#SafeSchoolsChat Archive
#SafeSchoolsChat is a weekly chat moderated by @teresagross625 and @daviswelcome to increase safety awareness in schools. Every Sunday at 3:00 PM Eastern.
Sunday June 26, 2016
3:00 PM EDT
DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
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! Please check in with the group!
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:00 PM EDT
Joining
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from Maryland.
DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:01 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Hey there, Jim!
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:01 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
Hi, Eric. How's things at your end?
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vsbradle
Jun 26 @ 3:01 PM EDT
Victoria from TX
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:02 PM EDT
Excited for this chat today!
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:02 PM EDT
Paul from NJ here. Dean of Behavioral Management/Special Education teacher.
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Duckie043
Jun 26 @ 3:02 PM EDT
Joanne from Madagascar
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:02 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
Doing well, my friend! Thank you!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:02 PM EDT
@vsbradle
Hey there, Victoria!
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:03 PM EDT
Great book focused on bullying. Check out Khalil's Way.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:03 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
Welcome, Kristi!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:03 PM EDT
@Duckie043
Welcome, Joanne!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:04 PM EDT
@uchangenow
Welcome, David!
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WayneCamo
Jun 26 @ 3:04 PM EDT
Good afternoon, Wayne from Jamaica.
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:04 PM EDT
Hello! This is Natalie from Montana.
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larkscience
Jun 26 @ 3:04 PM EDT
Here in gorgeous Vancouver, WA
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:04 PM EDT
@WayneCamo
Welcome, Wayne!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:05 PM EDT
@nataliebmiller
Hey there, Natalie!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:06 PM EDT
@larkscience
Welcome, Erin!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:06 PM EDT
Question 1 coming up ....
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:07 PM EDT
Q1: What are some effective ways to address bullying in your classroom?
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:08 PM EDT
Hello
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- Phiona, HS teacher in Peel (Ontario)
nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:09 PM EDT
A1: High student engagement & active supervision are great ways to prevent bullying. Respectful relationships stop it!
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:09 PM EDT
A1 Don't treat bullying as if it doesn't happen. Be honest about problem and actions being taken to stop it.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:10 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Hey there, Phiona!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:10 PM EDT
Absolutely!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:09 PM EDT
A1: High student engagement & active supervision are great ways to prevent bullying. Respectful relationships stop it!
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Duckie043
Jun 26 @ 3:10 PM EDT
@JKatzaman
I echo. Directly. Don't ignore it.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:10 PM EDT
Yes!
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:09 PM EDT
A1 Don't treat bullying as if it doesn't happen. Be honest about problem and actions being taken to stop it.
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:10 PM EDT
A1: Bullying takes on various forms. It must be addressed at beginning of the year, by setting specific boundaries.
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VinceSkolny
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
Start by defining it. Bullying is a buzzword political buzzword now.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:07 PM EDT
Q1: What are some effective ways to address bullying in your classroom?
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
A1: one way to address bullying is by being proactive about developing a positive, school wide approach to inclusivity
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
Great point, Vince!
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VinceSkolny
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
Start by defining it. Bullying is a buzzword political buzzword now.
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https://t.co/hwZuANZeU7
DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:07 PM EDT
Q1: What are some effective ways to address bullying in your classroom?
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
I agree! Setting specific boundaries and expectations are essential for prevention.
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
A1: I've seen the power of restorative circles and they can be effective with addressing bullying
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VinceSkolny
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
Thank you, Eric.
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
A1: Address behavior immediately, provide on-going support to all parties. Also use of restorative justice principles.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
Amen!
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
A1: Firm classroom management. Knowing your students.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
@PLloydHenry
Yesss!
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
A1: Bullying must be addresses openly and specifically. Focusing on student-to-student relationships are vital.
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edu_taraw
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
Hi! Tara Woodard from North Carolina
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:12 PM EDT
@VinceSkolny
True! The definition has to be clear for our communities. Seek first to understand and then be understood. :)
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:13 PM EDT
This is awesome, Rinard!
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:11 PM EDT
A1: I've seen the power of restorative circles and they can be effective with addressing bullying
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:13 PM EDT
@PughP13
That's what I'm talking about! Nice to hear the power is being seen elsewhere.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:13 PM EDT
@uchangenow
Relationships are key!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:13 PM EDT
@PaulONeill1972
Yes!
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vsbradle
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
A1 I take the child aside and explain how to act in an acceptable manner.
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VinceSkolny
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
@nataliebmiller
Yeppers. Clear **and objective** lest it cannot be sanctioned justly.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
You got it!
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WayneCamo
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
A1: Role playing,as well as fostering a classroom environment in which students can speak freely and boldly are useful.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
@edu_taraw
Welcome, Tara!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
@uchangenow
This is so important to establish right aways. Effective management and meaningful relationships!
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
Question 2 coming up ...
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
A1: Getting to one one another in the classroom by using an "All about Me" format brings the human element to the class.
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
A1: Having a strong connection with the parents is critically important. Families can help impact school violence.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
Fantastic!!!
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
A1: Getting to one one another in the classroom by using an "All about Me" format brings the human element to the class.
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VinceSkolny
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
Do this and we can then have conversations about why bullying is objectively wrong, not just "mean"
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VinceSkolny
Jun 26 @ 3:14 PM EDT
@nataliebmiller
Yeppers. Clear **and objective** lest it cannot be sanctioned justly.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
Q2: What are some effective ways to communicate student discipline concerns to parents?
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KHallatWestHigh
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
Kim Hall joining you from East Tennessee!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
These relationships truly help us understand each other!
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:15 PM EDT
A1: Having a strong connection with the parents is critically important. Families can help impact school violence.
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
A1 allowing ss to set rules as well
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
A1:all stakeholders need to be committed to the creation/adoption of a common language &means of demonstrating care/respect
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
@KHallatWestHigh
Welcome, Kim!
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:17 PM EDT
A2 constant communication whenever necessary
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RobynCharb
Jun 26 @ 3:17 PM EDT
I'm Robyn from Ontario A1: bullying can be addressed thru drama activities, role-play, sharing circles, writing activities
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:17 PM EDT
@kelisa_l2teach
Absolutely!
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2 I also let ss know I will contact and have texted in class in front of the ss
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2: Open with positive calls early to establish lines of communication. Work WITH parents to assist child development.
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2 Broad info about bullying problem can be addressed in general letters. Convey explicit info in person.
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2: Build relationships early & communicate the good often. Talk to parents f2f or on the phone about challenging behavior.
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2: Be honest & open. Hold parent meeting (preferably w/ food 😃). Speak about behaviors. Give parents a voice. 2-way comm
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2: Taking the time for positive interactions with parents makes it easier when then dealing with the negative.
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:19 PM EDT
Kelisa from Georgia
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:19 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
Welcome, Robyn!
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:19 PM EDT
@PughP13
early communication is the key
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:19 PM EDT
Love this! So important!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2: Build relationships early & communicate the good often. Talk to parents f2f or on the phone about challenging behavior.
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
@PughP13
Food always helps! :)
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
Yessss!
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:18 PM EDT
A2: Be honest & open. Hold parent meeting (preferably w/ food 😃). Speak about behaviors. Give parents a voice. 2-way comm
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
A2: Building ongoing relationships with parents is non-negotiable. Can't wait until problems begin w/ students.
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
A2: I enjoy inviting the parents to the classroom so they can be active participants in the day to day.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
Awesome!
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Duckie043
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
Early communication and keeping it consistent.
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
I love this as a non-negotiable!
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
A2: Building ongoing relationships with parents is non-negotiable. Can't wait until problems begin w/ students.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:20 PM EDT
@uchangenow
Amen!
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:21 PM EDT
A2:By the means most conducive to clear, 2way communication that finds common ground&builds bridges
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:16 PM EDT
Q2: What are some effective ways to communicate student discipline concerns to parents?
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KHallatWestHigh
Jun 26 @ 3:21 PM EDT
A2: Establish positive relationships w/parents early on. They know we're there for their kids: even in tough times.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:21 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
This is great! I know they appreciate it!
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:21 PM EDT
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@nataliebmiller
that relationship piece is critical!
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ConsultJodi
Jun 26 @ 3:21 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
You are awesome. Too many parents have never been to their child's classroom.
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:21 PM EDT
@nataliebmiller
@uchangenow
very true they will support when they know that you care
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edu_taraw
Jun 26 @ 3:22 PM EDT
A2) build relationships with parents first and often communicate positive things about children
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:22 PM EDT
A2: Document specific behaviors as well as antecedents. Stick to the facts. Focus on the behavior not the child.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:22 PM EDT
@KHallatWestHigh
You got it!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:22 PM EDT
@PughP13
@DavisWelcome
I agree. We can't lead well with out devoting time into developing strong relationships.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
Last question coming up ...
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RobynCharb
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2: Open communication is key. Call home about the good too! They'll be more likely to hear you when you discuss concerns.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
@nataliebmiller
@PughP13
Amen!
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2: Assure parents that you believe in their child and look forward to helping them perform more successfully.
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vsbradle
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2 I think person to person is best, but phone calls are effective too.
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
@kelisa_l2teach
@RemindHQ
pictures def serve as solid evidence
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My
@Avigilon
cameras were miraculously!
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
@kelisa_l2teach
@RemindHQ
pictures def serve as solid evidence
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My
@Avigilon
cameras were miraculously!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:24 PM EDT
@RobynCharb
Positive phone calls home are worth the time! :)
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:24 PM EDT
A2: should be contextual eg. phone calls, F2F, SM, newsletters, comm papers, religious buildings/leaders, community members
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:24 PM EDT
Amen!!
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RobynCharb
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2: Open communication is key. Call home about the good too! They'll be more likely to hear you when you discuss concerns.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:24 PM EDT
Yes!!
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vsbradle
Jun 26 @ 3:23 PM EDT
A2 I think person to person is best, but phone calls are effective too.
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KHallatWestHigh
Jun 26 @ 3:24 PM EDT
A2: Freshman Academy teachers always meet w/parents as a team. We want parents to know they are also a part of the team.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:24 PM EDT
LQ: What are some positive behavior intervention strategies that have worked well for you?
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:26 PM EDT
A3: Our team found amazing results with 2x10. Rotate visiting with Ss 2min a day for 10 days. WOW! Powerful for us!
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:26 PM EDT
Q3: The key to intervention is relationships--all the way! It sounds easy, and it really is. Consistent and authentic!
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dbartram22
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
Giving the student and yourself time to calm down before discussing the issue is so important.
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
A3 First, find if bullying is condoned at home. Get to the root of the problem. Know the cause before treating the symptom.
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vsbradle
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
A3 Having prior positive contact always help when you have to discuss problems
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
@nataliebmiller
This is awesome!!!
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
A3: de-escalating conflicts, teaching conflict resolution strategies & practising restorative justice
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
This is so true! There is power in time and patience.
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dbartram22
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
Giving the student and yourself time to calm down before discussing the issue is so important.
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Authenticity is critical!
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:26 PM EDT
Q3: The key to intervention is relationships--all the way! It sounds easy, and it really is. Consistent and authentic!
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:28 PM EDT
@DavisWelcome
I agree! We could not believe something so simple and easy could make such a difference. :)
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Yes!
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PLloydHenry
Jun 26 @ 3:27 PM EDT
A3: de-escalating conflicts, teaching conflict resolution strategies & practising restorative justice
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PaulONeill1972
Jun 26 @ 3:28 PM EDT
A3: Rapport buidling, mentorship, reflection and restorative justice are all positive supports I've employed successfully.
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Q3: NEVER have a "needed" conversation with a student in the classroom in front of others--it will only escalate matters!
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PughP13
Jun 26 @ 3:29 PM EDT
A3: Intentionality around social/emotional behaviors. Teach the kids how to interact and help them be empathetic
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uchangenow
Jun 26 @ 3:29 PM EDT
A3: Morning check in. Allow students time to share. Fun ice breakers that promote critical thinking.
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nataliebmiller
Jun 26 @ 3:29 PM EDT
@PaulONeill1972
I need to learn more about restorative justice. Could you recommend good resources?
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DavisWelcome
Jun 26 @ 3:29 PM EDT
Powerful!
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Latimer1Kristi
Jun 26 @ 3:28 PM EDT
Q3: NEVER have a "needed" conversation with a student in the classroom in front of others--it will only escalate matters!
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kelisa_l2teach
Jun 26 @ 3:29 PM EDT
I have placed ss on a behavior contracts and offered pizza parties and other incentives
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JKatzaman
Jun 26 @ 3:29 PM EDT
@Latimer1Kristi
It's the old leadership maxim: Praise in public, discipline in private.
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