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UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

Welcome to today’s LD Chat! This is Dan with the Understood team. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

We're excited to have @DeborahLynam and Nichole Pugliese (@nfpugliese1) from @AIMSchool cohosting today's chat! #ldchat

In reply to @DeborahLynam, @nfpugliese1, @AIMSchool

participatechat Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

Participate in the upcoming #LDchat by sharing resources and collaborating at https://t.co/jVmgneQXCV

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

We’ll be discussing the importance of parent-teacher relationships. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

Who's with us today? #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

Peter here. I've been an LD kid, student teacher and parent. I wrote a book: Screwed up somehow but not stupid. #ldchat

AIMtoLearn Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

#ldchat Happy to cohost w/ @nfpugliese1 today! We are from @AIMSchool & @AIMtoLearn in PA. https://t.co/rOjob8eUWM

In reply to @nfpugliese1, @AIMSchool, @AIMtoLearn

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:00 PM EST

#ldchat Thanks for having me. I’m with @aimschool.

In reply to @AIMSchool

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Hi Peter! Happy New Year! #ldchat

commlearncenter Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Hi, all! Happy New Year! #ldchat

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Hi Everyone! This is Christine of @sensoryfr in Tampa Florida #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Great having you again! Thanks for joining. #ldchat

In reply to @commlearncenter

edielovesmath Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Edie, Washington, DC. Academic therapist hangin' out with teachers and parents of older kids with ADHD. @UnderstoodOrg #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

SumPepandWong Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

I'm here and ready to discuss parent/teacher relationship and hopefully partnership. ;-) #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Happy new year and may this be the year we are all understood! #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Thanks for joining, Christine! What's the weather like in Tampa today? #ldchat

In reply to @sensoryf

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:03 PM EST

Thanks for joining, Edie! #ldchat

In reply to @edielovesmath

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:03 PM EST

#ldchat Happy to cohost w/ @nfpugliese1 today! We are from @AIMSchool & @AIMtoLearn in PA. https://t.co/0p05JXAOFe

In reply to @nfpugliese1, @AIMSchool, @AIMtoLearn

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:03 PM EST

That's the idea! #ldchat

In reply to @SumPepandWong

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:04 PM EST

We'll kick off in just another minute. Hold tight... #ldchat

BBabushka Jan 11 @ 12:04 PM EST

And her amiga @BBabushka from Tallahassee/Miami #ldchat

In reply to @BBabushka

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Hi Everyone! This is Christine of @sensoryfr in Tampa Florida #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:04 PM EST

Hi everyone! I am a parent of 2 boys with LD in public schools. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

As always, we’ll use a Q1, Q2… format for questions. Please use the A1, A2… format for answers. #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

Glad to hear of another special ed. school @AIMSchool. I wrote a blog post Drowning in the Mainstream https://t.co/YU6SbzUCvM #ldchat

In reply to @AIMSchool

lisaklipfel Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

Rainy SoCal. Parent. Tutor.Advocate. #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

Hi everyone. I have been working with dyslexic students for 7 years. Happy to be here. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

First question... #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

Q1. Why is it important for parents to partner with their child’s teacher? #ldchat

UnderstoodJennO Jan 11 @ 12:05 PM EST

Jenn here in chilly IA! #ldchat

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:06 PM EST

A1. The parent is a main advocate for their child and a critical participant in the educational decision making process. #ldchat

UnderstoodJennO Jan 11 @ 12:06 PM EST

A1: Teachers and parents spend so much time with the child, they MUST be on the same page. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:06 PM EST

A1: Parents & teachers can each advocate for child in different ways - a coordinated partnership is valuable to securing supports! #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:06 PM EST

A1 They have an enemy in common! HA No, kidding. It's because what happens at school affects home and vice versa #ldchat

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:06 PM EST

The weather can't decide on being warm or cold! But, I'm loving no humidity. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Thanks for joining, Christine! What's the weather like in Tampa today? #ldchat
In reply to @sensoryf

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:07 PM EST

A1. It's important the child knows that parent and teacher are in alignment #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:07 PM EST

A1 and because parents and teachers will have different insights into the kid (who should also be involved! A three legged stool) #ldchat

lisaklipfel Jan 11 @ 12:07 PM EST

A1 understanding, level playing field, sanity of child (parent/teacher too). #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:08 PM EST

Insanity is hereditary: You get it from your kids! :-) #ldchat

In reply to @lisaklipfel

BBabushka Jan 11 @ 12:08 PM EST

ESOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:02 PM EST

Happy new year and may this be the year we are all understood! #ldchat

edielovesmath Jan 11 @ 12:08 PM EST

A1. A level playing field is important for teens with ADHD. Parents & teachers have same rules. @UnderstoodOrg #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:08 PM EST

A1: Parent-teacher relationships that are positive and collaborative leads to student achievement. #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:09 PM EST

A1. Partnership keeps the relationship current and proactive #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:09 PM EST

Why It’s Important to Partner With Your Child’s Teacher: https://t.co/gs1aeTVGZL #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:09 PM EST

Consistent expectations can be key! #ldchat

In reply to @edielovesmath, @UnderstoodOrg

massignmenthelp Jan 11 @ 12:10 PM EST

Project based learning https://t.co/u8MMjb1Oxk #iolchat #LDchat

SumPepandWong Jan 11 @ 12:10 PM EST

A1 because no one person can do everything. It takes a village. #teamwork makes progress. #ldchat

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:10 PM EST

A1. When parents and teachers work together, it's easier to focus on student needs and create a strategic plan. #ldchat

CarrollSchool Jan 11 @ 12:11 PM EST

A1: Parent-teacher communications is important in enabling teachers to give each child what he/she most needs - teamwork is key #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:11 PM EST

So true. #ldchat

In reply to @SumPepandWong

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:11 PM EST

Yes, it's important to make sure there is a common understanding and knowledge base around the needs also. #ldchat

In reply to @sensoryf

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:11 PM EST

Q2. What are some ways for parents to build a strong relationship with their child’s teacher? #ldchat

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:12 PM EST

A2. Communication & consistency between school & home is essential. Parents & teachers have to represent a united front for student. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:12 PM EST

A2: Let's see - Communicate often, be respectful of time & effort, say thank you, & encourage sharing of resources. #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:13 PM EST

Respect the teacher's expertise and communicate as you would with a professional #ldchat

UnderstoodJennO Jan 11 @ 12:13 PM EST

A1: I appreciate meeting my parents in person. Also a phone call and in person tend to be more relationship building #ldchat

SumPepandWong Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

A2 Heh, margaritas and 1/2 off appetizers. JK sorta. Making friends isn't necessary but it sure does help. #ldchat

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

Q2: Parents can write to teachers advising their preferred communication: email/phone, etc. Communicate and share info often #ldchat

edielovesmath Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

A3. @UnderstoodOrg Older kids want independence. Parents build strong relations with teachers by collaborating with teen too. #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

CarrollSchool Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

A2: Consistent, respectful and open conversations is critical for building parent-teacher relationships - conferences, 1:1, emails #ldchat

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

I agree, having problem solving meeting is important with parents in person. #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodJennO

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

Yes, respect expertise but don't be afraid to share your own. As parents we learn a lot about our kids learning issues. #ldchat

In reply to @NonVerbalLD

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

Margaritas! Or caipirinhas in those hot early days of the school year #ldchat

In reply to @SumPepandWong

lisaklipfel Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

A2. Provide info to teachers. Ask teachers what they need. What are their concerns/struggles. #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

For sure! No one knows the kid like the parents (if they are good parents, anyway) #ldchat

In reply to @DeborahLynam

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

A2: Parents can decide how they can support their child's teacher/class based on their skillset and what the teachers need #ldchat

AssignmentHelpN Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

17 for ’17: Experts on E-learning & EdTech Trends for 2017 https://t.co/I9aiwWWsrV #iolchat #LDchat

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

I agree, often parents have insight to anxieties and behaviors that the teacher may not see. #ldchat

In reply to @DeborahLynam, @NonVerbalLD

SumPepandWong Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

A2 Find common ground. Determine together what the team's strengths and weaknesses are. Brainstorm ways to fill in the gaps. #ldchat

BBabushka Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

Good advice for ALL relationships. #ldchat

CarrollSchool Jan 11 @ 12:14 PM EST

A2: Consistent, respectful and open conversations is critical for building parent-teacher relationships - conferences, 1:1, emails #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:15 PM EST

A2 Teachers report on what the kid does in school, parents can report on what they do at home. How much HW, etc #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:16 PM EST

8 Tips for Building a Good Relationship With Your Child’s Teacher: https://t.co/NfCid92vZf #ldchat

angela_lange25 Jan 11 @ 12:17 PM EST

I feel when families are appreciative of the work we are doing at school #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

kristinmosborne Jan 11 @ 12:17 PM EST

A1: Communication between parent and teacher is paramount to a child's success. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:17 PM EST

A2: Look for opportunities to engage with teacher outside of child specific concerns - volunteer/community/classroom events, etc #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:18 PM EST

How Often Is Too Often to Contact My Child’s Teacher? https://t.co/fVDKi2TfCQ #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:18 PM EST

A2 Don't forget to communicate good news! Too often, parent-teacher communication is only about problems #ldchat

angela_lange25 Jan 11 @ 12:18 PM EST

if parents come in & ask ?'s is always a positive sign we are going to be a team in building their child's education #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

UnderstoodJennO Jan 11 @ 12:19 PM EST

A2: I love email updates as a teacher and a parent on what to anticipate if something has happened. It allows empathy. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:19 PM EST

Good point, in fact it's easier to build relationships around positive stuff! #ldchat

In reply to @NonVerbalLD

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:19 PM EST

celebrating successes is a good way to build home/school/student relationship #ldchat

In reply to @NonVerbalLD

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:19 PM EST

a #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:20 PM EST

A2. Volunteering in class when possible builds the relationship #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:20 PM EST

8 Sentence Starters to Use When Talking to Teachers: https://t.co/XdhQhPdRQ2 #ldchat

kristinmosborne Jan 11 @ 12:20 PM EST

Q2: Clear communication and especting everyone's time. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

Q3. Should you have a disagreement with your child's teacher, what are some ways to reduce or avoid friction? #ldchat

CarrollSchool Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

A2: Being a good listener (both parties) and really hearing what the other says - and ask questions! #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

Asking questions & showing interest is important. Sets great example 4 your child too - shows u care! #ldchat

In reply to @angela_lange25, @UnderstoodOrg

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

A3 Learn how to disagree without being disagreeable #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

Such a good point! #ldchat

In reply to @CarrollSchool

UnderstoodJennO Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

A3: Listen first, ask clarifying questions, and meet over the phone or in person. Email is a bad way to communicate disagreement. #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:21 PM EST

@CarrollSchool Such a good point! #ldchat

In reply to @CarrollSchool

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:22 PM EST

A3 Try to get a 3rd party to mediate #ldchat

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:22 PM EST

A3. Disagreements are not always bad. Keeping an open dialogue about what may be in the child's best interest. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:22 PM EST

A3: Be wary of negative talk in front of kids or up a chain of command. Seek dialogue & direct problem solving whenever possible. #ldchat

sonlight00 Jan 11 @ 12:22 PM EST

#Ldchat A3 sending a friendly e-mail, and not being confrontational, keep things positive

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:22 PM EST

9 Tips for Improving Your Relationship With Your Child’s Teacher: https://t.co/u73CHCfZ0F #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:22 PM EST

Totally. Emails can convey the wrong emotion easily #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodJennO

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

Can you elaborate on this one? #ldchat

In reply to @NonVerbalLD

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

Right! Disagreements handled well can strengthen the relationship #ldchat

In reply to @nfpugliese1

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

A3. Sometimes a difference of opinion leads to different insight and a better solution. Keep it positive though. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

Should I Go Straight to the Principal to Get Services? https://t.co/zNUE1Xb221 #ldchat

sonlight00 Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

#Ldchat A2 check in frequently and keep letting them know you want to be involved

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

OMG - always have someone proof your emails before sending!!! #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodGinny, @UnderstoodJennO

kristinmosborne Jan 11 @ 12:24 PM EST

A3: Listening! I like repeating their statement to make sure I understand what someone might be trying to communicate. #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:24 PM EST

Such good advice. Parents need to be careful of thihs. #ldchat

In reply to @DeborahLynam

CarrollSchool Jan 11 @ 12:24 PM EST

A3: Try to work together towards an amenable solution but, if needed, bring in support as needed. #ldchat

edielovesmath Jan 11 @ 12:24 PM EST

A3. Alleviate parent disagreements by focusing on the why and how. "What" is the quickest way to the blame game. @UnderstoodOrg #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

How to Talk With Your Child's Teacher About Too Much Homework? https://t.co/DxL5A2qq9P #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

Yes! That is a great way to clarify... good communication tip! #ldchat

In reply to @kristinmosborne

sonlight00 Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

#Ldchat A1 it takes a good team to help your student, and you want your teacher on that team!

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

Q4. How can parents talk to teachers about their child's specific challenges? #ldchat

sensoryf Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

Q3: It's important to listen to and respect one another always. Providing resources & information that supports your thoughts is key #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

Sometimes a disagreement disappears when a 3rd party interprests or mediates #ldchat

In reply to @DeborahLynam

lisaklipfel Jan 11 @ 12:26 PM EST

A3 depends on disagreement. Misinformation? Or denying FAPE? One is ed/comm. other requires another personnel assist. #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:26 PM EST

A4 That's one of the hardest, esp. for kids whose LD is not dyslexia or dyscalculia #ldchat

SumPepandWong Jan 11 @ 12:26 PM EST

Oooo, this is good. Hadn't thought about it quite like this. #ldchat

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:23 PM EST

A3. Sometimes a difference of opinion leads to different insight and a better solution. Keep it positive though. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:26 PM EST

Absolutely - Interest-based negotiating 101: Focus on why (interest) not what (position) #ldchat

In reply to @edielovesmath, @UnderstoodOrg

nfpugliese1 Jan 11 @ 12:26 PM EST

A4. Being honest about your concerns & showing willingness to be part of the solution is crucial to creating a partnership. #ldchat

lorri1956 Jan 11 @ 12:27 PM EST

#ldchat a4 don't be afraid to speak up for.your child. Set an appointment to discuss and follow up appointments on progress

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:27 PM EST

A4 It is particularly hard in mainstream schools where teacher may not have training in your kids problems #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:27 PM EST

8 Tips for Talking to Your Child’s Teacher About #Dyslexia: https://t.co/kLWtinObjG #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:27 PM EST

A4. Asking first if the teacher would be interested in some resources... then provide if he/she is interested. #ldchat

CarrollSchool Jan 11 @ 12:27 PM EST

A4: Start the conversation early in the relationship & establish an ongoing way to communicate struggles & successes. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:27 PM EST

A4: Share your parental perspective of strengths & weaknesses with a positive student profile. https://t.co/qF2mGc3LWa #ldchat

SumPepandWong Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

A4. Begin with "I notice" statements about the child. Ask if teacher notices the same. #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:25 PM EST

Q4. How can parents talk to teachers about their child's specific challenges? #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

7 Tips for Talking to Your Child's Teacher About #ADHD: https://t.co/108JYpaFFt #ldchat

UnderstoodJennO Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

A4: Sometimes the parent has way more insight into the disability-it's great to share w/ the teachers that knowledge. #ldchat

DeborahLynam Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

A4: Highlight important IEP components for easy access. Try sharing an IEP at a Glance template. https://t.co/WQdYsKYqq4 #ldchat

edielovesmath Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

A4. Parents should give long-term perspective of teens with ADHD. Ask questions, don't tell. @UnderstoodOrg #ldchat

In reply to @UnderstoodOrg

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

7 Tips for Talking to Your Child's Teacher About Sensory Processing Issues: https://t.co/saP5h8abZC #ldchat

UnderstoodGinny Jan 11 @ 12:28 PM EST

A4. May be a good idea to set up a meeting w/ teacher and case manager to discuss the disability #ldchat

UnderstoodOrg Jan 11 @ 12:29 PM EST

Only a couple minutes left. Any final thoughts? #ldchat

NonVerbalLD Jan 11 @ 12:29 PM EST

Final thought: I'd love more chats about the "other" LDs. #ldchat