Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
#MEMSPAchat Happy Thursday all! I'm Akilah, from VA, middle school administrator. My favorite comfort food is three cheese mac n cheese! #FoodJOY#Path2Serendipity
A1: My favorite self-care act: getting up about 45 minutes earlier than I need to, sipping coffee and listening to quiet music. Gives me power for the day! #memspachat
Amy Wassmann, Whole Child Supervisor from #SaginawISD. My favorite comfort food is homemade chicken noodle soup... and Ben & Jerry's Coffee Heath Ice Cream. #MEMSPAchat
A1: I probably indulge in a few more goodies while I am at school the first few weeks! But, on a healthier note, walking or running after I get home is the best therapy for me! #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A1: This year, I am making it a priority to hand write thank you cards to recognize my staff members for doing the exceptional things they do. #MEMSPAchat
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A1: Role changed on August 10 so to show myself compassion I've actually tried to give grace because I've needed to ask for a lot of it as I ask a lot of questions and learn new responsibilities as I get started. #memspachat
A1: I put down my phone after dinner and focus on my family, I also focus on getting enough sleep, I remind myself there’s always more that can be done but I have to have some balance #MEMSPAchat
A1: Remind myself that it's OK to make mistakes and to take ownership. I also make sure that I keep up with my me time. It's easier to skip workouts and meals (or eat too many) when stressed or things are difficult. AND--ask for help when needed. #MEMSPAchat
A1: I like to get up (extra) early, run with my good friend @KatQuain and get the school house early to get acclimated with the day before the crazy starts. Also, give myself permission to make mistakes, learn from them and roll on with the year! #MEMSPAchat
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A1: #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity Two ways: being intentional about #joyful connections w/people that nourish my spirit & doing #kind acts for someone on a daily basis-helps me remember my #why
Q1 giving myself permission to walk away and know that I can come back to things aftera break. We have to take care of ourselves to take care of our team. #MEMSPAchat
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A1) There is never enough time to complete all that must be done in the fall but since picking up coaching FB, I feel better how I prioritize tasks. Also a great way to fit in my love of football, student growth, and the outdoors. #memspachat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A1: Family time and definitely running with my partner in crime @MPSbiedermann helps me stay in check. I also have an amazing supportive staff who make even the most difficult days at work manageable #mortonchat#MEMSPAchat
A2: When I start moving at the speed of light I lose sight of what is really important...the people around me. I have to S-L-O-W down, smile, breath deep, and focus on the person right in front of me. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: My compassion seems to run out for my people at home before it does my school. I am lucky that my family is very forgiving. I really have to stop and remind my husband how much he means to me, more importantly try and show him that. #MEMSPAchat
A2: There have been MANY times when I have forgotten to demonstrate the gratitude & admiration I feel for those I work with. In my defense, I always think it, I just forget that people can't read my mind. #MEMSPAchat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
#Path2Serendipity Quote (pg. 52)-"There is no greater blessing than to appreciate the gift of love and life"-when a book has this beautiful quote you know it's a jewel! #MEMSPAchat#tlap#LeadLAP
A2: I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. #memspachat
A2: A lack of compassion is not going to make the work easier. Invest now or pay later! I have been there. People work harder when they knew I understood their "why". #MEMSPAchat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
#MEMSPAchat A1: does drive kids around to practices and what not count? Trying to keep the weekends pretty free to just relax and unplug. Trying to enjoy some football season, but none of my teams are playing well so that's not helping! 😁
A2: If you burn the people that are there to support you or you alienate them, the times you really need them, they are hesitant to be the comfort that you need. T Don't bite the hand that feeds you is what come to mind. #MEMSPAchat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Maya Angelou #memspachat
A1: My morning workouts and prayer time help me to get my head on straight for the day! Then, when I get home, I try to put my phone down and just focus on time with my boys and wife. #memspachat
Q1: The first few weeks back to school often are considered the “honeymoon”, but things can get tough quickly. What do you do to show yourself compassion as things in school get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: a few years ago my compassion for Ss was high but it was low for my Ts I was easily frustrated. After making some assumptions I learned a staff member was going through a lot with family and I felt terrible. Reminded my I have to care for staff as much as Ss #MEMSPAchat
A2: I learned that continuing to nurture relationships can never take the back seat, especially when things get tough. We must attack the tough times head on. It's the only way to honor all of good that happens. #MEMSPAchat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q1 giving myself permission to walk away and know that I can come back to things aftera break. We have to take care of ourselves to take care of our team. #MEMSPAchat
A2) Sadly, the times I have struggled with compassion often seem to be the times when the student or staff have needed it the most. Must remember that most are always fighting a battle of some sort. #MEMSPAchat
A2: Education is a tough business. No one wins when you get overwhelmed. I really try to be aware of when I am frustrated and make sure I don't respond to things until I have had a chance to refocus. #memspachat
A2: I've learned that the people (staff, students, etc) are always more important than the task. If I lose focus on the students and staff I am serving, I have missed the point. #MEMSPAchat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: Read a great story the other day explaining how when we get shaken we are going to spill out what is inside of us. Is grace inside you, anger, positivity, resentment. Whatever it is, tough times are going to reveal it. #memspachat#OtherPeopleMatter
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: When I lose focus on compassion everything around me falls apart. I’ve learned from past mistakes and really try to catch myself when I start to slip. It’s so easy to fall into negativity so I have made it a point to find a positive in every situation and person. #MEMSPAchat
Q2: Think back to a time when things got tough and you lost focus on showing compassion to the people around you. Describe the valuable lesson you learned. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: I make a conscious effort to thank and appreciate those that surround me!! My parents modeled this when I was younger and I still do it today. I'm specific and sincere in my "Thank You's" and try to always presume positive intention which makes having compassion easier!
A2: I learned that first it's ok-I forgave myself & realized that showing compassion benefits my well-being in the process. #Path2Serendipity#MEMSPAchat
A3 Smile, be fully present when they need to talk. Let them know I value them for the work they are doing. Help them celebrate their wins and fails. #MEMSPAchat
A3: Love doing new things to show staff that I appreciate them, like room service on 1st day of school (thanks @BethHouf for idea) The everyday stuff is just as important. I try to get into #EveryClassroomEveryDay and write positive notes frequently. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A2: I also try to double down with compassion when I am stressed. My stressed out time is when I try to do random acts of kindness and appreciation of staff members. Making others feel appreciated reminds me to be compassionate. #memspachat
A kind staff member made this great tangible piece of all 24 + strengths. Decided that instead of enjoying them myself, I’ll give them to those who are exemplifying the strength in action & encourage them to pass the rock to others doing the same. @PosProject#otherpeoplematter
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A3: small treats left at their desks, emails, hand written cards, shout outs on social media @overkljw what do you do to show appreciation for your staff? #MEMSPAchat
A3: try to tell them all how great they are, point out the good as often as I can. Try to say good morning each day to all and check in after school to see if I can help with anything. Celebrate another successful day or laugh about the good points on a tough one. #MEMSPAchat
A3: Coffee and treats. My wife and I will make her FABULOUS homemade chocolate covered peanuts. Who doesn't love chocolate?!? Plus. knowing that they were homemade, "they were made with love" . I get in trouble with @BSaidWright every time we make them . #memspachat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A3) I really enjoy themed gifts around holidays. Every day connections go a long ways toward showing folks that you care enough to remember the details.#MEMSPAchat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A3: Writing & singing a song for staff works well;) I think the key with appreciation is not "one time" demonstrations, but daily interactions of respect & caring. #MEMSPAchat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A3: Coffee Wall; Orange treats; surprise donuts and cider...but more importantly - recognition for hard work; "thank you", providing leadership opportunities, and respect. #memspachat
A3: We keep a "staff favorites" list: favorite snack, pastry, drink, etc. Randomly buying something from the list for staff members. I also send them text messages and hand-written notes to tell them how much I appreciate them. #MEMSPAchat
A3: I would like to do more and do it more often, but I do treats when possible, notes of gratitude, and listen a lot. #MEMSPAchat I have a b-day cart of professional books this year too!
#Path2Serendipity Joyful Quote #2 (p.81): "Making frequent, positive connections ensures the health of our relationships" @AllysonApsey Another powerful quotes that speaks to our #why in leadership & life #MEMSPAchat
A3: Have personal non-school discussions to get to know more about them and their family. Also, cinnamon rolls from Connie’s Cafe is a sure win!! #MEMSPAchat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
#Path2Serendipity Joyful Quote #2 (p.81): "Making frequent, positive connections ensures the health of our relationships" @AllysonApsey Another powerful quotes that speaks to our #why in leadership & life #MEMSPAchat
A3: One of my favorites from @KidsDeserveIt is calling the parents of staff members and telling them how amazing their kids are at teaching. You get tears of joy every time with this one. #MEMSPAchat
A3.) A simple “thank you” can go incredibly far. Being available and present, building positive and caring relationships. Care for them as a person and an educator #memspachat
A3: Sending emails with words of praise, personally complimenting them on something I noticed them doing well, and this year I’m using strategies I learned from Adaptive Schools Training to really strengthen relationships & communication. #MEMSPAchat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A3: I am fortunate to work with the master @RockyStamos1 of staff care. She loves showing appreciation through food, celebrations, empathy and words of encouragement. #MEMSPAchat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4: Having fun with students is the best for building relationships! Second to that is listening to them-like down on your knees, hand in hand, listening and asking questions. Fanny packs with speakers ALWAYS help too!! #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4) Providing voice and choice goes a long way. With students, I am already seeing the benefits of early positive calls home and daily conversations on SS interests. #MEMSPAchat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4.) Starts with knowing them and something about them. Being present in building helps. Can do much more good in the classroom, lunchroom, and playground than from the office #MEMSPAchat
A4: My favorite strategy I did with my Ss was do a walk-n-talk. Sometime the negative atmosphere of the "Principal's Office" is not the right place and raises a Ss anxiety. Most times, Ss opened up to me more when we went for a walk around the building or outside #memspachat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4: Goal is to learn all 658 names of our middle schoolers. Greet them in the hallway with it. Kids want to be noticed and what better way than to know and use their name. Got permission from one mom to use son's middle name if I have to ;) #memspachat
A4: have really been trying to build up the positive bank account with some of my high flyers at the start of the year. Pointing out all the good things they do each day. Having little chats checking in with them. #MEMSPAchat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4: My favorite strategy I did with my Ss was do a walk-n-talk. Sometime the negative atmosphere of the "Principal's Office" is not the right place and raises a Ss anxiety. Most times, Ss opened up to me more when we went for a walk around the building or outside #memspachat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A5) . At the beginning of each staff meeting I provided note cards for teachers to send notes to Ss and Community. I mailed them on Thursday nights to make their weekend! Always look for positive ways to surprise the kiddos! #memspachat
A4: The short version is to focus on their #Maslow needs-this is a proactive way of ensuring we are meeting Ss where they are #SEL#Path2Serendipity#MEMSPAchat
A4: Goal is to learn all 658 names of our middle schoolers. Greet them in the hallway with it. Kids want to be noticed and what better way than to know and use their name. Got permission from one mom to use son's middle name if I have to ;) #memspachat
A4: My favorite thing to do when I was a principal was to sit down with a student by their locker and just help them with their assignment or just talk about "stuff". #memspachat
A4: I love the 10-2 strategy. 2 minutes a day for 10 days to build meaningful relationships. Then repeat when challenging behaviors present themselves. Listen, lean in, ask questions, read to or with them. #MEMSPAchat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4: Be visible, available and sincere in your actions. Show compassion but let them speak and don’t always try to solve their problems...just listen and let them have a voice! Treats and incentives always work in a pinch, too! #MEMSPAchat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q5: When times get tough, our patience can diminish. What practices do you employ to make sure your emotions don’t interfere with problem solving? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4: Visiting classrooms from day one; playing tag and football at recess and eating lunch with students had made a big impact. It’s much easier to have a meaningful conversation when I know about their life outside of school. #MEMSPAchat
A4: Be visible, available and sincere in your actions. Show compassion but let them speak and don’t always try to solve their problems...just listen and let them have a voice! Treats and incentives always work in a pinch, too! #MEMSPAchat
Q4: Describe some proactive and preventative strategies you use with students to establish strong, positive relationships. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A4) Take the time to teach a lesson to the class of you are an administrator. Builds excitement, relationships, and provides a different perspectives or everyone. #MEMSPAchat
A3: I do hand written notes, specific Thank You emails and food at staff meetings. But this is an area I'd like to become more purposeful & thoughtful in though as time goes on and I get to know my staff better. I'm feverishly reading to see what my PLN does!!! #MEMSPAchat
Q3: It is important to build strong, positive relationships to help us through the tough times. What specific things do you do to show appreciation to staff? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A5: I get tired & patience wears thin sometimes. Being aware of my emotions is the first step. Focusing on serving those around me helps me not act on my emotions.
Accepting that I'm a work in progress helps me not feel the need to get defensive.
#MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q5: When times get tough, our patience can diminish. What practices do you employ to make sure your emotions don’t interfere with problem solving? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A5: Go for a walk, sit in a kindergarten class (how can you not be happy in a KDG class?) and "schedule a meeting with a dead guy" @Syndee_Sue#memspachat
Q5: When times get tough, our patience can diminish. What practices do you employ to make sure your emotions don’t interfere with problem solving? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A5: Be transparent. Model self regulation. "I am not at a place where I can talk about this now." "I am not in the best frame of mind to make this decision." I have even used this one: "I am too disappointed to address this right now. I will speak to you later."#MEMSPAchat
A5) Surround yourself with educator role models. Take time to surf the Twitterverse for positive words of wisdom, and remember. It's all about the kids. #MEMSPAchathttps://t.co/91dSASDyqA
Q5: When times get tough, our patience can diminish. What practices do you employ to make sure your emotions don’t interfere with problem solving? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A5: I have struggled with this one. Letting people know I am disappointed, upset, etc. and that I need time to consider next steps is helping me to manage emotions yet respect individuals. #MEMSPAchat
Q5: When times get tough, our patience can diminish. What practices do you employ to make sure your emotions don’t interfere with problem solving? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q6: When you think of the toughest conversations you have had, what did you do to make sure you showed compassion to all involved? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
In my younger days, working in a large corporation, the president, who I had only meet in passing once before, remembered my name and greeted me in the hallway. I have never forgot that moment. #memspachat
#Path2Serendipity Quote #3 (p.40): "The only person who has control over our behavior is us"-@AllysonApsey Absolute truth & such a healthy way to respond to life. #MEMSPAchat
A6: Empathy is key to effective tough conversations. Feeling with the person you are having the hard conversation with helps you get the message across without cutting the floor out below them. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Great ideas. Have tried Voxer to provide your Ts feedback? You record in notes and send via email to your T from your phone. Our staff appreciate the enthusiasm in my voice providing encouragement after a walk-through or interaction. Very simple, efficient, and powerful.
A6) My perspective might be a little different, but having the tough conversation is a sign of compassion. It means I care enough about you to give feedback and help plan next steps. #BuildAuthenticTrust#memspachat
A6: After you knock them down, you have to build them back up. Students, Staff , and parents. Everyone's heart is in the right place but we all make mistakes. #memspachat
Q6: When you think of the toughest conversations you have had, what did you do to make sure you showed compassion to all involved? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A6: I made sure that in the end the person I had to have the conversation with that we are in this together and I am here to provide support them so they can grow. #MEMSPAchat
Q6: When you think of the toughest conversations you have had, what did you do to make sure you showed compassion to all involved? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
So true. Tough conversations through the lens of #empathy ensures you leave the conversation with people still whole-it always starts with #empathetic listening #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendpity
A6: Empathy is key to effective tough conversations. Feeling with the person you are having the hard conversation with helps you get the message across without cutting the floor out below them. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A3: personal thank yous and treats go a long way. I made "commitmint" treat bags for my Summer Enrichment staff for their amazing work! #RCSDEnrichment2018#memspachat
A6: I feel like I’m being repetitive but listening, truly listening is always best. In my early years I tried to interject and defend in an effort to make things better , which never worked. This year I’m working on paraphrasing, which helps validate feelings! #MEMSPAchat
Q6: When you think of the toughest conversations you have had, what did you do to make sure you showed compassion to all involved? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A6) My perspective might be a little different, but having the tough conversation is a sign of compassion. It means I care enough about you to give feedback and help plan next steps. #BuildAuthenticTrust#memspachat
I do this with my staff and they truly enjoy it. I leave the voice feedback as every educator in my school has Voxer. I even give a morning message to staff via Voxer as well. #PumasRoar#memspachat
In reply to
@CattaniTony, @jcbailey3, @AllysonApsey
No need to apologize for repeating one of the most important things we do...listen! It is a universal answer to showing compassion! #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A6: Always presume positive intent. Always. And then listen fully to truly understand, pause, paraphrase, pose questions, then problem solve. #memspachat
Q7: When you were given feedback that was tough to hear, how did you show compassion to the person giving you the tough feedback? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A6: Building a strong relationship before the difficult conversation helped. Afterwards, it was about moving forward and not reflecting on the past. #MEMSPAchat
It is key to remember that feedback is a two-way street. If it is only one person engaging in the conversation that is a directive. We grow when we can have conversations with one another. In addition to that, we must make sure we plan next steps. #MEMSPAchat
I am going to bring it to T.C. this year. I am not sure what the theme is "Favorite book character", but I will be ready. No Green Screen this year. I am bringing the Captian! #memspachat
A6: I did my best to examine any unconscious bias I might be bringing to the conversation. Once I brought those to the light, I was able to show compassion by being an attentive listener to not only the words being said, but the unspoken emotions. #MEMSPAchat
Q6: When you think of the toughest conversations you have had, what did you do to make sure you showed compassion to all involved? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A7: When someone tells me something that is hard to hear, I am hurt at first. Then I thank them for telling me instead of someone else & I pause to let my emotions settle and to think. It takes time but ultimately I use the info to propel me forward. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q7: When you were given feedback that was tough to hear, how did you show compassion to the person giving you the tough feedback? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
You are a thinker Mr. Simpson!! I do the same thing, it is helpful to lay our biases out on the table before a conversation. #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
@Syndee_Sue I just added a corner to my office just for the purpose of being knee to knee, eye to eye so people know they matter in even the hardest conversation! #MEMSPAchat
Q7: When you were given feedback that was tough to hear, how did you show compassion to the person giving you the tough feedback? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A7: Listen to what they have to say and work very hard to be open to what they are sharing. It is a gift when someone cares enough to give you honest feedback. I treat it as such and try to reflect and grow from it. #memspachat
Q7: When you were given feedback that was tough to hear, how did you show compassion to the person giving you the tough feedback? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Q7: When you were given feedback that was tough to hear, how did you show compassion to the person giving you the tough feedback? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A6: Many difficult conversations in my time as a superintendent. Compassion and empathy come across in many ways. Be prepared for the meeting/conversation, respectful in all regards, true to your word. Your integrity and empathy will come through! #MEMSPAchat
Q7: When you were given feedback that was tough to hear, how did you show compassion to the person giving you the tough feedback? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
Challenge question: What is one strategy or practice you will take away from our chat tonight and use tomorrow to show compassion when times get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A7) Try and truly listen, set the autobiographical defensive story to rest in my head and really try to listen and grow...it's about growth and we need to honor all perspectives...not all feedback is tough, it's the story we tell ourselves that can get in the way.
#MEMSPAchat
A6: I've said it tonight, first presume positive intentions, ALWAYS. In addition it's important to listen to understand, not listen to respond!! Lastly, don't take anything personal! Keep Ss at the forefront and let "what's best for kids" rule the conversation! #MEMSPAchat
Q6: When you think of the toughest conversations you have had, what did you do to make sure you showed compassion to all involved? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
A7: I guess my sports background helps me with this. It's coaching, it's about getting better. "Tough love" from someone who wants you to be ur best. #MEMSPAchat I still remember @DaleCarlson63 and @rgkirkton saying, each day you get better or worse, you never stay the same.
A7: Having an understanding of what needed improvement and not being argumentative. Sometimes it’s tough to put the ego aside and get a different perspective about it. #MEMSPAchat
Challenge question: What is one strategy or practice you will take away from our chat tonight and use tomorrow to show compassion when times get tough? #MEMSPAchat#Path2Serendipity
@Syndee_Sue I just added a corner to my office just for the purpose of being knee to knee, eye to eye so people know they matter in even the hardest conversation! #MEMSPAchat
A8: Challenge - take a page out of @sisdphelps book and work on my coaching skills;);) Also totally taking the service card idea! @AllysonApsey#memspachat
