#ecet2 Archive
Sunday May 21, 2017
8:00 PM EDT
brice78
May 21 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Let's start with name, location, role and why did you want to attend the chat tonight?
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
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chat: Supporting Ss Who Have Experienced Trauma. Guest:
@brice78
(Fun fact: Brice can see you right now).
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Welcome to
#ECET2
- glad everyone can be here. Tonight we talk about supporting students who have experienced trauma
Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Let's start with name, location, role and why did you want to attend the chat tonight?
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Hi ~ Adam from Virginia. Principal. A topic near and dear to my heart
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:01 PM EDT
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Starr from NY. In HS I and younger, I'd say that I was the butt of some rumors that certainly didn't make...
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Brice from Pittsburgh (GO PENS! sorry
@arsant10
) I teach HS therapeutic support where we do math ELA and therapy
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MrEggertsClass
May 21 @ 8:01 PM EDT
A1: David from
@RiderCEHS
, going to be student teaching this fall, and this topic is extremely important for all! Can't wait to learn
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Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Ann Rose, Instructional Coach for Tech from NY. I am always trying to learn ways to help Ts and Ss.
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:02 PM EDT
This is one of my favorite topics because trauma affects us all and how we deal w it makes all the difference
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jasongriffinhgs
May 21 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Good evening, Jason, elem principal from NC
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Derek - English teacher - Pittsburgh - Glad to have my
@PghPerryHS
brother
@brice78
with us tonight!
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DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Dan from Michigan here. I teach French at an urban HS. This has become my Sunday routine-love the chats and my ecet2 tribe!
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MrEggertsClass
May 21 @ 8:03 PM EDT
I could not agree more! Everyone goes through trauma in their life
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In reply to @brice78
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Pip from NZ here. HOD English. Always good to get some support in this area.
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Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Some more than others, but we do.
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In reply to @MrEggertsClass, @brice78
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:04 PM EDT
We're going to use the Q1/A1 format for this chat
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Eric, Math/Sped teacher, living in Brazil.
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JasonKohls
May 21 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Jason from KS. HS ELA T. This is an important area, so any discussion is worthwhile.
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Q1 in one minute....
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@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
(Fun fact: Brice writes backward so you can read forward)
joerobison907
May 21 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Joe from Alaska jumping in with you guys
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Q1: How do your schools support students who erperience trauma and / or mental health (MH) issues?
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:06 PM EDT
A1: I'm always listening. Kids know they can trust me and I'm often the one calling in issues when they arise
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MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Hi Everyone-Marisa Hoskins Here-Canadian Secondary ICT Educational Specialist in Hong Kong
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:06 PM EDT
And because then I can blame the misspelled words on the backwards writing :)
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In reply to @barrykid1, @Arsant10, @DerekLong929
Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:06 PM EDT
A1: I think we could do a much better job.
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Q1: How do your schools support students who erperience trauma and / or mental health (MH) issues?
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ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:07 PM EDT
Q1: How do your schools support students with mental health (MH) issues?
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:07 PM EDT
A1: I have a policy of seeing something and saying something. I think every child should feel safe at school
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Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:07 PM EDT
Welcome to
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jasongriffinhgs
May 21 @ 8:07 PM EDT
A1 We contract MH services so that we can ensure our students are getting the help they need inside/outside of school
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:07 PM EDT
Fun fact:
@brice78
had never misspelled a word twice.
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In reply to @brice78, @Arsant10, @DerekLong929, @brice78
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:07 PM EDT
A1 We have social workers and this year we are lucky to have a clinic with mental health professionals there daily. They help a lot.
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1: Our school has a lot of supports, but we also have a lot of need. We have a couple social workers and a stud. assistance program.
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1:
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On a more personal level, as I mom, I've dealt with my son's bullying and his school did NOT do a good job of helping him
brice78
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
We try to talk about them. naming the need makes it so much easier to address
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1:Listen first. Let Ss talk and discuss and help them and their families find outside services if they need them.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1: We have a trained school psychologist, and she makes referrals when needed.
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1. majority of our students experienced trauma. Our philosophy includes One of them is live life in the present & time is an ally
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ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
Reahna from Jacksonville 16 sophomore future chorus teacher
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MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
We have an on campus social worker for students to speak to
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In reply to @ECET2natl
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1 Our Learning Centre is amazing and works with outside agencies. However, they need WAY more support than what they have.
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1 is starts w/empathy, designed into our curriculum, built into PD, modeled by all
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Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: We don't train classrom teachers how to support Ss.
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ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: Most schools do not do a very good job of this. I'm speaking from my experience as a child and what I've witnessed in schools
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
Brining the families in is key!! Often difficult but key to addressing the need
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1:Listen first. Let Ss talk and discuss and help them and their families find outside services if they need them.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: I make myself available for Ss to talk and work with the counselor.. Been through a lot of suffering. Know what it's like
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Glennr1809
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
Hey
@stacey_arzt
the
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chat right now has your name all over it! Jump in!
MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:10 PM EDT
Teaching and modeling empathy is So important!
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In reply to @barrykid1
brice78
May 21 @ 8:10 PM EDT
I have seen to often the out of sight out of mind approach to MH and trauma and it is criminal in my opinion
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ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: Most schools do not do a very good job of this. I'm speaking from my experience as a child and what I've witnessed in schools
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:10 PM EDT
Shana White sighting!
#yes
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ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: Most schools do not do a very good job of this. I'm speaking from my experience as a child and what I've witnessed in schools
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:10 PM EDT
A1. Our Ss have experienced intense trauma. Our philosophy includes live life in the present & time is an ally
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:10 PM EDT
A1: I freely talk about being bullied mercilessly and dealing with a sick parent.
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:10 PM EDT
We can help Ss to a degree but if we get the family involved and participating in treatment we have a better chance
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
Brining the families in is key!! Often difficult but key to addressing the need
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1:Listen first. Let Ss talk and discuss and help them and their families find outside services if they need them.
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
Q2 in one minute...
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@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Austin Powers was modeled after Brice Hostutler)
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
Most important thing we can do to build good citizens and learners!
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In reply to @MsHoskinsTech
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
I often think it is a societal issue. Empathy and support are not part of our culture yet so it doesn't leak into our schools well.
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In reply to @ShanaVWhite
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
Loving the memes tonight
@barrykid1
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ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
A1: at my school, you can get school counseling for problems. There are other things that can happen depending on your situation
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MrEggertsClass
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
That is my goal once I become a teacher!
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In reply to @mr_hayes
brice78
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
All forms of trauma that affect us. Yet we often don’t call things like this trauma
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In reply to @mr_hayes
brice78
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Q2: Chronic stress and trauma can affect mental wellness and lead to MH disorders. What stressors do kids in your school face?
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
And if the family isn't interested or in denial??
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In reply to @JayBilly2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Schools are terrible at caring for the most vulnerable.
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https://t.co/PxwOM8Vrha
ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: Most schools do not do a very good job of this. I'm speaking from my experience as a child and what I've witnessed in schools
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
A2:
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lots of stressors - friends, doing well, activities, expectations to grow up too fast
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Barely broke a sweat, keep looking
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#poorbrice
In reply to @DerekLong929
MrEggertsClass
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Family involvement is crucial! Do you set up meetings at your school for families to support their S?
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In reply to @JayBilly2
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
A1: we can talk to counselors.
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ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Q2: What stressors do kids in your school face? how can/do we exacerbate those?
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SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Jumping in late tonight
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! Sam from KS, 9-10 ELA teacher.
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Teachers need more education and support around helping kids in trauma. This is not in most teacher prep programs and should be.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Schools are terrible at caring for the most vulnerable.
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https://t.co/PxwOM8Vrha
ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:09 PM EDT
A1: Most schools do not do a very good job of this. I'm speaking from my experience as a child and what I've witnessed in schools
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
We work with the child and do our best.
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
And if the family isn't interested or in denial??
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In reply to @JayBilly2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
A1 Lucky to have Soc Wkr Psychologist & counselors on hand to meet w/Ss in need & to guide staff
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#ItTakesATeam
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Our role extends beyond Ss and school day, sometimes we're educating all
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In reply to @JayBilly2
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Especially right now-- there is a serious empathy gap.
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:11 PM EDT
I often think it is a societal issue. Empathy and support are not part of our culture yet so it doesn't leak into our schools well.
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In reply to @ShanaVWhite
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2: Our kids deal with instability at home or other community issues that they don't have control over.
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2:
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kids are expected to be way too mature too fast IMO. That can exacerbate it for sure
iPrincipalJJ
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2 one of the biggest stressor is the idea that they could be attacked on social media while sleeping
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ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2: Poverty, home life issues, PTSD, racism/bigotry, bullying, stress of testing, grades
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2. Lack of stability outside of school, external pressures within the community, exposure to abuse/harm
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joerobison907
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2. Ss are now getting stressed about things like HW by the 2nd grade--this builds for years-- unacceptable and a disservice to Ss
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
We are a team with our families so we do most of our meeting and working from school
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MrEggertsClass
May 21 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Family involvement is crucial! Do you set up meetings at your school for families to support their S?
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In reply to @JayBilly2
jasongriffinhgs
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2 Problems at home that follow them to school
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Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2: So many. It seems as if the stressors are worse and worse and the Ss are younger and younger.
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ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Q2: What stressors do kids in your school face? how can/do we exacerbate those?
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2: Since my kids are from very rich families, they face intense pressure to do perform well. Be perfect.
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ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
What if the reason for the issue is the family's fault? Getting them involved in treatment isn't such a good idea sometimes.
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In reply to @piptinning, @JayBilly2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
A2 we over assess, tell them everything rides on a test, social media and influences.... Bugger being a kid these days!
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
A2: At times, the pressure doesn't come from parents but the kids are out of balanced. Involved in everything.
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katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Yes! Exactly that. Through
#PBL
and
#servicelearning
and classroom culture
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:08 PM EDT
A1 is starts w/empathy, designed into our curriculum, built into PD, modeled by all
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iPrincipalJJ
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
We have to remember stress is also relative what stresses me might not stress you. To some of our kids it's just Sunday
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Amen!! University of Pittsburgh is trying to blend the 2. School of Ed and School of social work. NEED to happen
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In reply to @katyfarber
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:16 PM EDT
A2 The whole spectrum of stressors By not looking/listening Ss can feel alone to cope which exacerbates their internal struggle
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katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:16 PM EDT
Yes! This is so important. We have the colleges together
@uvmcess
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Amen!! University of Pittsburgh is trying to blend the 2. School of Ed and School of social work. NEED to happen
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In reply to @katyfarber
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q3 in one minute...
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@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice built most of the furniture you stand on)
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
A2 when we transition to secondary band, we often de-emphasize the whole child, when we should actually further emphasize
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JayBilly2
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
A2: Stressors include hunger, trauma from abuse, parent death, unhealthy home environments, and mental health issues.
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
PTSD is a big one that can be caused by many factors!
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ShanaVWhite
May 21 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A2: Poverty, home life issues, PTSD, racism/bigotry, bullying, stress of testing, grades
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DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
A2 My Ss are poor, grow up too early, tend to fight often, also dealing with loss, and learning isn't a priority for some.
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poida
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
We must always be mindful that there's a BIG difference btw
#AdultEdu
and
#EarlyChildhoodEdu
.... and everything in between!
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TeachersJourney
May 21 @ 7:48 PM EDT
"Some students can be extremely frustrating, distant and downright irritating, but they are children..."
https://t.co/Pf9KWZIqQY
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Yet, funnily enough, we have spent YEARS telling teachers they aren't social workers. But it is a shift that needs to happen.
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In reply to @brice78, @katyfarber
CollabKApow
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
A2: My Ss stress with any task or assignment due to failures in the past,I often repeat "failure leads to success"key w/encouragement
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
Q3: Trauma often affects people's MH. How does trauma affect your students learning? How can our own traumas affect our learning?
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
Very true. I've done a lot of outside reading on how to support ppl in trauma. Ts need to be train in this area.
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In reply to @katyfarber
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A3:
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trauma often leads to PTSD which can affect focus and deeper learning. Especially if we are distracted...
https://t.co/tP81z4kqwh
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
You are talking my language Katy Farber. It's about design and creation of our learning spaces and lessons
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In reply to @katyfarber
KarenTeff
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
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extreme poverty #1. High suicide rate #2. Last year, one student shot his best friend by accident - multiple other students saw
brice78
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
@barrykid1
you need to take this show on the road! Quality stuff here :
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q3 in one minute...
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@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice built most of the furniture you stand on)
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
Forgot to introduce! Katy, a professional development coordinator from UVM.
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A3. Students who have experienced trauma are not always ready to learn. We must focus on providing them a safe environment first.
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
Here all week, every week, for years. Must I monetize?
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In reply to @brice78
TheDisciplineDr
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
Both students and teachers can have burnout at the end of the year. Have to work through it.
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ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
Q3: Trauma often affects people's MH. How does trauma affect your students learning? How can our own traumas affect our learning?
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CollabKApow
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A1: Counseling and classrooms for Ss to regain focus or complete task/assignment
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
The older Ss get the more stressors, the more Ts/Admins need to find supports & make access intentional & available
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In reply to @barrykid1
brice78
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
Agree but we also need to make room at the table for the people in the MH fields. They are pros at the stuff I pretend to do
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Yet, funnily enough, we have spent YEARS telling teachers they aren't social workers. But it is a shift that needs to happen.
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In reply to @brice78, @katyfarber
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
This. All day.
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A3. Students who have experienced trauma are not always ready to learn. We must focus on providing them a safe environment first.
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ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A2: it's different for everyone, so that is hard to say.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
So true. Suffering in itself doesn't produce empathy. Ss have to be taught. Empathy needs to be modeled.
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In reply to @katyfarber
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A3 I don't know how some kids even function considering the trauma they go through. High suicide rates are one of our consequences.
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A3: Ss struggle to focus on math and ELA if they are impacted by other things. We need to listen and know our Ss to help them cope.
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A3:
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Personally, I remember going through my divorce and working and how much that impacted my ability to...
https://t.co/gnS9GXZfb8
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
Yes! Co-creating learning spaces + projects from a place of strength, not deficits!
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:18 PM EDT
You are talking my language Katy Farber. It's about design and creation of our learning spaces and lessons
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In reply to @katyfarber
CollabKApow
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A3: I experienced trauma @ 17yrs with passing of my mother, I could not take in anything at school and somehow God got me through.
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
We benefit from doing an honest, yearly, internal audit of our moral compass. Are we walking our talk?
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
The older Ss get the more stressors, the more Ts/Admins need to find supports & make access intentional & available
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In reply to @barrykid1
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A3 a good relationship with students helps, esp. when dealing with trauma-but that can happen anytime, anywhere, right?
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
It definitely gets sticky then. In PA the age of consent is 14. So those students can seek services without parents knowledge.
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In reply to @ImTheRealReRe, @piptinning, @JayBilly2
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
Indeed! And daily. This is what kindness and listening looks like. This is what we do for each other.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
So true. Suffering in itself doesn't produce empathy. Ss have to be taught. Empathy needs to be modeled.
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In reply to @katyfarber
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
A3 Learning becomes secondary to life for Ss in trauma Their minds prioritize things & family/issues take top slot...as it should
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katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
And in the classroom each week, asking, "What is the state of the class?" are we taking care of each other?
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:20 PM EDT
We benefit from doing an honest, yearly, internal audit of our moral compass. Are we walking our talk?
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:19 PM EDT
The older Ss get the more stressors, the more Ts/Admins need to find supports & make access intentional & available
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In reply to @barrykid1
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
The strengths will enable us to build on deficits w/Ss, not to them
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In reply to @katyfarber
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
A3: it can be distracting to some people while to other people learning can take their mind off of trauma..
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:22 PM EDT
Watch for the Qs coming from
@brice78
. Then just tweet out an answer with A(the # of the question): and use the
#ecet2
hashtag.
In reply to @englishteach630, @brice78
MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:22 PM EDT
A3-Students struggle to focus on learning when they are struggling with other issues just as we have difficulties focusing on work
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:22 PM EDT
Makes so much sense in all other aspects of life but gets missed a lot in schools. Just another reason these convos are so important
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:21 PM EDT
A3 Learning becomes secondary to life for Ss in trauma Their minds prioritize things & family/issues take top slot...as it should
#ECET2
iPrincipalJJ
May 21 @ 8:22 PM EDT
A3 We have to take in to account that people have life outside of the building that directly impact inside the building
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:22 PM EDT
A3 I think we need to be more cognisant of our own responses to trauma. Figure out what strategies we use & see if ss do similar.
#ecet2
smaystein
May 21 @ 8:22 PM EDT
Groups like GSA/SADD/etc. help-provide safe place for kids. 🏳️🌈
@brice78
#ecet2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Q4 in one minute...
#ecet2
@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice's
@LinkedIn
profile has been viewed 2,000,000 times. Daily)
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A3: Trauma makes it hard to care about anything else. School doesn't matter. Sometimes it is a struggle just to go on.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Q4:Coping is how we deal with stress and trauma. How do you notice Ss coping?how are their coping strategies healthy or unhealthy?why
#ECET2
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
A4:
#ecet2
there are lots of healthy coping mechanisms like exercise or talking to friends or reading.
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
As a classroom T, I followed
@responsiveclass
philosophy. We met 2x daily, had problem solving + goal setting conferences
#ECET2
In reply to @katyfarber, @responsiveclass
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
A3: trauma can be distracting to some people. while to other people, they do well with learning it takes their mind off of trauma.
#ecet2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Exactly. I am awed by the circumstances some of Ss have to overcome just to make it to school.
#ECET2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A3: Trauma makes it hard to care about anything else. School doesn't matter. Sometimes it is a struggle just to go on.
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Key points you are honest & yearly If you are not examining yourself honestly & as a routine you run risk of not walking our talk
#ecet2
In reply to @barrykid1
brice78
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
I like to remember that what is good for us in this topic is often good for Ss. Mental Wellness and trauma know no age
#ecet2
SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
A3: Sometimes Ss need to ask for a break, and they need Ts to be okay with it. Let's talk/write about you first, then learning.
#ecet2
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:25 PM EDT
Q4: How do you notice Ss coping? how are their coping strategies healthy or unhealthy? why?
#ECET2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:25 PM EDT
This.is. Perfect. Know thyself.
#ECET2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Key points you are honest & yearly If you are not examining yourself honestly & as a routine you run risk of not walking our talk
#ecet2
In reply to @barrykid1
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A4. Ss who experienced trauma develop learned behaviors that protect them from harm. These behaviors are perceived incorrectly by Ts.
#ECET2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A4: My Ss are genuine and share their feelings without a filter (sometimes a good thing...Sometimes not so much).
#ecet2
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A4:
#ecet2
Unfortunately there are many escapist ones too like using drugs or trying to be too perfect.
SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A3: Pt. 2: Sometimes a student just needs to talk through a solution or plan so that they can focus/be in control of something.
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
For yrs we focused on Ss performance not mental outlook Ss can't perform to ability if they're in crisis We are finally getting that
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78
brice78
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A4: lashing out, being mean and keeping people away are big coping strategies I see. Obviously not healthy
#ecet2
iPrincipalJJ
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A4 change in behavior is what I look for. Same action might be both healthy and unhealthy depending on individual
#ecet2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A3: I cared for my mom for 11 yrs (fed & cared for her) while being bullied for who I am. Nothing was right about me.
#ecet2
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A4 Some Ss just disappear for awhile-not sure if it is healthy. Others turn to weed or other destructive things to cope-need support.
#ecet2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A4: But sometimes Ss cope with unhealthy behaviors like drugs, alcohol, and unsafe sex.
#ecet2
cybraryman1
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
My Counseling page
https://t.co/WMOY2cQTFj
has links for children dealing with tragedy & trauma. My SEL page
https://t.co/seKk7AgQmD
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A4 I worry about those kids who go into shut down mode. They're SO hard to reach; I guess I just keep trying. Forgiveness is key here
#ecet2
SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A4: Many Ss cope by not coming to school. They get so far behind = they think there is no way to get caught up. Easier not to go.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A4: ADHD like behaviors are often a sign of depression in young people.Natural coping mechanism that is often misdiagnosed in schools
#ecet2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A3: I understand feeling like you don't have the strength to go on and the world can be a cruel place. Ss just need someone to care.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:28 PM EDT
I see adults in my life acting in very similar ways. Kids who learn to cope this way young grow up coping the same ways
#ecet2
SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A4: Many Ss cope by not coming to school. They get so far behind = they think there is no way to get caught up. Easier not to go.
#ecet2
Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:28 PM EDT
Anxiety as well.
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
Q5 in one minute...
#ecet2
@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice once taught a rattlesnake to apologize. In Latin.)
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
Looking for a diagnosis or way to standardize behavior often misses seeing individual issues unique to person
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A4: ADHD like behaviors are often a sign of depression in young people.Natural coping mechanism that is often misdiagnosed in schools
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A4 A child's eyes, look color, are a window to their stress That is what I look at to see if a S is coping or is not coping well
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A4 Yet some cope amazingly well. They have trusted people, they communicate. Overcoming shame seems to be the common factor.
#ecet2
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
I won't go too much into it, but they were part of the reason for it so it kind of made things worse anyway even though
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78, @piptinning, @JayBilly2
MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A4-Culture sometimes plays a role in the coping methods of our students-they tend to hesitate to share their feelings
#ecet2
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
Awesome. Follow the hashtag
#ecet2
In reply to @Falling_CreekES
PJohnsonElemEd
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
#ecet2
just joining very interested in the topic
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
They were trying to help. My family didn't understand it at the time and they still don't.
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78, @piptinning, @JayBilly2
SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:29 PM EDT
Yes! And avoidance is often a sign of depression, too. Easier to avoid than to face the issue. I know that personally.
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78
brice78
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Q5: Why is it everyone's responsibility to teach coping skills on a regular basis? How do we do it?
#ecet2
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
A5:
#ecet2
healthy coping skills must be modeled and frankly, there is enough stress for all of us to go around....
https://t.co/w5AAjA6UbD
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Yes! I have been a social worker 1000 times as a classroom teacher in so many situations.
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Yet, funnily enough, we have spent YEARS telling teachers they aren't social workers. But it is a shift that needs to happen.
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78, @katyfarber
brice78
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
color? never heard that before?
#ecet2
In reply to @BKd204Sci
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
A4a Some Ss are healthy copers, some not When they go it alone its unhealthy; when they seek assistance any cope strat. is healthy
#ecet2
smaystein
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
A4: Ss don't trust/erect barriers/don't expect much from those around them or from themselves. 💔
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Me, too! Love this. And now they have a middle school version too.
#ecet2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:24 PM EDT
As a classroom T, I followed
@responsiveclass
philosophy. We met 2x daily, had problem solving + goal setting conferences
#ECET2
In reply to @katyfarber, @responsiveclass
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:31 PM EDT
Q5: Why is it everyone's responsibility to teach coping skills on a regular basis? How do we do it?
#ecet2
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:31 PM EDT
Absolutely for both teachers and students
#ecet2
In reply to @MindWise_CK
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:31 PM EDT
A5. After behaviors have been demonstrated, the debriefing process is vital. This establish the relationships to help cope in future
#ecet2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
A5: Everyone deals with diff types of trauma on diff levels. We need to be able to cope so we can help our Ss learn those skills.
#ecet2
MrEggertsClass
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Such a great way of putting it
@AdamBrownEDU
#ecet2
In reply to @AdamBrownEDU, @AdamBrownEDU
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
A5 Because we cannot reach everyone, but someone can and will be reached if we all teach coping skills.
#ittakesavillage
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Sorry to hear that! I hope there are people you can talk to who can understand. Or at the very least will listen
#ecet2
In reply to @ImTheRealReRe
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Look at a child's schl pics from K-8 Look at their eyes, you can see years their stressors were higher Dim eyes are a huge tell
#ECET2
In reply to @brice78
SJNeill13
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
A5: Not every T is going to reach every S = all must try to teach coping skills. No invisible children. One T in every Ss corner.
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:32 PM EDT
A5 Because it's a social responsibility. If we want a society that functions then we must ensure we model, refer, support...
#ecet2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:33 PM EDT
So glad: philosophy and research don't change when talking while child and sel
#ecet2
In reply to @katyfarber
brice78
May 21 @ 8:33 PM EDT
Will start looking tomorrow! thanks for the knowledge
#ecet2
In reply to @BKd204Sci
Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:33 PM EDT
A5: It isn't easy but we can teach SEL skills, it is vital.
@responsiveclass
#ecet2
In reply to @ECET2natl, @responsiveclass
smaystein
May 21 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Coping=exec function=how to succeed101. Gotta know how. All have diff ways/all teach. Wish you all could teach me yours!
#ecet2
@brice78
In reply to @brice78, @brice78
CollabKApow
May 21 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A5: Research, knowledge, and practice is needed, suggestions? I currently address Ss struggles and work with Ss to find solutions
#ecet2
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A5: To show s's that there are good and safe coping skills out there for them to learn.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Ive seen you in action and know you have a lot to share. I’ve learned a lot from you
#ecet2
In reply to @smaystein
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:35 PM EDT
Q6 in one minute...
#ecet2
@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice can hit half court shots outside the basketball arena)
MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A4-Providing students with opportunities to express themselves, teaching stress management techniques such as guided meditation
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
"Q6: How do you accommodate students with MH issues but not an IEP?
#ECET2
"
Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
Mindfulness can be so helpful to Ss as well as ts.
#ecet2
In reply to @MsHoskinsTech
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A6:
#ecet2
All kids need help with dealing with emotional stress. Most people need help. So we need to know what...
https://t.co/bKVyQcZYlu
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A5 our job is a fellowship, we never know who Ss will meet during their lives; we impact one, we can impact many
#ECET2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
I haven’t figured out a great way to teach it consitently yet but it has done wonders for me personally
#ecet2
MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A4-Providing students with opportunities to express themselves, teaching stress management techniques such as guided meditation
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A5 Ss in who need cope strat. need consistency If all Ts took a role Ss would benefit We do that by collaborating w/specialists
#ECET2
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
"Q6: How do you accommodate students with MH issues but not an IEP?
#ECET2
"
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
Thank you. There are people here to support me.
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A6. It is all about mindset. We often punish these kids for not adjusting to the norm. We must ask 'how are we adjusting to them?'
#ECET2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
Your work with
@sevenzo_org
and
@MattressFactory
should be documented, shared, and replicated!
#ECET2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:36 PM EDT
I haven’t figured out a great way to teach it consitently yet but it has done wonders for me personally
#ecet2
MsHoskinsTech
May 21 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A4-Providing students with opportunities to express themselves, teaching stress management techniques such as guided meditation
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A6: This is where I feel we in my district drop the ball. We go the IEP route first when the MH need isn’t always related
#ecet2
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
"Q6: How do you accommodate students with MH issues but not an IEP?
#ECET2
"
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A6: Learning what triggers our Ss and trying to be more responsive to their needs. Taking time to talk and listen.
#ecet2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A6 we need to advocate for Ss who have challenges, that's support; we need to modify expectations, that's humane
#ECET2
In reply to @brice78
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A5a Every T/Admin/SupportT has a skill that can help others When we work as a lg team the Ss in crisis are better taken care of
#ECET2
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A6 be a good listener, notice things, and know when to approach Ss or the appropriate adult-doesn't have to be social worker...etc.
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A6 Differentiate. Most ss I teach with MH issues don't have an IEP. Need to be mindful of needs and have empathy.
#ecet2
JasonKohls
May 21 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A6 It is often about relationships. Knowing your Ss & having connections helps awareness & aids in finding ways to help.
#ecet2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A6: We have control over our classes. Be flexible. I may change deadlines and give an alternative assignment.
#ecet2
CollabKApow
May 21 @ 8:40 PM EDT
A6: The same as if they had an IEP, bc all Ss are entitled to service and kindness from their educators/mentors
#ecet2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:40 PM EDT
A6: If we have our sick or going through a hard time, we can call a sub. No one can sub for a Ss. I try to keep that in mind.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:40 PM EDT
A good friend
@CDCriswell
often reminds me to ask “what has this kid been thru", not “what is wrong with this kid”
#ecet2
So important !!
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A6. It is all about mindset. We often punish these kids for not adjusting to the norm. We must ask 'how are we adjusting to them?'
#ECET2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:41 PM EDT
Q7 in one minute...
#ecet2
@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice is more popular than
@DavidHasselhoff
in Germany)
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:41 PM EDT
A6: If my mom had a bad day, no T changed a deadline for me. Made it harder to be caregiver with such inflexibility.
#ecet2
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:41 PM EDT
Empathy is the most important attribute we can display
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78, @CDCriswell
brice78
May 21 @ 8:42 PM EDT
Q7:
#ecet2
all call: where do you go, who do you go to, for resources about trauma or mental health?
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A7:
#ecet2
At my old school, I always went to the guidance counselors and/or the social workers staff at my old school. they are wonderful.
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A6 Collaborate w/Support staff & Ss to come up w/a plan Making Ss part of plan has helped in this situation this yr
#ECET2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A6: If a S lashes out at me, I realize he or she could be hurting. I don't immediately think punishment, but what is wrong.
#ecet2
smaystein
May 21 @ 8:42 PM EDT
Create safe places for self-expression/breaks/quiet/find a friend. this can be library-advocate if ur schl doesn't have!
#ECET2
@brice78
In reply to @brice78, @brice78
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:43 PM EDT
Q7:
#ecet2
all call: where do you go, who do you go to, for resources about mental health?
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A7 My wife is a social worker so I live w/ the best resource i know I lean on her a lot
#ecet2
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A7. 12 Principles of Re-ED by Nicholas Hobbs. Serves as the framework of helping the most 'damaged' students
#ECET2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A7: I go to the expert:
@brice78
. He wouldn't call himself an expert, but he has more experience and ideas than anyone else I know.
#ecet2
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A7: I also talk to my own therapist so that I can be present for kids
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A7:I married a therapist so I can always share ideas there. But there is no shame in us as adults seeing someone in the MH field
#ecet2
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A7: I go to my counselor or talk with my closest friends.
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A7a I also seek out staff at school, but in a jam I go to someone outside the situation Wife has given good guidance over the yrs
#ECET2
CollabKApow
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
Q7: Counselors, social worker, online resources including advocate sites
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:45 PM EDT
Thanks man!
#ecet2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A7: I go to the expert:
@brice78
. He wouldn't call himself an expert, but he has more experience and ideas than anyone else I know.
#ecet2
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A7 I check with others in the bldg I know can keep confidential-esp those who I have a good relationship with and trust.
#ecet2
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A7: Talked to MHMR, talked to families, talked to lots of psychologists, read books/articles, etc. to help me build empathy.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:46 PM EDT
That confidentiality piece is important for sure!
#ecet2
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A7 I check with others in the bldg I know can keep confidential-esp those who I have a good relationship with and trust.
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:46 PM EDT
Agree! When we take care of us, all those we work/have rapport w/will benefit Healthy mind is so important
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:47 PM EDT
Q8 in one minute...
#ecet2
@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Brice was George Lucas' 1st choice to play Han Solo in Star Wars IV)
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:47 PM EDT
A7: Although I've had my fair share of suffering, I NEVER say, "I know how you feel." I just tell and show my Ss I care.
#ecet2
smaystein
May 21 @ 8:47 PM EDT
Lean on
@brice78
@CDCriswell/my
own shrink, makes F/T work in a needy school possible. Teachers are re-traumatized daily: need help!
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78, @brice78
mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:47 PM EDT
All the Ss at the school our my Ss. I look out for the kid isolating himself or the kid eating by himself or herself.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:47 PM EDT
A7 great article that talks about depression in a way that makes a lot of sense to me. Also early 90’s music
https://t.co/WtjvYwHt8N
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:48 PM EDT
Q8: Stress and trauma are not isolated to our Ss, How do we as Ts cope with our stress?
#ecet2
mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A8: It's really important that we talk about it productively. I'm all about trying to stay positive
#ecet2
JasonKohls
May 21 @ 8:48 PM EDT
#ecet2
Reminded me of a hastily written blog post from a couple of weeks ago.
https://t.co/eXtTZUtXil
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:49 PM EDT
Q8: Stress and trauma are not isolated to our Ss, How do we as Ts cope with our stress?
#ecet2
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A8. important to be empathetic with colleagues and check on them throughout and after school. Emotional regulation starts with them
#ecet2
smaystein
May 21 @ 8:49 PM EDT
Talk to friends who understand: thank God for teacher friends! Have a GREAT therapist if you work in an inner-city school.
@brice78
#ecet2
In reply to @brice78, @brice78
brice78
May 21 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A8: negative coping -get angry and drink. Positive coping -run, meditate and try and find time to be quite and laugh
#ecet2
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A8 supportive spouses! and other staff members, too. Yoga helps alot. I try to leave the stress at work-it'll be ther when I get back
#ecet2
piptinning
May 21 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A8 Have a good old fashioned vent. I'm super lucky to have amazing colleagues. & I laugh. I make sure my ss get to do this too
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A8 Everyone needs someone to turn to Spouse friend therapist religious leader We need to talk out our stress so we are there for Ss
#ecet2
katyfarber
May 21 @ 8:51 PM EDT
Self care is so important. We need to treat ourselves like we would a dear friend.
#ecet2
Whatever works..yoga, meditation, hikes..
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:49 PM EDT
Q8: Stress and trauma are not isolated to our Ss, How do we as Ts cope with our stress?
#ecet2
JasonKohls
May 21 @ 8:51 PM EDT
A8: Be present. I have an amazing team
#BHSelam
to turn to, among others. Laugh at lunch. Amazing how much that helps.
#ecet2
DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A8: Ts cope in just as many unhealthy ways as Ss do. For me, I need to run and lift in order to get my MH together to support Ss.
#ecet2
brice78
May 21 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Small jesters can often help more than we know. A cup of coffee,a note or drawing. All go a long way that we forget in our busy lives
#ecet2
AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A8. important to be empathetic with colleagues and check on them throughout and after school. Emotional regulation starts with them
#ecet2
JasonKohls
May 21 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A8: Be present. I have an amazing team
#BHSela
to turn to, among others. Laugh at lunch. Amazing how much that helps.
#ecet2
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A8 Everyone needs someone to talk to Spouse friend therapist religious ldr When we handle our stress w/can be there for our Ss
#ecet2
barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Q9 in one minute...
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@brice78
@Arsant10
@DerekLong929
( Fun fact: Before teaching, Brice was a member of the Chips Highway Patrol)
DanKraiza
May 21 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A8 as a staff sometimes we go out after work-great stress relief especially since people won't believe what we go through daily!
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Arsant10
May 21 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Empathy is so important.
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A8 and I practice kindness when I can. A hug for someone who needs it can do absolute wonders. And chocolate...OMG the chocolate.
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Q9: What coping skills have you used this school year and what might you try next year?
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ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Q9: What coping skills have you used this school year and what might you try next year?
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mssackstein
May 21 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A9:
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I have a solid support of amazing colleagues at my school who are really awesome at listening and providing good feedback
BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Adult time is so important to de-stressing our lives
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A8 happy cows make happy cheese and Mentally healthy teachers make M-healthy students
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If its good for them it has to be good for us!
ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:55 PM EDT
LOL that person who eats alone is me, but it's by choice. I just like to have my own space.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:47 PM EDT
All the Ss at the school our my Ss. I look out for the kid isolating himself or the kid eating by himself or herself.
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barrykid1
May 21 @ 8:55 PM EDT
Make sure to continue the conversations by following people you met tonight.
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AdamBrownEDU
May 21 @ 8:55 PM EDT
A9. I have been writing a lot more. This has been therapeutic. Especially when you write without a product in mind.
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:55 PM EDT
A9: I have become less chill and more controlling as the year has gone on. I need to fix this for next year
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#relaxedandgroovy
ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:56 PM EDT
#shoutout
to
@AllEducator
#BridgeandConnect
#LouisianaEducatorAllstars
for their upcoming convening
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A9: Being more mindful and using meditation is something I want to check out. Slowing down would be good for me.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A8: I have a great support system. I don't hide my feelings. For example, my aunt is dying. I told my colleagues and Ss.
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A9 Daily drive w/friend during lunch 10 min away is a huge recharge
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A9 I try to let go of things I have no control over. Not easy for a control freak like me, but I'm working on it.
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A8: If I see a T struggling, I'll either email or talk to them. Offer to watch their class or help in some way. Write a card.
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:57 PM EDT
We are taking next week off to celebrate Memorial Day. See you on June 4th!
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:57 PM EDT
many of us are in that situation We all could do better at managing our stress
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DerekLong929
May 21 @ 8:58 PM EDT
#Shoutout
to
@brice78
for hanging out tonight!
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Isn't it a great when you have colleagues to vent to? I'm privileged to have a few in my building. They are awesome!
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BKd204Sci
May 21 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Good night & may your stress be slight & your eyes bright tomorrow!
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:59 PM EDT
That's a great! More schools need to do this!
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ECET2natl
May 21 @ 8:59 PM EDT
What a great chat tonight! Thanks
@brice78
Please stay connected throughout the week
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brice78
May 21 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Thanks for letting me learn with you all! Love and health from Pittsburgh. Remember to take a little time for yourself this week!
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mr_hayes
May 21 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Yes, chocolate is good for the soul!
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piptinning
May 21 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A8 and I practice kindness when I can. A hug for someone who needs it can do absolute wonders. And chocolate...OMG the chocolate.
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ImTheRealReRe
May 21 @ 8:59 PM EDT
It was a great chat tonight I really enjoyed talking to you guys.
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JasonKohls
May 21 @ 8:59 PM EDT
A9:
#INL
Inspired Leadership has changed my mindset greatly. It has taught me to be more aware of energy in others and myself. Huge +
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