#gfedchat Archive

Monday March 6, 2017
9:30 PM EST
  • participatechat Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
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  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 9:30 PM EST
    Melissa Buchhop, 4th grade Century, My family makes me happy! #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
    Melinda Blakeman, Century Elementary, Reading Specialist - my dogs make me pretty happy :) #saintbernards #gfedchat
  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
    Terry Arason, Head Start, My family makes me happy :) #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
    Lori Skattum, Wilder, SLP, my family and friends #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
    Joel Schleicher, Director of Technology, Traveling with my family makes me happy #gfedchat
  • LisaHoplin Mar 6 @ 9:31 PM EST
    Lisa Hoplin, Head Start. My family makes me happy! And... choclolate #gfedchat
  • susankorynta1 Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
    #gfedchat Susan Korynta South middle school, ELL. Right now my baby goats.
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Ann Freund, Kelly Grade 2 #gfedchat
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Rachelle Corbin, 3rd grade Discovery, reading a book on a beach makes me happy. #gfedchat
  • HuntingBare Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
    #gfedchat Michael Bare, Discovery PE Hunting
  • whitneyjo07 Mar 6 @ 9:32 PM EST
    Whitney Wolf- kindergarten- Discovery. Sunshine makes me Happy. 🌞#gfedchat
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Kari Hearn sped Central HS spending time with fam at the lake #gfedchat
  • RhondaVarriano Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Rhonda Varriano, Kelly, Reading Recovery, my family and friends make me happy:0) #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Kari Melland, Tech Partner Discovery & Phoenix, Singing in the car on road trips makes me happy :) #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Elizabeth Berger, Second Grade, Twining, my family makes me happy:)#gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Britta Hanson, Elem Tech Partner, Spending time with my family & friends make me happy! #gfedchat
  • amandasev1 Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Amanda Sevigny, Century, 1st Grade, Summer makes me happy. #gfedchat
  • llahaise1 Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Lori LaHaise, SLP at Head Start, being with my family and great food makes me happy! #gfedchat
  • MThompsonHS Mar 6 @ 9:33 PM EST
    Michelle Thompson, Head Start, my family, dogs and friends make me happy😀 #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 9:34 PM EST
    Kevin Carney - Red River...family, friends and being on a golf course in late June makes me happy...#gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 9:34 PM EST
    Matt Solberg. South Middle School Technology and Engineering. Being outside and my kids. #gfedchat
  • KatieHillestad Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Katie Hillestad, BF music. Spending time with family and friends makes me happy...and eating dessert ha #gfedchat
  • molson21212 Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Melissa Olson, Wilder SpEd, family, friends, seeing students succeed, and the outdoors! #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
    A really really good workout makes me happy #gfedchat :) :)
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Nancy Greenwood Central HS Art My family and friends make me happy- but most of all my grandchildren make me happy .#gfedchat
  • _aliparkinson Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Ali Parkinson, Discovery principal Cadbury mini eggs make me happy #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 9:35 PM EST
    Val Moch - RRHS (English) - a good night's sleep, my kids giggling, and a cold Dr. Pepper! :) #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
    Q1 #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
    Jen Starcevic, elementary Spanish, happy=watching my kids' activities, summer, and sunshine! 😎 #gfedchat
  • torgerson_matt Mar 6 @ 9:36 PM EST
    Matt Torgerson; Valley; 6th Grade Music; My wife told me I had to say that it is her that makes me happy #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:37 PM EST
    Cierra Hangsleben 4th Grade Teacher at Discovery. My family, friends, & helping others makes me happy! #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
    A1: I like to think this is getting better w/ our education changing. More choice, flexibility, and exploration in classrooms #gfedchat
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 9:38 PM EST
    Sindy Larson, GFC-French, laughing with my kiddos. #gfedchat
  • HuntingBare Mar 6 @ 9:39 PM EST
    #gfedchat A1:sitting at the table to eat, putting dishes in the dishwasher, doing laundry
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 9:39 PM EST
    A1:As kids we all were given a set of ideas and principles to shape and guide us....they may not be accurate today however.....#gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 9:39 PM EST
    Marina Kojic Head Start #gfedchat
  • RhondaVarriano Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
    A1:My parents believed in the golden rule-Treat others the way you want to be treated valuable in our relationships w/S's as well. #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
    A1: being told , not very much choice, one way of doing something .. Aware, yes... #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
    A1: chores, expectations -- I have expectations in my classroom, but not "chores." (My 5yrold has "class jobs") #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
    Jennifer Neil from 3rd grade at Kelly joining. My family and friends make me happy. #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:40 PM EST
    A1: New to this topic but I think it means valuing hard work, use good manners, listening to others, doing what needs to be done #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 9:41 PM EST
    A1- Sitting quietly at a desk all day in school. #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 9:41 PM EST
    A1: We respected our parents and did as we were told--no arguement. #gfedchat
  • susankorynta1 Mar 6 @ 9:41 PM EST
    A1: Also new to this one. Watching the responses and googling it. #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 9:41 PM EST
    A1: my parents modeled and expected hard work, being on time, & respecting others. These values have stuck with me. #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
    Q2 #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
    A1: Manners and how to be respectful. These are two things that I hope my own children and Ss learn as well. #gfedchat
  • Grade2Connect Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
    A1: cleaning up after myself, doing your best, being kind to others, respecting adults #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
    A1: In school, we domesticate Ss w/ procedures walk in the hall, places to be quiet, places to listen, how to share, to include #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 9:42 PM EST
    A1: following the "rules", being on time, always doing your best #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    Jessie Erickson, CTP South, Family and running makes me happy #gfedchat
  • kmuus12 Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    A1 Following rules, respecting adults #gfedchat
  • _aliparkinson Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    A1: Had to google the term to better understand the ques. In my childhood, would have stayed quiet if I didn't know=domestication #gfedchat
  • molson21212 Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    A1: We learned rules, had guidelines & chores. Now ss and I make a list of expectations & they receive choices when working:) #gfedchat
  • LorenHoheisel Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    A1: My parents modeled values, morals, & led with love. It's great seeing my parents teach the same values to my children. #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    A1: household chores, respecting adults, the golden rule, etc. #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 9:43 PM EST
    A1: Parents pushied using manners and being respectful. Always living by the phrase "what would Grandma think"? #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    Yes we domesticate with a lot of compliance. #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A2: Yes, I think dreaming during the day allows us to set goals. What do I want to achieve. #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A2: I agree. I think we constantly think about situations & what might happen. We think about scenarios #gfedchat
  • susankorynta1 Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A2: #gfedchat Definately 'specially when you catch yourself deeply thinkning about something and the world disappears.
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A1: Doing the right thing, following rules, helping where/when I can is expected, not questioning authority. #gfedchat
  • whitneyjo07 Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A2: Yes. Students are always wondering, I feel like this is part of dreaming!#gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A2: Biologically yes....brain waves in REM sleep look the same as brain waves fully awake...sleep cleans house, adds focus..#gfedchat
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A1: I remember the cafeteria stoplight, that if it went to red meant we were on silence. #gfedchat #onlytimetotalk
  • molson21212 Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A2: I feel that our minds are constantly going indeed, it maybe dreaming or focusing on tasks. #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:44 PM EST
    A1: Expectations were to be honest, respectful, & responsible. Yes, I'm aware of my expectations for Ss. But Ss help set ours too! #gfedchat
  • KatieHillestad Mar 6 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A1: respect others and be confident in myself. I hope I teach these things too #gfedchat
  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 9:45 PM EST
    Q2 Yes, we "daydream" daily. Pleasant thoughts and distractions.#gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A2-Yes, I think we dream when we are awake. #gfedchat
  • amandasev1 Mar 6 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A2 Yes, I daydream all the time. :-) #gfedchat
  • KatieHillestad Mar 6 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A2: Yes, my mind is always dreaming of something! #gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 9:45 PM EST
    A1 Raised as being respectful, no talking back, as a teacher give choices to students, expect my students to be respectful #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A1: Manners, religion and social norms are all domestications. Some are good for society function, some are not necessary. #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A2: Yes I believe that. It is very RARELY my mind is thinking absolutely nothing! Wish I had a nothing box sometimes 😂 #gfedchat
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A2: Yes, I think so. I know I visualize a goal, and often replay the situation in my head. #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A2: I think so. What would life be without dreams? It gives us hope for new opportunities. #gfedchat
  • kmuus12 Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A2 Yes, I think we are always thinking of things that we want to do and things that would make us happy. #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A1 #gfedchat: SGalegher RR school, church, relatives all shared ideals to follow and strive for
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    a2: yes I think our brain is dreaming all the time.constantly thinking about what just happened, someth that will be happening etc #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A2 I think we want to dream all the time but many times are tasked with "to do" instead of what we WANT/DREAM to do. #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 9:46 PM EST
    A2: I think so, maybe not specifically dreaming, but thinking, wondering, imagining, etc. #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
    Q3 is coming... #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
    A2: I believe it! That's why it's so hard for people to "live in the moment!" #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
    A2: I've found myself daydreaming frequently lately...especially when procrastinating completing progress notes :) #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
    A2: I hope that we are dreaming all the time: How can I/we make this better? Who will this help? What would I rather be doing? #gfedchat
  • khanson54 Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
    A2, Yes, dreaming while awake is where our best ideas come from #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 9:47 PM EST
    A2: #gfedchat Absolutely agree w/ dreaming, The brain is replaying & filing our day away & memories
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:48 PM EST
    Q3 #gfedchat
  • teacher_cav Mar 6 @ 9:48 PM EST
    #gfedchat Katie Cavalli, Kelly Elementary, Special Ed
  • RhondaVarriano Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
    A2:Absolutely! dreaming when we are asleep. Dreaming while awake...place goals within reach and working for it them! #gfedchat
  • LorenHoheisel Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
    A2: For sure! Especially when I'm driving (scary, right?) Imagine how many Ss do the same thing throughout the day? #gfedchat
  • MThompsonHS Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
    my best ideas come while in the shower! #gfedchat
    In reply to @khanson54
  • teacher_cav Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
    #gfedchat A3: showing others that you are reliable and trustworthy
  • susankorynta1 Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
    A3: #gfedchat People know your character by how you act and speak.
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
    A3: #gfedchat a word out of context or said w/ wrong intonation can break a Ss and also harm a teacher
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    A3: Words are power, they linger in our memory for long periods of time.....always cautious in what I say, and how I say it...#gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    #gfedchat
    • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:49 PM EST
      A3: ohhhh so important..say what your going to do & do what you say your going to do. Kids depend on us, the follow through matters #gfechat
  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    Q3 Words are powerful..as educators we can inspire or destroy with one statement.#gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    A3: "Think before you speak". Words are powerful, give meaning, and provoke feelings. It's important to be mindful of what we say. #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    A3: Kids remember what you say and it can make a huge difference in their life....both good and bad and you may not even know it. #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    A2: That's when I come up with my best ideas #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
    A3: say what you mean and mean what you say. Kids will remember...both the intentionally positive and harsh things that slip #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: It is very easy to get caught up in things that aren't important. People remember what you say and how it makes them feel #gfedchat
  • LorenHoheisel Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: Not always what you say, it's how you say it. Speak with truth. #gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A2 yes constantly we process the world around us, expolore, create new things, think of all the possibilities #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: we want Ss, Ts, and parents to trust us. We need to model this so Ss can understand & implement. Words are powerful #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: Powerful because our words have an uncanny like power! They can either hurt or help. Either way they are NOT erasable! #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: Your words show others who you are. Ss remember your words. #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: As it's said, "Let your 'yes' mean 'yes' and your 'no' mean 'no!'" Be honest, but be compassionate. #gfedchat
  • LisaHoplin Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3 Why important? We want our students to trust us! #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 9:51 PM EST
    A3: Exactly! Work and home life. #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A3: Honesty is the best policy and to be kind with what you say #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
    Yes words are POWER! Impt for Ts to remember how words stay w/ Ss & for Ss to choose words carefully for the same reason #gfedchat
    • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 9:50 PM EST
      A3: Words are power, they linger in our memory for long periods of time.....always cautious in what I say, and how I say it...#gfedchat
  • khanson54 Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A3 Words are used to lift someone up or tear someone down. Teacher need to be lifters. #gfedchat
  • MThompsonHS Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A3 Words have a lot of power and can make either a negative or positive impact #gfedchat
  • amandasev1 Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A3 What you say has a strong impact on students. They will remember how your words made them feel. #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 9:52 PM EST
    A2: Dreaming is the human creative and innovative mindset. It the problem solving and seeking solutions. Yes, we dream! #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
    Q4 is coming... #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A3: I ❤ the wrinkled heart act. for kids to SEE the power of words! Wrinkles can be "flattened" but never erased! Speak kindly! #gfedchat
  • Grade2Connect Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A3: The power of words...they stay with us for a long time. We can build up or tear down quickly with our words. #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A3-Be careful what you say. #gfedchat
  • llahaise1 Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A3: Our words do carry a lot of weight with our Ss. Using our words to bring someone up and finding the positives really matter. #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:53 PM EST
    A3 I think a class culture could be positively changed if Ss really knew the power of their words & chose words more carefully. #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:54 PM EST
    Q4 #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 9:54 PM EST
    A3: Bottom line, TRUST. It is vital to be honest and trustworthy. If you are a person that is not honest, you will lose respect. #gfedchat
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 9:54 PM EST
    A3: People will never forget how you made them feel be kind #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
    A3: sorry one more piece. For Ss & Ts, even more so the words we chose to speak but HOW we speak them can be the difference! #gfedchat
  • susankorynta1 Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
    A4: #gfedchat That is really hard for me to do. "Nobody can hurt me without my permission" Ghandi
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
    Absolutely agree #gfedchat
    • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
      A3: sorry one more piece. For Ss & Ts, even more so the words we chose to speak but HOW we speak them can be the difference! #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 9:55 PM EST
    Q4: I think taking things personally is something we are naturally guilty of in the midwest. Almost an extreme-empathy, maybe? #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    Q4: Professional disagreements or challenges btwn colleagues are hardly ever personal attacks. We're all steel sharpening steel! #gfedchat
  • MThompsonHS Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A4 - Ts may take it personally when Ss say "I hate you" or call them names in an angry outburst #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A4: Tough one, especially when their is no trust (1st agreement). When we are caring and trustworthy, the rest falls into place. #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A4:Feel like everybody takes things personally now, and it stunts growth. Negative feedback can be the key to needed improvements.#gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A4:if a student is in crisis, it is easy to take what they say personally. Changing perspective=help the child through the crisis #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A4 Step back & realize a different perspective & how the speaker is experiencing the situation differently than me, the teacher. #gfedchat
  • teacher_cav Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    #gfedchat A4: when Ss don't respond the way you had hoped or expected, you have to remember your role
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 9:56 PM EST
    A3: Student misbehavior or bad attitudes. Ask the questions: Where is this coming from? What's going on? What do you need? #gfedchat
  • LorenHoheisel Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4: As long as what needs to happen is what's best for Ss, we have to respectly agree to disagree; should always be kid centered. #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4-When students tantrum try not to take their behavior personally. #gfedchat
  • KatieHillestad Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4: I'm working on this one...it's tough to see from another perspective but I know it will help if I keep trying #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4: People often lash out at those who are familiar or close to them. This trust often lends itself to verbal attacks....#gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4a: It is hard sometimes to not take things personally. Being confident in yourself and showing empathy can help #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4: This is something I'm continually working on! Q-tip! #gfedchat
  • HuntingBare Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    #gfedchat A4: changing perspective can give you a new way of thinking, A better appreciation for something
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4: #gfedchat When you put your heart & soul into your work it can be hard to not take it personally
  • Grade2Connect Mar 6 @ 9:57 PM EST
    A4: Put your own feelings aside and dig deeper into why a S or T says or does something. Empathy-put yourself in their shoes. #gfedchat
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
    A4: Student misbehavior or bad attitudes. Ask the questions: Where is this coming from? What's going on? What do you need? #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
    A4: I think teachers often take change (in curriculum, etc) personally: "what I'm doing is not good enough???" #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
    I agree! I'm always working on this one. #gfedchat
    In reply to @sgalegher120
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 9:58 PM EST
    A4: I don't like when someone says something mean me-getting better and thicker skin, but I don't like it-why would a S. #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
    Q5 is coming... #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
    Esp. when given by someone you trust and it is given with kindness! Kindness - now that is key! #gfedchat
    In reply to @mattsolberg22
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
    A4: As teachers we are always reflecting, and personalize a lot. It's usually once we look past ourselves we really grow #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
    A4: Ross Green book study is helping a lot with changing perspectives #lostatschool #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 9:59 PM EST
    A4: I feel this is dependent on the relationships we have w/ Ss & Ts! If we feel trusted we aren't as likely to take it personally #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST
    Q5 #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST
    A4: Name-calling, critiquing work, group interactions can be taken personally. Hearing the message is a hard, but more powerful. #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 10:00 PM EST
    A4: often those hard changes are what help us grow from good to great! #gfedchat
  • susankorynta1 Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
    A5: #gfedchat This also works in any relationship (exp. marriage). People can't read your mind.
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
    A5: It can damage relationships. It can also make your day miserable. Most of the time, your assumption is wrong #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
    A5 Making assumptions makes my family on the defensive. I should ask for clarity instead of assuming I know what's going on. #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
    A5: Asking questions to clarify is so important! Some people are better at expressing themselves than others #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:01 PM EST
    A5: #gfedchat Never assume S understand lesson w/out checking. Communication between all good listening & repeating is key
  • kmuus12 Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
    A5 Check for understanding. That way you know instead of assuming. #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
    A5: lots of misunderstanding / misconceptions happen /can happen when we assume #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
    A5: Quick to judge or assess often leaves important pieces of info out of the equation, let things develop and mature then respond.#gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
    A5: Making assumptions leads to suffering because you may not have heard the whole message or purpose, and take something personal #gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
    A4 sometimes students can have an anger outburst and say things that they don't , they are in emotional stage #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
    A5 #gfedchat please excuse this but assume makes an a-- out of me & you.
  • teacher_cav Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
    #gfedchat A5: making assumptions is like setting expectations, which can set yourself up for failure
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
    A4: In crisis/neg situations important to know it's not directed towards you, you might just be the lucky person there at the time #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
    A5: Yikes! Many examples... Assumptions cause misunderstandings, and bad feelings. Never assume - ask and seek understanding. #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
    A5 Sometimes it appears that Ss doesn't care when really, if T or parent clarified, the whole situation would be clearer. #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
    A5: We don't always know what home life is like for our Ss so we need to be careful to not make quick assumptions #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    I definitely think agreements 2 and 3 often go hand in hand!!! #gfedchat
    • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:02 PM EST
      A5: Making assumptions leads to suffering because you may not have heard the whole message or purpose, and take something personal #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    A5-It is never as bad as you assume that it is. Communication is key. #gfedchat
  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    Q5 Can cause unnecessary sadness, hard feelings, anger. Communication is key #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    A5: When Ss come to class angry and they take it out on you don't assume its you until you ask whats wrong Lots going on at home #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    A5: Very rarely has assuming anything gotten mysef or my Ss a step closer to success! 99% of the time it has a negative impact! #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    I agree, they are all very linked! #gfedchat
    In reply to @JenStarcevic
  • amandasev1 Mar 6 @ 10:04 PM EST
    A5 #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
    Q6 is coming... #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
    So true...Ask to understand, not to judge, is so crucial for this agreement #gfedchat
    • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:03 PM EST
      A5: Yikes! Many examples... Assumptions cause misunderstandings, and bad feelings. Never assume - ask and seek understanding. #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 10:05 PM EST
    A5: Every time I see this on the internet, I am reminded not to assume. Everyone has their own feelings/ideas. #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
    Q6 #gfedchat
  • molson21212 Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
    A5: Ugh, its never good to assume, always clarify by letting others share their thoughts and asking questions. #gfedchat
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
    A5: you know what happens when you "assume" you make an "ass" out of "u" and "me" 😉lol kind of funny I once heard and stuck #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 10:06 PM EST
    A6: Growth Mindset. Always keep trying/ keep going. You know you have done your best when you feel good about what you did #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
    A6: By investing in what you do, shows that you value your work and contribution to others. Bring your best to what you undertake. #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
    A6:#gfedchat Transformation would come when have done best & even if not what expected would still be able to give self pat on back & dream
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:07 PM EST
    A6 Put forth MY best effort, not necessarily better than everyone else. It's not a competition. Be the best I can be. #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST
    A6: It's important 2 do ur best in all u do. I'm learning that best doesn't = perfect. Sometimes it means saying "good enough". #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST
    A6: When you have nothing left in the tank, no regrets and you did everything you could then your best is out there for all to see.#gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST
    A6: It's hard for me not to do my best. Some days my best is better than others, but I always try. Again, modeling this is good #gfedchat.
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:08 PM EST
    A6: Subscribing to a growth or innovator's mindset will force us to do our best & serve us well personally and professionally. #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
    A6 :#gfedchat tomorrow will be even better for Ss, fellow Co workers, family & even me. Then am transformed. Each day new beginning
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 10:09 PM EST
    You know when you've done your best internally let your conscience be your guide #gfedchat
  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
    Q6 You don't always have to be the best, just strive to be better than you were yesterday. #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
    A6: You feel a sense of pride and accomplishment knowing you did your best...you can FEEL it #gfedchat
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
    A6: The feeling of accomplishment when I really try hard and succeed at something. #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
    A6-You have a feeling of accomplishment after you are done. That's when you know you have done your best. You feel good about it. #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:10 PM EST
    A6 Believe others are also working with their best intentions & efforts, not to un-do or compromise my efforts. #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
    A6: I talk about this with my students/athletes on a daily basis. If it's worth doing, it's worth doing your best! #gfedchat
  • Grade2Connect Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
    A6: Doing your best gives you the confidence to do more. It's a sense of pride and accomplishment. #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
    A6: I think my stress level would be so much lower if I just accepted that it was my best at that moment (because I really do try) #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
    A6: doing your best, competing against yourself is the best judgement of this , effort, open- mind #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
    A6: As a Teacher, Coach & Mother, I preach this! We only get 1 life & I don't want to 👀 back & say I wish I had tried harder! #gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 10:11 PM EST
    A6 you feel good when you try your best, no regrets, modeling for Ss, we always ask them to their best #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:12 PM EST
    Q7 #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 10:12 PM EST
    A6: Striving to be the best person that you can be, in all situations, is important. #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 10:12 PM EST
    A6: I've never thought of the fact that "my best" is different from moment to moment, and that's okay! #gfedchat
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 10:12 PM EST
    A6: I like the idea of no regrets=you put forth your best effort #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
    A7:Sometimes it is difficult to bounce back after a bad day. But we have to remember tomorrow is a new day #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 10:13 PM EST
    A7: They should be easy. I think we would all be happier and less judgmental if they were always followed #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
    A7: They're common sense ideas but r often overlooked when life gets busy. Remembering them puts u back in control of ur life. #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
    A7 My feelings will be hurt less if I don't assume & take things personally. Ask to understand & move forward. #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 10:14 PM EST
    A7: Keeping these four agreements in the back of your head allows you to keep pushing for improvements in your teaching. #gfedchat
  • EduGladiators Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    💡This week, #EduGladiators series "4Cs of Success" continues with CRITICAL THINKING! #gfedchat #ILedchat #ALedchat #EdTechAfterDark #ssdedu
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    A7: can be difficult,we are Human :) but if we do our best to follow them,no doubt makes us better at our marriages,jobs,parenting #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    A7: MODEL: If we expect the 4 agreements of our students and colleagues, we need to expect the same of ourselves. #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    A7: I'm able to not take things personally from Ss so much, however, adults can be another story... #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    A7: I feel these are hard in this day and age. If I knew everyone was "following" the 4 agmnts it would be easier to understand eo #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    A7: The simplest ideas are often the best guideposts when it comes to being fair, honest and real..sometimes the obvious gets lost.#gfedchat
  • Grade2Connect Mar 6 @ 10:15 PM EST
    A7: It's often a roller coaster ride! But daily reminders and positive self talk can help you stay focused on them. #gfedchat
  • llahaise1 Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A6: If you've done your best then you can avoid self judgement and any regret about your performance. #gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A7 we, as educators are expected to live this way, it should be our motto, Four agreements is a great reminder of it #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A7: Keeping them in the back of my head or have a poster made would be great to remind ourselves #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A7 Teach the 4 Agreements to Ss. Wouldn't they benefit from applying the agreements in school, home, work etc? #gfedchat
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A7: happier healthier/less stressed teacher and students if you keep these in mind #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A7: I just read an article on how unmet expectations kill relationships. I feel w/ the 4 agreements we could all be on same page! #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:16 PM EST
    A7: Sometimes we get caught up in the day to day demands and forget what we value: Student engagement and learning (for me). #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
    Q8 is coming... #gfedchat
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
    A7: I definitely think some are easier than others. Being aware and trying to practice them will definitely make us better #gfedchat
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 10:17 PM EST
    A7: They fit well into the pillars of citizenship and help to build a positive classroom environment. #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
    Q8 #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
    A7 #gfedchat Each day is a new day & chance for transformation as we learn from each life experience
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 10:18 PM EST
    A8: Do your research. Don't just blindly agree unless you understand. Listen to learn, not just listen to respond. #gfedchat
  • teacher_cav Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    #gfedchat A8: be openminded and learn from others, but also consider other perspectives
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    A8: Don't believe everything you hear. Find out the whole truth before add your thoughts #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    A8: Anyone can post anything on the internet. Need to question and research to tell the real from the fake #gfedchat
  • molson21212 Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    A8: anyone can be a teacher and/or a student when given the opportunity and time:) #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    Old saying - "If you don't stand for something, you fall for anything....be aware, but open-minded, honor your principles...#gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    A8: We teach our Ss all the time to form the own opinions. Be open-minded but don't believe everything you read or hear #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:19 PM EST
    A8: #gfedchat always question what you hear but do not jump on it until you listen & learn what is behind the statement or comment
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    Q8: be a good listener, take everything with a grain of salt, find out things for yourself and form your own opinion #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: Don't leap to assumptions. Listen first, but be willing to ask good questions to seek a better understanding. #gfedchat
  • amandasev1 Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8 Don't take everything at face value Don't assume everything is right or correct Be willing to change if you're wrong #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: This is HUGE right now w/all the comments about fake media. We truly have to Q is this true? w/ the media & our own thoughts. #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: There is so much for us to listen to and analyze as citizens. In our busy world slowing down to hear others is necessary. #gfedchat
  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    Q8 Ask questions but be open to change, innovation and willing to try things a new/different way. #gfedchat
  • LorenHoheisel Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: In our world today, it's so important to be informed & open to conversations. We do have 2 ears & 1 mouth for a reason! #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: We JUST discussed this in class during Genius Hour today & challenging/?ing information found while researching! #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: Listen to learn -learn to listen don't believe everything you hear. #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8-This is so important since we get so much information from the internet. #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    Q8: question and problem solve to form own opinion, don't believe everything you see / hear #gfedchat
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 10:20 PM EST
    A8: know the whole truth but having an open door #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
    A8 Listen to understand, not to respond & listen for the INTENT of the speaker. Is this a fact?An opinion?Trying to persuade me? #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
    A8: Don't believe everything that you read/see. Many perspectives shared on social media, we need to question &challenge thinking. #gfedchat
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 10:21 PM EST
    A8: There two sides to every story. #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST
    A8: to me personally it speaks: find the purpose! What is the purpose behind what is being shared & how it's being shared! #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:22 PM EST
    Love this ! Can't wait to learn about this #gfedchat
  • sindylarson Mar 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
    A8: There are two sides to every story. Do the research for yourself, not to blindly follow. #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 10:23 PM EST
    A8: Understand that in the "real world," there are liars and deceivers disguised as trustworthy speakers - Learn 2 be cautious! #gfedchat
  • leslyethiery Mar 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
    Q9 #gfedchat
  • MsBlakeman Mar 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
    A9: I connect with do you best. I try to do that every day. The hardest is not to take things personally #gfedchat
  • kmuus12 Mar 6 @ 10:24 PM EST
    A8 Get all the facts and then make your decision! #gfedchat
  • MrsFreund1 Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
    A9: best foot forward in everything i do ... but take things personally a little to much #gfedchat
  • nikerunnerblue Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
    A9 - Being skeptical in this day and age is a 21st Century necessity....listen, learn and know as many facts as possible....#gfedchat
  • KJWirt Mar 6 @ 10:25 PM EST
    A9 that's tough because I feel all of them can be difficult at times and other times rather easy/natural #gfedchat
  • amandasev1 Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9 I connect with do you best I feel like you should do something well or not at all. The hardest Don't take things personally #gfedchat
  • buchhop25 Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9: I connect most with always being your best. Hardest is to not assume. Need to always step back and see the whole picture #gfedchat
  • sgalegher120 Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9: Hardest-Don't take it personally. Connect with: Always do your best #gfedchat
  • KariMelland Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9 I most connect to Be impeccable with your word. Whole-heartedly embrace that...but need to work on take things personally. #gfedchat
  • BergerElizabeth Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9-5 is easiest for me. #gfedchat
  • Marinakojic3 Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9 Connect with do my best and working on #2 not taking things personally #gfedchat
  • JenNeil12 Mar 6 @ 10:26 PM EST
    A9: Don't make assumptions. Ask questions, clarify, and communicate as clearly as you can #gfedchat
  • Greenwood4Nancy Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9: Get the facts first-- Need to work on taking things personally #gfedchat
  • Grade2Connect Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A8: Don't take anything personally. This is one that I continue to work on. #gfedchat
  • kmuus12 Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9 connect the most with always doing your best..most challenging is not taking everything personally. #gfedchat
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9: I connect most to be impeccable with your word bc that is what I value of others. I respect those who can say what they mean. #gfedchat
  • bmhanson7 Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9: I connected with always do your best. (instilled by my parents) I need to work on don't make assumptions (positive thinking) #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9: easiest for me #4 always do my best; hardest to fulfill #2 don't take anything personally #gfedchat
  • rcorbin040 Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9: I connect with both be impeccable with your words, and doing your best. Working on assumptions #gfedchat
  • SkattumSLP Mar 6 @ 10:27 PM EST
    A9: Don't take anything personally. I constantly remind myself this daily! #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
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  • tarason67 Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
    A9 Connect with always try to do my best and working on not taking things too personally. #gfedchat
  • MsHTrailblazers Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
    A9: All=essential to success! Hardest is not taking things personally. I'm my hardest critic & self-conf. is a work in progress! #gfedchat
  • mattsolberg22 Mar 6 @ 10:28 PM EST
    A9: Probably the second. I have found that taking things personally for too long is very harmful to your health and well being. #gfedchat
  • mrs_moch Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
    A9: For some reason, "Always Do Your Best." I tend to be harsh on myself when "my best" does not equal "perfection" #gfedchat
  • JessieRErickson Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
    A9: I connect with "Doing my best", hard work is valued and was as a child. I struggle with "Don't take things personally" #gfedchat
  • joelschleicher - Moderator Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
    Thank you for @leslyethiery for moderating tonight's #gfedchat Great thoughts and discussion as always!
    In reply to @leslyethiery
  • JenStarcevic Mar 6 @ 10:29 PM EST
    A9: I also need to continue to grow with 2-3: not take things personally (I like how the video said that is really who they are!) #gfedchat