#NYEdChat Archive
The voice of New York Educators.
Monday March 6, 2017
8:00 PM EST
participatechat
Mar 6 @ 8:00 PM EST
Participate in the upcoming
#NYEdChat
by sharing resources and collaborating at
https://t.co/NsrUtMUVIB
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:00 PM EST
Opening the doors to
#NYEDChat
so that all can come in for convo, Leaders Who Prevail with
@RickJetter
&
@RebeccaCoda
.Bring a colleague!
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:00 PM EST
Thank you for always partnering with
#NYEDChat
. Welcome to our chat.
In reply to @participatechat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:00 PM EST
Hello
#nyedchat
We are glad to be your hosts tonight and appreciate you joining us for a swim. Introductions, please . . .
@cvarsalona
MrsJSweeney
Mar 6 @ 8:00 PM EST
@cvarsalona
Jamie hopping in tonight...
@VictoriaL_Day
are you joining tonight?!
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @VictoriaL_Day
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:01 PM EST
Please introduce yourself with your name, role, and location. I am Carol, ELA Consultant, at the
#NYEDChat
moderator desk tonight.
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:01 PM EST
It is not live but we are virtually ready.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @teaching1971, @RickJetter, @RebeccaCoda
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:01 PM EST
Hi Jamie!
#nyedchat
In reply to @MrsJSweeney, @cvarsalona, @VictoriaL_Day
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:01 PM EST
Thanks for joining
#NYEDchat
tonight Jamie.
In reply to @MrsJSweeney, @VictoriaL_Day
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
If you would like to sign up to be one of
#NYEDChat
's connected edus please check in with
@schug_dennis
. We have over 1600 now.
In reply to @schug_dennis
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
The individual questions for
#NYEDChat
's convo, Leaders Who Prevail, will come from
@RickJetter
tonight. Below is the entire Q document.
Syndee_Sue
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
#nyedchat
Good Evening from Michigan!
#CelebrateMonday
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
Good evening, I am Byron, MS Principal in Florida. I feel like I was dunked today!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
#NYEDChat
is open for conversation now. Please join in.
MrsJSweeney
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
Sorry...got ahead of myself! Jamie, NY, Building Principal
#nyedchat
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
Tara from Texas! Interested in the topic tonight!
#nyedchat
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
Hi
#nyedchat
. Lemarr Treadwell, Fresno CA
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
#nyedchat
Amanda Mayeaux, ULL Assistant Prof in Leadership, former teacher, school&district leader
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
and
@Syndee_Sue
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @Syndee_Sue
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:02 PM EST
I am a Title 1 Officer at an elementary scho
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Hi Tara!
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Hi Byron!
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Welcome to
#nyedchat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @RickJetter
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Elise, Elementary Principal from Kansas! Glad to see any KU Jayhawk dunk it, but I am avoiding the dunk tank myself.
#NYEDChat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Good to see you Lemarr. Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Kim from Rockland County NY-instructional tech coach checking in
#NYEDChat
MEMSPAchat
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Hey
#nyedchat
Come join
#MEMSPAchat
this Thursday at 8pm "Welcoming Next Year's Student Now!" It's a #1 trending chat. Join us!
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Hey crazy lady!
#nyedchat
In reply to @Syndee_Sue
djlessard2016
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Denise, HS Instructional Coach, working toward school leadership role, Beaufort County, SC
#NYEDchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
@homeynlilfella
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @MEMSPAchat, @homeynlilfella
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Hi Amanda!
#nyedchat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @cvarsalona
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:03 PM EST
Hi, Rick. The new book is in my shopping cart. I think you could've written it for me.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
Refthinking
Mar 6 @ 8:04 PM EST
Thought this, by
@sylviaduckworth
, was very apt for tonight's
#NYEdChat
. Can't join in live as it's 1am here in the UK but enjoy!
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:04 PM EST
Hi Elise
#nyedchat
In reply to @eliseheger
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:04 PM EST
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @djlessard2016
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:04 PM EST
Good to see that you sent us something from Sylvia to make
#NYEDChat
sparkle.
In reply to @Refthinking, @sylviaduckworth
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:04 PM EST
Hi Denise!
#nyedchat
In reply to @djlessard2016
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
Hi Kim!
#nyedchat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
For me too! LOL
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
Hi y'all! I'm Elyse and work with Special Education and all of the above in Katy, Texas. I love what I do!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
Tonight on
#NYEDChat
Please follow those you are speaking with. This will
#growPLN
nicely.
TeruClavel
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
There is much to learn from defeat! I don't fear failure I learn from it
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Hahne_KingEle
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:05 PM EST
#nyedchat
hi - Don - MS Principal- Jericho
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Hi Elyse!
#nyedchat
In reply to @Hahne_KingEle
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
from Calif.
In reply to @TeruClavel
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Hi, friend. Glad you are here with us at
#NYEDChat
, Don.
In reply to @donald_gately
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Hello
#nyedchat
, back again from Oklahoma City. Andre Daughty (pronounced Daugh like how).
https://t.co/2yP3rUlVPc
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Hi Don!
#nyedchat
In reply to @donald_gately
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Hi Teru!
#nyedchat
In reply to @TeruClavel
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:06 PM EST
Hi, Andre. Glad you are here. Welcome to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ardaughty
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:07 PM EST
A1 Defeat is a temporary phase to be in. Rebounding with positivity works for me after initial shock.
#NYEDChat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:07 PM EST
There's Andre!
#nyedchat
In reply to @ardaughty
danieldmccabe
Mar 6 @ 8:07 PM EST
Sorry
@cvarsalona
I cannot make
#nyedchat
tonight, I have a basketball game. 🏀 Looking forward to the archives tomorrow morning.
In reply to @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:08 PM EST
Did I jump the line, Rick
@RickJetter
? I popped up answer to Q1 already.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:08 PM EST
Let's get rolling . . . Ready for a swim? Q1 is up.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:08 PM EST
I just saw that Dan. Thanks for letting me know. Hope to see you on the 20th.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @danieldmccabe
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:09 PM EST
A1: Let no defeat be wasted, regroup by taking stock of what was learned!
#nyedchat
TeruClavel
Mar 6 @ 8:09 PM EST
Failure needs to be reflected upon over a a great cup of coffee. Spin class is always good for getting emotions out!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:09 PM EST
Welcome to
#NYEDChat
, Rosylin.
In reply to @teaching1971
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:09 PM EST
We're right in sync with each other 33 s to the hilt. LOL
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1
@TeruClavel
I don't spin but I do yoga and it works for me.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @TeruClavel
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1: Zig Zigler said, "Remember that failure is an event, not a person." Events come and go, reflect, learn, and move forward.
#nyedchat
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1 finding a project I can dive into is helpful, new lesson, room arrangement etc...I also like to reflect and make it better!!
#nyedchat
djlessard2016
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1:seek feedback,like hearing other's view/perspective b/c often it's what I missed which contributed to 'fail' then back at it!!
#NYEDchat
Syndee_Sue
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1:
#nyedchat
meditation and journaling and some really good music helps me to find a positive way
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1 After the initial shock/adjustment, I typically jump back in with enthusiam and positivity!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
wise advice for Q1 Elise.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @eliseheger
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
But, what do you do after taking stock?
#nyedchat
In reply to @eliseheger
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
Did I miss Q1?
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
What do you do after reflecting?
#nyedchat
In reply to @TeruClavel
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1
@homeynlilfella
Reflection is the right thing to do.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:10 PM EST
A1 I honestly have to have a moment to clear my emotions, and then can plan attack
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
#NYEDChat
Don't forget to follow each other.
briley8557
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
#nyedchat
Bob, MS Prin in Gorham, ME. Hope you'll let the
@RedSox
fan lurk on the convo.
In reply to @RedSox
PrincipalOgg
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
A1-I need a few moments of quiet time. Get my head back on straight and refocus.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
Well said . . .
#nyedchat
In reply to @djlessard2016
themixitupgirls
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
A1:Self reflect, get trusted colleagues input. Pick urself up/dust urself off-redefine ur purpose and move forward!
#nyedchat
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
Spin is awesome to work out issues.
#nyedchat
In reply to @TeruClavel
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
A1
@SIOWehmeyer
That is a good plan.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
A1: This quote keeps me moving forward
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
What kind of re-adjustment might be needed after defeat?
#nyedchat
In reply to @Syndee_Sue
briley8557
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
#nyedchat
BTW, my introduction was also my answer to Q1. I have been a fan since the mid '50s.
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
A1 if we're being honest- some defeats are more difficult than others to get past
#nyedchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
A1. Prayer and reflection. I need to get back to center & figure out how to move fwd.
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
A1
@themixitupgirls
I like your point redefine your purpose.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @themixitupgirls
themixitupgirls
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
Just joining in while waiting for tacos at the drive thru in Texas! Love the topic.
#nyedchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
thank you!
#nyedchat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
But, then what? How do you get back in the ring?
#nyedchat
In reply to @PrincipalOgg
PrincipalOgg
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
A1-Breathe
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
wonderful quote.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @guyonsmile
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:11 PM EST
A1: This quote keeps me moving forward
#nyedchat
riekehofp
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
A1: adversity is part of the process. Reflect on the aspects that didn't work, and how to improve.
#NYEDchat
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
A1
#nyedchat
I tend to be hard on myself -- even tho I like to embrace growth mindset
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:13 PM EST
sounds good
#NYEDChat
In reply to @themixitupgirls
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:13 PM EST
Define "attack."
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:13 PM EST
A1.
#nyedchat
I think about the opening of Disneyland in 1955 compared to where they are today. A Journey vs. destination
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:13 PM EST
A1
@ByronDurias
Ah prayer-thanks for that point, Byron.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ByronDurias
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:13 PM EST
#nyedchat
My office was not always quiet place, so I found walking around the track worked. Kids often joined me.
#nyedchat
In reply to @PrincipalOgg
Refthinking
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
#NYEdChat
We believe in collaborating, discussing and communicating to minimise confrontation...
themixitupgirls
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
Very true!
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
A1
@PrincipalOgg
Always breathe-the breath helps sort out any confusion.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @PrincipalOgg
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
Keep going . . . Such as? I'm pushing you to swim deeper here. You are doing great!
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
PrincipalOgg
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
It is like baseball. Get up to the plate and take a swing. Get a strike, step back rethink and get back up to the plate
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:12 PM EST
But, then what? How do you get back in the ring?
#nyedchat
In reply to @PrincipalOgg
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
A1
@Refthinking
collaboration #1 to build relationships and a culture of trust.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Refthinking
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
You have to figure what was good too...it's hard to be 100% failure!! There's always something good!!
#nyedchat
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
Sometimes face down on the floor...
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @ByronDurias
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:14 PM EST
What if there isn't an evident pathway out of a situation?
#nyedchat
In reply to @riekehofp
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:15 PM EST
A2 I minimize confrontation whenever it rises w/
#positivethinking
&creative problem solving.Confrontation often breeds negativity
#NYEDChat
MrsJSweeney
Mar 6 @ 8:15 PM EST
A1: I smile, stay positive, learn from any mistakes made & visit w/Ss to remind me of why I come 2 work each day.
#NYEDchat
Toups_J
Mar 6 @ 8:15 PM EST
#nyedchat
Jerry Toups from the Houston TX area. 9th and 10th geometry teacher.
#AlwaysBelieve
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:15 PM EST
That is a very good question, Rick. I think I would have to reflect on that before I took a step forward.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter, @riekehofp
themixitupgirls
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
Good point! We do this with our kids. Cant forget about ourselves!
#nyedchat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
That might be the prevailing part, eh?
#nyedchat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
Welcome Jerry to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Toups_J
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
#nyedchat
"confrontation" is a tricky word... we learn and grow thru "tension"? It's natural and necessary ---
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
Hardest defeats--losing a student to drugs, crime, home issues, etc...
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
Hmm . . . we will get to confrontation soon. It is sometimes hard to minimize.
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
#nyedchat
https://t.co/tO3sRsYe6A
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:16 PM EST
I told you before that I love your
#Beleive
board.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Toups_J
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
So grounding yourself in students works?
#nyedchat
In reply to @MrsJSweeney
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
Yes, that is difficult.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @RickJetter
mrhall5634
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
A1: Have to think outside the box.
#nyedchat
#JoyfulLeaders
#edchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
A2. This is hard. Although I am very calm on the outside, inside I am boiling. Confronting the issue is my preference. 1/
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
Toups_J
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
#nyedchat
A1 Keep reminding yourself
#ItsAllAboutTheKids
We all fall short of being perfect. Strive to be
#Positive
& inspire your Ss & Trs
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
That is a great answer, Don. Tension does give us the impetus to find solutions.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @donald_gately
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
Awesome quote
@mrhall5634
#nyedchat
In reply to @mrhall5634
mrhall5634
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
A1: Have to think outside the box.
#nyedchat
#JoyfulLeaders
#edchat
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
Particularly when there was a teacher issue you were unable to correct due to politics.
#NYEDchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @RickJetter
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
A1. I remember that saying "Even on your worst day, somebody (student/teacher/administrator) needs you." - Larry Bell
#nyedchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
A2b. Sometimes saying nothing at all gives me time to let the situation deflate. I find I am more level headed that way.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
And sometimes that might lead to destruction . . . Such a balancing act, right?
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
A2 avoiding confrontation- best to not email in the moment, take a deep breath and decide what your actual objective is
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
Joyful Leaders do think outside the box.
#NYEDChat
will have a convo on
#JoyfulLeaders
with
@bethhill2829
.
In reply to @mrhall5634, @bethhill2829
TeruClavel
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
Confrontation is a necessary evil. One must be assertive and empathetic simultaneously. Understanding multiple viewpoints is key.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
What kind of politics?
#nyedchat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @cvarsalona
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
A2: Minimize confrontation by extending empathy and valuing all perspectives.
#nyedchat
schug_dennis
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
Dennis -- Middle School Principal -- Long Island. Running a bit late...but ready for some
#NYEDChat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
When you confront what is the tone you use, Byron?
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ByronDurias
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
A2 I try to be genuine and ensure ppl know it's not a personal attack- I likely screw it up daily though. Conversational tones
#NYEDChat
PrincipalOgg
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
A2-Think before you speak. I learned the hard way on that this year
#nyedchat
StacyVespremiCD
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
A2. Try to stay ahead of any need for confrontation by having a "pulse" of what's going on. But, confronting is caring if needed
#nyedchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:19 PM EST
Yes, goes against my natural instinct to stand up for what I believe is right!
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
massignmenthelp
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
#nyedchat
#SocEdChat
#STEMHQ
#vachat
#WonderChat
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Chemteach201
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
A2. Clear communication. Offer and follow through with support. Respect others views, different=reason to expand views
#NYEDchat
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
me too!!
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
E-mail can be such a drain on us and the system. Hard to put facial expressions behind e-mails.
#nyedchat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
djlessard2016
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
A2:honestly,professionally and directly handling issues in a timely manner (may vary;need to know your people) is a start!
#NYEDchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
Being a leader is tough on many days.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter, @ByronDurias
teaching1971
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
#nyedchat
A3 i know that at times i try help support staff with issuesit backfires
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
My tone is always good, but I can't turn off the feeling in the moment. Silence is best in that moment.
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
#NYEDchat
Have the involved write down all of their issues. Use a conflict protocol to work it out.
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
Hi Dennis!
#nyedchat
In reply to @schug_dennis
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
Definitely not put your thoughts in an email when you are in heated moment.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:20 PM EST
Sincerity is also a cornerstone of building trust.
#nyedchat
In reply to @eliseheger
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:21 PM EST
"Necessary"? How so?
#nyedchat
In reply to @TeruClavel
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:21 PM EST
Understanding is key during confrontational moments.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @TeruClavel
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:21 PM EST
A2 have a plan of action when facing a difficult topic. Confrontation turns off some. Keep it professional and to the point.
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:22 PM EST
Glad you are here moderator friend. Need some back up.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @schug_dennis
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:22 PM EST
A2 I need to learn to "fix my face" I'm hurtful at times and don't mean to be!
#NYEDChat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:22 PM EST
Empathy is always needed in times of tension.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @eliseheger
Syndee_Sue
Mar 6 @ 8:22 PM EST
#nyedchat
agreed, keep the pulse, do not ignore… Would be viewed as condoning
@debbiemcfalone
In reply to @StacyVespremiCD, @debbiemcfalone
mrhall5634
Mar 6 @ 8:22 PM EST
A2: Interesting perspective. Ask others, like students, to help fix the problem
#nyedchat
#JoyfulLeaders
#edchat
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:22 PM EST
TRUTH! Sometimes I write it all down in my journal to get it out and then breathe. Don't share! :)
#NYEDchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @homeynlilfella
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:23 PM EST
A2. It is easier to say "go do" vs "let's do." The let's do's is EXACTLY WHAT GREAT leaders do.
#modelexpectations
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:23 PM EST
Can politics and confrontation ever be eradicated?
#nyedchat
In reply to @Hahne_KingEle
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:23 PM EST
in schools we tend to be less likely to confront injustice or challenge.
#nyedchat
. We perpetuate poor behavior.
In reply to @cvarsalona, @RickJetter
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:23 PM EST
now that plan should work well, Amanda.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @homeynlilfella
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:23 PM EST
This is a brilliant reflection.
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:23 PM EST
It's a tough lesson. Apparently I am scary to some. I had no idea.
#nyedchat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
We should not perpetuate poor behavior. Ts and Leaders need to be full of positivity.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @RickJetter
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
Agree, but sometimes we're human. Things need to be said. Sometimes you can't package with niceties.
#nyedchat
In reply to @eliseheger, @cvarsalona
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
#NYEDchat
The hardest thing is understanding some issues we can't change. This is very frustrating, but a great lesson in pride.
In reply to @mrhall5634
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
So much condoning goes on in our schools. It deflates culture. So TRUE!
#nyedchat
In reply to @Syndee_Sue, @StacyVespremiCD, @debbiemcfalone
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
Yes. We need to watch how we deliver our messages though
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @eliseheger
ashkejriwal
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
#NYEdchat
A2: Addressing an issue is very important. It is an art to encourage dialog as one unit. Create safe venue
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:24 PM EST
Will this ever go away?
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @cvarsalona
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:25 PM EST
Not entirely, I don't think. It would be great if they could. Politics, school or otherwise, don't bring out the best.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
TeruClavel
Mar 6 @ 8:25 PM EST
There are situations that require confronted. Ignoring issues can only breed larger ones.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
It's elephant time! You are swimming very deeply now. Q3 is up.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
@RickJetter
Did Q3 come out yet?
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
Ditto
#nyedchat
In reply to @TeruClavel, @RickJetter
bethhill2829
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
I can't wait for this!!!!
#NYEDChat
#JoyfulLeaders
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:18 PM EST
Joyful Leaders do think outside the box.
#NYEDChat
will have a convo on
#JoyfulLeaders
with
@bethhill2829
.
In reply to @mrhall5634, @bethhill2829
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
I wish, but there are some many things happening in the shadows of which one is unaware.
#NYEDchat
In reply to @Hahne_KingEle, @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
It is an art. Studying and understanding human behavior is a dunk tank art, for sure!
#nyedchat
In reply to @ashkejriwal, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:27 PM EST
A3 Sometimes we step right into a situation - put our foot in our mouth. We need to figure out how to handle it.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:27 PM EST
Shawna, Im a Pre-k/kindergarten readiness educator from Phoenix Arizona
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:27 PM EST
Great image of the dunk tank to get us thinking, Rick.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter, @ashkejriwal
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:27 PM EST
Welcome Shawna to
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Hudsonwife16, @RickJetter
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:27 PM EST
A3. recently advocated for Ss of my school community. Some misinterpreted my intentions. I weathered the storm.I acted justly
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
We follow each other that we converse with on
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Hudsonwife16, @RickJetter
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
A3: Doing the right thing has backfired when I hadn't built trust and influence.
#nyedchat
SIOWehmeyer
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
A3 recently with an idea- sounded great - wasn't practical for where we are- was honest and asked for suggestions!
#NYEDChat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
Hi Shawna . . . my FAVORITE Dunk Tankanite!
#nyedchat
In reply to @Hudsonwife16, @cvarsalona
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
Work out or sweat it out. Leave it on the floor and let it go!
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
Very true!
@RickJetter
Do I avoid confrontation all together? No but it's a start especially with a tough topic.
#nyedchat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @RickJetter
yankee_todd
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
Hey Todd - former Yankee now living in Texas joining you tonight ! I am the principal of an awesome middle school
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
A3
@eliseheger
Building trust is the key ingredient in relationships
#NYEDChat
In reply to @eliseheger
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
What was misinterpreted?
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias
djlessard2016
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
A3:not delegating;thought I was making life easier for everyone when in fact I was too controlling;grateful a colleague told me
#NYEDchat
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:28 PM EST
#NYEDchat
Discovered a serious ethical issue. Reported it--consequences followed. Ethics above personal gain. It works out in the end.
Chemteach201
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
A3. Professional tension can be ok if it means things are moving in a direction that will benefit student learning
#NYEDchat
yankee_todd
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
A2: always try to explain the why. This helps me when it comes time to discuss tough issues
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
Hey man. We are on Q3:
#nyedchat
In reply to @yankee_todd
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
A2: If it ain't gonna change things let it go. Its not worth your time. Be the bigger person
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
A3
@SIOWehmeyer
That sometimes happens-asking for suggestions is a good plan.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @SIOWehmeyer
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
A3. Tried to lead through fear & then wanted everyone to "buy in." T'was TERRIBLE!
#LessonLearned
#fail
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:29 PM EST
Tension is sometimes healthy.
#nyedchat
In reply to @Chemteach201
Refthinking
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
#NYEDChat
ashkejriwal
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
#NYEdchat
Most ppl defend their 'position' when confronted in bad manner or timing. Triggering unsafe feelings.
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
A3: Trying to say keeping certain people on the team is actually hurting the rest of us
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
Fear is a troubling behavior and emotion. Fully examined in the Dunk Tank.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ardaughty
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
my intentions. ppl read too much into it. Made a gesture of kindness a political thing.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
Awwww too sweet!
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
A3. Going into a meeting with the decision made, then seeking input from others & rebelling against said input. T'was rough.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:30 PM EST
And, sometimes not letting go leads to destruction.
#nyedchat
In reply to @Hudsonwife16, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
Great graphic
#NYEDChat
In reply to @Refthinking
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
Tried to "help" my department move forward...but I forgot to give them wheels before I started moving the bus! Know your audience
#nyedchat
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
A3: If it's better for the student then it's worth the fight. And I love elephants!
#nyedchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
delegating can be hard!
#nyedchat
In reply to @djlessard2016
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
So, what do you do when you cannot take someone off of the island?
#nyedchat
In reply to @Hudsonwife16, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
A3
@donald_gately
was talking about that earlier, Rick.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter, @Chemteach201, @donald_gately
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
#nyedchat
This old Chinese Proverb
TheDisciplineDr
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
Minimize confrontation by always trying to be the bigger person. Don't get in to mud slinging.
#NYEDChat
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
Absolutely...double edge sword! dang it
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
riekehofp
Mar 6 @ 8:31 PM EST
A3 sometimes doing what u believe is right for Ss creates tension. It can get awkward, but Ss must come first.
#nyedchat
EduGladiators
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
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#BloomzChat
#NYEdchat
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#formativechat
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
yes --- I need pushback to hone ideas ..
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @RickJetter, @Chemteach201
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
Human nature but in a positive climate I think talking could be a major help.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ashkejriwal, @RickJetter
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
Agreed! You have to have a clear conscience when you lay your head on your pillow at night.
#nyedchat
In reply to @DrMayeaux
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
A3. Not being there for the team saying "go help them."
#examples
#nyedchat
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
That's a tough question....get off of it yourself!
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
We often burden ourselves to do everything thinking we are the only ones to do it right.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @djlessard2016
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
Fear is crippling at times and leads to negativity.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter, @ardaughty
yankee_todd
Mar 6 @ 8:32 PM EST
Shameless plug! Trying to get to 2k followers. Any help from the Empire State?
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:33 PM EST
What's a good example of this?
#nyedchat
In reply to @riekehofp
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:33 PM EST
Mudslinging is only dirty for everyone.
#nyedchat
In reply to @TheDisciplineDr
ashkejriwal
Mar 6 @ 8:33 PM EST
@cvarsalona
@yankee_todd
#NYEdchat
90% of new initiatives fall into the deathpit of challenging status quo. I wasn't spared too!
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona, @yankee_todd
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:33 PM EST
mud slinging is negative approach that I find does not work at all.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @TheDisciplineDr
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:34 PM EST
FEAR has been mentioned a bit tonight. Chapter 2 really goes DEEP into fear.
#nyedchat
StacyVespremiCD
Mar 6 @ 8:34 PM EST
A3 handled with a forced smile and then 🍷
#NYEDChat
DrJimmyShaw
Mar 6 @ 8:34 PM EST
A3 we would do well to remember that being right is of no use if you are not present. No presence=no power or influence
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:26 PM EST
It's elephant time! You are swimming very deeply now. Q3 is up.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:34 PM EST
Not even with a spouse! LOL
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @TheDisciplineDr
watertankmath
Mar 6 @ 8:35 PM EST
Another big night!
#cdnedchat
#nyedchat
#edchatme
#colchat
#ksedchat
#msmathchat
#aledchat
#iledchat
#tosachat
#math
Hope 2 see u all Tues!
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:35 PM EST
Sometimes faking a smile is OK.
#nyedchat
In reply to @StacyVespremiCD
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:35 PM EST
A3 thanks for joining
#NYEDChat
tonight Jimmy.
In reply to @DrJimmyShaw
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:35 PM EST
A3. How did I handle it? I stayed there, tried (my best to) stay professional & help cultivate the team through those pitfalls.
#nyedchat
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:35 PM EST
A3 It's something that is still a work in progress. I move forward after a difficult situation but internalize more.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:36 PM EST
Q5 is up now. GREAT convo everyone! Now, shift to QUITTING something!
@cvarsalona
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
ShanaVWhite
Mar 6 @ 8:36 PM EST
A3: Define backfired? Doing the right thing doesn't backfire. Might change path or cause delay but does not backfire.
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:36 PM EST
#WonderChat
I am moderating
#NYEDChat
with
@RickJetter
tonight. Sorry I can't be there with the Wonder Lead Ambassadors and
@Wonderopolis
In reply to @RickJetter, @Wonderopolis
Chemteach201
Mar 6 @ 8:36 PM EST
A3. Being honest and reflective! An oopppss never hurt anyone!
#NYEDChat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
Q4 Right Rick?
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
I'm following both on Tweetdeck!
#wonderchat
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @RickJetter, @Wonderopolis
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
Back-fire could en up drowning you when you meant to tread water.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ShanaVWhite
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
Sorry Q4
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
ardaughty
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
A3. Also, publicly supporting the team no matter what and still being helpful. Let karma do her job, not you...
#nyedchat
ShanaVWhite
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
you don't drown doing the right thing.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:37 PM EST
A3 I'm going to say have a growth mindset and have self-efficacy even in leadership positions we fail and we learn.
#NYEDchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:38 PM EST
Yep. Sorry, I said 5 by accident.
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
MrsJSweeney
Mar 6 @ 8:38 PM EST
#nyedchat
MrsJSweeney
Mar 6 @ 8:34 PM EST
A3: There's typ some opp. in all we do & I always ask myself is it good for kids, is it better for kids & I stay + through the ups and Ds
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:38 PM EST
A4: B/c I already had enough on my plate it was right b/c it showed them all that I do actually do
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:38 PM EST
A4: I abandoned a book with my 6th half way thru. None of us were enjoying the read. It gave Ss the freedom to choose a better 1
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:38 PM EST
A4 Aborting a task happens at times when change warrants a new course. Strategic discussions my team helped us to find a new path.
#NYEDChat
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:39 PM EST
A4: I had to quit a task when I failed to consider how those that I was imposing upon would feel.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:39 PM EST
Some do, though. The stories in our book are astounding. Some sad. Some deserved. But prevailing is key.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ShanaVWhite
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:39 PM EST
Not a problem We are on Q4 Now
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:39 PM EST
A4 there were definite times I had to scrap what we were doing, not the objective, but how I planned it & start from scratch.
#NYEDchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:39 PM EST
Great to see you at
#NYEDChat
Vicki, my moderator friend.
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:39 PM EST
#NYEDchat
On the outside an impressive job, inside -dangerous game. Walked away, no plan. 6 wks later landed my dream job.
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
What if placing a terrible educator on leave leads to a political nightmare? The leave might be good for kids.
#nyedchat
In reply to @MrsJSweeney
RossCoops31
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
Grab Your Free Copy of the Hack Learning Anthology!
#education
#edtechchat
#nyedchat
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Syndee_Sue
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
A5:
#NYEDChat
another tough one… Sometimes I kick back with a good book
@DrHenryCloud
In reply to @DrHenryCloud
djlessard2016
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
A4:plan for peer observation this year; just not there yet as a school...next year!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
We need to stand tall many times during our lives.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ShanaVWhite, @RickJetter
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
just got back from BOE meeting conflicts w that and
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
ShanaVWhite
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
so I can't drown if I prevail right? How is there victory after drowning?
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:40 PM EST
From lessons to planning, indeed. What about things that you know will become a political nightmare?
#nyedchat
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
A4
@guyonsmile
That is a good plan. You read the room and knew that a new path would benefit the children.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @guyonsmile
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
You can't drown when you
#Failforward
#nyedchat
In reply to @ShanaVWhite, @RickJetter
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
A4. didn't quit,I gave in. needed to move fwd & it wasn't happening w/out me. I made the decision to move it fwd, letting go.
#nyedchat
mguhlin
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
MT Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
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via
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RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
mguhlin
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
MT RickJetter cvarsalona yankee_todd
#NYEdchat
90% of new initiatives fall into the deathpit of challenging status…
https://t.co/lc1niUUfnc
ashkejriwal
Mar 6 @ 8:33 PM EST
@cvarsalona
@yankee_todd
#NYEdchat
90% of new initiatives fall into the deathpit of challenging status quo. I wasn't spared too!
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona, @yankee_todd
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
And, THAT'S prevailing!
#nyedchat
In reply to @DrMayeaux
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
I know your BOE meetings are the reason you are not with us. I miss you.
#nyedchat
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:42 PM EST
touche!
#nyedchat
In reply to @ashkejriwal, @RickJetter, @djlessard2016
schug_dennis
Mar 6 @ 8:42 PM EST
Yes, each of us has values, convictions, and non-negotiables. But can WE can accomplish more?
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @eliseheger, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:42 PM EST
That is a tough decision but one that has to be made in some cases.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @MrsJSweeney
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:42 PM EST
Prevailing can mean going from a "deli counter" to a dream job--Chapter 9 for sure.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ShanaVWhite
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:42 PM EST
#nyedchat
Sometimes it means to move on to another site where the issue is embraced rather than confronted
mguhlin
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
MT Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
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via
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RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
And sometimes the accomplishment will be in disguise.
#nyedchat
In reply to @schug_dennis, @ByronDurias, @eliseheger, @cvarsalona
ShanaVWhite
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
drown signifies the end. No breathing. Can you be victorious if you are not breathing or completely submerged?
#nyedchat
In reply to @MrsJSweeney
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
the majority know though that we did the right thing that is why you get key players involved
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @MrsJSweeney
SparkyTeaching
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
For growth mindsetting, character valuing educators with ❤️and a lotta✨!
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#edchatme
#flipclass
schug_dennis
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
Yes, each of us has values, convictions, and non-negotiables. But can WE not accomplish more?
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @eliseheger, @cvarsalona
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
Learning the patience to see it this way.
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:43 PM EST
And sometimes the accomplishment will be in disguise.
#nyedchat
In reply to @schug_dennis, @ByronDurias, @eliseheger, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:44 PM EST
A tough decision but leaders need to make tough decisions.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:45 PM EST
That is the truth!
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @ShanaVWhite
ShanaVWhite
Mar 6 @ 8:45 PM EST
okie dokie. I guess we will just disagree.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @MrsJSweeney
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:45 PM EST
We are only as good as we see goodness. Q5 is now up.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:45 PM EST
Faith and fear and interesting thought to ponder.
#nyedchat
In reply to @JustMel1963, @RickJetter, @ardaughty
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:46 PM EST
that is why we do what we do what is right for kids make sure union knows
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In reply to @RickJetter
PrincipalNyberg
Mar 6 @ 8:46 PM EST
A thousand times fav!
#nyedchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:45 PM EST
We are only as good as we see goodness. Q5 is now up.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:46 PM EST
A5: Gossip and thinking we are all against one another
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In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:47 PM EST
Unions can often help to clear waterways.
#nyedchat
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day
Chemteach201
Mar 6 @ 8:47 PM EST
A5. The fear of educators integrating new methods. Simply getting them to try is a huge accomplishment!
#nyedchat
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
Keeping my research focus on authentic needs that can really impact schools. No ivory towers...being real
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In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
Is there such thing as positive gossip? Or positive rumors? Can we spread those?
#nyedchat
In reply to @Hudsonwife16, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
Seeing good in something is positive side of life. It's
#CelebrateMOnday
so others shout out answer to Q5.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @PrincipalNyberg
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
INDEED!
#nyedchat
In reply to @Chemteach201
TheDisciplineDr
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
Sometimes being unpopular means that you are doing what's best and not just kissing up.
#NYEDChat
ashkejriwal
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
#NYEdchat
A5 I had to drop Circles of Learning model bcos it threatened old school ways & I was outnumbered. Wise!
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
Hahne_KingEle
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
A5 In Special Ed, having tough conversations for and about students is difficult. Knowing when to lay off is tough. Move forward.
#nyedchat
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:48 PM EST
A5. A current parent situation I am handling. I think its evolved into a monster, but I believe I am being forged in the fire
#nyedchat
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
Good teachers resistant to change - they need to see proof that it'll work before they progress-being cautious is good!!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
I can't see how gossip becomes positive unless it is the truth that we are spreading.
#TrendthePositives
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In reply to @RickJetter, @Hudsonwife16
djlessard2016
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
A5:despite the challenges I work with a lot of dedicated colleagues
#NYEDchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
Retreating is often an art form, as well. High EQ.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ashkejriwal, @cvarsalona
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
Some fear if they try new things, they are admitting the old things were bad and hurt kids. Overcome this fear...
#NYEDchat
In reply to @Chemteach201
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
That makes your job environment a place of joy.
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In reply to @djlessard2016
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
& bring people 2the table. I always bring a rep in if I have 2 share something serious and have someone there for me
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:49 PM EST
Most times, indeed.
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In reply to @TheDisciplineDr
Refthinking
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
Help your students become successful Reflactors early on.
https://t.co/EJbmhOvdtI
#NYEdChat
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
A5: Conflict is often seen as a bad thing but a room full of unanimity=s uncritical thinking and lack of trust!
#nyedchat
staci_erickson2
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
A5- busting your tail & having a very limited support b/c egos get in the way. The reason it's good b/c makes me resilient.
#NYEDchat
homeynlilfella
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
what's right is not always popular and what's popular is not always right
#nyedchat
In reply to @TheDisciplineDr
guyonsmile
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
A5: These attitudes toward rejection keep us on the sunny side of the street
#nyedchat
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
hang in -- change takes time ?
#nyedchat
In reply to @ashkejriwal, @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
Resiliency is an art.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @staci_erickson2
ashkejriwal
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
#NYEdchat
A5 Interestingly, ppl were open to Circles of Learning after it was stopped. Ppl opened up to it slowly.
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
Indeed. It is a semantics twist.
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @Hudsonwife16
PrincipalNyberg
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
It reveals the heart of a person.
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:50 PM EST
Just remember someone out there wants you and will let you run free. Don't be afraid if opportunity calls.
#NYEDchat
In reply to @staci_erickson2
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
LOTS of time. But, what if you are dying waiting?
#nyedchat
In reply to @donald_gately, @ashkejriwal, @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
It's always the baby steps that work.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @ashkejriwal, @RickJetter
mguhlin
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
MT
#nyedchat
Sometimes it means to move on to another site where the issue is embraced rather than confronted …
https://t.co/lFpen46WOT
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:42 PM EST
#nyedchat
Sometimes it means to move on to another site where the issue is embraced rather than confronted
mguhlin
Mar 6 @ 8:41 PM EST
MT Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
https://t.co/8amZ8zpbys
https://t.co/8amZ8zpbys
via
https://t.co/HH0p7V21n1
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:17 PM EST
Let's go to Q2: posted now . . .
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
GREAT
#sldunktank
#nyedchat
In reply to @guyonsmile
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
true
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @ashkejriwal, @cvarsalona
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
always want to cya 😉
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter
staci_erickson2
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
A4- I had to abort an idea to revamp RTI. It ended up being a good thing. Ts ended up doing it. Turned out great
#NYEDchat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:51 PM EST
GREAT word. Great skill.
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @staci_erickson2
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:52 PM EST
#Positivity
works
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In reply to @djlessard2016
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:52 PM EST
Ego is so huge here! A huge analysis in Chapter 2 of the DT.
#sldunktank
#nyedchat
In reply to @staci_erickson2
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:53 PM EST
I think the aborted ideas lead us to find new pathways that work better. Change is hard but it opens new doors
#NYEDChat
In reply to @staci_erickson2
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:53 PM EST
GREAT support network.
#nyedchat
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:53 PM EST
You prevailed! Dunk Tank success!
#nyedchat
In reply to @staci_erickson2
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:53 PM EST
Ego is a stumbling block. I have seen huge egos stand in the way of progress.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter, @staci_erickson2
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:54 PM EST
AKA "Proactive Paranoia" in our book.
#nyedchat
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:54 PM EST
yes, I've learned quickly.
#nyedchat
In reply to @djlessard2016, @RickJetter
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:54 PM EST
Love that term, Rick.
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In reply to @RickJetter, @VictoriaL_Day
donald_gately
Mar 6 @ 8:54 PM EST
good pt Carol!
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @RickJetter, @staci_erickson2
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:54 PM EST
I've seen egos stand in the way too not good!
#nyedchat
In reply to @cvarsalona, @RickJetter, @staci_erickson2
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
Think about tomorrow. Right now. REFRACTION (Reflection with Action). We are not linear.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
staci_erickson2
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
A2- don't ignore it. Address it early. Listen first. Sometimes it might be a misunderstanding. Don't assume. Help find solutions
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
Egos sometimes are the road blocks in our lives. Sometimes the detours work for us.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @VictoriaL_Day, @RickJetter, @staci_erickson2
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
can you expand on the concept a little.
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @VictoriaL_Day
burgessdave
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
Sometimes Pollyanna Gets Punched in the FACE! My blog about Escaping the
#SLDunkTank
https://t.co/SipzIIZ5cG
#NYEDchat
#tlap
#LeadLAP
TheDisciplineDr
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
Too many educators make popularity the goal instead of having a positive impact.
@homeynlilfella
#nyedchat
In reply to @homeynlilfella
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:56 PM EST
@RickJetter
Reflaction coming up. This is the call to action tweeps.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @RickJetter
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:55 PM EST
Think about tomorrow. Right now. REFRACTION (Reflection with Action). We are not linear.
#nyedchat
@cvarsalona
In reply to @cvarsalona
LemarrTreadwell
Mar 6 @ 8:56 PM EST
#nyedchat
This says it all.....
Chemteach201
Mar 6 @ 8:56 PM EST
Short term values over long term impact!
#nyedchat
In reply to @TheDisciplineDr, @homeynlilfella
ByronDurias
Mar 6 @ 8:57 PM EST
Reflaction: be in classrooms and throughout the campus to focus on supporting teaching and learning.
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:57 PM EST
Thanks for the jump into
#NYEDChat
, Dave.
#tlap
#LeadLAP
In reply to @burgessdave
DrMayeaux
Mar 6 @ 8:57 PM EST
Listen to great leaders and teachers rather than the talking heads. Focus on the goals.
#NYEDchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
Hudsonwife16
Mar 6 @ 8:57 PM EST
Showing how what I do works, its why my class and parents are happy b/c I genuinely love what I do
#nyedchat
In reply to @RickJetter, @cvarsalona
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:57 PM EST
We just came in as a #3 under the Bachelor! Great discussion.
#NYEDChat
eliseheger
Mar 6 @ 8:58 PM EST
Reflaction: I will not my own ego get in the way of good ideas!
#nyedchat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:58 PM EST
Be a Difference Maker! See my answer at
https://t.co/Kq2bHa2lgu
#NYEDChat
RickJetter
Mar 6 @ 8:58 PM EST
Similar to the term "withitness" but more detrimental to protective success.
#nyedchat
In reply to @ByronDurias, @VictoriaL_Day
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:59 PM EST
Hey
@cvarsalona
ru going to
#celi17
and doing a live
#NYEDChat
In reply to @cvarsalona
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:59 PM EST
We may want to think of ourselves as humble service leaders.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @eliseheger
VictoriaL_Day
Mar 6 @ 8:59 PM EST
Let go my ego 🤣🤣🤣
#NYEDChat
cvarsalona
- Moderator
Mar 6 @ 8:59 PM EST
Focus and listening are great goals.
#NYEDChat
In reply to @DrMayeaux, @RickJetter
StacyVespremiCD
Mar 6 @ 8:59 PM EST
#NYEDchat
continue telling our story. Started a # contest last week with Tt and continuing this week. Our happy winner today.
#whyWBSD