#LDchat Archive

Understood holds this weekly Twitter chat that aims to keep the momentum going and raise awareness of learning and attention issues. Follow along with hashtag #LDCHAT and follow users @understoodchats & @understoodorg. Experts will be available to answer your questions and concerns and share resources from Understood.org.

Wednesday March 7, 2018
12:00 PM EST

  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:00 PM EST
    LIVE NOW Welcome to today’s #ldchat! This is Dan with the Understood team. We’re joined today by high school principal and Understood expert Brian Stack, M.Ed., (@bstackbu) to discuss building positive parent-teacher relationships.
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:00 PM EST
    Who’s with us today? #ldchat
  • DDCalifornia Mar 7 @ 12:00 PM EST
    #LDchat begins now on parent- teacher relationships. Use #LDchat to follow the chat
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:01 PM EST
    Jennifer- KY Dept. Of Ed., Differentiation and UDL Specialist #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:01 PM EST
    Hi everyone! I'm a NH HS Principal, husband to a special educator, and father of 5 children ages 3-12. Excited to be joining! #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:01 PM EST
    Jenn here in Iowa, hanging in there until spring break 🙃 #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:01 PM EST
    Great to have you, Jennifer! Thanks for joining! #ldchat
    In reply to @Jen_Pusateri
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:01 PM EST
    Welcome! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:02 PM EST
    How many weeks left? #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO
  • Bookshare Mar 7 @ 12:02 PM EST
    Good morning from Laura with @Bookshare in Palo Alto, CA #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:02 PM EST
    Thanks for joining in today! #ldchat
    In reply to @Jen_Pusateri
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:02 PM EST
    Hi Laura! Thanks for joining today! #ldchat
    In reply to @Bookshare
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:02 PM EST
    Thanks for joining us from sunny California! #ldchat
    In reply to @Bookshare
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:03 PM EST
    Hi Lisa! Please be sure to use #ldchat with all tweets so everyone can see.
    In reply to @lisaklipfel
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:04 PM EST
    We'll begin in just a minute... #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:04 PM EST
    Just realized that! #LDchat ------Parent and ET from So CA.
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:04 PM EST
    I'm in sunny Austin TX today, presenting later with the awesome @NCLDorg team on building student advocacy. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    My old stomping grounds! How's the weather in Austin? #ldchat
    In reply to @bstackbu, @ncldorg
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT LIVE NOW Welcome to today’s #ldchat! This is Dan with the Understood team. We’re joined today by high school principal and Understood expert Brian Stack, M.Ed., (bstackbu) to discuss building positive parent-teacher relationships. https://t.co/bAas7ycmbu via UnderstoodOrg #…
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT Who’s with us today? #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT RT DDCalifornia: #LDchat begins now on parent- teacher relationships. Use #LDchat to follow the chat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT Jen_Pusateri Great to have you, Jennifer! Thanks for joining! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: Hi everyone! I'm a NH HS Principal, husband to a special educator, and father of 5 children ages 3-12. Excited to be joining! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT UnderstoodJennO How many weeks left? #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT Bookshare Hi Laura! Thanks for joining today! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT lisaklipfel Hi Lisa! Please be sure to use #ldchat with all tweets so everyone can see. via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    RT We'll begin in just a minute... #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    Hi Dan...here from outside of snowy Philadelphia. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:05 PM EST
    Hope you're staying dry, Debra! #ldchat
    In reply to @EdNavigation
  • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:06 PM EST
    HAPPENING NOW: @UnderstoodOrg and @bstackbu hosting a discussion on parent-teacher relationships. Follow along at #LDchat!
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:06 PM EST
    We have both parents and educators joining us today, so it will be great to hear what each has to say. #ldchat
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:06 PM EST
    Doing my best. You as well...#ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:06 PM EST
    So let's get started... #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:06 PM EST
    Austin is beautiful, 65 degrees and sunny. Joined with thousands of educators at #sxswedu18. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg, @bstackbu, @ncldorg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:06 PM EST
    We’ll use a Q1, Q2… format for questions. Please use the A1, A2… format for answers. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:07 PM EST
    Q1. When is the best time to establish a parent-teacher partnership, and what are some ways to do it? #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:08 PM EST
    A1: Start early. Send a welcome email or drop by at an open house. It's better to open up lines of communication on positive note. #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:08 PM EST
    A1 Sooner the better. I wait until the teacher has interacted with my child for at least a week and then I send an email with an introduction. It usually has links to #dyslexia info. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:09 PM EST
    A1: Right away! Start off by meeting the teacher and offer some background on your child and what works for your child. I recommend in-person for lower grades and special services. #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:09 PM EST
    A1- Back to school night seems overwhelming...everyone is waiting in line and it makes me late for the next class...high school. #LDchat
    In reply to @bstackbu
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:09 PM EST
    Great idea to include links about #dyslexia! Do you find that waiting a week has been beneficial? #ldchat
    In reply to @lisaklipfel
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:09 PM EST
    That is a great approach, very proactive! #LDChat
    In reply to @lisaklipfel, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    Working with your child’s teacher can have a powerful impact on the parents, the teacher and the child. #ldchat https://t.co/UUgxFCDLsf
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    A1: Ideally, it would be best to start a parent/teacher dialogue before school starts- like in the summer. That way, the teacher can begin proactively adapting lessons, and the parent can offer suggestions and answer questions about their child’s needs. #ldchat
  • AssignmentHelpN Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    7 Effective Habits of Writing the Best College Application Essay https://t.co/EDtWOHuw0P #iolchat #LDchat
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT bstackbu ncldorg My old stomping grounds! How's the weather in Austin? #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT EdNavigation Hope you're staying dry, Debra! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT RT Dale_Chu: HAPPENING NOW: UnderstoodOrg and bstackbu hosting a discussion on parent-teacher relationships. Follow along at #LDchat! via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT We have both parents and educators joining us today, so it will be great to hear what each has to say. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT So let's get started... #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT We’ll use a Q1, Q2… format for questions. Please use the A1, A2… format for answers. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT Q1. When is the best time to establish a parent-teacher partnership, and what are some ways to do it? #ldchat https://t.co/ouYTuY9EVP via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: A1: Start early. Send a welcome email or drop by at an open house. It's better to open up lines of communication on positive note. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT lisaklipfel Great idea to include links about #dyslexia! Do you find that waiting a week has been beneficial? #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT RT UnderstoodJennO: A1: Right away! Start off by meeting the teacher and offer some background on your child and what works for your child. I recommend in-person for lower grades and special services. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:10 PM EST
    RT Working with your child’s teacher can have a powerful impact on the parents, the teacher and the child. #ldchat https://t.co/pLjZKS3rmL via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:11 PM EST
    Review these 8 tips for building an effective partnership with your child’s teacher. #ldchat https://t.co/YTE8in115y
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:11 PM EST
    In person can be a good approach, try to keep it short and simple to help teacher. #LDChat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:11 PM EST
    A2: Also, I find that if you are proactive, it limits teachers having to be reactive. #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:12 PM EST
    I want the teacher to get settled into class and for him/her to meet my child/observe get a sense of my child in class. I think they are overwhelmed with so much the first week. Parent psychology I guess. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:12 PM EST
    A1: I liked meeting my parents and students before the first day of school. It provided the opportunity to get to know one another and for me to outline my expectations from the get-go. #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:12 PM EST
    Have you tried a 3x3 card to help teachers get to know your child? #ldchat https://t.co/fIp7pVUqKw
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:13 PM EST
    A1- Yeah, we don't know teachers in summer. #LDchat
    In reply to @Jen_Pusateri
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:13 PM EST
    Exactly. Try to limit your interaction to 5-10 minutes by prepping your intro ahead of time. https://t.co/PeKm8mwjLe has great resources on it. #ldchat
    In reply to @bstackbu
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:13 PM EST
    Moving onto Q2... #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:13 PM EST
    You could even have the child help develop it as a summer activity! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:13 PM EST
    Q2. What does effective communication between parents and teachers look like? Is there such a thing as over-communicating? #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:14 PM EST
    For some...only because they can match the face to my student. I've also had teachers that I start day one - and they are still trying to figure out who my son is. I guess that's why I wait, too. #LDchat
    In reply to @ldrfa
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:14 PM EST
    We've developed a similar tool and it includes triggers, which are particularly important for children receiving special education services/supports. Teachers need to know... #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    RT Review these 8 tips for building an effective partnership with your child’s teacher. #ldchat https://t.co/nbVlCjdxhY via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    RT Have you tried a 3x3 card to help teachers get to know your child? #ldchat https://t.co/X05mNzrmnA via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    RT Moving onto Q2... #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    RT Q2. What does effective communication between parents and teachers look like? Is there such a thing as over-communicating? #ldchat https://t.co/6PSdk6A0re via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    I wrote this blog article last year on this topic that may have some tips: https://t.co/wDXe7v3yJL #ldchat
  • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    A2: No such thing as over-communicating, but it’s important to watch the ratio of positive-to-negative interactions. The more positive, the better. #LDchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
    A2: I wrote this blog article last year on this topic that may offer some tips: https://t.co/wDXe7v3yJL #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:16 PM EST
    Yes, for some schools, they can't assign teachers until the beginning of the year. Then you might reach out to the guidance counselor or whoever might be able to point you to a person such as a student support coordinator. #ldchat
    In reply to @lisaklipfel, @Jen_Pusateri
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:16 PM EST
    A2: Effective communication looks like both sides doing what is in the child’s best interest- not their own best interests. I think the frequency of communication will depend on all parties involved.l. Some Ss may require daily contact btwn Ps & Ts. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:16 PM EST
    An “all about my kid” letter at the beginning of the school year is a great way to introduce a teacher to your child. #ldchat https://t.co/zYi1Qt4BTL
  • christineLmorin Mar 7 @ 12:16 PM EST
    A1: As a parent, I try to share good news, successes at home and appreciations with teachers so they aren’t just hearing from me when my son is struggling @UnderstoodOrg #LDchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:16 PM EST
    A2: Over-communication could be an issue. Remember, you have just one child. The teacher may have 100 or more. Weekly check-ins are appropriate, to me. #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:16 PM EST
    A2- I usu start with "I noticed". Also if I see an upcoming assignment I know my child will struggle with I will alert teacher. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:17 PM EST
    Love that triggers are included. It prevents a lot of issues in the classroom if we know what can set off a child. #ldchat.
    In reply to @EdNavigation, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:17 PM EST
    Excellent idea! #ldchat
    In reply to @christineLmorin
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:17 PM EST
    Most teachers expect and welcome communication via email. #ldchat https://t.co/eNOhtN2Y3j
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:17 PM EST
    A2- Yes, there is probably over-communicating if the parent is emailing on every single assignment. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:17 PM EST
    Good point. Gaining an advocate within the school is a great way to open the lines of communication as early as possible! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO, @lisaklipfel
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:17 PM EST
    Good point! #LDchat
    • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:15 PM EST
      A2: No such thing as over-communicating, but it’s important to watch the ratio of positive-to-negative interactions. The more positive, the better. #LDchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:18 PM EST
    Email may sometimes seem impersonal, but it is a quick way to have fast, consistent communication. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:18 PM EST
    A2: It's fact-based, comprehensive, and allows for interaction (e.g. e-mail). Teachers & parents see the child differently and each perspective matters. #ldchat
  • TheIEPGuy Mar 7 @ 12:18 PM EST
    A2: When it relates to your child, I don’t believe you can over-communicate. #LDchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:18 PM EST
    A2: Respectful, measured, and with a resolution in mind--not a vent session. And YES there is such a thing as too much communication! I've experienced it, and it helps noone. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:19 PM EST
    Use this guide to see what to include in an email to your child’s teacher to help you get the best response. #ldchat https://t.co/5usyxMedzb
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:19 PM EST
    It's the only way at our high school #LDchat
    In reply to @bstackbu, @UnderstoodOrg
  • tdcraw Mar 7 @ 12:19 PM EST
    Hate missing out today, busy building positive relationships at the state capital and department of education. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    Keep making positive strides! #ldchat
    In reply to @tdcraw
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: I wrote this blog article last year on this topic that may have some tips: https://t.co/dHcusbyDw4 #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT An “all about my kid” letter at the beginning of the school year is a great way to introduce a teacher to your child. #ldchat https://t.co/kduRxCpvUi via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT christineLmorin Excellent idea! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: A2: Over-communication could be an issue. Remember, you have just one child. The teacher may have 100 or more. Weekly check-ins are appropriate, to me. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT Most teachers expect and welcome communication via email. #ldchat https://t.co/15sWCFaGqC via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: UnderstoodOrg Email may sometimes seem impersonal, but it is a quick way to have fast, consistent communication. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT RT UnderstoodJennO: A2: Respectful, measured, and with a resolution in mind--not a vent session. And YES there is such a thing as too much communication! I've experienced it, and it helps noone. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT Use this guide to see what to include in an email to your child’s teacher to help you get the best response. #ldchat https://t.co/pGMAkofi5o via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    RT tdcraw Keep making positive strides! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    I realize now I could add a photo of some of my child's artwork to complete his strengths. #LDchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    Just be careful not to make it overwhelming. Clarity of communication is important. #ldchat
    In reply to @TheIEPGuy
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:20 PM EST
    And never send an email out of anger. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:21 PM EST
    Great chat so far! Let's move onto Q3... #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:21 PM EST
    Q3. What are some ways you can make the most out of parent-teacher conferences? #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:21 PM EST
    I actually have a 30 sec delay on my GMail so I have time to retract an email sent with emotion! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO, @UnderstoodOrg
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:21 PM EST
    Yes, I think parents need to be concise. #LDchat
    In reply to @bstackbu, @TheIEPGuy
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:22 PM EST
    Great tip! #ldchat
    In reply to @bstackbu, @UnderstoodJennO
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:22 PM EST
    A3: Bring questions ahead of time, or a list of what you want to know more about. Have your child help generate the list! #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:22 PM EST
    For sure. I recommend a 24 hr cooling off period if you want to shoot an email in anger. Helps collect thoughts and pin down the breakdown/struggle. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:22 PM EST
    I love the idea of involving your child. #ldchat
    In reply to @bstackbu
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:22 PM EST
    A3: Don’t go in on the defensive, even if you have concerns. Remember to do as much listening as talking! #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:23 PM EST
    A3: Prepare an agenda ahead of time and share it with the teacher. It allows them to prepare and prevents blindsiding. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:23 PM EST
    Check out these 14 tips to help both parents and teachers work together toward success for the child. #ldchat https://t.co/Q6HS6jW4ZI
  • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:24 PM EST
    A3: Consider having students take the lead! https://t.co/6kdc2ll5JN #LDchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:24 PM EST
    I think the part about sharing it in advance with the teacher is great! Invite them to add items as well. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodJennO
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:24 PM EST
    For Ps- Just remember, the Ts are just as scared of you as you are of them. For Ts- Just remember, the Ps are just as scared of you as you a re of them. Acknowledge that you are both experts on the students, but experts in different settings- @ home vs @school #SameTeam #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:24 PM EST
    I agree. I actually recommend that if you are still emotional, then a more personal interaction such as a phone call or conference is more appropriate. #ldchat
    In reply to @lisaklipfel, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:24 PM EST
    Download this parent-teacher conference worksheet to plan ahead and help you have a confident conversation. #ldchat https://t.co/WTJlEpZPRK
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    A3. I have always brought work samples. They are marked up with the areas of needs. I always bring art that he's done to show he's not all about that poor work sample. I also express the amount of time he's spending on HW, to express extraneous effort. #LDchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT Great chat so far! Let's move onto Q3... #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT Q3. What are some ways you can make the most out of parent-teacher conferences? #ldchat https://t.co/jpmAMGuhwD via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT bstackbu UnderstoodJennO Great tip! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: A3: Bring questions ahead of time, or a list of what you want to know more about. Have your child help generate the list! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT bstackbu I love the idea of involving your child. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT RT bstackbu: A3: Don’t go in on the defensive, even if you have concerns. Remember to do as much listening as talking! #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT Check out these 14 tips to help both parents and teachers work together toward success for the child. #ldchat https://t.co/Zlei2pQXmp via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT RT UnderstoodJennO: A3: Prepare an agenda ahead of time and share it with the teacher. It allows them to prepare and prevents blindsiding. #ldchat via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • ldrfa Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    RT Download this parent-teacher conference worksheet to plan ahead and help you have a confident conversation. #ldchat https://t.co/kCcuMykw0j via UnderstoodOrg #ld #adhd
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    A3: Since parent/teacher conferences allow for minimal time & ability to discuss major issues, the teacher should take the lead & parents should have only a few general questions vs. child-specific. #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    This is a great tool that I have used before myself! #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    lol...think there needs to be longer delay for some... #LDchat
    In reply to @bstackbu, @UnderstoodJennO, @UnderstoodOrg
  • EricaStack Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    While it may seem nice to “chat” about life in general. Try to stay on topic to make the best use of time #LDchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    Yes. We do this w/ our daughter's teacher and it's been a great interaction this year. #ldchat
    In reply to @bstackbu
  • christineLmorin Mar 7 @ 12:25 PM EST
    A3: I keep all my notes from my son’s conferences and IEP meetings one one notebook and I give a quick review to remind myself of what we previously covered before going into parent teacher conferences #LDchat @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:26 PM EST
    Last question coming up... #ldchat
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:26 PM EST
    @UnderstoodOrg , I’m loving these resources! #ldchat #udlchat #udlky
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:26 PM EST
    Q4. How do you recommend handling disagreements between parents and teachers? #ldchat
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:26 PM EST
    Depends upon the child's age, comfort-level, issues to be discussed, whether there are special needs...many factors to consider. #ldchat
    In reply to @Dale_Chu
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:27 PM EST
    Does your husband do too much of that when you let him come with you to conferences???? Haha! #ldchat
    In reply to @EricaStack
  • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:27 PM EST
    Totally agree. #LDchat
    In reply to @EdNavigation
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:27 PM EST
    A4: My A3 applies: Don’t go in on the defensive, even if you have concerns. Remember to do as much listening as talking! #ldchat
  • lisaklipfel Mar 7 @ 12:27 PM EST
    Excellent point. I do that too. #LDchat
    In reply to @christineLmorin, @UnderstoodOrg
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:27 PM EST
    If disagreements affect your rapport with the teacher, the friction may impact the child. Try these 7 tips to improve the relationship with the teacher. #ldchat https://t.co/wj4vyvm6gj
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:28 PM EST
    Would advise against discussing IEP meeting issues at a parent-teacher conference. No procedural safeguards, team members, and time to really delve into the issues. #ldchat
    In reply to @christineLmorin, @UnderstoodOrg
  • ClassroomQuips Mar 7 @ 12:28 PM EST
    A3. Less discussion of grades and details, more discussion of the child’s whole self. I ask three questions: 1) What should I know about your child? 2) What are they involved in outside of school? 3) What is a topic I can engage them on? #ldchat
    • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:21 PM EST
      Q3. What are some ways you can make the most out of parent-teacher conferences? #ldchat
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:28 PM EST
    A4: Ask others to give you an unbiased opinion on the matter in advance to be sure you are not overreacting. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:28 PM EST
    A4: Sometimes a 3rd party to help, such as a case manager, guidance counselor, or on rare occasions admin, can help mediate the disagreements. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:28 PM EST
    A special education professional explains that even when parents and schools have the best interests of a child in mind, they sometimes disagree over IEPs. #ldchat https://t.co/xO6LI0akwM
  • Dale_Chu Mar 7 @ 12:29 PM EST
    A4: Respectfully and with love. No matter how wide the chasm may seem, it’s important to remember that we’re all on the same team and share the same goal: what’s best for the student. #LDchat
  • UnderstoodOrg Mar 7 @ 12:29 PM EST
    Any final thoughts before we wrap for the week? #ldchat
  • Jen_Pusateri Mar 7 @ 12:29 PM EST
    A4: Tchr -or- Parent: “It sounds like we are both very passionate about this issue. I’d like to have one of the administrators join us so they can help us find some common ground and work toward a solution. How does next week look for you?” #ldchat
  • EdNavigation Mar 7 @ 12:29 PM EST
    A4: Depends. If IEP/504 issues, in an official meeting. Otherwise, scheduling a meeting with the teacher or whichever staff may be pertinent. Parents should address issues sooner vs. later. #ldchat
    In reply to @UnderstoodOrg
  • bstackbu Mar 7 @ 12:29 PM EST
    A4: When in doubt, remember that every school always has an appeal process. The teacher should be able to explain that to you. #ldchat
  • UnderstoodJennO Mar 7 @ 12:29 PM EST
    I used to accompany my IEP student's parents to the gen ed teachers so that I could help w/ communication, strategies, and keep relationships positive. #ldchat