well as writing on my blog. Reflecting about my teaching and learning. A place for my thinking
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bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
A6 Exercise. Talking to family. My cat. Networking with friends. Music. Also stress eating - does that count? :-\
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Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
A6: put gadgets away an hour b4 bedtime. remember that interruptions happen. do the task promptly and nagging stops.
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CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
A6 - as with Ss, build relationships w/in collaborative team,
#mindfulness
#meditation
movement, music, writing, exercise...
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
Really!!! What's with that?!
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In reply to @skeeTX
miss_mcnally2
Feb 6 @ 10:49 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A6: Going for a run, yoga, music, talking to people you love, BREATHING
EduGladiators
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
❤️SATURDAY
#EduGladiators
series continues w/
@PaulONeill1972
moderating - Discipline from the ❤️!
#EdTechAfterDark
#ILedchat
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
A6 Gardening. Weeding. Planting. Just being close to the earth.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
"Late...Shmate..." ...just happy you're here!!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @Watermelonworks, @ResiliencyGuy
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
My friend Sara -
@LondonBizMoms
made this pic.
#Resiliencechat
In reply to @LondonBizMoms
MarciaDressel
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
yes. Breathing.
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In reply to @miss_mcnally2
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
A6 During my
#mindfulness
I do focus on my
#assets
my
#character
my
#values
My beliefs and I seek to
#trust
my decisions
#resiliencechat
RewardingEdu
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
A6 My new mantra (and subtitle of my next book): faith, grace &gratitude. Calm confidence with deep appreciation helps a lot
#resiliencechat
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A6: mindless activities that keep my hands busy! Cleaning, puzzles, organizing. I must feel accomplished after de-stressing
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
$1.5 billion for new Falcons stadium, Rangers new park coming in DFW. Unnecessary. I support school athletics too.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
Hey
@JeremyDBond
! All is well?
#Resiliencechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
A6b Amazing how doing the things we love creates peace within us- moves us to reflection - allows our body time to mend.
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
A6 Gardening. Weeding. Planting. Just being close to the earth.
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
Yes! Let's hear it for pets!!!
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In reply to @mikegurski_
JeremyDBond
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
A6) Time alone--or time with others. Whichever situation I was in when the stress hits, I seek the opposite.
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:47 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q6: What are some techniques/strategies/ideas that help you to cope and alleviate stress?
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
FOR YOU ALL
#RESILIENCECHAT
PARTICIPANTS!
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:48 PM EST
Ease your mind minute! If you are with us tonight you are an
#AMAZING
#AWESOME
#WONDERFUL
#PERSON
#FORREALS
!
#resiliencechat
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
A6: also, nothing gets the dopamine flowing like spending a little money, even when i absolutely shouldn't
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
I'm with you on those! Even the eating!
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In reply to @bivey
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
A6 Time w/grandkids in another state. Oh wait that leads into other stressors LOL Life doesn't let u ran away from stress
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skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
of course it counts! Just exercise more tomorrow! Guilty pleasures!
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In reply to @bivey
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:52 PM EST
Great lesson here - We must help students do the things they love!
#resiliencechat
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:51 PM EST
A6b Amazing how doing the things we love creates peace within us- moves us to reflection - allows our body time to mend.
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
A6 Gardening. Weeding. Planting. Just being close to the earth.
#resiliencechat
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:53 PM EST
Even doing dishes can do this for me.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @CraigLCarson
SubWorksPro
Feb 6 @ 10:53 PM EST
#resiliencechat
T e-mail said to enjoy family time. Permission to enjoy time=liberating!
In reply to @misskirstenlebo, @saratruebridge, @envirojer
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:53 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A6: Dont forget to count your blessings! taking time 2 realize the good in your life will change your perspective
#Happiness
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
A6: reruns on tv also take my mind off stress. Seinfeld especially
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ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
Love this!
#resiliencechat
Stealing it for sure, I mean borrowing with credits to be awarded!
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:50 PM EST
My friend Sara -
@LondonBizMoms
made this pic.
#Resiliencechat
In reply to @LondonBizMoms
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
Ah. Got it. I would still like to see more $$$ going to female athletes. NWSL players having to board w/fans?!?
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In reply to @skeeTX
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
Let's get rid of some of these boulders!
#resiliencechat
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
ABSOLUTELY!! That reduces stress w/in the classroom environment.
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In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
Yes! Everyday
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misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:53 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A6: Dont forget to count your blessings! taking time 2 realize the good in your life will change your perspective
#Happiness
bivey
Feb 6 @ 10:54 PM EST
:-)
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:55 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q7: Do you have resources to share regarding stress--either as it relates to Ss or adults?
#resiliencechat
#Bringit
PeytonWydickRU
Feb 6 @ 10:55 PM EST
A6 Spending time with my sweet 6 month old niece whenever I'm home helps me destress always!
#resiliencechat
dubioseducator
Feb 6 @ 10:55 PM EST
Me too. Borrowing it I mean
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:55 PM EST
Gratefulness is a foundation of
#mindfulness
- thanks
@misskirstenlebo
for the reminder.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @misskirstenlebo
misskirstenlebo
Feb 6 @ 10:53 PM EST
#resiliencechat
A6: Dont forget to count your blessings! taking time 2 realize the good in your life will change your perspective
#Happiness
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:56 PM EST
...or eating chocolate! (Dark chocolate, that is...)
#resiliencechat
In reply to @mikegurski_
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:56 PM EST
Yep, sometimes it is just what is needed!
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
mikegurski_
Feb 6 @ 10:57 PM EST
agreed. for me its old movies
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:57 PM EST
FIFA should help as it has plenty to assist women's professional soccer.
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In reply to @bivey
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:57 PM EST
A7: easiest resource is deep breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth.
#resiliencechat
LOL OR journaling, sketch notes, draw
MissShuganah
Feb 6 @ 10:57 PM EST
Thanks
@ResiliencyGuy
and
@saratruebridge
for tonight's
#resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @saratruebridge
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:58 PM EST
Please keep adding your resources
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:55 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q7: Do you have resources to share regarding stress--either as it relates to Ss or adults?
#resiliencechat
#Bringit
Watermelonworks
Feb 6 @ 10:58 PM EST
for me it's the Big Bang theory.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @skeeTX
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:58 PM EST
Can't thank everyone enough for joining
#resiliencechat
tonight. I am grateful for everyone sharing their time and thoughts.
skeeTX
Feb 6 @ 10:58 PM EST
I'll be de-stressing Sat night for 14 year old son's bday: Holy Grail, Princess Bride & Spaceballs!
#resiliencechat
ResiliencyGuy
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:59 PM EST
#resiliencechat
Q8: What will you do tomorrow as a result of
#resiliencechat
tonight?
CraigLCarson
Feb 6 @ 10:59 PM EST
Q7 - any resource related to
#mindfulness
and/or movement in the classroom -
https://t.co/6gyjrwJgZ0
is a great start!
#resiliencechat
saratruebridge
- Moderator
Feb 6 @ 10:59 PM EST
Lots of resources now out abt mindfulness in schools and ed.
#resiliencechat
In reply to @CraigLCarson