#3rdchat Archive
Wednesday April 5, 2017
9:00 PM EDT
MrsPug1
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Apr 5 @ 9:00 PM EDT
Can't wait to get our discussion started tonight!
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Apr 5 @ 9:00 PM EDT
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mpilakow
Apr 5 @ 9:00 PM EDT
Love games? Love language? Join
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tomorrow night to talk about playing with words!
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:01 PM EDT
Please introduce yourself and share what makes you happy!
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:02 PM EDT
We will use the Q and A format.
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:04 PM EDT
Jerrica, 4th grade teacher and co-mod of
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. My little boy, my family, reading, travel all make me happy but also... FOOD!
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:04 PM EDT
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join us! Starting now!!!!
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:02 PM EDT
We will use the Q and A format.
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mrsjmitchell3
Apr 5 @ 9:05 PM EDT
Jennifer from MO -- doing things with my family, especially vacations make me happy :)
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:06 PM EDT
Q1
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:06 PM EDT
Amanda teacher leader from South Jersey. My two daughters make me the happiest!
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:06 PM EDT
Love vacations! Just traveled to Miami for a couple days and it was heaven. I wish I could travel all the time!
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In reply to @mrsjmitchell3
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:07 PM EDT
Megan, your moderator tonight. 8th grade ELA but previous 3rd T. 😀 Seeing my kids happy makes me happy.😍
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:07 PM EDT
AW!!! So sweet!
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In reply to @_AmandaFry
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:07 PM EDT
Running late to
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!! Missed last week for the County Fair and a Ss with a 1st place heifer!
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:08 PM EDT
A1. It feels like the talking has been ramped up. I love when they collab but they only want to talk when they arne't suppose to!
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:08 PM EDT
What an adorable pic!
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In reply to @_AmandaFry
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:08 PM EDT
Awe! South jersey is my birthplace and home for 18 yrs. I also have 2 daughters! Welcome to
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In reply to @_AmandaFry
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:09 PM EDT
A1 More goofing around and less effort on work. 😕
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:09 PM EDT
Mary-co mod tonight! My family, seeing Ss smile, and vacations are my happy place!!
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:09 PM EDT
Good evening
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friends! Todd from NY, HS assistant principal. Looooong day, but glad to be here!
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:10 PM EDT
A1: lack of motivation and effort for sure!
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MunroeClass
Apr 5 @ 9:10 PM EDT
Lindsay Munroe from Saskatchewan. Late to
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because we were making signs to protest library funding cuts!
#goodexcuses
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:11 PM EDT
Thanks for making time to join us! I've heard quite a few ppl say today was a long day. But you made it through! 👍💯😉
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In reply to @MrRussoRH
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:11 PM EDT
A1: Ss getting very comfortable with our room family. Great time to revisit and possibly revise expectations.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:11 PM EDT
That is AWESOME!!
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In reply to @MunroeClass
MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:12 PM EDT
A1: I see Ss breaking rules and/or doing things they normally wouldn't.Restlessness... I have juniors...senior year is near.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:12 PM EDT
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:12 PM EDT
I feel weird liking the comment. It's like I'm liking what you said, but I don't like it! Haha
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In reply to @mleonard03
mrsjmitchell3
Apr 5 @ 9:12 PM EDT
A1: Having to constantly review expectations- academic as well as procedural. Lack of focus/ motivation
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:13 PM EDT
Q2
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:13 PM EDT
Hahahaha yessss! I'm here! Thanks for the welcome!😊😊😊
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In reply to @MrsPug1
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:13 PM EDT
Haha!!!
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In reply to @MrsPug1
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:14 PM EDT
I can relate! I have 8th, soon to be high schoolers! 😬 Lol
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In reply to @MrRussoRH
LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:14 PM EDT
A2: My admin is VERY supportive. Many times dealing with out of control behaviour so I can focus on teaching. Love them! ❤️
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:14 PM EDT
#3rdchat
is just starting! Head on over!
#educhat
#education
#edchat
#buildyourPLN
#PLN
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:13 PM EDT
Q2
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:15 PM EDT
That's great! It makes the difference when you have supportive admin who can help with the chaos
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In reply to @LindsayMunroe
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:15 PM EDT
I've been a broken record lately!
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In reply to @mrsjmitchell3
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:15 PM EDT
Yes, sometimes we forget this as we're trudging through testing and and of year activities. Ss def need reminders!
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In reply to @mrsjmitchell3
LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:15 PM EDT
A2: We also have a counsellor who teaches self regulation to classes. Very good communication b/w staff so we're consistent.
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:16 PM EDT
A2. Asking "what can I do with this kid? What should I try?" collegues at our school are open to brainstorm/ figure it out 2gether
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:17 PM EDT
A2: we are a team. Ts can talk with peers, counselors/social workers/etc. No one deserves to feel alone- we all need someone.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:18 PM EDT
Our counselors have been awesome about keeping in contact and checking in with Ss at the end of the year!
#relationships
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In reply to @LindsayMunroe
itsmeSpiri
Apr 5 @ 9:18 PM EDT
Hi
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Spiri from PA, popping in a bit late
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:18 PM EDT
A2:We align our discipline language with our positive CharacterEd attributes. This allows for the message to be clearly understood.
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:18 PM EDT
You absolutely can! Big transition year indeed!😊😳👍🏼
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In reply to @MrsPug1
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:19 PM EDT
Q3
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milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:19 PM EDT
Yikes joining late! Time got away frm me! Hello from TN. Nancy n 3rd
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:19 PM EDT
Love this
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:18 PM EDT
A2:We align our discipline language with our positive CharacterEd attributes. This allows for the message to be clearly understood.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Hi
@itsmeSpiri
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In reply to @itsmeSpiri, @itsmeSpiri
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Great to hear you work together! It makes the tough times a little easier!
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13
MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:21 PM EDT
Indeed! We constantly remind people to ask for help. Not a sign of weakness, but of opportunity.
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In reply to @_AmandaFry
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:21 PM EDT
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A2Many Ts have been great at writing positive referrals to remind Ss they don't go unnoticed & hopefully encourage others.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:21 PM EDT
A3: I've found that consistency is key-building relationships fundamental, and modeling imperative. Showing Ss that we care 24/7
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:21 PM EDT
Definitely!
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In reply to @_AmandaFry
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:22 PM EDT
Hey!
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In reply to @itsmeSpiri
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3: In the lower grades Whole Brain Teaching has worked well. The buy in is easy because Ss love it.
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milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3 we go outdoors for quick 5-10 minute walks. Fresh air helps. Spring weather helps to make this happen.
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LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:23 PM EDT
A3: I agree
@mleonard03
. Relationships and consistency are key. I really need to focus more on the latter!
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mrsjmitchell3
Apr 5 @ 9:23 PM EDT
A3: I don't have any magical answers other than to build relationships -- they are key to everything 🔑
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:23 PM EDT
Love this!
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In reply to @MrRussoRH
smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:23 PM EDT
Hi
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. Stacy from CT joining in late.
milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:24 PM EDT
Collaboration is key! Two heads r better than one. Four r better than two!
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:20 PM EDT
Great to hear you work together! It makes the tough times a little easier!
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13
LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:24 PM EDT
A3: Got some great regulation activities from the OT. Works great! Body and mind both influence behaviour.
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:24 PM EDT
Hi all, just got home. Terry in Fl here.
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:24 PM EDT
A3:remind Ss of big picture, forest through the trees.Many get stuck b/c they can't see past today. Reflect w/ them on their goals.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:25 PM EDT
I agree! Love whole brain teaching! Ss need structure too-helps engage all parts of brain. Also 💗
@GoNoodle
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3: In the lower grades Whole Brain Teaching has worked well. The buy in is easy because Ss love it.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:25 PM EDT
Def taking breaks! Many Ss love
@GoNoodle
for a quick stretch!
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milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:22 PM EDT
A3 we go outdoors for quick 5-10 minute walks. Fresh air helps. Spring weather helps to make this happen.
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:25 PM EDT
A3.1:We also have acknowledgement slips for our positive CharacterEd attributes that highlight times when Ss demonstrate a trait.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:25 PM EDT
Glad you made it! 😁
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In reply to @smozer
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:26 PM EDT
Q4
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:26 PM EDT
A3. Building those relationships so you can ask Ss what's going on. Switching things up when a current plan isn't working
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:26 PM EDT
A3: I think it is important to remember each is an individual. Find what works for that child.
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smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:26 PM EDT
A3: I have very clear expectations. My 1st principal at my current school always said, "What you accept becomes your standard."
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:27 PM EDT
Easier said than done for me ✅
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much more challenging some days!
In reply to @LindsayMunroe
MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:27 PM EDT
A3.1: I may have Ss start writing about things!🤔
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:27 PM EDT
Agreed! Have many strategies; always a back up plan. 😉
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:28 PM EDT
A4: My philosophy is they all need to know about choice and consequences. Every choice has a consequence. Positive and negative.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:28 PM EDT
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In reply to @mrsjmitchell3
LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:28 PM EDT
A4: The more natural the consequence the better!
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:28 PM EDT
Here is Q4
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:26 PM EDT
Q4
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smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:28 PM EDT
A3: Overall I try to reward instead of punish. If the class has a great day we end with a dance party or 5 extra min of recess.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:28 PM EDT
Hey! 👋
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:29 PM EDT
Yes! I decided to switch up and try
@classcraftgame
this week!
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @classcraftgame
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:29 PM EDT
@mleonard03
has a great reflection area for this with reminders and materials useful for reflecting. 😊
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In reply to @MrRussoRH, @mleonard03
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:29 PM EDT
What do you think so far?
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:29 PM EDT
Yes! I decided to switch up and try
@classcraftgame
this week!
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @classcraftgame
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:29 PM EDT
A3: Consequences need to be developmentally appropriate. Ss should learn and grow from the experience. They need not be punitive.
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: Firm but fair is an underlying principle, but flexibility is critical. No two situations are alike, each S is unique.
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LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: I mostly reward too. We put gems in a jar working toward a class reward. They choose a new reward each time.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:30 PM EDT
THIS! Being willing to change to meet the Ss where THEY are! Doing what is BEST not EASIEST! 💗💗💗
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:26 PM EDT
A3. Building those relationships so you can ask Ss what's going on. Switching things up when a current plan isn't working
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:31 PM EDT
Many of my 8ths are digging it! 😉 And they make sure I use it! Reminding me to reward or take away for classmates and themselves.
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13, @classcraftgame
DonnaWeth
Apr 5 @ 9:31 PM EDT
Donna jumping in late
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:31 PM EDT
I might bring that idea into my office...I've thought about it, but am wondering...drawing too! Any way to get it out...
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @mleonard03
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:31 PM EDT
It's very in depth and maybe a bit too much for our grade levels but the kids seem to love it
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:31 PM EDT
Hi Donna, glad you jumped in to
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tonight
In reply to @DonnaWeth
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:32 PM EDT
We might need to chat more about how you use it. It's so in depth!
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @classcraftgame
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:32 PM EDT
Yes! Drawing is an outlet for many! I let a S keep a journal on his desk to doodle in when he felt angry/anxious. Worked great!
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In reply to @MrRussoRH, @mleonard03
milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:32 PM EDT
I once had a colleague advise me that "fair is not always equal". Had to think on that one a while. She was very wise
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:30 PM EDT
A4: Firm but fair is an underlying principle, but flexibility is critical. No two situations are alike, each S is unique.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:33 PM EDT
Or draw, maybe blog. multiple modalities for the reflection in my classroom-helps them engage in their process as an 8 or 9 yr old
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In reply to @MrRussoRH
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:33 PM EDT
Maybe they can guest mod? 😀👍
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13, @classcraftgame
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:34 PM EDT
A4. Fair consequences for both positive and negatives. But remember each child is different and consequences vary
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:34 PM EDT
Very wise! Love this image for that!
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In reply to @milesnawmiles
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:35 PM EDT
Q5
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:35 PM EDT
Yes...at some point consequences that are discipline based don't have the desired effect. Often Ss need to see what happens if...😕
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In reply to @LindsayMunroe
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:35 PM EDT
Also that just bc that consequence worked for that child once doesn't mean it will every time.
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:36 PM EDT
A5: Time to talk with the child. A reflection center for them to think about things first, then chat. Parent involvement is best.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:36 PM EDT
#Sketchnoting
is super neat too!
@EdTechAmber
is amazing with it!
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In reply to @MrRussoRH, @MrsPug1, @EdTechAmber
milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:37 PM EDT
A5 we fill "buckets" Ss giving affirmation to peers for making good choices
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:37 PM EDT
100% agree.
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:34 PM EDT
A4. Fair consequences for both positive and negatives. But remember each child is different and consequences vary
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LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:37 PM EDT
A5: proactive instead of reactive is always best.
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smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:37 PM EDT
A5: I love this website for ideas about how to handle behaviors. They also have behavior charts/ rewards.
https://t.co/ch0YpHHiM2
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:38 PM EDT
A5. We read
@Peekapak
book on self-regulation and talked about how to say something is bothering/keep feelings in check etc
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A5 I feel a program for character ed at younger grades is important. Our school also uses PBS-Rewarding those w/pos behavior.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A4: equity not equality, compassion, consequences with grace when needed are my go to for philosophy. ALL Ss deserve our best
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A5: The relationship before the undesirable event is so important. Having a relationship besides disciplinarian makes a difference.
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:40 PM EDT
A5: Growth mindset teaching also fits in so well. Frustrated kids can easily turn into the ones with behavior issues.
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:41 PM EDT
A5:today was that day!Ss need space to make sense of what's happening & their response.Also benefit from adult unpacking it w/them.
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:41 PM EDT
Yes, work on relationships instead of pushing the authority position.
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A5: The relationship before the undesirable event is so important. Having a relationship besides disciplinarian makes a difference.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:41 PM EDT
Yes with parents too!
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In reply to @_AmandaFry
smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:41 PM EDT
Agree! We use Second Step K-5. It focuses on students recognizing feelings and having solid calming down strategies.
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In reply to @MrsPug1
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:41 PM EDT
So many things they aren't taught at home and we have to fill in those holes (on top of academic ones!)
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In reply to @MrsPug1
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:42 PM EDT
Yes, Ss need to know we're here to help them through it and not just wanting to punish!
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
Q6
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
A5: If you see specific issues, spend time in role play, positive and non examps. Talk why non examples interfere with learning.
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
We have to remember sometimes bored kids turn into behavior problems too! Teach them to challenge themselves
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
A5: investing in Ss and families. Building trust, getting to know them! Taking/making time to address small things. Character ed!
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LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
A5: Respect is key. They need to know you believe in them&want them to succeed. Instead of just the person telling them what to do.
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smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
I am always so thankful that I majored in Psychology for undergrad. I often use that degree more than my teaching degree.
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13, @MrsPug1
MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
I can tell you that from an admin role that relationships beat authority every single time. Not the title but the connection.
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:44 PM EDT
Those are also tough. Need to be in touch so you know that the shutting down is bored and not frustration.
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
We have to remember sometimes bored kids turn into behavior problems too! Teach them to challenge themselves
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
McNulty1977
Apr 5 @ 9:44 PM EDT
100% YES to this.
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:39 PM EDT
A5: The relationship before the undesirable event is so important. Having a relationship besides disciplinarian makes a difference.
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:44 PM EDT
Here is Q6
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
Q6
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:45 PM EDT
thought about going back to school to get a psych degree (I enjoyed the 2 classes I took very much!) if only money grew on trees!
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In reply to @smozer, @MrsPug1
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:45 PM EDT
A6: Offer to step in, remove the situation if it is too "hot". Give them an ear to vent.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:45 PM EDT
Engaging lessons not boring worksheets!! 😁
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13, @FirstAtBat
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:46 PM EDT
Same! The mind is so interesting and confusing! 😝
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13, @smozer
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:46 PM EDT
AMEN! Preach it.
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:43 PM EDT
I can tell you that from an admin role that relationships beat authority every single time. Not the title but the connection.
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:46 PM EDT
Yes to all!
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In reply to @mleonard03
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:47 PM EDT
A6:
@mleonard03
has done an amazing job with assisting other Ts. A calm, listening ear. Steps in as needed.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:47 PM EDT
Right away I thought of lending an 👂! Often helps to vent to someone who gets it!
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:47 PM EDT
A6: creating a culture of community among neighboring Ts, giving them a "break"'from Ss so both can refocus
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6. Taking a S for a moment so both can have a break, offering ideas, a shoulder to cry on
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6: encouraging and supporting Ts with Ss. It really does "take a village"
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
Def a calm and reassuring voice. Same as she is with her Ss. 😊
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In reply to @FirstAtBat, @mleonard03
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6: Sometimes we just need to all let it out, then you hear oh wow, they have the same issues I am seeing. Helps in validation.
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_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6:Offer time to listen! Have a dialogue & talk through the situation. Help them to come up w/ their best solution guide if needed.
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smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
Best behaved class I student taught in (20 yrs ago) had worksheets as the consequence for bad behavior. Kids behaved to avoid them.
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In reply to @mleonard03, @MrsAlligood13, @FirstAtBat
LindsayMunroe
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6: Communication b/w staff and consistency with Ss. Lend a hand if needed.
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:49 PM EDT
A6: listen, offer support in whatever way possible, pop in to check in, make the little things matter.
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:50 PM EDT
Brilliant! Haha!! 🤣 Ss would NOT like it!
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In reply to @smozer, @MrsAlligood13, @FirstAtBat
FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:51 PM EDT
I missed early part of chat, so not sure if this came up. So sad to see the anger I see in Ss these days. It is growing.
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Why?
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:52 PM EDT
Also can provide new ideas/solutions. Previous Ts may have relationships with Ss and strats that work. Reach out!
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6: Sometimes we just need to all let it out, then you hear oh wow, they have the same issues I am seeing. Helps in validation.
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milesnawmiles
Apr 5 @ 9:52 PM EDT
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MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:52 PM EDT
A6.1:
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:52 PM EDT
Have to just be careful. Some take that the wrong way. Need to know our Ts too.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:52 PM EDT
Also can provide new ideas/solutions. Previous Ts may have relationships with Ss and strats that work. Reach out!
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FirstAtBat
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:48 PM EDT
A6: Sometimes we just need to all let it out, then you hear oh wow, they have the same issues I am seeing. Helps in validation.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:53 PM EDT
That's it for tonight folks! We thank you for being here with us!
#PLN
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#bepositive
MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:53 PM EDT
Or lack of care from some. 😢 No goals or desires.
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:53 PM EDT
Aww! Thanks! You both have been my listening ear this year as well! I just do what I can, when I can.
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
McNulty1977
Apr 5 @ 9:53 PM EDT
A6: i have been at this long enough to have lots of anecdotes from experience. I often share how I got througb similar struggles.
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:54 PM EDT
Sneak a peek at next week!
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:54 PM EDT
Yes! Thank you for doing this for me! Miss you as my neighbor-we had the best flow!
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13
MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:54 PM EDT
Agreed! Take the "temperature" and then proceed! 😊
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:55 PM EDT
Good point
@MrsPug1
seems too simple but SO helpful!
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @MrsPug1
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:55 PM EDT
I miss you too....
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In reply to @mleonard03
_AmandaFry
Apr 5 @ 9:55 PM EDT
Thank you ladies for hosting a wonderful and timely chat! Have a fantastic evening and I'm sure I will see many of you around!
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:55 PM EDT
Guess I hadn't thought some would b offended? I know I'd be doing whatever possible to find a sol. to a behavior prob in my class!😉
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
smozer
Apr 5 @ 9:55 PM EDT
Anger is everywhere these days - on the news, even here on twitter. Kids magnify the behaviors they see around them.
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:56 PM EDT
@Peekapak
so excited!!!!
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:54 PM EDT
Sneak a peek at next week!
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:56 PM EDT
Sending a S on an important errand? 😉
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In reply to @MrsAlligood13, @mleonard03
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:56 PM EDT
Also true-some might see it as a critical thing, have to word things so they know it is for Ss sake to figure out how to help
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In reply to @FirstAtBat
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:57 PM EDT
Haha! 😂😉
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @FirstAtBat
MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:57 PM EDT
YES! I need a left handed stapler
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In reply to @MrsPug1, @mleonard03
MrRussoRH
Apr 5 @ 9:58 PM EDT
Thank you
@MrsAlligood13
@MrsPug1
@mleonard03
@FirstAtBat
and
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friends for a great chat tonight! Hang in there!!!
mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:58 PM EDT
@Peekapak
we are SO Excited!!! 🎉👍
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MrsPug1
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:54 PM EDT
Sneak a peek at next week!
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mleonard03
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:59 PM EDT
Yes! Ss love stories too!!
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McNulty1977
Apr 5 @ 9:53 PM EDT
A6: i have been at this long enough to have lots of anecdotes from experience. I often share how I got througb similar struggles.
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MrsAlligood13
- Moderator
Apr 5 @ 9:59 PM EDT
Yes! We will survive this testing season! Summer will be here soon!
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In reply to @MrRussoRH, @MrsPug1, @mleonard03, @FirstAtBat