Hey my #Engagechat friends! Glad to join you. Feeling very deflated, or maybe defeated fits better. Trying to build up my spirits after a tough week. Haven’t felt very positive, and I apologized to my Ss today because they deserve better.
Q1: If you have already taken the opportunity to introduce yourself, thank you! Just refer to the second part of the slide. You are invited to share your definition of COMPASSION. #engagechat
Eric so glad to see you! We all have these weeks and days. They help make us, so just know it will be okay. We love you and your kids do too #Engagechat
Hey my #Engagechat friends! Glad to join you. Feeling very deflated, or maybe defeated fits better. Trying to build up my spirits after a tough week. Haven’t felt very positive, and I apologized to my Ss today because they deserve better.
Q1: If you have already taken the opportunity to introduce yourself, thank you! Just refer to the second part of the slide. You are invited to share your definition of COMPASSION. #engagechat
A1 Compassion: Trying to understand a persons walk by taking steps in their footsteps Understanding & validating a person is a step to compassion #Engagechat
A1: Compassion is having empathy for someone else, and acting in a way to help that person. It's not because of obligation, it's because you care and don't want to see another person hurting. #Engagechat
A1) Caleb from Cincinnati, can’t be here long, but I see compassion as empathy. Having the ability to view other perspectives than your own and understand what someone else is going through #engagechat
Q1: If you have already taken the opportunity to introduce yourself, thank you! Just refer to the second part of the slide. You are invited to share your definition of COMPASSION. #engagechat
A1: Compassion=having empathy & understanding for others, the ability to see what someone's current worldview is & to connect with them there, caring for others in a genuine way. #engagechat
My kids have been great! One parent wrote me an email saying that her son was really worried because I seemed so sad. She then proceeded to tell me how important I am to her family. It was nice. As they say, this too shall pass. #Engagechat
A1 Compassion is being aware of the troubles, challenges, suffering of another and having the desire to help them, empathy and being concerned for others, #engagechat
A1) concern for others’ wellbeing, compassion is an empowered state where we want what is best for the other person. It is a source of happiness #Engagechat
A1: I am a Head of an international American school in Mexico City. Compassion is acknowledging the struggle of another and connecting with that struggle in an authentic way. #engagechat
A1 One part of the definition of compassion is realizing I might not know the whole story, and that is okay because the person is more important than knowing the whole story.
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A1: Compassion is caring for others...especially when they are in need of someone to care about them most. And it means giving without expecting anything in return #engagechat
A1: Empathy is taking the time to really listen and understand where a person is coming from.Compassion is taking action on that empathy, whatever action may be necessary. #Engagechat
A1 Compassion is to be understanding. It is to be sensitive to others, to be there for others, to show empathy, to relate to them and to be a supporter and believer. We all need to show more compassion towards others. #engagechat
Empathy is simply experiencing others emotion while compassion is a state where we want the best for other person( makes us take action , not just feel) #Engagechat
A1 compassion is seeing your students give chances to others, motivate others to do their best, and give opportunities for everyone to shine in their own way. #engagechat
A1) Its an emotional response of sympathy, also a deep desire to help that person, Want to take action & help the person who is suffering... this is what differentiates compassion from empathy #engagechat
A1 The demonstrated ability to appreciate the current plight of another, partnered with genuine support to assist the person(s) through their situations, in efforts to pay kindness forward #Engagechat
Kevin a Teaching Principal with Irelands first and only Primary School STEAM https://t.co/86nqP8vsUJ has revolutionised teaching and learning #engagechat
Hello hello!!! Aundrea from Indiana! Compassion is putting others feelings and thoughts before ones own by showing sincere empathy through means of listening, connecting, and taking action #Engagechat
A1: Eric, Sped/Math teacher, working at an international school in Brazil. I appreciate this analogy I read in an article, “Like the warm rays of the bright sun, compassion can soothe a distressed soul, lessen pain, and lift the spirits of an afflicted person.” #EngageChat
My kids have been great! One parent wrote me an email saying that her son was really worried because I seemed so sad. She then proceeded to tell me how important I am to her family. It was nice. As they say, this too shall pass. #Engagechat
A1: Compassion arises from our empathy and/or our feelings for others; it is accompanied by our need to alleviate the cause of pain/distress #EngageChat
A1 compassion is when you spend an extra hour to help that student in need. Not expecting any in return. Compassion is also reserving judgment from students who’ve been labeled as “troubled” and letting their actions speak for themselves #engagechat
#engagechat To me compassion is deep in your spirit feeling a sense of respect and love for another person who may be suffering. To step forward to help those in need- no matter what.
Q1: If you have already taken the opportunity to introduce yourself, thank you! Just refer to the second part of the slide. You are invited to share your definition of COMPASSION. #engagechat
Wow! This is KEY!!!!! Yes we don't know what others are going through...even if we have gone through something similar, everyone's battle is different.
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A1 One part of the definition of compassion is realizing I might not know the whole story, and that is okay because the person is more important than knowing the whole story.
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A1: Josh in NY here, Buncee Education Associate, past ESL teacher, Compassion is taking the time, consideration, patience, perspective as it relates to someone else and exercising empathy to lift that person up into a better state than they are currently in #EngageChat
A1: Through my eyes as a parent, compassion is recognizing my 2yo daughter’s frustration when trying to open a Capri Sun by herself. To me, it is the ability to understand how others experience this thing called “life.” #engagechat
A1 Joe, elementary principal from Elkhorn, WI. For me, Compassion is an opportunity to listen, demonstrate care, show someone they matter, & that they deserve an opportunity to be set up for success #engagechat
INTRO: Tweeting from the mountains outside of Denver where i write, teach, and consult on #Leadership and Government Contracting. Compassion is a deep understanding of the human spirit that appropriately provides encouragement and empathy in good times or bad. #engagechat
A1 #engagechat A vision of the world, not based on acquisition or popularity but on relationships and generosity. A sense of mindfulness that guides one to recognize how to make others feel better and to do what one can to help others.
I'm an English teacher, and what I find fascinating is that we all have our own unique way to describe compassion, but we all have the same general idea. I love that some people pull from quotes and articles, while others articulated it in their own words. #Engagechat
A1.1 Compassion looks at the heart of these issues aside of our attitudes, views on race, stereotypes, economic background, and how we view academic success #engagechat
A student went through the death of not one, but two of her sisters, about a year apart. I listened, validated and sometimes just let her cry. #EngageChat
A2 I was a new teacher in a school and my mom had just passed away. My team took their time to help me prepare for the coming SY and mentored me throughout the year. #engagechat
A2- I had a student break down sobbing in front of me, full of despair that no one loved him. When he looked up, he stopped cold and said, "Why are YOU crying?" I said, "Because I care for you." He responded, "Well...at least that's ONE person" and then he smiled #Engagechat
A2 When my team knew I was going thru a difficult time outside of school, they told me they had my back There support helped me push through that wall of doubt #Engagechat
A2 Upon the untimely death of one of my students his classmates and I shared our feelings and stories about how much he meant to each of us. My Counseling page https://t.co/WMOY2cziNL#Engagechat
A2: When I was a young teacher, my mother passed away. Several good teacher friends supported me in the weeks after as I worked through the fog I was walking around in. #engagechat
A2: This year it was when one of my Ss (a senior) lost a parent. His dad died suddenly at the beginning of the school year. I gave him a hug, told him I love him, and said that I would do everything in my power to help him. #EngageChat
A2: There was a Ss who really said he felt like a "loser" because he couldn't understand the content. I told him that he was NOT a loser, that he had this. He looked at me and said, "you really think I can get this?" I told him "absolutely, and I'll help you." #Engagechat
A2: The day before break, S was crying in the hall - someone kicked her on accident - and I asked her if she was alright, and if I could do anything for her, she said no. Then I asked if she wanted a hug, and she said yes. I know I didn't heal her, but I showed I care #Engagechat
A1. As a first yr principal, I had to recommend to not reappoint a number of Ts as well as withhold the increment of a number of others b/c expectations and actions were substandard for Ss. I had so much compassion for those Ss being wronged. #Engagechat
A2: compassion runs strong in my current school and did in my previous school but the most recent time I experienced it was after my FIL passed and several coworkers offered support, sympathy, and encouragement #engagechat
A2: Compassion comes in the simplest gestures. A note, reaching out, a listening ear, eye contact; it’s about being present and validating others in good and difficult times. #engagechat
A2: A colleague of mine was having trouble connecting with one of her more challenging psych interns. I shared my own struggles in training by way of suggesting how she might take the same tack-- sharing a struggle she encountered in her training to enhance rapport. #engagechat
A2) I will never forget my 31 students learning to sew & creating a quilt for me because I was receiving chemo treatments & I told them that it made me so cold #engagechat
A2 One of my students came out to me this week and said she can’t tell her grandparents even though she’s close to them. I told her she can always come talk to me. It’s not the same as acceptance from her family but it was the most I could give her.
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A2: I have experienced compassion from so many educators, parents, and students. One of my favorite moments as an educator was when my principal cared about my goals and pushed me to lead in an area that I wasn’t the strongest in. I became stronger! #EngageChat
A2: Any time I see a student engage in kind, proactive, unprompted by an adult, supportive action with another student... that is compassion in action! Any time a student stands up for someone, risking their own pride or reputation... 💛 #engagechat
A2: I’ve done home visits to homes of students from all walks of life. Regardless of area code, race, gender... kids are kids. They have the same basic needs. One of the biggest needs- a positive adult they can connect to. #EngageChat
#engagechat A student of mine became despondent & disruptive- an out of character behavior- I did not react but I responded by asking a simple question- what can I do to help you? They opened up and shared their struggles. They just needed to be listened to- changed everything
A2: having been observed often by my supervisors during my internship, whenever chaos begins, I always feel supported when things don’t go as planned. The comforting words and constructive criticism never leave me feeling defeated. #compassion#engagechat
A2: I distinctly remember a time, early in my career, when I realized I must move beyond feeling sorry for my students to a deep feeling of personal responsibility of empowering them to better their futures. #Engagechat
A2: when my abusive ex wouldn't move out of the house 6 months post divorce, & a colleague's husband works for a mortgage company -& they helped me refi into my name so we could live a bit more peacefully then before. many enabled that situation but she came through #engagechat
A2 I shared compassion many times as Ss went through difficulties times in their lives. From people passing on, to bullying, to breakups, to academic struggles; I often met with students to support, listen, guide & care. They needed that caring adult. I had to step up #engagechat
#Engagechat A2. I embraced a 1st grade for 10 minutes as he cried over his father being shot. It was the hardest thing I've done in my career. I had know words and all I could do was hug him as if I would my own son.
A2: every time a former student gets ahold of me to talk about life. I know the extra mile I went to make them know I cared about them not just as students but people.
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A2a Had a S who lost their grandfather, when I said I know how you feel, I lost my mom at 20 Sharing my story w/the S really helped her thru her sadness #Engagechat
A2: I can think of a few similar instances in which a student is dealing with many external factors and in need of extra TLC. Going above and beyond to get the student what he/she needs and seeing a transformation is amazing! #engagechat
A2: I show compassion on a regular basis. When a teacher needs someone to listen; when a parent needs advice; or when a student is having a bad day. As a principal I need to be there for everyone. It’s a massive responsibility that I don’t take lightly #engagechat
A2 - A colleague was having a really tough day. I welcomed him to my class and hopefully made him feel better. We stressed the importance of taking each day as it comes. #engagechat
A2- I had a student break down sobbing in front of me, full of despair that no one loved him. When he looked up, he stopped cold and said, "Why are YOU crying?" I said, "Because I care for you." He responded, "Well...at least that's ONE person" and then he smiled #Engagechat
A2. Just 2 weeks ago a student confided in me that he was homeless and has nowhere to go. I was immediately reminded why I am in this role. #engagechat
A2 When my students had a major flood in their neighborhood, lost everything.
My husband and I worked to get toys, clothes, and items together for them. We gave our2 guest beds to them as well. We spent many of dinners with them bc we became very close. #Engagechat
A2 After the unfortunate passing away of one of my 7th grade Ss, our former Principal had our school meet in the gym and have a time of sharing and crying... #engagechat
A2: I got a new Ss this year who is a TOUGH NUT for me! I’m sorry to say, my view & response to him only changed after I learned one of his parents is incarcerated. His story moved me & since then I am much more understanding & flexible #engagechat
A2: My second year teaching I started off by in a terrible car accident (one month to the day of getting married). No short term insurance and a mountain of medical bills. My coworkers at this school had a bake sale and raised almost $1000 for me. #EngageChat
A2: I have some wonderful colleagues who have shown tremendous compassion while #engagechat my mom has been ill. It means so much to know you have that support!
A2 It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture. We’re all professionals and work hard so just allowing someone leave early to deal with a sick family member can be huge. I always ask What courtesy would I want to be shown in a personal situation? #engagechat
A2: A student on our team was going to have no Christmas- had meeting with mom, we provided Christmas for all 6 kids. Gave the presents to mom- we took no credit! It felt amazing and felt blessed to even be a part!! #Engagechat
A2 I see compassion everyday from colleagues who recognize how difficult it is for my ELs to function in English only classes and do so much to help them. #engagechat
Totally agree, Chris. I’m always overwhelmed by how much compassion there is in education. Would be nice to see half as much in some other professions. #engagechat
ואהבת לרעך כמוך You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against your kinsfolk. Love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.
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A2 #engagechat I was bullied severely as a child. I talk with students during 1-min check ins 1 to 1 -those who bully and those who are bullied & share my stories-personal stories make all the difference-they help students see how we can overcome adversity but also its affects
A2 - A colleague was having a really tough day. I welcomed him to my class and hopefully made him feel better. We stressed the importance of taking each day as it comes. #engagechat
That's a good question. I'm surprised and shocked by " cold hearted" educators. Luckily they're few and far between, but they're out there. #engagechat
A2 As educators, we have a responsibility to not only show, but teach compassion. We are charged to build social and emotional capacity within our students. Demonstrating & explaining the value of compassion is essential to our Ss growth process #Engagechat
I had a Ss once so upset saying that "adults have all the power..no one listens." I said, "that's not true..I'LL listen. I stayed, listened to her, and explained exactly what she needed to do in order to take care of her issue. Sometimes, that's all they need #engagechat
A2) Was teaching a capstone class in a three yr program. One member of one team had a family health emergency and had to stay home. Her team hooked up a video feed from the class and then visited with her every night, bringing meals, to complete the class project. #engagechat
A2: Every day I feel compassion, for parents and students, families, teachers and admin, staff, we all have tough moments, being present is a seed of compassion :) #engagechat
A2: during my 1st year of teaching a S of mine could tell I was stressed during class due to another Ss behavior. She returned later to give me a hug. It's all that I needed! She graduated last year! #engagechat
A2 after typhoon Yolanda struck our country (2013), all of us teachers cancelled work and trooped to the airbase to teach kids literacy, donate stuff, sort out donations, cook food for the victims of the calamity, and many more #engagechat
#engagechat. A2 Continually I listen to Ss pour their hearts and problems out & seek support for them where needed. ( I teach in a low decile 1 school). I supply/buy food clothes shoes and stationary for Ss. Ss are proud of their work
#Engagechat A2 I embraced a 1st grade child for 10 minutes as he cried for his father who had been shot days earlier. I had no words ay the time. All I knew to do was to hug him at if he were my own son son. This was a day in my career I'll never for forget. It changed me.
I was not well liked by so many that thought I was going to do according to the status quo. However, people slowly realized that I will always do what was best for Ss regardless of the cost or me being sacrificed. #Engagechat
I’ve had a similar experience except he was being raised by his grandparents and his older brothers were in jail. Broke me heart hearing that. #engagechat
A2: S said she came in late, because she didn't sleep at night. She was afraid rockets would be shot at her house in Tel Aviv during the 1st Gulf War #engagechat
A2b: I love to ask my littles “How is your heart feeling?” Helps them know that their feelings are important to me & that we can work through emotions. #engagechat
#engagechat I am a school nurse, and compassionate care is the hallmark of what we do. Compassionate care provides a sense to students and staff that their health condition or concerns are being heard, recognized and acted upon.
A2: I was really fortunate in the beginning of my career to have some amazing kids who, even when we ALL knew that that the lesson was tanking, would still show enthusiasm and then would pat me on the hand on the way out and say, "It'll be better tomorrow!" 😂😭😂 #engagechat
A2: My family was poor when I was a child. We lived in a mobile home that had a room built on to it. I teach at a Title 1 school, and I can empathize with my students who don’t have money for the extras at school. #engagechat
We need to be about the heart. Crazy thing is. If we read various mission/vision statements, school marketing; we rarely make school about the heart. We have some reflections to make. #engagechat
#engagechat I am a school nurse, and compassionate care is the hallmark of what we do. Compassionate care provides a sense to students and staff that their health condition or concerns are being heard, recognized and acted upon.
A2 #engagechat Harvey just devastated so many lives. Helping clean out houses of wet debris and just making g lunches for families and gathering donations. Our community came together and is still helping one another rebuild.
A2 my school is pretty amazing at helping each other in times of need. They always throw showers for weddings and babies, gather food and gift cards when hard times come. It’s pretty awesome to watch everyone rally together. #Engagechat
That's a good question. I'm surprised and shocked by " cold hearted" educators. Luckily they're few and far between, but they're out there. #engagechat
A3: We have to remember that they are coming in with many different experiences that we know nothing about.Think we may be having a rough time? So are they! #Engagechat
A2- My brother and I moved schools halfway through the year - I was in grade 1- he was in grade 3- my new teacher saw that we were shy and quiet and having a hard time fitting in- she took us out to McDonald's for lunch one day- I will never forget her for that #engagechat
A3 compassion should be modeled and be a part of your lesson everyday. It doesn’t have to be explicit it just had to be there for students to pick up on. #engagechat
A3: Be intentional! Make it part of the school's core values and have recognition, feedback, activities, and the like centered around compassion. #Engagechat
A3 Don't teach strictly from the book. Put personality and soul into lessons. Life doesn't move in a straight line from A to Z. Dig deeper to put life into lessons. #EngageChat
A3: By integrating it throughout the curriculum and intentionally incorporating it into a character education program https://t.co/td0pqkMFW8#engagechat
In the modern world, where the pursuit of money is considered more important than the cultivation of inner values a fresh approach is required to incorporate secular ethics or universal values into the system of education.
A3a Listen and let them talk about things that matter to them. It may be the only time in their day an adult will listen to them talk about something like Pokémon. They will remember that & I’d hope pay it forward. #engagechat
A3: It starts with us! Every single adult in the building. Showing kindness, patience, understanding, & commitment to each other is a strong way to model compassion for our kids. They watch everything that we do! Let's show 'em how we LOVE! #engagechat
A2 a memory I have is actually of my mom, our school nurse, when I was in HS. A Student was pregnant and had no one to help. My mom went and bought so much for her (school provided money) and we took it to her home. I saw my mom in a new light. #Engagechat
A3: I will share a video the news did of a program I started at my school to hopefully develop compassion with 3rd graders as they realize not *everyone* has a friend #engagechathttps://t.co/pXbRAFJ7lo
A3: I think we need to have lessons where Ss interview each other to learn something about one another. There's an episode of One Tree Hill in which this is shown in an amazing way! #Engagechat
Put students before the content! I’m at a title one school and one Ss in particular doesn’t have a great home life and often goes without sleep. They struggle to keep their eyes open. What has a bigger impact? Allowing her to sleep, or keep her up? #maslow#engagechat
A3 schools shouldn’t just focus on the academics but also take action to help those in need in communities. Sometimes our students are too sheltered, so they need these opportunities to connect and learn from others #Engagechat
A3 To make compassion a part of the learning experience, it needs to be present in everything we do. From the building, to staff interactions, to tone of voice, to time flexibility, to refrain from judgment. We can’t talk about it but not live it. Not coherent. #engagechat
A3 We can make room for their authentic stories in the work we do in class. Just as we are so moved by the stories we’re hearing from each other, we can make room for them to open up to their peers and show compassion for one another. #engagechat
A3: Be explicit in recognizing the compassionate behaviors observed from students, faculty, community, etc. Create a culture of appreciation for compassion. #Engagechat
A3: Compassion=Building relationships with our students. Get to know their likes and talk to them! I enjoy eating lunch with students because during lunch you can reach so many students! #EngageChat
A3 - We do reflection letters once a month at least. They always focus on questions related to helping others, being a better person and generally making the world a better place. #engagechat
A3: I think initially, just like everything else, we have to plan for it. Build in opportunities for students to offer positive feedback. Have a weekly (or daily) whip-around check-in with everyone or in small groups. It will happen automatically eventually. #engagechat
A3: I think it’s so important to teach them the art of listening and hearing to understand...not listening to reply. If they listen to understand, then they are invested in the other person. Listening is a learned skill 4 many #caring#learntolisten#engagechat
A3: Put students before the content! I’m at a title one school and one Ss in particular doesn’t have a great home life and often goes without sleep. They struggle to keep their eyes open. What has a bigger impact? Allowing her to sleep, or keep her up? #maslow#engagechat
Only teachers would organize a Twitter chat after work ... ON A FRIDAY! Enough, friends. Engage with your weekend surroundings. We all need the rest. #engagechat
A2 One of my 5th grade students was acting out & being disrespectful. I talked to him privately and found out a friend of his recently tried to take his life. I responded with compassion & empathy! 💚 #Engagechat
A3: I think if we model compassion students can learn from us. Again this come back to #relationships. Strong, caring relationships will exemplify compassion #engagechat
A3: We can teach/encourage compassion by modelling it - by showing compassion for our Ss, their families, neighbours & global citizens & by cultivating activism among them #engagechat
A3 compassion should be modeled and be a part of your lesson everyday. It doesn’t have to be explicit it just had to be there for students to pick up on. #engagechat
A2) having mindful time is one way to show compassion to every student on a busy school day. Providing opportunities for Ss to show kindness and compassion in any form every single day #engagechat
#Engagechat A3. Restorative Circles! This gives students the opportunity to hear how actions affect those around you while connecting all involved to the community. Also morning meetings! A daily time to talk about tough things.
A3b Building in opportunities for students to be exposed to stories and dialogue where they see how a book cannot be judged by its cover. Slow to speak, quick to listen, focused on understanding. #engagechat
A3:create a school culture where all are Ss and their experiences are respected and valued,allow ample opportunities for Ss to have voice, unconditional love from staff. Behavior doesn't equal identity! We can make good and poor choices. We ourself aren't good or bad. #engagechat
My wife says it is what she loves most about me, but it can be quite overwhelming. Growing up it felt more like a curse (you get bullied a lot, like a lot), but I grew to see it as a blessing. #Engagechat
A3: Modeling this is so important. I find myself modeling & explaining the “why”often to my 4th graders. Little things like dropping a kind note on the floor for others to “find” & students going out of their way to uplift others is awesome! #engagechat
Cross-curriculum examples everywhere for them to draw from. Any subject, any situation is an opportunity for compassion in some way shape or form. Challenge students to show compassion on a daily basis and institute a recognition system in language & classroom culture #engagechat
A3) Model to them, BIG acts of compassion assisting community, good will & little, everyday acts picking papers off floor, helping w/grocery bags, giving a hug when someone is having bad day #engagechat
A3: To make compassion part of the education experience, educators and school staff members can make being compassionate a part of the school culture.
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A3: Be the compassion you want to see. Teach it explicitly. Take your time to make eye contact, smile, greet students and teachers by name, compliment others and be prepared to listen to what they say with out words. Compassion is about connecting with others. #engagechat
A3 Stop creating a system that isolates Ss because we think they should be isolated based off of race, economic background and academic level... #engagechat
A3: we need to model compassion even when may ourselves be at the end of our rope. I try to find books for our read aloud at the end of the day to supplement the reading curriculum that have empathy and compassion as a theme #engagechat
A sustained leader recognizes that everyone is a 24 hour person and brings whatever happens in the rest of the hours with them. Compassion involves reading what is not spoken and responding with care and comfort. #Engagechat
Compassion is letting the other person know you care about their well-being. If you take the time to listen to your students share their life stories/moments, and acknowledge their feelings, you are a compassionate educator. #engagechat
A3 showing compassion to all of them. The Ss will know when you care about all of them, or only a few. Even if you truly care for all, make it apparent. You will model for them how to show compassion to all, no matter what. #Engagechat
#engagechat A3 Model & teach compassion. Relationships impt. I tch Snr class but used to tch Jnrs so know whole sch. Have buddies Snr/ Jnr ( Tuakana/Teina-older/ younger). I match them according to needs & strengths & support/compassion needed.Follows into Play-ground-great
A3 Compassion can’t be a periodic element that is introduced or a one-time project that is run. It needs to be present in every interaction. We need to build and celebrate those values all the time. It needs to be at the forefront of all we do. #engagechat
I agree! Compassionate towards the kiddos -- and self-compassion is so important, too! We are all works-in-progress, aren't we? We have to be kind to ourselves as we grow & stretch to become what the Ss need! #engagechat
#engagechat Get them connected- let them see/ hear stories from around the world. Provide them opportunities to help out at feeder schools, help new students find their place, help mentor students. Let them lead & they will feel part of the community and give back wholeheartedly
A3: make it a part of the learning experience. We partnered with #SandyHook start with hello. A powerful message in which our seniors shared with younger students in our district.
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A3b - Teaching about compassion and just being kind should be a daily activity. From greeting students, to asking them about their day. These build community. #engagechat
A3. To make compassion part of Ss overall education, it must be modeled by every adult in the school and district. It must be evident the vision and mission and acted on daily. It must be evident in the fabric! #Engagechat
A3:create a school culture where all are Ss and their experiences are respected and valued,allow ample opportunities for Ss to have voice, unconditional love from staff. Behavior doesn't equal identity! We can make good and poor choices. We ourself aren't good or bad. #engagechat
I feel that this is key! Many Ss experience horrible life trials before even entering school. Love and compassion is the most important thing we can give to a child. #engagechat
A3. Currentlybuilding a walking frame for a student who has brain damage! Compassion is shown in every conversation. Connect your students to real life situational analysis and real life people. #engagechat
A3 I use morning meeting to talk about compassion and we take the time to recognize when people need us staff or students and help them together. Model it #Engagechat
A3: This may sound terrible, but I’m sick and tired of grades getting all the attention and compassion being left out of the picture. I tell my Ss if they leave my class with a head full of knowledge but no compassion, then I have failed them. #engagechat
A3- We speak about how others might be feeling when they're away- we'll send their parents videos of us wishing them well; we speak about how emotions might come out sounding differently than they're being felt- helps others recognize it in others #Engagechat
A3: Be the compassion you want to see. Teach it explicitly. Take your time to make eye contact, smile, greet students and teachers by name, compliment others and be prepared to listen to what they say with out words. Compassion is about connecting with others. #engagechat
My first mentor as a teacher, @nancyras01, told me, “the greatest gift we can give our children is the gift of self control.” That’s a valuable human skill often followed by compassion #engagechat
A3) From the making of get well cards for a fellow classmate, to organizing a larger community event to address individual or community tragedy, letting students plan and execute an encouraging response will teach more than any classroom experience. #engagechat
A3) modeling in class, planning experiential learning where Ss get opportunities to show compassion by feeling empathy and taking action, involving families , cultural education #Engagechat
A1: Crystal from South Korea. To me compassion is rooted in relationships - you don't have to even be friends with someone, but having compassion for someone means you would treat them in a way that cares for the relationship. #engagechat
Q1: If you have already taken the opportunity to introduce yourself, thank you! Just refer to the second part of the slide. You are invited to share your definition of COMPASSION. #engagechat
Empathy and compassion are products of mature healthy individuals. By giving & showing compassion you plant seeds of it everyday. For those seeds to grow in students they must be watered by all the people in their lives. Authentic Compassion can’t be taught. #engagechat
A3 Educating our Ss on compassion requires identifying opportunities where Ss will have to immerse themselves in another's situation. Ss should answer key questions:How did you feel?How could others have helped? What will you do differently because of this experience? #Engagechat
A3: Be explicit in recognizing the compassionate behaviors observed from students, faculty, community, etc. Create a culture of appreciation for compassion. #Engagechat
A3 Stop creating a system that isolates Ss because we think they should be isolated based off of race, economic background and academic level... #engagechat
A3: I make it a habit to regularly talk about compassion and kindness. There is not a single day that I’m not talking about kindness, modeling kindness, or encouraging others to be kind. I believe it is that important. #engagechat
A3: Come together as a school and practice acts of compassion. In the hustle and bustle of the day we have to make time to model it for our Ss. #engagechat They trust us to do the right thing! 🙏🏻
#engagechat Habit 5: Seek First to Understand then to be Understood. We teach our students the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People through @TheLeaderinMe
If you know my posts you have seen this before! Compassion is one of the pillars of GRIT! Model it, teach it, practice it, & change your school's culture! #engagechat
A3 Stop creating a system that isolates Ss because we think they should be isolated based off of race, economic background and academic level... #engagechat
A3 showing compassion to all of them. The Ss will know when you care about all of them, or only a few. Even if you truly care for all, make it apparent. You will model for them how to show compassion to all, no matter what. #Engagechat
A3 #engagechat Compassion is not inherent. Sometimes we need to learn it. As children we need to see it and feel it around us, this is how it becomes a part of us. Charitable deeds can be small, simple acts of kindness- these are what resonate with our students- mindful actions
I won’t say that you can’t teach others about educating students about compassion. But, these are inherent in people. Making these habits are all about practice and persistence. #engagechat
A sustained leader recognizes that everyone is a 24 hour person and brings whatever happens in the rest of the hours with them. Compassion involves reading what is not spoken and responding with care and comfort. #Engagechat
A4: It makes all the difference. Ss respond greatly to those who they feel understand them. In turn, they become more empathetic and compassionate as well. #Engagechat
A4: Showing compassion helps Ss see that you care about them on a personal level. Once a S knows you care, they are more likely to be engaged in the educational process on all fronts. #engagechat
A4: We are with the students more than their families are. Compassion is everything to these kiddos, and without it, what kind of teachers would we be? #engagechat
A4: “With one kind gesture you can change a life. One person at a time you can change the world. One day at a time we can change everything.” @SteveMaraboli#engagechat
A4 students feel safer and they know their teachers trust them. They are not afraid to take risks and carry out what they want to learn and how they want to learn. #engagechat
#engagechat A4: It can make or break them as a student, child, human. We all have childhood school memories of educators. They are either great or horrible. For the great they are most likely tied to compassion. The horrible are tied to a lack of compassion.
A3) Sometimes we are afraid that if we are compassionate, people take advantage of it. But we really need to understand that it’s an empowered state and is a very courageous action. This has to be modeled especially to older students #Engagechat
A3. To make compassion part of Ss overall education, it must be modeled by every adult in the school and district. It must be evident the vision and mission and acted on daily. It must be evident in the fabric! #Engagechat
Thanks! The kids have been absolutely great. Love them to death. It has helped me see how much they are listening when I talk about kindness. This week they were the givers. #Engagechat
A3 We show students we are compassionate by forgiving ourselves & others. We are able to say I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you & I love you. 💙 #Engagechat
A4: Every child needs at least one trusted person that knows their story, cares, attends to them and listens well, someone whose smile can turn a day around, we can be that person! #Engagechat
A4 It makes all the difference! It is sometimes the only positive element in someone’s day. It can be the one thing that puts a smile on a face, that makes them feel important. Taking the time to be there, acknowledging a person is a must. We need to lead with ❤️ #engagechat
A4: Adding to the Q - Be specific! Don't just share quotes and meaningless big words. Ss I've seen that have been "shared" compassion by someone become more compassionate themselves. #engagechat
A4: Every child needs at least one trusted person that knows their story, cares, attends to them and listens well, someone whose smile can turn a day around, we can be that person! #Engagechat
A1. Compassion is giving a hug to a child who needs one. Sitting down and helping a child with homework. Showing caring, listening to what a child has to say! Doing kind acts! Helping someone out! #engagechat
A4 You never know the psychological needs of students. Your act of compassion might be the only real human connection they make that day. You can give them hope simply because you care. #EngageChat
By being part of a caring community, students learn morality by living it. They receive respect & care & practice giving it in return. Respect and care gradually become habits - part of their character. #engagechat
A3 We see daily opportunities to show Ss how to be compassionate to each other and to adults. Each time an opportunity arrises we need to use it to teach our kids how to be compassionate. Lead by example. #engagechat
A3 I use morning meeting to talk about compassion and we take the time to recognize when people need us staff or students and help them together. Model it #Engagechat
A4 It can change the way they view others, which changes everything
people who choose to love, and love is always a choice, make a difference in this world big or small #engagechat
A4: the most exciting part, to me, is that I don’t know! That’s why we need to keep on with the compassion & love because you NEVER KNOW the difference it is making in a life, it might just be ALL the difference!#engagechat
A4: Sharing & showing compassion gives Ss the opportunity to trust, try, believe, & risk connecting with someONE, or someTHING, that has the power to positively change their lives! #engagechat
A4: it can make a world of difference. I have a S going through turmoil at home so I make sure to check in throughout the day. The classroom has to be the safe place all Ss can come to. You may be the only person they come to for support #Engagechat
A4 Ss don’t care about how much we know until they know how much we care. When we invest in our Ss, it will make a lasting impression in their lives. #EngageChat
A4: At the heart of it, better relationships. When you're compassionate to Ss, they will seek you out for help and advice, and they will be more comfortable in your class. If we encourage Ss to be compassionate to each other, they will be more kind and caring people. #Engagechat
A4) Helps them to see that they are not alone, that there are good, caring, kind people in the world, that it’s ok to ask for help, that they should also assist others in need #engagechat
A4 every student needs to have someone to turn to for support, who listens and is available, Ss then begin to develop compassion as well, it makes a huge difference #Engagechat
A3 I use morning meeting to talk about compassion and we take the time to recognize when people need us staff or students and help them together. Model it #Engagechat
I don't know about that part... I don't believe in Him/Her. That's the beauty - You can HAVE a religion but you don't have to BE religious. #engagechat
#Engagechat A4. Making Connections and Making Relationships Work requires being Compassionate..Ss need to feel that from us every day and see that being modeled every day
A4: Showing students compassion and that you care can make all the difference. You might be the only caring adult they have in their life. We don’t know where students come from so we must try to make their time with us the best it can be #engagechat
A4: Game Changer. It makes all the difference. Even well adjusted kids don’t truly know their worth. ALL Ss need to be validated and felt that they are worthy of love and good things, success. #engagechat
A4- It's not always easy to extend compassion. When I'm tired, frustrated or seeing a student treat another one poorly it is often hard to see things from a compassionate stance. Those times, however, are when it will have the greatest impact. #engagechat
A4: If taught correctly, students can connect with compassion and empathy to help stoke school culture. We need be empathic-in-practice, especially given today's political climate. #Engagechat
A4 When Ss feel compassion from those they come in contact with they gain confidence to take chances, they engage more, and feel comfortable that if they make a mistake it will be ok. Compassion creates a positive learning and teaching environment. #engagechat
A4: Compassion is the spark of service. Service is the foundation of leadership. Servant Leaders, including students, realize they matter & that they can make a difference. #EngageChat
A4: Compassion helps people feel SEEN. Some students go the whole day without ever being directly addressed. Showing compassion to each *individual* child ensures that they know they are visible and valued--which is (for lack of a better term) classroom currency. #engagechat
A4 It can change the way they view others, which changes everything
people who choose to love, and love is always a choice, make a difference in this world big or small #engagechat
A4 - The fact the each student is different will never lesson the need for a compassionate, caring teacher. Bringing compassion to any student can be the difference between making them smile and ignoring their pain. #engagechat
We have to treat them like people ... they value that connection and it runs deep ... it is a special kind of trust that they will never forget. #engagechat
A4. It grows all the good things- Grit, Resilience, Engagement, Sharing, Global Citizenship, Community Connected learners and sharers, confidence, and most of all isolates the bullies and helps them to see the big picture. #engagechat
A2: I practice compassion any time I see a student struggling in school and share with them my experience - and about all the times I have failed - letting them know that I am here for them #engagechat
#engagechat. It can change 2 lives. The ones giving compassion become less self centred more caring & involved wanting to help care for others & the Ss that receive compassion may not have had much of it before & increases self esteem self worth/ success.
A4: For some Ss I’ve worked with, it has made the difference in them staying in school, not killing themselves, getting help for an eating disorder, and the list keeps going. #engagechat
A4) Compassion is sadly missing from too many homes, yet it is a critical life skill for an organized society. If Ss do not learn it from you - then from whom? Simple lessons in compassion will alter a life trajectory. #engagechat
A4: It’s a growth mindset that becomes internal/natural. A student will learn that doing unto others as you want done unto you is a life long lesson. #engagechat
#engagechat Compassion is contagious- it makes us feel good-it brings joy to others. When we are surrounded by compassion we swim in it, we find comfort in its warmth & we want others to dive in too. We are more open to change and this causes us to be more outgoing & mindful
You do things bc it makes you feel uplifted. Students are learning it doesn’t take much, you don’t need recognition, & it’s highly contagious! #engagechat
A4- compassion can mean the difference in a good day or bad day. But sometimes it makes the difference between life and death. And sometimes, we might not even know the difference #engagechat
A4 (ctd.): That is, if a child feels visible and valued, they are more likely to participate, more likely to engage, more likely to pay compassion back into the classroom. It's a no-lose situation when you focus some energy into being compassionate to kids. #engagechat
#engagechat A4: " It only takes a spark to get a fire going" our hope for a more compassionate society begins with our Ss. But it's not enough to share about it with Ss in class. We need to live it too.
A2. When a child was showing a difficult behavior not wanting to be part of a group, complaining his hand hurt if he had to write. Sitting down working 1:1 with the child and listening and putting puzzle pieces together to solve problem! #engagechat
A4: I'm not sure there are words to describe the feeling of value, need, and personal connection one feels when they give and receive compassion. It is an awe inspiring connection between two peoples souls and self. #engagechat
Absolutely modeling compassion for our students and colleagues too. Also understanding that our students sometimes are facing adversities that impact their ability to learn, to self-regulate, to be respectful. Trauma-responsive schools build resiliency.
Q4: Compassion can push our students to achieve goals or careers they never dreamed of. Through the modeling of compassion they can care for others and give back! #EngageChat
A3 I use morning meeting to talk about compassion and we take the time to recognize when people need us staff or students and help them together. Model it #Engagechat
Accept that there are parts of our personality that we may not be satisfied with but we should not criticise / get upset trying to address it. Self compassion is critical and need to be addressed also #Engagechat
A4: Compassion is the spark of service. Service is the foundation of leadership. Servant Leaders, including students, realize they matter & that they can make a difference. #EngageChat
A4: For some Ss I’ve worked with, it has made the difference in them staying in school, not killing themselves, getting help for an eating disorder, and the list keeps going. #engagechat
#engagechat. A4. In a decile 1 sch I have SS that have had a 'hard' life. They get yelled at ,sworn at at home. To be praised & told how great they are at things (however small) at sch helps them change & they want to succeed, be leaders & helpful not eg a gang member like Dad
Q4: Compassion can push our students to achieve goals or careers they never dreamed of. Through the modeling of compassion they can care for others and give back! #EngageChat
A3. By building relationships, giving Ss opp. to use voice and choice in classroom. Encouraging open conversation, sharing ideas, and working with each Ss. #engagechat
A4. Showing compassion for others helps us navigate through the difficult times and unite as one.❤️Meet just a few from our #VikingVillage#engagechat#Parkland
A4 #engagechat When we lead with joy and compassion -we are no longer focused on ourselves but on the community- we are guiding with positive energy - this builds trust and respect and ultimately a movement.
I know, right? I had a T one time tell me how worried she was that one of my Ss, whose parents were getting a divorce, got a bad grade on a test. I was like...#Engagechat
A4: Compassion is the spark of service. Service is the foundation of leadership. Servant Leaders, including students, realize they matter & that they can make a difference. #EngageChat
A4- compassion can mean the difference in a good day or bad day. But sometimes it makes the difference between life and death. And sometimes, we might not even know the difference #engagechat
A4b in our building the most at risk students have a kind and caring adult that is their go to person when they need support 😀 we sign up for the S’s we have a relationship with #EngageChat
A4: Sharing compassion makes teachers and students human. It is the difference between being real and being a robot. And I think the world needs less robots. #engagechat
A5: In my life compassion is so important, a smile from a student can turn my day around. One of my team who asks how I am makes my day bright. Teaching is lonely sometimes. We need each other. #EngageChat
A5: you get what you give so if you are showing compassion for a coworker, it will not only come back to you but get spread to the next person who needs support or a kind word #engagechat
#engagechat . Yes don't forget the colleagues . Some Ts have it tough too and yet leave it all at the school gate to give their Ss the best that they can
This was in no way meant to brag. I just wanted to show how important it is to show or Ss compassion. It can literally mean life and death for some. #engagechat
A4: For some Ss I’ve worked with, it has made the difference in them staying in school, not killing themselves, getting help for an eating disorder, and the list keeps going. #engagechat
A5: We thrive on the shared experience of empathy and compassion, same as our students, being there for our colleagues, listening and sharing, makes a difference every day! #Engagechat
A5 Showing compassion & seeing its glory gives educators the view that every struggle, hard time, exam, staff meeting, rough day was soooooo worth it #Engagechat
A5 Compassion is necessary for everyone. Educators need to be understood, valued, celebrated. We need to see when there is too much pressure/stress. We need to reorganize when current system is failing. People are the priority, not structures. Lets walk the talk. #engagechat
A5: Compassion is understanding. We often share compassion to our students and not so much with adults. I personally can learn through my relationships with the Ss and apply it to my peers! To me, it is a world of difference. #alwayslearning#Engagechat
A5 Sharing compassion reminds us that their is always HOPE! As educators we must Help Other People Excel! It should be our Passion to show Compassion daily! #EngageChat
A4: Research has concluded that Ss who acted with compassion during the early childhood years — cooperating, helping, sharing, and consoling — had stronger academic achievement, #Engagechat
A5: Self-compassion is SO VERY IMPORTANT! We need to take care of ourselves, so that we can take care of those around us (at home & at work). It's okay to say no sometimes, hit the pause button, & just breathe! We deserve to be kind to ourselves. We've earned it! #engagechat
A5. If modeling empathy and compassion in classroom, Ss can learn how to care and feel for others in the classroom and school! Doing kindness projects, also can help create a sense of class compassion towrds others. #engagechat
A5: It makes my job feel worthy & important. When I see the crying S, and I can reassure them and talk them through their emotions, I've done something positive. I never knew there was so much room for love in my heart, but when I'm teaching, my heart is always full. #Engagechat
A5: Compassion is a human emotion that needs to be grown. As educators, we need to spark this fire in all students. Together, we can build a better, more compassionate world. #engagechat
A5 teachers teach better. They’re not coming in the classroom thinking “I’m just here to teach” but rather “I’m here to help my students be whoever they want to be” #engagechat
A1: Greg from VB. This is my first time participating in a chat as I’m still learning Twitter. I define compassion as doing what you would want done for you. #engagechat
A5: I can say that sharing compassion makes the job that much better. Knowing that I help others makes me feel good and it’s great that I can make a difference in the life of a child/teacher/parent #engagechat
A5- A compassionate educator sees students as whole, complex beings with a right to be loved and valued. If we come from that place, we naturally extend it to our colleagues, ourselves, the families of our students, etc... #Engagechat
Definitely! I am always grateful for those Ts that trust me enough to share their personal struggles and give me the chance to show them compassion! #engagechat
#engagechat . Yes don't forget the colleagues . Some Ts have it tough too and yet leave it all at the school gate to give their Ss the best that they can
A4: Sharing compassion makes teachers and students human. It is the difference between being real and being a robot. And I think the world needs less robots. #engagechat
A5: In a climate where first year teachers are expected to go from Novice to Expert in the span of a school year, compassion can keep someone in the profession, honestly. Teaching is hard. It's a craft. It's an evolution. It's a revolution. Be kind, be vulnerable. #engagechat
A5 Teaching is hard in so many ways. Genuine compassion from each other can reaffirm us and our work, let us know we’re not alone, and help us see our problems more clearly. #Engagechat
A5: Giving & receiving compassion gives meaning to the job Ts do & helps to sustain Ts. Without compassion, there would be a lack of connection that would lead to lowered morale & lack of purpose. #engagechat
A5 - It helps to make us whole! Our jobs are far more than content, tests, quizzes and hw. Building relationships is, and will always be what great teachers do every day. #Engagechat
#engagechat. A5 Sharing compassion & acting upon it can make you a better more understanding, supportive (& compassionate) person. Some of the horror stories my Ss share with me about home life means we try to help the families too
A5 Sharing compassion smooths out the rough edges. Rather than bristle against unexpected changes, an open heart and mind can bring good feelings in return. #EngageChat
A5: Just as we care for Ss, we have to be there for each other. It is a tough job. There were four Ts this week that supported me when I needed them the most. That is how it should be. #Engagechat
Q5: Hopefully it will rub off on less-compassionate educators and we can use our compassion to spring forward other educators to do the same. #engagechat#payitforward#beagoodinfluence
A5: "The quality of life achieved within ... schools may have more to do with their influence on society than what they teach or advocate." Robert Greenleaf #engagechat#ServantLeadership
A3 If they can't name it or define it, we can't expect them to do it. If educators have their own definitions for compassion on #engagechat, our kids will have theirs too. Great whole group discussion opportunity
#engagechat A5: it has definitely made a difference in my vocation as a teacher. I see Ss open up when once they were afraid. I see Ss becoming less angry and more amenable to advice when they knew I was not condemning them. The power of compassion!
#engagechat Everything. I wrote a blog post about this today. Communication is what helps compassion flourish. When we are isolated we can’t find it- we feel disenfranchised- as educators we need to feel connected it’s what makes education such a beautiful profession
#engagechat A5 Sharing compassion can create a long truly impactful career and provide life changing memorable experiences in the lives of the children we teach everyday. It will give hope and a place students will know they can always come back to.
Cool. And, I think research like that has it backwards: we don’t need to justify teaching compassion by saying it leads to higher academic achievement. If anything, the whole point of achievement is to set students up to live lives in which they can be compassionate. #Engagechat
A5: It can be the spark that transforms a learning experience from good to great, thereby changing the world en mass through whole classes, potentially #engagechat
A5: Compassion is critical for educators. It keeps us grounded. It is, however, equally critical that we (especially those in urban settings) move from pitying students to teaching out of passion. Passion, not pity...#Engagechat
#engagechat A5. Sometimes we don't appreciate how fabulous our family is till we hear about others struggles esp thru a Ss eyes. eg "Mums having another baby. Dad came out of jail again & that always happens. " ( Baby no 10)
A5: Genuine care can’t be overlooked. Our hearts won’t allow us to deny it & that care can influence in ways we can’t even imagine. It can literally change lives. 🐛 🦋 #engagechat
A6: It provides encouragement to keep going with everything you believe is important and to strive to change how the world can be viewed! Half full vs half empty. We all need to support and be suppoted at times. #engagechat
A5 Compassion can sometimes make or break a career especially with young teachers. Feeling compassion from colleagues and Ss can be the difference between a T having a bad day and getting over it or just giving up on the profession. #engagechat
A5 I think from an educators view talking about things you are grateful for and making that gratitude a focus in your class helps kids #gratitudesnaps a big focus for me 😀#EngageChat
A2: Working in alternative education I have experienced many moments of compassion. S who are removed from their home school need to feel welcomed. They need to know their past does not define them. #engagechat
#engagechat Everything. I wrote a blog post about this today. Communication is what helps compassion flourish. When we are isolated we can’t find it- we feel disenfranchised- as educators we need to feel connected it’s what makes education such a beautiful profession
A5: Ts need to find a way walk beside their Ss, to listen intently to what they are saying, and to work with them so they can broaden their circles of compassion, empathy & concern for others #engagechat
My very sincere thanks to all of you for taking the time to join our conversation tonight! This was truly an honour for me! Special thanks to @daviswelcome for providing me, and all of us, with this opportunity to grow together! #engagechat
A5 #engagechat I think as educators we seek every opportunity to immerse ourselves in compassion- we love our students as if they were our own- for 8 hours a day we are parents to all of them. We do not seek monetary gain only the feeling we get when our students believe in us.
A5b: Sometimes as educators we forget to show compassion for our own hearts, minds and souls. We must be mindful that in order to best serve others we MUST show compassion for ourselves. #engagechat
A5: Sharing compassion gives educators purpose. Without it, we become robots without emotions in a system that just creates more little robots. #engagechat
