#wearewayne Archive

The school district chat for the MSD of Wayne Township

Tuesday August 28, 2018
8:00 PM EDT

  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:00 PM EDT
    Welcome to tonight’s #wearewayne #twitterchat ! Please introduce yourself to let everyone know you’re joining us - your Role, Building, and whether you brush your teeth before or after breakfast!
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:00 PM EDT
    Hello! Adam Grieve, School Psychologist at RHE... Definitely BEFORE anything else. #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:01 PM EDT
    Assistant Principal, RHE, after #wearewayne
  • Dr_G_Alazar Aug 28 @ 8:04 PM EDT
    Hello. Ghirmay Alazar, Assistant Director of Special Services #WeAreWayne
  • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Hello! Lindsay Wey, Title I RT, @GardenCityElem #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    Q1: Why is it important to have a strong parent partnership when working with or meeting for a student with a disability? #knowyourwhy #wearewayne
  • JkHolmes11 Aug 28 @ 8:05 PM EDT
    4th grade spent the 2nd day of our science unit flying FPG-9 gliders and recording distances! Tomorrow a visit from @IXScience @RobeyRockets Great resources at https://t.co/xj4qxCP2CT #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:06 PM EDT
    Please respond to questions by noting “A1:” “A2:”, etc. and include #wearewayne on each response. Let’s get started!
  • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    A1: the parent knows the student best! Creating this trusting partnership from the beginning allows all parties to help the child be the most successful! #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    A1: Best for kids - to be on the same page in how to support their child's education #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:07 PM EDT
    A1 Parents know the student the best and they are in the driver's seat! #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:08 PM EDT
    Trusting partnership is key. #wearewayne
    • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:07 PM EDT
      A1: the parent knows the student best! Creating this trusting partnership from the beginning allows all parties to help the child be the most successful! #wearewayne
  • Dr_G_Alazar Aug 28 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    A: Parents know their child best. They know their child's hopes and dreams. We need to hear their voice and meet their needs #WeAreWayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:09 PM EDT
    I like the driving analogy - #navigation #driversseat - K-12 education is a #journey #wearewayne
    • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:07 PM EDT
      A1 Parents know the student the best and they are in the driver's seat! #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    Trust is key...in many cases trust has been broken along the line. #wearewayne
    • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:07 PM EDT
      A1: the parent knows the student best! Creating this trusting partnership from the beginning allows all parties to help the child be the most successful! #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:10 PM EDT
    Q2: How do you know if you’ve established a strong parent partnership? Or...tell about a time when you felt a strong parent partnership was established. #wearewayne
  • BrittonAWayne Aug 28 @ 8:11 PM EDT
    A1 The parent is the first teacher. Parents know their children and their input matters. We must establish a school to home connection. #wearewayne
    In reply to @dodsonmh
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    A2: You know it when you get authentic dialouge with parents. You can tell when you have broken down the wall. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:12 PM EDT
    A2: I think that attending to the non-verbals is key in a case conference. Is a parent looking at you or material you're presenting? Do they seem comfortable (mentally, in the space)? Are they nodding along? Facial expressions? #wearewayne
  • WayneTwpSuper Aug 28 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    Jeff Butts, Superintendent, arriving late for #wearewayne chat
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    Parents know if you are invested in their student or just there because you are required..#wearewayne
    • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:12 PM EDT
      A2: I think that attending to the non-verbals is key in a case conference. Is a parent looking at you or material you're presenting? Do they seem comfortable (mentally, in the space)? Are they nodding along? Facial expressions? #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    So true! Parents = first teachers. #wearewayne
    • BrittonAWayne Aug 28 @ 8:11 PM EDT
      A1 The parent is the first teacher. Parents know their children and their input matters. We must establish a school to home connection. #wearewayne
      In reply to @dodsonmh
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    So important, and often forgotten. #wearewayne
  • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:13 PM EDT
    A2: when a parent asks for your advice or opinion on a matter involving their child... this shows they value your input & trust your decision making #wearewayne
  • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    A:1 A:1 The parent KNOWS and LOVES the child more than anyone else. A parent wants to be heard and valued in their child’s education. Listen to the parents. Their voice is important. #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    Q3: How can we make parents feel welcome and that their input is valuable at case conferences? #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:14 PM EDT
    Yes. Want to be heard. Stay tuned for thinking about barriers to that (real or perceived)! #wearewayne
    • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:14 PM EDT
      A:1 A:1 The parent KNOWS and LOVES the child more than anyone else. A parent wants to be heard and valued in their child’s education. Listen to the parents. Their voice is important. #wearewayne
  • WayneTwpSuper Aug 28 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    A2: Sometimes you don't know. However, the journey to establish a strong partnership is critical to our scholars success. We must never stop working towards establishing that partnership. #wearewayne
  • Dr_G_Alazar Aug 28 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    A2: When parents actively participate in a meeting and continuously challenge our thinking and then collectively make decisions with us #wearewayne
  • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:15 PM EDT
    Lesley Kashi- First Grade Teacher: RHE #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    A3: Be explicit in actually welcoming them and letting them know that you are glad they came. Seems simple. Not always done. #wearewayne
  • BrittonAWayne Aug 28 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    A2 When parents feel free and comfortable sharing meaningful information. You engage in real conversations and you can feel it.#wearewayne
    In reply to @dodsonmh
  • LHCWilson Aug 28 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    Dan Wilson, principal, Lynhurst Center. Sorry I'm late! Athletic duty tonight! #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    A3: SMILE :) #wearewayne
  • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:16 PM EDT
    A3: highlight strengths first ... know the child you are talking about and make connections! This isn’t just a “meeting” for the parent/guardian... & shouldn’t feel that way! #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:17 PM EDT
    I appreciate a parent challenging our thinking. It shouldn't be taken as an insult. Often, I think they might feel as though decisions have already been made, plans/programs already written. #wearewayne
    • Dr_G_Alazar Aug 28 @ 8:15 PM EDT
      A2: When parents actively participate in a meeting and continuously challenge our thinking and then collectively make decisions with us #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    A3: Use person first language and be authentic. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    No child IS a disability. No one IS SLD. No one IS ED. #soapbox #wearewayne
    • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:17 PM EDT
      A3: Use person first language and be authentic.
  • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:18 PM EDT
    A:3 Parents feel valued when they feel safe to speak the truth about their child or the struggles their child is facing without fear of what people will think. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:19 PM EDT
    YES. Creating a safe, supportive, and trusting environment is so important. #wearewayne
    • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:18 PM EDT
      A:3 Parents feel valued when they feel safe to speak the truth about their child or the struggles their child is facing without fear of what people will think. #wearewayne
  • BrittonAWayne Aug 28 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A3 The CC isn't the starting point for welcoming parents. You know your students, understand strengths and challenges and reach out before the CC. During CC, make sure there is eye contact, space for clarification and time to process. #wearewayne
    In reply to @dodsonmh
  • Dr_G_Alazar Aug 28 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    Doing the simple things such as welcoming them with a smile and making the case conference your priority #1 because it's the only one for them in that moment #wearewayne
  • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:20 PM EDT
    A:2- You know you have a strong parent connection when they feel comfortable sharing the depths of their heart with you. Sometimes they just want someone to listen. Listen to them. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    Also, basic environmental factors in a conference room make a huge difference in comfort level: Comfortable chairs, well-lit, seating arrangements, food/water availability, room decor, room temperature... #wearewayne
  • WayneTwpSuper Aug 28 @ 8:21 PM EDT
    A3: I always believe is beginning with focusing on the positives and sharing feedback about what is working well. #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    That's true, but more often than not you get a sense of that connection. Authenticity goes a long way with families #wearewayne
    • WayneTwpSuper Aug 28 @ 8:15 PM EDT
      A2: Sometimes you don't know. However, the journey to establish a strong partnership is critical to our scholars success. We must never stop working towards establishing that partnership. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    For sure... They should arrive comfortable with the school and the staff who will be at the meeting. #wearewayne
    • BrittonAWayne Aug 28 @ 8:20 PM EDT
      A3 The CC isn't the starting point for welcoming parents. You know your students, understand strengths and challenges and reach out before the CC. During CC, make sure there is eye contact, space for clarification and time to process. #wearewayne
      In reply to @dodsonmh
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:22 PM EDT
    Q4: What might be some barriers to parents actively participating in case conferences? #wearewayne
  • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    A4: if parents/guardians don’t feel valued or taken seriously, they won’t open up and feel safe to give authentic feedback #wearewayne
  • WayneTwpSuper Aug 28 @ 8:24 PM EDT
    A4: As educators operating inside of the education world on a daily basis, we often forget that not everyone is comfortable in that setting nor understands the processes involved. Not being intentional to acknowledge this and make adjustments create a barrier. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:25 PM EDT
    A4: Sometimes, unfortunately, there are disagreements re: IEPs, evaluations, services... these or other standing grievances can lead to uncomfortable case conferences and can be a huge barrier in moving forward. #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:26 PM EDT
    A4: Health, time, priority, etc...we must create pathway to connect. We must not be quick to judge a circumstance. #wearewayne
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    Yes. Regardless of agreement or support level, case conferences can be very intimidating. All staff already in a room, then the parent enters. Creates a strange energy from the outset. #wearewayne
    • WayneTwpSuper Aug 28 @ 8:24 PM EDT
      A4: As educators operating inside of the education world on a daily basis, we often forget that not everyone is comfortable in that setting nor understands the processes involved. Not being intentional to acknowledge this and make adjustments create a barrier. #wearewayne
  • BrittonAWayne Aug 28 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    Barriers may include lack of understanding, prior negative school experience, confusion, the feeling of me against them, and discomfort. #wearewayne
    In reply to @dodsonmh
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:27 PM EDT
    A4: Parents are anxious about CC. We are often reinforcing some major stress points in their lives. #wearewayne
  • LMKashi Aug 28 @ 8:28 PM EDT
    You are right- we never know the journey someone is on! #WeAreWayne
    In reply to @dodsonmh
  • adamjgrieve Aug 28 @ 8:29 PM EDT
    Despite being explicitly asked if they have questions, the comfort level may automatically prompt a "no" response. #wearewayne
    • MrsWey10 Aug 28 @ 8:24 PM EDT
      A4: if parents/guardians don’t feel valued or taken seriously, they won’t open up and feel safe to give authentic feedback #wearewayne
  • dodsonmh Aug 28 @ 8:29 PM EDT
    Q5: Do you have any ideas for overcoming one or more of the barriers you identified? #wearewayne #lastquestion