#LDchat Archive

Understood holds this weekly Twitter chat that aims to keep the momentum going and raise awareness of learning and attention issues. Follow along with hashtag #LDCHAT and follow users @understoodchats & @understoodorg. Experts will be available to answer your questions and concerns and share resources from Understood.org.

Wednesday June 13, 2018
12:00 PM EDT

  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:00 PM EDT
    LIVE NOW Welcome to today's #ldchat! This is Dan with the Understood team. We're joined today by psychotherapist and Understood expert @StephanieSarkis, chatting about #anxiety in kids with learning and attention issues.
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:00 PM EDT
    Who's with us today? #ldchat
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Hello! My name is Kelly Brown, I’m studying Digital Communication in Education with @ghartman. This is my first time participating in a Twitter chat! #LDchat
  • Bookshare Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Hi everyone! Bookshare is pleased to join the chat #ldchat RT @UnderstoodOrg: Who's with us today? #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    I’m here! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Trying out Twitter chat for the next hour for the first time #LUlearns #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Welcome, Kelly! So glad you're here. :) #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374, @ghartman
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Hello, @KellyBrown374, and welcome! #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374, @ghartman, @KellyBrown374
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:01 PM EDT
    Thanks for joining today! #ldchat
    In reply to @Bookshare
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:02 PM EDT
    Hello everyone, I'm looking forward to your comments and questions. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:02 PM EDT
    I hope you find this helpful. It's a great place for both educators and parents to connect. #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:03 PM EDT
    Thanks for joining, @Bookshare! #ldchat
    In reply to @Bookshare, @UnderstoodOrg, @Bookshare
  • edielovesmath Jun 13 @ 12:03 PM EDT
    Edie, Academic therapist from Washington, DC. More than 50% of my older kids with ADHD suffer from anxiety. There's hope that strategies are being developed to improve success at school and work. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:04 PM EDT
    Hi Edie! How's the weather in DC today? #ldchat
    In reply to @edielovesmath
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:04 PM EDT
    We'll begin in just a minute... #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:04 PM EDT
    Hello again, @edielovesmath! Thanks for joining us! We'll definitely be talking strategies. #ldchat
    In reply to @edielovesmath, @UnderstoodOrg, @edielovesmath
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:05 PM EDT
    Okay, let's get started! We'll use the Q1, Q2… format for questions. Please use the A1, A2… format for answers. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:05 PM EDT
    First question coming up... #ldchat
  • edielovesmath Jun 13 @ 12:05 PM EDT
    The weather is awesome! Hopefully it doesn't rain 😃#LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:05 PM EDT
    Q1. What does #anxiety look like in kids? #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    A1. In kids, anxiety looks like insomnia, nail biting/picking, hair pulling, difficulties focusing, irritability, isolating themselves, school refusal. Some anxiety signs aren’t as noticeable - it’s important that we check in w/ kids to see how they are feeling. #ldchat
  • AndrewLStreeter Jun 13 @ 12:06 PM EDT
    Trying out TChat as well to improve my own practice. Secondary Consulting Teacher for Special Education serving 7 middle schools. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:07 PM EDT
    Welcome, @AndrewLStreeter! #ldchat
    In reply to @AndrewLStreeter, @AndrewLStreeter
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:07 PM EDT
    Great points! Do you have any suggestions on how to approach the subject? #ldchat
    In reply to @StephanieSarkis
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    Here are just 4 common signs of #anxiety in kids. #ldchat https://t.co/zDwInV8TK6
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    First, letting your kid know that you want to listen w/o judgment. Using a "feeling chart" for younger kids is helpful, they can point to what feeling they are having. Also letting them know lots of other kids can feel this way too. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • ChurchillSchool Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    A1 What DOESN't anxiety look like in kids? For each child #anxiety is different. Some manifestations are obvious, other are hidden #ldchat
  • edielovesmath Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    Thanks. Older kids and adults need support too. #LDchat
    In reply to @StephanieSarkis, @UnderstoodOrg
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
    #anxiety looks like lack of sleep, unable to focus, easily frustrated, arguing, refusing to talk. #LUlearns #LDchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:09 PM EDT
    Yes, very true. The ones I listed are the most common signs. #ldchat
    In reply to @ChurchillSchool
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:09 PM EDT
    I actually have a resource that may be helpful. Stay tuned... #ldchat
    In reply to @edielovesmath, @StephanieSarkis
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:09 PM EDT
    Absolutely, @KellyBrown374. Difficulty getting to sleep, waking up in the middle of the night, getting up too early in the morning and can't get back to sleep. Also falling asleep in class. #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374, @KellyBrown374
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:09 PM EDT
    A1: I totally agree. I think it's important to be aware of all of your students behaviors so you know immediately if something is wrong. #LDchat #LUlearns
    • ChurchillSchool Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
      A1 What DOESN't anxiety look like in kids? For each child #anxiety is different. Some manifestations are obvious, other are hidden #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:10 PM EDT
    Signs of #anxiety can be physical, emotional or behavioral. #ldchat https://t.co/JvOMwiS2ME
  • edielovesmath Jun 13 @ 12:10 PM EDT
    My teens with ADHD manifest anxiety through anger. Withdrawal shows up too. A kind face and supportive words help. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:11 PM EDT
    Yes, open communication with parents is essential, including asking parents if there are any stressors going on in the child's life (death in the family, new baby, etc.) #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:11 PM EDT
    I also think that having a safe space in the school or a person they feel connected with helps. Sometimes all kids need is something to listen. #LDchat #LUlearns
    • edielovesmath Jun 13 @ 12:10 PM EDT
      My teens with ADHD manifest anxiety through anger. Withdrawal shows up too. A kind face and supportive words help. #LDchat
      In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:11 PM EDT
    Middle- and high-schoolers with learning and attention issues may experience more stress than their peers. They may also be more likely to develop #anxiety. #ldchat https://t.co/tywDXYCAZp
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:11 PM EDT
    Yes, anger, especially in teens and adults, is one of the ways anxiety manifests itself. #ldchat
    In reply to @edielovesmath, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:12 PM EDT
    Great thoughts so far! Let's move onto Q2... #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:12 PM EDT
    Q2. How is typical #anxiety or stress different than an anxiety problem? #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:13 PM EDT
    This is so important, @KellyBrown374. Some schools I have worked with have a "low sensory" room for kids who are having panic attacks, migraines, and other medical issues. #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374, @KellyBrown374
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:13 PM EDT
    A2. (1/3) Everyone has anxiety, it is a normal reaction to stress. However, when the anxiety doesn’t go away, is out of proportion to the stressor, or if it comes on with no known reason, then it may qualify for an anxiety diagnosis. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:14 PM EDT
    A2. (2/3) There is a genetic component to anxiety. If a parent, aunt, or cousin has an anxiety issue or diagnosis, there is a greater chance of a kid having issues with anxiety. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:15 PM EDT
    This chart can help you understand the difference between typical #anxiety and an anxiety problem. #ldchat https://t.co/SxAxWzwr6r
  • Sarahbharel Jun 13 @ 12:15 PM EDT
    Q2: Stress and #anxiety are closely related but are not the same thing. #ldchat https://t.co/w1nb6rolBA
  • AndrewLStreeter Jun 13 @ 12:16 PM EDT
    @stephaniesarkis: I wasn't aware that #anxiety had a genetic component. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:17 PM EDT
    A2. (3/3) If you feel like your kid is just not themselves, it’s worth checking https://t.co/zGFa7lJ2KH there a stressor at home or school?Teacher personality conflict? Excessive teasing from siblings?Bullying at school? #ldchat
  • AndrewLStreeter Jun 13 @ 12:18 PM EDT
    A2: I believe #anxiety becomes problematic when it becomes debilitating. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:19 PM EDT
    Yes, studies have found there is even a genetic component to PTSD. At least 1 genetic marker make some people more prone to developing PTSD after a trauma than others. This marker is more common in people w/ #ADHD. #ldchat
    In reply to @AndrewLStreeter
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:19 PM EDT
    A2: I totally agree. Usually we can teach calming strategies, but what can we do when the strategies we use don't work. #LUlearns #LDchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:19 PM EDT
    Yes, when it starts impacting quality of life, it needs to be looked into. #ldchat
    In reply to @AndrewLStreeter
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:19 PM EDT
    Let's move onto Q3... #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:19 PM EDT
    Q3. Why might certain learning and attention issues, like #ADHD or #dyslexia, cause anxious feelings in kids? #ldchat
  • RoscoeBen18 Jun 13 @ 12:20 PM EDT
    A1: Very true. I've had kids in my classroom that coped with anxiety in many different forms and some of them hid it from others. #LUlearns #ldchat
    • ChurchillSchool Jun 13 @ 12:08 PM EDT
      A1 What DOESN't anxiety look like in kids? For each child #anxiety is different. Some manifestations are obvious, other are hidden #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:20 PM EDT
    A3. (1/3) When you have #LD/ #ADHD, you have to work 5x as hard, but only get ½ the amount of work done. Instead of playing after school, you are still working on homework – very isolating. Also, kids may be isolated or bullied at school. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:20 PM EDT
    A3. (2/3) And what worse feeling is there for a kid with ADHD/LD than to be called on in class to read or do a math problem? You may also be called out in class for not paying attention. And then you get a frowny face on the board. #ldchat
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:20 PM EDT
    A2: It is always worth checking in on a student who is just not acting like they usually do. If a student isn't willing to discuss I always tell them that I am here to listen when they're willing to share. #LUlearns #LDchat
    • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:17 PM EDT
      A2. (3/3) If you feel like your kid is just not themselves, it’s worth checking https://t.co/zGFa7lJ2KH there a stressor at home or school?Teacher personality conflict? Excessive teasing from siblings?Bullying at school? #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:20 PM EDT
    A3. (3/3) You are trying to make your parents and teachers happy, and you don’t understand what you are doing wrong. On top of that, you have a hard time learning from consequences. Socially, you feel one step outside of everything. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:21 PM EDT
    "Learning disabilities and attention issues like #ADHD do put kids at higher risk for developing #anxiety disorders." #ldchat https://t.co/0aoB2PY735
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:21 PM EDT
    Yes, socially savvy kids will have their anxiety "fly under the radar" as to not be picked up by peers. #ldchat
    In reply to @RoscoeBen18
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:22 PM EDT
    Knowing there's someone willing to listen can make a world of difference. #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374
  • ChurchillSchool Jun 13 @ 12:22 PM EDT
    A3 There is a conflict for LD or ADHD over the question, 'Am I stupid?' or 'Am I a bad kid?'... leads to daily uncertainty #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:22 PM EDT
    Some of the challenges that come along with #ADHD can make kids anxious. #ldchat https://t.co/UwKGenuFHc
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    Yes, kids with ADHD and LD have the same distribution of IQ scores as the general population. They aren't "less smart" than other kids. #ldchat
    In reply to @ChurchillSchool
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    Kids with #dyslexia may feel anxious because they don't understand why reading is so hard for them. #ldchat https://t.co/4XghNYPJ9T
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:23 PM EDT
    Just a reminder to everyone on #ldchat to put the hashtag after your comment so I can see it. Thanks! :)
  • RoscoeBen18 Jun 13 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    A2: I agree with that. That happens way too often with little to no solutions. #LUlearns #ldchat
  • ChurchillSchool Jun 13 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    a huge disconnect for kids between their potential and actual abilities is confusing and leads to anxiety & avoidance #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    Last question coming up... #ldchat
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    A3: some students have no idea what they're doing wrong, or why they're a question behind. Some students become anxious because they haven't been paying attention, and when they have to answer a question they have no idea what was just asked #LUlearns #LDchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    Access to services is an issue for many families as well. #ldchat
    In reply to @RoscoeBen18
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:24 PM EDT
    Q4. What are some strategies that parents and teachers can use to help kids with #LD or #ADHD manage their #anxiety? #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:25 PM EDT
    A4. (1/3) School accommodations are essential. Incl. NEVER having recess taken away, for ANY reason. Accommodations are equalizers, not special benefits. Other examples: not graded on handwriting, not penalized for movement in classroom, being seated in front of room. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:25 PM EDT
    A4. (2/3) Practice good self-care; get help for your anxiety, ADHD, & frustration. Have open communication with your kid. Practice positive reinforcement – catch your child being good. See a mental health professional if your child’s quality of life is being impacted. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:25 PM EDT
    A4. (3/3) Don’t punish for anxiety, LD or #ADHD-related behavior. It makes it worse. First seek to understand. Change the child’s environment. Get accommodations at school. Maybe a teacher change is needed. Teach your child deep breathing, as it can help instantly. #ldchat
  • AndrewLStreeter Jun 13 @ 12:26 PM EDT
    That disconnect is a large reason why they need adult champions in their lives. @UnderstoodOrg #ldchat
    In reply to @ChurchillSchool, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:26 PM EDT
    Check out these 25 classroom accommodations for #anxiety. #ldchat https://t.co/Q5MyZqcE0Z
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:26 PM EDT
    Positive reinforcement is so, so important. Kids with ADHD, LD, and anxiety thrive off of it. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    Yes, absolutely. Most of all, kids need someone to listen without judgment. #ldchat
    In reply to @AndrewLStreeter, @ChurchillSchool, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    Here are some tips to help your student with test #anxiety, from grade school to high school. #ldchat https://t.co/5JletEz9Al
  • AndrewLStreeter Jun 13 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    self-confidence was always the #1 contributor to academic performance in my class, especially in my LD population #ldchat
    In reply to @StephanieSarkis
  • RoscoeBen18 Jun 13 @ 12:27 PM EDT
    A3: I would say it's because they believe that they are different and not wanting to be bullied or made fun of, hence the anxiety. #LUlearns #ldchat
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    A4: I totally agree. Too often I see teachers lay on more punishments, which in turn causes more anxiety behaviors. If I see a student becoming anxious something as simple as taking a walking break, or getting a drink can help. #LDchat #LUlearns
    • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:25 PM EDT
      A4. (3/3) Don’t punish for anxiety, LD or #ADHD-related behavior. It makes it worse. First seek to understand. Change the child’s environment. Get accommodations at school. Maybe a teacher change is needed. Teach your child deep breathing, as it can help instantly. #ldchat
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    Yes, yes, and yes!! What we focus on grows. #ldchat
    In reply to @AndrewLStreeter
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    An #anxiety log can help you spot patterns in your student's behavior. Then you may find it easier to choose calming strategies that work. #ldchat https://t.co/ETukpsoQaM
  • AndrewLStreeter Jun 13 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    This is definitely going to be shared with the schools I support! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    Yes, I also have kids name three things they can see, three things they can feel, and three things they can hear, to help them stay in the present moment. #ldchat
    In reply to @KellyBrown374
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:28 PM EDT
    Any final thoughts in our last couple of minutes? #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Jun 13 @ 12:29 PM EDT
    Great! Hope they find it helpful. #ldchat
    In reply to @AndrewLStreeter
  • StephanieSarkis Jun 13 @ 12:29 PM EDT
    Yes, kids are acutely aware, even at a very young age, of feeling "different" than their peers. #ldchat
    In reply to @RoscoeBen18
  • KellyBrown374 Jun 13 @ 12:29 PM EDT
    What other resources do you use to take data? #LUlearns #LDchat
  • RoscoeBen18 Jun 13 @ 12:29 PM EDT
    A4: For my students, I always tell them that I am here for them and willing to talk to them about anything. Also if they need time outside to calm down, I let them do so. That way, they can collect their thoughts and breathe easier. #LUlearns #ldchat