#resiliencechat Archive

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:02 PM EDT

Welcome to #resiliencechat! Who is out there in Twitterland joining us tonight?

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:02 PM EDT

Anyone being resilient tonight? #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:03 PM EDT

Just walked in the door, and my batteries need charging! #resiliencechat Hi @saratruebridge Rob here!

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:02 PM EDT

Welcome to #resiliencechat! Who is out there in Twitterland joining us tonight?

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:03 PM EDT

YES! We're here! Good to have you here, Debbie! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:03 PM EDT

Who else is being resilient on #resiliencechat tonight?

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:04 PM EDT

Good to be here. #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:04 PM EDT

Good to see you, Rob! Get those batteries charged! #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

dlpetrie69 Mar 13 @ 10:04 PM EDT

Good evening! Dorothy here from Webster, NY. What's the topic tonight? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:05 PM EDT

Hope my Tweets are coming through. I may have solved the problem--yet at the expense of sending out invitations to #resiliencechat :(

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:05 PM EDT

#resiliencechat tribe! Let's get at it! @DinwiddieUNC @PrincipalTrots @KristenWitt13 @A_Klein09 @smile_more_ @choy_shareen @RiskMgr_FSUSD

In reply to @DinwiddieUNC, @PrincipalTrots, @KristenWitt13, @A_Klein09, @smile_more_, @choy_shareen, @RiskMgr_FSUSD

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:06 PM EDT

Tonight's #resiliencechat topic is: Looking Beyond and Behind Behavior.

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:06 PM EDT

I'm seeing you on the #resiliencechat feed. We might want to get an email listing from folks, and blast our invites that way!

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:05 PM EDT

Hope my Tweets are coming through. I may have solved the problem--yet at the expense of sending out invitations to #resiliencechat :(

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:07 PM EDT

I know there are some lurkers out there--please join in--we're a welcoming bunch here at #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:07 PM EDT

Good idea! #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:07 PM EDT

Tonight's #Resiliencechat topic: Looking Beyond and Behind Behavior

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:06 PM EDT

Tonight's #resiliencechat topic is: Looking Beyond and Behind Behavior.

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:08 PM EDT

Hi Rob. #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:08 PM EDT

Maybe ppl can send their emails my way #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT

As always, I like to start out with a #resiliencechat Tidbit to get things rolling...

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT

#resiliencechat Tidbit: When a student has an outburst in class, we sometimes react w/o understanding what may behind his/her behavior.

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT

helloooo. May be in and out, but always happy to join. Jeremy, Connecticut. #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

OK...so here's #resiliencechat Q1...

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ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

Tonight's #resiliencechat #tidbit

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:09 PM EDT

#resiliencechat Tidbit: When a student has an outburst in class, we sometimes react w/o understanding what may behind his/her behavior.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

Hey Jeremy! How's the weather where you are? #resiliencechat

In reply to @JeremyDBond

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

Tidbit: Have I got a Kid Q story for you. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

Q1: What is the difference between reacting and responding? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:11 PM EDT

A1 Self control. Compassion. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:11 PM EDT

Tonight's #Resiliencechat Q1

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

Q1: What is the difference between reacting and responding? #resiliencechat

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:11 PM EDT

it's calm before the rilly big storm. I'll post a visual tomorrow! #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:12 PM EDT

A1 #resiliencechat When we react e tend to have no plan, when we respond we have purpose behind our response - need lots of planning.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:12 PM EDT

My son is in Amherst MA and is waiting for the storm to hit. #resiliencechat

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MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:12 PM EDT

When Kid Q was in first grade, they tried to mainstream her. Classroom was jammed packed with kids. Like sardines. #resiliencechat

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:13 PM EDT

cool. UMass? #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:13 PM EDT

...and... #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:13 PM EDT

Class was team taught, Gen Ed teacher and SpEd teacher. A few weeks into the first quarter, they changed SpEd teacher. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:13 PM EDT

Yup! Doing his masters--biochemistry. YIKES! Beyond my comprehension! #resiliencechat

In reply to @JeremyDBond

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:14 PM EDT

...and... #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:14 PM EDT

Second SpEd teacher was a nice woman who also happened to be Jewish. She took off for Rosh Hashanah. Kid Q had a meltdown. #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:15 PM EDT

Oh my! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:15 PM EDT

Very difficult to initiate and sustain positive systems with changes in teachers so soon after starting. #Resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:13 PM EDT

Class was team taught, Gen Ed teacher and SpEd teacher. A few weeks into the first quarter, they changed SpEd teacher. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:15 PM EDT

Sometime's we react when in fact we should respond. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:16 PM EDT

Q2: Share an example of what reacting to a student's behavior might look like. #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:16 PM EDT

I came home from services and received a call parents dread. "Mrs. Gleason..." She had been taken down to the office. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:16 PM EDT

Please use #resiliencechat in all of your responses so others can track your important words.

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:17 PM EDT

As I recall, they didn't have a substitute SpEd teacher. Only GenEd teacher. Kid Q took off all of her clothes. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:17 PM EDT

Q2 for 3/1317 #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:16 PM EDT

Q2: Share an example of what reacting to a student's behavior might look like. #resiliencechat

BarbaraGruener Mar 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT

Howdy #resiliencechat friends. A2: Reacting to a S might look like yelling, fussing, shaming if it's done out of frustration.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT

Hmmm...quiet night out there in #resiliencechat land...I know others are out there...come out, come out wherever you are...

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT

Hi Barbara! Yes...those are examples of reacting for sure! #resiliencechat

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MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT

They immediately changed her back to a SpEd class. Teacher. Aide. Handful of kids. Much better setting for her. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:19 PM EDT

A2 #resiliencechat A reaction comes from instinct, potentially a visceral act that might be defensive, rather than healing.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:19 PM EDT

Great way of describing where a reaction comes from! #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:19 PM EDT

For anyone. When we're talking about special needs kids, very difficult to adjust. #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:20 PM EDT

Yes, the action is more about us, rather than assisting the student to grow from our response. #resiliencechat

BarbaraGruener Mar 13 @ 10:18 PM EDT

Howdy #resiliencechat friends. A2: Reacting to a S might look like yelling, fussing, shaming if it's done out of frustration.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:20 PM EDT

...and transitions can be difficult as well. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah, @ResiliencyGuy

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT

Q3: Share an example of responding to a student's behavior. #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT

Our older one, Kid O, is very bad at transitions. She is the queen. Mad when people leave. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge, @ResiliencyGuy

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT

I'd never thought of this before. A1) Responding is what we're doing now. Reacting is either visceral or reflective. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:10 PM EDT

Q1: What is the difference between reacting and responding? #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:22 PM EDT

Q3 #Resiliencechat 3/13/17

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:21 PM EDT

Q3: Share an example of responding to a student's behavior. #resiliencechat

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:22 PM EDT

A1 Reacting is less intentional; responding is strategic and with purpose. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:22 PM EDT

Hi Allison! Love your distinction! #resiliencechat

In reply to @A_Klein09

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:22 PM EDT

#resiliencechat A2 Reacting may look out of control and harmful.

In reply to @saratruebridge

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT

#resiliencechat A3 Responding starts with listening and understanding...it should be even keel and safe.

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BarbaraGruener Mar 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT

A3: Response to behaviors look & sound like, "How can I help you manage?" "Tell me more." "Let's grow together thru this." #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT

A2 Assuming Kid O is stupid because she is nonverbal. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT

A3: #resiliencechat Responding to a student's behavior can be to extinguish, increase, or adjust behavior, so it should be purposeful.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT

Q3: Share an example of what responding to a student's behavior might look like vs. reacting to it. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:24 PM EDT

Love these responses. #resiliencechat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:24 PM EDT

A3 Showing a student love and compassion like Ms. AK did with Kid O. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:24 PM EDT

A3 #resiliencechat Response should be thoughtful to bring about a desired reaction, not random, and unplanned.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:24 PM EDT

YAY for Ms. AK!! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:25 PM EDT

A3 Why losing Ms. AK was so profound. The way she loved those kids. They were all individuals to her beyond disabilities. #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 13 @ 10:26 PM EDT

A3: Start with " I am sure there was a reason for that choice " rather than judging blind #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:26 PM EDT

How fortunate for you and your child to have had the experience of working with her! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:26 PM EDT

Hi Brian! Nice answer to Q3! #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:26 PM EDT

Great Strategies @A_Klein09 #Resiliencechat

In reply to @A_Klein09

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:23 PM EDT

#resiliencechat A3 Responding starts with listening and understanding...it should be even keel and safe.
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MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:27 PM EDT

Very fortunate. She was my oasis. She loved. She didn't judge. Stark contrast between her and others. #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:27 PM EDT

We never know what may be behind a child's behavior. #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:28 PM EDT

Was a good two years. Gave me breathing room. #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:28 PM EDT

Q4 around the corner... #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:28 PM EDT

Breathing room is a good thing! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:30 PM EDT

Q4: What may cause us to react rather than respond to a student's behavior? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:30 PM EDT

I will always be grateful to her for that. I will always miss her. #resiliencechat

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ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:31 PM EDT

Q4 #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:30 PM EDT

Q4: What may cause us to react rather than respond to a student's behavior? #resiliencechat

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:31 PM EDT

A4) As a parent, not a teacher, I think we sometimes see kid behavior as a reflection on us. We may take it too personally. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:30 PM EDT

Q4: What may cause us to react rather than respond to a student's behavior? #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 13 @ 10:32 PM EDT

A4: violent acts or things that put others in danger can cause over the tough reactions #Resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:32 PM EDT

A4 #Resiliencechat I see some people #React rather than #respond when they are not secure with their #strategies #intent #resources.

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:32 PM EDT

A4 Certain built in prejudices. Lack of patience. Being a human being. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:32 PM EDT

A4 Our own biases. Failed prior attempts and frustration on our part. Our own stresses. We must control ourselves. #resiliencechat

BarbaraGruener Mar 13 @ 10:33 PM EDT

A4: A fixed mindset about the behavior or child, or a history or experience from our past. We must know & own our triggers! #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:33 PM EDT

@A_Klein09 A4 Our own biases. Failed prior attempts & frustration on our part. Our own stresses. We must control ourselves. #resiliencechat

In reply to @A_Klein09

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:34 PM EDT

So very true. #Resiliencechat Lack of perspective, skills, or goals can also limit effectiveness of reactions.

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:32 PM EDT

A4 Certain built in prejudices. Lack of patience. Being a human being. #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:34 PM EDT

A4 Inability to walk in someone else's shoes. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:34 PM EDT

For sure! We must do some self-reflection first. #resiliencechat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:35 PM EDT

#resiliencechat @saratruebridge @ResiliencyGuy Forgot to hashtag A4!

In reply to @saratruebridge, @ResiliencyGuy

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:31 PM EDT

A4 Our own biases. Failed prior attempts and frustration on our part. Our own stresses. We must control ourselves.
In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:35 PM EDT

I had your back! ;) #resiliencechat

In reply to @A_Klein09, @ResiliencyGuy

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:36 PM EDT

I have learned a lot in the last twenty years. Kid O, whose Hebrew name means teacher, has been just that. #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:36 PM EDT

Q5...Here's a good question... #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT

Q5: Is it okay for a student to be angry? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT

A4 Being a mom to two SpEd kids has been a very humbling experience. Taught me a lot about love and compassion. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT

Q5 #Resiliencechat 3/13/17 - Good question!

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT

Q5: Is it okay for a student to be angry? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT

I bet! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

Bhsteeler Mar 13 @ 10:38 PM EDT

A5: as young people anger is one of the things they can express but doing so in a controlled fashion is the key learning #Resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:39 PM EDT

A5 Yes. What we all need to learn is how to differentiate between anger and rage. Rage not acceptable. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:39 PM EDT

...and what does expressing anger in a controlled fashion look like? #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:39 PM EDT

A5 #resiliencechat Of course, #Anger is real, demonstration of #frustration #confusion #misalignment - what I not ok is danger, no safety

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:40 PM EDT

A5 Would be useful to teach kids, especially girls, how to assert themselves. That's calm expression of anger. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:40 PM EDT

Things can often be worse if anger is not expressed and just bottled up inside... #resiliencechat

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:40 PM EDT

#resiliencechat Yes; however short term vs ongoing are different. Ongoing anger signals an underlying problem; S needs help.

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:41 PM EDT

Great point!!! #resiliencechat

In reply to @A_Klein09

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:41 PM EDT

A5 #resiliencechat Working to help children work through #anger is a challenge, yet, very important in development and #growth #Resilience

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:41 PM EDT

A5 We need to realize that all of these lessons are lifelong. #resiliencechat

klpotter4 Mar 13 @ 10:41 PM EDT

A5: Absolutely! We should allow all emotions and teach appropriate reactions to difficult situations. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT

Q5: Is it okay for a student to be angry? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:42 PM EDT

So let's get concrete about appropriate ways of expressing anger... #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:42 PM EDT

Q6: If a student is feeling angry, what should that student do with that anger? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:42 PM EDT

YES! Thanks, Kari for joining in #resiliencechat!

In reply to @klpotter4

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:43 PM EDT

Q6 #Resiliencechat 3/13/17

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:42 PM EDT

Q6: If a student is feeling angry, what should that student do with that anger? #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 13 @ 10:43 PM EDT

A6: mine for the true trigger instead of fixating on the surface fuse #Resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:43 PM EDT

Welcome Kari! #Resiliencechat

In reply to @klpotter4

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:44 PM EDT

We often give ourselves a "pass" to get up on the wrong side of the bed. Students deserve that same "pass" #resiliencechat

klpotter4 Mar 13 @ 10:44 PM EDT

.@saratruebridge Sorry I'm late! Kari from Dripping Springs, Tx- K-5 GT teacher. #resiliencechat

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ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:44 PM EDT

A6 #resiliencechat Best if the student is able to channel the anger into positive actions to face the #adversity and #persevere #resilience

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:45 PM EDT

#resiliencechat A6 Talk to a trusted adult or friend in a safe space. Breathe. Walk. Talk it out. Then resolve it.

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MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:45 PM EDT

A6 Find a way to find something cathartic. Bang a drum. Be creative. Yoga. Tai chi. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:45 PM EDT

So happy you're here! #resiliencechat

In reply to @klpotter4

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:46 PM EDT

..there may be an underlying reason for anger...maybe hungry...may have a difficult homelife...we don't know until we ask...#resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:46 PM EDT

Cutting slack. But, as my husband would say, no excuses. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:44 PM EDT

We often give ourselves a "pass" to get up on the wrong side of the bed. Students deserve that same "pass" #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:48 PM EDT

Q6: If a student is feeling angry, what should that student do with that anger? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:49 PM EDT

No takers for #resiliencechat Q6???

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:50 PM EDT

A6 Talk. We often forget about that. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:50 PM EDT

Absolutely!! ...and often easier said than done! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:51 PM EDT

Speaking of talking... #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:51 PM EDT

Q7: What are some questions/supports adults can provide to children/youth when they display anger? #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT

A6 #Resiliencechat The goal is not to simply suppress the anger, but to learn how to work through it to #positivity & #wellness #resilience

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT

Q7 #Resiliencechat 3/13/17

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:51 PM EDT

Q7: What are some questions/supports adults can provide to children/youth when they display anger? #resiliencechat

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT

A6) Channel it. Sometimes that means expressing it, respectfully; other times through art, writing, or pushing for change. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:48 PM EDT

Q6: If a student is feeling angry, what should that student do with that anger? #resiliencechat

klpotter4 Mar 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT

A6: Ss need to talk -to get their feelings heard. It's not always about the problem. Ss have a voice- hear them. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:48 PM EDT

Q6: If a student is feeling angry, what should that student do with that anger? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:52 PM EDT

Sidenote: When my grandpa died in the 60s, my grandma was put on Valium instead of therapy. Years later she was a mess #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT

Talking matters. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT

Remember...anger is not a bad thing...it's a valid emotion...it's how it gets displayed that can be the problem... #resiliencechat

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT

A7 #resiliencechat What happened? What did you think about that? What needs to be done to make it right? Give space. Be calm

In reply to @saratruebridge

JeremyDBond Mar 13 @ 10:53 PM EDT

A5) Feelings are never wrong. Is it okay to feel pain if you break your leg? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:37 PM EDT

Q5: Is it okay for a student to be angry? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:54 PM EDT

Yes. Because we are not taught how to deal with someone else's emotions. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:54 PM EDT

I am a firm believer in the power of the arts as a channel for emotions! #resiliencechat

In reply to @JeremyDBond

MsVenturino Mar 13 @ 10:54 PM EDT

It's hard to be in the moment with anger. Lots of modeling & role playing help! #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

Mwren13 Mar 13 @ 10:54 PM EDT

This is so important to remember! #resiliencechat

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Bhsteeler Mar 13 @ 10:54 PM EDT

A7: reassurance that feeling angry is normal but dealing with it properly is respected and admired #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:54 PM EDT

Great responses! #resiliencechat

In reply to @A_Klein09

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:55 PM EDT

For sure! (Hi Mari!) #resiliencechat

In reply to @MsVenturino

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:55 PM EDT

Great to see you here again at #resiliencechat, Marisa!

In reply to @Mwren13

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:55 PM EDT

Q8: What are you going to do tomorrow as a result of #resiliencechat tonight?

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:56 PM EDT

A7 Ask them if they'd like to talk. Anger can be covering up grief, shame, embarrassment. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:56 PM EDT

A8: I am going to try to get up on the "right side" of the bed tomorrow! ;) #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:56 PM EDT

So true! Great points! #resiliencechat

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MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:56 PM EDT

A8 Care about someone else's feelings. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:57 PM EDT

A7 #Resiliencechat I'm here for you, to support you..what does that look like for you? Shall we talk, or just sit, there is no wrong way.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:57 PM EDT

I am always so grateful for those who joined in #resiliencechat! Small but mighty crew tonight!

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:57 PM EDT

Thank you. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:57 PM EDT

Q8 #Resiliencechat 3/13/17

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:55 PM EDT

Q8: What are you going to do tomorrow as a result of #resiliencechat tonight?

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:57 PM EDT

...and thank YOU! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

A_Klein09 Mar 13 @ 10:58 PM EDT

A8 #resiliencechat Continue to improve: #listen to #learn and #lead

In reply to @saratruebridge

MissShuganah Mar 13 @ 10:58 PM EDT

Thanks for the great #resiliencechat @saratruebridge @ResiliencyGuy Always a great end to my Monday.

In reply to @saratruebridge, @ResiliencyGuy

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:58 PM EDT

Hi, Tara! #resiliencechat

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ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:59 PM EDT

A8 For me it's personal #Resiliencechat Stay calm with my own child who sometimes is not sure what to do w/his own anger. #BeAGuide

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 13 @ 10:59 PM EDT

Wishing everyone a great week. Hope those on the east coast stay cozy, safe, and warm... and yes...resilient! #resiliencechat