#EngageChat Archive
#EngageChat is a weekly chat session moderated by @DavisWelcome that focuses on engagement in schools. Every Friday evening at 8:00 PM Eastern.
Friday May 12, 2017
8:00 PM EDT
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Joining
#EngageChat
from Maryland to talk about empathy.
participatechat
May 12 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Participate in the upcoming
#EngageChat
by sharing resources and collaborating at
https://t.co/rNnYH1lxG6
teacherknikki
May 12 @ 8:00 PM EDT
#engagechat
Hello, everyone! Knikki here. Spanish/English teacher from Virginia. Ready to learn.
JulieCraigCCPS
May 12 @ 8:00 PM EDT
Hi all, Julie here. LD teacher from VA.
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Welcome, Jim!
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In reply to @JKatzaman
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Good evening
#engagechat
! Valerie from FL joining tonight!
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Hi
#EngageChat
!!! Valerie from Houston, TX here.
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:01 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
#engagechat
In reply to @teacherknikki
edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Hi, everyone! Tara Woodard from Wilson, NC
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @JulieCraigCCPS
ApraRalli
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
#EngageChat
Aprajita Ralli from India... engaging
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Hi! Margie from PA. Math coach. Happy to be here
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Hey friend!
#engagechat
In reply to @valerietilton
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Hi everyone. Dylan from Ottawa. :)
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JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:02 PM EDT
Hi
#engagechat
James...Tech Integration...joining in from South Texas...
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
#EngageChat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats
jasongriffinhgs
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Good evening, Jason, elementary principal in NC!
#engagechat
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Hey, all. Hope you had a great week! Rebecca from Nevada
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MrsJJMath
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
I will try to engage tonight! Judith from Kansas; Math.
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ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Glad to be here!
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
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In reply to @ScienceWildcats
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
Hey there, friend!
#EngageChat
In reply to @edu_taraw
Rdene915
May 12 @ 8:03 PM EDT
#engagechat
Hi everyone, happy Friday from Pittsburgh, Spanish and Steam T :)
In reply to @daviswelcome
whiteeducator
May 12 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Good evening from NYC! Excited to chat.
#engagechat
gettinglostcamp
May 12 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Happy Friday folks....Camp from Boston area, desperately seeking actual spring...
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
#Engagechat
In reply to @pearse_margie
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Happy Friday
#engagechat
from Barbara, school counselor and author of What's Under Your Cape? in TX.
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Elizabeth from Wisconsin joining in. Great to see everyone tonight!
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:04 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
#EngageChat
In reply to @Rdene915
edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Good evening -and -CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
#engagechat
In reply to @jasongriffinhgs
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
#Engagechat
In reply to @JV_lack
ImTheRealReRe
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Reagna from jacksonville 16 sophomore future chorus teacher
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BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
We're talking elevating
#empathy
at
#engagechat
right now!
@GSmit4Character
@micheleborba
@TrudyLudwig
@RosaIsiah
@Ben_educating
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 4:35 PM EDT
See you this evening!
#engagechat
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Welcome, friend!
#Engagechat
In reply to @jasongriffinhgs
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Jen from Chicago; it's been awhile! Good to see you.
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MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:05 PM EDT
Hello All! Madlen from NJ!
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spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Hi
#engagechat
Sue, 3rd grade up in Alaska. Loving the regalia on our graduates today!
In reply to @daviswelcome
dr_helgeson
May 12 @ 8:06 PM EDT
John ELA TOSA from WA
#EngageChat
LettsLearn
May 12 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Good morning from a cold Brisbane, Australia
#engagechat
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Dr. Nancy Sulla here at
#engagechat
; creator of the Learner-Active, Technology-Infused Classroom
#LATIC
; co-moderator of
#LATICchat
; author:
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Good evening, Jason, NC Principal of the Year!
#engagechat
In reply to @jasongriffinhgs
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:06 PM EDT
Brian Aurora IL Happy Friday!
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:07 PM EDT
Welcome, my friend!
#Engagechat
In reply to @ElizRussellEdu
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:07 PM EDT
Question 1 coming up ....
#Engagechat
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:07 PM EDT
Hi, Eric.
#engagechat
In reply to @daviswelcome
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:08 PM EDT
Hi Eric and Elizabeth! I hope both of you have a wonderful weekend!
#engagechat
In reply to @daviswelcome, @ElizRussellEdu
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:08 PM EDT
In the way of chats
#MyFirstLoveWas
#EngageChat
!!!! ...come join in.
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:08 PM EDT
Good Evening, Scott from NC
#engagechat
SteffSchoolCoun
May 12 @ 8:09 PM EDT
Hello all! Stephanie, School Counselor hopping in from Virginia Beach, VA !
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 4:35 PM EDT
See you this evening!
#engagechat
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:10 PM EDT
#EngageChat
LucasBryner3
May 12 @ 8:09 PM EDT
Great things are coming. Great things are coming. Great things are coming. Great things are coming.
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:10 PM EDT
Good evening to you, as well, Jason! Congratulations on your NC Principal of the Year award! What an accomplishment! 😊
#EngageChat
In reply to @jasongriffinhgs
LaneWalker2
May 12 @ 8:11 PM EDT
Hi Lane HS math STL
#engagechat
MrsLedford6Eng
May 12 @ 8:11 PM EDT
Hello! I'm Jen, a 6th grade English Teacher from IN!
#engagechat
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:11 PM EDT
Hey there, my friend! Great to see you! 😊
#EngageChat
In reply to @daviswelcome
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Hi, Valerie! I hope you have a great weekend!
#engagechat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:12 PM EDT
Hi Rebecca, happy to see you again this evening! ⭐️⭐️
#EngageChat
In reply to @R_CILR, @daviswelcome
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Hi
#engagechat
, Jeremy, parent from Connecticut.
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:13 PM EDT
Thanks Doll!! I hope you have a great one as well!!
#EngageChat
In reply to @R_CILR
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:13 PM EDT
You deserve it! 👏🏻😊👏🏻
#EngageChat
In reply to @jasongriffinhgs
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:14 PM EDT
#engagechat
My tweetdeck is slow tonight. Did Question 1 post?
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:14 PM EDT
It's not just you, and no it hasn't.
#engagechat
In reply to @pearse_margie
polonerd
May 12 @ 8:14 PM EDT
Sean from beautiful suburbs of Chicago. What a gorgeous day today.
#engagechat
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:15 PM EDT
So good to see my friends tonight but my signal is soooo slowwwww!!
#engagechat
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Hi
#engagechat
Steve IA
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:15 PM EDT
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Hey, we can start the chat on empathy to help out!
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:15 PM EDT
Not Yet! Coming
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In reply to @pearse_margie
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:15 PM EDT
My Tweetdeck seems like it is frozen.
#engagechat
In reply to @pearse_margie
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
Definitely needed after all the rain and cold! Bring on spring and summer in Chicago!
#engagechat
In reply to @polonerd
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
Beautiful, gorgeous day in Houston, TX as well!!!
#BlueSkies
#EngageChat
In reply to @polonerd
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
I've got an elevating
#empathy
pinterest page to share!
https://t.co/4k2vWHwjm2
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
Ok. Exhausting week. Spring is disappearing again tomorrow. But hey! It's the weekend. You?
#engagechat
In reply to @BarbaraGruener
Rdene915
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
#engagechat
I thought maybe it was just me and the usual computer troubles ;)
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
lol I completely understand! 🐢
#EngageChat
In reply to @valerietilton
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
Hi Valerie, nice to see you!
#engagechat
In reply to @valerietilton
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:16 PM EDT
Scott here Temporiarliy filling in for
@daviswelcome
#engagechat
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q1: What does empathy mean to you?
#engagechat
Rdene915
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
#engagechat
Very busy time of year, lots of testing, finals, AP exams, time flies!! weekends welcome :)
PrestonMcKellar
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Preston, VA. Checking in
#engagechat
-
In reply to @daviswelcome
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
#engagechat
This is funny; Q1 is exactly what I was just typing to try to help! :)
polonerd
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
1 day like this and I'm in the pool store buying supplies to open the pool tomorrow.
#engagechat
In reply to @ACTforEducation
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1 Being cognizant of other peoples emotions/situations when you interact with them
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JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
In South Texas today it was a balmy 99 degrees
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ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1: Empathy means that you can not only put yourself in my position, but also that you won't put me in a position to feel bad.
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edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1) lack of judgement and trying to see situations from others' point of views
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Rdene915
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
#engagechat
A1 it means you can relate to, understand, feel for someone else's situation, identify w/ diff perspective, emotions
In reply to @daviswelcome
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1. Empathy is that exclusively human capacity to understand the experience of others.
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BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1: Empathy is stepping into someone else's story, feeling what they feel and trying to understand what their experience is like
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JulieCraigCCPS
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1: Empathy is understanding what/how/why others feel what they feel.
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JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1 Empathy is understanding and sympathizing with other people and their hardships (such as slow TweetDecks).
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LaneWalker2
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
Real empathy responds in kindness even when core values are under attack.
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valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A1: Empathy means feeling the feelings of another. The ability to walk a mile in another's shoes!
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dr_helgeson
May 12 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A1: understanding the feelings of people and other living animals
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ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A1: Empathy is the ability to not only understand but to share in the feelings of others & care about those feelings.
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jasongriffinhgs
May 12 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A1 Empathy is the ability to listen without reacting.
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ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:19 PM EDT
A1 Empathy is feeling what someone else is feeling. 💙 You put yourself in their shoes.
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BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
Interesting you said only human...no other species can feel empathy?
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In reply to @applePulp
MrsJJMath
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
Imagining yourself in some1 else's spot,letting them hear your willingness to feel their emotion with them
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q1: What does empathy mean to you?
#engagechat
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
I love that empathy leads to a kind response. You can't truly have empathy if you are immovable
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In reply to @LaneWalker2
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
So exclusive not everyone has it.
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applePulp
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
A1. Empathy is that exclusively human capacity to understand the experience of others.
#engagechat
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
#engagechat
A1 Empathy is knowing how scary it can be when your questions aren't posting!
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A1: You have a caring heart - you care how other people feel so much that you connect your emotions to others' experiences.
#EngageChat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A1b: Mark and Murray explain
#empathy
so well that kids and adults alike can get it.
https://t.co/HVVX0LC7Jf
#engagechat
CardwellTeachMe
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
Having dinner with the one who calls me Mom but sneaking in a "hey" to my
#EngageChat
friends!
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:20 PM EDT
A1) Think about the other persons comments before you speak!
#KindnessMatters
#engagechat
teacherknikki
May 12 @ 8:21 PM EDT
#engagechat
It originates from Greek. Em = In. Pathos = Feelings. -- In feelings -- Feeling into.
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:21 PM EDT
It may not break 50 here tomorrow. Can you spare a few degrees?
#engagechat
In reply to @JV_lack
daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:21 PM EDT
Love this! 😎
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In reply to @pearse_margie
JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:21 PM EDT
A1 Valuing the needs of another person...A value that has been lost in the information age...
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BPiperJohnston
May 12 @ 8:21 PM EDT
Miss that Texas heat!
#EngageChat
JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:18 PM EDT
In South Texas today it was a balmy 99 degrees
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ChrisQuinn64
May 12 @ 8:21 PM EDT
A1: Truly walking in the shoes of another person.
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q1: What does empathy mean to you?
#engagechat
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:22 PM EDT
The time is limited here! Enjoy every day 😉
#EngageChat
In reply to @polonerd
SteffSchoolCoun
May 12 @ 8:22 PM EDT
A1. Being able to sense the emotions of, and read emoted signs, from others.
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q1: What does empathy mean to you?
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:22 PM EDT
Q2 Coming up.
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nsulla
May 12 @ 8:22 PM EDT
A1) I love this definition of sympathy vs. empathy ... you don't feel "with" someone; you feel "within" someone.
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pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:22 PM EDT
#engagechat
A1
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A1: This... Visualizing & putting yourself in someone else's shoes & feeling their pain rather than felling sorry for it
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JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A1) The ability to feel for somebody else, living their experience and situation.
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:17 PM EDT
Q1: What does empathy mean to you?
#engagechat
JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
You can take the hottest 99....😂😅
#engagechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
MarcieTimmerman
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Spying on
#engagechat
from KY. Thanks for the public convo on such an appropriate topic during
#mentalhealthmonth
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A1) love this one too ... 4 elements of empathy
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
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Readingram97
May 12 @ 8:24 PM EDT
A1 empathy is understanding someone else's pain
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nsulla
May 12 @ 8:24 PM EDT
A2) Other than the fact that it's one of the SuperSkills of leadership outlined in my new book on executive function??? ;-)
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MrKoz31
May 12 @ 8:24 PM EDT
Empathy means trying to look at things from the other person's perspective
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MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A1b: This... empathy is understanding
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JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A2) You can't lead people you don't understand. Ideal leadership is shared, and you must sense the needs of the others.
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
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BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A2: Empathy gives
#kindness
its why. It's the building block for all things relationship: trust, listen understand, connect.
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polonerd
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A2: If we don't take time to understand where someone's coming from, how can we understand their needs and help them grow?
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nsulla
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A1) Without empathy, you show the way; with empathy, you walk together. If you want to lead, you need to walk alongside others.
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LaneWalker2
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
Empathy builds patience when others don't instinctively follow.
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dr_helgeson
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A1: trust, building relationships, support....all leading to positive culture enhancing learning growth of Ts and Ss
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JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:25 PM EDT
A2 Leaders who have empathy will earn followers' respect and support even in the toughest times.
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whiteeducator
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A2: A leader must have empathy to be able to make the best decisions for their Ts, Ss, families, & community.
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nsulla
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A2) Without empathy, you show the way; with empathy, you walk together. If you want to lead, you need to walk alongside others.
#engagechat
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
If
#EngageChat
was a club....that means that
@daviswelcome
is our DJ....DJ Davis or nah???
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A2 Leaders are required to be in tune with the thoughts & feelings of the collective You cant lead if you dont understand others
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ChrisQuinn64
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
A2: Builds trust in your working relationships...others believe you care and are willing to put them and their needs first.
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
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MrsJJMath
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
Q2:leading is pointless w/out followers;followers go where they feel valued and accepted;empathy excudes value & acceptance
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
YES!!!!
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In reply to @JeremyDBond
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
If you don't have empathy, you can't lead!
#engagechat
SteffSchoolCoun
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A2 Reading between the lines-people feel more understood when their leader responds w/out being asked
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
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HolyGirl22
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A2:People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. That's especially true in leadership.
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MrKoz31
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A2 people are hesitant to follow a leader who doesn't care about the needs of others.
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
😎
#EngageChat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats
jasongriffinhgs
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
A2 It's important for leaders to make everybody feel like somebody!
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spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
#engagechat
As a leader, empathy can help you better support those around you. You better understand & anticipate challenges!
In reply to @sdgalich
Dr_JakeLeBlanc
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
A1
#engagechat
Having a heart! So many face so much and need a little understanding, love & patience! Great Ts "get it!"
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
A2: Without empathy you lack the ability to lead in the right direction! Negativity abounds!
#engagechat
JulieCraigCCPS
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
A2: Leaders must empathize in order to have people willing to follow.
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ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
A2: Barack Obama has said, "why use a machete when you can use a scalpel".Leaders can really hurt you if they don't understand u
#engagechat
edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
A2) A truly effective leader must have earned the trust and respect of the stakeholders!
#engagechat
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
A2: A leadership is more than just telling others what to do but actually knowing those in your care.
#engagechat
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
Empathy is a necessary trait of leaders You really can lead w/o being empathetic to the community
@whiteeducator
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In reply to @JKatzaman, @whiteeducator
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:28 PM EDT
Personally don't believe so, Brian. A few species can sympathize, perhaps, i.e., be affected by how another is feeling.
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In reply to @BKd204Sci
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A2 When a leader models empathy, it will have a positive impact on school culture & employee morale.
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ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
👇 DJ Davis lol!!
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daviswelcome
- Moderator
May 12 @ 8:27 PM EDT
😎
#EngageChat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A2b: People need to know that you are watching out for them.
#engagechat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A2b: Strong leaders are able to walk a mile in someone else's shoes.
https://t.co/CtY8xfhIaV
#engagechat
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
That was an interesting comment that made me think a bit...I can see that point Empathy is a unique trait many species dont have
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In reply to @applePulp
JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A2 Leaders in edu...Ts, Staff, Admin...the goal is to bring Ss from the bottom to the top...empathy must be a core value
#engagechat
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:30 PM EDT
One sizes fits all PD does not work, we all need a personalized experience for each of our strengths & challenges
#engagechat
In reply to @polonerd
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:30 PM EDT
#engagechat
A2 Our best leaders focus on a shared vision & a collective efficacy. This can only happen with empathy, compassion & care
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:30 PM EDT
A2. Leaders must draw on empathy when trying to understand, help, or otherwise deal with those they lead.
#engagechat
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Absolutely, Right On!
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In reply to @ElizRussellEdu
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:30 PM EDT
Question 3 Cming Up...
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Readingram97
May 12 @ 8:31 PM EDT
A2 Leaders need to have empathy in order to create a safe environment. They need to see us as human
#engagechat
BPiperJohnston
May 12 @ 8:31 PM EDT
That is the best feeling when you truly feel like someone has your back!
#EngageChat
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:29 PM EDT
A2b: People need to know that you are watching out for them.
#engagechat
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:31 PM EDT
A2: People in leadership positions who lack patience struggle with true empathy!
#engagechat
🙀
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:31 PM EDT
Does leadership require someone to follow? Can change happen through one person?
#engagechat
MrsJJMath
May 12 @ 8:26 PM EDT
Q2:leading is pointless w/out followers;followers go where they feel valued and accepted;empathy excudes value & acceptance
#EngageChat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
#engagechat
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:31 PM EDT
A2: If you have empathy as a leader you find out what inspires people, what they are passionate about & how it change the world.
#engagechat
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:31 PM EDT
A2. It’s not uncommon for school staff to assume different positions or interests, and sometimes roles call for it.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Question 3
#engagechat
Skymazef3
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
#engagechat
Running late but engaged in engagechat for sure. Heulwen from Melbourne. Teaching a lot of number sense this week, fun times
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
#engagechat
A2 Leaders are so busy, but an empathetic leader knows to stop, when needed, regardless of the next thing that needs to be done
IEGSolar
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
a1) Empathy is understanding what someone else is feeling by relating a similar feeling you have had
#authentic
#engagechat
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A1) love this one too ... 4 elements of empathy
#engagechat
MrKoz31
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
#engagechat
https://t.co/bU23BfJHws
best speech on leadership I've come across. You won't regret watching!!
Dr_JakeLeBlanc
May 12 @ 8:33 PM EDT
A2
#engagechat
we are in the PEOPLE business! If you lack empathy and are responsible for shaping/molding, you can't!
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:33 PM EDT
Absolutely! 😊😊
#EngageChat
In reply to @MrsRizkalla
SteffSchoolCoun
May 12 @ 8:33 PM EDT
A3 the best! Everyone works together and makes decisions for the greater good to benefit all
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Question 3
#engagechat
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A2c: It is part of creating a culture of trust and without trust there will no progress among your team
#engagechat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3:
#Empathy
makes everything better!
@Micheleborba
spent 10 years researching it and shares the answer to this Q in
#UnSelfie
!
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3) To feel safe enough to learn, kids must know somebody cares about them and understands them--and doesn't label them instead.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Question 3
#engagechat
Rdene915
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
#engagechat
A2 everyone comes to school w/diff exper, leaders nd to model empathy and be avail for staff, let Ts knw they have support
In reply to @sdgalich
whiteeducator
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3: If we can truly feel & understand each other's feelings/PoVs, we will be more kind, patient, & understanding of each other.
#engagechat
dr_helgeson
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3: without it, the culture will cease to be positive for all
#EngageChat
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
When Ss know Ts are in tune to their feelings/position they feel valued which has a huge impact on school climate
#EngageChat
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
Lack of empathy leads to divides & loss of communication: People don't want to engage if they don't feel heard
#engagechat
In reply to @sdgalich
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3: If empathy is part of the culture then people are safe to feel & be heard. They know someone will care & understand.
#engagechat
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A3 A culture with empathy puts aside squabbles as the community unites to address shared concerns.
#engagechat
MrCharlesMartin
May 12 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A3: It creates an environment where people feel heard, understood. It opens the door to collaboration and trust.
#EngageChat
jasongriffinhgs
May 12 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A3 When staff and students know we are here, they will do what it takes to get there!
#engagechat
LaneWalker2
May 12 @ 8:35 PM EDT
A4 Empathy builds warmth, trust, and acceptance.
#engagechat
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:35 PM EDT
Yes! 😊 Of course!
#EngageChat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats, @daviswelcome
Skymazef3
May 12 @ 8:35 PM EDT
#engagechat
Living in a culture that really lacks empathy & driving school culture backwards. More behavioural challenges arise
#aussieED
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A3...its Friday
#EngageChat
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
When Ss know Ts are in tune to their feelings/position they feel valued which has a huge impact on school climate
#EngageChat
ChrisQuinn64
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A3: Empathy, if 'lived' faithfully, can be contagious within a community...breathing a life of caring & respect into a culture.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Question 3
#engagechat
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A3: With it, culture is built- without it, culture is destroyed.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Question 3
#engagechat
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
Agreed. Everyone needs to have a voice and not feel like one is more important than another.
#engagechat
In reply to @spiraledu, @sdgalich
JulieCraigCCPS
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A3: When someone feels that others care about them they become more caring creating a culture of compassion. Snowball effect.
#engagechat
BPiperJohnston
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
Love this! Thanks for sharing!
#EngageChat
MrKoz31
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
#engagechat
https://t.co/bU23BfJHws
best speech on leadership I've come across. You won't regret watching!!
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A3: Empathy is needed to create a culture of trust and without trust there will be no progress among your team
#engagechat
IEGSolar
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A leader must be in tune with how others are feeling to help navigate through the emotions or adjust the style of communication.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
Question 2
#engagechat
MrKoz31
May 12 @ 8:36 PM EDT
A3 empathy is contagious
#engagechat
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:37 PM EDT
A3: School culture has to do with what's done routinely, so a lack of empathy means NOT working on behalf of Ss.
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:37 PM EDT
Dr. Borba, awesome! Thanks for sharing.
#engagechat
In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @micheleborba
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:37 PM EDT
Empathy is a gateway to a safe learning environment It allows Ss to take risks or join the collaboration
#EngageChat
In reply to @ACTforEducation
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:37 PM EDT
I LOVE IT!!!!!! lol!!!!
#EngageChat
In reply to @ElizRussellEdu, @daviswelcome
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:37 PM EDT
#engagechat
A3 Empathy can completely change the culture of the school.
Skymazef3
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
a1 This summarises beautifully what used to happen dare I say "in the good old days". Succinct
#aussieED
#engagechat
#myedoz
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:23 PM EDT
A1) love this one too ... 4 elements of empathy
#engagechat
polonerd
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
Exactly! I'm a huge fan of
#personalizedPD
#engagechat
In reply to @spiraledu
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
They know that the person in front of them is the next thing that needs to be done.
#engagechat
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
#engagechat
A2 Leaders are so busy, but an empathetic leader knows to stop, when needed, regardless of the next thing that needs to be done
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A3 Empathy as part of a school culture can either make it or break it.
#EngageChat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
I gotcha.
#engagechat
In reply to @MrsJJMath
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A3) Sorry, pause for Chinese food dlvry. Empathy reflcts a culture of efficacy, a requirement to being able to change the world!
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
Question 4 In a few,,,
#engagechat
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:38 PM EDT
A3 Empathy is one of the pillars of
#GRIT
that can change school culture!
#engagechat
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A3: Empathy sets the tone for a judicious forgiving school culture. Failure is a bruise not a tatoo!
#engagechat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A3b: We intentionally work on empowering empathy so it's on our hearts in every interaction.
https://t.co/2oIJJ1PgWQ
#engagechat
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A3: Neuroscience tells us that kiddos brains aren't fully formed in school-age years, so empathy is imperative!
#EngageChat
edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A3) staff and students will know you care and come to school happier- trickle down effect to school visitors and culture is 🤗🤗
#engagechat
JV_lack
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A3 The culture of the school will be caring, tough love, and discipline...some mistake empathy as giving too many chances...
#engagechat
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
I agree! Empathy and relationships are the keys to success in a classroom, a school and in life!
#EngageChat
In reply to @BKd204Sci
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your book!
#engagechat
In reply to @BarbaraGruener, @micheleborba
Readingram97
May 12 @ 8:39 PM EDT
A3 Without empathy a leader can destroy the culture of a school if they are not careful. Staff can feel disconnected
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Question 4
#engagechat
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
more people trust you, more they will share w:you. When youre aware of problems,you can address them. Hard if they go unnoticed
#engagechat
In reply to @MrsRizkalla
BPiperJohnston
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Same goes for every person that works in a school.
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:34 PM EDT
A3) To feel safe enough to learn, kids must know somebody cares about them and understands them--and doesn't label them instead.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:32 PM EDT
Question 3
#engagechat
steven_kolber
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Oh interesting, I wasn't even thinking of adding animals
#EngageChat
In reply to @dr_helgeson, @daviswelcome
HolyGirl22
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
A3: Empathy can change school culture from being cold and hard to being warm and loving. An incubator for success at its best!
#engagechat
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
School culture is not just
#TeacherAppreciation
week, people need to feel valued EVERYDAY
#engagechat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
Like most
#edu
chat topics It all goes back to relationship building Rapport is the single largest factor in school success
#engagechat
In reply to @ACTforEducation
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
I agree! This is why differences need to be accepted and celebrated. It's part of the road to a culture of empathy.
#EngageChat
In reply to @BKd204Sci, @ACTforEducation
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
A4: Oh goodness....every time I think I'm being too lenient, I think about the fact that this is a YOUNG brain trying...
#engagechat
Skymazef3
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
#engagechat
a2 Seeing a leader that follows process without empathy has led to a sense of disengagement. Outcomes are not being met.
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
#engagechat
A3 It is amazing how much calmer a S gets when we just ask, "Hey, you okay? What's up, you don't seem your cheerful self today."
MsHoskinsTech
May 12 @ 8:41 PM EDT
Hi All Marisa Hoskins here-ICT Educational Specialist Hong Kong
#engagechat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A4: We gather and sing You Are My Sunshine to each other every morning. It sets the tone and says we see you. You matter to us!
#engagechat
whiteeducator
May 12 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A4: By listening, getting to know each other, and making decisions collaboratively. Be willing to learn from them!
#engagechat
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:42 PM EDT
Yes!
#EngageChat
In reply to @stephenkelley85
Dr_JakeLeBlanc
May 12 @ 8:42 PM EDT
A4
#engagechat
As Covey states, "Seek first to understand, then to be understood." LISTEN actively as you communicate.
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:42 PM EDT
It is amazing how comments like that can make such a difference.
#engagechat
In reply to @pearse_margie
EduGladiators
May 12 @ 8:42 PM EDT
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#EduGladiators
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#afterchat
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#engagechat
#edcampgigcity
#leadupchat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
Yes. And if it's an empathic environment, hopefully other kids reflect that too.
#engagechat
In reply to @BPiperJohnston
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
Perhaps it would be a good idea for schools and students to have an "Engage Chat"!
#engagechat
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A4 Actually care for students and parents through meaningful actions, not hollow words that fill a square.
#engagechat
dr_helgeson
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A4: listen to understand, embrace diverse literature, enact simulations, be true and honest
#EngageChat
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
Failure is just a bruise: Address those hard topics like hate speech & bullying while it's still small. It can escalate fast
#engagechat
In reply to @valerietilton
HolyGirl22
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A4: I can model empathy by being a good listener, actively showing concern, and assisting where I can to help meet needs.
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
Ever cause then to burst into tears?
#engagechat
In reply to @R_CILR, @pearse_margie
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
May I join in for a bit?
#engagechat
MsHoskinsTech
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A3-empathy can be used to understand the needs of teachers and students-and hopefully find how best to meet them
#engagechat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
Oh Kate, you're going to LOVE this convo!
#engagechat
In reply to @KateNasser
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A3: It's not fair to judge a child's undeveloped brain by what an adult would or should do....it's just wrong.
#EngageChat
MrsLedford6Eng
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
Love this!
#engagechat
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:43 PM EDT
A4 Actually care for students and parents through meaningful actions, not hollow words that fill a square.
#engagechat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
Thanks Barbara ... looks interesting!
#engagechat
In reply to @BarbaraGruener
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
A4) Model empathy by listening, describing what the other must be going through. Ask Ss questions to lead them to empathize.
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
🤗 sweet.
#engagechat
In reply to @BarbaraGruener
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:45 PM EDT
MT
@MsHoskinsTech
A3-empathy can be used to understand the needs of teachers and students-and find how best to meet them
#engagechat
In reply to @MsHoskinsTech
JulieCraigCCPS
May 12 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A4: Ts can model empathy by listening and helping to solve and prevent issues in a positive way. Involve students in conferences
#engagechat
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A4: It's important to be genuine not just "model" but be mindful, present, aware & actively listening
#engagechat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:45 PM EDT
RT
@MrsRizkalla
A4: It's important to be genuine not just "model" but be mindful, present, aware & actively listening
#engagechat
In reply to @MrsRizkalla
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:45 PM EDT
Engaging in
#EngageChat
... thx for understanding my busy stream
edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:45 PM EDT
A4) Seek first to understand ... truly listen to others and ask questions / empowering others / being approachable and sincere
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
And learning. We punish in the middle of a learning process.
#engagechat
In reply to @ScienceWildcats
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
A4. Staff can model non-judgmental sensitivities, but need to go a step further and explicitly discuss, debrief situations, etc.
#engagechat
ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
A4 Empathy requires vulnerability! Be the example for others to see.
#EngageChat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
RT
@edu_taraw
A4) Seek first to understand ... truly listen to others and ask questions / empowering others / being approachable
#engagechat
In reply to @edu_taraw
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
Sometimes bursting out into tears is an expression of an opening brought about because of some1 showing empathy and compassion.
#engagechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond, @pearse_margie
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
RT
@ElizRussellEdu
A4 Empathy requires vulnerability! Be the example for others to see.
#EngageChat
https://t.co/3T6bm5qsRd
In reply to @ElizRussellEdu
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
A4: Listen to understand not to respond. Ask questions, remember what Ps $ Ss tell you. Find out what they are passionate about.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:46 PM EDT
Question 5 Coming up
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:47 PM EDT
And as in most edu chats, I'll put in a word for relationships with families. Helps everyone, kid included, feel supported.
#engagechat
In reply to @BKd204Sci, @ACTforEducation
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:47 PM EDT
#engagechat
use teachable moments & address things as they arise. This models to not avoid awkward situations! Share. Problem solve!
In reply to @sdgalich
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
Question 5:
#engagechat
artsynihon
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
Phil Jackson ,
#engagechat
,
#BonAppetitMusicVideo
,
#iHeartHarryStyles
, Alice Fisher ,
#CelebrityBoss
,
#BOSvsWSH
SteffSchoolCoun
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A4 patience, patience, patience! In counseling we say "meet the client where they are" ...and give honest walk throughs
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Question 4
#engagechat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
A5. Empathy is experiencing / feeling what others are going through. Arrogance is thinking you know it all & others don't.
#engagechat
PrestonMcKellar
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
4) willing to reflect and take things into consideration regarding Ss
#engagechat
In reply to @sdgalich
MsHoskinsTech
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
I love the statement-so true-empathy breeds empathy
#engagechat
In reply to @JulieCraigCCPS
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
And the continuing hope people take the time to build those relationships & see the value in
#SEL
to get to the academic goals.
#engagechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond, @BKd204Sci
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A5 Empathy = thinking of others first Arrogance = thinking of yourself first Priorities matter Empathy can look like arrogance
#EngageChat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A5. Empathy connects as equals; arrogance looks down on others.
#engagechat
MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
YES!
#engagechat
In reply to @ACTforEducation
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
#engagechat
arrogance is advocating for a solution without asking the parties involved: "don't care who gets the toy, as long as you talk!"
In reply to @sdgalich
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A5. Empathy doesn't judge; arrogance always does.
#engagechat
polonerd
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A5: Empathy is actually walking in the shoes of others. Arrogance is telling them you already know what it's like in their shoes
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:49 PM EDT
A4) Don't judge; respect differences and perceived shortcomings. Demonstrate that you know that everyone has strengths.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Question 4
#engagechat
BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A5: They might be opposites. Arrogance doesn't stop long enough to listen to someone else much less step into their story!
#engagechat
stephenkelley85
May 12 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A5) Night & Day!
#engagechat
BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:50 PM EDT
We listen too often with our needs as listener first & not the needs of the speaker at the forefront
#EngageChat
In reply to @MrsRizkalla, @ACTforEducation
Dr_JakeLeBlanc
May 12 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A5
#engagechat
Concern for others vs Consumed w/self! Level 5 leaders, per Collins,dodge the limelight and build others!
edu_taraw
May 12 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A5) arrogance is thinking your way is the best -empathy is knowing other ways could be just as good and open to consideration
#engagechat
notjustup2u
May 12 @ 8:50 PM EDT
A4 walk the talk-show empathy to others-live the example- explain explicitly so Ss understand
#EngageChat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
A5. Empathy learns through experiencing; arrogance doesn't learn.
#engagechat
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
... all while receiving a Chinese food delivery. 🙃
#engagechat
In reply to @nsulla
PrestonMcKellar
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
5) empathy is genuinely putting ego aside for Ss &unit trying to win. Arrogance is just thinking about yourself
#engagechat
In reply to @sdgalich
valerietilton
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
A5: Empathy is "you". Arrogance is "me".
#engagechat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
A5. Empathy opens the door to other's feelings; arrogance slams it shut hard in their face.
#engagechat
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
A5) Arrogance is built on power differentials; empathy is built on understanding life differences.
#engagechat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
THIS>>
@valerietilton
A5: Empathy is "you". Arrogance is "me".
#engagechat
https://t.co/lEN0KPFbRt
#PeopleSkills
In reply to @valerietilton
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
+10
@nsulla
A5) Arrogance is built on power differentials; empathy is built on understanding life differences.
#engagechat
In reply to @nsulla
R_CILR
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A4: By listening to understand, not to respond.
#engagechat
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Question 4
#engagechat
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
#engagechat
A4 Just had a kindie come to field trip with no lunch. Didn't know he is homeless. Went & got him lunch. There is often a story
Skymazef3
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
#engagechat
a4 Chair swap regularly with Ss to literally sit next to different ppl, to see different perspectives. It builds the team
JKatzaman
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A5 Arrogance rains strictly from a bully leader to impose personal agendas. Empathy flows in all directions to uplift everyone.
#engagechat
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Glad you're here!
#EngageChat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:44 PM EDT
May I join in for a bit?
#engagechat
ACTforEducation
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A5: Empathy encourages & brings hope; gives value to experience. Arrogance assumes and takes away from a person's experience.
#engagechat
notjustup2u
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Empathy is being aware of others Arrogance is being aware of self
#EngageChat
applePulp
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
A5. Empathy is non-judgmental, but helps us respond others w/empathy-tempered judgment. Arrogance is superiority-based judgment.
#engagechat
nsulla
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
hoping you can empathize with my hunger, Jeremy ;-)
#engagechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Exactly! Everyone has strengths, a good empathetic leader will help cultivate it
#engagechat
In reply to @JeremyDBond
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Last Question Coming Up.
#engagechat
KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
RT
@notjustup2u
Empathy is being aware of others Arrogance is being aware of self
#EngageChat
#PeopleSkills
In reply to @notjustup2u
JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Some may be sort of neutral and keep to themselves, though I suppose they'd lean toward the former.
#engagechat
pearse_margie
May 12 @ 8:37 PM EDT
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A3 Empathy can completely change the culture of the school.
SteffSchoolCoun
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A5 Arrogance considers only the self, or takes empathy and uses it for one's own motives to serve themselves.
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
Question 5:
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ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Well said, Kate! 😊
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applePulp
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
Very nicely put, Kate!
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MsHoskinsTech
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A4-1)demonstrating to students it's okay to make mistakes 2)using Google Classroom as a tool to build community(sharing forum)
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MrCharlesMartin
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
A4: By genuinely caring about others. Empathy can't be faked or learned in textbooks. You either care about others or you don't.
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
LQ:
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ElizRussellEdu
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Thanks, as well. Glad you could join us this evening! 😊
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JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Love the gif. I wonder if I'd be able to do that today. I know I refused to do a trust fall as a kid.
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ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A5: The arrogant don't lend their emotions to others. The empathetic pratically give their emotions to others - vicariously.
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BPiperJohnston
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Great visual! Very true.
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KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:51 PM EDT
A5. Empathy opens the door to other's feelings; arrogance slams it shut hard in their face.
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MrsRizkalla
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A5: The difference is pride... There is no pride in empathy
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spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
Empathy does have to be cultivated. Students are what they know! Can't be punitive & expect them to learn empathy
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JulieCraigCCPS
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A5: A ton! Empathy is understanding with the heart. Arrogance is an attitude of knowing, it lacks caring.
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ChrisQuinn64
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
A4:Take asset approach to relationships with Ss & Ps...emphasize strengths, help them embrace mistakes as learning opportunities.
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:40 PM EDT
Question 4
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BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:54 PM EDT
...and it is that simple! Do you care for/about others & is it shown in your actions?
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KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:55 PM EDT
Thanks!!
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KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:55 PM EDT
RT
@JulieCraigCCPS
A5: A ton! Empathy is understanding with the heart. Arrogance is an attitude of knowing, it lacks caring.
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BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:55 PM EDT
A6: Get some shoes and use these scenarios to get Ss thinking, feeling, and acting out their
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!
https://t.co/fF0hJkMwtk
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notjustup2u
May 12 @ 8:55 PM EDT
A5 There is empathy and
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empathy- making it real is when it is embedded in mindset intrinsic to who we are - not for show!
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ChrisQuinn64
May 12 @ 8:56 PM EDT
A5: Two ends of the spectrum...selfless versus selfish!
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:48 PM EDT
Question 5:
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KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:56 PM EDT
Think I missed Q6 ...
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BKd204Sci
May 12 @ 8:57 PM EDT
A6 First by dev. a strong relationship w/Ss & Ps Then being a listener who acts on what you hear Build it and show it
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nsulla
May 12 @ 8:57 PM EDT
and it shows in every word you utter, every action you take ... you can't fake empathy (though you can be manipulative)
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JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:57 PM EDT
A4) As a parent, I'm modeling only to my kids. By not quickly criticizing others, instead considering their lived experience.
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
LQ:
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polonerd
May 12 @ 8:57 PM EDT
@KateNasser
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:53 PM EDT
LQ:
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sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
There wasnt a question 6. It was a duplicate of 4
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KateNasser
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Thanks :)
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spiraledu
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Real empathy is every day with little things & big decisions. Your actions broadcast your sincerity
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it takes time to build trust
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PrestonMcKellar
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
LQ Ps included on committees. Genuine flexibility on changing mind after input IF warranted. Ss input valued & utilized.
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HolyGirl22
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
A5: Empathy says, "I'm here for you." Arrogance says, "Whatever! I'm only here for myself!"
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applePulp
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Yes. Sometimes society seems to value the action, however sincere, more highly than genuine empathy.
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JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:58 PM EDT
Absolutely. May you have a good meal and a good fortune (cookie).
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notjustup2u
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Exactly- there in lies the challenge when teaching our students genuine intrinsic empathy - not surface level acknowledgement
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nsulla
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Great topic; great chat my
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ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
LQ: I model empathy for parents by letting kiddos make up work until I have to submit my grades...no questions asked.
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ChrisQuinn64
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Thanks for another great
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BarbaraGruener
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
TY for a thought-provoking
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tonight. Here's one more
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post you might find helpful:
https://t.co/AlmsqoNPVu
ScienceWildcats
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
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was on 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 THANKS for a great chat!!
sdgalich
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Thank you everyone for the great participation tonight. Have a great weekend.
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JeremyDBond
May 12 @ 8:59 PM EDT
Or unaware of others OR self. Arrogance can be delusional.
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notjustup2u
May 12 @ 8:52 PM EDT
Empathy is being aware of others Arrogance is being aware of self
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