#vachat Archive

#vachat is a great way for Virginia educators to share teaching strategies, educational resources, and more.
Monday December 12, 2016
8:00 PM EST
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:02 PM EST
    Good evening #vachat. I'm ready to guide us through a discussion about a hard topic - talking about cancer with your students
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:02 PM EST
    #vachat Welcome everyone
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:03 PM EST
    #vachat Hi everyone! Alana Stanton here from Dacula, Georgia. Ready to learn. We have had our community hit hard and I need to know more
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:03 PM EST
    Hey Alana! Glad you could join us #vachat
    In reply to @StantonAlana
  • Pirate_Edu Dec 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    hey #vachat Samier Caceres , ready to learn !
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Good evening. Welcome to #vachat If you haven't yet read @Mr_B_Teacher https://t.co/pXBKvOlHed Do so!
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Good evening. Welcome to #vachat If you haven't yet read @Mr_B_Teacher https://t.co/fY4QjAp9r5 Do so!
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Evening #vachat ers! Phil, Elem. principal, glad you could join us for this topic.#edchat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:04 PM EST
    Big shout out to my co mods @TiawanaG @rggillespie @philgriffins #vachat
    In reply to @TiawanaG, @rggillespie, @philgriffins
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Glad you could join us #vachat
    In reply to @Pirate_Edu
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    #Vachat @TiawanaG checking in from Richmond. Ready to discuss this Cancer in the Classroom. @OrganicLeaderVB @CardwellTeachMe @roperrlr
    In reply to @TiawanaG, @OrganicLeaderVB, @CardwellTeachMe, @roperrlr
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Teresa from NY, MS Literacy Teacher. #vachat
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Committed to participating in my first #vachat and thrilled to see the topic (added it to my calendar and everything) Erin from spotsy
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    Hello friend! #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:05 PM EST
    hey there! #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Reed...High School AP from Charlottesville. Really looking forward to tonight's convo--a different type than we're used to #vachat
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    “@Mr_B_Teacher: Big shout out to my co mods @TiawanaG @rggillespie @philgriffins #vachat” We learn from each other. We are better together.
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher, @TiawanaG, @rggillespie, @philgriffins
  • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    Toni from Spotsy. 7th grade math teacher. Interesting topic tonight! #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:06 PM EST
    In the interest of full disclosure, I have the Qs prepared, but not scheduled. I want this to be organic, but I'm forgetful lately. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    thanks for joining us! #vachat
    In reply to @MATHwithMADISON
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    headachy tonight, but ready to share #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:07 PM EST
    Let's do Q1 in a minute #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:08 PM EST
    I am ready to learn from one of the bravest people I know! #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:08 PM EST
    you're going to make me blush #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • jzicari_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
    Thank you @Mr_B_Teacher for sharing your story. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
    • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:02 PM EST
      Good evening #vachat. I'm ready to guide us through a discussion about a hard topic - talking about cancer with your students
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
    Q1 - start with the obvious #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
    thanks for following it #vachat
    In reply to @jzicari_ITRT
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
    I say it like it is friend. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    #vachat
    • jzicari_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:09 PM EST
      yes. I tell my students. I think they need to know what is going on.
      In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    Looking forward to it! #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    John Bennett, Emeritus Engineering living in Midlothian. #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    A1: As a young teacher, I made the mistake of separating my life from that of my students. I know better now #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:10 PM EST
    A1: I feel like I would want some information to tell them. Perhaps not right away? #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    interesting perspective. I didn't tell them right away either. #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    A1. Yes, at the point it begins to impact instruction. I would prob keep it quiet as long as I could. #vachat
  • Pirate_Edu Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    #vachat yes, tell students. Make sure it does not intrude with lesson. #edu235th
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    A1: yes, I am honest with them so I would share (I teach MS) #vachat
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    Hi #vachat! Sorry we are a bit late! We are a tech startup with a passion for education based in New Zealand!
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
    what do you mean? #vachat
    In reply to @Pirate_Edu
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    why's that? #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    #vachat A1: Not unless and until it impacts your facilitation of Effective Learning.
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    Thanks for joining #vachat...curious to as why you would wait?
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    Don't for the #vachat
    • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
      Not going to lie. This made my stomach drop. Yes I would have to tell them. I know they could handle it. And they are strong in a battle
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    why's that? #vachat
    In reply to @jcbjr
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    I definitely would share, but would want to know more myself. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    A1 cont. I think about how I told my students I was pregnant. Not being able be with them for part of a year was important to share #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
    I wanted to wait until I had an official diagnosis and enough details #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    A1: I think so. If I was a S, I would want to know. Who knows, maybe you could even use it as a powerful lesson (science?) #vachat
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    Gen, 6th gr. T in MO. A1) I would tell my Ss. I'd need their love and support along the journey. #vachat
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    #vachat A1: as an admin I don't think I would want to tell staff or Ss. I always think its my job to support/help them, not other wayvaround
  • L_Roadcap Dec 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    #vachat A1: I think I would tell them. They would naturally be curious to know what's going on, anyway.
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
    @Mr_B_Teacher How did the students respond? How about the parents? #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
    • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
      I wanted to wait until I had an official diagnosis and enough details #vachat
      In reply to @teresagross625
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    Q2 kind of goes with Q1 so Ill push it out now. #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    That's what I would want. I agree. I wouldn't keep it from them. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    #vachat A1 I think my students would have to know pretty soon bc they could tell something was wrong.And we would get through it.Many hugs
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    That may not be a great idea though, what do you all think? #vachat
    In reply to @KamiSchools
  • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    A1: Absolutely, I'd tell my students. It goes along with building relationships. #vachat
  • L_Roadcap Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    #vachat Glad I was able to meet lots of educators last week at #VSTE16. Thanks to all who attended my sessions!
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    This is powerful. Let them know that life happens to everyone. #Vachat
    • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:13 PM EST
      Gen, 6th gr. T in MO. A1) I would tell my Ss. I'd need their love and support along the journey. #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
    A1: my Ss were worried I might leave for another job, I couldn't keep something like this from them #vachat
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    Incredible... #vachat
    • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:11 PM EST
      Not going to lie. This made my stomach drop. Yes I would have to tell them. I know they could handle it. And they are strong in a battle
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    A1&2 - I told my students. I knew I would be out for a long time and they deserved to know the truth. We are a family. #vachat
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    I agree. It all goes back to relationships. #Vachat
    • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:14 PM EST
      A1: Absolutely, I'd tell my students. It goes along with building relationships. #vachat
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    #vachat I disagree. As admin I would want to tell Ss & Ts. When my wife had "C" I told them & it became a great support.
    In reply to @philgriffins
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
    A2: I know what it's like to lose someone unexpectedly, I would never ever want my Ss to experience that. #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    A2: By sharing we show our own strengths and weaknesses. We're modeling and inspiring. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    A1&2 - It's important to model strength through a trying time. Cancer impacts 75% of all families. We can't ignore it. #vachat
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    @philgriffins #vachat Admins need support too
    In reply to @philgriffins
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    A2: they would be a huge impact on my recovery, I know THEY are who would push me to stay strong and get better #vachat
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    #vachat a2 I would tell them bc they are part of my family, They would help me see I have a team. And they have families that will prayer
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    Chances are several of our students have been impacted by cancer or something similar. By sharing we give them strength/friendship #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:16 PM EST
    #vachat This will be important because it will be obvious - body changes and time out of classroom. Still wait for the 'bump.'
    • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:12 PM EST
      A1 cont. I think about how I told my students I was pregnant. Not being able be with them for part of a year was important to share #vachat
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    A2) My Ss become part of my life during a schl yr. Why shut them out? They should know, and they would be part of my support system. #vachat
  • OrganicLeaderVB Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    I'll be in #VAchat in a moment...just getting in!
    In reply to @TiawanaG, @CardwellTeachMe, @roperrlr
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    not that great in asking for support, always joke God gave me wide shoulders to support others... #vachat
    In reply to @mrwilliamsworld
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    how would it not intrude with class time tho? They would have a ton of questions #vachat
    In reply to @Pirate_Edu
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    Agree. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
    I agree on both sides. Its important that we know our school community. We have to be careful, supportive, and courageous. #vachat
    • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
      #vachat I disagree. As admin I would want to tell Ss & Ts. When my wife had "C" I told them & it became a great support.
      In reply to @philgriffins
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    Hooray. #vachat
    • OrganicLeaderVB Dec 12 @ 8:17 PM EST
      I'll be in #VAchat in a moment...just getting in!
      In reply to @TiawanaG, @CardwellTeachMe, @roperrlr
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    For perspetive, I had eighteen between finding out my cancer spread and having to leave to begin chemo. #vachat
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    A2 I was a 2nd grade teacher, would have an open and honest Convo with the parents first &then kids. I believe It takes a village #vachat
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
    #vachat A2: why not for me... Out staff & students have enough things to worry about... I don't want to add to that list. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    I did both on the same day. Students first tho. #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    There are times we need to set aside the academics and have real, tough conversations. #vachat This would be one of those.
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    #vachat This was a big motivator for me
    • jzicari_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:18 PM EST
      I would rather them know the truth than have people speculate.
      In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    Yes! Our classrooms become families! We have to be honest, even when it's hard. #vachat
    • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:15 PM EST
      A1&2 - I told my students. I knew I would be out for a long time and they deserved to know the truth. We are a family. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:19 PM EST
    no right or wrong way to handle it. Just asking your opinion. #vachat
    In reply to @Pirate_Edu
  • jzicari_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    totally agree! Parents need to be in the know. #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    A3 Let's talk the how #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    Q3 - not A3 #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:20 PM EST
    #vachat I think there needs to be an impact... E.g., if you had a new child coming, why is it important to facilitating Effective Learning?
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:21 PM EST
    A3: Honestly no clue. I've been saying I'd share but I'm an extremely private person...tend to share more w/ students than peers #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    The simple time out of the classroom is a big factor. But beyond that, modeling changes. More to teaching than just academic #vachat
    In reply to @jcbjr
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    A2: If I was a S, I would feel trusted and valued if my T told me something like that. Personal preference though I think #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    A3: I would tell them the basic facts, open up for discussion and answer questions #vachat
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    #vachat A3: I just told Ss my wife had "C" and they may not see me as much during treatment. Told Admin everything. Ts some details.
  • Pirate_Edu Dec 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
    Q2- I dont know how 2 handle something so serious.Any suggestions I would like to knw if something like this ever comes up #edu235th #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    A3 Long answer - https://t.co/2hGx5exnuX #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    A3: I think this phrase is often over-used, but this A TEACHABLE MOMENT #ForReal #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    #Vachat A2: Your responsibility is the Ss' Effective Learning. Unless and until your circumstances impact that, not appropriate to me.
  • jzicari_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    not sure I would go into too much detail. This is where parent involvement is important. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    A3 Short answer - I was straightforward and honest. Gave them facts. Gave them time for questions #vachat
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
    #vachat A3 I would do it during morning meeting.I would tell them I love them & what is happening.We would make bracelets together to team
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A3) I would tell them what I feel they need to know. Stick to facts. Don't overwhelm them, don't upset them emotionally. #vachat
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    #vachat Like when a company wants to bury bad news, Friday afternoon. Just enough time to answer questions & make sure everyone was ok.(ish)
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    You inform the "Ps" first. Make sure it age/grade level appropriate. Keep in min. Chemo, strengths/weakness #vachat & pics.
    In reply to @rggillespie
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    A3: A lot depends on who and what you teach. #vachat For some students it might be too much for them to handle, need to be sensitive to them
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    I did it on Monday. I wanted time throughout the week for my Ss to ask any new Qs #vachat
    In reply to @philgriffins
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:24 PM EST
    #vachat Might someone tell me about this conference (I presume)?
    In reply to @L_Roadcap
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A3. Probably the bare facts at 1st and thenLeave the convo open &return to it to answer ?s as they come up. Give time to process. #vachat
  • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A3: I teach middle school. I'd pull them all to the carpet like elementary and just talk, being honest. Then let them ask ?'s. #vachat
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    Kudos to you. Honest & open. #Vachat
    • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:23 PM EST
      A3 Short answer - I was straightforward and honest. Gave them facts. Gave them time for questions #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    Time for their Qs is invaluable #vachat
    In reply to @MATHwithMADISON
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:25 PM EST
    A3 the questions flowed all week. Don't expect it to be a one and done conversation #vachat
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    no "perfect" time, is there? .. Just what works best for you... #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    I think we have to ask ourselves: is it the Ss who cannot handle the news or do we fear telling it? Just curious. @Mr_B_Teacher #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    honesty is key #vachat
    In reply to @Pirate_Edu
  • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    absolutely. Your story is inspiring. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    EXACTLY what I would do. #vachat
    In reply to @MATHwithMADISON
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:26 PM EST
    absolutely. I think pros and cons to both #vachat
    In reply to @philgriffins
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    #vachat A3 I would have to do it early in the week. My kinders would have to see me the next day for sure
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    A3 my primary teacher mindset goes to morning meeting and it becoming part of the daily conversation -part of our class community. #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    #vachat But isn't 'automatically sharing' asking for non-Effective Learning dialogue???
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:27 PM EST
    Shows you care for your Ss AND yourself. Very brave. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    Justin b3cause not everyone knows you... Share What grade you teach and how did they handle it? #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    A3: V dependent on age, maturity, other contexts. For example, what if some Ss have family with cancer? Maybe this could help them #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    Q4 expands on Q3 #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:28 PM EST
    I should have said this in the intro - I teach fourth grade. My students took the news really well. Showed so much compassion #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    NEVER on a Friday! #vachat
    In reply to @StantonAlana
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    They were very sad at first, but quickly turned to curiousity. Lots of questions. Did it take from content? Yes. But school is more #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    A4: Simply, cancer is the 2nd leading cause of death in the US #vachat
  • jzicari_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:29 PM EST
    you tell because it is sadly part of our lives. Someone they know is affected. The kids need to be aware. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    We need to allow them to question, feel and confide in us. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    #vachat I would want my whole class and I to make uplifting pictures or a big mural quote board that shows we are in it together. Focusboard
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    And maybe it can help other Ss empathize with their classmates who have a burden that they cannot understand. #vachat
    In reply to @KamiSchools
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    A4 statistically its impossible to have a classroom of Ss not affected in some way by cancer. We do a disservice by not addressing #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    A4 I didnt share the specific type of cancer. Saying testicle in front of fourth graders probably wouldn't go well. #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:30 PM EST
    A4: we lost a 3rd grader a couple of years ago, it impacts their lives, on many levels #vachat
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    #vachat A4: Many of them have had family w/"C". It provides an outlet & sounding board they might be able to relate to.
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    We're talking about this right now on #vachat with the author @Mr_B_Teacher...Please join the convo
    In reply to @SamPatue, @markbarnes19, @Mr_B_Teacher
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    A4) Because cancer is not something to fear. Discuss it. Learn about it. Knowledge is power! #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
    #vachat But that's important only when 'changes' make questions about 'time out of classroom' are likely... That's me!!!
    • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:22 PM EST
      The simple time out of the classroom is a big factor. But beyond that, modeling changes. More to teaching than just academic #vachat
      In reply to @jcbjr
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    This is so much more important. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • mrterborg Dec 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    #vachat You may find this interesting.
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    Ss are more resilient than we give them credit for. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher, @philgriffins
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    A4 Cancer affects lots of people. School is a place of learning in all regards #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    Great point! Too often we shy away from the difficult conversations at the expense of the students #vachat
    In reply to @evsmomgen
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:32 PM EST
    #vachat A4 It is affecting our community. Ss need to know what it is and ways to help others. Thinking outside ourselves
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    @Mr_B_Teacher You know your students and YOUR comfort level. That's what is important. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:33 PM EST
    What do you teach? curious #vachat
    In reply to @jcbjr
  • MATHwithMADISON Dec 12 @ 8:35 PM EST
    A4: Everyone knows someone who has cancer. My Dad is battling cancer. It's making connections and showing empathy & being honest #vachat
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:35 PM EST
    been lurking after reading some of the posts from @teresagross625 & I want to add your journey w/ ur Ss is so healthy! @Mr_B_Teacher #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625, @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:36 PM EST
    Q5 #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:36 PM EST
    Thanks for joining us #vachat Can honestly say I haven't ever seen a topic on any twitter chat as "real" as this one
    In reply to @chrisp16
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    @Mr_B_Teacher By sharing ur battle vs Big C will help them face so much. Was a child when sister went thru & talk would have helped. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Agreed! Shows what a strong bond and relationship you have! #vachat
    In reply to @chrisp16, @Mr_B_Teacher
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    A4 As others have said, IMO it helps Ss w cancer in their lives to know that they are not alone and we are all there for each other #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:37 PM EST
    Cancer is scariest when we don't know. Not talking about it can lead to more speculation #vachat
    • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:31 PM EST
      A4) Because cancer is not something to fear. Discuss it. Learn about it. Knowledge is power! #vachat
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:38 PM EST
    A5: Let the students be the guide to what's next...I'm thinking a K-W-L to start and go from there #vachat
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:38 PM EST
    Agreed! We as Ts need to address these topics. Part of SEL in the clsrm. #vachat
    In reply to @rggillespie
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:38 PM EST
    A5 We read a trade book called The Can in Cancer. Helped the discussion flow #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:39 PM EST
    A5: I have learned so much reading your blogs. Extremely helpful, for so many reasons. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:39 PM EST
    exactly. Kids are curious. We do a disservice by not talking #vachat
    In reply to @chrisp16
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    #vachat A5: I let Ss know that early ID was key. We didn't really use resources. Just told them I was nervous & scared for her
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    It needs to be viewed as something with an eventual cure for all by possibly one of our Ss. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    As we talk through this, keep in mind there are no right or wrong answers. You need to do what is best for you and your students. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:40 PM EST
    exactly. The chance for a cure is something we talked about a lot #vachat
    In reply to @chrisp16
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    #vachat I would use my pln to help with resources. This Can for Cancer book would help me start. I would want us as a class to team up
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    A5) Good question...I'd let my Ss direct our inquiry. I'd let them find helpful resources to share. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:41 PM EST
    What grade level? I'm curious. Early ID is def key #vachat
    In reply to @mrwilliamsworld
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    Ss also need to no the power of humor & positive thinking. Also alternative avenues can be explored. Don't give up! #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    #vachat A3: Honest discussion when obvious confusion is likely!
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:42 PM EST
    A5: In a HS history class, I'm immediately drawn to Guns, Germs and Steel...historical medicine/health becomes real #vachat
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:43 PM EST
    So many avenues can be explored by the Ss. It can be across all the content areas as well as literature. #vachat
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    A5 I think it would be very organic. Using Ss own experiences as a jumping off point and then including families &then searching PLN #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    Lots of kids have cancer stories through their families. Some end well, some don't. #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • KamiSchools Dec 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    So true! It cannot all be doom and gloom, which IMO is best avoided by being open and honest #vachat
    In reply to @chrisp16
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:44 PM EST
    Not familiar. Sounds interesting. #vachat
    In reply to @rggillespie
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    Q6 It's going to affect more than our students #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:45 PM EST
    Yeah I didn't share my type either with my fourth graders #vachat
    In reply to @mrwilliamsworld
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    That's reality. We shouldn't shy away from. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher, @ErinWest_ITRT
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    A6: I admit, I am so private, this would be hard for me. #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:46 PM EST
    #vachat A5: I guess (don't know; fortunately never encountered the need) I'd seek a basic information video or website and then start Q&A.
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    it's seeming to so far #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    #vachat A6 I would tell everyone in small groups and a group meeting. I cannot do anything alone. I am one person and I would need support
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A6: Really struggling with the order that I would tell them. At a younger age: parents b4 students--maybe? #vachat
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    A6) I'd tell the community what I feel they need to know. Keep the info similar to what is shared with Ss. #vachat
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    Q6 #vachat Be honest with them.
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:47 PM EST
    #vachat A6 This is easier said than done, but stating it in words makes me know...yes I would need support
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:48 PM EST
    A6 - Personally, my principal told staff while I was out for surgery. I told Ss when I returned. Sent letter to Ps. Staff after #vachat
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    A6b) The community will be a huge part of my support system, too, so they should know. #vachat
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    #vachat A6: for me, hunor/laughter is a huge part of who I am. I've been a big fan of using video in past, I think I would use it again here
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    A6: Honest and possibly with humor. It is better when out in the open especially w/ the school family. #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:49 PM EST
    I kind of like that actually. I am not the 1st one telling staff, I would be ok with that. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    A6: Not sure if I'd be brave enough to blog like you're doing-but I feel it's powerful for ALL who read it. Would try that. #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    the decision to blog it was not an easy one, but it's helping me process too #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    Humor has been so key in talking about this #vachat
    In reply to @philgriffins
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:50 PM EST
    I wouldn't want rumor and gossip, I would want facts being told. #vachat
    In reply to @chrisp16
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    #vachat A6: Colleagues that are friends are deserving of up-front discussions; others up-front discussions when impacts my expected efforts.
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    it has to be. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    Q7 - last one. We're turning the tables #vachat
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    #vachat A6 when I had to tell staff something tough years ago...I could not. I had the principal tell when I was out. I hope I could now....
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:51 PM EST
    You are reaching more lives than you will ever know. So courageous. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    big motivator. You can't control cancer, but you can control the dialogue #vachat
    In reply to @teresagross625, @chrisp16
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    a ballsy sense of tumor to be exact ;) #vachat
    In reply to @philgriffins
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:52 PM EST
    A7: not smothering them or invading their "bonding" time, but letting them know they are available and there for them #vachat
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:53 PM EST
    A7: be there when needed and not to be smothering. Impo to keep the day going as normal as possible. #vachat
  • Techy_Margaret Dec 12 @ 8:53 PM EST
    Thanks so much for sharing your story @Mr_B_Teacher Sending you hugs! #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:53 PM EST
    A7: Throughout this wonderful #vachat, we've talked about individualism; each person has different needs, adapt accordingly #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    video is a good idea #vachat
    In reply to @ErinWest_ITRT
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    A7: little random acts of kindness #vachat
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    #vachat A7 Love them, dinner chains, wear an item to think of them continually, cards, visit, help whenever you can!
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    #vachat A7 I was proud of our school community. They had a chick fil a night. This was heart felt and full of love!
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    A7: offer to help prep, plan, makes copies, gather materials, esp for an extended absence #vachat
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:54 PM EST
    A7 food deliveries have been crucial. Check ins here and there are nice too. Knowing that my kids are taken care of is huge #vachat
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    #Vachat @Mr_B_Teacher is incredibly courageous. Thank you for sharing your story.
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • evsmomgen Dec 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    A7) Pray. Be positive. Be supportive. Pray. Bring meals over. Host a fundraising event. Pray. #vachat
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    THat's key and let them be able to keep their individualism b/c they're going to feel a loss in the medical sense. #vachat
    In reply to @rggillespie
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    #vachat A7:donate (sick) days if needed, messages, time, for me it would be about making sure my own girls continue as normal as possible.
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    Thank you all for joining me tonight. I sincerely hope you never have to have this talk, but an important topic to discuss #vachat
  • jcbjr Dec 12 @ 8:55 PM EST
    #vachat A7: First and foremost, support colleague; and then understand the impact on facilitating Effective Learning and do what can.
  • ErinWest_ITRT Dec 12 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A7: normalcy. Still me regardless of diagnosis. Best way to support is be there, cognizant of cancer- but not hyper focused on it. #vachat
  • teresagross625 Dec 12 @ 8:56 PM EST
    A sincere thank you to @Mr_B_Teacher for being open, honest, inspiring and brave in sharing his story! Huge hugs to you! #vachat
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:56 PM EST
    #vachat @Mr_B_Teacher Can you give us ideas how we can help or what does not help but people think it does
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • mrwilliamsworld Dec 12 @ 8:56 PM EST
    #vachat A7: Just by being there & listening. Ss and the T just need to have ppl they trust to talk to. Sometimes vent/rant.
  • Mr_B_Teacher Dec 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    be there for the person. If they want to talk, let let. If not, let them. If you say "I'll do anything," mean it. #vachat
    In reply to @StantonAlana
  • rggillespie - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    @Mr_B_Teacher Thanks for hosting a very personal #vachat today. We're all leaving better because of it!
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:57 PM EST
    #vachat I want to thank @Mr_B_Teacher ,he won't tell you this, but he had some treatment today and wasn't sure this would even happen...
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • chrisp16 Dec 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    You gain and grow so much from your journeys! Keep writing, teaching, laughing and loving. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • StantonAlana Dec 12 @ 8:58 PM EST
    #vachat I am glad I got to be here. Thank you @Mr_B_Teacher for being honest and open. #redblack
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher
  • TiawanaG - Moderator Dec 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    YES!! #Be Strong #Vachat loves you.
    In reply to @philgriffins, @Mr_B_Teacher
  • philgriffins Dec 12 @ 8:59 PM EST
    to Hell I am. #vachat
    In reply to @Mr_B_Teacher