#resiliencechat Archive

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST

Welcome to #resiliencechat. Who is joining us tonight?

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST

Hey #resiliencechat Anyone ta home?

participatechat Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST

YES!! We're here!!!! Good to see you as always, Debbie. Sorry about last week. #resiliencechat

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SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST

I'm here for a while tonight...Scott from central Indiana...#resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST

Welcome to #resiliencechat. Who is joining us tonight?

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST

Hi Scott! Glad to have you here at #resiliencechat!!

In reply to @SchulzScottA

naghma_khn Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST

Hello from india :) #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST

LOVE THAT YOU ARE HERE FROM INDIA, Naghma! #resiliencechat

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MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST

Good to see you, too, Sara. I was beginning to think I had stumbled into a #resiliencechat black hole.

In reply to @saratruebridge

PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST

Hello #resiliencechat! I'm Peyton tuning in from my home & not my dorm this week :) Excited for the chat!

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST

No way! I only hope that my tweets are showing up these days. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST

Hi Peyton! Always good to have you here at #resiliencechat. Are you on Spring Break?

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MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST

I see you. #resiliencechat

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PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST

Yes! I have an early spring break, but I can't complain...it's a break! #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST

YAY! I didn't do my million invites. Maybe this makes a difference. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MacyMHall Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST

Hello! I'm a special education major from PA #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST

Welcome, Macy!!! So glad to have you join #resiliencechat

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MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST

That's it. Make us come to you. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST

Tonight's #resiliencechat topic: Creating Caring Relationships

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST

#Resiliencechat Tidbit: Caring relationships buffer risks, nurture resilience and improve learning outcomes.

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST

Hi, #ResilienceChat! Greetings from southern Virginia. 😀

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST

YAY Bill's in the house! #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST

Let's get #resiliencechat rolling with Q1....

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST

Q1: How do you think a student would answer this question: "I know my teacher cares about me when_______?" #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:07 PM EST

A1 they listen to me, really listen. #resiliencechat

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:07 PM EST

A1...s/he understands why I am the way I am. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST

Q1: How do you think a student would answer this question: "I know my teacher cares about me when_______?" #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST

A1 What I would have liked would have been having a first grade teacher who didn't put me in the awkward position mine did. #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST

A1. They call me out when I am underperforming #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST

What happened? #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MacyMHall Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST

A1 She/he recognizes when I'm struggling and offers to help #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST

YES! That is having high expectations--one of the 3 protective factors. #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST

A1 I probably talked abt how my first grade teacher had me sit at her desk and answer questions whenever she left the room. #resiliencechat

PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST

A1 "I know my teacher cares about me when..." they make an effort to get to know me on a personal level #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST

Q1: How do you think a student would answer this question: "I know my teacher cares about me when_______?" #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST

BTW--Hi, Brian! #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST

A1 Recognizes that I am struggling & helps me through whatever challenge I am facing #resiliencechat

naghma_khn Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST

A1. when they make me feel fine about 'ME'. Being there #resiliencechat

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AssignmentHelpN Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST

I have heard Ss say they know Ts care when they say their names--and pronounced correctly! #resiliencechat

In reply to @PeytonWydickRU

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST

A1 A number of the other kids resented me, and it was a really huge responsibility for a seven year-old. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST

Why did they resent you? #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST

Teacher's pet. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:12 PM EST

Yes yes yes! It's always so nice to have Ts call me by my first name-it shows that I am not just another S #resiliencechat

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saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:12 PM EST

Ahhh...I see... #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:13 PM EST

So many Ss are called things other than their given names. I hear this all the time from Ss #resiliencechat

In reply to @PeytonWydickRU

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST

A1 Another thing 1st gr teacher did was watch me clumsily fold a piece of paper in half & say, "7 & still can't fold paper." #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST

Q2: What do you specifically do to foster caring relationships with your students? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST

So sad! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

massignmenthelp Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST

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bivey Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST

It's compounded when teachers dismiss the importance when the mispronunciation is noted. #ResilienceChat

In reply to @saratruebridge, @PeytonWydickRU

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST

A1 I never let on that I heard her. But I remember thinking how wrong it was. #resiliencechat

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST

A2: Let the students talk and truly listen to them. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST

Q2: What do you specifically do to foster caring relationships with your students? #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST

There can also be a component of racism in some cases, obviously worse yet. #ResilienceChat

In reply to @saratruebridge, @PeytonWydickRU

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST

For sure! #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey, @PeytonWydickRU

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST

I was already being teased and bullied. And just like my kindergarten teacher, completely oblivious. #resiliencechat

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naghma_khn Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST

A 2. Invest my time in knowing them. Listen to their stories and try to be a genuine part of it. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST

...and Ss are so aware of BS and when a teacher isn't authentic. #resiliencechat

In reply to @SchulzScottA

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST

A2: get to know their outside the bells 🔔 interests. They don't care what you know til they know you care #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST

A2 I'm guessing most of us do what we said students would say in Q1! #ResilienceChat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST

Yes...and everyone has a story! #resiliencechat

In reply to @naghma_khn

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST

A1 That same teacher complained about how the attack on Pearl Harbor happened on her birthday. #resiliencechat

MacyMHall Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST

I love that phrase. I can definitely see that first hand when I do my observations. #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST

A2 Always have an "open door" policy, listen intently, offer help in any way, never tell them you can't help #resiliencechat

naghma_khn Mar 6 @ 10:18 PM EST

The time when a student starts feeling like a 'nobody'. Quite a blow to self-esteem #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah, @saratruebridge

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST

That wasn't a blow so much as it showed me how little she cared about anyone but herself. #resiliencechat

In reply to @naghma_khn, @saratruebridge

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:21 PM EST

That remark could have damaged my psyche, but, oddly enough I remember more feeling annoyed. #resiliencechat

In reply to @naghma_khn, @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:21 PM EST

Love this quote about stories: #resiliencechat

In reply to @naghma_khn

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST

Q3: Should a tchr ever share info. abt. his/her private life w/students? If yes, why? If not, why not? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST

I was a pretty perceptive kid. And I realized that she was simply unaware. #resiliencechat

In reply to @naghma_khn, @saratruebridge

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:23 PM EST

A3 It depends on what details and in what context. #resiliencechat

MacyMHall Mar 6 @ 10:23 PM EST

A3 Sharing some info is important to remind Ss that Ts are human, but too much info is not beneficial. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:23 PM EST

Can you provide some examples? #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:23 PM EST

A3 To a certain extent. If it helps them in some way/connects w then yes. If you're doing it just to talk, no. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST

Q3: Should a tchr ever share info. abt. his/her private life w/students? If yes, why? If not, why not? #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:24 PM EST

A3: I regularly use true life situations to teach economic concepts to my students, real situations involving my family #resiliencechat

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST

A3: There is a time and a place for everything. Teachers must know boundaries. Too much personal info can turn Ss off. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST

Q3: Should a tchr ever share info. abt. his/her private life w/students? If yes, why? If not, why not? #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST

A3 Depends on overall circumstances and context. Complaining about Pearl Harbor being bombed on your birthday, probably not. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST

Good points.I knew a T at a school tell 3rd graders he was on meds for certain emotional conditions-not good #resiliencechat

In reply to @PeytonWydickRU

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST

A3 I might share details that relate to a topic to add a perspective, but quickly recenter conversation on kids. #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST

A3 Relating meaningful experiences might be appropriate. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST

Yup! That is what I often do too. #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST

A3: However, teachers who share absolutely nothing may appear cold and uncaring. #resiliencechat

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
A3: There is a time and a place for everything. Teachers must know boundaries. Too much personal info can turn Ss off. #resiliencechat
- saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST
  
  Q3: Should a tchr ever share info. abt. his/her private life w/students? If yes, why? If not, why not? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST

Yes, I agree. I think it is a delicate balance. #resiliencechat

In reply to @SchulzScottA

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST

A3 #resiliencechat yes bc sometimes its those little details we share that are our connectables (new word! Mine!)

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST

A3: agree that sharing has hard boundaries and friending on social media is a non starter in my mind #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST

Hi Marcia! I definitely agree with you--and I like your new word! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MarciaDressel

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST

Oh thats true @peytonpclark @PeytonWydickRU . Gotta check intentions #resiliencechat

In reply to @PeytonWydickRU, @peytonpclark, @PeytonWydickRU

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST

A3 I also don't their knowing I'm married, have a son in NYC and a cat Princess. But I don't get way personal about it. #ResilienceChat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST

#Resiliencechat Hey all, sorry for my tardiness, busy busy time a work! Rob here from Northern Cal.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST

Speaking of what to share and what not to share...#resiliencechat Q4 on its way...

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST

YIPPEE!! Rob is here!!! #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

naghma_khn Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST

A3. imp 2 indlge in self disclsure. esp shre your stggles, failres. Ss cnnct bttr wn thy see u as a real ind #resiliencechat

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PeytonWydickRU Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST

The power is beginning to blink thanks to the storms rolling in. I'm signing off for the night #resiliencechat. Happy Monday!

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST

Here's tonight's Q# #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST

Q3: Should a tchr ever share info. abt. his/her private life w/students? If yes, why? If not, why not? #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST

Ewww. Agree. My school doesn't let us friend students anyway, which keeps it simple. #ResilienceChat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:30 PM EST

Night, Peyton. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts w/#resiliencechat. See you next week!

In reply to @PeytonWydickRU

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:30 PM EST

A3 #Resiliencechat I think when teachers reflect, and choose to share certain aspects they can connect in real life with kids.

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:30 PM EST

I think my tweets are coming through--yay! Didn't send a million invites this week--that may be the ticket. #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:31 PM EST

Q4: What type of activities or information should a teacher refrain from sharing w/students? #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:31 PM EST

A3 #Resiliencechat Sometimes the examples of our lives can build/add to the resources that a student is developing. It all matters!

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:32 PM EST

Yep! I can see you on the #resiliencechat thread!

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:30 PM EST

I think my tweets are coming through--yay! Didn't send a million invites this week--that may be the ticket. #resiliencechat
In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:32 PM EST

Checking in...is everyone seeing my tweets? #resiliencechat

MacyMHall Mar 6 @ 10:32 PM EST

Q4 Salaries should never be discussed with Ss. I had a T in high school who told us how much he makes. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:32 PM EST

Important consideration here! Q4 #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:31 PM EST

Q4: What type of activities or information should a teacher refrain from sharing w/students? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:33 PM EST

I agree with that remaining private info. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MacyMHall

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:33 PM EST

A4: have you ever❓ questions from students are quicksand stay away #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:33 PM EST

A4 Anything that places the kid in the position of confidant or counselor is way out of bounds. #ResilienceChat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:33 PM EST

Yup! #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:33 PM EST

Agreed! #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:34 PM EST

A4 #resiliencechat depending on sge of students I'm not sure sharing big life decisions (w groups) mayB w struggling indv?

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:34 PM EST

A4 #Resiliencechat It's important that teachers refrain from looking for validation from students. Its not about them/ its about students.

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:34 PM EST

A4 Things that are very personal and private. #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:34 PM EST

A4 Things that are petty. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:34 PM EST

You have a good point. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MarciaDressel

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:35 PM EST

Well said, Rob! #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:35 PM EST

Big Mistakes #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:35 PM EST

A4: Ts should keep personal employment matters out of student earshot. This should be left for teacher/admin conversation. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:31 PM EST

Q4: What type of activities or information should a teacher refrain from sharing w/students? #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:35 PM EST

Salary grids are matter of public record in Alberta, Is that rare ? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:36 PM EST

Next #resiliencechat question gets specific. I am going to ask for examples of what to say...

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:36 PM EST

A4 Sometimes I share my ethnic/religious background, but it has to be in context. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:36 PM EST

Yes. Here they are private. #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:36 PM EST

I agree. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MarciaDressel

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:37 PM EST

Q5: Sometimes students can ask questions that are too personal to answer. How could you respond?What would you say? #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:38 PM EST

Tonight's #resiliencechat Q5

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:37 PM EST

Q5: Sometimes students can ask questions that are too personal to answer. How could you respond?What would you say? #resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:39 PM EST

A5: I respect that some things are your personal business, I need you to do the same #resiliencechat

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:39 PM EST

A5 #resiliencechat I've had that exp with co-workers and was happy to have recently heard the response "Im choosing not to share that"

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:39 PM EST

A5: "I respect and understand your curiosity, but please respect my privacy in this matter." #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:37 PM EST

Q5: Sometimes students can ask questions that are too personal to answer. How could you respond?What would you say? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:39 PM EST

Great examples of responses!! #resiliencechat

BrilldeRamirez Mar 6 @ 10:40 PM EST

Belated arrival at #resiliencechat Prof Susan in IL dropping in for last 20 minutes. Will read thru to catch up.

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:40 PM EST

A5 #resiliencechat or "I've decided to keep that private. " it's very empowering

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:40 PM EST

Great to see you, Susan!!! #resiliencechat

In reply to @BrilldeRamirez

MrBartmas Mar 6 @ 10:40 PM EST

A5 that is too personal. #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:40 PM EST

Hey, Mark! Good to have you join in #resiliencechat

In reply to @MrBartmas

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:42 PM EST

We've been talking mostly about relationships w/Ss--how about parents? Here's #resiliencechat Q6...

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:42 PM EST

A5 Depends on the kid. One example would be "I'm not upset you asked that question but I'm not going to answer it. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:42 PM EST

Q6: What type of boundaries, if any, do you have with your students' parents? Would you/do you socialize with them? #resiliencechat

EduGladiators Mar 6 @ 10:43 PM EST

💡This week, #EduGladiators series "4Cs of Success" continues with CRITICAL THINKING! #resiliencechat #BetterTogetherCA #EdPiper #IEedchat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:43 PM EST

Here is tonight's Q6 #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:42 PM EST

Q6: What type of boundaries, if any, do you have with your students' parents? Would you/do you socialize with them? #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:43 PM EST

A5 Another possibility is, "Just as I respect students' right to keep things private, I'm going to ask you to respect..." #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:44 PM EST

It also is providing a role model for them for when they want to respond to someone and want to remain private. #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:44 PM EST

A6 I would like to think that one of Kid Q's teachers would be friends with me now that she's no longer her student. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:44 PM EST

YES!!!! #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:45 PM EST

A6 I rarely "socialize" with anyone, to be honest, but keep similar boundaries with parents as with kids. #resiliencechat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:45 PM EST

A6 #Resiliencechat Hard to escape that in our roles: teacher, admin, etc. there are societal limits that must be considered prior to sharing

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:45 PM EST

I've had boundaries w/parents while I had their kids but became friends after kids moved on to another class. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:45 PM EST

A6: I have been in my school long enough that many of my parents are former students so socializing would be awkward #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:45 PM EST

A6 It was important to me that Kid Q's middle school homeroom teacher was my mentor. #resiliencechat

BrilldeRamirez Mar 6 @ 10:46 PM EST

A4 Never share anything negative about the school or its people ... unless it's relevant & a common issue that's well known. #resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:46 PM EST

I think that's entirely appropriate. I would have done the same thing. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:46 PM EST

A6: Stay friendly and professional with parents...wait until after graduation to be social.... #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:42 PM EST

Q6: What type of boundaries, if any, do you have with your students' parents? Would you/do you socialize with them? #resiliencechat

MrBartmas Mar 6 @ 10:46 PM EST

Q6 some of same age and children in school together. Tend to keep prof/priv. separate #Resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:46 PM EST

That must actually be fun to have parents who have been former students! #resiliencechat

In reply to @Bhsteeler

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:46 PM EST

A6 The one exception might be discussing parenthood (while being careful what I say & never becoming remotely judgmental). #resiliencechat

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:47 PM EST

I actually find that talking about life online fosters these convos. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:44 PM EST

It also is providing a role model for them for when they want to respond to someone and want to remain private. #resiliencechat
In reply to @bivey

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:47 PM EST

Absolutely! #resiliencechat

In reply to @BrilldeRamirez

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:48 PM EST

There are so many things that never get covered in teacher ed. programs. So #resiliencechat Q7 asks...

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:49 PM EST

A6 When Kid O's wonderful Ms. AK retired, I thought we would be friends, but she died two months after she stopped teaching. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:49 PM EST

Q7: Does your school/staff/district dedicate time to talk about the power of relationships? How?#resiliencechat

BrilldeRamirez Mar 6 @ 10:49 PM EST

A6 It is extremely valuable for teachers, profs, admins to be involved in the community volunteering, on boards, active. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:49 PM EST

So sorry to hear that. That must have been hard on everyone! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

EduGladiators Mar 6 @ 10:50 PM EST

Catch the #EduGladiators podcast REPLAY w/@maverikcrq ⏯ https://t.co/bX2CBRgllZ #resiliencechat #BetterTogetherCA #EdPiper #IEedchat

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:50 PM EST

#Resiliencechat Q7 for 3/06/17

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:49 PM EST

Q7: Does your school/staff/district dedicate time to talk about the power of relationships? How?#resiliencechat

MrBartmas Mar 6 @ 10:50 PM EST

A6b I have digital friends that I would socialize with...kinda do on chats?#Resiliencechat

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:50 PM EST

It was very hard. I took Kid O to the wake. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:51 PM EST

I imagine a number of former parents and Ss showed up. #resiliencechat

In reply to @MissShuganah

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:51 PM EST

Agree. The community needs to see us invested in a variety of ways. We owe it to profession to be ldrs in other arenas #resiliencechat

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MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:51 PM EST

Afterwards I had to talk therapy staff into erasing Ms. AK's voice from her buttons.She wouldn't press them. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

MrBartmas Mar 6 @ 10:51 PM EST

A7 focus on conversation and building sense of family. #Resiliencechat

Bhsteeler Mar 6 @ 10:52 PM EST

A7: a former dep superintendent said the three keys 🔑 relationships, relationships, relationships so it is an embedded idea #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:52 PM EST

A7 We do. Not so much a day or an agenda item, but ongoing attention and care shown in discussions. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:52 PM EST

This is such a good point! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MarciaDressel, @BrilldeRamirez

BrilldeRamirez Mar 6 @ 10:52 PM EST

Great questions. Thank you to moderators & all. Signing off since weather picking up. Tornado watch until 4 am ... sigh. #resiliencechat

MarciaDressel Mar 6 @ 10:52 PM EST

A7 #resiliencechat our district brought in 2 gr8 spkrs on the topic @dave_weber

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MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:53 PM EST

Ms. AK was also planning a huge conference for Special Ed. Never happened. #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:53 PM EST

Really great to have you join in tonight! Take care. Be safe! #resiliencechat

In reply to @BrilldeRamirez

MrSmall215 Mar 6 @ 10:53 PM EST

A7: My school does RJ. It's a daily conversation. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:49 PM EST

Q7: Does your school/staff/district dedicate time to talk about the power of relationships? How?#resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:53 PM EST

Great! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MarciaDressel, @dave_weber

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:53 PM EST

This may be cliche', but here it goes..."Kids don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:54 PM EST

RJ? #resiliencechat

In reply to @MrSmall215

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:54 PM EST

Some did. Mostly teachers and principal, assistant principal and her family. #resiliencechat

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bivey Mar 6 @ 10:54 PM EST

I'm so sorry to hear that. #ResilienceChat

In reply to @MissShuganah

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:54 PM EST

May be a cliche--but a really good one! #resiliencechat

In reply to @SchulzScottA

ResiliencyGuy - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:54 PM EST

A7 #Resiliencechat Well, yes, and your's truly has been making the rounds across CA discussing this very thing to my #ACSA @ACSA_info folks!

In reply to @ACSA_info

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:55 PM EST

That's "our guy"-- @ResiliencyGuy!!! #resiliencechat

In reply to @ResiliencyGuy, @ACSA_info, @ResiliencyGuy

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:55 PM EST

You all would have loved Ms. AK. Half Irish. Half Italian. Married to a Palestinian Muslim. #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:55 PM EST

Hi, Victor! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MrSmall215

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:55 PM EST

And she just loved those kids. Big heart. Advocate. #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:56 PM EST

And our final #resiliencechat question...

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:56 PM EST

Q8: What are you going to do tomorrow as a result of #resiliencechat tonight?

MrSmall215 Mar 6 @ 10:56 PM EST

Restorative Justice! *Opera singer singing voice* 😅 #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:54 PM EST

RJ? #resiliencechat
In reply to @MrSmall215

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:56 PM EST

She was my oasis. Her loss was devastating. #resiliencechat

In reply to @bivey

MrSmall215 Mar 6 @ 10:57 PM EST

Hello Sara, how are you? #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:55 PM EST

Hi, Victor! #resiliencechat
In reply to @MrSmall215

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:57 PM EST

LOVE restorative justice--all schools should adopt that. Love the opera voice! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MrSmall215

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:57 PM EST

A8: Building relationships is a continuous cycle. If you let them lapse, you have to start over again. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:56 PM EST

Q8: What are you going to do tomorrow as a result of #resiliencechat tonight?

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:57 PM EST

All good! Thanks for asking! #resiliencechat

In reply to @MrSmall215

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:58 PM EST

A8 We're on spring break, so... continuing to reflect is the best I can do. #resiliencechat

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:58 PM EST

As always, love the #resiliencechat crew! Spread the word about us--we love newcomers and welcome all!!

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:58 PM EST

Thank you to everyone for such insightful contributions to #resiliencechat

bivey Mar 6 @ 10:59 PM EST

My deepest condolences. #ResilienceChat

In reply to @MissShuganah

SchulzScottA Mar 6 @ 10:59 PM EST

Thank you for hosting #resiliencechat! Central Indiana signing off....

In reply to @saratruebridge

MissShuganah Mar 6 @ 10:59 PM EST

A8 Keep on trucking. Or marching, as the case may be. #resiliencechat

MrSmall215 Mar 6 @ 10:59 PM EST

@saratruebridge Thank you! It's nice to know these twitter singing lessons are paying off... J/k 😂😂😂 #resiliencechat

In reply to @saratruebridge

saratruebridge - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:57 PM EST

LOVE restorative justice--all schools should adopt that. Love the opera voice! #resiliencechat
In reply to @MrSmall215