#EngageChat Archive | Participate

participatechat Jun 2 @ 8:00 PM EDT

Participate in the upcoming #EngageChat by sharing resources and collaborating at https://t.co/rNnYH1lxG6

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:00 PM EDT

Joining #EngageChat from Maryland to talk about modeling compassion.

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:00 PM EDT

Welcome to #Engagechat. Please check in with the group.

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:01 PM EDT

welcome, friend! #Engagechat

In reply to @JKatzaman

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Wes Vinson, Texas, educator. Finally able to be here on time once more! #engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Hello all, Jove MS Principal from MO checking in and ready for some inspiration #engagechat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Hi, Eric. I hope you've had a good week. #EngageChat

In reply to @daviswelcome

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:01 PM EDT

Brian, Illinois Hey everyone! #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Welcome, Wes! #engagechat

In reply to @Wesley_Vinson38

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Emily joining from California, from @goswivl and @RecapThat. First timer at #EngageChat, excited to be here, hey everyone!

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Good evening #engagechat! Ready to learn from and with You!

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:02 PM EDT

Good evening #EngageChat friends! Todd from NY, HS assistant principal. It's Friday night!

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Robert here from Los Angeles. Back from the 8th grade picnic and back with my PLN! #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Welcome, Brian! #engagechat

In reply to @BKd204Sci

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Gary from Illinois looking forward to the discussion #engagechat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Hello! Jodie, SpEd teacher from Ohio! Excited to get to join tonight's topic! Putting together a presentation on this! #engagechat

JV_lack Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Hi #engagechat James...Tech Integration...South Texas

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Andrea Cook, Kansas City, MO District I.T. Trainer #engagechat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Hello everyone. Vandana Singh joining from Delhi,India #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:03 PM EDT

Welcome, Emily! #engagechat

In reply to @EmilyMerritt, @goswivl, @RecapThat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:04 PM EDT

Elizabeth from Wisconsin joining in. It's great to see everyone tonight! 😊 #EngageChat

KRScienceLady Jun 2 @ 8:04 PM EDT

Kathy is here from Vermont #engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:04 PM EDT

#engagechat Jerry Toups HS Math Tr LamarCISD by Houston TX SUMMER IS HERE! Making memories with the nephew and niece at the pool.

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:04 PM EDT

Howdy #engagechat from Barbara, school counselor and author of What's Under Your Cape in Friendswood, TX.

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:04 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @inspire0818

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:04 PM EDT

Hey there, my friend! #engagechat

In reply to @MrRussoRH

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Hey there, my friend! #EngageChat

In reply to @RewardingEdu

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Hey Eric! I hope you're well! #EngageChat

In reply to @daviswelcome

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Preston, VA., checking in! Hello everyone!#engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Always good to be here! #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Hey there, friend! #Engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Hi all! Ellen Weber - Look forward to the exchange - and always enjoy new ideas that work for Ss. #EngageChat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Always a pleasure to be with you, Eric. #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:05 PM EDT

Tara here . . . HS English teacher from Nebraska #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #Engagechat

In reply to @jodiepierpoint

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Great way to start a weekend w/some of my favorite #PLN members @KRScienceLady #engagechat @inspire0818 @JoveStickel

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Hey there, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @Singh_Vandana

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @KRScienceLady

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:06 PM EDT

It's been a while. Thank you for welcoming me back! #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

EduGladiators Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

💥#EduGladiators is BACK TOMORROW! Join core warrior @PaulONeill1972 finding💪 in failure! #compscichat #EngageChat @jprofNB @LouHayesJr

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #Engagechat

In reply to @PrestonMcKellar

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

Hi! Rebecca from Nevada- Hope you had a great week! #engagechat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

WI is my home state! Go Badgers. I'm coming home June 20th to give a mindset workshop in Milwaukee at the #Character Conference. #engagechat

In reply to @ElizRussellEdu

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

Hey there, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @ellenfweber

KNiemis Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

Kyle here! Science teacher from NJ #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @R_CILR

KRScienceLady Jun 2 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Yes it will be a busy science weekend for me. Im working on the Navigator. #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:06 PM EDT

Great way to start a weekend w/some of my favorite #PLN members @KRScienceLady #engagechat @inspire0818 @JoveStickel

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Good to be back! #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:07 PM EDT

Hey there, friend! #engagechat
In reply to @ellenfweber

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Question 1 coming up ..... #Engagechat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:08 PM EDT

Hi, Rebecca! Always great to learn with you. #engagechat

In reply to @R_CILR

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:09 PM EDT

Hi #Engagechat! Valerie from FL checking in a little tardy!

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:09 PM EDT

Thanks, Eric. Good to see you. #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

MsClabo Jun 2 @ 8:09 PM EDT

Tammy here!! Trolling.. driving so I will me trying to keep up!! #engagechat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:09 PM EDT

I hope you have an awesome time here in Wisconsin! #EngageChat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Sorry I'm late! Madlen from NJ here 😊#Engagechat

yainping Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Hi I am yainping from Singapore. It is a sunny morning as usual right here. #EngageChat

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Hi, Robert! I enjoy learning with you, too. #engagechat

In reply to @RewardingEdu

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: What does it mean to be compassionate? #EngageChat

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Sean from San Diego. Students last day was today. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:11 PM EDT

Welcome! #engagechat

In reply to @MrsRizkalla

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:11 PM EDT

A1 Being compassionate is putting the feelings of others first, trying to help in any way possible. #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:11 PM EDT

Hey there, friend! Be careful! #EngageChat

In reply to @MsClabo

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 To understand, validate, & support someone's position or in their walk in life #engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 genuine care for others offering support and really listening to their concerns, fears and ideas #engagechat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1: Compassion is the concern we feel for welfare of others & is evident in desire 2 help alleviate the suffering of another #engagechat

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1: compassionate: meet the needs of others by understanding them and providing the right kind of support to create success #engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

#EngageChat A1. I think when I'm compassionate I feel someone's pain or discomfort and I try my best to make things better for them

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 Compassion is more than caring. It is caring enough to be attuned & attentive to the present needs of others. #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

You can't be compassionate w/o being a good listener #engagechat

In reply to @JoveStickel

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 the ability to show empathy even if you don't want to. Compassion drives relationship building #engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

#engagechat A1 Compassion means you have empathy. You know how others feel. You put others ahead of you. Your life is about we and not me.

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

Absolutely! #Engagechat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:11 PM EDT

A1 Being compassionate is putting the feelings of others first, trying to help in any way possible. #EngageChat

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

I don't think I'd ever thought of it that way, but you're totally right, listening is really at the core of compassion #EngageChat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 genuine care for others offering support and really listening to their concerns, fears and ideas #engagechat

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

Compassionate means taking your students emotional wellbeing into account when responding to behavior. #engagechat they have bad days, too!

In reply to @daviswelcome

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1 Seeing when someone is having a bad day and asking if there's anything you can do. Showing that you care every day. #engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

A1: actively seeking to understand the needs of someone, no matter what. Caring about the plight of another... #EngageChat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: Being supportive of others, showing you care more about them than you do yourself. Wanting to bring out the best in others. #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

it means to be caring, empathetic, genuinely trying to help while maintenance of mission in check #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

#EngageChat A1. I'm supporting...I'm caring...I help in any way I can

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: Compassion is thinking with our hearts, embracing the experiences of another and wanting to help change it for the better! #engagechat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1. Being Empathetic, Kind,Gentle,Caring ,Considerate and having a human heart #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: What does it mean to be compassionate? #EngageChat

yainping Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 Being compassionate is the first step towards a caring culture. #EngageChat

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: Being empathetic. Taking the time to just sit, listen, and feel with another human being feeing pain. #Engagechat

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

Lyndsey here from D.C. Excited to stop in! #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

Listening is the key! #engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:12 PM EDT

A1 genuine care for others offering support and really listening to their concerns, fears and ideas #engagechat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: I am compassionate when I see what others see, hear what they hear or feel what they feel and will treat them differently #engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

#engagechat A1 Compassion = 69 average MAGICALLY turning into a 70 when you know the student is trying. The ultimate superpower of a teacher

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1: To show someone concern and care during a time of struggle or suffering. ❤️🙏🏻❤️ #Engagechat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 Compassion is active, not passive. It is being responsive and attentive. #engagechat

JV_lack Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 Looking past any and every mistake...choosing to look past... #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Awesome! #Engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

Rdene915 Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

#engagechat Hi everyone, finishing up a long last week/day of school, will try to pop in tonight! Happy Friday :)

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Listening is key. You have to hear what's truly being said & felt by others. #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT

You can't be compassionate w/o being a good listener #engagechat
In reply to @JoveStickel

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

A1 I'm gonna go with @JoveStickel here, the key to compassion is active listening, before anything else #EngageChat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Its not just the giving of a % but its the validation & acknowledgment of the effort #engagechat

In reply to @Toups_J

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

A1 Compassion is a heartfelt response to helping someone who is in need. 💙 #EngageChat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

A1: Hi #EngageChat. Akilah, from VA. Here for a bit. #Compassionate is showing/giving sympathy/being what a person or situation needs

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: What does it mean to be compassionate? #EngageChat

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Compassion's a choice to deliberately care deeply for and support others, It uses several unique parts of brain. #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

You got it, friend! #Engagechat

In reply to @RewardingEdu

Stephanie_GXY Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

A1: render physical/emotional support by being presence/listening & x assuming we understand fully what the person experiencing #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

Hey there, my friend! #engagechat

In reply to @Rdene915

ImTheRealReRe Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

Rhianna from Jacksonville 16 now a junior in hs :) future chorus teacher #engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

A1.1: putting the needs of others ahead if your own... #EngageChat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

A1: Compassionate: exercise a high degree of empathy and consider situations from multiple viewpoints in meeting others' needs #engagechat

edu_taraw Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

Good Evening! Tara Woodard signing in a few minutes late from Wilson, NC #engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

Yes yes yes yes yes #engagechat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 Compassion is active, not passive. It is being responsive and attentive. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Yessss! #EngageChat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT

Its not just the giving of a % but its the validation & acknowledgment of the effort #engagechat
In reply to @Toups_J

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Question 2 coming up .... #EngageChat

Stephanie_GXY Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Sorry skipped the intro. Steph from Singapore #EngageChat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

A1b: #Compassionate is all about being responsive to what a person or group needs #EngageChat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

I agree, showing compassion goes hand in hand with being empathetic. It's showing heart. ❤️ #engagechat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT
A1. Being Empathetic, Kind,Gentle,Caring ,Considerate and having a human heart #EngageChat
- daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT
  
  Q1: What does it mean to be compassionate? #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Welcome! #Engagechat

In reply to @edu_taraw

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Perfect definition. #engagechat

In reply to @ellenfweber

ImTheRealReRe Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Rhianna from Jacksonville 16 future chorus teacher #engagechat

hdutrey Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

A1: Understanding that every1s going through their own stuff.... listening 2 find ways 2 support them in their journey. #Engagechat

yainping Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Sometimes it is also about to feel for a need for us to dive in even people are not talking about it. Sensitivity is needed too. #engagechat

In reply to @jodiepierpoint

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Agree - it's a bit like listening with the brain! #EngageChat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Listening is key. You have to hear what's truly being said & felt by others. #engagechat
- BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:13 PM EDT
  
  You can't be compassionate w/o being a good listener #engagechat
  In reply to @JoveStickel

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

A1: #EngageChat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

A1b: Compassion is the "heartset" in this three-pronged #empathy explanation. It's the feelings piece! @micheleborba #engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

#EngageChat A1. You're Not Alone ..#compassion

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Great explanation. #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:16 PM EDT

A1: Compassionate: exercise a high degree of empathy and consider situations from multiple viewpoints in meeting others' needs #engagechat

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

Thanks for your kind words, Andrea! #EngageChat

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:17 PM EDT

Perfect definition. #engagechat
In reply to @ellenfweber

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

I think it's also observing, listening to your own intuition that someone needs your compassion in the moment. #engagechat

In reply to @jodiepierpoint

edu_taraw Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

A1) Compassion and empathy go hand in hand - putting others first and truly attempting to understand without judgement #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2: How can leaders show compassion for staff members? #Engagechat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

I also feel compassion is ongoing, not a reactive measure. People know. #EngageChat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT

A1 Compassion is active, not passive. It is being responsive and attentive. #engagechat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Sean from Orland Pk IL - jumping in late. #engagechat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

#EngageChat Being #compassionate is an action that empowers you

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Self care is important if we want to stay compassionate #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:18 PM EDT

A1: #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd

yainping Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Just a reflection - sometimes we lack the courage to be compassionate. #EngageChat

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

Busy week for you! #Engagechat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

hdutrey Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

So true... "without judgement"! #engagechat

In reply to @edu_taraw

ImTheRealReRe Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A1: it is caring and having empathy #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Don't judge! Understand them, listen to them, help them w/your experience to work through the situation #WeAllHaveBeenThere #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2: Leaders have to know staff members at a deep level & identify with their struggles to be able to show compassion for them #engagechat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Leaders can show compassion for staff members by listening and being aware of their circumstances, trying to accommodate. #EngageChat

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

Awww! so much happiness at #engagechat tonight!

In reply to @JoveStickel

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

Good evening #engagechat! Sorry I'm late (movie night with the kids)! I'm Jess. I teach 7th grade writing in Texas.

In reply to @Lyndsey_WE, @daviswelcome

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Compassion is a key component of leadership, along with inspiration and education. It is moving others forward bit by bit. #engagechat

KRScienceLady Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

Love ❤️ this :-) #Engagechat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:20 PM EDT

#EngageChat Being #compassionate is an action that empowers you

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: Leaders must listen closely & offer real solutions to help staff. Not just empty 'we're here for you'. Sub for classes 1 day #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

Don't judge! Powerful! #EngageChat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Don't judge! Understand them, listen to them, help them w/your experience to work through the situation #WeAllHaveBeenThere #engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2 we must be present when people speak with us and model a sense of openness and care, be kind #engagechat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: Authentic & respectful listening that we as leaders develop through experience, #engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

#engagechat A2 In May 1 of my coworkers lost her husband. My boss LEAD the way role modeling compassion. WALK THE TALK!

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: leaders must first create the spaces and structures needed for compassion. Then they act accordingly. #engagechat

edu_taraw Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2) Building relationships with them - asking about and showing that you truly care about their lives (family, etc) #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

Identify with their struggles! #EngageChat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2: Leaders have to know staff members at a deep level & identify with their struggles to be able to show compassion for them #engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2:1st seeking to understand than to be understood.Listening to what they are actually saying instead of why you think they are. #EngageChat

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: Compassion for staff members is to help out with small things. Pop in and cover recess or lunch duty for them, etc. #EngageChat

In reply to @daviswelcome

JV_lack Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2 Create a culture of connecting...the more you get past surface level interactions, the more connected you get #engagechat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:22 PM EDT

A2: By listening to and stepping into their stories, caring about and embracing their feelings and offering a helping hand. #engagechat

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Leaders should know their staff like teachers should know students: as individuals who each can be motivated and learned from #engagechat

yainping Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Being judgemental makes it so difficult for people to open up to school leaders! #engagechat

In reply to @BKd204Sci

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #engagechat

In reply to @JJ_Burry, @Lyndsey_WE

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

#engagechat A2 In May 1 of my coworkers lost her husband. My boss LED the way role modeling compassion. WALK THE TALK!

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2: Show understanding for the level of pressure Ts are under. Roll up sleeves and jump in to relieve that pressure! #Engagechat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Yes. Knowing someone, esp. a teacher, is on your side is powerful beyond measure. Kids always know. #EngageChat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT
I also feel compassion is ongoing, not a reactive measure. People know. #EngageChat
- RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:14 PM EDT
  
  A1 Compassion is active, not passive. It is being responsive and attentive. #engagechat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Exactly. A sense of true empathy is very powerful. Says a lot about the culture of your school. #engagechat

In reply to @Wesley_Vinson38

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2 totally agree! And recognizing that a lot is going on in staff member's experiences that they don't see first-hand. #EngageChat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:21 PM EDT

A2 Leaders can show compassion for staff members by listening and being aware of their circumstances, trying to accommodate. #EngageChat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A2b it comes down to building relationships with people on a level deeper than the surface #engagechat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

#EngageChat A2: #Leadership can display compassion to their staff by honoring their voice in school culture

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

A1: Compassion is understanding others and being able to work with/help with their concerns/issues. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: What does it mean to be compassionate? #EngageChat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

#EngageChat A2. The Leader expresses the support and concern when there's a tough time...The Leader is Human

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

Thanks!!! I would have to agree. When you feel the care from another...you're unstoppable...🙌🏼 #EngageChat

In reply to @teachtothebrain

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2:not only leaders, but all staff show others by listening, taking the time to appreciate what others are doing & encouragement #engagechat

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

Hi, Jess! Hope it was a great movie. #Engagechat

In reply to @JJ_Burry, @Lyndsey_WE, @daviswelcome

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

This!! #EngageChat

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:23 PM EDT

Leaders should know their staff like teachers should know students: as individuals who each can be motivated and learned from #engagechat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2.By matching the Words with Action : Showing care,Practice Empathy,Show Kindness. Encourage transparency & culture or respect #Engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2: How can leaders show compassion for staff members? #Engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:24 PM EDT

A2a Leaders lead Ss & Ts Have the same mindset in helping them get to a balanced state Be genuine w/compassion #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

example- someone needs to leave early - allowing it, getting coverage. Spread around duties - praising #engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

hdutrey Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

Agree! Must b present for anyone to believe u truly care:) #engagechat

In reply to @JoveStickel

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

Actions speak louder than words... #engagechat

In reply to @Singh_Vandana

Stephanie_GXY Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2: Identify struggles via 1-1 con. Not placing the blame on them but rather to improvise situation to maximize their strength #EngageChat

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2 Building relationships with coworkers gives the leader a better chance to show genuine compassion. #Engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

#EngageChat A2. Relationships are built and genuine...Staff knows they can go to their Leader...

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2 Leaders can show compassion for staff by modeling it & encouraging others do so, as well. #EngageChat

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

Definitely!! The Wizard of Oz!! It's their first time watching it! #EngageChat

In reply to @R_CILR, @Lyndsey_WE, @daviswelcome

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2: Happened 2 me this wk at a training. Realized that compassionate listening has 1 purpose:2 help another empty his/ her heart #engagechat

KRScienceLady Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2 By listening and letting teachers know you understand the pressure on them, way too many initiatives #engagechat

JV_lack Jun 2 @ 8:26 PM EDT

Connect...attend family gatherings...say hi in the grocery store...lend a crying shoulder #EngageChat

In reply to @Wesley_Vinson38

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:26 PM EDT

You got it, friend! #EngageChat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:25 PM EDT

A2 Leaders can show compassion for staff by modeling it & encouraging others do so, as well. #EngageChat

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:26 PM EDT

A2: Remember you are working with humans. Sit and talk with your Ts & let them know you're there. #Engagechat

hollorans Jun 2 @ 8:26 PM EDT

Compassion is walking in "their" shoes. #EngageChat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:26 PM EDT

#EngageChat A2. Listening...Building Trust

KRScienceLady Jun 2 @ 8:26 PM EDT

need to show appreciation for all students, teachers, leaders #engagechat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

A2: if you say, do it. Mean in. Don't just say something because it's the correct thing to say. Model it daily. #engagechat

MsHoskinsTech Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Hi #engagechat! Marisa Hoskins here jumping in late!

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

A2: By listening. #EngageChat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

I know @Joesanfelippofc & other admins have sent letters to staff members' parents and/or spouses to thank them Great leadership #engagechat

In reply to @JV_lack, @Wesley_Vinson38, @Joesanfelippofc

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Question 3 coming up .... #EngageChat

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

Hey friends!! A little late tonight!! #engagechat

MsHoskinsTech Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2-by practicising empathy, being communicative, modelling positive behaviours #engagechat

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2. Compassion follows when we side-step broken leadership skills to risk caring about people again! https://t.co/INqhLknBnG #engagechat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

BEST practice ever! #connections #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd, @JV_lack, @Wesley_Vinson38, @Joesanfelippofc

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

So true..... #Engagechat

In reply to @daviswelcome

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

Welcome, friend! #EngageChat

In reply to @MsHoskinsTech

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

But even Oscar listens. He's just grouchy about it. #EngageChat

In reply to @daviswelcome

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

Thank you, Rebecca! Your kind words are appreciated! #EngageChat

In reply to @R_CILR

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

This should be read & understood by all in #Edu #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:27 PM EDT

A2: By listening. #EngageChat

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2b: Make it a habit to ask about them and genuinely listen. #Engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2.1: remembering this... #EngageChat

bobbyfagogenis Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

#EngageChat A2: use it as a lense when building and reviewing policy and school norms

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

A2: Sometimes I found leaders who felt being compassionate was a sign of weakness w/staff. Isn't it really about relationships?#engagechat

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

Oh! That is a gerat movie! #engagechat

In reply to @JJ_Burry, @Lyndsey_WE, @daviswelcome

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

A2: model compassion daily. Show all staff & students you are invested & genuinely care. #engagechat

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

A1 Being kind and caring! #engagechat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

Glad you can join us, Kim! #EngageChat

In reply to @kimmykcollins

JV_lack Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

#EngageChat a few minutes of time and some extra effort breaks down barriers...

In reply to @polonerd, @Wesley_Vinson38, @Joesanfelippofc

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:29 PM EDT

Amen! #engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:28 PM EDT

A2.1: remembering this... #EngageChat

Stephanie_GXY Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

+A2:relationship beyond leader-staff. Show appropriate amt of interest on staff personal affair helps identify struggle earlier #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Q3: How can teachers show compassion for students and their families? #EngageChat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Yes, definitely something to keep in mind! #EngageChat

In reply to @bobbyfagogenis

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Yes! My oldest (7yo) was amazed when it changed to color. My youngest (3yo) proclaimed it changed b/c "the girl is dreaming." #EngageChat

In reply to @R_CILR, @Lyndsey_WE, @daviswelcome

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

Absolutely! The art of teaching and learning is based on building relationships. #engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

A3 Teachers show compassion by treating each student as an individual, not resorting to the broad brush and moving on. #EngageChat

MsHoskinsTech Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

A3-taking time to listen, asking questions, remembering personal details #engagechat

hdutrey Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

A3: Becoming part of the community:) #Engagechat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

Make sure as leaders we don't use our flying monkeys to get the job done. Do it ourselves & w/ kindness. #engagechat

In reply to @JJ_Burry, @R_CILR, @Lyndsey_WE, @daviswelcome

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

A3: Reach out! Home visits, help when you can. Get to know them personally. #EngageChat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

A3: This follows along the same thread. Teachers must get to know students deeply: home life characteristics, passions & needs #engagechat

triciafreyes Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

#engagechat A3 Phone calls home with a quick anecdote goes a long way!

In reply to @daviswelcome

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3: Working around tough situations is a great start. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Q3: How can teachers show compassion for students and their families? #EngageChat

yainping Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Have to make a judgment call. Some staff do take advantage of the kindness. #engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3: treat students like they have developed and complex feeling and trust that parents are doing the very best that they can #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Q3: How can teachers show compassion for students and their families? #EngageChat

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

You really have to know your students as individuals in order to have meaningful compassion: homelife, interests, beliefs, etc. #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3 By knowing/showing the most important thing in life is not a letter, but using your ability to overcome adversity & succeed #engagechat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3: phone calls home & asking "what can I do for you". I go to Ss events outside of school as well. #engagechat

MsHoskinsTech Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Reminder to embrace the individuality of our students! #engagechat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:31 PM EDT

A3 Teachers show compassion by treating each student as an individual, not resorting to the broad brush and moving on. #EngageChat

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3 By truly knowing their Students! Build relationships from day 1! By being kind, caring & understanding! #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

Excellent! #Engagechat

In reply to @JJ_Burry

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3: Provide for needs, give students, hope, a helping hand, and high expectations #engagechat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3: If we want 2 live & work with students & parents in a more compassionate school we need to both teach & model it 2 everyone. #engagechat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3. I think #compassion starts with creating a climate in which children feel safe, valued, valuable and loved! Embrace them. #engagechat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3 Show kids empathy, inclusion, warmth, encouragement, and trust. This builds student confidence & creates belonging.#engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3 building relationships, communicating with Ss and Ps engaging both in your school community #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

Love this! #engagechat

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:32 PM EDT

A3 By truly knowing their Students! Build relationships from day 1! By being kind, caring & understanding! #engagechat

edu_taraw Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3)building relationships early on and asking questions about/showing you truly care about their lives (family, activities...) #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3: And create support networks with the community to be in place when tough times occur #engagechat

english_roy Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3: Jumping in momentarily: listening carefully before responding is an act of compassion. #EngageChat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

#EngageChat A3. With Respect and Care..Ss know and can sense how much you care about them. Ps feel Respected, more importantly Welcomed

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3a Be genuine & authentic when discussing a situation w/Ps & Ss Often all that is needed is an ear to listen #engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3:bldg rapport with Ss, getting to know them as people, w/ lives beyond school.Seeking understanding instead of assuming worst. #EngageChat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3: Tt can show compassion to their Ss and their families by being intentional about getting to know their lives #EngageChat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: I'd love to see more Ts take more time at the beginning of the year to create this culture in their classrooms. So positive! #engagechat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3 Educators can show compassion for students and their families by reaching out when they are experiencing difficulties. #EngageChat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

Awesome! #Engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

#EngageChat A3. With Respect and Care..Ss know and can sense how much you care about them. Ps feel Respected, more importantly Welcomed

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: If we want to raise compassionate kids, we need to act compassionately to others in front of them. #engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

not automatically assuming Ss is at fault, listening, yesterday a parent blasted me about a teacher - just needed me to LISTEN #EngageChat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

Never forget education is all about relationship building...it all starts w/that #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3, Last part: And understand that teachers are there in service of students learning to create a better world #engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

#engagechat A3 St / Tr RELATIONSHIPS is the key to compassion. BUILD THE RELATIONSHIP with the St and the parents will follow.

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3 In addition to taking time to listen to the students. Treating each student respectfully! #engagechat

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3: By not making assumptions. Working with families &being flexible... Remember this... #Engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

#EngageChat We are constantly building Relationships and Taking that time to Listen to one another

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A3 When parents realize that the teacher cares & understands their child, a solid parent-teacher partnership is formed. #engagechat

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

Yes! #Engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

not automatically assuming Ss is at fault, listening, yesterday a parent blasted me about a teacher - just needed me to LISTEN #EngageChat

triciafreyes Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

A2 #engagechat come say hello, a friendly 1 min check sends the message that you see your staff and care about them.

In reply to @daviswelcome

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

Yes! Dig beyond the surface level stuff! #engagechat

edu_taraw Jun 2 @ 8:33 PM EDT

A3)building relationships early on and asking questions about/showing you truly care about their lives (family, activities...) #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

You got it, my friend! #Engagechat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

A3: I'd love to see more Ts take more time at the beginning of the year to create this culture in their classrooms. So positive! #engagechat
In reply to @BarbaraGruener

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:35 PM EDT

my son graduated high school this year. A teacher that he didnt have in class came to his grad party. #love #Engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

true, ex. calling to check on injuries means a lot #Engagechat

In reply to @ElizRussellEdu

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

Great point! #EngageChat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:34 PM EDT

not automatically assuming Ss is at fault, listening, yesterday a parent blasted me about a teacher - just needed me to LISTEN #EngageChat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

#EngageChat Why We Need Kind and Compassionate Leaders | Psychology Today https://t.co/13hpnEPAX7

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

Still unbelievable to me that it's not the norm to forget those positive relationships and connections! #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3b: I always watch this as a reminder https://t.co/c0ybA7lzgA #Engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3.1: be the light #EngageChat

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3: the proactive side of Restorative Practices is sooo important #engagechat

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:37 PM EDT

A3: There can be no strong and abiding relationships creating deep learning without compassion given and modeled by teachers #engagechat

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:37 PM EDT

Very true. It needs to be part of the school's culture. #engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:37 PM EDT

Question 4 coming up ... #EngageChat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:37 PM EDT

Too many Ts still handing out classroom rules and worried about how much 'curriculum' they have to cover. Sad. #engagechat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

Rdene915 Jun 2 @ 8:37 PM EDT

#engagechat Definitely, have to start with building those relationships, key for so many aspects in education

In reply to @JoveStickel

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:38 PM EDT

A3: Some families under tremen press: bills, job, divorce. We must remember this when Ss fall asleep/fail assignments,etc. #Engagechat🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:38 PM EDT

Rita is the real deal #engagechat

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:36 PM EDT

A3b: I always watch this as a reminder https://t.co/c0ybA7lzgA #Engagechat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:38 PM EDT

Yes, it is so important to show students! 😊 #EngageChat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

Rdene915 Jun 2 @ 8:38 PM EDT

#engagechat A3 Be available, ready to support, listen, make calls/emails, invite in, showing genuine interest in building a relationship

In reply to @daviswelcome

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Q4: How do you deflect negativity? #EngageChat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

What do you need 2 feel safe w/ others in our room?Ss list relational qualities 2 embody compassion:acceptance, trust, respect #engagechat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Our students are dealing w more outside pressures than ever before. We have to acknowledge those. #engagechat

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:38 PM EDT

A3: Some families under tremen press: bills, job, divorce. We must remember this when Ss fall asleep/fail assignments,etc. #Engagechat🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:40 PM EDT

A4: use a positivity shield #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Q4: How do you deflect negativity? #EngageChat

Rdene915 Jun 2 @ 8:40 PM EDT

#engagechat A4 Meet it with a double dose of positivity...work to turn it into a positive

In reply to @daviswelcome

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:40 PM EDT

Communication first! We set up digital dialogue journals in class, with easy access for parents, students, & teacher. #engagechat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:40 PM EDT

A4: I'm thinking about sharing THIS @daviswelcome wisdom at the beginning of the year, for use as a filter to stop negativity! #engagechat

JoveStickel Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A4 model positivity smile be enthusiastic, share your story and passions #engagechat

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A3: You can only change your behaviors and thoughts. Figure out a way to get what you need while keeping your cool. #engagechat

MrH1029 Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A3: Don't always assume the worst about parents and our students. It is an intentional decision to not judge based on what we se #EngageChat

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

The minute you start to yell, you've lost #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

Nice!! #EngageChat

In reply to @i4peace_sean

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A4 The best antidote for negativity is gratitude. Appreciation transforms everything. #engagechat

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

I know that I genuinely care and I make it my mission to show the nonbelievers that in authentic ways and ask for their feedback #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4 My negativity I deflect by remembering #LifeHappens & it can be difficult to deal w/ #engagechat

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4 Squashing it!! 👊🏻 #engagechat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4 Deflect negativity by addressing and responding to the positive elements in an interaction. Respond with "And ..." not "But" #EngageChat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4: distance yourself from the negativity- it's not productive. Move on & remember your "why" #engagechat

MsHoskinsTech Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4-generally the ignore and kill em with kindness approach works wonders to change negative behaviour #engagechat

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A3: Sometimes I ignore it. Bam!!Move on!#Engagechat

edu_taraw Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

A4) Deflect it with positivity - but whatever you do, don't feed it (don't agree with the negativity) #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:42 PM EDT

Awesome, friend! #EngageChat

In reply to @BarbaraGruener

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4 Staying clear, keeping my moth close or only speaking positively!! Really just finding my passion folks & hanging with them #engagechat

Stephanie_GXY Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: Recharge w positive vibes eg sports & people to suppress the negativity. Remember to talk it out when turns overwhelming #EngageChat

Skymazef3 Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

#EngageChat Entering stage left in a lazy Saturday morning in Melbourne. Teacher of deaf/Deaf/hearing Done with aplomb and awe of ss

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

Joining in really late #engagechat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4. Trying to see and show 'every cloud has a silver lining' Talking of #Hope #PositiveThoughts #PositiveVibes No room 4 -vity #Engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Q4: How do you deflect negativity? #EngageChat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4:realizing that people are dealing with things we have no idea about and no control over. Exude compassion and understanding. #EngageChat

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4 I honestly think listening is key here too. Often venting & negativity just comes from a need to be heard. #EngageChat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: I can’t always control the situation, but I can control how I choose to look at it and respond. #engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

#EngageChat A4. I distance myself from toxic people. But in the school setting, we're here for kids. So I remind myself of the focus

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

Amen! Well said! #EngageChat

RewardingEdu Jun 2 @ 8:41 PM EDT

A4 The best antidote for negativity is gratitude. Appreciation transforms everything. #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4a Always see the wine glass as half full...it can always be worse #engagechat

MrH1029 Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: Validate the person by listening and #EngageChat

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: "Act as if..." I always act as if I'm feeling great and my attitude follows. #engagechat

hdutrey Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: Be proactive. And, If ur consistently positive, others will know not to waste their negativity around you. #Engagechat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4: #EngageChat You deflect negativity with the polar opposite: #positivity and #joy! #Joy is contagious...spreads like wildfire!

In reply to @daviswelcome

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

Doing what is best/RT for Ss - not adults - like they would want me to do for their child - fresh start daily for Ss/teachers #engagechat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4 You can deflect negativity by not giving someone the reaction they want. Stay calm, offer a smile & use positive words. #EngageChat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

#engagechat A4 BE POSITIVE! Student created collage from my phrase. Students AND coteachers will sense your positive vive = INSPIRATION

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

Amen. Talking with Ts and Ss about their circle of influence and control is SO important! Letting go is a gift. #engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4: Shifting the subject can help, and making an effort to examine the situation to see what can be improved #engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

#EngageChat A4. Be positive and Mind is on the Learning.

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

This sums it up perfectly...how to respond to negativity #engagechat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:43 PM EDT

A4: I can’t always control the situation, but I can control how I choose to look at it and respond. #engagechat

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4: Remember to assume the best intentions, even when folks seem negative. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT

Wow! Very nice! #Engagechat

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4 You can deflect negativity by not giving someone the reaction they want. Stay calm, offer a smile & use positive words. #EngageChat

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT

Showing you care by really listening to people and offering practical help. #engagechat https://t.co/FGTyveFYII

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:10 PM EDT

Q1: What does it mean to be compassionate? #EngageChat

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4: I deflect negativity by not calling attention to it and turning it into a positive. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Q4: How do you deflect negativity? #EngageChat

MrH1029 Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4: Listen first, acknowledge their POV but then lead the conversation back to the main issue and shed a new positive light #EngageChat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4. Telling the importance of Positive Affirmations, work to improve Self-esteem and importance of +Ve Attitude #EngageChat

In reply to @daviswelcome

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4: #EngageChat You deflect negativity in a math formula: Subtract negativity by adding positivity/multiply it daily

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT

Absolutely, once it's out of everyone's system, then a constructive resolution can be built. #EngageChat

MrH1029 Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT

A4: Listen first, acknowledge their POV but then lead the conversation back to the main issue and shed a new positive light #EngageChat

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A2: A kind word and a showing of fellow feeling. Writing a card. #engagechat https://t.co/Oyal8iYmGR

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:19 PM EDT

Q2: How can leaders show compassion for staff members? #Engagechat

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4.1: respond with kindness #EngageChat

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT

A4: Model positivity! Negativity will not hang around long!#Engagechat

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT

It does get back to the Plato quote about being kind. #engagechat

In reply to @MrRussoRH

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:47 PM EDT

Great point. Modeling positive behavior in front of other Ts can send as strong of a message as it does to Ss. #engagechat

In reply to @hdutrey

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:47 PM EDT

#engagechat maintaining a smile while others are negative = POSITIVE SUPER POWER

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:44 PM EDT

A4 You can deflect negativity by not giving someone the reaction they want. Stay calm, offer a smile & use positive words. #EngageChat

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:47 PM EDT

A3: You first have to get know the families. I've sent condolences and even helped a family find a dr. #engagechat https://t.co/DWGbhFgKS8

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:30 PM EDT

Q3: How can teachers show compassion for students and their families? #EngageChat

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:47 PM EDT

Awesome 👍 #EngageChat

In reply to @OrganicLeaderVB

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:47 PM EDT

@MsHoskinsTech very true, practiced daily 😊 keep things in perspective, ex. De-escalate #engagechat

In reply to @GSmit4Character, @MsHoskinsTech

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:47 PM EDT

Last question coming up ... #EngageChat

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

We bring parents into stu-led celebration of innovation yearly! They love it! #engagechat

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

A4: surround yourself with like-minded people. Have a core group with the same mindset. #Engagechat

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

#EngageChat A4. Maybe just have an open conversation and try to better the team relationships

Wesley_Vinson38 Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

A4: Sometimes negativity can be transformed to positivity by acknowledging a person's contribution or success, big or small #Engagechat

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

Thanks for the feedback #engagechat

In reply to @PrestonMcKellar, @MsHoskinsTech

i4peace_sean Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

A4: by helping others understand their feelings, ensuring that you care, and validating their feelings (even if negative) #engagechat

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

A4: I think it is important to let both peers and Ss vent. Then, when appropriate, use humor. #engagechat https://t.co/mJzXBo6r0u

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:39 PM EDT

Q4: How do you deflect negativity? #EngageChat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:48 PM EDT

#engagechat A4 my cycle of positive turning into joy.

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:49 PM EDT

I love this. #Joy is an intentional daily walk. #EngageChat

In reply to @Toups_J

Skymazef3 Jun 2 @ 8:49 PM EDT

#engagechat a1 Compassion can be living in their world. See solutions from their world view

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:50 PM EDT

Q5: Please share a time when you modeled compassion. #Engagechat

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:50 PM EDT

A4: I also try to speak calmly to the person and tell them I'm sorry they are having a touch time. Be helpful couldn't hurt. #engagechat

BenvengaJoe Jun 2 @ 8:50 PM EDT

Mic Drop! #Engagechat

In reply to @ElizRussellEdu

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:50 PM EDT

A4 Put a positive spin on the situation no matter what. The neg nelly will get that u dont buy in & leave u alone or change. #Engagechat

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

I like this, tho, as a child of a mentally ill dad, I can say not all get to choose. Mental illness robs some of the choice. #engagechat

In reply to @Toups_J

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

I have to come to realize that happiness is a state of mind, not a circumstance or fact. #engagechat

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

Powering down for the evening, thank you for a lovely and inspiring #engagechat everyone!

kimmykcollins Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

A5 Yesterday when someone was talking about a person. I just kept saying that person seems nice. Over and over again!! #engagechat

WmStubbs Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

A5: I've modified suspensions to fit more under restorative justice practices. That was true compassion...#Engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:50 PM EDT

Q5: Please share a time when you modeled compassion. #Engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

#engagechat JOY that fills your heart = PRICELESS!

In reply to @OrganicLeaderVB

ElizRussellEdu Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

Thank you, Joe! Glad to see you tonight! #EngageChat

In reply to @BenvengaJoe

Lyndsey_WE Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

A5: Student had a difficult morning at home. Yelled at someone for "blaming" him. I took him aside asked what I can do 2 help #engagechat

triciafreyes Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

A5 #Engagechat I wrote every student a personalized thank you note this year and made an effort to say something special about each of them.

In reply to @daviswelcome

MelanyStowe Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

A4: It is essential to avoid devoting too much attention to negativity. #EngageChat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

A5 S I had this year was having diff time managing life Team focused on making S feel relevant & help him to grow in confidence #engagechat

OrganicLeaderVB Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

#EngageChat The Power of Compassion https://t.co/hmugcXX68w via @HPLifestyle

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

Like #EngageChat PLN!👏🏻

In reply to @MrsRizkalla

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

A5 Sudden, unexpected loss in a co-worker's family is a time for empathy, understanding, but not, "I know how you feel." #EngageChat

Skymazef3 Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

#engagechat a3 Compassion can be baby steps. Student K now goes to bed at 11 instead of 2am to please me. But it had big impact +++

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

I think it's important to remember that for many joy, happiness, positivism is not a choice. Must have compassion for them. #engagechat

Schuhmacher22 Jun 2 @ 8:52 PM EDT

I had Ss who were "off". I asked what was wrong, if no response I l said let me know if I can help - then I waited & was there. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:53 PM EDT

Absolutely! #Engagechat

In reply to @MelanyStowe

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5: We made a batch of homemade candy, took it to a dinner for the homeless: my son handing out the last peanut butter ball. #engagechat

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5a Each time I tell a S #LifeHappens & we work it out together Too often Ss are surprised by that method #engagechat

triciafreyes Jun 2 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A4 #engagechat I put up boundaries even if that means I have to walk away or not join a conversation, I set my limits & believe in myself.

In reply to @daviswelcome

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5: I send postcards to students weekly highlighting an achievement or something I've noticed. #engagechat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:53 PM EDT

A5: When I see a T stressing over implementing new tool/app, I tell them "we'll do this together", & then we DO. Teamwork! #engagechat

Shift_in_Edu Jun 2 @ 8:54 PM EDT

Join the Shift! Early Bird Registration Deadline June 15. https://t.co/1wI9eDYLsc #EngageChat #edchat #passiondriven #edtech @AskAdam3

R_CILR Jun 2 @ 8:54 PM EDT

Very nice! That makes me think of how S. Covey talked about speaking well of someone who is not present. #engagechat

In reply to @kimmykcollins

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:54 PM EDT

Very true. It's very tough on children. #engagechat

In reply to @ritaplatt, @Toups_J

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:54 PM EDT

A4. I teach Ss skills to look past problem to see possibility. They enjoy that approach. #engagechat https://t.co/cOV0Al4be5

Stephanie_GXY Jun 2 @ 8:54 PM EDT

Expressing the feeling is the key. Remembering ppl who work in medic who sees death daily. Depressing yet need to remain strong #engagechat

EmilyMerritt Jun 2 @ 8:46 PM EDT
Absolutely, once it's out of everyone's system, then a constructive resolution can be built. #EngageChat
- MrH1029 Jun 2 @ 8:45 PM EDT
  
  A4: Listen first, acknowledge their POV but then lead the conversation back to the main issue and shed a new positive light #EngageChat

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

Powerful! They will remember that for the rest of their lives. Very thoughtful! #engagechat

triciafreyes Jun 2 @ 8:51 PM EDT

A5 #Engagechat I wrote every student a personalized thank you note this year and made an effort to say something special about each of them.
In reply to @daviswelcome

GSmit4Character Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: When someone who finds me trustworthy is hurting, touch is my primary language of compassion #engagechat

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

#engagechat Read this story. Don't know how I overcame that day to my level of joy. Part of my book. https://t.co/0rCszHNVZ7

In reply to @ritaplatt

MrRussoRH Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: compassion is a way of life and how you respond to others daily.It has to be purposeful, authentic & to demonstrate caring. #EngageChat

MrH1029 Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

A5: In response to an irate parent, I kept my cool and the situation was diffused. The parent apologized and we moved on. #EngageChat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

I like this term: Possibility Thinkers. #engagechat @BalesInterm @friendswoodisd

ellenfweber Jun 2 @ 8:54 PM EDT

A4. I teach Ss skills to look past problem to see possibility. They enjoy that approach. #engagechat https://t.co/cOV0Al4be5

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

Also, there are children w/ mental illnesses that remove some choice from their emotional outlooks. #mentalhealthawareness #engagechat

In reply to @mr_hayes, @Toups_J

BKd204Sci Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

Supporting Ss w/the small stressers of life is how we can show compassion daily #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd

Skymazef3 Jun 2 @ 8:55 PM EDT

#engagechat a4 one of my successful ways to avoid negativity is to have a beautiful language room. It is a pleasure to work in #aussieED

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5: Remembering that each day is a fresh start - don't look back! 🌟#engagechat

hdutrey Jun 2 @ 8:56 PM EDT

Teamwork... def a piece of compassion. So important to join in the journey vs being a spectator! #engagechat

In reply to @polonerd

MrsRizkalla Jun 2 @ 8:56 PM EDT

A5: A teacher was emotionally struggling. I went into her class & told her to go do what she needs to do & I subbed no questions #Engagechat

PrestonMcKellar Jun 2 @ 8:56 PM EDT

S w bad behavior, needed CS hours & lost sneakers. Found sneakers in common area, got hours with custodian, faxed hours to PO #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:56 PM EDT

Thank you for your great participation. See you next week! #engagechat

polonerd Jun 2 @ 8:57 PM EDT

Thanks for a great chat tonight. Love the positive focus tonight as we get ready for another summer of learning together #engagechat

BarbaraGruener Jun 2 @ 8:57 PM EDT

The gift of TIME is a beautiful thing. That's huge #compassion right there! #engagechat

In reply to @MrsRizkalla

JJ_Burry Jun 2 @ 8:57 PM EDT

A5: S once told me she had a big fight w/ her mom that morning and she had nothing to look forward to. She learned to ❤️ school. #engagechat

daviswelcome - Moderator Jun 2 @ 8:50 PM EDT

Q5: Please share a time when you modeled compassion. #Engagechat

valerietilton Jun 2 @ 8:57 PM EDT

A5: I appreciate when I am shown compassion! I know I'm not perfect!Listen, support, make time for others!🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻#Engagechat

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:57 PM EDT

This is beautiful. #engagechat

In reply to @MrsRizkalla

inspire0818 Jun 2 @ 8:57 PM EDT

#EngageChat A5. 1 of my Ss was crying at Dismissal. Her mom picked her up But, the 3 of us went + talked until we solved what had happened

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:58 PM EDT

#engagechat A5 I read this story to my Ss on Read Across America Day. Blank Blank is about me getting bullied. https://t.co/0u929qhLY6

Singh_Vandana Jun 2 @ 8:58 PM EDT

Thanks everyone. Great discussion #engagechat

acooktweet Jun 2 @ 8:58 PM EDT

Had a principal once that sent a letter to the parents or spouses of all the staff telling them how much she appreciated them. #engagechat

jodiepierpoint Jun 2 @ 8:58 PM EDT

Wonderful chat!! Thank you #engagechat pals!! 🌟

mr_hayes Jun 2 @ 8:58 PM EDT

A5: My wife and I helped a girl, who was homeless, go the prom. #engagechat

JKatzaman Jun 2 @ 8:59 PM EDT

Thanks, Eric. See you Sunday on #SafeSchoolsChat. #EngageChat

In reply to @daviswelcome

ritaplatt Jun 2 @ 8:59 PM EDT

Thanks for letting me jump in, #engagechat, have a great weekend!

Toups_J Jun 2 @ 8:59 PM EDT

#engagechat @daviswelcome #YouAreAWEsome thanks for doing this!

Skymazef3 Jun 2 @ 8:59 PM EDT

#engagechat a5 During exam week ss get tired, so compassion is giving them a mind break with gentle easy on brain games