#3rdchat Archive


Wednesday May 2, 2018
9:00 PM EDT

  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    Hey #3rdchat Welcome!! @SupriyaVasu and myself are super excited to be co-moderating this chat tonight!
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Time for introductions!! Please tell us your name, your position and share a #gif as to how you are feeling tonight! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Hi #3rdchat! @kimmykcollins & I can't wait!! #3rdchat
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Hey! I am Kelsey, and I am a preservice T at Converse College! Feeling awesome! #ConverseChat #3rdchat
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Ron Martiello. 3rd Grade in PA. End of year activities and my kids Spring sports have me running. #3rdchat
  • MrsFollett May 2 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Laura, Keller TX, #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    #3rdchat
    • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:01 PM EDT
      Time for introductions!! Please tell us your name, your position and share a #gif as to how you are feeling tonight! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hi Ashley! Glad to have you! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    Hey! Kim, third grade @HortonsCreekES It’s Wednesday so I’m feeling happy!! #3rdchat
  • DrSandyChambers May 2 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Sandy Chambers! Principal! Lerking! No GIF...just happy! #3rdchat
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Parent in Connecticut! #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Evening everyone! Jessica here. Grade three teacher. #3rdchat
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Good evening #3rdchat peeps. Lesa Haney from Austin TX. I am going to try to stay awake for our chat tonight. There is no tired like EOY teacher tired. I know you all can relate!
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Azure from Derby, KS. 3rd-grade teacher for 5 years. Tonight I am grading papers.... #3rdchat
  • hartel30 May 2 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    John from STL MO... checking in and out for #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Question #1 will be right up!! #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    HAPPENING NOW: @SupriyaVasu and @kimmykcollins leading a chat on building and sustaining relationships. Follow along at #3rdchat!
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Good luck to you!! 📝📝📝 #3rdchat
    In reply to @azurehenwood
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    First question of the night! #3rdchat
  • hartel30 May 2 @ 9:08 PM EDT
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Hi #3rdchat peeps! This is me after a great IEP today where I got to tell a mom how much awesome progress her kiddo has made this year
  • shelbyjensen67 May 2 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Howdy! Shelby, undergrad for elem. ed. in WY. How finals have me feeling! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Hi! Supriya 3rd grade teacher @HortonsCreekES #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Glad you are here @DrSandyChambers #3rdchat
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    I’m the only male in the house. 😏 #3rdchat
    In reply to @lesahaney, @kimmykcollins
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    Tania Knapp- 3rd grade #3rdchat @Knappers3rd
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    My pleasure! Thank you for the opportunity! #3rdchat
    In reply to @azurehenwood, @HortonsCreekES
  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    Q1 #3rdchat Positive relationships between teachers and students are trust. Giving a hug when it's needed without having to ask. Being there to listen when they need you. Pushing them out of their comfort zone with their learning and they don't ask questions. Pure TRUST
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    Hi Tania! Happy you could join #3rdchat! Welcome! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    Question number .... #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: Here’s one example: https://t.co/5GPGFjsbaT #3rdchat
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A1: Positive relationships look like smiles, high fives, hugs, meaningful conversations, genuine care, unconditional love and support no matter what! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Exactly!! #3rdchat
    • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:10 PM EDT
      Q1 #3rdchat Positive relationships between teachers and students are trust. Giving a hug when it's needed without having to ask. Being there to listen when they need you. Pushing them out of their comfort zone with their learning and they don't ask questions. Pure TRUST
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: to me it looks like hugs/high fives at the door, students leading class discussions, teachers sitting with the kids. #3rdchat
  • hartel30 May 2 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    A1: Engagement... and not just students engaged in lesson (although that will be a by-product) but Ss and Ts engaged in conversations, sharing thoughts ideas and life (as much as possible); trust and safety for risk taking #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Trust is the foundation for everything. #3rdchat
    In reply to @MsVonglis3, @kimmykcollins
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Positive relationships and trust go hand in hand! #3rdchat
    • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:10 PM EDT
      Q1 #3rdchat Positive relationships between teachers and students are trust. Giving a hug when it's needed without having to ask. Being there to listen when they need you. Pushing them out of their comfort zone with their learning and they don't ask questions. Pure TRUST
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: Students need to trust their teachers. It is SO critical for a positive relationship. Love first, teach second! #3rdchat
  • MrsFollett May 2 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: The big thing is conversation between teacher and student about other things beside school! Smiles, full engagement , trust! #3rdchat
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A1: Ts and Ss support each other in success and failure. They laugh and cry together. Most importantly, they make each other better. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    #3rdchat 🙌🏻
    • hartel30 May 2 @ 9:12 PM EDT
      A1: Engagement... and not just students engaged in lesson (although that will be a by-product) but Ss and Ts engaged in conversations, sharing thoughts ideas and life (as much as possible); trust and safety for risk taking #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    Question #2 will be coming your way shortly! #3rdchat
  • shelbyjensen67 May 2 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1: Being able to connect with students and finding out how/when they need to be pushed, in a way they'll understand without overwhelming them to get their best education #3rdchat
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A1: Hugs, handshakes, high fives, just chatting with the kiddos as you walk from place to place. Asking them questions about their lives and then remembering to ask follow ups later #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Question 2 is here! #3rdchat
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Q1: Positive relationships look like happy/sincere body language... hugs, smiles, winks, unnecessary dialogue/just a look. You know it. You feel it and it makes you 😁😊 #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Good stuff, Kathryn. #3rdchat
    In reply to @katnish16
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Very true, Shelby. #3rdchat
    In reply to @shelbyjensen67
  • hartel30 May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2 Not sure what empathy translates to as a sound... but that. Caring words, caring tones #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Asking genuine questions tells them you are interested in learning more about them and knowing them, that you care! #3rdchat
    • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:14 PM EDT
      A1: Hugs, handshakes, high fives, just chatting with the kiddos as you walk from place to place. Asking them questions about their lives and then remembering to ask follow ups later #3rdchat
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A1 Strong relationships are always about meaningful connections. This means knowing my kids beyond the surface of fav subject. It’s who needs to talk after a tough spot in a read aloud. Who needs to have quiet space after recess. Who needs a joke. They all need ❤️. #3rdchat
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Yes! How about your snow?! #3rdchat
    In reply to @Ron_Martiello
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2: Students giving honest feedback. Correcting the teacher (goodness knows I make plenty of mistakes. I don't know where I would be without this!) Laughter, please, thank you... #3rdchat
  • shelbyjensen67 May 2 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A2: Encouragement! and support, positive vibes for sure #3rdchat
  • mscarleysclass May 2 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Q2: students collaborating, supporting each other, offering feedback, assuming positive intentions, teamwork, encouragement !! #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    The classroom should look warm and inviting. It should be an organized chaos, where students are learning but also having fun at the same time! #3rdchat
  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    Q2 #3rdchat : REAL conversations, mutual respect in both tone and dialogue, and most importantly, everyone has input in the learning and environment. My students love helping me brainstorm new ways to arrange the room! It is their "home" too!
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: Honest conversations with Ss, laughter, engaged learners, encouragment and trust. This is built by check-in throughout the day. Conversations about their emotional needs. In our room, we check in using the zones of regulation and discuss those emotions. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: There’s definitely a "feel" to a classroom where environment and relationships come together. Not an exaggeration to say that it’s almost magical. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    Laughter is so important!! Having fun while learning together! #3rdchat
    • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
      A2: Students giving honest feedback. Correcting the teacher (goodness knows I make plenty of mistakes. I don't know where I would be without this!) Laughter, please, thank you... #3rdchat
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A2: The classroom should look warm and inviting. It should be an organized chaos, where students are learning but also having fun at the same time! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    I agree! Being sincere is the key! #3rdchat
    • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:15 PM EDT
      Q1: Positive relationships look like happy/sincere body language... hugs, smiles, winks, unnecessary dialogue/just a look. You know it. You feel it and it makes you 😁😊 #3rdchat
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Q2: Looks like having family, friends, neighbors, colleagues; people who care about you and those you care about in one place. It sounds like a family discussing things that matter to all of us. #3rdchat
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A2: Students and teacher giving each other positive feedback/encouragement #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Yes to all of the above, especially LOVE! #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsJKowbel
  • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    My name is McKaylia and I’m a student at Converse College! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    Awesome point!! There is a wonderful from the second you walk into the classroom you can feel it!! #3rdchat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    "Family" is exactly the right word, Tania. #3rdchat
    In reply to @TaniaK1031
  • MrsEschler May 2 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    Jumping in late! Aly from CO #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    its precious when they correct your mistakes. Can't live or teach without laughter & smiles! #3rdchat
    • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:16 PM EDT
      A2: Students giving honest feedback. Correcting the teacher (goodness knows I make plenty of mistakes. I don't know where I would be without this!) Laughter, please, thank you... #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Question #3 will be making its way in just a minute! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    Assuming positive intentions is essential to build relationships. #3rdchat
    • mscarleysclass May 2 @ 9:17 PM EDT
      Q2: students collaborating, supporting each other, offering feedback, assuming positive intentions, teamwork, encouragement !! #3rdchat
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    In the 80’s hear in PA. It was snowing 2 week’s ago. #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsJKowbel
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    So... is a quiet classroom like family? #3rdchat
    • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:20 PM EDT
      "Family" is exactly the right word, Tania. #3rdchat
      In reply to @TaniaK1031
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Here is our third question! #3rdchat
  • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A1: A positive relationship is where the students trust you! It’s also where you both have respect for one another #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Welcome to #3rdchat tonight!!
    In reply to @MrsEschler
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2 Building trust; being able to disagree and for both parties to move forward together is key. At the end of each day, I give each child a fist bump and we say “peace be with you.” No matter what we care for each other. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    Welcome, fellow Coloradan! #3rdchat 🏔
    In reply to @MrsEschler
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Not my family! 😉 #3rdchat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • MrsEschler May 2 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A3: Letting Ss know you are there for them and rooting for them to be successful in life, not just in “school”. #3rdchat
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    Thank goodness, yes! I always thank them for helping me with my learning. The older I get, the more I depend on them to help me. #3rdchat
    In reply to @azurehenwood
  • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A2: The classroom should be colorful and have student work displayed. This lets the students know that you are proud of their work. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    My parents sent me a picture on April 2nd, which is my bday, of snow on the ground. I never experienced snow on my bday ever in Pennsylvania!! Moved to NC in 2003, love our weather!! #3rdchat
    In reply to @Ron_Martiello, @MrsJKowbel
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Hello, Alycia! #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsEschler
  • shelbyjensen67 May 2 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A3: Always hype them up! Theres always room for improvement, but when somethings done how it should be, it should be acknowledged. Always be open to their thoughts and ideas (: #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A classroom community or a classroom family built around trust is essential to provide a safe and respectful learning environment for all learners. #3rdchat
    • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:19 PM EDT
      Q2: Looks like having family, friends, neighbors, colleagues; people who care about you and those you care about in one place. It sounds like a family discussing things that matter to all of us. #3rdchat
  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Q3 #3rdchat : Giving comments instead of grades that are specific in praise but focus on their growth, not being "the best". "I love the way you..." instead of "A+", "4", or "You are so smart!" Teaching students to work hard in order to feel PROUD of themselves.
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    Yes! I always like to have student work up even if it's incorrect. Shows that the learning process is more important than a perfect final product. #3rdchat
    In reply to @MckayliaW
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3: Motivation is all about the relationships you build with your students. #3rdchat
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A3: Celebrate the positive progress no matter how small. Positive phone calls home for accomplishments, emails, texts, and face to face conversations with the Ps can make the student more engaged in their progress. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    We only have one volume in my class...loud, lol!! Actually when it is time to work quietly they do!! Most of the time though it’s loud and I love it! #3rdchat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Glad you’re somewhere where the weather suits you! April showers is always April snow here lol. #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins, @Ron_Martiello
  • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Be their hype man! Always cheer them on even when they are inside of themselves! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    #growthmindset helps! #3rdchat
    • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:25 PM EDT
      Q3 #3rdchat : Giving comments instead of grades that are specific in praise but focus on their growth, not being "the best". "I love the way you..." instead of "A+", "4", or "You are so smart!" Teaching students to work hard in order to feel PROUD of themselves.
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Q3: Being a good role model. Sharing your strengths and weaknesses. Holding yourself accountable- a two way street. No excuses just because you are the ‘teacher’. #3rdchat
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A3: If Ts show Ss that they care, that can go a long way toward motivating Ss to do their best #3rdchat
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A4: Keeping it focused on what is best for the kids. Realizing that parents are my partners. Letting go of my ego. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Watch out question #4 is next! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    You said it! I love the sunshine it brings to Ps when they receive a positive phone call or email! #3rdchat
    • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:26 PM EDT
      A3: Celebrate the positive progress no matter how small. Positive phone calls home for accomplishments, emails, texts, and face to face conversations with the Ps can make the student more engaged in their progress. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Lol!! Yes!! I was not made for the snowy weather in Pittsburgh!! Not sure how I made it all those years walking to and from the bus stop in 10 feet of snow!! Lol!! #3rdchat Totally embellished that story but brrr to the snow and cold!!
    In reply to @MrsJKowbel, @Ron_Martiello
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A3: Encouraging always! Also, not grading the first attempt. Instead of putting a grade, give them feedback and give them a chance to show you they can do better! It is a learning trajectory! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Question number 4 is here! #3rdchat
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:30 PM EDT
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  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    Q4 #3rdchat : Phone calls or face to face are important for the difficult conversations. Let them hear your tone and know how much you care!
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    A3 Assigning meaningful and purposeful work. Work should be shared with an authentic audience and/or have a practical/fun application. Avoiding the carrot and the stick if possible. #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:30 PM EDT
    Parents are our partners in a child's success. After all we both wish well for "our" children #3rdchat
    • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:28 PM EDT
      A4: Keeping it focused on what is best for the kids. Realizing that parents are my partners. Letting go of my ego. #3rdchat
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A3: I have had the biggest success motivating students this year through continual feedback in Math. I tell my students to be bold & fierce when attacking word problems. Problems cannot beat them. There are multiple ways to beat it. Teammates are there to support them. #3rdchat
  • MrsEschler May 2 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: being honest and letting them know you’re their partner in helping their child be the best they can be. Already having built a positive relationship helps! #3rdchat
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:31 PM EDT
    A4: I prefer face to face, but usually it is over the phone. I always sandwich the conversation with the things I am thankful for regarding their child. I may be calling to have a difficult conversation but I still want them to know how much I love and care for the child.#3rdchat
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Q4- Starts the first day... you communicate, make connections. You get to know them through their kiddos. Meet to chat and be incredibly clear that we are a TEAM. I always take a minute to chat with them “as a mom” - I have been there, done that kind of feeling. #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Yes- and also Ss giving each other feedback and reflecting, learning from each other! #3rdchat
    In reply to @TaniaK1031
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4: I haven't experienced this being a preservice T, but I know that at the preschool I work at we try to sandwich it. Tell something good, tell the bad, then tell something good. #3rdchat
  • shelbyjensen67 May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    A4: face to face, ideally, or phone call so tones can be easily detected that you're just trying to help their kid. Acknowledge students strong suits as well. Just being understanding #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Oh I like that “bold and fierce” such a great way to encourage your students!! Going to use that as we tackle review problems soon!! #3rdchat
    In reply to @Ron_Martiello
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
    Yes!! So very important! #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsEschler
  • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: I would always try to have a face to face conversation. I would try to keep the tone light and never make it seem like anything is anyone’s fault. We are all in this for what’s best for the child. #3rdchat
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    A4: I haven't experienced this being a preservice T, but I know that at the preschool I work at we try to sandwich it if there is an issue. Tell something positive, tell them the issue, then tell something positive. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:33 PM EDT
    Partnership is the key. #3rdchat
    In reply to @SupriyaVasu
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4: Remember that Ps, Ts, and Ss are all on the same team because we all want what's best for the S. #3rdchat
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    A4) As a parent, I would expect that this is far from the first conversation. If we have a relationship, the conversation is a lot less difficult. Begin with the positive, always, always. I'm your partner, not an adversary. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    Amen on empathy! #3rdchat
    In reply to @TaniaK1031
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:34 PM EDT
    Fantastic rule to follow! #3rdchat
    In reply to @kelseyrector23
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    Question 5 will be up in one minute! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    #truth #3rdchat
    • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:34 PM EDT
      A4: Remember that Ps, Ts, and Ss are all on the same team because we all want what's best for the S. #3rdchat
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4: Honestly and genuinely. They have hopes and dreams for their children. My conversation, even a difficult one, should align with that vision. #3rdchat
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    A4 Phone or in person helps. Framing the conversation as a team effort. “I’m on your child’s team with you. I care about your child’s growth as a person and a learner.” #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    I prefer face to face too. Sometimes it changes to a heart- to-heart when parents and teachers completely understand and trust each other #3rdchat
    • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:31 PM EDT
      A4: I prefer face to face, but usually it is over the phone. I always sandwich the conversation with the things I am thankful for regarding their child. I may be calling to have a difficult conversation but I still want them to know how much I love and care for the child.#3rdchat
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:35 PM EDT
    They don't need to think they're great. They need to know they're loved. #3rdchat
    • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:25 PM EDT
      Q3 #3rdchat : Giving comments instead of grades that are specific in praise but focus on their growth, not being "the best". "I love the way you..." instead of "A+", "4", or "You are so smart!" Teaching students to work hard in order to feel PROUD of themselves.
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    Let's chat question 5! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:36 PM EDT
    #3rdchat is on fire tonight!! 🔥 So many great ideas being shared out tonight!! 🔥
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    Being a mom helps- LOL! #3rdchat
    • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:32 PM EDT
      Q4- Starts the first day... you communicate, make connections. You get to know them through their kiddos. Meet to chat and be incredibly clear that we are a TEAM. I always take a minute to chat with them “as a mom” - I have been there, done that kind of feeling. #3rdchat
  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:37 PM EDT
    Q5 #3rdchat : They know that they have a team behind them, rooting them on! They are not alone, ever!
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A3: inspiring question. My teacher helped me embrace fear to make mistakes. And that has changed me forever. #3rdchat https://t.co/vvBQScqOhy
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    #inthistogether #3rdchat
    • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:34 PM EDT
      A4: Remember that Ps, Ts, and Ss are all on the same team because we all want what's best for the S. #3rdchat
  • shelbyjensen67 May 2 @ 9:38 PM EDT
    A5: A bigger support system, always beneficial for positive growth in all things! School, home, peer groups, sports, interests, etc. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5: Few things like a united front to show students how much the adults in their lives care. #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    We are having a great discussion #3rdchat!
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:39 PM EDT
    A5) When all families are included and informed, all students feel they belong. That cultivates a seamless environment of learning between school and home. #InformedFamilies #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    With some great hosts! #3rdchat
    In reply to @SupriyaVasu
  • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5: The child benefits greatly! That’s just a great support system they have behind them #3rdchat
  • MrsEschler May 2 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    A5: The students are happy, healthy and pursuing their passions and interests! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:40 PM EDT
    Thank you! #3rdchat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    A5: 1. Context from home is not lost at school and vice a versa. 2. There is a collaboration between the two most powerful sources of motivation. Whole is more than sum of its parts. 3. Fear to ask questions is gone when both teacher and parent are on same page. #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    Yes. Hopefully, the relationships have been established prior to any problems. #3rdchat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    Now I've got this song in my head https://t.co/NonaNUezow #3rdchat
    In reply to @MsVonglis3, @kimmykcollins
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
    Q5: There is respect, accountability, trust... every single member of the team benefits from having a shared vision. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    Watch out for question 6 in one minute! #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    This!! 👇🏻 Powerful answer! #3rdchat
    • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
      A5: 1. Context from home is not lost at school and vice a versa. 2. There is a collaboration between the two most powerful sources of motivation. Whole is more than sum of its parts. 3. Fear to ask questions is gone when both teacher and parent are on same page. #3rdchat
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    A5: That is double the support! A parent not on the teacher's side can lead to a student not being on the teacher's side as well. It can create a negative relationship with the student! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:42 PM EDT
    Yes- that's the goal- EVERY single member of the team benefits. Nobody is left out #3rdchat
    • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
      Q5: There is respect, accountability, trust... every single member of the team benefits from having a shared vision. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    Question 6! #3rdchat
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    When families and teachers work closely the child can see everyone cares for them. The term “team” is truly lived. Tough situations are approached as team. Progress can be celebrated by everyone. #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:43 PM EDT
    Well said my friend! #3rdchat
    • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:41 PM EDT
      A5: 1. Context from home is not lost at school and vice a versa. 2. There is a collaboration between the two most powerful sources of motivation. Whole is more than sum of its parts. 3. Fear to ask questions is gone when both teacher and parent are on same page. #3rdchat
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    Cool #gif to match your answer!! 🙌🏻 #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsJKowbel
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    A5: Students feel that they are part of a community of people who love and care for them. One day, they will be ready to give back to their own community. #3rdchat
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:44 PM EDT
    Indeed! The intent is so often lost when not spoken about. If child knows true intent of feedback ke criticism of lesson is to improve his long term life and not to point out mistakes, the reception is more positive #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsEschler
  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    Q6 #3rdchat : I actually just talked with my students yesterday about this. It is important to teach them that there are people on the other side of the screen. That technology is important but we must use it for good and not get lost behind the keyboard. #digitalcitizenship
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:45 PM EDT
    More power to them. But I was more concerned about why general public not joining these protests. Why mostly teachers alone need to speak out. It's a larger social change needed #3rdchat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond, @DegnerJoni
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:46 PM EDT
    Q6: Being intentional about creating face to face opportunities with meaningful goals. #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:47 PM EDT
    It is important to teach digital safety, using self control to make the right choices digitally #3rdchat
    • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:45 PM EDT
      Q6 #3rdchat : I actually just talked with my students yesterday about this. It is important to teach them that there are people on the other side of the screen. That technology is important but we must use it for good and not get lost behind the keyboard. #digitalcitizenship
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    Q6: Being intentional about creating face to face opportunities with meaningful goals. Using your writer’s voice when communicating through social media. Knowing that someone is there to communicate with you daily- on the other side of the screen. #3rdchat
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:48 PM EDT
    A5: It's a win-win situation for everyone. Parents have a true picture of their childs educational needs and accomplishments. Students know that parents are just as invested as the teacher and themselves. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    Our last question will be up shortly but not leave because there is a bonus question!!! #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    Right on, Ron! #3rdchat
    In reply to @Ron_Martiello
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:49 PM EDT
    A6) It is and it isn’t. It also expands relationships, as with our PLN here. Teach and model digital citizenship and kids will follow your lead. #digcit #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    Question number 7- #3rdchat
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6: Nothing can replace the face to face or phone conversations. So much is lost in translation when we can't see body language, hear voice fluctuation, and so on. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A6: Social media can be a useful tool, but it’s important to remember that nothing can replace the human connection of a face-to-face conversation. #3rdchat
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:50 PM EDT
    A4: wow. That's is actually a super selfless way to look at children you teach. 'our' is powerful beyond the word. Makes me so jealous of your profession :) #3rdchat
    In reply to @SupriyaVasu
  • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6: Work to connect with families not just communicate. Don't jam their social media feed with events and procedures. Tell your story. Have them share in the experience. Check out my latest 2 Minute Drill: Connecting Vs. Communicating https://t.co/klYekHcKhn #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    What's best for the child - important words and thought. #3rdchat
    • MckayliaW May 2 @ 9:33 PM EDT
      A4: I would always try to have a face to face conversation. I would try to keep the tone light and never make it seem like anything is anyone’s fault. We are all in this for what’s best for the child. #3rdchat
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    Have to share a funny moment from today with you #3rdchat peeps. Told a kid who was out of his seat to "take a seat". He grabbed a chair and said "OK, I took a seat. Where should I put it?" Started laughing too much to stay annoyed!
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:51 PM EDT
    A6 Social media can bring a sense of community. It depends how it’s used. My class’ @Seesaw posts bring parents into the classroom even though most cannot physically come in regularly. Many school’s’ Facebook and twitter accounts do a similar job on a different level. #3rdchat
  • lesahaney May 2 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    Great point about connecting not just communicating. I am stealing this one for sure. #3rdchat
    In reply to @Ron_Martiello
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    I agree, Azure. #3rdchat
    In reply to @azurehenwood
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    I have to say one benefit to social media is being Facebook/Instagram friends with former Ss and Ps. Love seeing what they are up to and (I think) they like knowing I still care and will always be one of "my kids" #3rdchat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    Meaningful Relationships. #3rdchat
  • MrsEschler May 2 @ 9:52 PM EDT
    A7: Love this! Might use it next year on the first day of school. I would love to hear what my kiddos think about this. Exactly what I want my classroom to exude! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    I agree #3rdchat
    • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:50 PM EDT
      A6: Nothing can replace the face to face or phone conversations. So much is lost in translation when we can't see body language, hear voice fluctuation, and so on. #3rdchat
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    Both should be on the child’s side. That doesn’t mean there aren’t disagreements, but it’s important to place the child at the center without making them caught in the middle. #3rdchat
    • kelseyrector23 May 2 @ 9:42 PM EDT
      A5: That is double the support! A parent not on the teacher's side can lead to a student not being on the teacher's side as well. It can create a negative relationship with the student! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    Powerful. #3rdchat
    • TaniaK1031 May 2 @ 9:48 PM EDT
      Q6: Being intentional about creating face to face opportunities with meaningful goals. Using your writer’s voice when communicating through social media. Knowing that someone is there to communicate with you daily- on the other side of the screen. #3rdchat
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:53 PM EDT
    A7: Whatever you do, do it with integrity. #3rdchat
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    A6: yes and no. If we take context from offline learning to online & share with intent to listen, social media is powerful. Not if we want to speak louder than other Human interactions become stronger when listening happens regardless of the medium. #3rdchat Classic example :)
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:54 PM EDT
    We can motivate our Ss to be change agents #3rdchat
    • Ron_Martiello May 2 @ 9:44 PM EDT
      A5: Students feel that they are part of a community of people who love and care for them. One day, they will be ready to give back to their own community. #3rdchat
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    Bonus Question.... #3rdchat
  • MrsHenderson3rd May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    Q1 #3rdchat @SupriyaVasu I can say that out of anyone I know you show the greatest sincerity- always. You have a genuine heart. @HortonsCreekES
  • azurehenwood May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7: Nothing is just given. You have to earn everything. These characteristics are like building blocks. One by one you become a better person. #3rdchat
  • Tejazz89 May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    Digital citizenship is a fascinating name for a required course :) it's a world out there with its own rules and challenges #3rdchat
    In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    A7: What you give, you get in return. #3rdchat
  • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
    Q7 #3rdchat : This quote says alot 2 me about the relationships I have with my students and my colleagues. It is important 2 have mutual respect and honesty. With that comes trust and loyalty. Without those things, relationships fall apart and it is a tough environment to be in.
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • MrsJKowbel May 2 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    A6 I’m also thinking of the opportunity of developing professionally through twitter. Social media has brought new opportunities for many educators to grow as professionals. This has brought many connections that wouldn’t exist otherwise. #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:56 PM EDT
    You are too kind! Way too kind! Thank you! #3rdchat
    In reply to @MrsHenderson3rd, @HortonsCreekES
  • EduGladiators May 2 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    SATURDAY...NEW month! NEW #EduGladiators series - 🍎Teaching & Learning w/ @teresagross625 lead 💻 Student Blogging convo! #3rdchat #arvrinedu #educoach #BmoreEdChat #ohedchat Txed #scitlap #sblchat #makeitreal #UTedchat #weirded #IDedchat @courosa @DrRaShawnAdams @MrsDurantWHS
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:57 PM EDT
    As @DrKMattson pointed out tonight, policies that restrict online connections between teachers and students can be lost opportunities. Use school to teach positive online practices and you might just create lifelong relationships. #digcit #3rdchat
    • katnish16 May 2 @ 9:52 PM EDT
      I have to say one benefit to social media is being Facebook/Instagram friends with former Ss and Ps. Love seeing what they are up to and (I think) they like knowing I still care and will always be one of "my kids" #3rdchat
      In reply to @JeremyDBond
  • Dale_Chu May 2 @ 9:58 PM EDT
    Kindness and empathy. #3rdchat
    In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • kimmykcollins May 2 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    Thank you!! #3rdchat
  • SupriyaVasu May 2 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    Can't be one sided! Respect, love and trust have to be mutual. #3rdchat
    • MsVonglis3 May 2 @ 9:55 PM EDT
      Q7 #3rdchat : This quote says alot 2 me about the relationships I have with my students and my colleagues. It is important 2 have mutual respect and honesty. With that comes trust and loyalty. Without those things, relationships fall apart and it is a tough environment to be in.
      In reply to @kimmykcollins
  • MrsHenderson3rd May 2 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    Q7 #3rdchat- I feel that it reflects the essence of who we desire our kids (and ourselves for that matter) to evolve into- relationally strong adults. @HortonsCreekES
    In reply to @kimmykcollins, @SupriyaVasu, @HortonsCreekES
  • JeremyDBond May 2 @ 9:59 PM EDT
    Valuing and seeking the voice of both. Nothing about ‘em without ‘em. #ptchat #stuvoice #3rdchat