#leadlap Archive

Our chat will focus on the idea that we can lead and make positive change from any position in our school systems. Leadership is not about a title, it is a way of thinking and acting.

Saturday December 9, 2017
10:30 AM EST

  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:30 AM EST
    Good Morning #LeadLAP crew! Take a moment to introduce yourself, where you are from and your role.
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:30 AM EST
    Thank you so much for leading us! #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:30 AM EST
    Good morning, Kristina. We are honored to have you hosting #leadLAP this morning.
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    Good morning @APKRentz and #LeadLAP crew! Happy Saturday!
  • drmcclard Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    Lance k-5 principal in SE Missouri. #leadlap
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    Leila here Deputy Superintendent in Escondido #leadlap
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    John Miller, Head of an international American school in Mexico City. Happy to be with all of you this morning! #leadlap
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    #leadlap Chris Loeffler, Asst Principal, Wilmington, DE
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    Welcome Laura! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 10:31 AM EST
    Brandi- 1st Grade Teacher in Florida!! #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Hi Laura. Welcome back to #LeadLAP Always great to learn with you.
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura, @APKRentz
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Welcome Lance!! Great to have you here! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @drmcclard
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Morning! Teresa, MS Literacy Teacher, NY. #leadlap
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Good morning! Natasha TK-6 Principal in CA ready for a great discussion this morning #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Welcome! Thanks for joining us today! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @principledlady
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Hi Lance. Thanks for joining us this morning. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @drmcclard
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Good morning #LeadLAP crew! Eli, Lead Learner/Principal at @NavajoElem in Abq., NM jumping in for a few this morning
    • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:30 AM EST
      Good Morning #LeadLAP crew! Take a moment to introduce yourself, where you are from and your role.
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Good morning y'all! Elyse in Texas checking in. I work with special ed and behavior. #leadlap
  • Mr_Dixon11 Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Adam. K-5 administrator. 30 min south of the STL in Missouri. Good morning everyone! #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
    Morning, Leila. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @principledlady
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Thanks, Shelley! #LeadLAP chat is the best way to start off Saturday monrings!
    In reply to @burgess_shelley, @APKRentz
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Good morning from surprising wrestling with spotty service! Beth from MO..proud principal of #fmsteach and co-author of #leadlap
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Welcome to #LeadLAP John.
    In reply to @mexusmx
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Good morning #LeadLAP! Robert, principal of Los Lunas HS, in the house this morning.
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    I should introduce myself! I'm Kristina. I'm an Assistant Principal in Alberta, Canada! We are a Pre School - Gr 5! @PrairieWaters #LeadLAP
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Emily here. Elementary principal in KC metro. #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Hi friend! #leadlap
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Good morning, Chris. Glad to have you in #LeadLAP this morning.
    In reply to @cloeff33
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Welcome! Thanks for joining us! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Morning! #leadlap
    In reply to @drjonesie17
  • BobbieFrench Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Bobbie, elem. Lead learner from Mass! #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Hi Brandi. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @bmilla84
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    #505 in the house! #LeadLAP
    • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 10:32 AM EST
      Good morning #LeadLAP crew! Eli, Lead Learner/Principal at @NavajoElem in Abq., NM jumping in for a few this morning
      • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:30 AM EST
        Good Morning #LeadLAP crew! Take a moment to introduce yourself, where you are from and your role.
  • mr_tbloom Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Travis a middle school principal in PA #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:33 AM EST
    Morning, Teresa. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Question 1 coming up in 1 min! #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Thanks for stopping in! Hope you enjoy the chat! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @MrCoachEli, @NavajoElem
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Hi Teresa! It's so nice to be able to chat this weekend. #leadlap
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Thanks for joining us today! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    What a wonderful crew we have joining us in #LeadLAP today. Thank you all so much for chatting with us!
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Thank you for the welcome! Happy Saturday! #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • leighmragsdale Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Happy Saturday #LeadLAP!!! Leigh, from Cape G. MO!!! Lead Learner/Principal @CapeFranklin!!! Soooo happy to be here!!!!
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Welcome! Thanks for joining us!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mexusmx
  • mrbgilson Dec 9 @ 10:34 AM EST
    Good morning #leadlap Just finished my workout and ready to work the brain. Brent from Magrath AB
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Cute pic! #leadlap
    In reply to @BobbieFrench
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Question 1 - Please read the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Good Morning Brandi! Welcome. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @bmilla84
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Glad to have you with us, Brent. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mrbgilson
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Scott. Elementary principal @ForestGlen41 #LeadLap
  • EdLog411 Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Good morning #leadlap. Sorry I cant join you today...off to a leadership coaching course. Have a great chat (and a great week!)
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Welcome, Scott. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @sklespitz, @ForestGlen41
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    Hello everyone, Jay from NJ checking in to #LeadLAP Hope you can join me tomorrow morning for the book study from #LeadLAPMass
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    A fellow Albertan! Welcome!!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mrbgilson
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    We will miss you, Vicki! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @EdLog411
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:35 AM EST
    I hate the hustle and bustle of any kind of stores right now. In barnes and Noble withdrawal!!!!!!! 😩😩😩😩#leadlap
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
    Hi Jay! Always great to have you with us. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @JayBilly2
  • sandeeteach Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
    Good morning #LeadLAP Sandy from a sunny (but cold) Utah I teach 5th grade and LOVE it!!!
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
    Q1 is up... #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
    A1: lately it seems to be problem-solving (any kind of problem, big or little) #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
    Good Morning! Thanks for joining us! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @JayBilly2
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
    A1: Empathy ❤️ #leadlap
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    A1: It is so important to teach Ss to truly collaborate by developing self-awareness, listening and empathy. #leadlap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    A1: Empathy and Empowerment are two big ones we focus on in middle school. #leadlap
  • JoveStickel Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    Jove MS Principal from MO #Leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    Absolutely! Does everything seem to be a BIG problem? #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    A1L also collaboration (WHat do you do when you disagree?) #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    Hey y’all. Latoya, ed leader in SC checking in this morning. Still drinking ☕️☕️☕️☕️! #leadlap
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    Morning Pirates Ricardo from WA #leadlap
  • cradisch_wc Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    Let’s start with this from @AngelaMaiers #LeadLAP
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:37 AM EST
    A1:My biggest job every day is to model for my Ss traits like kindness, respect, and empathy, so that they can in turn pass them on to others. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    Do you use stories, picture books, read alouds to help with this? #LeadLAP
    In reply to @principledlady
  • sandeeteach Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1 Empathy and grit are important among many other things :) #LeadLAP
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1: interpersonal communication and responding to challenges #LeadLAP
  • MrsLedford6Eng Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    I completely agree! Problem solving skills are a must! #leadlap
    • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:36 AM EST
      A1: lately it seems to be problem-solving (any kind of problem, big or little) #leadlap
  • principalDLM Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1 Resiliency, problem solving, perseverance, kindness, forgiveness and so many more! #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    Hey there! #leadlap
    In reply to @rokstar19
  • McLane_Ryan Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    I think this goes for us adults too. #leadlap
    In reply to @mexusmx
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    Welcome! I forgot my coffee this morning! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1 To me it’s empathy, positivity and being authentic or genuine #LeadLAP
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1 too me it's believing in all my students, and knowing them. #leadlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1: Troubleshoot, communicate, respect, empathize, and be intrinsically motivated. #LeadLAP
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1: how to take ownership of their learning. Students need to see that they have control over this. #LeadLap
  • Mr_Dixon11 Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1: How to be out of the box thinkers and problem solvers. Teaching them the 7 Habits, and embracing those teachable moments. #LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1.The national conversation about the importance of teaching soft skills is a direct mismatch to national policy on accountability #leadlap
  • ChrisMartin_P Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1. 1 +1 is important but leaving school knowing how to be a good person is crucial. #LeadLAP
  • leighmragsdale Dec 9 @ 10:38 AM EST
    A1: We say this affirmation each morning all together before we start our day: I am PEACE ✌🏽 I am LOVE 💞 I am THE FUTURE 🌎 #LeadLap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    So great to see this crew today! Thanks for being here! #LeadLAP
  • branowar Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    Creativity is my fave. Also general power tool safety. 😬 #leadlap
    In reply to @burgess_shelley
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    Disagree then commit. #leadlap
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • MrCCollington78 Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    Good M #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    A1: Organization and management! How do I find things? (physically and mentally) How do I manage sports, friends, school, etc.? #leadlap
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    No doubt! You have to model this with your words and more importantly your actions. #LeadLAP
  • drmcclard Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    A1 @PaulSolarz has put a pretty comprehensive list of soft skills together in #LearnLAP. Collab, crit thinking, perseverance, initiative, and so much more #leadlap
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    Hey all! Isaac here, Teacher Liaison for the state of N.M. Finally closed on my house this week, so I’m on fire 🔥! #LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:39 AM EST
    A1. We know our students need to skills like critical thinking,problem solving,collaboration, teamwork, but what are we measuring? #leadlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    Both are important! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @branowar, @burgess_shelley
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    A1: Design thinking is used in one of schools as a way for kids to develop empathy and understand the impact that has on the world #leadlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    I am not a stores fan when it's busy. I avoid crowds with the plague. It's a gem to go into stores. I do a lot on amazon these days. #leadlap
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    Empathy and collaboration should be at every level, even with adults. #leadlap
    In reply to @BethHouf
  • cueinc Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    The breakfast bell is ringing! REGISTER TODAY for #cuerockstar TOSA Edition https://t.co/StUvCGVSyB January 20-21 in Agoura Hills,CA @cogswell_ben @jcorippo @CateTolnai @annkozma723 @peerlessgreen @creativeedtech #CUE #cuechat #leadlap
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    #KindnessMatters at @SlackwoodSchool We teach empathy, understanding, character traits, kindness in all that we do #LeadLAP
  • mr_tbloom Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    A1-Advocacy is something I am working on with my students. I want them to have the courage to talk to their teachers when something is bothering them #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    A1: Taking responsibility is key for me. So many times Ss are quick to blame others. #LeadLAP
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    7 habits are powerful, especially when they begin applying them on their own! #leadlap #tlim
    In reply to @Mr_Dixon11
  • kmjacober Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    Hi I’m Katryna from N.C. I’m the #ibpyp Coordinator at #SpeasGlobal Elementary #LeadLAP
  • MrCCollington78 Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    Good Morning! I’m Corey and I’m an AP in upstate SC. Excited to be a part of the chat this morning. #leadlap
  • JeremyDBond Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    And discomfort is NECESSARY. Therein lies the growth. #leadupchat #LeadLAP
    • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 10:28 AM EST
      A4. It helps to recognize that discomfort is normal. There is nothing wrong with feeling discomfort. Discomfort does not mean one is a "weak" leader, it means we care, and have empathy 4 others. Empathy should not be taken 4 granted, it's a vital human feeling. #leadupchat
  • mrbgilson Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    A1: This year it has been trying to guide them to a sense of self empowerment. Lots of I can't do this, and a refusal to consider I can't do this yet. #leadlap
  • JoveStickel Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    A1being Honorable Upstanding Supportive Kind Equipped and Respectful HUSKERS our mascot acronym #Leadlap
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 10:40 AM EST
    Instructional coach from Lancaster, Pa jumping in and out this morning! #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    A1. If soft skills matter, why aren’t we measuring them,reporting on them, & messaging that in the way we hold schools accountable? #leadlap
  • BobbieFrench Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    How to get along and work well with others ! Most important skill a person can have!!!! #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    If only it were that simple..... Upstanders by @SaraKAhmed has amazing lessons for this! I LOVE that resource! #leadlap
    In reply to @cloeff33, @SaraKAhmed
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Good question! How do we know? #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • MajaliseTolan Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Majalise here! Joining late from AVID National Conference! #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    A1: This ---> #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Mornign Brent! #leadlap
    In reply to @mrbgilson
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    A1: We focus on teaching our Ss @adamdovico’s S.P.E.C.I.A.L.! We even have Student Ambassadors who greet visitors in our room! #leadLAP
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    A1: Problem solving, perseverance, kindness, & empathy #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Congratulations! And welcome to the chat!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @RIsaacRivas
  • sandeeteach Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Maybe especially with adults! They need to model for students. But, beyond that, these skills affect school culture and that impacts students learning! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @cloeff33, @BethHouf
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Welcome, Corey! #leadLAP
    In reply to @MrCCollington78
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:41 AM EST
    Word. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    Question 2 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    I just love being "in" the bookshelves! I am such a dork. #leadlap 😂😂
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • MrCCollington78 Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    A1: Our kids need to kn #leadlap
  • kmjacober Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    A1 Social skills are so important now along with having the right attitude or mindset. #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    Glad to have you here, Amanda! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Techieteach11
  • MrDougCampbell Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    Soft skills are more important than just about anything officially taught in school - manners, awareness, and empathy are extremely valuable. #leadlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    A1 For me, soft skills are vital for my special students. Teaching and cultivating empathy, responsibility, and compassion are huge. Our students need time to cultivate these daily to empower themselves too. #leadlap
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    A1. A powerful Q. because S remember the soft skills. Respecting each student is critical. A key technique is giving students time to answer Q. by not calling on the 1st hand that goes up. "Wait time," a soft skill (and strategy) when working with S is critical. #LeadLAP
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    A1: How to talk to one another. Understanding perspective. Self-confidence. Commitment to self, family, community. #leadlap
  • burgessdave Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    Hey!!! Live #LeadLAP from Big Bear with @burgess_shelley & @TaraMartinEDU !!! And first snow boarding outing for @kalebmartinREAL coming up! Heading there w/ @burgessashlyn1 #tlap #BookSnaps
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 10:42 AM EST
    A1: We love to share the #superyoufun song and curriculum where every child is a superhero #LeadLAP https://t.co/imp0x09Ra1
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    Very well said @latoyadixon5! And at the end of the day, what we measure is what we value so accountability is going to win every time. We need to address the mismatch with some courageous conversations! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5, @latoyadixon5
  • MrsLedford6Eng Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    A1: I try my best everyday to help my Ss be as well rounded as they possibly can be, but my push most days is creativity and problem solving! #leadlap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    Q2 is up! #leadLAP
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    RTQ1: What are the important "soft skills" you teach? #leadLAP A Kinder teacher I know has 1 rule: "Be a friend." Teaching kids how to do this is so important.
  • MajaliseTolan Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    A1: I was at a workforce meeting and they challenged us to stop saying "soft skills". They reminded us those are the skills that are detrimental for our success. #LeadLAP
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    I go to our used book stores. They're smaller but so awesome. I love the feels too. :) #leadlap
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • thesweetsan Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    A1: One of the “soft skills” that I teach my students is the concept of “failure leads to success”. My students encourage each other when they are academically struggling because they know that when they learn from their mistakes they are just getting closer to the goal! #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    A2: I model for them by writing morning messages on the board. A recent one was how much I care about them. #leadlap
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    Good morning #leadlap A1: I love to foster growth and connections in our superheroes as they get ready for Junior High. Success skills like gratitude and grace, humor and courtesy, respect and kindness will help them reach higher and go to great places beyond our walls.
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:43 AM EST
    Q2 is up... #leadLAP
  • MrCCollington78 Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A1: Kids need to know how to problem solve, think critically and collaborate with others. These skills will assist them in college and going into the workforce. #leadlap
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    The best way to get Ss to be lifetime learners! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @sklespitz
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A1. What would students say if we asked: What are the most important things schools are trying to accomplish with students? #leadlap
  • katiestone22 Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A1: growth mindset and grit = game changer for everyone #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    Looks awesome!! Enjoy!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @burgessdave, @burgess_shelley, @TaraMartinEDU, @kalebmartinREAL, @burgessashlyn1
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A2: As adults we need to model this for our students each day. We also need to expose them to situations where they can work together and develop those skills. #LeadLap
  • sandeeteach Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A2 Classroom meetings and in general, just having high expectations for how students talk and treat each other. #LeadLAP
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A2: Again, we model those skills. We spend time trying to teach students who have conflict how to manage it and speak up when something needs to be said. Respectful interactions say a lot to students -"You're not yelling at me?" #LeadLAP
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    Q2: Some of the tools we use Buddy benches restorative practices, social stories, peace patrol, #leadlap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    Jealous my friends! My view is of wrestling mats this am! Have fun! #leadlap
    In reply to @burgessdave, @burgess_shelley, @TaraMartinEDU, @kalebmartinREAL, @burgessashlyn1
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    Absolutely the best place to start! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @HartofLearning
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    A2: I hand out so many anchors! #leadlap
  • the_explicator Dec 9 @ 10:44 AM EST
    What’s Mastery? #leadlap https://t.co/OOWrvQtT91
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2: Firs of all, model them. These are skils that must be taught. Ss must learn to communicate, listen, and work together. It's not natural for many and must be taught #small steps #LeadLAP
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    It's almost seen as if every student just walks in the door with those skills #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    #leadlap I-to-I conflict resolution helps As build empathy and understanding along with problem solving skills
  • mrbgilson Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2: I think modelling, showing that there is redemption in mistakes, that we make them too. That we all have bad days and they are not an indicator of forever. This builds trust we are not going anywhere and hopefully that builds relationships. #LeadLAP
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    Great question and idea! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • Mr_Dixon11 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2: Teach students about those particular skills and then give them opportunities to apply them. Again, use those teachable moments.#LeadLAP
  • ChrisMartin_P Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2. Our job is not to solve student conflict but rather act as a guide to ensure that all voices are heard #WinWin #LeadLAP
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    I once read that teachers should consider what they want students to remember about their classes, when meeting 50 years in the future. "What do you remember about my class?" What former students say, will likely include the soft skills. #LeadLAP
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A1: Tattling turns into teaching students how to have courageous conversations: "I felt __ when you __." "I'm sorry. It won't happen again." Shake hands and move on. #leadLAP #leadupchat
  • PrincipalFrench Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2) I make it a priority to build relationships with students so they trust me during difficult and challenging times. #LeadLAP
  • SusanDenton27 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    #Leadlap Morning! Principal of TK-5 in Bakersfield, CA currently attending #clsfall17 in San Diego! Leading and Learning! #positiveprincipal #JoyfulLeaders #principalsinaction
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • leighmragsdale Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A1: LOVE & EMPATHY I want every student to know without a shadow of a doubt how much I love them!!!! No matter what! N #leadlap
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2: We have an advisory period that we call crew. Same Teacher same group of kids all year to build relationships. Also we have a restorative room for students and are getting better at restoring relationships when broken. #leadlap
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    A2: We do Thinking Thursday lessons each week that focus on SEL! We incorporate team building & morning meetings that help establish & strengthen relationships! #leadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:45 AM EST
    Wish you were here with us! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @BethHouf, @burgessdave, @TaraMartinEDU, @kalebmartinREAL, @burgessashlyn1
  • the_explicator Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    Should our classrooms allow the real-world in them? #leadlap https://t.co/q0nX3a6Bsf
  • kmjacober Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2 As An #ibpyp School we have a set of attributes that comprise the #IBlearnerProfile. These really help guide our students to understand relationships. #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    I am obsessed with libraries. I check movies out, books, etc. LOVE my local libraries. #leadlap
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2: Teachable moments-taught IN the moment, collaboration assignments (practice), and modeling. #LeadLAP
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2: We need to get to know the strengths and talents of our Ss and also their fears and insecurities. That will allow us to help them with both! #leadlap
  • StephMBLitSpec Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    Q1: Empathy, kindness & being an "includer" are the most important soft skills, as they translate to other soft skills like problem solving, self-esteem, communication & positive social skills. #LeadLAP
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2. Model and opportunity to practice empathic listening. Listen to learn, not to respond. #leadlap
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    Can you describe the peace patrol? #leadlap
    In reply to @principledlady
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    This is key! Making sure they see you as a safe person instead of the person who always gets them "in trouble"! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @PrincipalFrench
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2. We build skills like conflict resolution & self advocacy in Ss by our examples. We can start by advocating for our profession ! #leadlap
  • burgessdave Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    Hey, Corey! Great to see you in #LeadLAP this morning!!
    In reply to @MrCCollington78
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    The way Ms. Gross showed she cared about us. Everything else pales in comparison to how they felt. #leadlap
    In reply to @HarveyAlvy1
  • MrsLedford6Eng Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2: My students are constantly working on healthy discussions and conversations. #leadlap
  • TaraMartinEDU Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    So stinkin' excited to be here with the Burgess fam at Big Bear. #Leadlap -ing live then snowboarding for @kalebmartinREAL in just a few. EEeeek! PUMPED! #tlap #REALedu #BookSnaps
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
    A2: teaching kids how to collaborate, providing them structures for doing so such as those brought toys by @SpencerKagan help #leadlap
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    A2 we spend time working on projects and I teach them how listen to each other and work together. Problem solving skills are a must. #leadlap
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    A2: also teach collaborative structures to practice communication when it doesn’t come naturally #leadlap #kagan
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    A1: Empowering kids to advocate for themselves is essential. My aim was to amplify the talents within them that were once dormant and bring their voice to the forefront! #LeadLAP
  • mydesk_not Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    👋🏼GM! Serve as an Instructional Coach at Bartlett Middle School in Porterville, CA. Sorry I'm late but grateful to be able to join the #LeadLAP chat once again! ☃️
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    I stand back and watch until I am REALLY needed. #leadlap
    In reply to @ChrisMartin_P
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    I’m convinced that we’ve conditioned students to believe the most important part of the school year is “passing the test”. #leadlap
  • drmcclard Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    A2 we have morning meetings, circle of friends for Ss that need more support, new student lunch w principal, and Buddy Bench.#LEADlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    A2 Celebrate THEM for who they are and what they bring. Be excited students are present and lift them up daily. They watch your every move. The ball is in your court to make an impact. #leadlap
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    Enjoy... my friends #LeadLAP #tlap
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:47 AM EST
    So important to show the value of "moving on" while also recognizing that when we hurt someone at their core it may take some time to heal. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @HartofLearning
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    I am in a PYP school too! These absolutely help! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @kmjacober
  • TaraMartinEDU Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    omgoodness! Wish you were here, too! However, wrestling mats are second best. ;) #LEADlap
    In reply to @BethHouf, @burgessdave, @burgess_shelley, @kalebmartinREAL, @burgessashlyn1
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    RTQ2: How do you support students in building relationship skills to support social emotional learning? #LeadLAP In the past, I've had "Thankful Thursday" class meetings. I have not done that (yet) this year. Maybe I will start after winter break.
  • SusanDenton27 Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    #Leadlap get out of your office and go spend time with Ss, in the classroom, on the playground, in the hallways! I took away my table in my office and brought in a couch. Fewer barriers for better conversions. Here is my mobile office! #principalsinaction #positiveprincipal
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    A2: Relationship skills always start with our modeling and providing Ss opportunities to work together and collaborate on ideas & projects #LeadLAP
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    A2b we also do Socratic seminars and the kids learn to listen through these. #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    We have to provide and model the language. Never assume Ss know how to do this! Sometimes adults don't even know how! #leadlap
    In reply to @Howells_Owls
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:48 AM EST
    A2. We need to teach our students to be civically engaged, socially aware, the importance of building strong networks and more. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    Question 3 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • ChristineZirges Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2: morning meetings with focus on character building and social skills, social stories, role playing are all ways we can build Ss social skills. Most importantly modeling good social skills and being a support to Ss! #LeadLAP
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    I would love to see more Ts convincing their most compassionate, most clever Ss to become teachers! #LeadLAP
    • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:46 AM EST
      A2. We build skills like conflict resolution & self advocacy in Ss by our examples. We can start by advocating for our profession ! #leadlap
  • JanaCParker Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2: Be the model. Practice together, show ❤️, allow for mistakes and show forgiveness...Treat everyday as a new day #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    Go ahead @McLane_Ryan You can laugh at my love of libraries. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    Super jealous! I don't even have snow in my yard yet! Myths about Canada!!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @TaraMartinEDU, @kalebmartinREAL
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    Humility is a vital soft skill that teachers should emulate. Zenger and Folkman in "The Extraordinary Leader" made a brilliant point for all teachers and leaders: "Humility will make you approachable." If a teacher is not approachable they cannot succeed. #LeadLAP
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2: Ss need to be taught and prompted to work through difficult interactions and learn to understand empathy #LeadLAP
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    Interesting observation...It would probably be completely different from our responses #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2. The conversation around the need for an intense focus on social emotional skills is pervasive in public education right now. #leadlap
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2: I purposefully grouped students for a project. Every girl worked with a boy. Every LAP student worked with non-LAP student. Avoid putting friends together. I told students purpose of doing so was to make new friends. #LeadLAP
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2: Emotional literacy is critical for SEL. If a child is in the throes of anger, she isn't picking up much academic content. We model & teach active empathic listening, compassion, kindness to keep Ss emotionally healthy and ready to learn. #leadlap
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
    A2: GM! Jessica, principal from CA just joining. My AP & I have monthly Read Alouds of books that have a strong SEL lesson & we also include an activity. Ts sign up for us to come in. #LeadLAP
  • DonWettrick Dec 9 @ 10:50 AM EST
    What about this on a #Student relationship. @Forbes article on my 19yr old marketing VP working WITH my students & leading @letsstartedup into new territories. https://t.co/gPGOan4laR #LeadLAP
  • kmjacober Dec 9 @ 10:50 AM EST
    So sad but when a teachers’ livelyhood depends on test scores, this is how the system is set up. #sad #leadlap
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:50 AM EST
    I am using my phone today lots of typos so sorry #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:50 AM EST
    A3: speaking and writing #leadlap
  • MrDougCampbell Dec 9 @ 10:50 AM EST
    Employers are saying that social skills are one of the biggest weaknesses of recent graduates. Teachers can and should help change that. #leadlap
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    These are fantastic Teresa! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    Awesome! I'd like to do the new student lunch w/ principal too! @ryanssiemens #LeadLAP
    In reply to @drmcclard, @ryanssiemens
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    A3 I know it's corny but I ask them to put themselves in each other's shows and look at the situation from different perspectives. #leadlap
  • BobbieFrench Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    A2 - model relationships around them. Mediate Converations, support relationships through team building #Leadlap
  • MrsLedford6Eng Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    This makes my heart hurt! My Ss come in every day and have no clue what to expect which I love. I still have to test them of course but I tell them I am preparing them for battle. Making every thing an experience! #leadlap
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    Thank you! #leadlap
    In reply to @drjonesie17
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    It makes me wonder a few things: 1. Why?, 2. How do we address it? 3.Who’s responsibile for building SE skills in our children? #leadlap
    • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:49 AM EST
      A2. The conversation around the need for an intense focus on social emotional skills is pervasive in public education right now. #leadlap
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:51 AM EST
    A3: I am always two things in every interaction with a student who has come to me because of conflict: Respectful and honest. #LeadLAP
  • JoanJtracy Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    A3. Joining late, but hello. I think naming the emotion goes a long way. #LeadLAP
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    I'm going to ask and find out. I look forward to hearing their responses. #leadLAP
    In reply to @drjonesie17, @latoyadixon5
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    RTQ3: What are some of the most successful tools you teach students to deal with emotions? #LeadLAP Breathe! Breathe in through your nose like you're smelling a rose. Breathe out through your mouth like you're blowing out candles. Three times deep breathing calms all.
  • biomanway Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    A3: First to assure them that is natural to have emotions and that everyone has them. Then move on with strategies #LeadLAP
  • mrbgilson Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    A3: I am finding this year self reflection is working for me, and I am modelling that with the Ss. Why are we upset or frustrated? Figuring out the why is the first step in changing course #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    A3: We use Zones of Regulation to help students identify their emotions. And work from there to help get through those feelings. #LeadLAP
  • BobbieFrench Dec 9 @ 10:52 AM EST
    A3- lots of team building activities. We take gr 8 to ropes course, buddy bench, #responsiveclassroom younger/older S buddies #Leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    Yes. Where do I put this? Where have you put it all year? In the crate? Yes, in the crate. #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    My pleasure! #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    Love this idea! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Techieteach11
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    Morning Shelley. #leadlap
    In reply to @burgess_shelley
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    Time for Q3! #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    The why is so important. I often get "I don't know why I feel this way. Or I don't know why I did that". Its easier for kids than saying what they feel. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mrbgilson
  • katiestone22 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    A2: Carve out time for class meetings. Intentionally connecting with each student each morning will benefit students and their learning. #LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    A3. It takes practice. Students need direct instruction on these as much as they do the facts about the War of 1812-maybe more. #leadlap
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:53 AM EST
    Great Qs. Here are my thoughts. 1. Because schools have neglected it for so long, more so recently. 2. Aligning it with the current curriculum and making time in the schedule. 3. All of us. #leadlap
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • ryanssiemens Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    That is a fantastic idea! #leadLAP
    In reply to @APKRentz, @drmcclard
  • mr_tbloom Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A3-Trying to identify how they were feeling before an event occurs. Also talking about what happens earlier in the day. #LeadLAP
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A2 I try to be a #PrincipalInAction. Getting out of my office, spending time in classrooms, making my office student centered, emphasizing the importance of team building in our school #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A3: I NEVER EVER ask a student to leave a room, but they know they can go get a drink, use restroom, etc if they need a break. #leadlap
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A3: I try to help them understand that their emotions are real and that it is ok to express them. It’s how they choose to express them that is the most important #LeadLap
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A3: In my 1st grade class, we do a lot of role playing & scenario discussions! We rate our feelings during morning meetings! As a school, we’ve used Strong Start & Strong Kids lessons for our Thinking Thursday SEL! #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A3: They can walk away and go to the book corner to chill in the bean bags. #leadlap
  • mydesk_not Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A1: Growing up my Parents taught me about the importance of being "bien educada" in addition to being educated. Both sides are equally important & will continue to try to instill them in my own son as well as the Ss I serve. #LeadLAP
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A2: Model how to navigate a difficult conversation. We followed four conversational steps in my classroom. #LeadLAP
  • TaraMartinEDU Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
    A3 Providing authentic opportunities for Ss express their feelings = KEY. I personally think #BookSnaps have proven to be an amazing tool to share emotions. Ss can connect to text & speak from their heart. #LEADlap
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A3 I teach and spotlight social skills daily. Some of my students use a 5 point scale to show their emotions while others can voice it. Emotions are a part of daily life. We have to acknowledge them to move forward. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A3: Lots of students know the tools, but don't apply them in the situation. Any suggestions for that? #LeadLAP
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A1 First-timer in #Leadlap buy THIS topic is my ❤️. Most important soft skill I teach is EMPATHY. We must care about others.
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A4: I hear a sigh and I encourage it. Go ahead, everyone sigh really really loudly! It's hilarious. #leadlap
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A3: growth mindset is a huge one. Our counselor @cervera_denise does an amazing job of providing guidance lessons every month in classrooms. She asks for Ts feedback on the topics to cover. #LeadLAP
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A3: Making all feelings normal and validating them by talking about feelings expression rather than pretending we all have to be happy all the time. Ss love activities like this one we made to open up convos. #leadlap
  • MrsLedford6Eng Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A3: Being an English teacher, I show them the healing they can find in writing. We address this mainly in our poetry unit and the results are amazing! #leadlap
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    This is huge. #LeadLAP
    • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
      A3: I try to help them understand that their emotions are real and that it is ok to express them. It’s how they choose to express them that is the most important #LeadLap
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    A3 Empathy and authenticity #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:55 AM EST
    Welcome! I hope you enjoy the chat and come back often!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mospillman
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    Question 4 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    A3: Mindfulness! We implemented a 15 minute #mindfulness period right after lunch for all students! It’s December and students are slowly starting to make connections on how it can help them regulate their emotions! #LeadLAP
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    A2: Helping Ts and Ss and everyone in the community develop cultural proficiency leads to better relationships and more learning #leadlap
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    A2 Using Goleman's work on Emotional Intelligence, as a strategy to support SEL classroom work helps. A critical piece is modeling the behaviors 4 students & celebrating those students who display self-awareness, restrain impulsivity, and show respect, humility, empathy. #LeadLAP
  • drmcclard Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    A3 looking for suggestions on this one! We do read a louds, a temp gauge w emotions for Ss to help identify and regulate anger, focus on this in morning meeting #LEADlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    Welcome, you will love it! #leadlap
    In reply to @mospillman
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    A3: At HS level, I focus on teaching Ss that: We can work effectively with people we don't like We can agree to disagree & still be respectful if not friends #LeadLAP
  • burgess_shelley - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    Q4 is up... #LeadLAP
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    This is awesome! #leadlap
    • mydesk_not Dec 9 @ 10:54 AM EST
      A1: Growing up my Parents taught me about the importance of being "bien educada" in addition to being educated. Both sides are equally important & will continue to try to instill them in my own son as well as the Ss I serve. #LeadLAP
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    We do have a place for work habits and social skills on our elementary report cards. #leadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:56 AM EST
    Teachable moments in and out of the classroom. Bring real life in as much as possible. If I see or hear it, it's a valuable opportunity. #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • biomanway Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    We must model the strategies for them not just give it to them. Then let them actually practice them. #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    A3. A safe place and time to process. Cool down basket- journaling, calming toys, space to de-escalate #leadlap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    A2: We have carved time every single day to make this a priority in our school. It can't just be a focus for the month or single event/assembly. Intentionality matters! #leadlap
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    100% agree! It’s so important to validate students emotions and not say things like oh you’re just being silly or there’s no need to feel that way. It’s better to talk about why they feel that way and go from there. #LEADlap
    In reply to @sklespitz
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    A4: When I moved from teaching HS to elementary, I never thought I'd hear an 8 yr old say "I don't like me". #LeadLAP
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    A3: Not just okay to feel these emotions, it is critically important to do so, then learn to manage them. We need kids to acknowledge a full range of emotions! #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    The @CEDupdate released this as hardest to hire skills. Look at content and technical knowledge’s rank-but that’s what we measure. #leadlap
  • cloeff33 Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
    #leadlap A3: letting students know that all emotions are valid, that they are valuable, and capable of meaningful conversations and solutions when things go wrong. Creating a culture where mistakes are expected and accepted, as learning opportunities
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A4: If you've built relationships with students, you know what matters to them, and you can play off of that to support them. #LeadLAP
  • kmjacober Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A3 Building your classroom environment and the relationship between your Ss is the best place to start. This way all of your young leaders can help one another with emotions. #LeadLAP
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A3: I always acknowledged their emotional responses and guided and coaxed them towards a more appropriate response. Most adults still need this coaxing! #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A4: I tell them ALL the time they are the way they are meant to be. I share stories of how I was made fun of because of my curly hair or because I am such an introvert and independent. #leadlap
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A2 Modeling the behavior is key. If I want Ss to be connected to others in the class, then I also need to be connected to others. We enjoy each others’ interests and hobbies. I subject my class to my ❤️ of #StarWars 🤖 #Leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    You have to come to Alberta and check out the mountains here!! You'll love it!! Just wait for the snow!!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @burgessdave, @burgess_shelley, @TaraMartinEDU, @kalebmartinREAL, @burgessashlyn1
  • ChrisMartin_P Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A3. Emotions are natural and they are going to present themselves all the time. It comes down to being able to deal with them in appropriate ways before moving forward. #LeadLAP
  • MrDougCampbell Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    The key to self-image is accepting and embracing who you are - not worrying about trying to make people like you #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
    A4: @burgessdave really opened the lines for great conversations following his GHO. We tackled some tough issues the day after. GREAT teaching opportunity. (Thank you Dave.) #leadlap
  • MajaliseTolan Dec 9 @ 10:59 AM EST
    A3: I just learned about @fosterkindess yesterday. Getting ready for the Middle School Kindness Challenge. Excellent resources and lessons! #LeadLAP
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 10:59 AM EST
    A4 I praise their effort and their growth. I make sure they know that I am invested in them. #leadlap
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 10:59 AM EST
    A4: Focus on the strengths of the student. Students should be reminded of the positives that they have going for them. #LeadLap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 10:59 AM EST
    It's amazing what our little ones think. 😐 #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 10:59 AM EST
    A4: Model how to handle making mistakes (not end of world), that other ideas are worth considering, & the only handicap is attitude. Dream big & go after it. Then I openly model that too. #LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A link to the full article is here: https://t.co/uB7azPSCqM #leadlap
    • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 10:57 AM EST
      The @CEDupdate released this as hardest to hire skills. Look at content and technical knowledge’s rank-but that’s what we measure. #leadlap
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A3b: We also have a calm-down place with lots of sensory strategies we fondly cal our Peace Room so students can emote and deescalate from their big uncomfortable feelings. #leadlap
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    RTQ4: How do you support students with their self image? #LeadLAP When I subbed at the high school, the graffiti in the bathroom said, "You are beautiful." There were little hearts posted around the halls saying, "You can do it!"
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A4 Kids can be cruel. Celebrating students for who they are, what they bring to the table, and how they act really matters. #leadlap
  • StephMBLitSpec Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A3: Books! Relating to the protagonist-or a similar situation, & knowing that their feelings are both valued & they are not alone w/challenges... this really gets needed conversations going. Books also give children the language they need to communicate their feelings. #LeadLAP
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A4: Ss need to feel that their ideas and thoughts matter and that they are part of a community of learners that also have self-doubt. #leadlap
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A4. Bring in great literature that celebrates differences! Patricia Polacco is one of my favorites. #leadlap
  • mrbgilson Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    A4: Constant care and attention I think. Ss have so much coming at them, way more than I ever did and WAY more than my parents ever did. We need to be mindful of that and provide the light to counter all that dark out there. #LeadLAP
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    I don’t think I can respond better than this #LeadLAP
    • abney45 Dec 9 @ 10:58 AM EST
      A4: If you've built relationships with students, you know what matters to them, and you can play off of that to support them. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:00 AM EST
    This is so important! Every student has a strength! And they are all unique! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @sklespitz
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A4: They see and live my quirky personality on a daily basis, I am 100% comfortable in my own skin, allows them to be themselves. #leadlap
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A3: First validation their feelings, breathing exercised to get calm, and to their heart rates down. It's really difficult to think clearly through difficult situations if they angry & upset #LeadLAP
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A3. The E-R-O concept that @TimothyKight talks about is vital. What happened happened. How they respond to that is what determines their outcome. #Leadlap
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A3: teaching our most challenging students self regulation skills has been challenging for us the past couple of years. Becoming trauma informed #leadlap
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A4: any chance I get, I tell them how good looking & pretty they are, how nice their outfit, hair, shoes are. I try to find something to acknowledge. I also always tell them how smart they are! It’s such an easy thing to do. Imagine if all adults on campus did that? #Leadlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A4b: Sometimes it just takes one person/adult to listen to them, care about them, & show them they have a voice. They matter. #LeadLAP
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A4: Always lead with AUTHENTIC praise. “Good job” “well done” will not suffice for the child who spent the weekend being belittled the entire weekend. Know the entire child and raise them up. #LeadLAP
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A4: We are going to share our middle school experiences as staff and how awkward we were complete with those school pics!! @ShroutLucy #LeadLAP
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:01 AM EST
    A4: "Perspectacles" MUST SEE VIDEO - helps support students with their self image and teaches empathy: https://t.co/fd8xJOaSSr #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    You are a great role model for your Ss!! This is awesome! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • mydesk_not Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    A1: Love @micheleborba message that it's time to recognize the other side of the report card especially the importance of empathy. #LeadLAP
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    Agreed. We have a tendency to always focus on the academic side of things and not think about the whole child. #leadLAP
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    A4. I always tried to impart on my students that their with and value was based on who they were not what they did. Heart first. #leadlap
  • MrCCollington78 Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    A2: Our students are taught these soft skills in the classrooms by our trained teachers. We have a whole school PBL model where students have to problem solve, think critically and communicate on a regular basis. #LeadLAP
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    A4: We hosted a Be-YOU-tiful event for our 5th grade girls! We focused on inner beauty, self image, friendships, & table etiquette! It was an empowering experience for our sweet girls! #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    A3: So many of my Ss have found the power of writing and I am so blessed and thankful! They will tell me guess what I did when ------- happened? I wrote about it! #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    This sounds great! Although I'm sure I've tried to hide all my awkward middle school pictures!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @BethHouf, @ShroutLucy
  • NicholasKGarvin Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
    This is wonderful! Thanks for sharing! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @HartofLearning
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    Question 5 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • ljsmith0414 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    #LeadLAP A4. By the time they hit middle school most of my kids in tier 2 have shut down. It takes one day at a time and lots of growth mindset exercises to get them to realize they all have special talents.
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    Yes! My AP and I read in classes monthly. We pick books that send a positive message to Ss that is applicable to their life. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Howells_Owls
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    A great example Barbara! Our 6th grade Ss would really benefit from an activity like this #LeadLAP
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    I love that book! #leadlap
    In reply to @mydesk_not, @micheleborba
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    A3. A cultural "tool" is critical: Creating classrooms that embrace risk-taking, recognizing we all make mistakes. Emotional distress often occurs when we lose confidence, feel we have failed. Thus, when we teach S to support each other, the support becomes a class habit.#LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    A5. I’ve seen so many teachers devalue themselves as people based on one measure. Our worth is in who we are-not what we do. #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
    So sweet, thanks so much! #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    A4. I always tried to impart on my students that their worth and value was based on who they were not what they did. Heart first. #leadlap
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    A4: We work with them on building their strengths rather than focusing on their deficits, on strengthening their weaknesses rather than being controlled by them. It's a huge #growthmindset shift to unlock fixed thoughts about ourselves. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    We do too! I have lots of different books to help with this! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @jgomezprincipal, @Howells_Owls
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    Love this! So important for our young people to see themselves as beautiful! #LeadLAP
    • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 11:02 AM EST
      A4: We hosted a Be-YOU-tiful event for our 5th grade girls! We focused on inner beauty, self image, friendships, & table etiquette! It was an empowering experience for our sweet girls! #LeadLAP
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    Brilliant idea! You should create a hashtag, and we can post ours, as well. My goodness...the acne of it all! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @BethHouf, @ShroutLucy
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    A4 So important. I like to give them opportunities to create avatars, describe themselves, have others describe them. Support positive comments. #Leadlap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    A4: We embrace our quirkiness to show them that it's ok and encouraged! #LeadLAP @EricaJHogan
  • ljsmith0414 Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    #LeadLAP A3. Sometimes in middle school they need to learn how to self reflect on the positives within themselves and not what other believe.
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    A5: I am just pure entertainment unto myself, I am so quirky and clumsy I just create humorous moments that people laugh at. 😂 #leadlap
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    Yes! It’s amazing how much Ss have connected with books like Wonder. The message is powerful! #leadlap
    In reply to @StephMBLitSpec
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    Q5 is up! #LeadLAP
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:04 AM EST
    We need to teach a growth mindset early! Otherwise, the fixed mindset can get embedded deeply. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    A5: I remind teachers fairly regularly that it is difficult to fill the cups of others if theirs is empty. We have some fun stuff planned this week! #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    LOVE this! #leadlap
    • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:03 AM EST
      A5. I’ve seen so many teachers devalue themselves as people based on one measure. Our worth is in who we are-not what we do. #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    A4. To cultivate a positive self image in others you must have a positive self image of yourself-can’t inspire what you don’t have🤓 #leadlap
  • Mr_Dixon11 Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    A5: We (@ryanssiemens) build strong relationships w/ Ts so they feel comfortable coming to us with any issue. We all support each other. #LeadLAP
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    Thanks, Natasha. I recycled the foam board from my son's AP English 4 project. Wonder if your Ss could make one and what strategies they'd put on there for each other? #leadlap
    In reply to @drjonesie17
  • kmjacober Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    #LeadLAP I must jump off early. I have really enjoyed learning from you all this morning! #onesmallthing, please help my school win a contest by "Liking" the video on this twitter post: https://t.co/UHzxIMoFAN The most likes on that exact twitter post (not this one) wins!
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    A5: I think that one of the best health benefits is to laugh and have fun with what you are doing. I try to bring this attitude with me each day to my staff and students. #LeadLap #JoyfulLeaders
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:05 AM EST
    A5: Ts need a listening ear too, support their endeavors, give encouragement, and model what I preach. You be you and be YOUR best, not someone else's best. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:06 AM EST
    Oooh can you share what fun stuff you have planned?? #LeadLAP
    In reply to @abney45
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 11:06 AM EST
    Let’s connect and share titles! I’m sure there are lots I don’t have yet. I can share the google doc we have set up that include the activities we do after each read aloud if you are interested. #LEADlap
    In reply to @APKRentz, @Howells_Owls
  • Mr_Dixon11 Dec 9 @ 11:06 AM EST
    A5: We practice and reinforce Habit 7 “sharpen the saw” which is all about taking care of your mind, body, heart, and soul. #LeadLAP
  • ljsmith0414 Dec 9 @ 11:06 AM EST
    #LeadLAP Q5. I bake a lot.
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    We have a staff bowling outing, a potluck, and we're going to get our coffee cart going this week. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • mrbgilson Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    Thanks #leadlap for the great chat, I have to cut it short today. Lots of JH and HS Basketball to go watch around my division. Another way to build relationships #timeandattention Have a great weekend everyone and thanks @APKRentz for moderating today and the rest of the team.
  • drmcclard Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    A5 in spring, I want to use a faculty meeting to walk (if they like) and listen to educational podcasts -would love suggestions for Ts. #LEADlap
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    A4: By highlighting unique qualities of Ss & sharing why those qualities are so special. Sometimes our Ss have never heard or are starved from those positive affirmations from adults #LeadLAP
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    Definitely! I just came across this and plan on promoting it among the teachers at my school. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    A5. I’m calling on all public educators to elevate and advocate for our profession. Get off the sidelines. Speak up and be engaged! #leadlap
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    A5: #Mindfulness is super important for us, especially at this hectic time of year. Secret Santa helps b/c it's fun and playful! Here are some other suggestions for wellBEing: https://t.co/EiyvAxXlos #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    I used to know a Principal who had a famous Chocolate Chip cookie recipe. She made them for almost every event they had! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @ljsmith0414
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    RTQ5: How do you promote teacher wellness in your schools? #LeadLAP A former principal brought veggie trays instead of donuts for treats. HR tells us, you need to take care of yourself so you can care for students. Posted Employee Assistance Program flyers in bathrooms, etc.
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
    A5 I speak to everyone. Say good morning, comment on a sports interest, culture, special event, misfortune, etc. #LEADlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    A5: wellness days, retreats, breakfasts, lunches, reading circles, physical activity, etc. #leadlap
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    A5 1st & foremost by modeling. I constantly remind & encourage staff to take care of selves first and try to be balanced. I try to show appreciation every chance I have in a variety of ways. Excited for a week of surprises this week #LeadLAP
  • burgessdave Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    #DitchSummit is BACK!!! Guest post by @jmattmiller about how you can attend a free, virtual PD summit this winter break. It's AMAZING! Plus, watch my video from last year!!! #LeadLAP #tlap #DitchBook #DitchHW https://t.co/o5jAXjbJLS
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    A5. Educators have a bad habit of being passive. We need to change that. #leadlap
  • nbartley6 Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    Morning-sorry for jumping on so late! A5 I realized over the past couple of evenings w/colleagues that simply hanging out, talking to each other, & laughing is essential for building a healthy culture #leadlap
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    @Jonharper70bd My Bad @mrmatera Well Played #leadlap
    In reply to @drmcclard, @Jonharper70bd, @mrmatera
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
    A5: We’ve established the House System at our school! It allows Ts to connect & build relationships w/ others beyond their grade level! We do outings & activities together that are good mind, body, & heart! #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    Glad to have you here!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @nbartley6
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    A5 I try to ask Ts how they are and just chat with them and ask about life outside of school. #LEADlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    That sounds great!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @drmcclard
  • StephMBLitSpec Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    A2: Class meetings. Every day. They are an amazing way to build community, teach SEL and model how to problem solve on-the-spot/current situations that emerge daily. #LeadLAP
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    A5: Mental wellness cannot be stressed enough. When we release the notion of trying to be everything to everyone and focus on self-care, only then will we truly be able to achieve the impact with kids we so desire. #LeadLAP
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    LOVE this! Thanks for sharing! #LeadLAP
    • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
      Definitely! I just came across this and plan on promoting it among the teachers at my school. #LeadLAP
      In reply to @SteinbrinkLaura
  • JanaCParker Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    A5: Encourage staff to enjoy themselves outside of school too...set up the details. Brewery lights were this week in #STL #leadlap
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 11:09 AM EST
    Yes! We need to model it ourselves first and ensure we support & encourage our staff to do the same. #LEADlap
    • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 11:08 AM EST
      A5 1st & foremost by modeling. I constantly remind & encourage staff to take care of selves first and try to be balanced. I try to show appreciation every chance I have in a variety of ways. Excited for a week of surprises this week #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:10 AM EST
    Question 6 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:10 AM EST
    Great topic and moderating! Have an amazing day everyone! #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:10 AM EST
    There’s a huge opportunity for us to talk about why teacher wellness is so important now because this hasn’t always been a focus. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:10 AM EST
    Great to have you today!! My basketball stuff starts next week! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mrbgilson
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 11:10 AM EST
    A4: Help them find their tribe! Provide lots of opportunities for them to "taste all wonderful and varied chocolates in the box" Finding one's passion is edifying in so many ways #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:10 AM EST
    Thanks! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • burgessdave Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    I REALLY enjoyed joining your class!! Super glad it sparked great discussions! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    A5 I spend time with my family and our dogs as much as I can. I also need my sleep and coffee. My students have been known to tell me I need another cup of coffee. They're real. ;) #leadlap
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    A critical strategy is sharing REAL examples of how individuals overcome depression, incredible challenges, & emotional difficulties. Examples: MLK & overcoming hate with love, Lincoln overcoming depression, the women today involved in the #MeToo movement, & @rosaparks #LeadLAP
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    Great way to answer Q5 of #LeadLAP Dave! :)
    In reply to @burgessdave, @jmattmiller, @burgess_shelley, @mrmatera, @DonWettrick, @TaraMartinEDU, @tishrich, @AnnickRauch, @BethHouf, @JayBilly2, @bethhill2829
  • NicholasKGarvin Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    A5: Be #mindful w/ other colleagues & model #mindfulness in the classroom. Each morning I kick off the day w/ my #Kinder Ss w/ 10 mins of meditation & yoga followed by a roundtable check-in discussing our feelings. Emphasising #SEL 's connection to well-being. #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    If you’re with me, please RT. #leadlap
    • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:07 AM EST
      A5. I’m calling on all public educators to elevate and advocate for our profession. Get off the sidelines. Speak up and be engaged! #leadlap
  • biomanway Dec 9 @ 11:11 AM EST
    Excellent thanks for sharing! #leadLAP
    In reply to @HartofLearning
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:12 AM EST
    A6: Help get them support so they can be the best parent for their kids. Tough conversations with a kind tone. #LeadLAP
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:12 AM EST
    A6: In every conversation we have with parents, I try to make sure to ask if there is anything I can do to support them with their child. Good question! #LeadLAP
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 11:12 AM EST
    A5: We started a teacher wellness PD once a month. They have an hour for whatever they want. Go for a walk/run, go to a local coffee shop, read for pleasure, etc. I can “approve” just about anything they want to do! #leadlap
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:12 AM EST
    A6: So important to understand the fear and anxiety of parents. This book is awesome! https://t.co/sAMuqtYSVe #leadlap
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    Lol! The invitation specifically includes "other assorted hangers-on". So, absolutely! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @RIsaacRivas, @APKRentz
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    A6 Parents NEED those positive messages about their student. Can be the 💥 pow they need to overcome an obstacle. #LeadLAP
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    A6:Districts need to create systemic structures to support Ps. We have full time Parent Liaisons at every school. They are a bridge to other services #leadlap
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    A6: Suggesting strategies for feelings management will help Ps focus on well-being for themselves and their children. Replacement behaviors can be key to healthy choices. https://t.co/NYA8ZFhMC5 #leadlap
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    A6. Always communicate that you are on the same team as parents- we all want what is best for “our” kids. #LeadLAP
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    A6 Have that open line of communication with families. Be willing to listen and just listen if needed. Talk to your counselor to see what options are there for them if needed. Parents want you to care for their child. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    When does this happen? Specific days? This sounds amazing! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Techieteach11
  • Coach_Rudy Dec 9 @ 11:13 AM EST
    #leadlap Good morning leadlap group. I am an SEL teacher/speaker/author. I love to learn and share SEL best practices!
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    A6: Communicate Communicate Communicate! Share Share Share! Listen Listen Listen! Let parents be involved in any extent that they can or want to be! #LeadLAP
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    A4: I give notes of appreciation & treats to my Ts. Also, Ts need some fun, so we do a collaborative fun activity at the beginning of each staff meeting. Pre-heat the grill as @burgessdave would say! #LeadLAP
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    Parents LOVE day-maker phone calls, affirming the areas in which they are positively making a difference in the world with their families! #leadlap
    In reply to @mospillman
  • ChrisMartin_P Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    A5. People need time to reflect, relax and rejuvenate. I stopped sending emails to my staff on weekends. #LeadLAP
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    A6: Constant communication with parents and creating opportunities for them to become involved will help alter the negative rhetoric they may associate with schools. Lead with an open heart and mind knowing families are doing the best they can! #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    Great point!! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @mospillman
  • teresagross625 Dec 9 @ 11:14 AM EST
    Oh good! We enjoyed having you! Blog coming soon on social media conversation it sparked on Friday. Truly learning that has continued! #leadlap
    In reply to @burgessdave
  • Techieteach11 Dec 9 @ 11:15 AM EST
    A6: Just yesterday I just sat with a parent and let them tell me their struggles. It wasn’t an advice giving situation. Just a validation that it’s hard and I’m here to listen. #leadlap
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:15 AM EST
    RTQ6: How can you assist parents with mental wellness to ensure student success?#leadLAP Assign less homework! Thank parents for all they do for their children. I wonder if a https://t.co/uvdzH8fYHp could help with mental wellness.
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 11:15 AM EST
    A5 and A6- habit 7! Sharpen the saw, teach Ts and families how to find balance #LeadLAP
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 11:15 AM EST
    A6: continue to focus on the positives and the growth that their child is making. #LeadLap
  • NicholasKGarvin Dec 9 @ 11:15 AM EST
    A5: Our school offers #mindful parenting and mindful communication classes. #LeadLAP
  • MCPTechDirector Dec 9 @ 11:15 AM EST
    Check out how we incorporate#mindfulness https://t.co/kt4DiVHvmP #leadlap
    In reply to @mcpasdwellness, @betsy_delzer
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:16 AM EST
    I'm going to share this with my 6th grade Ts. There seems to be so much on-going conflict among peers. An activity like this could show us exactly what they need #LeadLAP
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 11:16 AM EST
    A4. In classrooms we must celebrate diversity and the differences that contribute to each self-image. These values, our indigenous native culture, and the culture of the immigrants who have joined the nation for over two hundred years must be celebrated. #LeadLAP
  • Coach_Rudy Dec 9 @ 11:16 AM EST
    A1: our school has a dedicated freshman seminar class that teaches social and emotional skills in a collaborative and engaging way. We then support and extend those lessons through a 4yr advisory. #leadlap
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 11:16 AM EST
    A6: Keep an open line of communication between home & school. Call home for the good, invite Ps in, & seek our ways to work together! Ask ?s to get feedback of needs! #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:16 AM EST
    Listening for the sake of listening is so important. They don't want you to "fix" them, just support them. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Techieteach11
  • ChrisMartin_P Dec 9 @ 11:16 AM EST
    A6. Keep reminding parents that it’s not us or them but WE. We will do this together. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:17 AM EST
    Question 7 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • nbartley6 Dec 9 @ 11:17 AM EST
    A6 Learning from my kids' preschool Ts who value the power in play more than anyone I know, I think encouraging Ps to make time to embrace play & creativity w/their kids goes a long way #LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:17 AM EST
    A6. I’m looking at responses-it’s like educators are teachers, therapist, counselors, community liaisons and more-😳🤓 #leadlap
  • jgomezprincipal Dec 9 @ 11:17 AM EST
    A6: we make Positive Phone Calls Home & send positive postcards home as well. We thank them for sending us their amazing kids & tell them what a great job they are doing with them. #LEADlap
  • kristawelz Dec 9 @ 11:18 AM EST
    That’s why School Librarians in schools do as much as they can to help teachers. It’s time all schools (elem, mid, & high) bring them back. #SchoolLibrariesMatter #tlchat #LeadLAP @aasl @NJASL @uspnj
  • Coach_Rudy Dec 9 @ 11:18 AM EST
    A1: In addition our teachers share some common language holt through advisory we can refer to in core classes- we also have a strong student voice and leadership piece- our JRs & SRs hell teach the freshman advisory lessons. #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:18 AM EST
    A7. To take care of others, we must first take care of ourselves! I firmly believe in that. #leadlap
  • rokstar19 Dec 9 @ 11:18 AM EST
    I focus on little victories and the big picture. #LEADlap
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:18 AM EST
    A profession with many hats that we so happily and readily wear! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    Whatever the reason, keep it up @BarbaraGruener! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @drmcclard, @BarbaraGruener
  • NicholasKGarvin Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    Indeed! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @latoyadixon5
  • staci_erickson2 Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    A6- support them in anyway you can. Make positive calls home. If you have to make the negative ones make sure you helpncome up with a solution to the problem and not just complain about it. #leadlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    A7: Some days the only way I can remain/project positivity is to go find someone who's upbeat encouragement can restore me. And chocolate with a Coke Zero, put feet up on desk, close eyes, and breathe for a minute helps too. #LeadLAP
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    A5: I SO appreciate my school librarian put in a hot cocoa bar in her office for the two weeks before winter break. She invited teachers to come in during their planning or anytime for a cup. She has toppings and cookies too! Yum! #leadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    A7: When I start to get bogged down emotionally, I reach out to my support system. Talking it out is a huge weight off my shoulders. #LeadLAP
  • Howells_Owls Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    A7. Take time for self care. Rely on a PLN and a personal network. Habit 7, once again! #LeadLAP #tlim
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 11:19 AM EST
    A6 The biggest thing is simply being present in talking w/ them and offering them every bit of support we can. As we work to be a true community school this has been a huge shift for us this year #LeadLAP
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    Best thing ever! I did it last year and I'm doing it this year. Shared with my staff and my district... and my friend (singular). #tlap #LeadLAP #ltps
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    A7: You cannot fill the cup of others if your cup is empty. Each of us has to make sure that we are doing things that fill our cups so that we can be at our best for our students. For me: gym time, refereeing basketball, fishing, time with family. #LeadLAP
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    A7 Know your limits, take time for you, and meet your basic needs first. #leadlap
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    A7: A major part of our job is to model for others. We have to remain positive and help our students see that things will continue to improve. You acknowledge that things are difficult and help them push forward #LeadLap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    Oh yes-the dedication is amazing, but it’s not sustainable iIMO. We don’t deserve to bear the burdens alone-hence a tchr shortage #leadlap
    In reply to @RIsaacRivas
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    Bring it! The more the merrier! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @MrCoachEli, @RIsaacRivas, @APKRentz
  • staci_erickson2 Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    A7- don’t take it personal. Find the root cause. Look for a solution. #leadlap
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 11:20 AM EST
    A5. Leaders must, thru presonal example, promote wellness. Leaders must visit the schools of their own children when they r in school plays, choral events, sporting events, etc. And leaders should substitute 4 T so they can visit other schools to see their kids in action.#LeadLAP
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
    A7 DOCUMENT! Notes, charts, etc. can help you SEE the progress if you lose sight. A crazy day in Sept. is just a Tuesday is November. We get used to the struggle. #data #LeadLAP
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
    A7: Here are my best suggestions for staying healthy, mind~body~spirit! https://t.co/pDh8rXHkn3 @FreeSpiritBooks #leadlap
  • MrsLedford6Eng Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
    A7: I try to leave everyday remembering one positive of the day. This is a small thing but it helps! #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
    This is such an important thing to remind our newer teachers! They are often the ones who say yes to everything! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @Hahne_Elyse
  • MrCoachEli Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
    A7 Feeding off their resiliency and relationship I have with them. It’s a whole lot harder to be negative or dislike someone you actually know and invest in #LeadLAP
  • Coach_Rudy Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
    A7: Compassion fatigue is real. I have found it is critical to understand our limits and when to refer and how to connect needy students to quality resources. I can not do it all. I also focus on the highlights of student supports to keep my bucket full. #LeadLAP
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    I think we have a national teacher shortage& some might say teacher attendance issue b/c our profession is not well. We need change #leadlap
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    A7: Remember to put your mask on first! #leadlap
  • staci_erickson2 Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    A5- be understanding that emergency situations come up. Understand they have a family of their own. Give them the support and resources they need to get them job done. #leadlap
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    Remember: "No" is a complete sentence. #LeadLAP
    In reply to @APKRentz, @Hahne_Elyse
  • staci_erickson2 Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    A1- showing kindness to others #leadlap
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    A7 DOCUMENT! Notes, charts, etc. can help you SEE the progress if you lose sight. A crazy day in Sept. is just a Tuesday in November. We get used to the struggle. #data #LeadLAP
  • NowakRo Dec 9 @ 11:22 AM EST
    Take two minutes out of every day and count your blessings. You will see just how much love is in this world. Let’s remember to share our blessings with others. #bekindEDU #kidsdeserveit #tlap #LeadLAP #edchat #JoyfulLeaders #satchat #masterychat #kindness #blessings #grateful
  • Coach_Rudy Dec 9 @ 11:23 AM EST
    A1: In addition our teachers share some common language through advisory we can refer to in core classes- we also have a strong student voice and leadership piece- our JRs & SRs hell teach the freshman advisory lessons. #leadlap
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:23 AM EST
    I have an 8 year old nephew and 6 year old niece. They are the ones who can instantly bring me joy! #LeadLAP
    In reply to @principledlady
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:23 AM EST
    A7: Honestly, if I needed a pick me up, I’d scrap the day’s lesson plan and devote our day to creating art using a variety of mediums and connecting it with what I’d initially planned. The kids and I both benefited. #LeadLAP
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 11:23 AM EST
    A5. Encouraging teachers to be lifetime learners, joining PLNs, sharing books, aggressively promoting professional development, social interaction, and exercise programs are important ways of indicating: We value growth, we value wellness. #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:24 AM EST
    Question 8 - Please see the picture prompt. #LeadLAP
  • Hahne_Elyse Dec 9 @ 11:24 AM EST
    I am a YES person at school but try really hard not to take much home often. During the week, school stays at school. Weekends are precious and I only access work about 1x a month on weekends too. It works for me. #leadlap
    In reply to @APKRentz
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:24 AM EST
    Thanks @APKRentz for steering the #LeadLAP crew today! Enjoy your weekend everyone!
  • nbartley6 Dec 9 @ 11:24 AM EST
    A7 I stay connected w/amazing leaders who bring it every day even when it's hard & now trying more than ever to spread their positivity in our building-@burgessdave @JayBilly2 & @BethHouf gave out of this world passion pep talks for the Ts/admin I work with #leadlap
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:24 AM EST
    RTQ7: Helping students through their struggles can take its toll. How do you ensure you stay positive? #LeadLAP Journaling helps me reflect and focus on what went well. Celebrate small victories!
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:24 AM EST
    Very much so! Read this on generosity burnout. It’s fascinating. #leadlap https://t.co/8k0DmPwx6W
    • Coach_Rudy Dec 9 @ 11:21 AM EST
      A7: Compassion fatigue is real. I have found it is critical to understand our limits and when to refer and how to connect needy students to quality resources. I can not do it all. I also focus on the highlights of student supports to keep my bucket full. #LeadLAP
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:25 AM EST
    A7: By taking time for me to relax and lots of reading to keep my inspiration & ideas flowing #LeadLAP
  • mydesk_not Dec 9 @ 11:25 AM EST
    A2: 🏗Building relationships with & amongst Ss is one of the most impt things we can do to in turn build our classroom and school climate. As @PeterMDeWitt stated "School climate is actually the plate that everything else has to go on." #LeadLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:25 AM EST
    A8: Having a Ss in gr 9 tell me he was going to drop out. By the time I had him 4 years later in Gr 12 he was applying for college. Lots of important convos with him. #bestjobintheworld #LeadLAP
  • bmilla84 Dec 9 @ 11:25 AM EST
    A7: Everyday is a fresh new start! Model positivity w/ words, tone, & actions! Look for the good in every situation! #LeadLAP
  • drmcclard Dec 9 @ 11:25 AM EST
    A8 best moment is a student reaching back out to me to tell me the impact I had on his life. #betterThanTheSalary #LEADlap
  • RIsaacRivas Dec 9 @ 11:25 AM EST
    Excellent! I’m new to the area. I’m sure I’ll find my way! I’ll be your official hanger-on attendee! #LeadLap
    In reply to @abney45, @MrCoachEli, @APKRentz
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:26 AM EST
    A8: Because I am back in the area I taught for six years, I see former students regularly. They are hard-working folks doing a great job of raising their children. Reward enough for me. #LeadLAP
  • BarbaraGruener Dec 9 @ 11:26 AM EST
    A8: Some years back, I got to right a wrong, to make a LONG overdue apology to a student from 20 years earlier, at Homecoming, on the 50 yard line. Such a growing experience! https://t.co/uEUidwmMRH #leadlap
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:26 AM EST
    We need to stop the false narrative that our work is so selfless that we don’t need adequate compensation, more respect, and honor. #leadlap
  • drjonesie17 Dec 9 @ 11:26 AM EST
    A6: Communicate with families about positive things happening with their children at school & keep asking for feedback and suggestions as often as possible. #LeadLAP
  • johnccarver Dec 9 @ 11:26 AM EST
    Greetings and food morning #satchat and #leadlap colleagues!
  • HarveyAlvy1 Dec 9 @ 11:27 AM EST
    A5. Thru personal example teachers need to see how important family and friendships are, to create and shape a culture that values relationships. If leaders are not well, then folks see unhealthy, toxic behaviors which hurt the culture. #LeadLAP
  • mexusmx Dec 9 @ 11:27 AM EST
    A8: In my first administrative position, I was part of a team that really built back trust in the school and doubled enrollment while building a vibrant HS program. #leadlap
  • mospillman Dec 9 @ 11:27 AM EST
    A8 Every success is my favorite. 😊When the non-readers pick up a book on their own, that’s pretty amazing. #Leadlap
  • HartofLearning Dec 9 @ 11:27 AM EST
    RTQ8: Share a success story from your teaching career. #LeadLAP My favorite success has been from implementing Number Talks. https://t.co/Ple90bo8rp It's great to see students struggle and see the lightbulbs go off. We celebrate mistakes as well, which is awesome.
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 11:27 AM EST
    Sorry my friends, but not a great signal in the wrestling gym this morning! Missed some of the awesome but will dig back into all your great ideas soon! Keep sharing your #leadlap ideas all week long!
  • principledlady Dec 9 @ 11:27 AM EST
    A7: when I feel depleted I go to my gratitude journal. I play my flute. I pray. I sing. I look at my grandson and he reminds me that life is wonderful and joy is all around us. It's not all about me #leadlap
  • JayBilly2 Dec 9 @ 11:28 AM EST
    Join me on Sunday morning at 8:30 - 9:00 AM ET for #LeadLAPMass - The Book Study -as we discuss Going for Greatness and Pirate Leadership #LeadLAP #tlap #LearnLAP
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:28 AM EST
    Thank you #LeadLAP crew for an excellent chat! Thank you @burgess_shelley & @BethHouf for allowing me to guest host today! #blessed
  • latoyadixon5 Dec 9 @ 11:28 AM EST
    I know beyond a shadow of a doubt I’ve made a difference. I’m concerned about the future of our profession as a whole. #leadlap
  • SteinbrinkLaura Dec 9 @ 11:28 AM EST
    A8: When Ss come back or reach out after graduation to tell me that ___ helped them in college or that ___was their fav class or they miss it...#DayMaker #LeadLAP
  • sklespitz Dec 9 @ 11:28 AM EST
    A8: Anytime that I can make a student laugh, smile, or feel better about themselves and welcome in the school is what I consider to be a success story. #LeadLap
  • BethHouf - Moderator Dec 9 @ 11:28 AM EST
    Thank you for the amazing conversation! Honored to have you steer the ship! #LeadLap
    In reply to @APKRentz, @burgess_shelley
  • APKRentz Dec 9 @ 11:29 AM EST
    Thank you! Any time! I love #LeadLAP chats!
    In reply to @BethHouf, @burgess_shelley
  • abney45 Dec 9 @ 11:29 AM EST
    Thanks @APKRentz for a great #LeadLAP! Have a great weekend, evreyone - off to basketball!