#scchat Archive

All resources and ideas tweeted alongside #scchat and #sccrowd captured here.
Wednesday November 1, 2017
8:30 PM EDT
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    👋 Welcome to #SCCHAT! I’ll be co-moderating with @TromineTonya. Topic: Supporting Caring Relationships with Parents, Teachers, & Students.
  • participatechat Nov 1 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Participate in the upcoming #scchat by sharing resources and collaborating at https://t.co/QUnZvXY4vp
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:30 PM EDT
    Welcome to #scchat I will be co moderating with @AngCleveland, discussing how SC support caring relationships with Parents, Teachers & Ss.
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    Let’s start by telling everyone who you are and where you are from. #SCCHAT.
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    What a great topic for #scchat tonight @ATACounsellors @CCSD_edu
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    I'm Brittanie, a HS counselor from Indiana. #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:31 PM EDT
    I’m Angela Cleveland, former school counselor fr NJ, currently consultant 4 @ncwit, @ReigningIt cofounder, & co-moderator #SCCHAT tonight!
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    I am Tonya Romine, 8th Grade SC in Fort Worth, TX. #scchat
  • Angie_SchCoun Nov 1 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    Angie Fisher high school counselor in Ohio #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    #scchat Angela from Maine !
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:32 PM EDT
    Ben Barry, Middle School Counselor from Carlisle, Iowa. Welcome everyone! Excited to be here for a bit tonight. #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Erin Luong high school Counsellor - Calgary Canada #scchat
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Judy Williams, Counselor educator from Grand Valley State University in Grand Rapids, MI #SCCHAT
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Hello everyone! Nicohl from GA. I'm an elem counselor and loving every minute! #scchat
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Alexa Hanna, here! Chatting from STL! Sitting on the couch, munching on leftover Halloween candy! 🎃 👻 #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • Dr_StaciB Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Thanks @AngCleveland and @TromineTonya for hosting. I'm Staci, counselor at K-8 school in TX. Looking forward to chatting with y'all #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Welcome, Angela! #NameTwins! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @Angie_SchCoun
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Sarah Tracy Elementary School Counselor Woodbridge VA #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Susan Spellman Cann Psychologist , retired chool Counsellor from Calgary, Alberta #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Welcome!!! So glad so to see so many join us already!!! #SCCHAT
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    :-) Hi, Angela! #NameTwins! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
    Hi All! Laura middle school counselor from GA! #scchat
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Brittany, K-5 school counselor from Texas #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    retired and can't spell or type or ... so relaxed it doesn't matter LOL #scchat
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    I'm Sarah, high school counselor from Tucson Arizona #scchat
  • stonefreak Nov 1 @ 8:34 PM EDT
    Hey guys. I'm Russ. Grad student from Louisiana #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    GA in the house! I'm flying out to your conference on Tuesday! Can't wait to meet you IRL! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Going to try and tweet and work on our presentation at the same time! #scchat #counselormultitaskingonPOINT
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Love ❤️ grad students #SCCHAT
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:35 PM EDT
    Yes! I'm excited to meet!! #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    It’s time to begin the Q & A live chat on #SCCHAT! Let’s collaborate #hscchat #cscchat #SCCrowd #escchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    Nice work Jeff . Love celebrating all the great SC #scchat
    • MyCASC Oct 28 @ 11:01 AM EDT
      Congratulations CA School Counselor of the Year, Jeff Ream! Your work to support students AND the profession is commendable #CASC17 #scchat
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    I'm doing the same thing!! Haha! #scchat
    In reply to @counselorPCE
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 8:36 PM EDT
    Scott, high school counselor from Ohio, checking in to the chat. #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Just watched that one with my daughter Monday lol 😂 #scchat
    • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:33 PM EDT
      Alexa Hanna, here! Chatting from STL! Sitting on the couch, munching on leftover Halloween candy! 🎃 👻 #scchat
      In reply to @AngCleveland
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:37 PM EDT
    Anyone else out there who is interested in a School Counselor chat is welcome to join in! Don’t forget to include #SCCHAT in your responses
  • jdeek Nov 1 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    #SCCHAT Jim, MS counselor from Texas. Mind on World Series but lurking tonight.
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:38 PM EDT
    Q1 Ss w/ engaged caregivers earn higher grades, have better social skills &improved behavior. How do you encourage home involvement? #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    A1 Begin year with goal to make positive calls each day. Pick 2 Ss, make calls. Build relationship early. Will need it later. #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    Love seeing 23 of you join in Lurkers jump in !!!! #scchat
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:39 PM EDT
    A1: opening ⬆️communication. Had a Coffee w/ counselor night w/ q&a. Asking- HOW can we help. #scchat
    In reply to @TromineTonya
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    A1 Once you contact home, you can start encouraging partnership and supportive & engaged relationship. #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    A1) Communicate in several ways - phone, email, social media. Meet the parents where they're at with communication #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    A1: I encourage staff to send home positive contact home via email and calls. I've tried improving open house activities #SCCHAT
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:40 PM EDT
    A1: Meet parents where they are. Involvement can look diff. depending upon the parent. Never be afraid to accommodate and connect #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    A1 #SCCHAT Building a relationship by sending home a SMORE newsletter, REMIND 101, and teach how to get involved. Communication is key!
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    A1 I love to start relationships with a positive interaction, a phone call, email, etc…especially when a S has discipline history. #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    No problem- just try your best. My fav form of free pd and PLN #SCCHAT
    In reply to @stonefreak
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    A1 By doing short parent presentations at school events. Letting Parents know just by walking in the door their Ss r better 4 it. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    Love this idea! Our 4-5 building does Donuts w/Dads & Muffins w/Moms once/twice a year. Gets parents in building, gets in Ss lives. #scchat
    In reply to @SCE_counselors, @TromineTonya
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    Hi #SCCHAT! I’m Brittany, and I’m a #schoolcounselor at a PK-K w/ 450 tinys in Louisiana 😊
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:41 PM EDT
    #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    Q2 What are some challenges you encountered in building supportive relationships with parents and how have you overcome them? #SCCHAT
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    A1. Social media communications, online newsletter, send positive postcards home. #SCCHAT
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    A1: Hold a coffee/networking event prior to open house with parents new to the school with involved parents to create community. #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    Food is a great way to connect and build community! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @CounselorMs, @SCE_counselors, @TromineTonya
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
    A1: we are doing a lot of bullying work this month, next week offering parent discussion during P-t conferences #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    you can join us in participate learn any time #scchat https://t.co/wtTVTFLJld
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    When I did elementary, we started Mentoring Mom's which really got our moms involved! They want to help! #SCCHAT
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    So true! Sometimes we get stuck on 1 way of being involved & prejudge passed on that. spend time getting to know families too! #scchat
    • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:40 PM EDT
      A1: Meet parents where they are. Involvement can look diff. depending upon the parent. Never be afraid to accommodate and connect #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    Love the idea of positive postcards! Something tangible and they make great fridge decorations! :-) #SCCHAT
    In reply to @NewarkCounselor
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:43 PM EDT
    Treats and caffeine are always a good idea! 💡 #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland, @CounselorMs, @TromineTonya
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A2 Challenge of getting parents into building to meet or simply getting a hold of parents. I'm busy, they're busy, play phone-tag #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A3: Honestly, when Ts are unwilling to support effective communication with parents. Makes our job difficult #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A2 Biggest challenge = building trust w/ families who feel isolated. Taking time to listen 2 them is an investment in relationship #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A2 Solution to reaching Parents instead of phone tag....keep at it. Ask child for working # or other building counselors. #scchat
  • Ms_Jackson_1 Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    I'm Britney Jackson, middle school counselor in Klein ISD in Houston, Tx. This is my first twitter chat so I'm a newbie 🙈 #scchat
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A1: Being a listening ear and providing resources #SCCHAT
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 8:44 PM EDT
    A1 I started a monthly newsletter w/ Q&A, lesson overviews, 📕 recommends, & tip of the month!#SCChat
    • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:38 PM EDT
      Q1 Ss w/ engaged caregivers earn higher grades, have better social skills &improved behavior. How do you encourage home involvement? #SCCHAT
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A2: families that have had neg. experiences in the past. Overcoming by CARING and supporting whole family. #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    #scchat Adrianne from IL joining in!!
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    Sorry, I jumped ahead. This is actually A2! #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A2) Time - I run out of time to always connect w/parents like I want to. Often times they don't get a call unless it's bad :( #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A2: not getting through via email or call, so do home visit. Meet where at. Always share positive. #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    Love newbies welcome :)!!!! #scchat jump in at any time
    In reply to @Ms_Jackson_1
  • Angie_SchCoun Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A2 sometimes the most difficult families to reach are the ones where Ps are overwhelmed to begin with - trying to lighten load #scchat
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
      Q2 What are some challenges you encountered in building supportive relationships with parents and how have you overcome them? #SCCHAT
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    A2 #SCCHAT Biggest challenge is kids raising themselves due to absent parents. Create a plan with T to support/help a kid! Wrap around them!
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:45 PM EDT
    My daughters teacher uses a portfolio app called @FreshGrade which I’m finding informative helps me connect #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    A2) Try to send out communication to all Ss and families about services counselors provide so they know it's not all bad #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    I am now getting Parents that I taught when I taught at HS. I'm finding relationship I built then is helping me now w/2nd gen child #scchat
    In reply to @SCE_counselors, @AngCleveland
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    Yes! Supporting the whole family is key! Totally agree! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @SCE_counselors
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    A2: biggest challenge is helping families feel comfortable when the relationship has been damaged by other school professionals 1/1 #scchat
  • stonefreak Nov 1 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    Just being available, visible, and involved with the parents about their kids seems to be the theme I'm seeing. #scchat
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:46 PM EDT
    The best deposit.... time. Genuine time! #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    A2 Languages barriers were a problem for me at first. Now my families teach me their languages and I help them with English. Win win #SCCHAT
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    A2 we struggle with emails and getting parents in the building but phone calls help. #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    A2 my children’s school host family fun nights - ex family dance to get people in without pressure #scchat
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
      Q2 What are some challenges you encountered in building supportive relationships with parents and how have you overcome them? #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    Thx Russ for joining in #scchat
    In reply to @stonefreak
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:47 PM EDT
    A2: biggest challenge is helping families feel comfortable when the relationship has been damaged by other school professionals 1/2 #scchat
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    A2 Parents who don’t respond to phone calls to hold mtgs for their children (acad, bx, etc). Solution? Cont’d persistence!! #SCChat
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:42 PM EDT
      Q2 What are some challenges you encountered in building supportive relationships with parents and how have you overcome them? #SCCHAT
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    Love home visits. Opportunity to connect and show you are willing to go beyond the school walls. #scchat
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    In addition to having negative experience from other Educators in the building. #scchat
    In reply to @Angie_SchCoun
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    A2: Overcome damaged relationships w/ a lot of communication, reassurance, and positive support. 2/2 #scchat
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    A2 we had a family dinner last week and we are having a family dance this month! #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:48 PM EDT
    A2 I'm a parent of 5 kids of my own. I use this & their stories when I talk w/parents. Helps them see I'm in the same boat at times #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    A2) Also letting them know we're all on the same team helps. We all want their S to be successful. #scchat
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    This is sadly true, we spend time rebuilding bridges of trust. Luckily our skills allow us to build stronger bridges. #scchat
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    so true #scchat we are on the same team #students #parents matter #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:49 PM EDT
    It really is. Even when they were struggling students themselves. Neat to see them come back & want me to help w/their child. #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland, @SCE_counselors
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    Yes!! I hate it when a parent says, "why do you know my child's name?!?" It's not a negative thing. I know all 645 babies! #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    you are doing great! stay with it #scchat
    In reply to @stonefreak
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    Q3 How can school counselors support positive relationships when there is a conflict between the student & teacher? #SCCHAT
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 8:50 PM EDT
    A2: Time... there’s never enough! Also, not being able to get a hold of parents, I am a HUGE fan of home visits. 😊 #SCCHAT
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    The hard part is when some Ts don't interact with parents as teammates. #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    A2. Biggest challenge is connecting with overwhelmed parents. Communicate specifically how you plan to help. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:51 PM EDT
    Right! I'm here for ALL kids, not just the "bad" kids. #scchat
    In reply to @counselorPCE
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis, @counselorPCE
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Agreed! Puts everyone in a tight situation. #scchat
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    We are too much alike! I just said the same thing. Hard to repair relationships from others. #scchat
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    A3 Look for shared emotions (not feeling understood, respected) & build convo on their shared feelings not specifics of conflict #SCCHAT
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Haha!! We've done this before in a #scchat
    In reply to @counselorPCE
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
    Nothing more awesome than Ts who truly partner w/parents to help a child. Nothing more frustrating when Ts do little to help. #scchat
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr, @CounselorBDavis
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    All about specifics. Plans... praise.. all specific. So much more meaningful! #scchat
    In reply to @NewarkCounselor
  • Dr_StaciB Nov 1 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    A3: Listen to the teacher and student individually. Try to help them brainstorm solutions. Intervene if necessary #scchat
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    A2: Agreed. I always do my homework and have a plan ready to offer whether to the student or parent #scchat
    In reply to @NewarkCounselor
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    A3 If student has had some trauma, I try to help Ts understand this. Not an excuse, but helps Ts understand behavior. #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:53 PM EDT
    A3) Lots of empathizing and reflecting with them both. We can be the mediator & help both learn better ways to communicate #scchat
  • Ms_Jackson_1 Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A1 I believe making parent contact whether it's email or by phone about the little things let's Ps know how important their role is #scchat
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A3 great question! Definitely help my students advocate for themselves, as well help teachers understand the student's background #scchat
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A3 Let the parent know that you are there to advocate for what is best for their child. Don't be seen as siding with the teacher. #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A3: mediation meeting with teacher usually helps kid feel heard #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A3 I also help Ss understand where teacher is coming from. I was teacher once and know they mean well. Help Ss understand behaviors #scchat
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    A3: find what the root of the conflict is about... sometimes what may appear to be an issue, may just be a layer. Be outside eyes. #scchat
    In reply to @TromineTonya
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:54 PM EDT
    Ts can really be a great help or a great barrier, that's for sure! #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorMs, @LRossSchCnslr
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A3: Everyone has a voice. Ss need voices heard too!! SCs have to advocate so all are heard & all are doing what's best for the S. #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A3 #SCCHAT SFBT is great! Give a chance to tell the other side what they need/how that would make a difference. Both sides feel heard.
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    We are using/learning about trauma-informed approaches. Such amazing work. #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorMs
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    outside eyes and ears always good #scchat
    In reply to @SCE_counselors, @TromineTonya
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A3. Make sure everyone feels heard and understands the situation. Ss sometimes do need 2 know why Ss need their thoughts heard 1/2 #SCCHAT
  • amandalopiparo Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A1 I think it is very important for parents to make sure they set aside time each night to talk with their children about their day #scchat
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A3: I observe kid in class, offer to go to class with kid, ask what I can share with teacher so they better understand kid #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    A3: Listen, Listen and Listen. Model reflective talk and make sure everyone feels heard and understood! #scchat
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
    Parents need space to vent about their frustration. Important to provide that nonjudgmental space. #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    Q4 Ss r showing signs of anxiety/depression.It’s beyond our scope 2 provide LT https://t.co/hyR3Rwa1RT do u support struggling Ss? #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    Yes! If you can get Ss to agree, this 3-way meeting can be powerful and you can coach Ss to use voice in positive, controlled way. #scchat
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    A3. Gather info and gain perspectives of both student and teacher before seeking solutions. #SCCHAT
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    A3 Help mediate. Provide that support to both. Both appear to care about wellbeing of student. Help bring together as a team #SCChat
    • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:50 PM EDT
      Q3 How can school counselors support positive relationships when there is a conflict between the student & teacher? #SCCHAT
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    A3. Ts need their voices heard 2. They also need 2 know the why about their Ss. Everyone needs a safe place t talk about it. 2/2 #SCCHAT
  • amandalopiparo Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
    A1 Parents can also incorporate family game night at least once a week #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    Great point. Most of the time feeling heard and understood is all they need. #listen #scchat
    • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:55 PM EDT
      Parents need space to vent about their frustration. Important to provide that nonjudgmental space. #scchat
      In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    all perspectives should count students as well #scchat
    In reply to @NewarkCounselor
  • MrsAveryBMS - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    A4: I create anxiety support plans, send to teachers and home. Referral to therapist, check ins #scchat
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    HIGHLY recommend @HeatherTForbes "Help for Billy". Currently reading "Lost at School". #scchat
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS, @CounselorMs, @HeatherTForbes
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:57 PM EDT
    Yes, @NewarkCounselor - We need to listen to understand the situation. 100% agree with you! #SCCHAT
    • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
      A3. Gather info and gain perspectives of both student and teacher before seeking solutions. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    "Paper Tigers" doc is now on streaming and Youtube (cost). Study up on ACEs (powerful research), any classes on Trauma-informed care #scchat
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    A3:So challenging, but I get info from both, offer mutually beneficial solutions as much as possible and encourage empathy from both #scchat
    In reply to @TromineTonya
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    Good point - There are 2 sides to every story, sometimes more.#scchat
    In reply to @MrsTracy_PSC
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:58 PM EDT
    We have a team at school leading the way with this work- Healing Hearts Team! 💕❤️ #scchat
    In reply to @MrsAveryBMS, @CounselorMs
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    A4 I use music, deep-breathing, buddha board, kinetic sand, & even #GoogleCard #VR & apps @calm & @HASoftMobile 4 #VR (Ocean & Zoo) #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    Thanks! Already looking these books up. Might be my next read! #scchat
    In reply to @SCE_counselors, @MrsAveryBMS, @HeatherTForbes
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    So great to see 27 of you tonight invite friends into #scchat
  • Angie_SchCoun Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    A3 sometimes being an impartial mediator is hard, but try to help others see diff perspectives. Find positives #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    A4 #SCCHAT Creating a team to support a student, checking in, notice the positive, create a solutions board which helps others.
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    Adults have to model that way of using their voice. Hard to expect Ss to be in control when the adult is yelling and demeaning. #scchat
    • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:56 PM EDT
      Yes! If you can get Ss to agree, this 3-way meeting can be powerful and you can coach Ss to use voice in positive, controlled way. #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:59 PM EDT
    I do almost the same thing! They love it when I can remember everyone. Then I do a challenge per classes. They get so excited!! #scchat
    In reply to @Torres1Brittany, @CounselorBDavis
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    A4 Feelings identification and coping skills lessons since I deal w/ tinys. Also keeping up to date comm resources for parents #SCChat
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    I'm reading "Lost at School" now too! #scchat
    In reply to @SCE_counselors, @MrsAveryBMS, @CounselorMs, @HeatherTForbes
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    True! Many students aren't heard at home. Giving them a voice at school and TRULY listening to them to understand them....powerful! #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:00 PM EDT
    A4: I use stressballs, guided meditation, and have them write coping skills out. Then we check in to see if anything helps. #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    A4) We're fortunate to have social workers who are on staff that we can refer students to for more long term needs #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    Looks like question 3 was popular! So many great thoughts and ideas! #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    A4 I'm learning I can't support all Ss struggling w/anxiety or depression. I'm leaning on teachers to help. Be extra eyes/ears #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    A4: Using technology to support with resources for mental health and well being Refer of course,but give access to helpful resources #scchat
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:01 PM EDT
    A4: breathing exc., fidgets, coping strategies, check ins/breaks to support coping. #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    A4) In collaboration with the SWs, I can advocate for the S & help T understand barriers to success, warning signs, etc #scchat
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    A4. Lunch bunches, quick checks, stress balls, drawing, play time and breaks. Work with Ts so they recognize the signs in their Ss #SCCHAT
  • StvSharp Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    While we don't provide therapy, providing/facilitating behavioral health screens can help identify students early, and access care. #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    A4 Have found many MS Ss are okay w/teachers being in know of basic details of struggles. I email Ts and they help support as well #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Love this! You are essentially building on their strengths by writing down coping skills and not focusing on perceived weaknesses. #SCCHAT
    In reply to @Ms_Robertson84
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    Q5 How do SCs demonstrate their support of Ss academic development & college/career readiness in conjunction w emotional support? #SCCHAT
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
    A3: Last year I had all my staff do a “2 by 10” challenge. 1 S, 2 min/day, for 10 days getting 2 know them on a personal level #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    Used this at the last conference I chaired. Very powerful #scchat
    • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 8:58 PM EDT
      "Paper Tigers" doc is now on streaming and Youtube (cost). Study up on ACEs (powerful research), any classes on Trauma-informed care #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:03 PM EDT
    👏 Yes! I heard the phrase "we are giving students the gift of listening" years ago, and it always stuck with me. #SCCHAT
    In reply to @CounselorMs, @CounselorBDavis
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    yes listening and helping we must be helpers #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland, @CounselorMs, @CounselorBDavis
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    A4 also working w/ Ss Services Team SSW,SPsych, & Comprehensive Team 2 find outside supports. No islands here. #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    I try and help students develop their own personal tools boxes. If I’ve taught a child to self advocate I’ve met my goal #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    A4: Refer out to qualified mental health expert. Do CICO and support outside therapist however you can. #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    Oh, brilliant! LOVE this! I just screenshot this tweet because I want to use this! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @Torres1Brittany
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:04 PM EDT
    There are days I do feel like a therapist. Especially this week. #scchat
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    A5 my Ts constantly consult w/ me on how to best support their Ss in the classroom to ensure best academic support #SCChat
    • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
      Q5 How do SCs demonstrate their support of Ss academic development & college/career readiness in conjunction w emotional support? #SCCHAT
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    A5 #SCCHAT My favorite is doing grade checks, it gives me a chance to truly get to know the student and how I can support them.
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    This is my 1st year at a new school after never having SWs before. I am SO THANKFUL for them. So great! #scchat
    In reply to @Angie_SchCoun
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    A5 We put every 8th grader on college campus on one day & do career day w/over 20 speakers. I'm there for all to support Ss in need #scchat
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:05 PM EDT
    I promote the 2 by 10 with our teachers at the beginning of the year every year. It's a good strategy! #scchat
    • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
      A3: Last year I had all my staff do a “2 by 10” challenge. 1 S, 2 min/day, for 10 days getting 2 know them on a personal level #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Great idea @ATACounsellors #scchat
    • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
      A3: Last year I had all my staff do a “2 by 10” challenge. 1 S, 2 min/day, for 10 days getting 2 know them on a personal level #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    A5 I also try to communicate a lot w/Ts about students struggling w/socioemotional needs. What works best? How can we plan support? #scchat
  • stonefreak Nov 1 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    Q5 I think stating that Ss are the most important thing is good. And that their academic success is a part of that. State concern #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    A5 It’s all about the whole person! Listening 2 Ss, getting 2 know them,not just talking college/grades.Listen 4 what they don’t say #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:06 PM EDT
    A5) Academic & career development happen more in groups for me, whereas social/emotional is more individual #scchat
  • BarbaraGruener Nov 1 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    #BeKind @KidsforPeace @RippleKindness @TrudyLudwig @micheleborba #scchat #escchat #KindnessMatters https://t.co/FjeZC7aEQD
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Agreed “I hear what you saying... is such a great conversation helper #scchat
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 8:52 PM EDT
      A3 Look for shared emotions (not feeling understood, respected) & build convo on their shared feelings not specifics of conflict #SCCHAT
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    A4.Coping strategies, check ins, connect w/ activities or other positive adults in the bldg, focus on strengths/celebrate successes. #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Liz, Elementary SC in Manassas, VA! Joining the party late! #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:07 PM EDT
    Thanks to the 28 of you who showed up tonight You give so much #school counsellorsrock #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A5: We are lucky to have gotten a college and career class! Slows things down for the students! No stress! Fun! #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Q6 What are some ways school counselors can foster and grow relationships between teachers & Ss, Ss & parents, or Ts & parents? #SCCHAT
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    Gosh, those weeks are tough. Comes in waves, right? Sometimes I have felt like the staff therapist, too! I think we all have! #SCCHAT
    In reply to @Ms_Robertson84
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:08 PM EDT
    A5: individual meetings with my students help learn about their academic and career goals. #scchat
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A1: Communication! Bringing parents in for different programs, assemblies, etc. Showing them why educ is important #SCCHAT
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A4: Honest conversations with parents about our concerns and observations, referrals to outside agencies and follow ups #SCCHAT
  • amandalopiparo Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    I really love the idea of the academic and career development happening in groups. We learn so much from interacting with others! #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    I gotta go get my kids. Great chat so far. I might join back up. Love the topic and ideas being shared. #scchat
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A2: I make a point to talk about all areas every time I meet with students. Many times things come up that wouldn't have otherwise #scchat
    • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:02 PM EDT
      Q5 How do SCs demonstrate their support of Ss academic development & college/career readiness in conjunction w emotional support? #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    So easy to follow a chat when you use participate learn . Check it out https://t.co/wtTVTG3kJN #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A5) When emotional things affect school, discuss how it may impact postsecondary plans. Always emphasize that it's not too late #scchat
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
    A5: Also simple things like remembering what their career interests are and giving them information when they least expect it #scchat
  • Dr_StaciB Nov 1 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A6: Communicate as a team for supporting the child's needs #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A2: Time and transportation. Hosting community events and being present for those. Using technology to communicate! #SCCHAT
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:10 PM EDT
    A6 Real conversation, face-to-face. I love tech, but we can’t build meaningful relationships from our office at a computer #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A3: Bring then together to chat! The student needs to know the teacher cares about him/her. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A6) We're there for the team. We HAVE to support all in the process, but at end of day, Ss are #1 priority #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    We did a career speed dating day. Students rotated through parents and learning about career history at 5 min intervals #scchat
    • amandalopiparo Nov 1 @ 9:09 PM EDT
      I really love the idea of the academic and career development happening in groups. We learn so much from interacting with others! #scchat
      In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A6 mediating, fostering new perspectives, providing resources, consulting, positive strength-based communication #SCChat
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:08 PM EDT
      Q6 What are some ways school counselors can foster and grow relationships between teachers & Ss, Ss & parents, or Ts & parents? #SCCHAT
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:11 PM EDT
    A6 #SCCHAT Be visible! Kids constantly see me in the hallway, learn names, ask how they are doing, ask teachers how things are going!
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    ahhh - this is true and a BIG area that I need to work on. Email is just so easy. #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    Don't forget to sign up for remind to remind you of #scchat each month https://t.co/86mgfBco6U
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:12 PM EDT
    I love running clubs and helping out on field trips too #SCChat
    • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:11 PM EDT
      A6 #SCCHAT Be visible! Kids constantly see me in the hallway, learn names, ask how they are doing, ask teachers how things are going!
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A6: while they say 2 much self-disclosure is bad, helping the Ss see Ts as human beings 2 helps build those relationships. #scchat
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A4: Small groups. Making S’s feel not alone! Providing coping skills and referring out and collaborating w those LPC’s. #SCCHAT
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    Yep. I've purposefully forced my introvert self to call and meet parents more this year. Too important not to. #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis, @AngCleveland
  • Angie_SchCoun Nov 1 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    A6 reminding all involved that the others are ppl too. We try to add a festive flair to activities where Ts can be seen as real #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:13 PM EDT
    collaborate , collaborate, collaborate #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A5.Factor emotional well-being into academic/college decision-making. E.g. consider your well-being when deciding proper courseload. #SCCHAT
  • judywilliams77 Nov 1 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    So often all three domains intersect in a Ss life. Be aware of subtle hints of underlying issues. #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:14 PM EDT
    A6. Being involved in the community and going to Ss events. Bring everyone together for coffee or pizza. Ss, Ts, & Ps. Be the bridge #SCCHAT
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A6: Sounds simple, but allowing the kids to see you outside of school, on a field trip, having fun at a dance. Builds relationships #scchat
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    I meet with students who have failing grades individually and identify goals and strategies for success #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    A5: Coping skills! Helps with stress for academics and future career readiness! #SCCHAT
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    Q7: How do you foster a positive school climate through parent, teacher and student relationships? #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:15 PM EDT
    I have anime club, youth campions, Spectrum (lgbtq), mental health about one a day to get to know them outside my office #SCChat
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Yes! I love going to student events. Meeting parents in that way is usually a more positive interaction than when there is a problem #scchat
    In reply to @MrsTracy_PSC
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    Attending student sports activities, games, Recitals, etc! #scchat
    In reply to @MrsTracy_PSC
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A7 Be involved in FUN ways. Pop into PE to play, help w/ a science lab, share your favorite book in English. Let staff get 2 know U! #SCCHAT
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A5: I meet with students who have failing grades individually and identify goals and strategies for success #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A6: Hosting community events and having open lines of communication between all stakeholders. #SCCHAT
  • Ms_Jackson_1 Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A2 You have to speak TO the Ps and not OVER them. Meet them at their level #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:16 PM EDT
    A7) Smile, say "good morning," ask how people are doing, welcome Ps warmly into building & when you're not feeling it - fake it #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    So great to see new people jump in !!! jump in and answer one question that is the way I started #scchat #norules
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:17 PM EDT
    A6: Listen and offer support to all parties involved, mediate #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A7: PBIS, and promoting kindness. Being an upstander. Adults modeling positive behavior. #SCCHAT
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A7: joking and chatting with teachers, asking about their families and role modeling positive relationships for our students #scchat
  • amandalopiparo Nov 1 @ 9:18 PM EDT
    A6 Everyone seems to be mentioning being visible & I agree 100%--we want our students to see us and we should flash them a smile #scchat
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Invite #SCChat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    Q8: High stakes testing, value-added teacher eval. model & more can create stress 4 Ts. What can school counselors do to support Ts? #SCCHAT
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A7 #scchat Be involved, listen, be positive, always be ready to go above and beyond since T and S notice, create ideas that help students!
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    never underestimate the value of a simple smile #scchat YES!!!
    In reply to @amandalopiparo
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A8: Discuss teacher burn out and normalize going for therapy as an educator. #SCCHAT
  • EHordyskiLuong - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    I use this strategy too #SCChat
    • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:15 PM EDT
      A6: Sounds simple, but allowing the kids to see you outside of school, on a field trip, having fun at a dance. Builds relationships #scchat
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
    A7. Smile, greetings, be visible. Social media too. Be a role model. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A7) Don't be afraid to be yourself. I'm not afraid to let Ss see my flaws b/c it helps them realize I'm human too #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:20 PM EDT
    A8 These r systemic issues that we don’t have much control over. Sometimes just listening, validating, & chocolate r the best meds! #SCCHAT
  • LizVoharSC Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A9: Going for therapy yourself, getting your steps in, SC chats, positive music and dancing “it” out. #SCCHAT
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A7: Be visible, love on S’s, T’s & P’s #SCCHAT
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A8. Chocolate ;). In all seriousness be a sounding board for Ts and let them know I support them and their Ss. #SCCHAT
  • stonefreak Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A7. Encourage people to talk to each other and get off of their devices! : ) #scchat
  • NewarkCounselor Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A7. Visibility on campus, attending sports/ fine arts events, being a Key Club advisor, greeting S's, visiting the lunch room. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
    A8) Be respectful of their time & let them know how much we appreciate them. Saying "thank you" can go a long way #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    I love setting up time with my teachers outside of school to have dinner and just relax! #SCChat
  • SCE_counselors - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    THIS!!!! So true! We are mistake making, risk taking counselors! #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorBDavis
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A2: Be positive. Stay calm. Look for solutions. Empathize. Validate. FOLLOW UP! Genuinely care. Be willing to learn. Admit mistakes. #scchat
  • Angie_SchCoun Nov 1 @ 9:22 PM EDT
    A8 it is such a small thing to smile and be supportive but it helps to not be one more obstacle for Ts #SCCHAT
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
      Q8: High stakes testing, value-added teacher eval. model & more can create stress 4 Ts. What can school counselors do to support Ts? #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    all.the.time! haha I'm pretty transparent; good, bad, & otherwise #scchat
    In reply to @Ms_Robertson84
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A8: Being a listening ear, offering a break when needed, validating the awesome work they do #SCCHAT
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A8: NOTICE great things they are doing! Send an email to admin and include that teacher! #SCChat
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A8. I am doing random treats for Ts all year. Coffee, snacks, or even a 5 min break when I can. #SCCHAT
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A2: yes, teachers are amazing and do so much and I try to make sure they know I know that. #scchat
    • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:21 PM EDT
      A8) Be respectful of their time & let them know how much we appreciate them. Saying "thank you" can go a long way #scchat
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    A7 I smile and greet everyone! I’m fairly 😊 & positive person. Active listening. Fostering caring relationships w/ all. #SCChat
  • LRossSchCnslr - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:23 PM EDT
    #scchat loving all the tweets about positive relationship building. Have to go get some work done. Good Night!
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    Q9 While the school counselor is busy supporting others, who is caring for the school counselor? Share your best self-care tips! #SCCHAT
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    #scchat
    In reply to @LRossSchCnslr
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:24 PM EDT
    A8: saying thank you, giving random hugs, getting to know them personally, and candy in my office helps too 😁#scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    It can make you vulnerable so it takes courage to really share. I find it humbling & reminds me I'm not all that different from them #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland
  • Ms_Jackson_1 Nov 1 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A3 Counselors can help Ts & Ss deal w/ conflict by removing emotions and focus on the concerns to come to a reasonable solution #SCCHAT
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A7: I've stepped outside my comfort box & started doing videos 4 my kids on certain topics. It's cute and it gets them all talking #scchat
  • MrsTracy_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:25 PM EDT
    A9. Therapy 4 self. Exercising. I am working on MixxedFit certification and about to take kick boxing class. Eat right. Me first. #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A9 Taking time to laugh. Read positive books (Jon Gordon books are my fav!) I downloaded Headspace app, meditation app #scchat
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A9: Having supportive friends I can talk to , lacrosse, painting, chilling with my family are a few #scchat
  • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A9 Spending time w/ friends who don’t work in education, reading, walking, bubble baths, and wine! #SCCHAT
  • msdmannda Nov 1 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    Dawn, HS counselor in Georgia. Hoping later than Liz. 😁 #scchat
  • BHEcounselor Nov 1 @ 9:26 PM EDT
    A8 provide a short walk or bathroom break on known busy days. Provide 🍫🍫! An 👂🏻 for listening. Providing appr support when I can #SCChat
    • AngCleveland - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:19 PM EDT
      Q8: High stakes testing, value-added teacher eval. model & more can create stress 4 Ts. What can school counselors do to support Ts? #SCCHAT
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A9) my co-counselors & support staff are great to talk to during the day. They keep me in check :) #scchat
  • stonefreak Nov 1 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A9 TREAT YO SELF! : ) Exercise, meditate, and connect with your safe-person. Those that support people need a lot of support too! #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A7 Go to Ss activities. Band concerts, bball games, cheer with the cheerleaders. Talk to the parents there and be positive! #scchat
  • Ms_Robertson84 Nov 1 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    Q9: what self care? Haha does wine count? Taco Tuesdays, pedicures, and talking to other counselors to remind me of my why #scchat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:27 PM EDT
    A8: Listening & providing good pick me ups. Do a hot chocolate bar @ Xmas. Small things throughout the year to help ease the stress. #scchat
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A9) I don't work at home. Period. (okay, twice a year maybe), write, games & puzzles #nerd #scchat
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    A9 Our counseling/At-Risk team met for almost 2 hrs today. We vented, laughed, collaborated, brainstormed, laughed more. Needed! #scchat
  • TromineTonya - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    Sonic drinks on Wednesdays! Great for a midweek treat! #SCChat
  • counselorPCE - Moderator Nov 1 @ 9:28 PM EDT
    I have used it, but in a pinch, just doing a quick funny video using my webcam. I did one every day for RRW #scchat
    In reply to @AngCleveland, @PowToon
  • Torres1Brittany Nov 1 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    A9: I have staff in my building that I can go to & say “I need a hug today” @saulscheryl1 gives me a hug every single day! #SCCHAT
  • CounselorMs Nov 1 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Yes wine counts. Wine always counts. So do Tacos. :) #scchat
    In reply to @Ms_Robertson84
  • MsKreigh_PSC Nov 1 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Day 1 #schoolcounselor #scchat photo challenge *Something that makes me smile* #hallibaby #puppies #firstsnowfall
  • CounselorBDavis Nov 1 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Headspace is great! I don't use it as much as I should. Thanks for the reminder! #scchat
    In reply to @CounselorMs
  • SSpellmanCann Nov 1 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    FYI #scchat 189 monthly participants 1.2k monthly messages 999 monthly retweets
  • saswampler Nov 1 @ 9:29 PM EDT
    Ha! Just saw all my posts say A2 and not the right number...guess that's what I get for trying to cook my kids dinner while chatting #scchat