#caedchat Archive
#caedchat is for California educators, by California educators. All are welcome as moderators and participants discuss issues that emerge in California education, which are generally applicable to other regions of the United States.
Sunday February 26, 2017
11:00 PM EST
participatechat
Feb 26 @ 11:00 PM EST
Participate in the upcoming
#caedchat
by sharing resources and collaborating at
https://t.co/7y0wlfunj8
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:00 PM EST
For the next hour my tweets are dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ students during
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
Thank you for joining
#caedchat
tonight. The topic is “Standing with LGBTQ+ Students.”
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
For the next hour my tweets are dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ students during
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
Tonight's Qs for
#caedchat
are here
https://t.co/Ais2Rs7wvp
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
I'm Diane Main, Director of Learning, Innovation and Design (9-12) at The Harker School in San Jose, California.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
Good evening
#caedchat
- I’m David, HS English teacher and writer, Palo Alto CA
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
For the next hour my tweets are dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ students during
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
Hi all! My name is Elizabeth. Located in CA. Currently in the credential program w/ goal to teach middle school science.
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:02 PM EST
Tonight many of us are out to support LGBTQ+ students. Our mods are
@AppEducationFox
,
@dowbiggin
,
@cohenD
, and @@KrisciaCabral.
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox, @Dowbiggin, @CohenD, @KrisciaCabral
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:02 PM EST
Jo-Ann here. Instructional coach from Escondido. Happy to moderate tonight's chat
#caedchat
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:02 PM EST
Owen, Technology Integration Specialist, San Francisco, CA
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:02 PM EST
glad to have you with us in
#caedchat
Elizabeth
In reply to @ewilliams391
TomWhalen805
Feb 26 @ 11:02 PM EST
I'm Tom, a high school teacher from the Central Coast. My only hope is that everyone lead a happy life.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:02 PM EST
Welcome, everyone, to
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:03 PM EST
#caedchat
tip: Use TweetDeck and have two columns open for the chat: one for real time and one for where you are in the chat.
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:03 PM EST
Moderators will post questions with Q1, Q2, Q3. Participants respond with A1, A2, A3, etc.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:03 PM EST
Kriscia Cabral, 4th grade educator in Poway. Perfect topic for what’s happening in our world!
#caedchat
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:03 PM EST
Hello,
#caedchat
! Laurie from Butte County. Super excited for this important chat re: supporting LGBTQ students!
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
Tonight's Qs for
#caedchat
are here
https://t.co/Ais2Rs7wvp
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:04 PM EST
To participate in the chat, be sure to use the
#caedchat
hashtag on every tweet.
MrStrong3rd
Feb 26 @ 11:04 PM EST
Mike from
@hightechhigh
in San Diego. I teach HS humanities.
@CAedchat
#caedchat
In reply to @hightechhigh, @CAedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:04 PM EST
We are competing with something tonight. Some award show or something? Well, I'm here at
#caedchat
MsHaughs
Feb 26 @ 11:04 PM EST
Hi
#caedchat
! Amanda, K-5 ToSA excited to learn w/you all tonight!
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:04 PM EST
Great tip, I usually have notifications in a column too
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:03 PM EST
#caedchat
tip: Use TweetDeck and have two columns open for the chat: one for real time and one for where you are in the chat.
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Welcome
@MsHaughs
! Happy you’re here!
#caedchat
In reply to @MsHaughs
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Hi! I'm Jodie, from NOT California. (I'm from Waverly, Nebraska.) I teach English and coach Speech Team. It is past my bedtime.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Hi Amanda - thanks for joining in
#caedchat
tonight
In reply to @MsHaughs
OUSDAssessment
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Doug from Oceanside. Principal of
@ElCaminoHighSch
#caedchat
In reply to @ElCaminoHighSch
ohsoearly
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Looks like an interesting
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:01 PM EST
Tonight's Qs for
#caedchat
are here
https://t.co/Ais2Rs7wvp
lmhawkhill
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Lenette from Louisiana joining in!
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
------------> Q1 is ready, are you? Watch for
@dowbiggin
.
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Q1: Describe a formative experience in your work with LBGTQ+ youth.
#caedchat
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
For the next hour my tweets are dedicated to supporting LGBTQ+ students during
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:06 PM EST
up past your bedtime on a school night! Wow!
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron
LemarrTreadwell
Feb 26 @ 11:06 PM EST
#CAedchat
Hello everyone. Lemarr Treadwell
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:06 PM EST
Hey
@LemarrTreadwell
! Nice to see you!
#caedchat
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
MsHaughs
Feb 26 @ 11:06 PM EST
Hi David-- good to virtually see you!
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:06 PM EST
@lmhawkhill
Hi Jodie and Lenette - welcome to
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron, @lmhawkhill
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
Hi Brigette from Vancouver
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
Well, I did sleep in this morning. :)
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
MrWawczak
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
Good evening. John from suburban Chicago jumping in for a little
#CAedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
I am so excited to see so many CA friends and also those from outside our state joining us tonight.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
A1 I know of students who connect with LGBTQ+ students, but haven't talked with adults about it yet. They talk to friends mostly.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
A1: As I haven't yet gotten in the classroom, most of my work w LGBTQ youth is from working @ a suicide prevention hotline.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:07 PM EST
A1: Something that has made such a difference to me is having LGBTQ+ friends and colleagues, and joining our GSA this year.
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
Wait... a
@morgetron
sighting in
#CAedchat
and I just finished dinner? Might have to stick around...
In reply to @morgetron
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:05 PM EST
Hi! I'm Jodie, from NOT California. (I'm from Waverly, Nebraska.) I teach English and coach Speech Team. It is past my bedtime.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
@ewilliams391I
bet you hear from so many LGBTQ+ youth there! (Sadly.) Thanks for the work you do!
#caedchat
LemarrTreadwell
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
A1.
#CAedchat
Not a lot of conversations in the 4th grade. So far.
anasmithteach
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
Good evening! Ana Smith, 5 grade teacher
#pusd
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
Welcome
@lmhawkhill
#caedchat
In reply to @lmhawkhill
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
A1: I had a trans student as advisee years ago, who had a noose left on/in a locker as a threat. Made issue very concrete, scary
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
Wondering if maybe having inclusive reading materials might be a start.
#caedchat
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
principledlady
Feb 26 @ 11:08 PM EST
A1: My 1st year teaching 1st grade privileged to assist a parent and student struggling with a child's stress over gender identity
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:09 PM EST
Welcome to
#caedchat
, where educators gather to share and collaborate!
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:09 PM EST
A1 1st Year as a T, middle school, had 3 Ss who always wanted to stay after school and help, then plan talent show
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:09 PM EST
@anasmithteach
glad you’re here!
#caedchat
#powayusd
In reply to @anasmithteach
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:09 PM EST
Here you go
https://t.co/Eph5TKFA10
:)
#caedchat
In reply to @BethHeyden
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:09 PM EST
That is so horrific. The transgender student I know at my school is fairly well-accepted. (except at home)
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:09 PM EST
@ewilliams391
It was so disheartening that there were so many. But it was absolutely uplifting to be a resource :)
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin, @ewilliams391
massignmenthelp
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
#caedchat
#asiaEd
7 Effective Lifestyle Changes To Help You Get Better Grades
https://t.co/kWh2T6BCnt
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
That is horrific.
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
anasmithteach
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
I have a new student that came out to our class a few weeks ago. New experience for me.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
Horrible! How did you handle this?
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
TomWhalen805
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
A1) Can't think of a formative experience. I can say that things have gotten better since Caitlyn Jenner though.
#caedchat
CDWG_California
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
EdTech_K12:
#K12
must comply with
#CIPA
& filter internet content to get
#erate
funds
https://t.co/nAdZsVuCcs
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
did you see recent news re: lower suicide rate in states that legalized marriage for all?
#caedchat
https://t.co/DaNKbvfbL5
In reply to @ewilliams391
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
And also maybe discouraging any gender stereotypes that come up abdout whatgirls/boys can't do/like.
#caedchat
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
They came 2-3 times a week to hang out, they made elaborate plans for talent show, really got into it, and as the time approached
#caedchat
OUSDAssessment
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
A1: Using a safe space sticker on my laptop has really created that environment.
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
A1: a young lady was having a hard time utilizing restrooms. Since we wanted her to succeed so we opened a very old "closed" rr
#caedchat
MsHaughs
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
I like that idea! I'm in same boat-- teaching elem, I haven't had many school experiences yet
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin, @LemarrTreadwell
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
A1 When I taught pre-school one of my Ss struggled with gender identity. It wasn't accepted yet in his home.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:11 PM EST
was the parent relatively open to assisting their child?
#caedchat
In reply to @principledlady
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:11 PM EST
well, the asst. D.A. stepped in to make it clear that threat was taken VERY seriously.
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:11 PM EST
A1: Having kids I hardly know show up in my office asking for advice on how to tell family/friends. "How did you do it Mr Wood?"
#caedchat
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:11 PM EST
Were all very obviously gay or questioning, when it came time to publicize talent show, they were like, were not really having 1
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
A1: I had one Ss who was well aware and a parent that refused to accept.
#caedchat
LemarrTreadwell
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
#CAedchat
That would be a big challenge as Ts must use the Viable Curriculum Text from district.
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
And also maybe discouraging any gender stereotypes that come up abdout whatgirls/boys can't do/like.
#caedchat
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
OH EM GEE THE FEELS RIGHT NOW.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
I wasn't really confidante for that student; not as involved as I might have been. Fortunate that other staff helped
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
that absolutely makes sense! Legalization hopefully brings more attention to the issues & promotes social inclusion.
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
A1: Being at the elementary level, the topic does not arise as often. The focus has been more about dispelling gender stereotypes.
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
A formative exp for me was having a S come out to me after grad. In the rural districts where I've always worked, this is common.
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:12 PM EST
A1: a young lady was having a hard time in the rr. Since we wanted her to succeed we opened a "closed" rr just for her.
#caedchat
elena_SF_CA
Feb 26 @ 11:13 PM EST
Thank you for taking this topic to
#caedchat
I'm swamped with grades, but I'll read the chat later. Just sending KUDOS for now!
In reply to @Dowbiggin
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:13 PM EST
can you help me out - “rr”?
#caedchat
In reply to @BethHeyden
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:13 PM EST
------------> Q2 is up next. Look for
@AppEducationFox
.
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:13 PM EST
All they wanted was a safe space to hang out be productive do something w/o fear of aggression, it didn't matter if we had show
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:13 PM EST
A1: Working at a school that tends to draw LGBTQ students makes it so common seems like a non-issue. Easy to forget our bubble
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
he didn’t have a lot of friends b/c he was “different” P’s wanted him to “play with more boys”
#caedchat
In reply to @anasmithteach
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
restrooms?
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD, @BethHeyden
GareauRhonda
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
How was this accepted by the other students?
#caedchat
#GEN2108
In reply to @anasmithteach
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
This is a topic near and dear to my heart. So glad I caught it!
#caedchat
In reply to @davidtedu
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
just a good reminder everyone wants to fit in and some need more support in doing so
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
We are so glad you're here!
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron, @davidtedu
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:14 PM EST
so glad you can be there for them Joe.
#caedchat
you social media stories are loving examples of inclusion, family, and community.
In reply to @ucdjoe
AssignmentHelpN
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
#caedchat
#asiaEd
Benefits of Blended Learning
https://t.co/tIu7gO7Mbn
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
Q2: Our LGBTQ+ Ss are more likely to experience bullying. What ways is your site or district providing a safe place?
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
A2: I've seen and heard others as well as myself asking students "how would you feel?" When thrown back on them, they think twice.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
It's only letting me like this once. Love times a million.
#caedchat
In reply to @davidtedu, @ucdjoe
MsHaughs
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
A1: I've been lucky so far to work w/elem Ss who are often accepting of others We try to focus in primary on celebrating diversity
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
A2: Our admin are supportive of the GSA (see next tweet), and have always supported rights of LGBTQ+ faculty/staff.
#caedchat
lmhawkhill
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
A1: Young lady came out during her Sr. year, family had a hard time w/it, I was her confidant bc she had been struggling w/it.
#caedchat
LemarrTreadwell
Feb 26 @ 11:16 PM EST
#CAedchat
There are a few texts addressing gender stereotype
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:10 PM EST
And also maybe discouraging any gender stereotypes that come up abdout whatgirls/boys can't do/like.
#caedchat
In reply to @LemarrTreadwell
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:16 PM EST
#caedchat
my first few yrs teaching was at a great school that valued the rights of all Ss including LGBTQ. It was the norm as it should be
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:16 PM EST
A2: GSA used to be Gay-Straight Alliance, but now it's Gender Sexuality Alliance.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:16 PM EST
A2: I still think we can do more, but our Ss know they have people they can trust and turn to when for many, family isn't it.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:16 PM EST
A2: We try to really connect kids through WEB and Link Crew
#caedchat
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
A2. Most T's have signs welcoming the LGBTQ+ community in their classes. We also have gender free bathrooms.
#caedchat
anasmithteach
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
I think my Ss are accepting of her, but other classes are not so much.
#caedchat
In reply to @GareauRhonda
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
how were you able to build that trust with her?
#caedchat
In reply to @lmhawkhill
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
A2 Schools in my district have a full time social worker. They are a great resource for our LGBTQ+ students.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
A2: And we really don't allow bullying at all. But as a private school, they know they can get kicked out.
#caedchat
TomWhalen805
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
A2) I'm unaware if we are doing anything officially. Unofficially, my site is very accepting except for the Trumpy types.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
great to see they are acknowledging sexuality exists on a spectrum.
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
A2: Of course! We also have three great academic counselors (at the HS) who are all MFT. They work with our kids a LOT.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
A2: Every couple of years the school does a production that is "meaty" Laramie Project, Etc. This helps open conv
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
Great Q
@AppEducationFox
we used to have a day of dialogue at
#FVHS
Our school had the first GSA in Orange County
@psycholaya
#CAedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
Q2: Our LGBTQ+ Ss are more likely to experience bullying. What ways is your site or district providing a safe place?
#caedchat
cathl7
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
Cathy Lachel 5th Grade teacher in Poway. A1: Student lives with her 2 moms. Open discussions in our morning meetings.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
A2: we’ve had various info. sessions and trainings, outreach by local org. that supports LGBTQ teens - very helpful
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
The kids have been teaching me and their faculty advisor a TON about that. (He's gay; I'm straight. We're OLD.)
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
A1: having students who use diff pronouns than what you can use it with their parents is unfort but we must protect & respect them
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:19 PM EST
A2: We recently had an expert come in and speak to faculty, but it was during lunch and many couldn't make it. (cont)
#caedchat
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:19 PM EST
A2: Again, elem level. Nothing is being done specific to the issue, but I imagine the repercussions for bullying would be similar.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:19 PM EST
It’s nice that you bring in the community to support
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:18 PM EST
A2: we’ve had various info. sessions and trainings, outreach by local org. that supports LGBTQ teens - very helpful
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:19 PM EST
A3: There shouldn't be any slurs but this is the real world. There should be consequences along w/education as to why these hurt
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:19 PM EST
A2: We are having her come back to speak with ALL faculty, mandatory.
#caedchat
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:19 PM EST
A2 my school is rough, lots of bullying, hear some homophobic talk, not too much, no more than other slurs, we are in the Castro
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:20 PM EST
wow gender free bathrooms! You guys are ahead of the times! Great :)
#caedchat
In reply to @brigitte2008
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:20 PM EST
A2: Nothing official that I know of. I have made it known that my classroom is a haven for all students though.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
Q2: Our LGBTQ+ Ss are more likely to experience bullying. What ways is your site or district providing a safe place?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:20 PM EST
We've done Laramie Project twice in recent years!
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:20 PM EST
A2 being in SF and in the Castro, you'd think my school would do a better job handling homophobia and bullying, but we don't
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
A2: Ss have created a wonderful small poster for Ts to post in their rooms. Waiting on approval, but good convos so far.
#caedchat
lmhawkhill
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
@KrisciaCabral
: Her mother is a close friend of mine. She lived w/me when her Ps were going thru a messy divorce.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:17 PM EST
how were you able to build that trust with her?
#caedchat
In reply to @lmhawkhill
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
A2: I wish we had more gender free bathrooms. They tend to be single occupant, labeled for staff, open for trans. Ss in need
#caedchat
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
A2: I work in a great district
@LBSchools
that just put out this message
@SuptSteinhauser
https://t.co/Gh6SnRqwGw
#caedchat
In reply to @LBSchools, @SuptSteinhauser
cathl7
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
As a team member, how can we help support this student in our entire 5th grade class, and school?
#caedchat
In reply to @anasmithteach, @GareauRhonda
GareauRhonda
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
That makes sense. More acceptance and less tension.
#caedchat
#GEN2108
In reply to @CohenD, @ewilliams391
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
Also out counseling team does lots of school wide work on empathy, kindness, taking perspectives
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
wonderful you could be there to support her.
#caedchat
In reply to @lmhawkhill
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
Kids just wanna pee when then need to pee, amirite?
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:21 PM EST
Glad you are doing shows that honor LGBTQ+.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
Q2: I know that there is no tolerance for bullying of any kind ... when it is reported, but I know it goes unreported sometimes.
#caedchat
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
Schools are sometimes the only safe space for students and we MUST protect that. If we take it away, what will be left?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
That last tweet should say "they" not "then"
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
------------> Q3 is coming very soon. Watch for
@KrisciaCabral
tweet!
#caedchat
In reply to @KrisciaCabral
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
Sorry I got lost in reading this 20 year reflection on
#FVHS
GSA formation
https://t.co/MCc3FaPE9J
it's an informative read
#caedchat
OUSDAssessment
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
A2:Our site supports the LGBTQ students with a club and schoolwide awareness. We had
@maxdisposti
provide a workshop for our stf.
#caedchat
In reply to @maxdisposti
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
It's inspiring to know that in other (likely less rural, and more populated) areas, there is a greater discussion taking place. <3
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
This year they did Legally Blonde which opened other conversations up
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
in my college dorm I lived on a co-ed floor with one bathroom - stalls do the trick! Though we were older, chose that option.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
Q3: How prevalent are homophobic slurs on your campus and what can be done to eliminate this problem?
#caedchat
anasmithteach
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
Great questions! I am open to suggestions.
#caedchat
In reply to @cathl7, @GareauRhonda
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
I have other colleagues who have made this known as well.
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:20 PM EST
A2: Nothing official that I know of. I have made it known that my classroom is a haven for all students though.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:15 PM EST
Q2: Our LGBTQ+ Ss are more likely to experience bullying. What ways is your site or district providing a safe place?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:23 PM EST
A2: We've also had speakers about every other year in school meetings. Plus some kids from the GSA themselves.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:23 PM EST
I just heard a local HS is cutting the gay scene from All Shook Up. Sends the absolute wrong message!
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:23 PM EST
A3: I really don't hear them, but I am aware we are in a special bubble at my school.
#caedchat
anasmithteach
Feb 26 @ 11:23 PM EST
Great question! I am open to suggestions.
#caedchat
In reply to @cathl7, @GareauRhonda
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:23 PM EST
A3: Our kids know so many gay/lesbian teachers, I don't think they would DARE use such language.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:23 PM EST
A3: I think slurs have decreased noticeably in past 5-10 yrs, at least in hearing of staff.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:24 PM EST
A3: So I guess I would say a big step to eliminating the problem is to have LGBTQ+ teachers who are out.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:24 PM EST
A3: They almost never occur and when they do the kids take the speaker to task. Very proud that our Ss don't stand for that
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:24 PM EST
A3: As an HS sub I don't really hear many homophobic slurs (fortunately) but when they do occur it tends to be from boys.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:24 PM EST
A3: Because really, knowing someone who is different from you helps demystify and un-demonize.
#caedchat
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:24 PM EST
A3: I have a No That's so Gay Sign in my room and Ss often check each other if they say it out loud.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
A3: unlike some other disciplinary issues, slurs need to be called out publicly. Anyone in earshot needs to know it’s unacceptable
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
sounds like a wonderful place where you are!
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:24 PM EST
A3: They almost never occur and when they do the kids take the speaker to task. Very proud that our Ss don't stand for that
#caedchat
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
I would not say that is the students
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
That's definitely the common term that needs to be eliminated!
#caedchat
In reply to @brigitte2008
principledlady
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
A3: I want to believe that things are getting better.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
A3: I suspect our kids would jump all over someone doing that too. At the HS at least. Can't be sure about MS and lower.
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
Seeing these Qs makes me realize that I need to make the time to see what else my school has to offer outside of my classroom
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
A3 I still think work needs to be done with kids and slurs. Restorative conversations are the best way to help solve this issue.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
A3: When I taught at a school where that was common I stopped everything the moment I heard the comment and we had a class conv
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
A3: I just realized that some Ss might not use slurs where I can hear them because they might think I am gay. LOL
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
A3. When I hear them, I speak up, & I educate. Honestly, I don't hear them very often, but I know LGBTQ kids do, unfortunately.
#caedchat
lmhawkhill
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
A3: Although I am at an Elem school but sensitivity training/PD should be in place to educate our Ts and Ss.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:22 PM EST
Q3: How prevalent are homophobic slurs on your campus and what can be done to eliminate this problem?
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
awesome that you addressed it in the moment. I'm sure this made a big impact!
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
you think they still use slurs as much as kids did 10 years ago? Could be. I don’t think so in my community though
#caedchat
In reply to @MrSteinhauser
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
A3: I recently had a former Ss find me on FB 10 yrs later to tell me how my class meeting was the first time he knew he'd be ok
#caedchat
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
That catch phrase seems so 1980's...from back in my day. Wonder if kids know what they are saying?
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
It would be wise of us to ask kids what we’re missing, what can/should be done about it
#caedchat
In reply to @MrSteinhauser
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:27 PM EST
I know we're both married, but will you marry me. LOL (SRSLY love everything you do.)
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:27 PM EST
A3: all hate speech needs to stop. Remember those commercials that highlighted you're replacing word lame or stupid with a slur?
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:27 PM EST
A3: I was the first adult he'd ever heard who took a stand and said "no...we will not behave this way"
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:27 PM EST
@ucdjoe
&
@cathl7
both mentioned “class mtgs.’ conversation with Ss is so powerful!
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe, @cathl7
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:26 PM EST
A3: I recently had a former Ss find me on FB 10 yrs later to tell me how my class meeting was the first time he knew he'd be ok
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:27 PM EST
I need to make more of an effort than just posting GLSEN buttons on my bulletin board in hopes that Ss who need to see them do.
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
Seeing these Qs makes me realize that I need to make the time to see what else my school has to offer outside of my classroom
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:27 PM EST
A3 I do have to say our kids are great advocates of their friends who are LGBTQ+. They do not allow bullying of this kind.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:28 PM EST
I think they just hone in on commonly used terms as a way of "fitting in." But doesnt excuse terms tht harm other Ss
#caedchat
In reply to @brigitte2008
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:28 PM EST
that’s the key to real sustained culture shift - the kids owning it
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:28 PM EST
A3: I don't hear much re: explicit terms. Generic, childish ways of exclusion instead. Ss know I would never accept any slur.
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:28 PM EST
------------> Q5 is up next. Look for
@dowbiggin
’s tweet!
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
TomWhalen805
Feb 26 @ 11:28 PM EST
A3) kids at my school watch their language in general. We don’t hear much off color language and we address it when we do.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:28 PM EST
Wait, we skipped Q4.
#caedchat
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
No excuses for sure. Just need to continue to educate Ss about what they are saying and the impacts.
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
Just kidding ... ------------> Q4 is set. Keep watch for
@cohenD
.
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
I got this ————>>> Q4: How are you advocating for LGBTQ+ youth when you hear Ss or Ts use this language?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
A3: Our school is pretty diverse, so there isn't much in the way of hate speech at all. Plus, Silicon Valley.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
Yes, no excuses! Educate! Practice empathy!
#caedchat
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
No excuses for sure. Just need to continue to educate Ss about what they are saying and the impacts.
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
A4: I have started (at request of GSA kids) to remove ALL gendered language when I can. No more "you guys" to entire class.
#caedchat
GareauRhonda
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
Discrimination of any kind is not accepted that rule it strictly enforced. .
#caedchat
#GEN2108
In reply to @AppEducationFox
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
Then if you hear it again, that's a different convo. 2/2
#caedchat
In reply to @brigitte2008, @ewilliams391
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
A4: And I correct myself when I use it, explaining why I want to use non-gendered terms.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
I used to tell them that the rest of us are thinking you're an ignorant fool. We're just too nice to say it.
#caedchat
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:29 PM EST
No excuses for sure. Just need to continue to educate Ss about what they are saying and the impacts.
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
A4 Address immediately. Begin to build understanding and empathy through conversations.
#caedchat
lmhawkhill
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
A4: Ss should be corrected/educated at that moment. Let them know what the consequences are on your campus.
#caedchat
GoldCoastCUE
Feb 26 @ 11:30 PM EST
The Gold Coast CUE Review is out!
https://t.co/9uP2Pl1kPG
#cue16
#edtech
#caedchat
#edchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: I think addressing it in the moment. Talk the S thru another term tht is better. Tell the T this can be offensive.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: Yes, jump on it, with love. "Do you know how you sound to others when you say that? Do you know your words are hurtful?"
#caedchat
TomWhalen805
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
Wow! Sara Barielles just sang the hell out of Both Sides Now for the Memoriam!!
#oscars
#caedchat
kalebrashad
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
It is. It is absolutely getting better :) Let's continue to make it better together
#caedchat
principledlady
Feb 26 @ 11:25 PM EST
A3: I want to believe that things are getting better.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: kind of mentioned already: if Ss use slurs, we must address it audibly, visibly, publicly. Don’t attack kid, but state norms
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
Somebody's multitasking. LOL
#caedchat
In reply to @TomWhalen805
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: I tell my own personal story of how hearing those words impacted me as a kid.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
“jump on it with love” Love it
@Dowbiggin
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: Yes, jump on it, with love. "Do you know how you sound to others when you say that? Do you know your words are hurtful?"
#caedchat
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: stand up when other can't. Correct people when they use hate language unknowingly and promote positive speech only
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:32 PM EST
A4: As I said, they know there are a LOT of gay/lesbian adults working with them daily, so it doesn't happen much.
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:32 PM EST
Q4: Immediate, firm, but kind education. If you hear it again from same kid, then a NEW sterner conversation must occur.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:32 PM EST
A4: Also try to help Ss understand the world is much more diverse than their community. Do they want to be open or closed to that?
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:32 PM EST
Stating norms that Ss are aware of is so important. Are the norms created as a site, classroom?
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:31 PM EST
A4: kind of mentioned already: if Ss use slurs, we must address it audibly, visibly, publicly. Don’t attack kid, but state norms
#caedchat
MsHaughs
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
A3: As elem T, heard slurs from time2time. Would hold class mtgs to discuss putting down & labeling in any way = hurtful
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
A4: remind Ss they are people too. Ask why they say/do what they do. Some Ss don't "get" that it's wrong until you tell them.
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
This is a good approach. Anything to tap into a child's empathy. Personal stories are effective.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
A4: Our problem is more that school is a safer place for many than home, in terms of LGBTQ+.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
One time a S looked at another S pic in newspaper and said in my hearing, “He’s gay.” I started to step in but student stopped me…
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
------------> Q5 is up next. Look for
@dowbiggin
’s tweet!
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
often they don't understand why it's wrong at first. We have the power to help them grow
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
Q5: The Trump admin. revoked federal guidelines that protect transgender students. How does this affect Ss you know or work with?
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:34 PM EST
(cont.) S told me, “No, I don’t mean it in a bad way. He’s out, and the article is about him being gay.” Sign of progress.
#caedchat
cathl7
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
Morning meetings are open discussions, led by the students. All voices are heard.
#caedchat
In reply to @KrisciaCabral, @ucdjoe
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5 I don't know of any transgender Ss at my school. But this change on fed guidelines sends the WRONG message to LGBTQ+ Ss.
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
I agree. Many times it's pure regurgitation. Kindness is the starting point with education quickly following.
#caedchat
In reply to @BethHeyden
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
I was waiting for this second tweet!
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
brigitte2008
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5: I just don't understand why Trump did this to students. What did this accomplish to make America Great again?
#caedchat
#Canadian
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5: Our GSA kids have talked about how scared they've been since the election.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5: Legally, little chg in CA, but the message hurt. The ppl in power think I don't matter.
#caedchat
karlacalbear
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
Hi all. Just checking in. Not a big issue on my K-8 campus. Ss appreciate info during sex ed. Seen this?
https://t.co/THN0SlV8J1
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5: We are already working on having more non-gendered, single-occupancy restrooms. The one transgender S I know is scared.
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:36 PM EST
I agree some of our students are just sheep who follow others. Sometimes a sheep needs to start their own path.
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:36 PM EST
A4: Immediate reaction, w/ compassion and a reminder of class norms. Then, one-to-one discussion/follow-up re: lang ramifications.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:36 PM EST
I was so angry! It's like saying all these friends, loved ones, students of mine, aren't important.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
lmhawkhill
Feb 26 @ 11:36 PM EST
A5:I guess they feel that theyarer back at square one again: Protected once, Rejected again & now Disrespected.
#caedchat
GareauRhonda
Feb 26 @ 11:37 PM EST
That girl showed a lot of courage to do come out to her classmates. I'm sure she gained some.
#caedchat
#GEN2108
In reply to @anasmithteach
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:37 PM EST
A5: We are a private school, so my kids know it won't reach them in the same way. But they have huge hearts for their community.
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:37 PM EST
Exactly! The kids are like WTF? This is so NOT something to focus on
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:36 PM EST
I was so angry! It's like saying all these friends, loved ones, students of mine, aren't important.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:37 PM EST
Great podcast on how personal stories can change people's minds on LGBT+ issues
https://t.co/fKyYIfLhpm
@morgetron
@ucdjoe
#CAedchat
In reply to @morgetron, @ucdjoe
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:37 PM EST
A5 hope CA won’t be affected much, but terrible message to USA overall. Many observers have noted: it’s not really about bathrooms
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:37 PM EST
I have a S who is protesting this in their own way. I will stand by S if there are consequences. I believe our school will too.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:33 PM EST
Q5: The Trump admin. revoked federal guidelines that protect transgender students. How does this affect Ss you know or work with?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
People. Just. Wanna. Pee. (or change their clothes)
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
Right? It's never been about bathrooms, just like it was never really about water fountains.
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
A5: Horrible message to send to Ss about respect and equality for all
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
can you say more about that?
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
A5: At our elem site, I don't think it really changes any current protocol. Definitely agree w/Jo-Ann though.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5 I don't know of any transgender Ss at my school. But this change on fed guidelines sends the WRONG message to LGBTQ+ Ss.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
It likely feels like a step backwards for transgender Ss. Perhaps creates fear of rejection from fellow Ss as well.
#caedchat
rmjohnson45
Feb 26 @ 11:38 PM EST
Mark your calendars for later in March!
#pblchat
#caedchat
JeffHiserBL
Feb 26 @ 9:36 PM EST
Mark your calendars & join the
#RethinkHighSchool
chat! Creating Meaningful Global Connections:
https://t.co/07fbz9mQnp
#edchat
#leadupchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:39 PM EST
Loved
@TomTorlakson
msg to kids
#caedchat
In reply to @TomTorlakson
rweingarten
Feb 23 @ 1:54 PM EST
Elections matter—
@TomTorlakson
promises to protect and defend rights for trans* students regardless of Trump
https://t.co/qZbWeugVHC
In reply to @TomTorlakson
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:39 PM EST
A5: Ss are still Ss no matter what. Our schools still back them. At the same time, we still have to educate others and assist
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:39 PM EST
I'm proud he is our State Sup and looks out for ALL kids.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe, @TomTorlakson
SlpSummer
Feb 26 @ 11:39 PM EST
Hi
#caedchat
, I'm a middle school SPED SLP on the central coast. I ran out of awards show patience.
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
------------> Prepare for Q6 from
@AppEducationFox
.
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox
JenRoberts1
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
Hi
#caedchat
so glad we are talking about this. Last two years have been a real spike in # of out LGBTQ students in my 9th grade classes.
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
Q6: What are some steps you can take to become a more effective ally of our LGBTQ+ Ss?
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
Couldn't agree more! We're lucky to have
@TomTorlakson
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox, @TomTorlakson
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
Agreed. Thank you, Mr. Torlakson! We need more allies like you!
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox, @ucdjoe, @TomTorlakson
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
A5: At this point, adults who don’t understand the issue are almost guilty of neglect. Must take responsibility for own knowledge
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
Hi
@JenRoberts1
! Glad you can share with us tonight!
#caedchat
In reply to @JenRoberts1
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
A6: Join your school's GSA. Don't have one? Start one! The kids will teach you SO MUCH.
#caedchat
hoffmanteambret
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
I'm in MS, know that I have contact w/ LGBTQ S's, they may not have self-identified yet. Just know by the odds I have S that are.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:35 PM EST
A5 I don't know of any transgender Ss at my school. But this change on fed guidelines sends the WRONG message to LGBTQ+ Ss.
#caedchat
MsHaughs
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
A6: Excited to learn from you all! How can I improve & continue to grow?
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox
Kmegan_gapinski
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
K teacher just popping in late
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
I don't want to "out" them in their chosen method of protest.
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
A6: In fact, the advisor of our GSA is gay, and he and I both have been learning a TON from the kids.
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
A5 Our principal
@DrMorganSmith
posted a tweet immediately so we would know that everyone on campus is always supported
#CAedchat
DrMorganSmith
Feb 24 @ 4:39 PM EST
And yet, California Schools will still persist! We've got your back Barons!
https://t.co/VwOQIrmlvV
via
@kpcc
In reply to @KPCC
KylePine
Feb 26 @ 11:41 PM EST
A5) The conversation should change to advocates need to talk to state govt reps (Pt. 1)
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
I’ve seen more gradual trend, but similar; more students are out re: identity or questioning
#caedchat
In reply to @JenRoberts1
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
Just keep using inclusive, safe language. Maybe tell stories of friends who are LGBTQ+ so they know you care.
#caedchat
In reply to @hoffmanteambret
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
A6 Listen. You will learn a lot. And your listening will help you to be an ally/advocate.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
@CohenD
think this answers A6: Become more educated, find ways to support all Ss. Promote positivity, kindness, empathy
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:40 PM EST
A5: At this point, adults who don’t understand the issue are almost guilty of neglect. Must take responsibility for own knowledge
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
A6: As simple as it sounds just talk to them. Let them know you care, create a safe space.
#caedchat
KylePine
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
A5) In reality Trump just dismissed the issue from a federal & now it's a state issue
#caedchat
JenRoberts1
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
When I taught 11th I had maybe 1-2 kids a year who were openly gay. Now have 10-12 9th graders comfortable being themselves.
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
A6. I am just going to "listen" to responses for this question because I have a lot to learn in this department.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
A6: Making it known to students that you are a source they can come to. Also, open dialogue helps Ts learn from LGBTQ Ss.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
A6: When we model love to ALL, and we have an open space where kids feel safe, LGBTQ+ kids will gravitate.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
I'm with you!
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
A6: Don't treat them differently. If we do then so will others. At the same time, gain their trust as U may be the only one.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:43 PM EST
I'm still learning too. Every day. I read a lot more on this than I ever have before.
#caedchat
In reply to @morgetron
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
Yes and that is a serious set back for LGBTQ+ community. They need to be protected just as all citizens do.
#caedchat
In reply to @KylePine
principledlady
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
A6: Lead with love. Seek understanding. Seek out resources The rest will follow.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
A6: TRUE. Kids just want to feel "normal," whatever that is. NOT different. Love them as they are.
#caedchat
In reply to @BethHeyden
JenRoberts1
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
A6 our SIS now allows me to change a student's preferred name. That was HUGE for several trans kids.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
A5: but knowing what we do about many states, the GOP is putting more LGBTQ kids at risk. Civil rights > states’ rights
#caedchat
In reply to @KylePine
CUENV
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
Nxt
#SSTISNV
is March 11th in Carson City. Register today to learn abt Chromebooks in Edu then ski in Tahoe nxt day.
#teachnvchat
#caedchat
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
A6: Make yourself aware of issues LGBTQ Ss face. Do the research. Use inclusive language. Be sure Ss know you're there for them.
#caedchat
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:44 PM EST
------------>
@KrisciaCabral
will be sending out Q7 soon.
#caedchat
In reply to @KrisciaCabral
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:45 PM EST
I'm sad because parents won't allow it for a S I know.
#caedchat
In reply to @JenRoberts1
KylePine
Feb 26 @ 11:45 PM EST
A6) Open door policy. Plain and simple. Listen. Sympathize. Do not judge. Help when possible
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:45 PM EST
A6: Would provided outside resources be of benefit to LGBTQ Ss? Like The Trevor Project, etc.?
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:45 PM EST
Q7: What resources do you know of or use to support your own learning? To support students and families?
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:46 PM EST
And in all states.
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox, @KylePine
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:46 PM EST
A7: When I marched on Jan. 21st, I found a booth for
https://t.co/9JHpMTcpMz
and got some small signs I posted outside my door.
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:46 PM EST
How would we feel as Americans if civil rights or women voting were a state issue? We are America we can stand as one on equality
#caedchat
KylePine
Feb 26 @ 11:42 PM EST
A5) In reality Trump just dismissed the issue from a federal & now it's a state issue
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:46 PM EST
They DO help, but many Ss have to seek out such info secretly. Parents may not be on board.
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:46 PM EST
A6: inclusion must exist in all classes not just "progressive" ones. We talk abt respectin
#stuvoice
& that means not silencing it
#caedchat
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:47 PM EST
A7: Any LGBTQ colleagues and friends you have. We're willing to share what we've learned
#caedchat
morgetron
Feb 26 @ 11:47 PM EST
Q7:
@GLSEN
!
#caedchat
In reply to @GLSEN
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:47 PM EST
A7: This has been a good source for myself:
https://t.co/pJR9tBvPb8
#caedchat
GareauRhonda
Feb 26 @ 11:47 PM EST
That's wonderful. Such a show of support .
#caedchat
#GEN2108
In reply to @OUSDAssessment, @maxdisposti
JenRoberts1
Feb 26 @ 11:48 PM EST
A6 changing the preferred name in the SIS means subs get rosters that use the preferred name. So helpful.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:48 PM EST
Nope. Not on this issue. This belongs on the fed level. As do any equal rights issues.
#caedchat
In reply to @KylePine
Kmegan_gapinski
Feb 26 @ 11:48 PM EST
A6 model GENUINE/teach empathy & kindness
#buildthemup
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:48 PM EST
these sources could include confidential hotlines & websites too :)
#caedchat
In reply to @Dowbiggin
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:48 PM EST
A7: Twitter obviously but the news and most importantly the students are the best resource
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:48 PM EST
A7: Thank God for the Internets. Kids I know have done a TON of their own research. They talk to each other about it a lot in GSA.
#caedchat
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:49 PM EST
A7: Found this
@goodreads
list of picture books
https://t.co/Lyy6l328pV
#caedchat
In reply to @goodreads
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:49 PM EST
Nope. Equal rights is NOT a state issue. Ever.
#caedchat
In reply to @KylePine
cathl7
Feb 26 @ 11:49 PM EST
A6:Recent lesson on bullying. How are we alike? We love, we cry, we have feelings, we need connections. Whoever You Are Mem Fox
#caedchat
davidtedu
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:50 PM EST
ALL Student Information Systems should allow us to change student's name to their prefered choice
#CAedchat
looking @ u Aeries.
In reply to @JenRoberts1
karlacalbear
Feb 26 @ 11:50 PM EST
A7 here is a good resource that I recently came across
https://t.co/24qJbnB4hF
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:50 PM EST
A7: Common sense. Treat others the way you wish to be treated. Also, school therapists and many Internet forums.
#caedchat
Also peer support
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:51 PM EST
Because as I travel between states, might I be more or less "equal" as I cross borders?
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox, @KylePine
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:51 PM EST
Do you think this would b a problem w records if the chosen name isn't linked w social security #?
#caedchat
In reply to @davidtedu, @JenRoberts1
CAedchat
Feb 26 @ 11:51 PM EST
------------> Q8 coming soon from
@cohenD
.
#caedchat
In reply to @CohenD
principledlady
Feb 26 @ 11:51 PM EST
A7: We must all embrace our own cultural proficiency journey. "Know thyself" must come first so we can support more powerfully
#caedchat
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:52 PM EST
it's not OK for students to be protected in one state, move and then not protected in the next
#caedchat
In reply to @AppEducationFox, @KylePine
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:52 PM EST
—> Q8: How are you teaching about the history and accomplishments of the LGBTQ+ community?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:52 PM EST
Our SIS CAN have a pref name, but parents have to provide it. And for our transgender student, they WILL NOT.
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe
MsYorksClass
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:52 PM EST
Need to step away early,
#caedchat
. Thank you for your insistence on the importance of this topic!
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:53 PM EST
Not arguing. Just stating a differing opinion.
#caedchat
In reply to @KylePine
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:53 PM EST
Good to know! Thanks!
#caedchat
In reply to @JenRoberts1, @davidtedu
MrSteinhauser
Feb 26 @ 11:53 PM EST
A8 currently it's about increasing awareness of what is happening on a daily basis.
#caedchat
ewilliams391
Feb 26 @ 11:53 PM EST
So perhaps this changes from state to state or district to district?
#caedchat
In reply to @ucdjoe, @davidtedu, @JenRoberts1
hoffmanteambret
Feb 26 @ 11:53 PM EST
Cant this be for internal use only? Phonetic spell, too
#caedchat
In reply to @ewilliams391, @davidtedu, @JenRoberts1
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:54 PM EST
Good night
@MsYorksClass
#caedchat
In reply to @MsYorksClass
owenpeery
Feb 26 @ 11:54 PM EST
#caedchat
got a late start on dinner and missed most of the chat, I'll read the archive, the issue is near and dear to my heart
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:55 PM EST
A8: I have to say that’s an area I could improve in. Try to call it out when relevant but need more intentional oppty to do so
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:55 PM EST
A8 This is where I need to grow.
#caedchat
GareauRhonda
Feb 26 @ 11:55 PM EST
A1: None. Sensitivity training and tolerance is incorporated in all classes..
#caedchat
#GEN2108
In reply to @KrisciaCabral
KrisciaCabral
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:55 PM EST
A8: Before tonight, I hadn’t thought about it much, could do a whole lot more growing here.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:55 PM EST
A8: I also need to grow here. I'd like to get the kids to help me find ways to share more.
#caedchat
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:55 PM EST
A8 I'm guessing going to the Ss would be a good start for learning!
#caedchat
BethHeyden
Feb 26 @ 11:56 PM EST
A8: there isn't a whole lot of history yet, it's still being made. People like
@ActuallyNPH
and
@TheEllenShow
give them hope.
#caedchat
In reply to @ActuallyNPH, @TheEllenShow
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:56 PM EST
A8: I need to learn more before I know how to incorporate, so I need to do more reading.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:57 PM EST
A8: I think this is another one of those areas where the Ss are teaching themselves a lot more than we teach them.
#caedchat
principledlady
Feb 26 @ 11:57 PM EST
Have a great week
#caedchat
Do good work and love one another
ucdjoe
Feb 26 @ 11:57 PM EST
A8: A growing area, but Ts try to weave it in as part of civil rights units. Ss have felt like it is the mvmt of their generation
#caedchat
hoffmanteambret
Feb 26 @ 11:58 PM EST
What? LGBTQ+ ppl have history? Not in my text books, women and minorities are not mentioned either.
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:52 PM EST
—> Q8: How are you teaching about the history and accomplishments of the LGBTQ+ community?
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:58 PM EST
Right. That's called "White History Year." And it's every year.
#caedchat
In reply to @hoffmanteambret
cathl7
Feb 26 @ 11:59 PM EST
A8:In Elementary level, I haven't been proactive in presenting the issue. More of a "reactive" approach. Need to do more.
#caedchat
Dowbiggin
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:59 PM EST
A8: I'd like to think a bunch of the Ss I know ARE the figures we'll be studying in LGBTQ+ history some day!
#caedchat
CohenD
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:59 PM EST
fortunately I don’t teach out of a textbook! ;)
#caedchat
In reply to @hoffmanteambret
AppEducationFox
- Moderator
Feb 26 @ 11:59 PM EST
Thanks everyone for joining tonight's chat. I know I learned a lot. Big conversations lead to change.
#caedchat