#ukedchat Archive

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Thursday January 24, 2019
3:00 PM EST

  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:00 PM EST
    It's 8pm. Time for #UKEdChat Topic: Depression: Impact and Support Question 1 coming up...
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  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:01 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q1 Does your school have formal procedures to help staff help someone showing signs of depression? Policies? Dedicated member of staff? etc. ▶Please use the hashtag & A1◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:04 PM EST
    A1. #UKEdChat I think schools are starting to wake up to the responsibility, but still need to take major steps to develop policies and *properly* support staff who mask symptoms of depression, anxiety and stress.
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:05 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q1 again Does your school have formal procedures to help staff help someone showing signs of depression? Policies? Dedicated member of staff? etc. ▶Please use the hashtag & A1◀
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:06 PM EST
    This is an interesting question. Does you school have systems like this in place? #ukedchat
    • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:05 PM EST
      #UKEdChat Q1 again Does your school have formal procedures to help staff help someone showing signs of depression? Policies? Dedicated member of staff? etc. ▶Please use the hashtag & A1◀
  • education_emile Jan 24 @ 3:06 PM EST
    What we need to know when trying to help students with depression is that there is no single cause for it. It is our duty to help them avoid blaming themselves. Find something that is interesting to them, get them to trust you and talk about what's bothering them. #ukedchat
  • 1BeardedTeacher Jan 24 @ 3:07 PM EST
    Released the first episode of our School news show today. Very proud of all the children in the club. They planned, filmed and edited themselves and the positive feedback is great. #journalism #teacher #ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:08 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q2 What training have you had in identifying and supporting people with depression (and wider mental health)? ▶Please use the hashtag & A2◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:09 PM EST
    A2. Am currently reading @johannhari101 ’s excellent Lost Connections book #ukedchat - which should be read by anyone affected by depression and anxiety. A true eye-opener - See https://t.co/k3EyK2cww3
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:10 PM EST
    Having read @johannhari101 ’s excellent book, I am coming to the conclusion that depression is created by messages within western culture and society. It is treated so differently in far eastern cultures #ukedchat https://t.co/k3EyK2cww3
    In reply to @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:11 PM EST
    That's interesting. What are the key differences do you think? #ukedchat
    In reply to @digicoled, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:11 PM EST
    Why are teachers anxious and depressed, for example? Well, is it any wonder with the messages received by the profession from politicians, the media, and society as a whole? #ukedchat It’s not about assumed respect, but society valuing the profession.
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:12 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q2 again What training have you had in identifying and supporting people with depression (and wider mental health)? ▶Please use the hashtag & A2◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:13 PM EST
    The pharmaceutical industry. They make pills that make them millions. #ukedchat
    In reply to @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:13 PM EST
    Seriously, read https://t.co/k3EyK2cww3 #ukedchat
    In reply to @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:13 PM EST
    Not that I know of. I think its an area to develop in schools but unfortunately many other elements get in the way. Sadly these elements are often the cause. Difficult cycle to break. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
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  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:15 PM EST
    Where there’s a will….. #ukedchat Also, what teacher is going to publicly announce that they are anxious and depressed. Still seen as a huge sign of weakness. Easier to mask and suffer :-(
    • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:13 PM EST
      Not that I know of. I think its an area to develop in schools but unfortunately many other elements get in the way. Sadly these elements are often the cause. Difficult cycle to break. #ukedchat
      In reply to @ukedchat
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  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:16 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q3 What are the signs of depression and how can staff work together to identify it? ▶Please use the hashtag & A3◀
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:17 PM EST
    Do you think that applies to the education system too? #ukedchat
    In reply to @stokoes_views, @digicoled, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:17 PM EST
    Completely #ukedchat - We’re too quick to advocate the pills, whereas many symptoms can be addressed by simple strategies. We just need to connect to the beings we are - social and nature. It’s not rocket science, but many have forgotten :-(
    In reply to @stokoes_views, @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:17 PM EST
    I was meaning as a school its hard to break the cycle, so many policies to crerate & follow its hard to focus on non-statutory elements, however valuable. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:18 PM EST
    #ukedchat
    • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:15 PM EST
      I also think Western lifestyles & attitudes are a huge problem in the causes of poor mental health
      In reply to @digicoled, @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:18 PM EST
    Fair enough #ukedchat Would argue that a policy isn’t probably necessary, but an assurance and commitment from managers, leaders and all staff to forget the power politics of schools and start caring for each other.
    In reply to @stokoes_views
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:18 PM EST
    Agree with your point mind - still carries a huge stigma. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:20 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q3 again What are the signs of depression and how can staff work together to identify it? ▶Please use the hashtag & A3◀
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:20 PM EST
    OK - let’s ask the question to everyone. Answer publicly, or just privately mull over this question: If you were suffering from anxiety or depression, would you openly admit it within your school (and to yourself)? #ukedchat
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  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:20 PM EST
    Yes, for a teacher to be willing to reveal they have mental health issues a school has to have a culture of caring #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat, @stokoes_views
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:21 PM EST
    Agreed - but in some places that means a change in culture & management style which isn't easy to achieve. The problem needs addressing at root if we are to solve it wholly. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:22 PM EST
    Indeed. The number of cases we hear of about WRS (Work Related Stress) from teachers is very worrying. Power politics, cliques, workload pressure etc. Not all schools, but certainly in a large majority #ukedchat
    In reply to @teagloUK, @stokoes_views
  • ICTmagic - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:22 PM EST
    I think that completely depends on the response that you expect to get. Only those in desperate need would admit to having depression in an environment where they know it will be stigmatised. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:23 PM EST
    Where’s the root? #ukedchat
    In reply to @stokoes_views
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:23 PM EST
    Yes, agreed. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ICTmagic, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:24 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q4 How can staff support each other to attempt to lessen/negate some depressive episodes? ▶Please use the hashtag & A4◀
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:24 PM EST
    Completely. So, cultures of caring need to be developed and stigmas challenged - from the top of school cultures, spread to everyone #ukedchat
    In reply to @ICTmagic
  • ShaunDellenty Jan 24 @ 3:24 PM EST
    Another great day working on #IsleofMan, after only 1 year of my work on #LGBT+ inclusion we are already seeing hard evidence of positive impact within the Island education community. Tonight I led a staff meeting for primary/ secondary colleagues at Ramsey Grammar. #UKEdChat
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:25 PM EST
    School leaders should work to help teachers take better care of their own well being and mental health in order to protect it rather than treat it. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat, @stokoes_views
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:25 PM EST
    A4 #ukedchat Care, take an interest to colleagues you interact with. Support, and look for clues to ensure everything is ok and they are coping.
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • MrEagletonIan Jan 24 @ 3:26 PM EST
    @ukedchat #UKEdChat This has been my experience of the topics discussed tonight, hope it's useful https://t.co/aZUvXQpAO7
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:26 PM EST
    I have a problem with the term ‘mental’ health, as I feel it is loaded. I prefer the term ‘emotional health’, as this can take some of the stigma away #ukedchat I take your point though, although what are the priorities of (some) leaders? Results! You can’t blame them :-(
    In reply to @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @stokoes_views
  • Mr_Minchin Jan 24 @ 3:26 PM EST
    A3 I have a lack of knowledge in this area but from what little I do know, what might be a sign of depression for one person won’t be for another. Like pupils, would it not be all about knowing your colleagues and cultivating genuine relationships with them? #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ICTmagic - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:26 PM EST
    One would hope so, and that colleagues within the school would see it as a priority to support and enable a teacher with depression to carry on doing what they do in the classroom. However, I suspect that some people think that this is too difficult. Alas! #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:27 PM EST
    Communicate and talk to each other. Drink tea together. Really listen. #ukedchat
    In reply to @digicoled, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:27 PM EST
    No time to go to click Ian, so I hope that you can join the #ukedchat conversation in real-time :-)
    In reply to @MrEagletonIan
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:28 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q4 again How can staff support each other to attempt to lessen/negate some depressive episodes? ▶Please use the hashtag & A4◀
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:28 PM EST
    I'd guess it lies within workload, unnecessary paperwork, pressures of targets, etc so the system & the way it is monitored & assessed could be seen as the problem - government level #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • teagloUK Jan 24 @ 3:28 PM EST
    Yes, agree that the term is loaded. If workload was having a consistent impact on physical health of teachers, would it be more of a priority? #ukedchat
    In reply to @digicoled, @ukedchat, @stokoes_views
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:28 PM EST
    You are an amazing person Blair, and your enthusiasm in the profession shines through. For colleagues, hiding symptoms becomes an art, and the changes can be very subtle. #ukedchat Relationships and connections are key :-)
    In reply to @Mr_Minchin
  • MrEagletonIan Jan 24 @ 3:29 PM EST
    A4 Taking that time at the end of the day to share a cup of tea, laugh together, share the ups and downs of the day, checking in with each other #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:30 PM EST
    Difficult when some colleague may still hold some outdated opinions of anxiety and depression #ukedchat “Oh get a grip…”, and so on. Attitudes need to be challenged
    In reply to @ICTmagic
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:30 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Don't be #judgemental!
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:31 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q5 If that is their choice, how can staff support a member of staff who wants to continue teaching through a period of depression? ▶Please use the hashtag & A5◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:31 PM EST
    This can be a clue. Those people who are always ‘too busy’ to sit down, talk and drink tea could be hiding symptoms aligned to anxiety and depression #ukedchat This is what I mean by the subtle changes in a person.
    In reply to @teagloUK, @ukedchat
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:32 PM EST
    Listen to colleagues without judging & be genuine in your offer of support #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:32 PM EST
    Completely. That’s what was eluded to earlier on. Often, with anxiety and depression, the root causes are external and manifest within a person, who feels like a failure and unable to keep up. #ukedchat Gvts pay lip service, but they could change it immediately.
    In reply to @stokoes_views
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:33 PM EST
    #UKEdChat It's not possible to continue teaching when you're in a period of depression. It really isn't. And I can speak for myself, unfortunately.
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:33 PM EST
    Depression can have a negative impact on physical health of individuals as well #ukedchat but I take your point 100%
    In reply to @teagloUK, @ukedchat, @stokoes_views
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  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q5 again If that is their choice, how can staff support a member of staff who wants to continue teaching through a period of depression? ▶Please use the hashtag & A5◀
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
    #ukedchat It all depends on the culture within the school. It’s brave to admit that you are struggling
    • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:31 PM EST
      I did and I hardly told anyone. Then I ended up being signed off with stress and leaving my job. Nowadays I’d be more open about it, I think. Hard to say, though, and everyone (and every school) is different.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
    #ukedchat
    • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:31 PM EST
      I did and I hardly told anyone. Then I ended up being signed off with stress and leaving my job. Nowadays I’d be more open about it, I think. Hard to say, though, and everyone (and every school) is different.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
    “Well it is in my world, so just go away” #ukedchat
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ICTmagic
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:36 PM EST
    #ukedchat
    • MikeW_Digilead Jan 24 @ 3:33 PM EST
      I did admit it to my managers and they were very supportive. I did not tell other staff members though as they have enough to deal with.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:36 PM EST
    #UKEdChat This is so true! 👇
    • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
      #ukedchat It all depends on the culture within the school. It’s brave to admit that you are struggling
      • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:31 PM EST
        I did and I hardly told anyone. Then I ended up being signed off with stress and leaving my job. Nowadays I’d be more open about it, I think. Hard to say, though, and everyone (and every school) is different.
        In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:36 PM EST
    #ukedchat
    • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
      A4 Just be nice to each other! Some teachers are real bullies (perhaps without realising it) and I think we just need to stop before we make comments to colleagues and reflect on whether the comment will be hurtful or helpful.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:37 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q6 How can we support teachers who choose to leave the school temporarily because of depression? ▶Please use the hashtag & A6◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:37 PM EST
    It is (speaking from experience), but something will break at some point #ukedchat You cannot operate at normal capacity, I’ll agree with you there :-)
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:38 PM EST
    What would have happened if you did (tell other staff members) do you think? #ukedchat
    In reply to @MikeW_Digilead
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:38 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Tell them that you're there for them, if they want a good conversation, or just a short chat with a cup of coffee, in the comfort of their own home. And if they want to be alone, don't bother them with your questions.
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:39 PM EST
    Yes 100% agree with this, Kate. #ukedchat
    • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:35 PM EST
      A4 Just be nice to each other! Some teachers are real bullies (perhaps without realising it) and I think we just need to stop before we make comments to colleagues and reflect on whether the comment will be hurtful or helpful.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:40 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q6 again How can we support teachers who choose to leave the school temporarily because of depression? ▶Please use the hashtag & A6◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:40 PM EST
    A private message (note, or text message) showing that you care and are there to support them can go a LONG way in making someone feel good about themselves #ukedchat
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:41 PM EST
    #ukedchat
    • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:40 PM EST
      A3 - it varies so much from one person to the next and one episode to the next. Could be withdrawal from those around you, being quieter than usual, lack of confidence, but then sometimes over-compensating by being the loud funny one, going out all the time, attention-seeking.
      In reply to @ukedchat
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  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:42 PM EST
    However, it’s got to be genuine, carefully worded and heart-felt #ukedchat
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:42 PM EST
    Don't forget the #UKEdChat hashtag 😊
    • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:40 PM EST
      A3 - it varies so much from one person to the next and one episode to the next. Could be withdrawal from those around you, being quieter than usual, lack of confidence, but then sometimes over-compensating by being the loud funny one, going out all the time, attention-seeking.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:42 PM EST
    Don't forget the #UKEdChat hashtag 😊
    • pamelakrb Jan 24 @ 3:42 PM EST
      I did on a ‘need to know’ basis, after being signed off with anxiety because everything was too much. I am much more open about discussing it now but still feel worried about looking like “I can’t cope” when I’m having a bad day.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:43 PM EST
    So you are afraid that the stigma will linger? #ukedchat Hope everything is manageable now :-)
    • pamelakrb Jan 24 @ 3:42 PM EST
      I did on a ‘need to know’ basis, after being signed off with anxiety because everything was too much. I am much more open about discussing it now but still feel worried about looking like “I can’t cope” when I’m having a bad day.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:43 PM EST
    Me too #ukedchat
    In reply to @katelanguages
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:44 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q7 How is support for depression in pupils different to supporting staff members? ▶Please use the hashtag & A7◀
  • pamelakrb Jan 24 @ 3:44 PM EST
    “Oh it must be hard with all those holidays” - lots of people when you tell them about the mental health implications of teaching. #ukedchat
    • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:11 PM EST
      Why are teachers anxious and depressed, for example? Well, is it any wonder with the messages received by the profession from politicians, the media, and society as a whole? #ukedchat It’s not about assumed respect, but society valuing the profession.
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:45 PM EST
    #UKEdChat I don't think it's easy to lose the #stigma. This may be different in every school, of course.
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:45 PM EST
    Fascinating A7 #ukedchat As teachers, we are more inclined to recognise, support and react to our students struggling with their emotional health. We’ll go that extra step for them, where possible. Not necessarily for our colleagues #ukedchat What’s that all about?
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • MrWickensPE Jan 24 @ 3:45 PM EST
  • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:45 PM EST
    I’m so passionate about it that I’ve created a teacher planner that incorporates elements of wellbeing like gratitude and self-care, and am donating 50p from each one to @EdSupportUK They do an amazing job ☺️ #ukedchat (I remembered the # this time 😂😂)
    In reply to @ukedchat, @EdSupportUK
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:45 PM EST
    AAAARRRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHHH #ukedchat
    In reply to @pamelakrb
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:46 PM EST
    And across different cultures, communities and groups #ukedchat
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:46 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Staff members are adults, and as an adult, you're supposed to be able to "cope with the problem". Teenagers need help, because they're younger. "They can't solve this on their own."
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:47 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q7 again How is support for depression in pupils different to supporting staff members? ▶Please use the hashtag & A7◀
  • katelanguages Jan 24 @ 3:47 PM EST
    A6 #ukedchat don’t email them or contact them expecting them to reply to work-related things. There is literally nothing that will exacerbate anxiety/depression more than pressure from colleagues when you’re off sick! (Speaking from experience)
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:48 PM EST
    So, as adults, we are supposed to have acquired the resilience of strong emotional tools to help us cope with everything life throws at us #ukedchat If only it was that simple. Our students are seen as vulnerable, so we want to support them.
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:48 PM EST
    #ukedchat
    • pamelakrb Jan 24 @ 3:46 PM EST
      Not a stigma but misunderstanding. I think there is an idea that when you say you have anxiety/are depressed, some think this just means you are “very stressed”. It’s not the case at all and if it were physical, would not be reduced this easily.
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:49 PM EST
    #UKEdChat True.
    In reply to @digicoled, @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:49 PM EST
    It’s very difficult #ukedchat We can be very sensitive to what other people *may* think.
    In reply to @pamelakrb
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:51 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q8 What advice what you give to teachers who are supporting someone with depression? ▶Please use the hashtag & A8◀
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:51 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Not only what other people think, but maybe also comparing ourselves with others. For example, that's something I have to work on. 😆
    In reply to @ukedchat, @pamelakrb
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:52 PM EST
    #UKEdChat This may sound a bit harsh, and I apologize beforehand: "Don't let yourself be carried away in his/her story."
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:52 PM EST
    Forgive me, but I would strongly recommend to anyone who is touched by anxiety and depression (either themselves, or someone they know) to read @johannhari101 ’s Connections book (see https://t.co/k3EyK2cww3 ) #ukedchat It really helps to get a sense of why people suffer.
    In reply to @ukedchat, @johannhari101
  • pamelakrb Jan 24 @ 3:52 PM EST
    #UKEdChat I totally agree, it always surprises me how we can be so accommodating to pupils and aware of the pressure we place of them but, we neglect the same care when it comes to our own wellbeing!
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:53 PM EST
    And, more importantly, what we can do for ourselves, and others to lessen the pain of anxiety and depression #ukedchat (2/2) Again, see https://t.co/k3EyK2cww3
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:53 PM EST
    #UKEdChat By this I mean: Don't lose your own strength. Stay strong. 👇
    • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:52 PM EST
      #UKEdChat This may sound a bit harsh, and I apologize beforehand: "Don't let yourself be carried away in his/her story."
      In reply to @ukedchat
  • keran77 Jan 24 @ 3:54 PM EST
    A2 We have had training about general well-being and signs to look out for and what to do if we are concerned about someone. The duty of care is not only for the children but also staff. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:54 PM EST
    Also agree. I have taken the mantra of controlling what I can control. Not worrying about what other people think, as I have little influence on that apart from being nice, positive to them, and doing my best. If they have a problem with that, then that’s their problem #ukedchat
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat, @pamelakrb
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:55 PM EST
    #UKEdChat Q8 again What advice what you give to teachers who are supporting someone with depression? ▶Please use the hashtag & A8◀
  • digicoled Jan 24 @ 3:55 PM EST
    Indeed. It’s a bit like social media. We will always share the positives. Whereas we want to hide and mask the negatives #ukedchat
    In reply to @HendrikxHans, @ukedchat
  • stokoes_views Jan 24 @ 3:55 PM EST
    As a support there are different demands & it is tough, don't be isolated, theres loads of resources/help to tap into. Use it. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • keran77 Jan 24 @ 3:56 PM EST
    A3 Like others have said, the signs of depression can vary but often a major sign is people around the person may notice a change. I think you would need training to identify it properly. #UKEdChat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • HendrikxHans Jan 24 @ 3:56 PM EST
    #UKEdChat And when we see negativity appear on Facebook, for example, we simply scroll down or click it away.
    In reply to @digicoled, @ukedchat
  • keran77 Jan 24 @ 3:57 PM EST
    If I was suffering from anxiety or depression, I wouldn't want everyone to know. I would probably tell only one or two people I trust completely. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
  • ukedchat - Moderator Jan 24 @ 3:57 PM EST
    May I ask…..why? #ukedchat
    In reply to @keran77
  • keran77 Jan 24 @ 3:58 PM EST
    A4 Share how things are going. Sometimes it can help to admit you are struggling with something and you realise others are too. That might ease the feeling of being all alone, isolated. #ukedchat
    In reply to @ukedchat
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